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Susan Trout

1963 - 2022

Susan Trout obituary, 1963-2022, New York City, NY

Susan Trout Obituary

Susan Trout
February 19, 1963 - February 23, 2022
Susan Marie Trout, loving mother of triplets, Henry, James, and Isabella, teacher, daughter, sister, and friend, passed away suddenly after a brief illness at her home in New York City. A champion of learning and education who thrived on exploring and mastering new skills, Susan led an extraordinary life.
Born in Greenwich, Connecticut, Susan was a youthful 59 years old. She attended Greenwich High School where she excelled in both academics and sports. Captain of the varsity field hockey team, she also lettered in tennis, which became a lifelong sport. She attended Barnard College, where she majored in East Asian Studies, graduating Phi Beta Kappa in 1985. An avid traveler, Susan lived in Taiwan, China, and France. Speaking four languages—Chinese, French, Italian and Spanish—she incorporated all of these cultures into her prolific gourmet cooking.
Following her passion for the stage, Susan teamed up with childhood friends Janet Bogardus and Joanna Heimbold to create "Instant Girl," an acting, singing, and dancing comedy troupe. Between 1989 and 1997, they performed at numerous venues including Lincoln Center, the Public Theater, Naked Angels, MTV, PBS, and the Jon Stewart show. Ever the athlete, Susan was also a professional stuntwoman and appeared in movies, such as "The Big Night" and "Pollack," and the TV show "Oz."
Susan combined her extraordinary command of an audience with her love of learning to begin a second career as a teacher. Being an educator at heart, she earned a Masters in Early Adolescent Education from Bank Street College in 2000, followed by a Masters in Education School Building Leadership from Hunter College in 2018. For more than two decades she taught Humanities and Chinese at Booker T. Washington Middle School in New York City. Her love of reading and history made her an ideal Humanities teacher. In 2012, she expanded her pedagogy and returned to her love of the Chinese language and culture, creating a Mandarin curriculum at Booker T. Washington. For a decade, she guided her students as they learned to speak, read, and write in Chinese, while introducing them to the culture of China with trips to the Metropolitan Museum of Art, Chinatown, and to her favorite restaurants in Flushing, Queens. Susan will be remembered as an advocate and mentor to all of her students. Her depth of experience and passion for life was part of every class she taught.
While she was an accomplished actor and teacher, Susan's greatest joy in life was being the mother of her 19-year old triplets, Henry, James, and Isabella. Susan had an amazing ability to manage and embrace the chaos that comes with raising triplets, including getting three children into college simultaneously. She was extremely proud of them, as they were of her. She adored skiing, playing tennis, going on long hikes, and swimming with them in Maine.
Susan is predeceased by her father Jack Trout, who died in 2017. She is survived by her mother, Patricia Trout, a lifelong Greenwich resident; her husband, John Irwin, father of Henry, James, and Isabella; siblings Tim Trout, Joanne Trout, Nancy Trout, Christine Acton, and Peter Trout; brothers-in-law Peter Doelger and Andy Acton; sister-in-law, Carrie Dean; and countless nieces, nephews, students, and friends. Susan lived life to the fullest to her very last day. Her passion and humor will never be forgotten. A service to celebrate her exceptional life will be held at a later date. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to MS54.org or hunter.cuny.edu/give and direct the donation to the adolescent education Chinese program.

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Published by Greenwich Time on Mar. 3, 2022.

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Iris

September 19, 2025

It has been a few years since Ms. Trout sadly passed and I am so sorry for her family who I hope is doing okay now. I didn´t know her well but I had her as a health teacher the year she passed. She made the class so fun and nice and I remember all the movies we watched. She was such a sweet teacher and I hope she rests in peace.

George Tu

June 11, 2023

George misses you. He wants you to rest in peace without sadness.

Jiamian (Nicole)

August 1, 2022

I was so shocked and devastated to hear about Susan. I knew her from an exchange program at NYU. We were roommate when we were in Shanghai and Hong Kong. We knew each other from the trip and became friends when we came back in NYC. She was also my corporative teacher during my student-teaching year. She is so kind, so positive and caring. She always make people laugh and feel comfortable to be with her. My condolences to her family and friends. She will always be missed and loved!

Kunye

August 1, 2022

So sorry to hear this news. Susan was my tutor and friend in Booker T Washington school. I cannot believe this happened. She is the most strong and talented women I know and I still remember the last time I saw her with backpack and that big and warm smile. She told us that she was pursuing another career as school leaders. I missed her so much!

Paul Urcioli - Los Angeles

March 10, 2022

I was devastated to hear about Susan. Years ago I was lucky to perform with her for several years in a touring comedy and had the time of my life being the drummer for Instant Girl's "orchestra". She was also my roommate in NYC for a brief time and my heart is filled with so many incredible, joyful moments we all shared. I hope that her family, her children and all who loved her find some peace. I'll miss her terribly.

Nelly Mecklenburg

March 9, 2022

I had Ms. Trout briefly as a teacher in 7th grade (before spending the rest of the year abroad) but she always made an impression as a daredevil teacher who had lived many lives. I'm so sorry to hear of her passing.

Marion Richman

March 7, 2022

Very sorry to hear this news. Ms. Trout taught both my children at Delta. She particularly influenced my daughter who has a love of the Chinese language, likely due to her exposure in Ms. Trout's class. Condolences to all who loved her.

peter and susi orbanowski

March 6, 2022

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief. Our sincerest condolences to the Trout and Irwin families from the OGTA

Robyn Ulzheimer

March 5, 2022

So sorry to hear about Susan. My condolences to everyone.
Robyn (Bella´s kindergarten teacher)

Gene and Jackie Trout

March 5, 2022

Our condolences to the Trout family. We are sorry for your sudden lost. You are all in our prayers.

Sarah Williams

March 4, 2022

This is such devastating news. Susan and I attended Trinity Repertory drama school together and then worked together and were roommates for a few years after. Susan was such an intelligent and creative person as well as funny and quirky. Love and blessings to the family. I´m so so sorry for your/our loss.

Martha, Tim, Marilyn & Paige O'Day

March 4, 2022

Ms. Trout was an amazing educator and person. We extend our deepest sympathies to her family and remember fondly her passion for Mandarin and her students.

Atina Grossmann

March 4, 2022

I will never forget accompanying my daughter Nelly Mecklenburg and Ms. Trout's 7th grade Humanities class to an almost deserted Metropolitan Museum shortly after September 11 while she was pregnant with the triplets. The students were so excited about her pregnancy, the ease and agility with which she carried on -- despite the dramatic historical moment and the triplets she was carrying-- and all she taught them about art ,artifacts, history, and writing -- and just being an interesting intrepid human being. With continuing gratitude for all she did as a teacher and many condolences to the family. (Atina Grossmann)

Janet Polstein

March 4, 2022

I was so terribly sorry to hear this news and send my deepest condolences to Susan's family and friends. I grew up with John and met Susan when they were vacationing on the Cape one summer before the triplets were born. She was incredibly warm, vivacious and full of life. May you be comforted by your many memories of her incredible zest for life during this difficult time. Janet Polstein (Mamaroneck HS Class of 1976/DANY 1985-1988)

Ken and Violet Trout

March 3, 2022

We are heartbroken over the sudden loss of my sweet dear niece Susan!! She never bragged of all her accomplishments, she was always so down to earth and had the biggest heart. Such a loss! Our thoughts and prayers are with the whole family.. Pat, Timmy, Joanne, Nancy, Christine and Peter. As well as with her triplets Henry, James, and Isabella. Though she may be gone, she will always be loved and never forgotten. We love you Susie. -Love Uncle Kenny

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