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Thomas Pitts

1943 - 2021

Thomas Pitts obituary, 1943-2021, Lafayette, CA

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1943

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2021

Thomas Pitts Obituary

Thomas Harvey Pitts
Aug 20, 1943 - Sep 20, 2021
Thomas H. Pitts died peacefully in his sleep after a short illness on September 20, 2021, at Alta Bates Hospital in Berkeley, CA. He is survived by his wife, Pamela K. Pitts of Lafayette, CA, his two children, Katherine A. Pitts and John T. Pitts, his former wife, Sally B. Pitts, and his sister Nancy P. Caleshu.

Tom was born on August 20, 1943, to Guy and Barbara Pitts. He was raised in Bloomfield Hills, MI, a suburb of Detroit. He attended Brown University and went on to earn an MBA degree at the Wharton School of Business in 1967. After graduate school, he joined the U.S. Navy, serving aboard the USS Saint Paul in operations off North and South Vietnam. He retired as a Lieutenant JG in 1969.

In 1971 he married his first wife, Sally Dale Bunting. They raised their two children in Lafayette, California. In 1998 he married Pamela Koeberer Pitts and continued to live in Lafayette for the remainder of his life.

After his time in the service, his professional life began in the early 70's with Crown Zellerbach Corporation, an American pulp and paper conglomerate based in San Francisco, CA. He rose through the ranks of the company as it changed ownership several times, ultimately retiring as president of the Fletcher Challenge Paper newsprint division in 1997.

Tom was an active member of the Bohemian Club, The Pacific Union Club, and the Montgomery Street Motorcycle Club. He was guided by a profound sense of curiosity and an abundant appreciation of good humor. He loved travel, art, music, food, cooking, cars, motorcycles, horseback riding, dogs, and a well told story. He will be missed by all that had the pleasure to know him.

A private celebration of his life will be held at a later date. Contributions in his memory may be made to the World Wildlife Fund.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Oct. 1 to Oct. 3, 2021.

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Dick Elliott

January 18, 2025

Tom was a good friend back in our early high school days, 1958. As often happens, we kept in touch for a few years after high school but then went our separate ways. I happen to have had a dream last night involving Tom and myself. As is so often the case, we of course were stilll teenagers but in a contemporary setting. It also had something to do with cars which given our both living in the Detroit car culture was to be expected. In any event, that dream drove me to check for Tom online and needless to say I was saddened to see of his passing in 2021. He was a "good guy" and I sincerely regret not having established contact before his passing.

Harrison Ellenshaw

October 15, 2023

Certainly a one of a kind! And I mean that in a good way!

Christine Ellenshaw Logan

October 13, 2023

I am sad to hear of Tom´s passing. He was a good friend of my husband Harrison Ellenshaw, during the Vietnam war, on the Saint Paul, heavy cruiser. The small group of ensigns were very close and remained friends after the war. I fondly remember Tom.

Robert W Jamison

October 28, 2021

I haven't seen Tom since late 1969, when I relieved him as 4th division officer on the USS St. Paul; (CA 73). I'm sorry to hear of his passing.

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