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Arthur Weidman Obituary

Arthur Francis Weidman, age 90, was a loving husband, dedicated father, doting grandfather and lover of music and dance. Art was born September 5, 1929 in Quincy, Massachusetts to Edna Parnell and Arthur Weidman Sr. Nicknamed "Red" for his trademark red hair, Art loved growing up in the Boston area, and remained an avid fan of the Red Sox, Celtics and Patriots until the day he died.

After graduating from Weymouth High School, Red enlisted in the U.S. Army, and subsequently joined the Air Force, which stationed him in San Antonio. One of his favorite memories of his time in the military was when he volunteered to help with a parade honoring President Harry Truman and was complimented by the President for his spit-shine shoes.

But it was a trip to the Lackland NCO Club that changed the course of his life. A beautiful blonde who was a volunteer with the USO, Jean Klaeden, caught Red's eye, and he worked up the courage to ask her to dance. Soon after, they were tearing up the dance floor at all the popular clubs of the day.

After a two-year courtship, Red and Jean were married at St. Leo's Catholic Church on November 21, 1953. In the years that followed, they had two boys, Gordon and David, who grew up to embrace their parents' love of music. Red enjoyed watching his boys perform with the school marching band, volunteering with the Booster Club, and taking them to Six Flags over Texas for vacation. And he often worked two jobs just to provide a comfortable life for his family.

After being honorably discharged from the Air Force, Red attended San Antonio College and worked for the U.S. Postal Service. That opportunity turned into a lifelong career, as Red spent 30 years working for the Postal Service. He first served as a rural mail carrier and then moved up to the regional office where he worked in administration. In retirement, he ran the mailroom at Retama Park where he charmed everyone from the high-rollers in the box seats

to the guys cleaning out the horse stalls.

Throughout their 63 years of marriage, Red and Jean loved dancing to big band, jazz, blues and country music at clubs throughout Texas. Red and Jean's finesse on the dance floor earned them top honors at dance contests over the years – even winning them a Caribbean cruise.

They got to know many well-known musicians, including Harry James, Doug Sahm, Augie Meyers, Spot Barnett, Randy Garibay, Al Gomez and Ken Slavin. They were also featured in the KLRN-TV special, San Antonio: The Good Times, in which the couple was shown reminiscing about their dance club days back in the 1940s and 50s.

Red loved to reminisce about their many happy times on the dance floor. So, he is undoubtedly dancing through the heavens with Jean on his arm, a big smile on his face and a twinkle in his eyes.

Red is preceded in death by his beloved wife Jean, and survived by his sons David and Gordon, their wives Diana and Joanna, and their granddaughter Katrina.

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Published by Express-News on Jun. 10, 2020.

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Cathy Smith

February 8, 2022

I'm not sure if you will see this but I'm Your cousin Greg's wife, Their Dad Richard died this week so we were looking up something for Edna Weidman and saw that your Dad had passed in June. Please accept our condolences. Your mom always sent us a card at Christmas so that was how we had a little connection.We are sorry for your loss, of both your parents. It seems that it is the end of a generation for us. Sincerely, Cathy Smith

September 3, 2020

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Sandra and Tim Towey

June 25, 2020

My brother Tony, who has also passed away, was Red's sub for over 2 years when Red was a Rural Carrier for the U.S. Postal Service. Tony always said that Red taught him how to be careful with the mail and to do the job to the best of his abilities. My husband and I both worked at the Postal Service also and had the pleasure of working with Red on occasion. We always appreciated his sense of humor and his laugh. Our condolences to the family.

Richard Cherry

June 15, 2020

Red the Major of Deer Heaven you will be greatly missed! We can only imagine you are dancing with Betty late into the morning hours, which brings joy to our memories and soften the loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Betty and your family.

Richard Cherry

June 15, 2020

Red the Major of Deer Heaven you will be greatly missed! We can only imagine you are dancing with Betty late into the morning hours, which brings joy to our memories and soften the loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Lisa Marcheschi

June 15, 2020

Marcy and Dick Cherry with Lisa Cherry Marcheschi offer our heart felt condolences for your loss! We miss the Mayor of Deer Haven but know he is dancing with Jean in heaven!!

Marcy, Dick and Lisa Cherry

June 15, 2020

Our hearts will miss our favorite Mayor of Deer Haven, Red Weidman! We know he is once again dancing with his favorite partner and they are tearing up heaven together!! Prayers are offered for healing for the entire family!

August Haufler

June 11, 2020

Red, you will be missed. My condolences to your family. We had wonderful times together down at The Blue Star. Now you can dance with Jean again there in heaven. I know it's been difficult these last few years, but now you and Jean can be together in eternity. God bless you and your family.

Armando Ignacio Pena

June 10, 2020

Red and Jean were always the best couple on the dance floor. It was at the Brooklyn Club dancing to the music of Randy Garibay that I first met them. Rest in Peace.

Robert Shelby

June 9, 2020

I had the privilege to work with "Red" at Retama Park. He was always a great guy to be around. He did an excellent job for us, being sure the mail was always at the right place. My condolences to his family.

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