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for Brian Slavenas
CPT Dave Walton US ARMY
March 5, 2025
Never Forgotten; RIP Rucker classmate; Guard buddies pinned on our wings together
Charlie Gili
February 5, 2018
Hello,
We realize that we are very late to express our deepest condolences, but we wanted to let your family and friends know that we will be sending Care Packages to deployed troops this week and we'll be dedicating several of these to your loved one. Each package will carry the name, photo and the hometown of Brian D. Slavenas US Army 1st Lieutenant. We realize that this is a small tribute, but we do this with all respect and sincerity and we want you to know that it is made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals from across the American youth hockey community. We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you safe and strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of the US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign
Ronnie Millburn
November 19, 2013
This is the first time I have been able to write anything about Brian or any of the others lost that day. I served with Brian in Set. 1 Co. F 106th Avn. while we were in Iraq. He is one of the finest officers I ever served with. He would always take time to chat and even ask you to show him what you were doing while you worked. He liked to know who his troops were and what their duties were. I am sorry for your loss and will always remember him.
anonymous
October 15, 2012
They went with songs to the battle, they were young.
Straight of limb, true of eyes, steady and aglow.
They were staunch to the end against odds uncounted, They fell with their faces to the foe.
They shall grow not old, as we that are left grow old:
Age shall not weary them, nor the years condemn.
At the going down of the sun and in the morning,
We will remember them.
"Ode of Remembrance" taken from Laurence Binyon's poem "For the Fallen" 1914
Peggy Childers
November 2, 2011
To the family and friends of 1st Lt. Brian D. Slavenas:
Please accept my remembrance of Brian on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Peggy Childers
November 2, 2010
To the family and friends of 1st Lt. Brian D. Slavenas:
Remembering Brian on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Kenna Kay
December 21, 2009
”Honor and Remember” - “Project Compassion” We love our Soldiers! We love our country and we cannot express enough love and compassion to the families of our fallen heroes. War does not discriminate – It breaks our hearts to see the faces of the fallen. We want to give this gift to the hero’s Mother, Father and/or spouse. We are a 501c3 nonprofit organization! Over 1,850 portraits have been completed and shipped to the parents and or spouse - at no cost as this is a gift from one American to another!
This is a gift! We have some wonderful sponsors who help with the costs, and only want you know that we care.
Contact us directly at [email protected] or go to www.heropaintings.com . If you have already had a portrait completed, we pray that you are enjoying the portrait and God Bless You.
Sincerely and Respectfully,
Kenna
This photo was taken the day of graduation
David Walton
May 17, 2009
It was an honor to know Brian, I believe we sat next to each other the day we received our wings (Class 02-02 ‘double-deuce’) That we were both ‘Guard-Guys’ is what we had in common, I was in the Delaware Guard at the time. To his family and anyone this may inspire, Brian’s memory lives…as his classmate/teammate, we will complete the mission. CPT David Walton, AV
Peggy Childers
November 13, 2008
To the family of 1st Lt. Brian D. Slavenas:
Brian gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Algis
November 11, 2008
On this Veterans Day I want to you know that the sacrifice of Brian is not forgotten. Brian is a hero who fought for all of us and we are are thankful. Aciu
In Memory of Brian ~ (Debra Estep)
November 2, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Brian, but I am remembering
his service and sacrifice. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
Pastor Frank Noyes
September 16, 2008
Dear family of 1st Lt. Brian D Slavenas,
We want to say thank you. We understand that no words can be adequate for your sorrow. We certainly do not want to intrude upon your privacy. As Americans we want you to know that we deeply appreciate the ultimate sacrifice your loved one has made for all of us. We also would like for you to be aware that with this letter comes our special concern and prayers for you. We are all safer because young men and women who love their country, and know the value of a free nation, are willing to put themselves in harms way, and lay down their lives to keep this nation free and safe for all of us.
Your sacrifice is also very great. We know that we can give little comfort; however, the knowledge that your loved one did not die in vain, but died in the service of our country, gives each of us a noble example of the value of life, and the responsibility of freedom. We hope this will bring pride and comfort to you.
We at Gethsemane Church believe that there is purpose to life. We send this letter with our deepest appreciation for the greatest of sacrifices, you and your loved one have given to this country. We know it is not enough, but please allow us to assure you that your loved one is not forgotten.
Very Sincerely
Frank G. Noyes
Frank G. Noyes (Pastor)
Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.
(Jn. 15:13)
R Collis
July 21, 2008
It is difficult to know what to say since I want to express my sincere sympathy to the family and friends of 1st Lt Slavenas. Please know that your loved one is not forgotten. I wish everyone impacted by this tragic loss strength and peace. I hope that 1st Lt Slavenas knew that there are people in America who respect his great courage in serving as a member of the US military. Although I did not know him, I know that he must have been a very special person to be willing to do something that most Americans will never have to experience, and for that we can never say thank you enough.
Thank you 1st Lt Slavenas!
Gary & Connie Patriquin
March 6, 2008
Your memories of your Hero will bring you strength, May God Bless you, from
Gold Star Parents
November 26, 2007
You are remembered and respected. Thank you 1st Lt Slavenas!
Hadra Gustafson
August 14, 2007
Dear Ron & Christi,
I truly enjoyed seeing you this month and listening to all of your wonderful stories about Brian. You have such a special family and I feel priviledged to know you. Please contact me anytime.
Warmest regards,
Hadra
Debra Hilligoss
August 10, 2007
Mr. & Mrs. Slavenas, it was very nice meeting you this morning. I don't really know what to say when meeting someone who has lost a child who is serving overseas. As you know my son Clint is over there now and I pray everyday that he will be coming home safely. I do however want you to know that I am extremly proud of your sons and you for raising such fine young men. My heart goes out to you.
August 6, 2007
I don't pretend to know what to say or do that would bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON (KIA on 07/06/07) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
Bob Jonas
July 10, 2007
While preparing for a presentation totally unrleated to Brian Slovenas, I came across an article by Calvin Trillan about this wonderful boy and his ultimate sacrifice. From what I read I would have loved this guy and found myself thinking my reaction would have been the same as Mr. Trillins.
To Brian and to all the others who have tragically given their lives, thank you. May all those who loved him find some measure of peace knowing what a wonderful humam being they brought into this world.
July 7, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by 1st Lt Slavenas and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
Alynn Patzer
May 27, 2007
I took my time looking at the photographs and reading through the Chicago Tribune's tribute to Brian. I am so sorry for Brian and his family's loss. Brian looks like such a fine young man in his photos, with a kind and loving heart, you can see it in his eyes and in the way he held himself; proud and upright, and yet humble and sensitive. I appreciate knowing about Brian and his service and sacrifice to this our country. I will pray for Brian and for his family. Thank you.
Garnet Jenkins
November 2, 2006
Paying tribute to 1st Lt. Brian D. Slavenas, on this 3rd anniversary of the day, he gave his life for our Country and for Freedom. A Multitude of Thanks, for his Courage, Dedication and Service.
Rest In Peace Young Hero, in God's Loving Care and may God's Healing Grace and Comfort continue to be with the Slavenas family.
Those who Made the Ultimate Sacrifice, So Many and So Young, shall NEVER BE FORGOTTEN.
My brother among them. KIA-Vietnam 1967.
Treasure this Young Hero Lord, In Your garden of rest,
For while here on this earth, he was one of our Best.
May the memories of Brian, live in your heart always.
I am deeply sorry for your loss.
Michael Puttre
August 12, 2006
I had written an article about helicopter vulnerabilities that referred to Brian's Chinook shoot-down but I didn't know his name until today, when I received an email from one of his friends. To Brian's family and friends: I am sorry for your loss.
Sandra parker
April 21, 2006
God Bless you Brian and your family. As I read the long list of heros, I rarely comment rather I cry deeply inside of the loss especially those whose families have immigrated to the United States of America and have served with their lives. They are the true Americans. I myself have taken for granted being born in this great nation and I am indebted with inexpressible gratitude to heros living (deceased and alive) such as you and your family. May Our Holy Lord be with you always. You are always in my families prayers.
Carolyn Evans
February 15, 2006
Always our hero. Gold Star Mother
Dick Naylor
February 2, 2006
To the Parents & Family Members of 1st Lieutenant Brian D. Slavenas:
THANK YOU, on behalf of millions of Americans, for raising such a fine and dedicated man. He served the highest calling of mankind in that he gave his life that others may enjoy the freedom that God wants every person to enjoy.
May his dedication to the mission of America's military and the memories of the good times sustain each and every member of his family as the years go by. Be proud of raising a man whose dedication adds to the bedrock of America built on the lives of those who, like Brian, gave their all that others would be free.
My prayers, love and appreciation to your entire family for the gift of Brian and the way he lived.
Appreciatively & gratefully yours,
Dick Naylor, John 3:16
Lieutenant Colonel, Senior Aviator,
U.S. Army, Retired
Vietnam Veteran
Gerald Giovannelli
September 6, 2005
Brian, I never met someone as caring, as kind, and as intelligent. You sacrificed for this country well before going to Iraq by putting everyone else first. I will never forget you and pray you are in a place of eternal rest and joy. May Gods blessing rest upon you always. -Jerry
Gail Brandt
June 11, 2005
I din't know Brian , but felt I should thank him for keeping our country free.
God be with the family
Henryk Zaleski
June 11, 2005
Your next mission is for eternal joy,rest in peace soldier.
JANET ZIOBRO
November 11, 2003
MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES TO THE SLAVENAS FAMILY. MY FAMILY AND I THANK YOUR SON FOR HIS BRAVERY. YOU AND BRIAN WILL BE IN OUR PRAYERS.
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