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Diane Reifsneider Spence

1945 - 2025

Diane Reifsneider Spence obituary, 1945-2025

BORN

1945

DIED

2025

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Canale Funeral Directors - Memphis

2700 Union Avenue Extended

Memphis, Tennessee

Diane Spence Obituary

With hearts full of love and gratitude for her life, we announce the passing of Diane Reifsneider Spence on June 1, 2025. She was born in Plainfield, New Jersey on May 29, 1945 to Grace and Forrest Reifsneider. She was a beloved wife, mother, Yaya, sister, and friend. Diane leaves behind a legacy of grace, wisdom, strength, and faith.

Diane had a deep passion for learning that shaped every part of her life. A lifelong educator, she poured herself into her work and into the lives of the students, teachers, and families she served. She spent many years at St. George's Independent School and St. Mary's Episcopal School - two communities she held dear. Her commitment to growth and innovation led her to earn a Doctorate in Educational Technology at age 62, a testament to her dedication and forward-thinking spirit.

To know Diane was to be encouraged - to feel seen, believed in, and lifted up. She was strong yet gentle, faithful in all things, an amazing listener, and inspiring to those around her. She was always looking for the good in others and helped them see it in themselves.

Family was her greatest joy and her favorite place was anywhere they were. Whether she was being Mom, Yaya, or simply Diane, she gave her whole heart - offering unconditional love, wisdom, and joy. She was the heart of the family, always there with a listening ear, a warm embrace, and endless patience.

Diane will be deeply missed by her loving husband of 51 years, Ron, her children Ryan Spence (Corinne), David Spence (Brittany), and Anne Lucas (Jon), and her grandchildren, Austin, Olivia, Jonathan, Miller, Katherine, Maggie, and Jacob. She was welcomed to heaven by her grandson, Forrest, mother, Grace, and father, Forrest.

A Celebration of Life will be held on June 6, 2025 at 11:00 at Church of the Holy Communion in Memphis,TN. There will be a visitation at 10:00.

In lieu of flowers donations can be made to the Forrest Spence Fund at https://forrestspencefund.org/ or the Nashville Anti-Human Trafficking Coalition at https://www.nahtcoalition.org/

To plant trees in memory, please visit theĀ Sympathy Store.

Published by The Daily Memphian on Jun. 3, 2025.

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Barbara Beyer(Susie)

June 5, 2025

Ron, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Jean Arehart

June 4, 2025

Diane was a wonderful part of our EfM class and we all benefitted from hearing her insights. I am very sad to learn of her passing. She will be missed and her gentle spirit will be remembered.

Linda Luptak

June 3, 2025

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Diane“s Book Club will deeply miss her gentle presence

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10:00 a.m.

Church of the Holy Communion

4645 Walnut Grove Rd, Memphis, TN 38117

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6

Celebration of Life

11:00 a.m.

Church of the Holy Communion

4645 Walnut Grove Rd, Memphis, TN 38117

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Canale Funeral Directors - Memphis

2700 Union Avenue Extended, Memphis, TN 38112

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