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Benjamin Krogh-Grabbe Obituary

Benjamin Krogh-Grabbe

Amherst, MA - Benjamin Krogh-Grabbe, the son of Betsy Krogh and Nick Grabbe, died Jan. 13 at Brigham & Women's Hospital in Boston of complications of pneumonia.

Ben was born July 14, 1982 in Greenfield and was diagnosed with Down Syndrome. He grew up in Amherst, attended Amherst schools, and as an adult lived in several group homes in the Amherst area.

Ben was surrounded by the loving support of many caring family members, friends, and professionals, who enabled him to live a rich, full life. He embraced life with enthusiasm.

Ben was a longtime member of First Congregational Church in Amherst. With help from Betsy, he sent birthday cards featuring his artwork to church members. With help from Nick, he set up the tables and chairs at Not Bread Alone, the free-meal site at the church, almost every Saturday for 25 years.

Ben was a familiar presence at the Jones Library, Antonio's restaurant, and at Riverside Industries in Easthampton, where he spent his weekdays. He loved to go on hikes with Nick in Amherst's conservation areas.

Ben was an enthusiastic member of the Rainbow Players, an acting and arts group for adults with disabilities led by Ezzell Floraniña. He enjoyed going to Camp Horizons in Connecticut in recent summers. He loved doing activities over the years with former one-to-one aide Josh Arond.

Ben was known for his artwork and his love of birthdays and holidays, which he enjoyed celebrating with friends and family. He enjoyed listening to music on his radio and participating in singalongs. He loved his lifelong favorite television shows, Fraggle Rock and Sesame Street. He thrived on routines and always wanted to know what was coming next.

In addition to his parents, Ben is survived by his brother Alex Ellis and sister-in-law Molly Ellis of Providence, R.I., four aunts, three uncles, eight cousins, a niece, and a nephew.

A celebration of Ben's life will take place at First Congregational Church, 165 Main St., Amherst, on Feb. 21 at 2 p.m.

Ben inspired much love among his family and friends, who will always remember the light that he brought into their lives. Donations in Ben's memory can be made to Empowerment Through The Arts, Riverside Industries, or First Congregational Church in Amherst.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Daily Hampshire Gazette on Jan. 17, 2026.

Memorial Events
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21

Celebration of Life

2:00 p.m.

First Congregational Church

165 Main St, Amherst, MA

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17 Entries

Clare Bertrand

February 10, 2026

Heartbroken to hear of your loss and the light that has gone dim from his joy and enthusiasm. May we all hold a piece of that light. Love to Betsy and Nick

Kurtis McKemmie

January 31, 2026

My deepest condolences to Betsy and Nick and the rest of the family. Ben was a good guy and a very active member to the community.
~Kurtis

Barbara and Jim Pistrang

January 23, 2026

We were so sorry to hear of Ben's passing. Please accept our sincere condolences.

Todd

January 22, 2026

My first introduction to Ben he sang hello and my name back to me . He won me over in the first seconds of meeting him . I don´t think I´ve ever met a more loving , warm , caring person in my life time . Ben you always gave the best smiles - and you always smiled . Betsy and Nick my deepest condolences . You both did such an amazing job raising him - he felt your love so much . Get that Fraggle in heaven brother !

Alissa cleary

January 21, 2026

Ben was good friend he go be missed he did art at riverside he will be in yr heart

Jeff Brown

January 21, 2026

I'm so sorry to hear of Ben's passing. It was an honor working with him for 20 years, he filled the room with such warm wonderful energy, and he was loved by so many. My warmest thoughts and sympathy to Betsy and Nick, and it's been an honor getting to know your family through the years.

Susan Mower

January 21, 2026

Thinking of your family during this time of grief and wishing you peace. What a full life Ben had because of Betsy and Nick, Church and Community.

Cathy McGeoch

January 20, 2026

I'm glad to have gotten to know Ben on Saturdays at NBA. What a great guy, I'll miss him.

Tiffany Lees

January 19, 2026

BEN, We only had you in your new home for a short amount of time. But we are all so very grateful for the time we got to share with you. Your love of life and the things you enjoyed made all of us fall in love with you. It was an honor to work with you. Our hearts are with you , Nick and Betsy and all that loved you.

Sherry Carpenter

January 19, 2026

I'm so sorry for your loss, Betsy, Nick and family. Ben had a pure heart, he always wanted to bring joy to those around him. I am blessed to have had Ben as a friend.

Kathleen Mackiewicz

January 18, 2026

Betsy and Nick and family: I am so sorry for your loss. I remember working with Ben in a special needs program at Amherst Regional Middle School when he was maybe 12-13 years old. Ben would great everyone he met with a smile. I remember driving Ben to Atkins Farms once week. He would take orders from the office staff for muffins or apples, collect the money and deliver the items to each person. He was so proud of himself and politely accepted the thanks for bringing the staff a treat. He touched so many lives with his kindness and respect.

Josh Arond

January 18, 2026

25 years of outings, sing alongs, singing along to the radio in the car, hiked with the dogs, Rainbow Players rehearsals and shows, LSSE Musicals and FAC shows, concerts, picnics, and family dinners. Ben my friend, you will be dearly missed. From Ben to you. " I love myself."

RF

January 18, 2026

RIP

Julie Melrose

January 18, 2026

Nick and Betsy,
I'm so sorry for your loss of Ben. May his memory be a blessing.

JN

January 18, 2026

Rip Ben I met you on the Transportation several years ago always had a smile on your face

Pat Hayes

January 17, 2026

Nick and Betsy,
I was sorry to read of the loss of your beloved son, Ben. I remember meeting him a few times at get togethers of our Advocate friends. My condolences to all who loved him. I know he will live in many hearts forever.

Dave Palmer

January 17, 2026

I knew Ben for many years at Riverside Industries, where he was warm and friendly and a joy to all. Thank you, Ben for all you gave us!

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