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Brian Etheredge Obituary
Oct. 28, 1982 - Feb. 8, 2019
Formerly of Lafayette, CaliforniaBorn in Oakland, CA on October 28, 1982 Brian Norfleet Etheredge was taken from us all too soon on February 8, 2019 in Los Angeles. His warm smile, sunny disposition, and absolutely accepting personality will be missed by many, but especially by his parents Rhondda and Steve Etheredge, his brother Stephen with wife Sara and their three daughters who loved their Uncle Bri dearly. He also leaves behind 12 cousins and numerous aunts and uncles. He will be especially missed by the love of his life Gigi Ouf, her parents Janna and Hazem Ouf, and her brother Adam Ouf, who all loved and welcomed Brian into their family as one of their own.
Brian's life was one of fun and adventure. From backpacking in the Sierras to chasing sunsets over the Pacific, he loved to be out in nature. From a young age the driving passion of his life was the game of lacrosse. He helped start the youth teams in Lafayette at Acalanes High School, continuing on to captain the team at the University of Arizona, and even played in Europe for the French National team. Along the way Brian accumulated a wonderful group of supportive friends. He was as non-judgemental of his fellow humans as any man could be. He welcomed all into his sphere of influence, and would reach out to help anyone in need. He took his credo from Jack London -
"The function of man is to live, not to exist.
I shall not waste my days trying to prolong them.
I shall use my time."
A "Celebration of Life" service will be held at 1:00 PM Saturday, February 23, 2019 at Wildwood Acres Resort in Lafayette, CA. Please dress appropriately as a portion of the service will be outdoors. In lieu of flowers the family suggests a contribution to the "Brian Etheredge/University of Arizona Lacrosse Team Scholarship Fund" via the US Bank in Lafayette or the Hazledon Betty Ford Foundation.
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Jim Peck
February 10, 2025
Hard to believe it has been 6 years.
I'm sure it still hurts. Jim
Bob & Mary Tyrrell
March 30, 2019
Ears and Rhondda-
Mary and I are so sorry to hear you have lost Brian. We lost our son (Brian) many years ago and know all too well how hard it is to lose a child. We wish you strength and comfort in the months ahead
Corbett
February 21, 2019
Brian was a shining light in our lives and the sweetest soul we have ever known. Brian is inspiration to all of us to be better people: to be kinder, more accepting and understanding of others. His light will continue to shine and he will loved into eternity and will never be forgotten. Our thoughts and prayers are with the Etheredge and Ouf families.
Sophia and Mike
Mary & Joshua
February 19, 2019
Words cannot express how deeply saddened we are by the news of Brian. His open arms and gentle warmth radiated every time we were together. Our thoughts and condolences go out to everyone grieving. Sending love from afar.
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Randi & George Weber
February 18, 2019
Dear Steve & Rhonda,
We are so saddened to hear of Brian's death & send you our sincere condolences. He was a joy to so many! We are praying for you to be comforted.
Jim Peck
February 17, 2019
Steve and Rhondda,
Joan and I are devastated by this news. No one can truly empathize with the depths of your sorrow unless they too have lost a child - a son. Rhondda and Steve you will be in our prayers everyday.
VG
February 17, 2019
My deepest condolences to the family and friends of Brian. When someone you love becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure when it fills your love with love and brings you joy. May you find comfort in Jesus promise of the hope of everlasting life at John 6:40.
Jim Baun
February 16, 2019
My thoughts and prayers are with you Steve, Rhonda, young Steve and family during this time of loss.
February 16, 2019
I'd like to extend my condolences to the family and friends for the loss of your loved one Brian Norfleet Etheredge, may the words at 2 Thessalonians 2:16,17 soothe your hearts.
Sumner and cindy Seibert
February 16, 2019
We are so so sorry about Brian ! Our children having grown up together in lafayette ; Matthew his classmate . This hits so very close to home for all of us when it's someone we know ! I always remember Brian's wonderful smile !! Special hugs to Gigi who has been his rock and the love of his life ! To the Etheredge s and ouf's my heart goes out to you !
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