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1952
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2025
Ronald Gay Obituary
Ronnie was a devoted husband, father, grandfather, and brother whose life was deeply rooted in family and community. He is survived by his beloved wife, Paula Gay; his daughter, Jenna Lausterer; his son, Chris Gay; and his cherished grandsons, Jenson and Jonas Lausterer. He also leaves behind his brothers, Randy and Rick Gay. Ronnie was preceded in death by his parents, Robert and Mavis Gay.
Known for his genuine nature and unwavering respect for others, Ronnie touched the lives of many with his kindness and integrity. His presence brought warmth to every room he entered, and he carried himself with a quiet strength that earned the admiration of those around him.
Family meant everything to Ronnie. Whether spending time with loved ones or offering a helping hand when needed most, he lived each day with purpose and heart. His legacy will live on through the values he instilled in those closest to him.
May his memory bring comfort to all who knew him. A Celebration of Life will be held on July 11, 2025, from 05:00 PM to 07:00 PM at Great Oaks Church of Christ, 3355 Brunswick Rd. Memphis, TN 38133.
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June Hicks Highfill
October 15, 2025
Ronnie was as kind as they come and highly regarded by everyone, always quick with a smile, deserving of the title Mr. Kingsbury. My sincere condolences to his wife and family.
Kelly Lollar
July 11, 2025
"I´m a firm believer that when we lose someone close to us, like a father, they continue to live on through us and give us unbelievable strength. They´re so connected to us that they become a part of us." My thoughts & prayers go out to the entire family & friends. And, I will forever miss you Mr. Ronnie. Sorry I can't be there tonight to celebrate the celebration of your life. I know you and dad are up there probably looking down on all of us and are talking and having a good time. See you again someday. Love always, Kelly Lollar
Karen and family
July 10, 2025
Thinking of you all. Sending our love and condolences.
RIP Uncle Ronnie
Kay cicalla wilson
July 2, 2025
Ronnie was a friend to all. Mr.Kingsbury, was perfect for him. Class of 70. Respectively, Kind, considerate and a man with always a smile. Thankful to have known him. Kay cicalla Wilson
Gwen & Stan Carpenter
July 2, 2025
Our condolences to the Gay family. Our thoughts and love goes out to you all!
Patricia Jolly Chandler Faust
July 2, 2025
My sincere love, and prayers. He was a kind and wonderful person, and always so kind to me as I was around him in our early years of school. He will fly high in heaven! Looking down to bring peace and love to all!
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