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James Robert Harley, 33, of Endicott, NY, died of natural causes on Holy Saturday, April 3, 2010. He was predeceased by his grandparents, Patrick and Honoria Harley and Emanual Vicari. Jim is survived by his loving wife, Mary Marie Harley and three very dear children, Patrick, Elizabeth and Thomas Harley, all of Endicott and all still in school; his father and mother, Tom and Judy Harley of Endicott; his brother and sister-in-law, Michael and Shanaz Harley and their children, Medhi and Sophia Harley, of St. Paul Minnesota; his sister and brother-in-law, Kathy and Tom Risoli and their son, Robert Risoli, of Vestal; his maternal grandmother, Dorothy Vicari, of Afton; and several aunts, uncles and cousins. Jim was a probation officer working with at risk youth to whom he was devoted and for whom he would do anything! He was a member of Our Lady of Good Counsel Church. Jim was a loving son, grandson, husband and a devoted father. He was most lavish in his love for us and he will remain with us as long as we live. It will be a lonely world with out him.
A Funeral Mass will be celebrated Thursday, 11:00 a.m. at Our Lady of Good Counsel Church, Endicott. Entombment will be in Riverhurst Cemetery, Endicott at the convenience of the family. The family will receive friends at church, Thursday from 9:00 a.m. until Mass time at 11:00 a.m. In lieu of flowers, expressions of sympathy in his memory may be made to the Harley Children Education Trust, c/o Our Lady of Good Counsel Church, 701 West Main Street, Endicott, NY 13760.
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Steve Shutts
February 26, 2024
I just found this almost 14 years later.
Jim has been my spirit animal(hahahaha) and inspiration(sort of) since we met in college. We became best friends and caused so much trouble together but always just to get a laugh.
I think about him still on a weekly basis and speak about him often.
Truly one of the best souls I have ever interacted with.
Much love my man!
Patrick Harley
April 15, 2021
Been thinking about my dad a lot lately. It's been 11 years and I miss and think about him each and every single day. It really brings me joy to go through and read all of these. It's really inspiring seeing how many peoples lives he impacted and I strive to be like him everyday. Hope your all doing well and I miss you dad. Hope your doing well up there!
Nicole Russo
December 15, 2020
Thinking of Jim and his family this holiday season. Hope you’re having a ball up there in heaven.
Nicole Russo
August 31, 2011
I interned at the Broome County Probation Department in 2008 while I was a Senior at Binghamton University. Jim was my mentor. No matter how tough the situation, he always kept me laughing. He inspired me to pursue working with high risk kids as a full time career. He loved his job... and those kids on PINS loved him even more. I cannot say enough good things about Jim.
Mary and family - I am so sorry for your loss. He loved you and the kids so very much. My heart is truly broken. Please accept my deepest condolences.
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HEATHER BROWN
May 1, 2010
TO THE HARLEY FAMILY NO WORDS CAN HEAL THE PAIN FROM YOUR LOSS . BUT I WANTED TO SAY SOME THINGS ABOUT JIM HE WAS ASSIGNED TO MY 11 YR OLD SON WHO WAS PUT ON PINS BECAUSE OF SOME TROUBLES HE WAS HAVEING IN SCHOOL.. JIM HELPED MY SON FOR QUITE SOMETIME AND WHILE WORKING WITH JIM HE BEGAN TO TURN THINGS AROUND .. JIM CLOSED MY SONS FILE BECAUSE HE HAD BEEN DOING SO WELL THEN WE HAD MOVED AND MY SON STARTED THE SAME THINGS AGAIN HE NOW IS ON PINS WITH A DIFFERENT OFFICER WHOM HE IS NOT DOING SO WELL WITH. LAST WEEK AS I WAS GONNA REQUEST JIM BACK FOR MY SON I LEARNED OF HIS PASSING .. I ONLY KNEW JIM FOR A SHORT PERIOD IN MY LIFE BUT WHEN I HEARD THIS I WANTED TO CRY AND I HAVE THOUGHT DAILY OF HIS PASSING IT REALLY HIT MY HEART HE WAS SUCH A NICE MAN AND WAS SO GOOD FOR MY SON WHOM HE UNDERSTOOD SO WELL.. I AM SAD THAT JIM IS NOT HERE TO HELP MY SON AND I AM SO SORRY FOR YOURE LOSS HE WAS A WONDERFUL PERSON .. HEATHER BROWN (DEION OAKLEY)
Christina Terrell
April 30, 2010
God saw Jim was getting tired and a cure was not to be, so he Whispered, "come to me".
With Tearful eyes you saw Jim pass away. Although you loved him dearly, you could not make him stay. A golden heart stopped beating, hard working hands at rest. God broke your heart to prove to you, He only takes the best.
With All My love. Christina
Christina Terrell
April 30, 2010
Mary and Kids,
I am truly sorry that I was not there to share your grief, but Know that I am always thinking of you guys. Jim is with the good lord now. I love you guys. Love Always, Christina
Christina Terrell
April 30, 2010
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
Christina Terrell
April 29, 2010
Mary keep being the stong person I know you are. Jim is Smiling down from Heaven at you. I also want you to know that Jim is not in any more pain, sis you know Jim is with our sister Kathleen and they are watching over you... With all my love. Christina
Christina Terrell
April 29, 2010
Dear Harley Family,
I am sorry for the lost of your son. I will keep you guys in my prays. Love, Mary's Sister Christina
Christina Terrell
April 29, 2010
Dear Harley Family,
I am sorry for the lost of your loved one. I know it is very painful to lose someone you love so much, just know that Jim is watching over you and the kids. Mary just know that you will soon again see Jim in God's time. Mary you are such a strong person. I love you and the kids so much, if there is anything I can do for you guys just let me know. Love Always Your sister, Christina
Betsy Waples
April 19, 2010
My prayers go out to Jim's family.
Jim always put his heart and soul into the students that he worked with here at Binghamton High School.
Joy & Mart Kasmarcik
April 17, 2010
Jim was my son's probation officer under PINS. He answered our questions and he went out of his way to be there for us.
My heart goes out to his family and I know these words can not ease your pain but for what it is worth - he made a difference.
We are very sorry for your loss.
One of my favorite pictures that I have of Jim. He was always smiling. He was a great friend and will be missed. Kristy Rice
April 16, 2010
betty sperry
April 16, 2010
I'm very sorry to hear about the family's loss...Our thoughts and prayers are with the family in this time of sorrow.
betty sperry
April 16, 2010
I'm sorry to hear about your loss...I went to school with them...our thoughts and prayers are with the family...Betty Sperry
Jeff & Marcia Moody
April 16, 2010
We are very sorry to hear of your loss. Our hearts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Dan and Lisa Decker
April 15, 2010
Our deepest condolences to the Harley Family at the toughest of times. I cherish the time that Lisa and I spent with Mike and Jim at Christmas. Jim will be sorely missed.
TYNISHA PRESSLEY
April 14, 2010
"JIM HARLEY WAS MY PROBATION OFFICER... I HAD SUM PROBLEMS BUT OVERALL I WILL MISS JIM HARLEY...." {TYNISHA PRESSLEY}
Jerry Lynch
April 13, 2010
My sincerest sympathies to the family of Jim on his untimely passing. I worked together with Jim often at BHS. He truly cared about the kids he supervised and worked very hard to get them back on the right track. He will be missed.
Monica (Antoine) Zeccola
April 11, 2010
Jim will be remembered with joy and warmth. May the peace of our risen Lord be with you in your time of sorrow.
God Bless.
Lisa (Garren) Parker
April 10, 2010
Judy and Tom,
I remember Jimmy as a fine young man when we lived on Belden Hill. No words can be of comfort. Comfort comes from the Almighty. May you feel Jesus' peace.
kirk steinbrecher
April 10, 2010
My deepest condolences to your family. I knew Jim through his work with students in the PINS program at the school I work at. He was a good guy and had a caring heart when it came to helping the kids.
angela coyle
April 9, 2010
my most deepest thoughts of sadness and love are with you. there are so many people who will surround you with prayer and goodness at this time. god be with you. ilost my 22 year old daughter in a car accident 16 months ago. i now understand what prayer really is. with hope, angela coyle,dre st. vincents.
April 9, 2010
Deacon Tom, Judy and Family
We are so sad for the loss of your son. Please know that you all are in our thoughts and prayers. Although we did not know James, we know he had to be a class act if he was anything like his parents. God Bless you all,
Jim and Roxanne Boehlert
Betsy Marean
April 9, 2010
Dear Harley Family,
You are in our thoughts and prayers during this most difficult time, with the loss of Jim. We first met Jim when he was assigned to my middle school aged son, who was in the PINS Program. Wow! We were fortunate to be under his tutelage and care. Jim made such an impact on my son's life that not only did Josh straighten around, but he will be going to college in the fall and entering the field of criminal justice. He wants to help others as he was helped by your Jim. Thank you for sharing Jim. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Matthew Pomeroy
April 8, 2010
James Harley was truly an amazing person. It was an honor to have him as a friend. Though we lost touch over the years, I still think about all the great times we had at the barn playing hockey and jamming on the guitars. My thoughts and prayers go out to the entire Harley family during this difficult time.
Shawn Mahoney
April 8, 2010
The Harley Family,
You are in my thoughts during this challenging time. I am sure James knew how much he was loved and how fortunate he was to have had such a wonderful family.
Sincerely,
Shawn P. Mahoney
Corie Mitchell
April 8, 2010
Dear Harley Family,
I am so sorry to learn of Jim’s passing. He was a dear friend during our time at Elmira. Although we didn’t keep in touch, I always remembered him fondly. We had many great adventures together. He was the best listener; the kids he worked with were lucky to have him. Jim opened my mind and heart to so many new experiences, and I will always be grateful for that. May you all find peace in knowing that Jim’s memory will live on in the many people he inspired.
Dena Raphael
April 8, 2010
Knowing Jim at Elmira College was a gift, regardless of how short it was. He was a comforting and trustworthy friend. I have no doubts what a wonderful husband and father he was. May peace be with you all.
Donna Kenyon
April 8, 2010
You will be sorely missed by so many, Jim. My heart goes out to your family.
April 8, 2010
Dear Mary and Children,
We were so sorry to hear about your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Be strong through this difficult time.
Jo-Anne and John Tomassetti
April 8, 2010
Dear Mary and Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your children. I am here for you if you need me. All my love, Pat Watkins
Doug & Jimae Hubert
April 8, 2010
Dear Harley Family, We are so sorry for the loss of Jim. I worked at the Probation Department with Jim. Although I only knew him for a short time, I know he worked hard to help those he served. He will surely be missed. Peace to all of you.
April 8, 2010
I worked a summer(I think 1995) with Jim at CV state park and hung out with him a lot in the barn. That was many years ago and I still think about him to this day. He was an amazing person and had the soul of an angel. I am so sorry to hear of your loss, my prayers and thoughts are with you during this difficult time. Emily
Tia Allen
April 8, 2010
Mary and family we are sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Tia Allen and family
Patrick Proutey
April 7, 2010
Dear Harley Family,
I am sorry for your loss.
April 7, 2010
The world has lost a wonderful man. I am so very sorry for your loss.
-Andy Behrle (Jim's senior year roommate at Elmira) Birmingham, AL
Jeffery & Tara Gates
April 7, 2010
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief. Jim was truly a brilliant and fun guy. All of us at HCS have many fond memories of our time with him.
On behalf of the entire Gates Family,
Colleen Mays
April 7, 2010
I was blessed to be assigned an art easel next to Jim during my second year at Elmira College. Jim always had an inspiring word, a comforting hug, and a welcoming smile. I am not surprised he grew to working in a field such as he chose. He always had so much love. I am sad to hear of his passing. My prayers reach out to his wife, children, family, and friends. What a gift Jim's life was!
Marjorie Gold
April 7, 2010
Dear Harley family,
I went to college with Jim. I will never forget the trip I took with Jim to Cleveland to visit a good friend during a college break. We traveled in my little Nissan in about 2'+ of snow and it was dark outside. My knuckles where as white as the snow. Jim was so supportive and funny. We had conversations about philosophy and therapy. I couldn't have made the trip without him! You never forget someone like Jim.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Francine Belveg
April 7, 2010
Dear Harley Family,
I am sorry to hear of your loss. My prayers and thoughts are with you.
Rick and Marilyn Watkins
April 7, 2010
Mary and children, we are very sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all . Mary be strong for your children.
rose hagadorn
April 7, 2010
to the harley family
im sorry for your loose jim was a good guy he was my son probation officer and got my son on the right track i just heard about today he be missed my thought and prayer are with the family
April 7, 2010
Tom, Judy and family,
My heart just aches for all of you. I am so deeply sorry for your loss. My prayers and thoughts are with you. A friend once told me that our children are a gift from God but they are not ours to keep. Rest assured that Jim will soon be with our heavenly father. He will always be in the hearts of the people who knew him
Janet Lalli Endicott NY
Anthony & Phyllis Antos
April 7, 2010
Dear Deacon Tom & Family, So sorry to hear of the loss of your beloved son Jim. Our love, thoughts, and prayers are with you during this sad time. May the precious memories of Jim bring you peace. God bless.
Lori Brainard
April 7, 2010
Harley Family,
I worked with Jim a few years back, at the Glove House in Owego. Jim was a pleasure to work with and was always willing to help or give advice.
I'm truely sorry for your loss. May loving memories warm your hearts.
April 7, 2010
Dear Deacon Tom and Family -
We are so sorry for your loss. Your family will be in our thoughts and prayers.
The Ingraham Family.
April 7, 2010
Deacon Tom and Family,
There are no words that can express the sadness I feel for all of you. I am sorry for your loss, and will do anything I can to help your family. OLGC and Deacon Tom are dear to our hearts, and may God Bless you and keep you close to his heart always.
The Robillard Family
bryan McWherter
April 7, 2010
I am sorry to hear about your loss. You will ALWAYS be in the thoughts of the McWherter Family!
Loretta (Bronson) Kinner & Billy Kinner
April 6, 2010
To the entire Harley Family,
We are so sorry for the loss of Jim. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time. He will be greatly missed by all of those who knew him. Its sad to hear that you have lost one of your fellow classmates -- Class of 1995.
Debra Augustine-Osterhout
April 6, 2010
Deacon Tom- you have given so much to the community- and to our family- and your son was following right in your footsteps. I just spoke with him 2 weeks ago...and he proudly stated "if you teach at OLGC then you know my Dad". We talked in length about you, and it was all good. You are quite a hard act to follow...and I truly think your son suceeded in doing so. I am deeply deeply sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and your family.
Dan Dupree
April 6, 2010
Dear Harley Family,
Jim was a great friend and always fun to be around. I am thankful for all of the good times that we had while attending HCS. There was never a dull moment and he made having fun a priority no matter what we were doing. I will always remember playing barn hockey, enjoying the summer and listening to good music. Jim had a passion for many different things and loved to share his interests with everyone. He will be missed by all who experienced his kindness. My thoughtd and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Alison (Apple) Beckhorn
April 6, 2010
Harley Family,
My sincere condolescences on Jim's passing. Jim was a GREAT friend of mine in college. Jim would always make me laugh when I needed it.Jim took me and some friends to his parents house during college so we could celebrate Easter with a family. He was so caring and loving.He was always himself. I missed him terribly when we lost touch after college. I hope that Jim's character and legacy will thrive through his children.
April 6, 2010
Dear Deacon Tom and Family Our thoughts and prayers are with you The Vaglica Family
Dan Dupree
April 6, 2010
Harley Family,
Jim was a wonderful person and very fun to be around at all times. Like many of us at Harpursville Central, I had the pleasure of spending many good times with Jim and never experienced a dull moment. I will always remember playing "barn hockey" and how much we enjoyed the summer and listening to loud music. He will be greatly missed and my prayers are with you all during this difficult time.
April 6, 2010
Mary, children and Harley family,
My thoughts, prayers and blessings are with you all in this time sadness.
Ruth Wheeler
April 6, 2010
Mary,
I am keeping you and the children in my thoughts and prayers. Please if you need to talk call.....I will be there for you!!!
Mary D
Chantal (Lucia) Alexy
April 6, 2010
To the entire Harley Family:
I am so sorry for the loss of Jim. He was a wonderful person to know growing up, and a great friend that I was able to turn to many many times. He was loyal, smart, kind and with that wonderful sense of humor. Everyone who knew him will miss him.
Wesley Davy
April 6, 2010
Dear Harley Family, Jim was a good man. Him and I were friends in and out of school and shared many good times together. I'm sorry for your loss and my prayers go out to you. God Bless.
Gabrielle Sheppard
April 6, 2010
Dear Harley Family,
I am so sorry to hear of Jim's passing. I know we didn't keep in touch but I have such wonderful and fun memories of our years at Elmira College together. Two of my favorites - one was playing hockey out in your barn (before you moved) and the other was taking a poster that accused us of stealing a Christmas decoration that we had been given. I'll always remember him - You are all in my prayers.
Brad & Meg Hayes
April 6, 2010
We are so sorry for your loss. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
Mike and Lea Colsten
April 6, 2010
Dear Tom, Judy and family, We were so sorry to hear of your loss. May God comfort you in this time.
April 6, 2010
Dear Deacon Tom, Judy and family,
We are so sorry for you loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Please let us know if we can do anything. . . now or as time goes on. . .we are just around the corner. All our love & prayers.
~The Blank Family, Theresa, Mark Anthony & Emily Rose
April 6, 2010
Dear Tom and Judy, We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.
Charles and Joan Bliss (Jacksonville, FL)
April 6, 2010
Dear Harley family,
My condolences to all of his loved ones for their loss. I went to school with him at Harpursville, and he was a kind, and friendly soul, who will be dearly missed by many that he touched in life. I pray that you are comforted by his memories and the strength and comfort you find in God, through this period of sadness.
Tonya Tokos (Altenweg)
Kristy Rice (Fairchild)
April 6, 2010
Mr. & Mrs. Harley, Mary, and the rest of the Harley family,
I am so sorry for your loss! My thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time. I was blessed in getting to know Jim throughout our time in grade/high school together in Harpursville. He was a great man and will be missed by all.
April 6, 2010
We are sorry for your loss, our thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Jamie McWherter and family
Dan & Mickie Harley
April 6, 2010
Dear Tom, Judy and family, Our hearts ache for you. Losing a child, husband, brother is devastating. We are truly sorry that we are not there to share your grief, but be assured we are with you spiritually. We keep you all in our prayers and in our hearts. All our love, Dan and Mickie
Joelle Martyanik
April 6, 2010
Jim was a great friend to those who knew him. He was a person you could confide in and who didn't hesitate to be there for you. It will not be the same without him. I will miss our conversations.
April 6, 2010
Harley family,
You are in our thoughts and prayers, may friends, family and Jim's beautiful children bring you comfort.
The Hayden Family Diana, David, Jacon and Joshua
April 6, 2010
Mary and children...Deacon Tom, Judy and family...we are so sorry for the loss of Jim...or "Little Jimmy"...as we knew him and have grown to love him and the stories and antics told on Sunday mornings at OLGC. Wishing you find comfort and sending you all love and support.
April 6, 2010
My deepest condolences on your loss. No words can bring you comfort at this time. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. May God provide you with strength and courage to help you thru the next few days and the days to come.
Maria Tinklepaugh
Andrew Pleus
April 6, 2010
You have my greatest sympathy for the passing of James. I grew up with Jim in Harpursville and am saddened at his loss. He was a great guy and will be missed by all.
April 6, 2010
Dear Mary & entire Harley family,
I am so sorry for your loss. I worked with Jim and knew him to be a & kind, friendly and funny individual. He will be greatly missed here.
May God comfort you.
April 6, 2010
Deacon Tom, Judy, Mary and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you in this very tough time. Jim was a great man. I am truly sorry for your loss. He will be dearly missed.
Briana Hegazy (Lalli)
Kathleen Carroll
April 6, 2010
Jim will be missed very much by his friends and co-workers. He was a great guy, who would do anything to help a friend. I thank God for the honor of getting to know Jim. Via Con Dias my friend.
Kathy Carroll
April 6, 2010
Judy, Tom, & Mary,
I am so sorry for your loss - and I know that no words can heal the pain of such a premature goodbye. Jim will live on, in a most loving way, through you, through his children, and through everyone he touched.
Mary - be strong for your children and let the people around you comfort and support you.
I pray that you feel God's love and presence during this
very difficult time and I humbly offer my support as well.
Lisa Mayers
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