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Eugene Gray Obituary

Gray, Eugene "Pat"

Eugene "Pat" Patrick Gray, of Dayton, Ohio, passed away on July 23, 2024, after a long illness. Born in Wellston, Ohio, Pat enjoyed over 40 years of work as a locomotive engineer for the B&O/CSX Railroad and served in the Ohio National Guard. His commitment extended beyond his profession to life as a loving husband, devoted father, fun-finding grandfather, and friend of Bill W. for 39 years.

Pat is survived by his wife of 49 years, Marianne Hanrahan Gray; their sons, Jonathan (Lauren) and Ross (Abbey); and grandsons Killian and Theodore. He also leaves behind his brother Jerry (Andrea) and sister Anita; his sister-in-law Sally Hanrahan; and several nieces, nephews, and cousins. He was preceded in death by his parents, Bob and Juanita; brother Mike; in-laws, Tom and Martha Hanrahan; and brother-in-law Marty Hanrahan.

Pat cherished time spent with family, particularly the summers at Kelleys Island, Ohio. He enjoyed fishing, archery, and long walks. Family and friends will remember his kindness, penchant for mischief, and ability to make all people feel equal and welcome. His quiet strength, humility, and dedication to those around him will be deeply missed.

Friends and family will be welcomed for visitation at Tobias Funeral Home of Beavercreek on August 2, 2024 from 4-6pm, with services to follow from 6-7pm.

The family would like to thank the staff at Bethany Village and Hospice of Dayton for their compassionate care.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Dayton Daily News on Jul. 28, 2024.

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Margie Perenic

August 6, 2024

Marianne, my heart hurts for you and your sons. Sending love and many hugs.

joyce hanes

August 3, 2024

I so enjoyed Eugene( PAT)when he came in the Credit Union. I know it was a long struggle, but he always kept his smile. May he rest in peace

Libby wells

July 29, 2024

Marianne, my husband Steve and I were so sad to hear about Pat's passing. I remember Pat looking at me and saying I'm supposed to know you, right? I have a little memory problem. So sweet, as always. I'm Libby the dogwalker with the big black dog that Pat liked so much. You have my deepest condolences. Stay strong. Libby and Steve Motter

PJ

July 29, 2024

Had some fun times playing with EP at work and on the Chessie softball team. Loved his "penchant for mischief"

Margaret Kerman Robinson

July 28, 2024

Pat graduated from Fairview high school Dayton. OH. I was in his class, didnt know him personally but knew him when I pass him in the hall. Always a small on his face. Rip Pat Gray.

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4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m.

Tobias Funeral Home - Beavercreek Chapel

3970 Dayton-Xenia Rd, Dayton, OH 45432

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6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m.

Tobias Funeral Home - Beavercreek Chapel

3970 Dayton-Xenia Rd, Dayton, OH 45432

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