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Sharon Mess Obituary
1950-2017
Sharon Kay Messa, age 66, died Monday, March 13, 2017, in Houston, Texas. Sharon was born October 19, 1950 in Omaha, Nebraska to Eugene and Ruby Walker McClanahan. She graduated from North High School in Omaha, Nebraska in 1968. Sharon was also a graduate of the University of Houston (B.B.A., Class of '79) and South Texas College of Law (J.D., Class of '83). Sharon practiced law in Houston, Texas for 32 years.
She was preceded in death by her father, beloved mother, and step-father, Ronald Bromley. Sharon is survived by her loving husband, Joseph Robert Messa, of Houston, Texas; son, John Robert Erwin, Jr., of Stillwater, Oklahoma; step-son, Dr. Matthew Jonas Messa, and wife, Laura, along with grandchildren, Madeline Grace Messa and Ryan Joseph Messa, of Danville, Pennsylvania; brother, David McClanahan, and sister, Becky Jalass, of Omaha, Nebraska; brother-in-laws, Thomas Daniel "Danny" Messa, and Michelle, and Roman Anthony "Tony" Messa, of Houston, Texas, as well as a host of loving nieces, nephews, aunts, uncles, cousins, and friends.
Sharon was active in the practice of her Roman Catholic faith as a member of the Co-Cathedral of the Sacred Heart in Houston, Texas where she served as the coordinator of the altar server ministry for the English speaking Masses, as a Eucharistic Minister, and as a member of the "Stitching Angles". She was also a member of the State Bar of Texas and the Houston Bar Association.
Viewing and visitation will be on Monday, March 20, 2017, from 2 o'clock p.m. to 5:00 o'clock p.m., at the Heights Funeral Home, 1317 Heights Boulevard, in Houston, Texas. Funeral Vigil Service at the Co-Cathedral of the Sacred Heard, 1111 St. Joseph Parkway, Houston, Texas, with visitation at 6:00 o'clock p.m.; followed by a Scripture Service and Rosary at 7:00 o'clock p.m.; and visitation afterwards until 8:45 o'clock p.m.
Funeral Mass on Tuesday, March 21, 2017, at 10:00 o'clock a.m., at the Co-Cathedral of the Sacred Heart, 1111 St. Joseph Parkway, Houston, Texas. Interment after the Funeral Mass at the Historic Hollywood Cemetery, 3506 North Main Street, Houston, Texas, with lunch to follow at the Cathedral Center, 1701 San Jacinto, Houston, Texas.
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Juan Luis Galvan
March 15, 2019
I just learned that Sharon passed away 2 years ago and I could not believe it, I still remember working with her in the sacristy helping set up for Mass. She was always on the move but nonetheless would find time to greet and ask how I was doing and how thing were going in my life. She was a gentle soul and always had a warm smile. My condolences to Joe and to her family. Requiescat in Pace
Pecola Barnett
June 15, 2017
I was very stunned to learn today June 15th 2017 of Sharon's demise. I did not know she had passed away. I worked for Sharon many years ago and she was a dear person to me. I was at the wedding when she married Joe. My heartfelt condolences go out to the family and friends as she was a dear sweet person. I will miss her tremendously. I wish I had a would have known of her passing so that I could have been at the homegoing service. May the grace of God be with the family continually as they cherish Sharon's sweet memory.
June 5, 2017
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Martha McGregor and Doc Dwyer
Joe and Sharon (1995)
David Green
March 26, 2017
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At Joe & Sharon's wedding reception: Monique & David Green, Linda & Calvin Curtis, Sharon Messa, Janet Schafer, Roel Garcia & wife, Liz Gunn & date.
David Green
March 26, 2017
David Green
March 26, 2017
Monique and I were deeply saddened to learn of Sharon's passing. I first met Sharon in 1991, and later worked for her in the City of Houston Legal Dept. Contracts Division (1993-1999). I was always impressed by her professionalism, dedication, and heart. Sharon demanded my best effort, and went out of her way to show her appreciation for the work that I did for her. I could not have asked for a better attorney with whom to begin my legal career, and I give credit to her for my subsequent success in the private sector. She was also a good friend, and she will be missed by many. Our deepest sympathies to Joe and J.R.
The Gonzales Family Angel, Valerie, and girls
March 23, 2017
Please accept our deepest condolences. May Ms. Sharon rest in the peace of Christ. She was always such a sweet lady. She loved to help others, her community, and church. Ms. Sharon, you and your family in my prayers.
Karen and Andy Marker
March 22, 2017
We were saddened to hear about Sharon's passing. She was a gifted attorney and great friend when we worked together in the Contracts Division of the City of Houston Legal Dept. in the mid '90s. We will keep Sharon's family in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Deb Greenleaf
March 21, 2017
Joe,
I am so very sorry to hear this. Please accept my deepest condolences. May Sharon rest in the peace of Christ. I will remember Sharon, you and your family in my prayers.
Deb Greenleaf
J.R. Dickson HPD 1970-05
March 21, 2017
Joe, Please accept my sincere condolences in the passing of your wife. May God give you and your family strength in the days ahead.
Dora Diaz
March 21, 2017
Rest in peace Thanks for all your knowledge and guideness. You will be in my prayers.
Cecilia Valdez
March 20, 2017
My dearest Joe I am deeply saddened by the passing of your beautiful Sharon. The both of y'all are a great blessing to me in my life. I keep my memories of her close to my heart. Joe please don't hesitate to ask me for help. I'm here for you. May GOD give you the strength, grace, and comfort to carry on. GOD BLESS
Douglas Erwin
March 20, 2017
JR, I am very sorry for your loss. I know the past several months have been especially difficult. Be comforted by the knowing these loved ones have gone to a better place. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Steve Lyons
March 20, 2017
My Deepest sympathy to you on the loss of your wife. You will be in my prayers.
Steve Lyons (HPD Retired)
The Thomas Pickens Family
March 20, 2017
We are so sorry for your loss. May the wonderful memories of your lives together comfort and sustain you in the coming days.
David Insalaco Jr.
March 19, 2017
My condolences to your family on your loss. I would have liked to come but my circumstances would not permit it. I was unable to get to New Orleans to get the bus that was arranged for me.
March 19, 2017
I'm very sorry to hear of Sharon's passing. I wish we had been able to stay in touch. John Jr, I'm thinking of you and praying for you to stay strong-you have been through a lot these last 6 months and should be admired for your strength. Kathy Trask
March 19, 2017
So sorry for your loss, our hearts and prayers are with your family, remember we are here for your comfort and support when you need us. Meg
AL
March 18, 2017
May the bereaved family be comforted by reflecting on God's promise to be with you at this most difficult time.
wayne jones
March 17, 2017
JOE, I am very sorry for your loss. Sharon had an amazing resume and you sure married up. May she rest in peace.
Frank Rynd
March 17, 2017
Joe...I am so sorry to learn of Sharon's death. I enjoyed our brief conversations before and after Mass at Sacred Heart. She will be missed by all who knew her.
M. D. & Mary Beale
March 17, 2017
You are in our prayers. You know, Brother, we're here for you. Anything we can do at all let me know. Time will make the pain lessen. We pray God will give you strength and comfort you. 4T27 enroute.
March 17, 2017
It is with deepest sorrow and sadness to learn of Sharon's passing. I am with you my brother in sharing this sad event. Kathy and I truly enjoyed every minute with you and Sharon at every opportunity.Our prayers go out to you and Sharon.KMS
Michael & Charlotte Schillaci
March 16, 2017
Dear Joe,
I was so sorry to hear of Sharon's passing. Charlotte and I have added Sharon and your family to our prayers. May Christ's loving peace comfort you as you grieve and may God grant eternal peace to Sharon and all of the faithful departed.
God bless,
Rose Rios
March 16, 2017
Dear Joe,
My heart felt prayers are sent your way. May the loving memories of this very special Lady comfort you during this difficult time.
Sincerely,
Rose Rios
Debbie Smith
March 15, 2017
Joe and Family:
I was so saddened to hear about Sharon...She was such a kind sweet spirit and the love was evident between you both. May you find comfort in memories and the support of friends during this difficult time...She is with all the other angels who have gone on......Love you
C Patrick McIlvain
March 15, 2017
Dear Joe,
I am so very sad to hear of the passing of Sharon. From being a neighbor to working together at Early Voting it was also a enjoyable time to be around Sharon. I will always remember the food and flowers that she and you brought to share with us all and to brighten up the location.
With my warm friendship,
C. Patrick McIlvain
Robert & Robin
March 14, 2017
Dear Joe and family, our thoughts and prayers are with you all. May a lifetime of memories help you through this difficult time.
David and Carlie
March 15, 2017
Dear sweet Joe, our hearts ache for your loss. Sharon was such a beautiful blessing in my life. I adored and admired her. We both think the world of the two of you and we cling tightly to the wonderful memories especially the reverence and spiritual beauty the two of you brought to our CoCathedral Nuptial Mass. Let us take comfort in knowing that our beloved Sharon is rejoicing in heaven, free of all earthly pains and sorrows. Joe, please know, we are here for you, now and always. Much love and many hugs.
March 14, 2017
Dear Joe and family, My prayers to all on your loss of Sharon. I appreciated her humor and candor when she worked with me on HCAD issues. She was relentless. She was a wonderful person.
May you feel the hand of God on your shoulder for comfort as you go forward.
Bill Denker-Houston, TX
Christine Di Stadio
March 14, 2017
Dear Joe and Family,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My condolences and prayers to you. May God wrap his arms around all of you during this difficult time. May Sharon fly high with the Angels and take center stage in heaven.
Christine Di Stadio
Frank Messa
March 14, 2017
Loving cousin Joe Robert - all our heartfelt sympathies and prayers go out to you, JR and those closest to you. We pray for your continued blessings and healing.
Your brother and sister in Christ,
Frank and Michele Messa
Beth and Jim Barrette
March 13, 2017
Dear dear Joe and all the family, holding you heartclose and prayer-close. Will be on vigilant watch for anything we can do to be helpful, now and in the time to come. In the meantime, all our sympathy and love.
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