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Donald Christopher Haagstad
Sept 10, 1943 - Jan 6, 2021
Born in New York City to Helen Lyon and Raymond Haagstad, Don embraced life and living to the fullest. Perhaps more than anything else that imprinted on all who knew Don was a naturally bright and strikingly heartwarming smile that spoke at once of all he was… a kind and gentle soul who was as generous as he was genuine in his spirit of love, caring and compassion.
Unflappably calm and deliberate, he exemplified the best of human character, quietly imparting wisdom, patience, a quick wit, an inner strength and integrity, as well as an ever-present devotion to family and friends… all alongside an unparalleled zest for the myriad pursuits and passions of his life.
Among many hats he wore…. those of a student at the New York School of Performing Arts, trombone player in five Macy's Day parades, model, inventor, Travis Air Force Base mechanic, motorcycle and racing enthusiast, sailor, boat captain, and former Superintendent of the San Francisco cable car system… he was also known through a successful food truck business as the "Divco Dog Chef!" Don took particular pride as a father to his beloved daughter, Dawn, and loved his extended family. And the "3 B's" in his life remained a constant: "bikes, boats, and wife Beth."
Blessed by a bond of love and commitment over the span of 28 years, Don and Beth were intensely devoted and loving partners. Together, they gave of their time and talents to no end, whether with friends and family or community functions. On a more sentimental and patriotic note, no matter where Don was, he always stood during the anthem before a game or race. He happened to depart the world on January 6th, 2021, a day of unrest at the nation's capitol that would have upset him deeply.
On a lifelong spiritual journey, Don was a man of few words, but when he spoke, he was always respectful and eloquent. He almost invariably said whatever he had to say with what one friend called that "delightful smile [that] graced his face all those many years." In comforting Beth, another friend said "Grief will fade over time, but the sweetness that was Don will remain forever."
In his wake, Don's smile and over-arching influence will remain with all those whose lives he touched. He will be acutely missed but ever-present.
Don is survived by his wife of 25 years, Beth Bevington-Haagstad, daughter Dawn Haagstad and son-in-law Matthew Ridgway, brother-in-law John Day, many loving cousins, and untold adoring and heartbroken friends.
For those wishing to give, these organizations speak to his passion and generous nature:
* Roadracing World Action Fund
* Community Action of Napa Valley
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Beth, my sincere condolences, love you my friend. My cell is 805-263-3285. Take care
Christy Franco
July 20, 2021
Upon first meeting Don years ago (with a visit from him and Beth), the first thought I had when they left was, What a kind sweet soul this man is. I knew Beth had found the man of her dreams. He not only excluded a sense of sweetness but of a very calming soul indeed. Our hearts are with you Beth. We love you. Don will always be looking over you, just as he always did. You were truly blessed to have him come into your life. RIP my friend.
Valta and Billy
July 16, 2021
Beth, We are so deeply sorry for your loss, we are sending prayers, thoughts and love
Kim & Jason Rafael
February 2, 2021
I´m deeply saddened by this news, Beth. Sending heartfelt condolences and lots of love to you and your family
Gail Morgan Lane
January 27, 2021
Don was one of the first people I met when I came to work at Muni Railway in 1980 and over the years I came to appreciate his calm, sense of humor and empathy. At one point I was in an office that was quite cold and he came over with an electric heater with a programmable timer! He retired years before me and I was delighted and felt honored that he came to my retirement celebration. Truly a kind man that will be missed.
Rosa
January 24, 2021
A beautiful smile to match a beautiful life. We have so many fond memories of Don. We are heart broken, and sending love & condolences to Beth & Dawn.
John & Pamela Hlivka
Friend
January 23, 2021
My heart is sad. Truly an amazing person. My condolences to you Beth and sending lots of hugs your way.
Diane Chupinski
January 23, 2021
Dearest Beth I´m so sorry! I know U2 had a lot of fun together you´ve got great memories sorry for your loss.
Miss Terri
January 22, 2021
Dear Beth, I am so very sorry to hear about the passing of your beloved husband. May the good memories of the past 25 years of your life together be a comfort to your broken heart..... much love to you.
Farrah Garber
January 22, 2021
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