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Ronald Payne Obituary

PAYNE, CPL. RONALD R., JR., age 23, of Lakeland, FL, died on Friday, May 7, 2004 in a rocket-propelled grenade attack in Tawara, Afghanistan. Born December 31, 1980, in Lakeland, FL, Cpl. Payne was employed as a Recon Scout and was a member of Calvary Baptist Church. Survivors include his father, Ronald R. Payne, Sr. of Lakeland, FL; stepmother, Aileen Payne of Lakeland, FL; sisters, Rachel, and Valerie, both of Lakeland, FL; mother, Kathy Seymour of Lakeland, FL; brother, Keith of Lakeland, FL; and sister, Heather of Lakeland, FL. Funeral services will be held on Saturday, May 15, 2004, at 10 a.m. at Calvary Baptist Church, Lakeland, FL. The family will receive friends Saturday morning from 9 a.m. until service time at the church. Lanier Funeral Home of Lakeland, FL, is directing. <>

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Published by AL.com (Birmingham) on May 14, 2004.

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Darlene Wallace

May 19, 2020

Memorial Day is coming up again! Sempre Fi Marine Rest Easy

Darlene Wallace

May 23, 2019

Sempre Fi Marine! Its Memorial Day again and I thought of you! Rest Easy

Darlene Wallace

October 25, 2018

I missed May this year! Had a lot going on!

You're always remembered!

Darlene Wallace

May 10, 2017

SEMPRE FI MARINE

Darlene Wallace

May 19, 2016

Heard the song Stephen Cochran sings about you the other day. RIP Marine!!!

Darlene Wallace

May 19, 2015

I think about you and your family during the month of May!

Darlene Wallace

May 21, 2014

Remembering this Marine today!

Jack & Mariee Williams

May 29, 2012

Was an awesome memorial tribute your parents and your church had given to the three Heroes. Thank you my Marine for the unselfish services yu have shown and given Semper Fi

Darlene Wallace

May 28, 2012

I am remembering you today!

Cyndi Conte

May 9, 2012

As this anniversary date approaches, I pray your hearts be comforted by wonderful memories of Ron.

Peggy Childers

May 8, 2012

May 7, 2012
To the family and friends of Cpl. Ronald R. Payne, Jr.:
Always remembering Ronald. "Some gave all."

Jack & Marie Williams

May 31, 2011

The Memorial your parents prepared was awesome. Aileen is so dedicated to give tribute to your memory and to honor also others. How great can it be to have parents like them, in spite of the emptiness they feel everyday missing your presence they find peace and comfort honoring families that lost a son too in the war. We remember and always will. Semper Fi

Darlene Wallace

May 30, 2011

I only met Cpl Payne briefly before he left for his mission to fight for our freedom. On this Memorial Day I want to light this candle in your memory. I love Stephen Cochran's song about you and I get goose bumps everytime I hear it. Semper Fi Marine.

Mariee & Jack Williams

May 8, 2011

My computer was down yesterday. I would like to write to you but anyway I am thinking of you and your family, the day day you were taken from us is a day to remember. I cannot imagine how your father , your parents deal each day without you. I know I am still hurting and missing my son so much and I know your loving parents misses you too. Semper Fidelis is the word and it's for you Marine

Peggy Childers

May 7, 2011

To the family and friends of Cpl. Ronald R. Payne, Jr.:
Please accept my remembrance of Ronald on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Peggy Childers
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Mariee Williams

May 5, 2011

This month is special for your family to remember you. I know it's been seven years, the time pass and I know it doesn't make any difference. Your family misses you and we will remember and continually honor you Marine. I cannot wait for the day OF Remembrance that we are going to celebrate your bravery, courage and Heroism.Semper Fi

Crystal Tributino

May 4, 2011

Dear Ron,
As the 7th year approaches of you being gone you would think it would get easier. Unfortunately it hasnt, I miss you so much Ron my heart hurts. I love you for your courage, wisdom and tender heart. I miss the many laughs and wonderful times we shared and all your "feel good shirts" lol! I was reading through all the letters I recieved from you when you were in boot camp and realized that nobody has ever loved or loves me the way you did. I still remember the first time you said it standing outside the gym of our highschool. I was so upset and crying and you lifted my head by my chin and said "just stop baby I love you and dont like to see you cry" you kissed away my tears and held me close and I knew from that moment you had my heart forever! I miss you more than ever Ron and look forward to the day we meet again your my angel and my inspiration and I think of you every day. Semper Fi Marine!

Jack & Mariee Williams

January 3, 2011

Another year has passed again. We are in the good New Year, and know that we all think of you

Crystal Eberhart

December 31, 2010

happy birthday cousin Ron I love and miss you! <3

Jack & Maria Williams

December 20, 2010

Just thinking of you guys. Semper Fidelis

Crystal Eberhart

December 16, 2010

I miss my cousin dearly , I wish he could see me grow up. every x-mas is hard for me since Rons b-day is the 31st. The of loss was so sad i've never cried that much in my life. He's in my prayers in my thoughts and theres not a holiday i go without thinking about him. I love you so much and my family. I was I was closer to the family but i'm not that doesn't stop me from loving yall! Your truely missed Ron I love you!
xoxo Crystal

Marie Williams

August 29, 2010

Still thinking about you. You will always be remembered Bubba. Semper Fidelis

troy linnabery

August 27, 2010

hi my name is troy and for a assignment in my rotc class we have to do a written report on one of our passed marines and now that i read about him im honored to have got him god bless.

Peggy Childers

May 7, 2010

To the family and friends of Cpl. Ronald R. Payne, Jr.:
Remembering Ronald on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Pam Vickers

May 6, 2010

Words rarely fail me but right now I find there are none to express what I want to say. So here is my best effort...Aileen, my dearest friend, my sister in Christ, my inspiration...my heart and my prayers are for you and your family and all who loved your son. as we are reminded again of the loss this world suffered when he left it. Yet knowing you and Ronnie as I do, I stand with you in rejoicing over Ron and celebrating the FACT that he is with Jesus and that in our appointed time, we will join them. I love you more than I can say. xoxo Pam

pris geneve

May 5, 2010

Dear Ronald, we never met and our paths never crossed. However I admired you. I admired the courage in you and the bravery in you. You were truely a great warrior God sent. It's your 6th anniversary and I just wanted to let you know you will forever be remembered by all those whose life you've touched.

Mr.& Mrs. Williams

February 24, 2010

Hi Bubba, I know it's been almost six years but we are thinking of you. I have made shirts for your Mom & dad at least I can do to thank them for giving the country a son like you. We will always be thankful for your services.

Melanie Staubitz

July 4, 2009

Dear Payne Family,
I belong to the Prayer Shawl Ministry at my church, Messiah Lutheran Church, in Greenhills (Cincinnati), Ohio, and we belong to the national group PS4FS (Prayer Shawls for Fallen Soldiers). We would be honored to send anyone in the Payne family that desires it, a prayer shawl. Please contact me if we can do this for you. We are so grateful for your and Ron's ultimate sacrifice. It is just sad that it has to be done this way, but we know that freedom isn't free. Thank you and God Bless You.

Family Williams

May 24, 2009

OOHRAH Marines. We are thinking of you and thank you Marines . Semper Fi

Peggy Childers

May 7, 2009

To the family of Cpl. Ronald R. Payne, Jr.:
Ronald gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Maj M. B. Parlor

January 10, 2009

Devil Dawg:

You are most certainly NOT forgotten, and I proudly display Your photograph upon my MySpace and Facebook sites....

Semper Fi,
"Major Pain"

Coleman Bryan

January 9, 2009

I served with Ron in Afghanistan, I was in BLT 1/6 A co. Although I didn't know Ron personally, his reputation preceeded him for being an outstanding Marine. Ron fought and died very valiantly and was a real life hero. May he rest in peace and Ron's family is in my prayers.

Maj M. B. Parlor

June 23, 2008

Devil Dawg:

May Your Soul Rest - In - Peace.

Semper Fi,
"Major Pain"

Momma Aileen and Pappa Payne

May 7, 2008

"4 years ago, the 2 Marines came to our door. Today it is you that filled our day. Your boy Johnny C wanted to spend the all whole day with us, he came to your place and had dinner with us to enjoy stories about you. Doc Consey called to check up on us as did your other boys. Your boys will come together again this year...for you and to carry their adopted family. Thank you for the beautiful memories you left them and us ...it is what we cling to ..it allows us to feel close to you. Your boy Shane sent us pictures of you and him we have never saw before. We love you Bubba, never will we ever forget."

In Memory of Ronald ~ ( Debra Estep )

May 7, 2008

Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.


The Wind on The Downs

“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”

(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )

Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….

“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”

I did not know Ronald, but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !

~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~

The Other Side

i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.

can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.

i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side

the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)

“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008

Visit this link to hear the song.

The Other Side –
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol



Sincerely,

Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom and MIL

Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55

Please contact me and I will email you back a copy of my
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.

Maria Williams

May 6, 2008

To you , Marines. Another year has passed, and I know that your dad & mom is thinking about you so as we. At about two more hours the date will change. May 07, a memorable day that each of us here will remember. I also know that Rae is thinking about you with tears. Your family are so proud of you and loves you so very much. Missing you is the word. You have great Mom & Dad that will always remember you . And Marine, you will never be forgotten. Thank you and Semper Fidelis.

Stephen Wilson

April 18, 2008

I saw Cpl Payne's story on the History Channel this morning 04/18/08). Having a son that spent 2 years in Iraq that God delivered safely home, I can only imagine what it would be like to have lost a son in courageous defense of the most free country in the world. Our prayers go out to his family and to all who have lost loved ones in defense of the freedoms I/we enjoy today. God bless America and all who are presently serving in harms way.

Cyndi Conte

January 9, 2008

Ron - I think about you everytime I see Valerie - you two look so much alike! Kevin is on his second tour of Iraq but brother, he is on the down hill with 80 or so days to go -Yippie! He sure speaks of you often! The big bro he always looked up to... We saved the episode of "Shootout" telling your unit's story - we watch it often- not to view the devistation of it- but to remember you and remind us to continue to pray for your family (even those I've never met). You're a hero - never to be forgotten and your family as well, for their courage. Cyndi - (Kevin & Amanda's mom)

Momma Payne

December 31, 2007

12-31-07
Happy 27th birthday Bubba. I spent the day out at your place. We couldn't all be together out there, but we still exchanged gifts. Rae gave us a beautiful memorial for us to put by your pics in the house. We miss you so much. I felt as I was out there making your flower saddle for your monument, that we should be planning a surprise birthday party, like Rae did for your last birthday....not making a flower arrangement for your headstone. I know you love being with Jesus. I hope you know how much we miss you. So many called to check on us. You have no idea what a gift that is.
We love you.

Valerie Wyer

December 3, 2007

As I browse through the photo album, I see this very beautiful family. My heart is saddened by your loss of the loved one. I can't help but look at you picture Mrs. Payne and it seems that I have seen you before.

August 15, 2007

There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.

Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.

I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.

REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!

PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)

Patsy Jo Reed Sircy

August 14, 2007

Sincere sympathy and love, Pat - R.N.

Jack and Maria Williams

July 1, 2007

Hi, no bond is as great between a parents and a child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve. As we mourn these brave souls,let us do it in a manner that brings honor and dignity to their passing. This ultimate sacrifice was not in vain, but just to the preservation of freedom that only we as American understand. My son, your son, they have gone to a place of honor. A place where they have joined the many who have created the legacy we serve to protect and uphold. May God wraps you in his care.Thank you brave Marine for your dedication and courage. You are worthy of our honor and continued appreciation. I truly believe that our nation will forever remain strong and free, because of those who go forth to defend her.I thank you and your family for this noble life that was sacrificed for our freedom. Talking to your family, mom,dad and sister already feel like we know you well.It was great to meet them and shared our tears and stories. You have given each one of us an extended family.They are wonderful people. Semper Fidelis.

Pam Vickers

June 27, 2007

Tonight I was blessed with the opportunity to share memories and pictures of you with your Mom. She never tires of bragging about you and laughing at happy times. She also never runs out of tears for she misses you deeply. Please know that I will ALWAYS be here for her, she is my best friend. I will remember, laugh and cry right along with her. She is one of the strongest women I have ever known. She is brave and compassionate. She taught you by her own personal example. She has saddness in her eyes, but never FEAR! She is not afraid of never seeing you again, she KNOWS she will!! You have left her, and the rest of the ones that love you, with a comfort beyond anything found here on this earth. That comfort comes from knowing that you had a personal relationship with Jesus Christ and are in Heaven right now. What a beautiful peace, a gift a blessing. May the God of Grace watch over your loved ones as they wait for the day they can be with you again.

May 7, 2007

"Hey my Bubba,
Dad and I spent the day sharing your boy's story about your Marine days. Your sister Rae gave us a CD of your songs. We got to listen to the CD while being out there feeling the Lord's arms around us. Thank you so much that you gave your all, that you gave us all a safer place to live. We have met some families, spoke to a lot of heroic soldiers but at the end of the day.....we don't have you. That is, I believe the hardest thing for us to deal with, not to get angry with but most of all not get hopeless over.
I remember you telling us one time when I told you I wasn't ready to go through another war. You said, "mom when I joined the Marines you joined the Marines". When I said, "I don't remember signing on the dotted line". You told me to "suck it up". I guess that says it all. So when we feel dispair,angry or plain hopeless, I will remember your words of wisdom..."We'll just suck it up".
We love you so, and will carry on your name, your wisdom and your testimony as long as we have breathe to do it.
Thank you for giving us so many memories to carry us until we meet you again.
Love
Mom and Dad"

shawnee (Austin, TX)

February 5, 2007

I, too, just watched the history channel program about your loved one and others. I am so sorry about your loss.
Rest in Peace Cpl Payne.

Marty Howard (MHS-'73)

February 5, 2007

To the Payne family; I just watched the History Channel program on Ron and would like to offer my sympathies for your loss. May you always remember his smile, his laugh and willingness to serve and sacrifice for others.

Pam Vickers

January 6, 2007

Aileen, Ronnie and Rae, as my own husband arrived safely back from Iraq onto American soil this very day, I feel most profoundly both a sense of relief for my own family and of saddness for yours. I will never forget the day you (Aileen) brought Ron into my office in Winter Haven when he was home on leave. There he stood, a giant of a man with a beet red face telling me "thank you for the underwear". Now that Tim has been there, I understand the need for the "bare necessities". I was touched that he kept the card I sent him. How this man truely CARED about the people who cared about him! Aileen, we have been friends for 21 years now and I will never be able to tell you how much you mean to me. I love Ron as if you shared him with me too. Thank you for that! Rae, I will never be able to tell you how I feel about you either. Your Mom is an amazing woman and she is so proud of you. The strength and pure love you all have demonstrated through the tragic loss you have suffered is truely humbeling.
I will continue to lift you all up to our Heavenly Father. May HIS love and mercy comfort you throughout your days. For your son's sacrifice, I am a grateful American.
Pam Vickers

Valerie Payne-Anderson

December 25, 2006

Merry Christmas Ron. Things are never the same, we all miss you so much. I love you.

Lisa Leonardo

October 23, 2006

To the Payne family I just want to say that your son was one of the nicest Marines to ever come to my home. He was very respectable around my self and my children. I have several pictures of him from a party at Moran's home back in 2002. I'll never forget him teaching my son who was 2 years old at the time to play the drums. He truely exemplified what it ment to be a United States Marine. His death affected every one that knew him in 2d LAR. We will never forget him. God Bless

rae

October 19, 2006

The missing is the worst Bubba. But its just one more day closer to you. I will wear my uniform with pride and gratitude!

October 17, 2006

you will not be forgotten brother. Josh Fowler 2nd Lar Bn

Ron's basketball team from Mulberry High School

September 29, 2006

2 Marines, 1 heart, like father like son

September 29, 2006

Ron last birthday.The last birthday card his parents gave him.

September 29, 2006

Yolanda Valdez

September 12, 2006

To the family of Cpl Ronald R.Payne Jr.,



We understand what you are experiencing and feeling. No amount of words can ease the pain of your loss. We know firsthand there are no words of comfort at this time. We lost our only son 9~3~2004 at the age of 19 and it fells like yesterday. Just know that there are Marine families across the USA who is experiencing your loss and pain.



May he rest in peace knowing that he was loved and remembered by those who knew him as well as strangers who admired his courage and sacrifice? My deepest condolences, sympathy and prayers go out to the entire family. May God grant you peace, strength and comfort? I will keep your family in my prayers along with all the families of our American Hero’s. Another Fallen Hero --Thank you.



Ronald ~ My family and I are thankful for the Bravery, Courage, Determinination and Service to fight for our country (our freedom), from you, my son and all the others in our armed forces for the sacrifice made for us. You all will not be forgotten.



We also have a Marine daughter and Marine son-in-law. We are proud of all of you. I still fly my Marine flag and have my Marine tag and sticker on my vehicles because I'm PROUD of my SON and ALL THOSE MARINES out there. I will always be a Marine.



Once a Marine, Always a Marine!

Yesterday, Today, Forever – Semper Fi - Marines!



Proud Marine Parents of an American Hero

(LCpl. Nicholas S. Perez – KIA 9~3~04 – Al Anbar Province, Iraq)

Garnet Jenkins

September 7, 2006

Remembering Cpl. Ronald R. Payne Jr., with a Multitude of Thanks for his Service and Dedication to our Country and our Freedom.

Rest well in God's Loving Care and know that you will NEVER BE FORGOTTEN.

May God's Grace and comfort, continue to be with the Payne family.

From the sister of a Fallen young hero, who made the Ultimate Sacrifice in Vietnam. KIA~1967.



Those we love remain with us, for love itself lives on...

And cherished memories never fade, Because a loved one's gone....

Those we love can never be, more than a thought apart....

For as long as there is memory, They will live on in the heart.

May the memories of your loved one live in your heart always.

sheila

August 1, 2006

What wonderful memories are captured in your photos. He obviously lived a full life and touched many many people. May he rest in peace, and may his family be comforted.

Pat Lorenzen

July 19, 2006

The Payne Family: I just found this site & have been viewing pic's & reading about our heroes. What a good looken young soldier. I am so sorry about your loss. My heart is heavy for you. It sounds like you are making a wonderful difference out of your sorrow. God bless you & may He continue to make His face to shine upon you.

Sincerely,

July 15, 2006

To the family of Cpl. Ronald R. Payne Jr:

I just read your entry in our son's guestbook and wanted to sign Cpl. Payne's book. I have been signing all books since the date of Brent's death and have all along intended to somehow and someday sign all of them in here. I am so sorry for your loss and please know that if you ever want to talk I'm here. The families these courageous young men and women have left behind are indeed forming a support group and although I wish there was no need - unfortunately there is. I would love to hear more about your Hero.

Pam Adams (SFC Brent A. Adams, KIA 12/1/05, Ramadi Iraq)

The first boy named after Ron by one of his Marine brothers Jake Moore wife Heather Moore- Drake "Payne" Moore

July 15, 2006

Our first Thanksgiving without Ron-Doc and Cash drove down to be with us

July 15, 2006

Our 2nd Memorial service- more of Ron's men came to be with us Holly's(KIA 6-23-05) best friend Danelle- Our sons

July 15, 2006

Our Doc Shawny-He drove straight to Florida from NC to be with us when he heard of Ron's death.

July 15, 2006

Ron's boys came to be with us our 1st Memorial Day-At Bubba's resting place

July 15, 2006

Ron and Jake Moore

July 15, 2006

Us with the Snyders & Tristen "Payne"

July 15, 2006

July 5, 2006

We enjoyed Independance Day and thought that you would have been out on the streets with the kids with your fireworks. We enjoy this because of you. We were able to share your story in Alabama this weekend...they got to hear of your sacrifice and you as a wonderful young man. Many told us that they would be more appreciative of their freedom since they have heard of you. That the sacrifice our men and women made daily for us was seen differently, because of you. You have no idea, what an impact you have made. We have been able to share God's love and your testimony. We are always amazed at the people and places the Lord has brought us, to share your story and His love. We know the Lord gave you to us...we want to bring you to them.

We love you Bubba, thank you for this gift.

Until we see you again,

Dad and Mom

Heaven calling Ron-picture received from Ron 1 month to his death from a package he sent before his death

June 1, 2006

Ron in Afghanistan-picture in Ron's camera when parents received his things

June 1, 2006

Ron in his boys-picture was in Ron's camera when his things were recieved by his parents

June 1, 2006

Our family meeting President Bush 3 months after Ron's death

June 1, 2006

Ron's dad a former Marine and his Uncle Bob a former Marine giving Ron the final salute at his funeral.

June 1, 2006

Memorial placed in front of Ron's high school-Mulberry High- by the ROTC

June 1, 2006

Ron and Flynn in Afghanistan

aileen payne

June 1, 2006

valerie (payne) anderson

May 30, 2006

i love you forever

doc

February 28, 2006

hey brother just wanted to say from me and the rest of the platoon that we miss ya and love ya p-poppa

Amber Sapp

February 10, 2006

Ronnie you where a wonderful man. So kind hearted throughout school. You where always there for me. You will always be in my heart. Love always!!

Vangi & McKaLyne Lunsford

January 30, 2006

Psalm 23



1

The LORD is my shepherd, I shall not be in want.

2

He makes me lie down in green pastures, he leads me beside quiet waters,

3

He restores my soul. He guides me in paths of righteousness for his name's sake.

4

Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.

5

You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies. You anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows.

6

Surely goodness and love will follow me all the days of my life, and I will dwell in the house of the LORD forever.



This is a verse that I have found to be comforting to me during my husbands death. Remember that when it seems that no one else is round, God is still there with you! And he will be your rock!



My daughter,McKaLyne, and I send our heartfelt sympathy for your loss! God Bless this warrior, God Bless those whom serve freedom's cause! They are our true HERO's!!!!



If you need anything, please feel free to contact me!!!



Wife & Daughter of the Late

Sgt. Audrey Daron Lunsford

KIA May 23, 2005

L JONES

January 1, 2006

THEY SAY THE GOOD DIE YOUNG. AND THIER RIGHT. YOUR MOM (KATHY) WAS ALWAYS SO PROUD OF YOU. I ONLY MEET YOU A COUPLE OF TIMES BUT I COULD TELL YOU WERE A GOOD PERSON. YOU ARE SO SADLY MISSED.

Dad and Mom

November 24, 2005

Today is thanksgiving and a day of giving thanks. How ironic that we are thankful for the very gift you had to die for. We love you and miss you terribly. We talk of you everyday and spend a lot of time laughing because you always made us laugh. Family seems even more sweeter and you are even more a part of our holidays even though you are in Heaven. We are so proud that you are our son, our hero and our angel. Your boys have never forgotton to call us as you would have expected them too. They have pick up where you have instructed them too and keep us in their hearts always. Thank you for leaving you in their hearts so they may continue to share in our lives. We love you and long for the day we will be able to hug your neck again. Love

Cari Hicks

September 1, 2005

I knew Ron growing up, but never really knew him till he joined the marines. One memory I think of when I think of Ron is one of the last times he had come home on leave. I was dating a good friend of Rons at the time. Him and Ron had decided to hang out and Ron begged me to come along!! I couldn't believe it, I'd always known Ron and talked to him, but we were never good friends! That night we ended up renting a movie, Ron and I ended up talking the whole time! Mark fell asleep, and Ron just talked to me about what he had been up to, asking me what I'd been up to, and then to my amazement started talking to me about this problem he was having with this girl!!! It cracked me up....I never knew he was so talkative!!! I will never forget that moment or how he used to treat my brother! My brother wanted to go into the military because of Ron. Ron always took time to be a good mentor for Brad. Brad played football and Ron always made it a point to ask Brad about it and give him pointers. Brad didn't have a lot of positive male influences in his life and Ron was one of them! I hate that Ron is gone, but am so happy that it has brought me and his family together! I now know why he was such a great man, because of his great family! We share a bond that cannot be broken and I am forever greatful! Ron is once again Brads role model in Heaven....We all know Brad needs someone to keep him out of mischief up there and theres no one better than Ron. Just think, one day we will all be reunited with our Boys!!!

Memorial Service for Ron in Afghanistan. 5 Man missing planes

August 10, 2005

The base in Afghanistan named after him. FOB Payne ( Forward Operating Base)

August 10, 2005

Ron weeks before his death, with Afghan children

August 10, 2005

rebecca warden

August 8, 2005

to the payne family its been over a year but will never forget you in our prayers the 1/6 is in fallujah iraq but will be home soon a marine mom

The big green giant at 6'7 and his rugby buddy Sgt Brown

August 1, 2005

Ron with a couple of his best buds-Cash & Doc

August 1, 2005

Ron's unit before begin deployed to Afghanistan

August 1, 2005

Rachel his sister and her best friend and brother.

August 1, 2005

His favorite Camie outfit his parents bought for him at 7 years old.

August 1, 2005

Parents of Ron Payne-Ronnie and Aileen Payne taken right before he left for Afghanistan. 3-05

August 1, 2005

Last pic took with his sister Rae. Ron playing around with Rae's computer camera

August 1, 2005

Photo taken before he left to Afghanistan 3-05 at parent's house in Lakeland, Florida

August 1, 2005

Daniel Nowak

June 14, 2005

Ron, You were a great first roommate once we got the the fleet. I remember seeing you in boot camp, mainly because of your height, and thinking that you reminded me of someone I knew in high school. Then when we went to SOI together and I got to know you I realized that you were a pretty cool dude. We spent a lot of time together, you and I, both good and bad. I am glad that I had the opportunity to meet you, and wish that I could have talked you out of going over there again. When I found out that you were gone, I went to be by myself and think about you and mourn for you and try to remember all the things that we went through, and what a total stand up guy you were. I know that you died doing what you wanted to do, which is something that not many people can say, and that makes me a little happier. You should still be here for me to make fun of. If your parents are reading this or ever do, I just want you to know that your son was one of the best guys that I knew while I was in the service, the kind of guy that would do anything for you and stick with you when times got tough. He never gave up on anything, and I think that he truly loved what he was doing. I am sorry that his life had to end this soon, but take consolation in the fact that his life touched a great many people in a positive way. Peace.

Jennifer Tyndall

June 5, 2005

Hey Ron. I'm wish we never saw your name here. You are a wonderful friend. All the guys miss you and wish you were home. Thanks for everything you did for us.

Angel

June 3, 2004

Those of our country who cherish freedom and democracy are honored by your sacrifice.

Marine Mom

May 25, 2004

You will forever be in our hearts and we will forever be grateful for your ultimate sacrifice to protect our country. God Bless You.

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