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Norman Darling Obituary

US Army: K/I/A in Baghdad, Iraq, April 29, formerly of Taunton. Husband of Kimberly Burch Darling. Father of Camryn Darling of Fla. Son of Sidney and Madlyn (Fife) Darling of Nassau. Brother of James, Christopher, Rodney, Cyndi and Crystal all of Nassau. Calling hours on Sun. from 4-8 PM in the MacDonald, Rockwell & MacDonald Funeral Home in Waterman Square at 6 Riverside Street (crnr. No. Beacon St.) WATERTOWN. Committal Services on Mon. at 1 PM in the Massachusetts National Cemetery, Bourne. Relatives and friends kindly invited. Memorial contributions may be made to Homes for Our Troops, Inc., P.O. Box 615, Buzzards Bay, MA 02532. For further info., please refer to www.macdonaldrockwell.com

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Published by Boston Globe from May 7 to May 9, 2004.

Memories and Condolences
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Jeanette Richardson

March 12, 2025

It's been years since you've passed. I still remember you like it was yesterday.

I know you're up there, laughing with the angels. Say hi to Mom and Dad for me.

Gone but not forgotten.

Continue to RIP Norm

Cory John Barrett

March 9, 2025

This was me inside FOB Thunder where he was stationed. I didn't make enough memories with him, but I felt like we connected as friends from the start. I remember him having a positive energy about him. Like other veterans from that time, I imagine we would still be friends today. He's the first person who comes to mind whenever I mentioned how we lost brothers during our deployment.

Cindy Darling

March 7, 2025

Guess what? Today is the last day of Nursing school. I know you would be so happy for me. So keep watching over me. Mein Bruder!

Jeanette Richardson

March 30, 2023

Hello Norman,

It has been almost 20 years since you left this earth and your presence is still missed.

I got to chat with Cindy the other day and even passed your house, just for the memories.

Continue to Rest in Peace.

Gone But Not Forgotten!!!

Vanda king

March 29, 2023

So many years has passed now and I still miss your smile......you will forever be in my heart ...love you

Sarah Sattelberg

April 30, 2021

Darling and I trained to become Army Medics together. He was one of those people that as soon as he started talking just radiated kindness . He has been on my heart lately . Sending out love and hugs to all his family .

Lenique Armbrister

May 8, 2020

r.i.p uncle..never got to meet you but from what i heard you were a peaceful soul. Continue to fly with the angels above watching over grammy and grandad <3 <3

Jeff Yearout

October 21, 2017

I think of you often.

Vanda King

August 30, 2017

I am stilling missing u. Love you always

Cory Barrett

January 31, 2017

I was in the same unit as this man. I used to come into the medic tent and just joke around with him. I used to joke about him being muscular, and he just laughed and said he couldn't wait to give me a shot. He didn't always want to hear my jokes. I wish I got to know him better. I always have remembered his name. I was not there when it happened, but I did manage to catch his service.
Cory Barrett

Tai Cabrera

December 15, 2016

I was thinking about you today and talking about how awesome of human being you were. You are not forgotten! Love you tons , big guy!

Jeanette Richardson

February 24, 2016

Hi Norman,

Was going through some old photos the other day and saw one that we took, brought back so many memories.

I hope you are happy in heaven. Say hi to dad and the rest of my family and friends.

Continue to rest in peace Norm.

Gone But Never Forgotten

Anna Dold-Fisher

April 29, 2015

Darling,
thinking of you today on this anniversary. Remembering the good times at Ft. Sam and how you helped me grow as a person. I'll never forget you.

Adomako Adjapong

February 6, 2015

Brother Norman,

You are our Hero. You are always remembered in our hearts and thoughts. Rest in peace for your war is over. we will meet again one day.

CPT Adomako Adjapong

Jeanette Richardson

February 5, 2015

Thinking about you today Norman. May your soul continue to Rest in Eternal Peace!!!

February 5, 2015

Thinking about you today. May you continue to Rest in Eternal Peace.

missy tocci

May 24, 2014

Hi Normy, thinking of you. Wishing you were here. I'll never forget your kind heart and big gentle smile! love you

May 23, 2014

Remembering you and your kindness and warm smile Hero!

Scott Gillis

December 11, 2013

It's been almost 10 years since you left. I remember training with you in San Antonio. I remember meeting up with you during one of your patient transports in Baghdad. Two weeks later, I saw you in Stars and Stripes. I couldn't believe it. I still can't. I miss our friendship, Norman. I think of you every time I make the trip from DC to Weymouth. Rest easy my friend.

Becky

September 11, 2013

Still think about you and miss you always...
xoxoxo..Never forgotten

Becky Emond

May 1, 2013

Forever missing you! xoxoxoxo

missy and steve tocci

April 30, 2013

Hi Norman,
there isnt a day that goes by that I don't think of you and talk about you. I miss your big beautiful smile and sweet personality. you were a true best friend. I dream about you all the time, it's the worst when I wake up and you arent here. miss you more than words. love you oxoxox

April 29, 2013

Hi Norman. 9 years bro. I miss u soo much will never forget ur voice, ur face and what u stood for. I love you always. Ya Lil-big sis and Nephew Nick.

Charlie Gili

March 31, 2013

Hello,
We would like to express our deepest condolences and also to let the Darling Family know that we recently sent Care Packages to American troops in the war zones. Each box carried a dedication sheet that includes the name, service information and photo of your loved one. We recognize that this is a humble tribute, but we wanted you to know that it is heartfelt and made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals in the youth hockey community and beyond. We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of the US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign

November 4, 2012

Hay Bro,
Been thinking about you lot.You kno what your nephew said"He never got to know your middle name". Joshua which means patience you sure were brother. We all miss and love you!

September 18, 2012

I pray for this man who I can see was a wonderful person through this site. I offer my sorrow for all those who loved or liked him. Apparently he was someone with Massachusetts ties and I am grateful for his service.

MAJ David McCaskill

May 2, 2012

Norman,

As leaders we are supposed to leave lasting impressions on our Soldiers. It was you who has forever left an impression on me. I am a better leader for having served with you. My warmest condolences to the family of this outstanding Soldier and even better Man.

Peggy Childers

April 29, 2012

To the family and friends of Pfc. Norman Darling:
Always remembering Norman. "Some gave all."

April 27, 2012

Hey Darling <3 I still miss you more than words can describe. I wonder all the time where you'd be and what you'd be doing if you were here w us still. I bet Cammy is getting big ,beautiful. She must miss you terribly . I love you with all of my heart and will never ever forget you. You are an amazing person .

Becky Emond

April 24, 2012

Thinking about you always and forever....

Adomako Adjapong

November 19, 2011

Hi Norman, your memory is forever etched in my soul. I always remember our days as AIT Medics at Ft Sam, TX. I also remember the day both of us submitted our applications for citizenship at the INS office in San Antonio, TX. And currently stationed at Baumholder, Germany, I always see your name as a Hero on the Walls of the Bridage Headquarters Office. Big Brother in Arms for our adopted country, Rest in Peace. You are never forgotten. May the Almighty protect your soul until we meet again. "Onua pa, da yie" (Good Brother, sound sleep). ...... 1LT Adomako Adjapong

Troy Howard

September 12, 2011

Hey Bro, you came across my mind as we talked about this time in 2003 we were praying we were going to graduate as medics from E. CO 232nd! You will never be forgotten because you are a true friend! 1LT Howard

MAJ David L. McCaskill Jr.

August 9, 2011

Norman, I can't believe how much time has passed since you left us. I still think of you often and reflect as I interact/mentor young soldiers. In your brief time in my Company you left an ever lasting impression on me as well as all that served with you. May God bring peace to your family.

Cindy Darling

May 3, 2011

I Know you are shinning down on me from heaven. Like so many we have lost along the way and I know eventually we'll be together some sweet day! I love you soooooo much! Camy looks like us boi!She cant hide at all. Miss you!

Peggy Childers

April 29, 2011

To the family and friends of Pfc. Norman Darling:
Please accept my remembrance of Norman on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Peggy Childers
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Jim

April 29, 2011

You have not been forgotten Norma

Becky Emond

April 14, 2011

Norman, You will never be forgotten. I can't believe it has been so long. I will be visiting you in Bourne this coming week and will tell my children of this GREAT man I knew. I truly miss you so very much and wish that you were still here with us. I have a few friends that are soldiers that got deployed last night. I pray for their safe return. As it has been very hard to get over you leaving. See you later :o)

Michael

November 12, 2010

I woke up this morning and you crossed my mind. I was telling my wife about goofing off with you in basic and AIT. I looked at her and my sons and realized how fortunate I am to be here with them. You were a great battle buddy. The world is defintely a better place because you were a part of it.

Becky Emond

November 11, 2010

Thinking about you and all the others who have sacrificed their lives for our freedom. I miss you more than words can say and still love you with all my heart!
Thank you for everything.

Cindy Darling

October 6, 2010

Hey Big Bruda,
You are heavy on my mind today. Its something about today that your presence is with me so strong. Cant put my finger on it. I miss you and love you soo much! Listening to some old dubs you wud play in your lil green car. Love you forever!
Lil Sista
Cindy

Peggy Childers

April 29, 2010

To the family and friends of Pfc. Norman Darling:
Remembering Norman on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Jim

April 24, 2010

Norman, you are not forgotten.

April 15, 2010

I can't believe it has been 6 years. Somedays it seems like only yesterday that you were here and somedays it seems like forever that you're gone. Camryn is 9 now and she looks like you more and more everyday. Cam is in 4th grade now and makes straight A's. She gives 100% in everything that she does. I wish you were here to see her as she grows. I know how proud you would would be. I wish you were here to be her daddy. We talk of you all the time and her favorite memory of you is how you used to do push-ups with her on your back.
We will be in Boston the weekend of May 7th. They are flying us up there for the Red Sox vs. Yankees game, She is quite the fan. It will be her first time in Fenway Park. We are also coming to see you in Bourne. If anyone wants to meet up with us while we are there please e-mail us at [email protected].
Norman...please watch over her.
We miss you so much!
Amy and Camryn Darling.

Amy and Camryn Darling

April 15, 2010

I can't believe it has been 6 years already. Sometimes it feels like it was yesterday and sometimes it feels like forever. Camryn is so big now. She is 9 now and we talk about you all the time. She is in 4th grade now and makes straight A's and always puts 100% into everything she does. I wish you were still here to be her daddy, you really would be so proud. She looks like you more and more everyday. We will be in Boston the weekend of may 7. They are flying us in for the weekend to see the Red Sox vs. Yankees game (she is quite the fan) and to visit you in Bourne. If anyone wants to meet up with us while we are in town please e-mail us at [email protected]. We really really miss you. Please watch over her.

Amy & Camryn

van King

February 23, 2010

I am missing u more then ever this month Norman.........I love you and I miss are fun times

Norman and I were in high school

February 4, 2010

This was a long time ago

February 4, 2010

missy tocci

December 10, 2009

Happy Birthday Norman, I still miss you like crazy. Time does not heal all wounds as people say.
I hope you are enjoying you big day. I LOVE YOU

Van King

November 20, 2009

I still miss you Norman......Love you

Cindy Darling

November 4, 2009

Hi Big Bro,
Thinking of you always.Our little home town is changing physically.But I still can picture you in the neighbourhood.Remember when I use to cry because I didn't want to go to school....n u made me hold my breath to fit my uniform jumper.I was in the first grade.LOL.Nicholas is now in the first grade.I make sure he is smiling before I send him off to school. Now M crying cus I miss you.

I am glad you were there when I cried.

jermaine petty

September 30, 2009

hey norman you still the big man.you were a little younger than me but was always bigger than all the guys.i remeber the days in key club when we had so much phone .life was sweet back then.i wanted to join the military so bad like you did.gerald and i got married and had kids....was always thinking of you and was so shocked when i found out about your loss.it was a true loss brother.we will always love you norman ...a brother we loss

leo vargas

July 27, 2009

there is not a day that passes that u are not thought of...u and patterson and euwing and the others who i served with... i remember when my hand got cut open and i needed stitches...u were there ...u helped me ...u patched me up and sent me to the captain A for some stitches...i couldnt stand the pain of the doc giving me stitches with out numbing it first..but.. u were there and u held my man and endured the pain with me till the end..now i will always remember u till the end..my wife doesnt call me darling anymore ..if she does , i break down and cry..i cry because i miss u..i cry because we talked about getting back home and taking our daughters out to disney world..we talked about having beers and playing cards while the grill was full of food cooking and watching our daughters play and ride thier bikes at the park..ur my hero man..the ultimate warrior..heaven has a new soldier

Cindy Darling

June 25, 2009

You were my Will and i your Ashley.You were my Theo and I your Rudy.Boy I miss you.My son knows you well.He talks as if you both met each other.Still can hear your voice and laughter.I see your smile every time i look in the mirror.Love you Lil bro.(Norm is actually 9 years older than me.It's just how we greeted each other)

Alric Comery

May 26, 2009

We were neighbors in Nassau Bahamas and walked to school (H.O.Nash) together. Great memories of you Norm. You will always be remembered. Rest in Peace my brother.

Gloria Danielson

May 18, 2009

You Graduated with my daughter and son-in-law from your training. You were all close and I met you at graduation. I will never forget your sacrifice and wear a bracelet in your memory on my wrist. Rest in Peace

Jeanette Richardson

April 30, 2009

My Dear Norm,

What can I say?

I'm here at work reading through past posts (especially the one about Cam looking in the sky...) and trying to hold back the tears..(without success)

You have touched so many people in such a positive way.

I think about u & miss you dearly.

Rest In Peace Norm...You are STILL loved!!!

Peggy Childers

April 29, 2009

To the family of Pfc. Norman Darling:
Norman gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Monique Rolle

February 13, 2009

Boy it has been almost five years now. And this is the first time I dreamt about you.

It was last night or early morning hours (Feb 13.2009).

The dream was that we both was so happy to see each other so we embraced each other at least twice. It felt so real so sorry but it was only a dream.

Norman and I went to the same high school H.O.Nash Secondary School. I was in the 12th grade and he was in the 11th. He had a thing for me but nothing never kicked off.

I would call him a few times and he would do the the same. I could see him right now with that biggety walk, Mr. cool walk with a sweet smile on his face.

Well my brother what a time to reflect back. God's know best and you are resting in a better place far far away. Sleep on my dear brother sleep on.

Monique Rolle

February 13, 2009

Boy it has been almost five years now. And this is the first time I dreamt about you.

It was last night or early morning hours (Feb 12/13.2009).

The dream was that we both was so happy to see each one another so we embraced each other at least twice.

It felt so real so sorry but it was only a dream.

Norman and I went to the same high school H.O.Nash Secondary School. I was in the 12th grade and he was in the 11th. He had a thing for me but nothing never kicked off.

I would call him a few times and he would do the the same. I could see him right now with that biggety walk, Mr. cool walk with a sweet smile on his face. Well my brother what a time to reflect back.

God's know best and you are resting in a better place far far away. Sleep on my dear brother sleep on.

Bernadette Oberg

November 12, 2008

Norman, Still thinking about you 4 years later...you are missed!

Becky

October 13, 2008

Just thinking of you....
I miss you more than words can say.

Sheryl Widberg

September 3, 2008

It is amazing how often you pop into my mind! I miss you!

Luis Araujo

June 14, 2008

PFC Darling
Thank you for your service and sacrifice. We are safer because of you. I also wish to express my regrets to your family who also have sacrificed for us all.

We all gave some but you gave all

In Memory of Norman ~ ( Debra Estep )

May 1, 2008

Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.


The Wind on The Downs

“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”

(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )

Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….

“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”

I did not know Norman, but I am remembering his service.
He is my hero.

~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~

The Other Side

i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.

can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.

i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side

the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)


Sincerely,

Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom and MIL

Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55

The Other Side
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol

Please contact me and I will email you back a copy of my
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.

Missy Tocci

April 25, 2008

Hi my Darling!
I am so sad coming upon this week.
I miss you like crazy and I love you more. I know I always say this but I just want to see your gorgous smile again, your happy laugh, your big brown eyes. Go for lunch, Sunday dinner, or even hang out at work.
I love you so much and never stop thinking of you.

JAMES DARLING

January 22, 2008

ITS MA BDAY DUDE,U USUALLY CALL I MISS THAT ....MISSING U STILL LILBRO

Becky

December 18, 2007

Still think about you all the time. Especially with the holidays here. I miss you and your smile.

JAMES DARLING

December 17, 2007

HEY KID THESE ARE MY BOYS ...THEY OFTEN ASK ABOUT YOU....SHAQ,LAN AND LIL MUNCH...SHAQ REMINDS ME ABOUT YOU SOO MUCH....

Missy

December 5, 2007

I miss you so much! Your birthday is coming up, I wish I could hug you again! I want to see your big beautiful smile, your funny laugh, the way you said things. I really miss you like Crazy My Darling!

Sheryl Widberg

October 16, 2007

I miss your smile! Love you!

Becky Emond

October 7, 2007

No one can ever replace you. I love you forever. You touched my soul. xoxoxo.....

jeff yearout

September 11, 2007

I miss you buddy. I think about you often and that great grin of yours. :)

I'll never forget you.

Althea B

July 27, 2007

I didn't personally know you or your family, but saw this terrible news online and felt compelled to say something! - Thank you for your service to our country and keeping me and my family safe, secure and free - You paid the ultimate price for my freedom with your life and I am forever grateful - A simple thank you seems so little at a time like this - I pray for the family and friends you left behind and hope that they can somehow find peace at this very difficult time - God Bless you and all who knew you.

Gary Allain

June 16, 2007

Pfc. Norman Darling
you are my hero
may god keep you in his arms forever.

james darling

May 28, 2007

hi lil bro my tears haven't dry,miss you much,wish i cud see you ,wish i was there...........so sorry ...until i see bro.

Missy Tocci

April 29, 2007

Hi Norm, I really can't stop thinking about you today.
I found a bunch of old pixs of you and Camryn when she was 4 months old up through about 1.5, I miss you and her tons and tons.
I hope you see her very often, and I know you're in her heart.
I miss you so mucy My Darling.
I love you tons and tons and thank you

Garnet Jenkins

April 28, 2007

May the Peace of God and the memories of Pfc. Norman Darling, remain in your heart always.
Please know how deeply sorry I was, to learn of the loss of this Brave Young Soldier.
A Multitude of Thanks, for his Courage, Dedication and Service to our Country and for Freedom.

Those who Made this Ultimate Sacrifice, So Many and So Young, shall Never Be Forgotten, my brother among them. Killed in action in Vietnam in 1967.

"Greater love hath no man than this, that he lay down his life for his friends." - John 15:13

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Becky

April 24, 2007

Thinking of you always and forever. Love you and miss you always. Your warm friendly smile. LUV U!

spud mccarey

April 19, 2007

I miss you and love you.

Missy Tocci

April 19, 2007

Hi Norm, I can't believe it's already almost that time.
It seems like just yesterday I was getting my big bear hugs and you told me you were going away.
I miss you so much. I have so many dreams about you all the time, and I always wake up crying and thinking I can just call you.
I miss you like crazy "I just want my friend back" remember that?
I love you so much and miss you so much.
I hope you're resting peacefully watching over all of us.
Thank you for being you and thank you for all you've done

Missy tocci

March 11, 2007

I see so many people that are similar looking to you with your big gorgous smile and big beautiful eyes.. and it makes me so sad. Sad i nthe selfish way that you're not here to hug me and talk to me and listen to me, or just to go to quizznos or play softball, or work out ,all the things we loved to do.
I miss you so much and I know you see our little family and know Im ok, butI wish you were here to meet Domi in person.
He's LOVE you and Cammy...
We miss you my Darling.
love you
xoxo

amy prince

March 10, 2007

I found a page in Camryn's journal It was a little tan child with curly hair looking up at the sky and Camryn said, I look up in the sky and I wonder where my dad is...
Hope he can see me!
signed
Camryn Lee Darling.
I Promise she will never ever forget about you. I tell her things about you and she smiles and laughs. Please don't worry about her she's with me and she's my miracle. Her personality is that of her daddy. calm, cool, silly, happy, just a good guy that you couldn't help to like. People like her, she treats people kindly and with respect. She's my hero just like her daddy. I promise to you that she'll make you the Proudist man in heaven. After everything said...Norm I miss you

SSG Raymond Smith

January 18, 2007

Norm

Hey brother. I Hope all is well with your family. Cammy is growing quick and is a beautiful little girl. My little boy Holland Norman is growing quick too. We have a picture of you and Chris up in his Crib so he will grow up knowing who you are. He is named after you afterall. besides, it is important for him to know what you sacrificed. Anyway, I miss you Norm and I think about you often. Stay strong up there and hold my place. I will see you when I get there.

GANO DAVIS

January 17, 2007

Hey Norman:

You were my school mate. I hope that you are safe in the Master's arm.

Becky Emond

December 13, 2006

Hey Norman...
Still think about you all the time. Especially now that we are in the middle of the holidays....Miss you bunches

Michael Coogan

December 2, 2006

Hey Darling,
I will never forget the talks and fun we had at Ft. Benning and Ft. Sam. It was an honor to be your friend the year we were together in training. I cried when I heard of your death, not only for you but for your daughter. I remember how proud of her you were and how much you missed her during training. I only knew you a year and I miss you, I can only imagine what others who knew you better feel daily. You were such a terriffic guy and you have gone too soon.

Tocci

November 11, 2006

Hi Norm, we are missing you tons as we always are.
We thank you for your sacrifice- with a heavy heart. I would rather have you here.
I love you

amy

August 7, 2006

Cam's first day of 1st grade was today. I know you were there. I know you saw. Stay with her everyday..

Bridget Chalker

July 3, 2006

To the Darling Family:



My sincere condolences for the loss of Norman. I know that Norman is with us, and I am at a loss for words having just found out about his death just minutes ago. Please email me at [email protected]



I am so sorry......



Best,

Bridget

Becky Emond

June 14, 2006

Hey, Just thinking about you and your family. Glad to hear Cammy is in contact with everyone. If the family of Norman has pictures of Cammy, please forward them on.

Pat Canfall

April 9, 2006

My condolences to the Darling family. Norman may you rest in peace. Thank you for making the ultimate sacrifice in the name of freedom. You have earned your golden halo and wings. May you continue to soar in the heavenly clouds up above.

cindy darling

February 22, 2006

Hi Sweetie,

I miss you so much. "Cam" was here in the Bahamas, your home town. I know you were so glad to see her with us. I still cry up to this day. I don't ever think I could get to grisp with the fact that your'e still gone. Guess what? Ur little sister is to be wedded soon. I always use to imagine my four brothers and daddy walking me down the aisle. First Chris, Jaye, Rodney then "You" followed by Daddy. And when the preacher says, Who gives this woman to be wed?" you all say, "We do!!" But you will be there with me in spirit.And I'll do something special at my service in your honor. I miss you and love you so much.Your smile right now and laughter brightens my gloomy day.

Sleep Peacefully,

Cindy.

Missy Tocci

February 19, 2006

Norm, Its almost two years now. I miss you no less any day!

I love you and think of you all the time.

Steve and I were just going through pics of you and Cam last night!!! You are so special and we love you both.

SSG Raymond Smith

February 17, 2006

Norman. We are climbing up to two years gone now. I cannot believe it. My wife and I are having a baby in May and we decided to name him after you and Chris. His name is going to be Holland Norman Smith. He will know who you were and what you gave for your country and for all of us on the line. Your are a Great American D-bo and i will never forget you.

Becky Emond

February 16, 2006

Hey Norman,

Just checkin in....miss you so much. I still think about you often. Melissa and I were talking about the old days when we used to all meet up and chill....I went to the old meeting grounds a week ago and it didn't feel the same without you. You have had such an impact on so many lives....we all miss you so much...there is not a better man around!!!! miss you. hugs and kisses. I'll check in soon

diane rooney

January 3, 2006

to the family i am sorry for your loss,i too lost my beloved husband sfc robert rooney 9-25-2003,norman is buried 2 sites away from my husband,i try to put alittle something there when i am there visiting my husabnd,godbless you all and norman you are truly a hero to us all. diane rooney

Jamie Graves

November 12, 2005

God Bless~ Land of the free,because of the brave.(Jamie,Navy wife)

Cindy Darling

October 30, 2005

Thanks to everyone for all of your support over the past year and a half.It's still hard for me to say goodbye.It still hurts. Before he died he visited me in a dream. I can walk through the whole neighbourhood and still see him standinding clearly. His laughter and voice still hunts me.

I love you big brother and your memories will be with me where ever I go in the world. The last thing you said to me was you love me.Thanks for visiting me in my dreams to let me know you are okay.I know you've seen Nicholas ( your nephew) from your view up in heaven. You've got the best view in the house. His hair line was just like yours from what I can see by looking at your baby pictures.He just turned two on the 27th. Him and Cam could pass as siblings.



" When I'm feeling down,

Like I can't make it,

I think of you big brother,

And I know I can take it."



"Memories don't die like people do.

They always memba you.

Weatha tings are good or bad,

It's jus da memories dat we have."



Love Cindy

Ur Big Sis.

Raymond Smith

October 14, 2005

hey Norm,



Its me again. it has been now a year and a half since you've been gone and i still remember that day so vividly. I guess i always will. I haven't been in touch with the rest of the guys as much as i should be, but i still have your bracelet and tell people about you often. I really can't believe it has been as long as it has. I wonder how you are doing now and if your new life is as productive as the old. I know where you are and why you are there. It is your reward for so great a sacrifice. Rest well and keep your eyes and hands on us always. We remember you well.



SGT Smith

Missy Tocci

August 24, 2005

Norm, today is Cammy's bday and I know you are watching her in heaven.

Amy sent me a bunch of pictures, she is beautiful and a clone of you.

She looks happy in all of the pictures, she knows you are with her.

I love you and miss you babe!

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