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17 Entries
Clare Bertrand
February 10, 2026
Heartbroken to hear of your loss and the light that has gone dim from his joy and enthusiasm. May we all hold a piece of that light. Love to Betsy and Nick
Kurtis McKemmie
January 31, 2026
My deepest condolences to Betsy and Nick and the rest of the family. Ben was a good guy and a very active member to the community.
~Kurtis
Barbara and Jim Pistrang
January 23, 2026
We were so sorry to hear of Ben's passing. Please accept our sincere condolences.

Todd
January 22, 2026
My first introduction to Ben he sang hello and my name back to me . He won me over in the first seconds of meeting him . I don´t think I´ve ever met a more loving , warm , caring person in my life time . Ben you always gave the best smiles - and you always smiled . Betsy and Nick my deepest condolences . You both did such an amazing job raising him - he felt your love so much . Get that Fraggle in heaven brother !
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Alissa cleary
January 21, 2026
Ben was good friend he go be missed he did art at riverside he will be in yr heart
Jeff Brown
January 21, 2026
I'm so sorry to hear of Ben's passing. It was an honor working with him for 20 years, he filled the room with such warm wonderful energy, and he was loved by so many. My warmest thoughts and sympathy to Betsy and Nick, and it's been an honor getting to know your family through the years.
Susan Mower
January 21, 2026
Thinking of your family during this time of grief and wishing you peace. What a full life Ben had because of Betsy and Nick, Church and Community.
Cathy McGeoch
January 20, 2026
I'm glad to have gotten to know Ben on Saturdays at NBA. What a great guy, I'll miss him.
Tiffany Lees
January 19, 2026
BEN, We only had you in your new home for a short amount of time. But we are all so very grateful for the time we got to share with you. Your love of life and the things you enjoyed made all of us fall in love with you. It was an honor to work with you. Our hearts are with you , Nick and Betsy and all that loved you.
Sherry Carpenter
January 19, 2026
I'm so sorry for your loss, Betsy, Nick and family. Ben had a pure heart, he always wanted to bring joy to those around him. I am blessed to have had Ben as a friend.
Kathleen Mackiewicz
January 18, 2026
Betsy and Nick and family: I am so sorry for your loss. I remember working with Ben in a special needs program at Amherst Regional Middle School when he was maybe 12-13 years old. Ben would great everyone he met with a smile. I remember driving Ben to Atkins Farms once week. He would take orders from the office staff for muffins or apples, collect the money and deliver the items to each person. He was so proud of himself and politely accepted the thanks for bringing the staff a treat. He touched so many lives with his kindness and respect.





Josh Arond
January 18, 2026
25 years of outings, sing alongs, singing along to the radio in the car, hiked with the dogs, Rainbow Players rehearsals and shows, LSSE Musicals and FAC shows, concerts, picnics, and family dinners. Ben my friend, you will be dearly missed. From Ben to you. " I love myself."
RF
January 18, 2026
RIP
Julie Melrose
January 18, 2026
Nick and Betsy,
I'm so sorry for your loss of Ben. May his memory be a blessing.
JN
January 18, 2026
Rip Ben I met you on the Transportation several years ago always had a smile on your face
Pat Hayes
January 17, 2026
Nick and Betsy,
I was sorry to read of the loss of your beloved son, Ben. I remember meeting him a few times at get togethers of our Advocate friends. My condolences to all who loved him. I know he will live in many hearts forever.
Dave Palmer
January 17, 2026
I knew Ben for many years at Riverside Industries, where he was warm and friendly and a joy to all. Thank you, Ben for all you gave us!
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