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Menya Montiel Baria
August 27, 2018
Menya Montiel-Thompson
January 17, 2015
It's been a while since my last post. Just want the Neeley family know that he is ALWAYS on my mind. He was the one during AIT to call me Grandma since i was the oldest. The night before he went out on his mission. He was so HAPPY to have finally go outside the wire on mission as a gunner. I am very proud to have spent time with him during our AIT. And be deployed at the same time. He he always on my heart.
Gretchen Pitts
August 24, 2014
I can't believe it has been ten years tomorrow since your passing. I remember talking to you the night before. You had just gotten back from your R&R. I will never forget you and your family. Always in my thoughts and prayers. You are not forgotten.
Charlie Gili
December 8, 2013
Hello,
We would like to express our deepest condolences and also let the Neeley Family and friends know that we will be sending Care Packages to troops in Afghanistan this week and we'll be dedicating several of these to your loved one. Each package will carry the name, photo and the hometown of Charles L. Neeley US Army Specialist. We realize that this is a small tribute, but we do this with all respect and sincerity and we want you to know that it is made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals from across the American youth hockey community. We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of the US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign
Kirk Salmela
June 19, 2013
Carry on, Chuck, from your HS principal.
June 19, 2013
Carry on, Chuck, from your HS principal.
Ashley Sprinkle
June 24, 2012
Today my husband and I attended worship at Peachtree Road United Methodist Church in Atlanta, GA where they were having their annual Freedom service. During this service they honor all of those who fought in current and previous wars. On the front lawn is a display called Prayers for Peace which is a display of beautiful gold and blue ribbons each with the name, rank and age of someone who has given his or her life in the Iraqi and Afghanistan wars. Members of the church are encouraged to write down the name of a soldier and pray for him or her and their family and friends who miss them. We chose Mr. Neeley's name and looked him up on the internet so we could know him better and have a connection with him in some way while we prayed for him and for all of those who knew him and loved him. We thank him for his sacrifice for our country and we will pray for those he left behind. God Bless.
Sgt Amanda Sliker
August 27, 2011
Another year and we dont forget!
Peggy Childers
August 25, 2011
To the family and friends of Spc. Charles L. Neeley:
Please accept my remembrance of Charles on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
amanda sliker
November 11, 2010
happy veterans day Neeley! the 454th remembers you!!
September 12, 2010
Hi, Chuck:
Your service and sacrifice are not forgotten. Yesterday was 9-11. You remember my son Chase, your 2003 Mattoon HS classmate. His boots hit American soil one year ago yesterday, after serving a year in Afghanistan. Your memory and Chase coming home make that imfamous date sweeter. You didn't get to come home as we planned, but you are loved to this day. God bless you, Chuck.
Your high school principal, Kirk Salmela, Fort Collins, Colorado. September 12, 2010.
Peggy Childers
August 25, 2010
To the family and friends of Spc. Charles L. Neeley:
Remembering Charles on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Kenna Larra
September 12, 2009
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Sincerely and Respectfully,
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Peggy Childers
August 25, 2009
To the family of Spc. Charles L. Neeley:
Charles gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Kirk Salmela
February 3, 2009
I always liked Chuck. He was devoted to his fellow students and members of the Army JROTC while in high school. Although quiet, I always thougtht he had a great sense of humor. He smiled and made me smile. I was in Colorado when I learned of Chuck's death. It hit me pretty hard. I remember shaking his hand at the instant he graduated from high school. He made it. I knew his journey would lead to serving his nation. He sacrificed his life, but he made it. I couldn't be more proud. Our world is a lesser place because Chuck is gone, but Heaven is a greater place because of his presence. I was Chuck's high school principal during his four years at Mattoon High School, Mattoon, Illinois. Dr. Kirk R. Salmela
Pastor Frank Noyes
September 16, 2008
Dear family of Spc. Charles L. Neeley,
We want to say thank you. We understand that no words can be adequate for your sorrow. We certainly do not want to intrude upon your privacy. As Americans we want you to know that we deeply appreciate the ultimate sacrifice your loved one has made for all of us. We also would like for you to be aware that with this letter comes our special concern and prayers for you. We are all safer because young men and women who love their country, and know the value of a free nation, are willing to put themselves in harms way, and lay down their lives to keep this nation free and safe for all of us.
Your sacrifice is also very great. We know that we can give little comfort; however, the knowledge that your loved one did not die in vain, but died in the service of our country, gives each of us a noble example of the value of life, and the responsibility of freedom. We hope this will bring pride and comfort to you.
We at Gethsemane Church believe that there is purpose to life. We send this letter with our deepest appreciation for the greatest of sacrifices, you and your loved one have given to this country. We know it is not enough, but please allow us to assure you that your loved one is not forgotten.
Very Sincerely
Frank G. Noyes
Frank G. Noyes (Pastor)
Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.
(Jn. 15:13)
April 18, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Spc Neeley!
Justin Johnson
October 15, 2007
I was talking with my fiancee' tonight about my first trip to Iraq and Chucks name came up and how life is just too short to worry about the little things in life. I lived accross the hall from Neeley and I had spoke to him the night before the incident. He had lent me his webcam so I could talk and see my family back home and I was returning it. That was my first tour of two and I can't tell you enough how much he is missed, I may not have known him as well as some but I knew him well enough to know his joy for life and his love for his family. I think and dream about him often and how his spirit has touched many lives. Neeley's outlook on life has forever changed mine ( for the better ), and I can only hope that I have half the love of life that he had. He will be forever missed and never forgotten! I remember seeing his mother and father at the home-coming and I didn't have the courage to walk up to them and tell them how sorry I was that he was gone and how much he would be forever missed. I wish that I could have that day back and walk up to you and tell you myself and say that I was sorry and that he has truly changed my outlook on life and thank you for doing such a great job of raising your son. I didn't realize then how much of an effect he would have on my life and all I can say is thank you so much and I am truly sorry for your loss and that he will be forever missed. He can never be replaced nor should he be, just know that he will never be forgotten by those that knew and cared about him!
Samantha Wallen
September 7, 2007
Sorry about your loss. I wish I could have one day met Charles. From what I have heard he seemed to be a very excellent and caring guy.
Menya Baria
August 10, 2007
The other day I was driving down the 5 south going back to San Diego. As I was driving I saw a tow truck called Neeley Towing. All I was thinking of him making a joke of the tow truck and also taking pride in knowing that his name is in california. I sure do miss him a great deal. I have joined the California National Guard. I was also thinking of going Active Duty again. I miss you Neeley say hi to my girls in heaven for me. Love you always.
Sara M
August 9, 2007
I was with SPC Neeley in Tikrit when he passed. I was very close with him and a few other people. We all formed our own little "group" and went everywhere together. SPC Neeley taught me a lot of things about life. He made me realize that life is too short to be mad or hold grudges against anyone. Also to live in the moment. He was so passionate about life, family and friends. I am so sorry to all that loved him for this horrible loss but know at least one thing... SPC Neeley touched so many people and his name will always go along with the word HERO. You should be proud of him as I know I am. God Bless you all and God Speed Neeley!!!
July 27, 2007
If this person can stand in battle to ensure my freedom, then I will stand in grief with his/her family to honor him/her. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life, but I promised Le Ron A. Wilson (a dear friend KIA 7/6/07, 18yrs old) that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Althea (NY)
July 12, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Spc Neeley and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
Amanda Sliker
November 29, 2006
Juat wanted to say that I served with Neeley oversease and sang at his memorial service. It was a terrible loss and i will never forget it for the rest of my life.
Garnet Jenkins
August 25, 2006
Paying tribute to Spc. Charles L. Neeley on the anniversary of the day he lost his life, while serving our Country, with a Great Amount of Thanks for his service and dedication to our Country and our Freedom.
May Charles rest, in the Mighty Hands of God and know that he is an American Hero.
May God's Loving Grace and Comfort continue to be with the Neeley family.
Those who Made the Ultimate Sacrifice, So Many and So Young, shall NEVER BE FORGOTTEN.
My brother, also 19 years young, among them. KIA-Vietnam 1967.
" What we once enjoyed and deeply loved we can never lose,
for all that we love deeply becomes a part of us"
~ Helen Keller ~
Hoping you continue to feel the thoughts of caring and support that surround you each day, as this Country mourns with you, for someone very precious to you, who is a Hero to all of us.
sgt. meranda arrenquin
June 1, 2006
neely was a classmate of mine as we trained in the class of 47 truck. he was very quiet and seemed rather shy it wasnt until i was in iraq sitting at camp anaconda waiting for a movie to start that i talked to him. he called out my name and not thinking much of it who it may be i walked over to him and recongnized who he was before he started talking, we sat at talked before the movie began and exchanged email addresses. we kept in touch through emails and then the emails stopped. i found out of his death through another classmate. i am truly sorry to the family for their loss. i will forever remember him, our first and last conversation and our emails. may god bless his family and the rest of our military family still fighting.
Charles
Renee Sheren
May 31, 2006
Thank you all for all keeping him in your prayers. Charles is one of my three uncles, but he is the only one that I really know. I miss him more than words can say. We grew up more like brother and sister instead of uncle and niece because we we're only two months apart. As kids we always got in a lot of trouble togeather but some how he managed to keep us from the ultimate punishement. When we we're about five we decided to give his dog Buddy a hair cut, but we accidently cut off the tip of his tail. When are parents told us to bye each other a gift for the holiday's we always bye each other the opposite toy that we would like, but in the long run it turn out that we liked it. When we first moved to Decatur, Il. I didn't have any friends because we moved so far he played Barbie dolls with me just to keep me smiling. Their is a lot of good memories that we shared togeather and I would not change any thing in the world except to have him here again with every one that loves him.
Spc. Menya Baria
May 29, 2006
I want to thank you for having such a loyal son. Spc. Neeley and I trained together, 47 Truck. We spoke several times in the Defac and in the MWR while we were deployed in Iraq. He would always call me grandma because I was the oldest in the platoon. Thank you again for having such a loyal son. As a parent myself he was well behaved and always a delight to have around. You did a awesome job parenting your son. Thank you!
Ashley Gilpin
January 19, 2006
Hello. Chuck was like an older brother to me. My older brother Ronnie Gilpin, Chuck and I always went places together. There weren't many times we were apart. I am very devastated about this tragedy. Chuck meant a lot to me. He was always there for me...and I know if Chuck was still here, he wouldn't want me to be sad. He would/could always find ways to mae me happy. He was a great young man. This event was very surprising to me. I was with Chuck when he was on that 2-week leave. I WAS JUST SPENDING TIME WITH SOMEONE THAT WAS ABOUT TO DIE. This really caught me off-guard. I pray for Chuck's family everyday and I will continue to do so. With Love and Prayers,
-Ashley Lorene Gilpin, 15-
Carolyn Evans
October 16, 2005
ALWAYS IN OUR HEARTS AND PRAYERS. ANOTHER GOLD STAR MOTHER.
chanelle zanaglia
July 13, 2005
I only met Chuck one time but he was one of those people whom you never forget. My condolences go out to his family and his friends - he was truly a great person and a brave soldier.
Adria McCaslin
May 7, 2005
Chuck was a great friend. I met him my freshman year when I went with a friend to a high school homecoming dance in Mattoon. I danced with Chuck a few times. He got my phone number and called about a week later. We became instant friends. One of my favorite memories is when Chuck and I and some other friends went to a park in Newton and danced around and played. We had so much fun that night. I miss our conversations. I will miss him greatly. He was a beautiful person. He will always be in my heart.
Bill Neeley
April 27, 2005
My condolences are with the family. I lost my young son last year and I truly know what you are going through. My prayers will be with you.
terry miller II
April 1, 2005
I SERVED WITH NEELEY IN IRAQ..I JUST WANT TO SAY HE MAY HAVE FALLEN BUT NOT FORGOTTEN..
Johnny Neeley
September 10, 2004
Well, it has been 1 day past two weeks since my heart wrenching news. I do appreciate all the letters my family has received and we are all still trying to accept the loss. I know there will always be questions and many may go un answered but the legacy of my little brother will always remain. I only knew him as Charles and was one of his biggest critics as he was growing into a young man. He did some crazy stuff but I forget I was a kid too. Long do I wish I could have told him actually how proud I was of the little ****. He always said he wanted to be like his big brothers and for any thing in the world I wish he could've had that chance. I will miss the kid more than words can express but I know he will meet me some day in another way. I thank everyone who knew and played a role in this kids life as he will be for eternity. I thank all who didn't know him but send there deepest regrets. I know my mom and step-dad thank everyone who has helped along the way through the good and not so good times of Charles "Chuck"s life. Please be with all the young and brave souls as I hear of more local casualties in the news. This would be what Chuck would want as he was loving his duties. Charles "Chuck", I have shed many tears for you and I wish they would have been in joy of your safe return, but they were for your return to God. I am extremely proud to have you as my brother, I will miss you for all eternity, and I Love You. Your brother, Johnny.
ginger michl
September 8, 2004
jane and family...we're thinking of you...i'm hopeing you are doing good as can be expected...sounds to me that charles was a son to be very proud of...you are in our thoughts at this time...take care...love...your cousins...mike and ginger and family
Raymond Lynn
September 7, 2004
Sorry about your lose, I will keep you and your family in my prayers. Sounds like he loved his country very much. A proud veteran
Melissa Thompson
September 6, 2004
My husband and i are both from Mattoon. We were deeply saddened to hear of your loss. I know that there is nothing that could be said to make your pain less. Just know that your son will Always be with you.
Larrew Theodore (Dick}
September 5, 2004
From an old soldier, rest well young soldier. You earned it and gave your best. You will on in all our hearts as the young brave warrior. God Rest.
Kara Wright
September 5, 2004
I have known Chuck since we were in Junior High, but it really was not until we joined JROTC that we became close friends. Chuck was a very outgoing, outspoken, and a caring individual that never let others or anything come in his way of making his dreams a reality. Chuck was one of my squad leaders my senior year and was always there to help me tourment my company.Hearing of Chucks death made it very difficult for me. I recently moved to Hawaii and unfortunetly was not capable to make it to his funeral. I remember hearing of Chucks deployment from his mother as she went through my line at wal*mart not 2 weeks after Chuck left.She was buying stuff that Chuck missed to send it to him in a care package. She was very proud of her son and what he was doing for his country. She said and I quote " he is ready to get over there and help get the job done." Chuck always had this way of trying to make others feel better. It is sad to know that such a great individual had to leave this earth so early, but we are all blessed to have known him, shared memories, and cared for by him. God will take care of Chuck for us, and we all know that Chuck will help us still as if he was here. My deepest sympathy to his family.We will all miss you Chuck, but dont worry we will all have you in our hearts until we can meet again. We Love you
K. Carter
September 4, 2004
With deepest sympathy.
Malinda Sawyer
September 4, 2004
To the Family of Charles Neeley,
I was stunned to hear the tragic news about Charles. Our community is heartbroken over the loss of one of its own. I was Charles' third grade teacher and I well remember the charming little boy with the blonde hair who always had something to share during classroom discussions. I did not know "Chuck" as at age nine he was still called Charles, but I so wish I had been allowed to become reunited with "Chuck" the young man, the proud soldier. On behalf of all the faculty who worked throughout his school years with Charles, I extend our most profound sympathy to your family.
tiffanie arthur
September 4, 2004
I graduated with chuck and he was in some of my classes. He was really nice and always laughing. I wish I would have got to know such a nice person. I also know alot of his many friends. I want to tell his parents that I am thinking about them.
christina guadiana
September 4, 2004
To the family of Chuck Neeley,
I am truly sorry about your loss; Chuck was a very special person. I knew him through the JROTC and he quickly became a friend of my family. The first time that my parents met Chuck, he was eating cookie dough out of a "slice-n-bake" tube. My parents will never forget that image, or his wonderful personality. Chuck later took me to Prom during my freshman year and I will never forget the good time that we had. Thank you for letting your son be a part of our lives, thank you for raising such a brave man who touched us all. We love and miss you Chuck. Our prayers and thoughts go out to you and your family.
Leonard & Janet Homann
September 4, 2004
To the Neeley Family,
We would like to extend to you our deepest sympathy. May God comfort you now and in the days to come. We didn't know Chuck but we would like to express our sincere gratitude for his life and for his service to his country. It's only because of him and others like him that our country is free. He has paid the ultimate price for the rest of us. May God continue to be with your family and give you courage and strength during this difficult time.
Sandra Lopez
September 3, 2004
Our family is very saddened by the news of the loss of Chuck. Our son is in the 454th and we learned about the news last week via his e-mail to us. Please know that our hearts go out to you. Chuck was obviously a very fine young man.
We are sorry for your loss and the community's loss.
Maxine (gossett) Leis
September 3, 2004
With deepest sympathy.
Becky
September 2, 2004
I wanted to take a moment to offer my deepest sympathy to the family of a fallen hero. The sacrifice that Chuck made will never be forgotten, not by his fellow Americans, and not by the millions of people he was helping.
I did not know Chuck, but I can tell from others words, that he was a wonderful soul. May God bless your family and ease your hearts.
PFC Dustin Cole
September 2, 2004
I just wanted to say that chuck was part of a tight brotherhood that you can only experience in the military. As long as that brotherhood lives, so will chuck. There is nothing that I can think of that will help ease my mind about losing a fellow soldier, but thank you for defending our nation.
Misty Douglas
September 2, 2004
As the wife a former Army soldier, I know how tough it is on the family to see a loved one go off and fight for the country and to not know if you will see that loved one again. My deepest sympathty goes out to your family. I will continue to pray that God will give you strength to make it through these upcoming days.
Amanda Steber
September 1, 2004
First off I would like to add my condolences for the family. I knew Chuck for a variety of reasons. The first time that I ever met Chuck was through the JROTC. He was always very outgoing no matter what was going on. Chuck was a great guy. My freshman year he went to Military Ball with me because I did not have a date. That was the kind of person that Chuck was, one who did for others first. The last time that I saw Chuck was when he was still dating my cousin. He meant a lot to her, and he became more like family to all of us. I thank God that I have known Chuck and I will never forget him.
arnold daly
September 1, 2004
My sympathies to the Neeley family. Nothing can make up for such a tragic loss. I hope that as time passes you find the pain softening into something you can bear.
Francis & Irene Goodreau
September 1, 2004
Charles made the supreme sacrifice for his country. With deepest sympathy, Francis & Irene Goodreau
Sgt. Robert W Woolard
September 1, 2004
My deepest Sympthies go toward his mother and father. SPc Neeley was a brave soldier. I remember when he arrived to the 478th Eng. Co. He was always kind and willing to talk to anyone. Could always count on him to get the job done. He will be missed.
Amber Garske
September 1, 2004
I would first like to offer my condolences to the family and friends of Chuck. He is a hero. He was never in a bad mood and he alwawys had fun in whatever he did. We were in flags together my freshman year and we became friends shortly after meeting. One of my fondest memories of Chuck was when he would pick me up and throw me over his shoulder like a sack of potatoes much against my will. I remember flailing, screaming, and later laughing. Chuck, you will be missed by all who knew you. I will never forget you. I love you.
SPC Christina Sheldon 478th Eng. Co.
September 1, 2004
To the Family of SPC. Charles Neeley,
Chuck was a good friend and battle buddy. My deepest sympathies go toward his mother and father, for loosing a child who's life was just beginning. Chuck will live on in our hearts forever and I'm thankful that I got to meet this wonderful person and brave soldier.
Steph
September 1, 2004
My deepest sympathies go out to the family and friends of Chuck. I never had the chance to really get to know him all that well, but I did know him from school. I'm sure he's in a better place now. And the thoughts and memories of him will forever live on in our hearts.
Pastor Carol Techau
September 1, 2004
To Jane, family, and friends of "Charlie"
While I served as associate pastor @ 1st Church of the Nazarene, Mattoon, a good friendship developed with "Charlie" and according to other Guest Book Entries, you all call him "Chuck." You have my deepest sympathy and prayers.
Charlie rode our church bus and worked hard to please people and usually sat 2nd row from the front in church to sit with the bus driver, Elmer Wright. They had a good friendship and Charlie wanted so much for Elmer to be proud of him. One day Charlie came by the church office to show me his new, shiny shoes---Jr. ROTC shoes. He was thrilled with the challenge of making something of himself. One Sunday morning he asked to talk to the congregation and thanked everyone for helping him.
I am so thankful for Charlie and realize that he grew up to be a special man for our country.
Pastor Carol
LYNNE LARREW
September 1, 2004
My dear cousin Charles...I am so going to miss you at the Larrew family reunions. I really enjoyed getting to know you better last year (August 2003) at the reunion. I never knew that would be our last conversation together. I enjoyed sitting with you by the pool for hours just chatting and talking, one-on-one. And Brittani certainly had the time of her life with you that weekend! You both came back (especially her) with coal all over your pants from playing at the old coal mine. Not to mention you both had went to many places that day and I didn't see you two for hours! She enjoyed looking through the car lot with you, seeing the old train bridge, going to the campground, playing in the coal mine, driving around the area with you, and just seeing many things she never knew were there. All because of YOU! And I thank you for that. She was so looking forward to seeing you again this year at the reunion but you couldn't make it because you were in Illinois visiting and getting ready to head back to Iraq. All she talked about was if you were going to be there at the reunion and what the two of you could do this year at the reunion. And when she realized you couldn't make it, she was depressed about it and said "I guess we'll do something next reunion". Unfortunately, that will never be a possibility anymore, but I know that you will help us get through this grief and you'll see that our family will never forget to remember you, especially at all of the Larrew reunions. You were a very nice young man and very personable. You certainly loved that car and cell phone of yours! :) I'm certainly glad God gave me the chance to get to know you. You definately will be missed by many. I love you cousin Charles and one day we will meet again.
Sincerely,
Lynne Larrew
Brittani Larrew
Skyler Larrew
Scott Wolfensperger
ashley hunter
August 31, 2004
Chuck and I were in the same graduating class and also Jrotc togther. He was always motivated to do his best no matter what the obstacles. I remember him as outgoing and dedicated to whatever he set his mind to. My thoughts and prayers go out to all of his family and friends. It will always be comforting to know that with what little time he had he spent happy, joyful, and full of life. He will always be remembered with a smile on his face.
Steve & Juli Byrne
August 31, 2004
Our deepest sympathies to the family of Spc. Charles Neeley. Our family got to know Chuck in late 2002 when he would stay at our house in Brazil, In. on Saturday evenings once a month when he had reserve duty in Terre Haute. He was a very courtious and likeable young man. Our daughter Spc. Sheldon is in his unit and told us the tragic news about Chuck shortly after she found out Saturday.Our whole family is in a state of shock and disbelief for we too grieve the loss of your wonderful son and our friend.
Chelle Hernandez
August 30, 2004
The day i heard, it was a big shock.Knowing him I immediately had the feeling(as many of my friends did)that this was some sort of evil joke.But when he didn't reply with a laugh, and neither did anyone else, I realized what truly happened. I know everyone has to have their story,their past, and their memories. To me he was a great friend,a big brother(in a way),a Hero,and much more(like my own cheering squad).I know everyone says this, but I mean it, if there's any way I can help anyone, I gladly will,As he has helped me.
Pat McLatcher
August 30, 2004
To The Family of Spc.Charles Neeley:
I would like to say how very sorry i am for your loss. I too lost my son in Iraq last November PFC Damian Bushart. It all seems like yesterday. May God Bless You All. Your in my thoughts and prayers.
Rachel Sommer
August 30, 2004
Chuck was always there when I was upset. My mom and Nana have both signed this already saying the exact same thing I'm sure we all feel... We all love you Chuck, you could always put a smile on my face and you always did everything you could do to make the smile everlasting. I couldn't possibly every forget you. You were like my brother, you and Jeff. I'll never forget you. I love you. Bye for now, Chuck.
John Wooters
August 30, 2004
May God's loving hand guide Charles family through this difficult and sad time. Your son, brother, cousin is a true hero. His body may be gone but the spirit that he showed in life will always be here for those that loved him to remember. There is a bright new star in heaven.
Erin Smith
August 30, 2004
I was in JROTC with Chuck. He was a great friend always a smile on his face nothing could slow him down. He will be deeply missed. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family.
David Rohr
August 30, 2004
To the Neeley Family
I am so sorry about your lost of your son charles Neeley i went to school with and was is in JROTC program with him he was a true friend and i will miss him very much
Sonia Abell
August 30, 2004
Chuck was so very animated and special. He had a gift that made all around him smile...and that's not easy. Many times, when my daughter was down an out, Chuck came over and did everything but stand on his head to make her laugh. Last Xmas Eve...I arrived to find Chuck was not there. There was a large box sitting in the basement...with a single lit cigarette poking out of the top. I approached it, acting like i knew nothing of it's contents...and lo-and-behold..."Chuck-In-A-Box" sprang out to greet me. He was so very pleased with himself and we all laughed. I will never forget him for all that he gave everyone in such a short time. He will be missed.
crystal humes
August 29, 2004
Chuck and i were close friends since 7th grade and we lost contact for awhile and then i find out hes gone.....i wish the best to his family and his other friends that he kept contact with better than i did. when we were around each other we always had fun. now i wish we could've talked more after i dropped out of school. he was one of the smartest friends i ever had. i will miss him dearly.......to the family i just want to say i wish you the best in copping with your loss. the only thing i can say is he was doing what he always wanted to do. May He Rest In Peace.
david mclain
August 29, 2004
chuck was a good friend of my brothers he became like a little brother to me had a big heart very funny he will be missed very dearly my thoughts and prayers go to his family
Doyal & Ila McVicker Jr.
August 29, 2004
Ila and I offer out deepest regret at your loss.
You will be missed by those who love you.
Comfort may be found in the fact you
were doing what you felt was needed
Debbie Carman
August 29, 2004
Although I did not know Chuck, I am a Mattoon native. I just wanted to share my condolences with his family. Your son is a true hero and will be forever remembered as a defender of our beloved country.
Dori Larrew
August 29, 2004
My deepest sympathy to Charles's family. I am his second cousin. I never got the chance to tell him that I missed him at the last family reunion. The reunion just wasn't the same without him. He wanted to come and stay at my house for a month to meet my foreign exchange student (female of course) and he never made it. My youngest son will really miss him. Charles took Derek for a ride in his "cool car with the lights under it" as Derek would say. We all know that God will be smiling alot more with Charles up there. You will be missed.
Steve & Beth Ann (Russell) Fields
August 29, 2004
Our prayers and thoughts are with your family.
Elizabeth Cunico
August 29, 2004
Dear Family of Chuck Neeley,
I am so deeply sorry for your loss. I knew Chuck because I was on staff with the MHS Band all four of his high school years and before that I was in JROTC for my four years in high school (MHS Class of 1999). He and my sister Jessica graduated in the same class. I remember talking with Chuck in the spring of his eighth grade year when the JROTC Student Staff went to the junior high to talk about the program. I specifically remember talking with him close to the time he was to leave for basic training and he was so excited, proud and happy just to talk about it. Chuck was an exceptional Soldier and an even more incredible person. My husband is in the Navy and so I understand the worry and pains of separation and what a sacrifice it is for the entire family when someone is serving their country. You are all so very brave for that. Your family will be in our prayers and Chuck will never be forgotten.
Sincerely,
Elizabeth Cunico (Christman)
Corey Johnston
August 29, 2004
we will all miss Chuck very much. I was on the drill team with Chuck him and Jake Harper and I would always hang out together on the trips. I think the thing i will miss the most about Chuck is how he used to walk across the front lawn evey day and salute me and say good morning of afternoon general Johnston, and his unseacing smile he will be dearly missed
Shelby Guyette
August 29, 2004
I'll ALWAYS have Chuck in my heart.
love,
Shelby
Gary, Carole and Michael Russell
August 29, 2004
You made the ultimate sacrifice for your country. Although you have left this world in your physical form you will always be here in spirit. May God be with your family during this difficult time. Gary, Carole, and Michael Russell
Missy Oakley
August 28, 2004
I can't express the feelings I had when I heard. Chuck was like a brother to me. He was one of the funniest people I know. No matter what he said or did, you could never be mad at him. He did everything with the best intentions. He loved to have fun and he had a big heart. That heart was dedicated to our nation on 25 August 2004. He was happy with what he was doing and where he was at. They say that you can have aquaintances and friends, but your real friends that you know you can count on and will always be there for you, you can only count on one hand. Chuck was one of those five people in my life and that will never change. Chuck, I will never forget you, you will go with me everywhere, and I will always love you. ~Duck
MIKE ASHLEY
August 28, 2004
MY DEEPEST TO THE PARENTS OF SPEC. NEELEY. I TOO HAVE A SON IN THE MARINES FOR 25 AND ALWAYS WORRY ABOUT OF YOUNG PEOPLE THAT FIGHTS FOR OUR FREEDOM MY BLESSING TO HIS RELATIVES AND FREINDS MIKE ASHLEY
Misty Kemper
August 28, 2004
I will always remember him.he was a really happy kid.He liked to hang out with his friends a lot.he was like a brother to me and my sister.my parents even liked him too.we will never forget chuck at all. he is always in my heart and I love you chuck..he was there for me and my sister all the time.he came over to visit us a lot and stay at are partys.I love you chuck!
Tawni Johnson
August 28, 2004
I did not know your son, but my husband, Spc. Justin Johnson had the room across the hall from him at Camp Speicher. Your son let Justin borrow his webcam so that we could see each other, and was a good friend to my husband. Justin joined the 454th in June and became buddies with Neeley. I just wanted to thank you for raising such a great son, I am forever greatful for what your son did for my husband and myself and the sacrfice he made for his country. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, and know that he is deeply missed by his fellow soldiers.
Jen Shull
August 28, 2004
Through going to school with Chuck and being involved in JROTC and Band, we grew to know each other quite well. It’s hard to hold back the tears, but at the same time it’s difficult not to smile at the memories. Chuck was always trying to make others smile and his remembrance will continue to do so. I send my condolences to his family. Your son is an extremely loved man.
Patricia Abell
August 28, 2004
Chuck was a good friend to my grandauughter Rachel -in fact,he was a friend to our whole family.Last Christmas Eve he made the best mashed potatoes I have ever eaten! He came to see me on his last leave.I came home to find him sitting on my porch,wearing a huge ,black cowboy hat and proudly waiting to show me his new truck that"he could probably live in".Chuck will now be unable to wrest my 1967 Mustang convertible from me-a car he coveted at first sight.But he will always be remembered by all of us a a truly unique.nice kid with a great sense of humor .
Brad Brown
August 28, 2004
I just heard about the tragic loss that has happened to one of my fellow class-mates of 2003. Charles was a good friend of mine throughout Middle School and High School, and will be missed by me. I had just spoke with him in Wal-Mart- prior to being deployed to Iraq, and he was so happy and proud to be able to serve his country--fight for freedom, for me and you! You're a Hero in my eyes Chuck... May God bless you and your family.
Jacob Mills
August 28, 2004
My deepest sympathy to your family for your loss, Nothing can amount to the price paid for freedom and your son is one. He will be missed greatly and remain in our hearts. Chuck was a good kid at heart and I know I will certainly miss him also.
CTR3 Neil Purdy
August 28, 2004
I have known Chuck for a long time now and remember him always coming over to my grandma's house (where I lived) and grandma would run to make him something to eat because he loved to eat. So while she was doing that, Chuck and I would be in my room just talking man to man or outside admiring one of the many cars he had owned. I am in the Navy and remember many of our discussions being which branch was better, but I think he loved being in the army so much that I would always lose the argument. I also remember that one of those arguments resulted in a wrestling match at the Kempers house on their living room floor! I won, but he says it was an unfair match because my elbow ended up someplace where it shouldn't have been! Well I am glad to see there is a memory book here to share my experiences with others who knew him. He is one of my true-best friends. I love ya brother!
Heather Wood
August 28, 2004
I will always remember the times when me, chuck and neil would sit in the cafeteria and eat breakfast together. how we'd talk about all the homework we had and how we dreaded finals. Chuck would come pick me up after school in his jeep and we'd just cruise the country roads...down to Lake Paradise and back. Then after he got rid of that, he taunted me with the fact that he had got a Sunfire (knowing full well he was driving my favorite car). I know this post is sappy, but I wanted to remember the good times i had with him while i was in mattoon. You will be in my heart forever, Chuck.
Matthew Estes
August 28, 2004
I was in JRTOC with Chuck, and he always managed to make me laugh. He was a great friend and he will truly be missed.
Stacy Shupe
August 27, 2004
I was very shocked to hear about his death. He really was a very nice kid and I am sure we all will miss him. He will always be remembered to me as someone whom was always there for his friends even if I didn't know him as well as some of the others.
MS. JOEY BONNELL
August 27, 2004
I DID NOT KNOW YOUR SON, BUT MY LOVE AND THANKS GO OUT TO ALL OF YOU AND TO HIM. MY THOUGHTS ARE WITH YOU ALL. MS. JOEY BONNELL
John & Debbie Musielak & Family
August 27, 2004
To the family of Charles Neeley:
We heard about your loved one's sacrifice for our country from your neighbors, Rex & Susan Oehm, and we wanted to express our condolences to you. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers, and we truly appreciate the sacrifice your family has had to make in order to insure our family's freedom.
Crystal Kemper
August 27, 2004
I have known Chuck for so many years. It came a great shock when I found out about his death. I learned of it on Thursday night around 10:45. Chuck was a very close friend of mine. We have many happy memories. I wish there could have been more. Chuck will never be forgotten. I love you, Chuck!!!
Debbie Humphrey
August 27, 2004
I'll always remember his mowing in the rain, trying to earn a little extra money for a school outing. My prayers are with you.
Rex & Susan Oehm
August 27, 2004
Charles was our next door neightor, always ready to help. He enjoyed the JROTC and was proud to serve our country.
Chris McMinn
August 27, 2004
We remember Chuck from our days as band parents and always enjoyed being around him. So sorry for your loss. Chris & Tom McMinn
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