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Steven Daby Obituary

Steven L. Daby

Buckland, MA - On March 12, 2024, we unexpectedly lost a cherished man, Steven L. Daby, born on March 29, 1965 and a lifelong resident of Buckland. His devoted wife of nearly 32 years, Lori (Holmes) Daby, held his hand as he said goodbye with the love from his family surrounding him.

Steve fought a long and courageous fight against cancer. He survived Hodgkin's disease (twice) in his twenties and was diagnosed with both prostate cancer and lymphoma in 2020. Despite his relentless fight against the lymphoma, it tragically persisted and he finally succumbed to the illness.

Steve devoted 25 years of unwaivering commitment to his role as Highway Superintendent for the Town of Buckland, overseeing the long-awaited completion of a highway garage. Following his tenure in Buckland, he transitioned to the position of Highway Superintendent for the Town of Colrain, where he dedicated the last 16 months of his career.

Steve will be sadly missed by an extraordinary group of friends he and Lori met through Bob Perry (RIP) of Bicycles Unlimited, who organized weekly mountain bike rides which usually culminated in a gathering for a pint or two. Mountain biking evolved into Steve's foremost passion. He also took pride in completing a 100-mile bike ride at Hampton Beach and participating in the Bridge of Flowers Road Race twice.

Steve and Lori also enjoy hiking and camping and have made many equally wonderful friends while enjoying their favorite camping spot on Lake Willoughby in the Northeast Kingdom of Vermont.

Besides his wife he leaves his father, Norman (Pete) Daby, Sr., his brother Norman Daby, Jr. and very special sister-in-law, Christine Daby. Also grieving his loss are his aunts, Dot Parker and Barb Turcotte, along with his cousins who will cherish many wonderful memories, Jeff Wells (Amanda), Russell Turcotte (Ellen), and Lisa Floeck (Jim). He is lovingly remembered by his brother-in-law, Randy Holmes, Sr., his nephews Casey, Alexander, Randy Jr. and niece, Kristin as well as his grand-nephews Parker and Maverick. Steve also leaves behind his adored furbabies, Tugger, Finnegan and Jaxon, who will give Lori much comfort in the days ahead. He is predeceased by his mother Sandra (Wells) Daby in 2022.

A wake will be held at the Smith-Kelleher Funeral Home, 40 Church Street, Shelburne Falls on Friday, March 22, 2024, from 4 to 7 PM.

In lieu of flowers, please make a donation in Steve's memory to Dakin Humane Society, PO Box 6307, Springfield MA 01101-6307, or Wheeling for Healing c/o Baystate Health Foundation, 280 Chestnut Street, 6th Fl., Springfield MA 01199.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Recorder on Mar. 20, 2024.

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Todd & Missy Dufresne

April 3, 2024

What sad news! Sending our love to Lori, Norman Jr and the family.

Judy Dacyczyn

March 28, 2024

I´m so sorry this sad news. steve always had a wave and smile anytime we saw him. Sending prayers and condolences to all his family

Karl E Mosher

March 26, 2024

So sorry Lori. I apologize for missing the memorial. I've been bad keeping up with news. What a fighter. Much love and respect to you both. I miss our meetups. Steve was on the best long distance motorcycle ride I've done. Good memories and thoughts to you. I'll have to dust off that KHS mountain bike I still have.

Brian & Cindy Pandolfi - Lake Willoughby

March 24, 2024

Very sorry to hear of your loss!!

Jennifer Heim

March 21, 2024

I am praying for peace and comfort for everyone who is feeling the loss of Steve, especially Lori. Some of my favorite years, filled with peace and comfort, are forever in my memories from when you welcomed me as your tenant in your home. May God bless Steve as he rests and Lori as you hold him near in your heart.

Cathy Powell

March 21, 2024

So sorry for your loss. I will cherish the memories of Steve over our many years. Thoughts and prayers with all the family.

Bill and Gina Gallant

March 20, 2024

Lori, Our hearts goes out to you. I hope your happy memories will help you through this difficult time. Bill and Gina Gallant

Harriet Paine

March 20, 2024

Look for Steve
For though he is now
Lighter than your thoughts
You will recognize the effervescence of his
Heart
Where all trails beckon.

Lori I am holding you all ever so close to my heart. Harriet

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