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KIRK, JEFFREY LYNN Marine Sgt. Jeffrey Lynn Kirk died Sunday, Dec. 12, 2004, during security and stabilization operations in the Al Anbar province of Iraq. He was 24. He is survived by his wife, Carly Furr Kirk of Central; his mother and father, Lisa and Peter Kirk of Abita Springs; brother Benjamin Kirk of Abita Springs; grandmothers, Beverly Lynch and Audrey Kirk; grandfather, David Kirk; mother-in-law and father-in-law, Susie and Julius Furr; uncles, David and Stephen Kirk and Richard Jackson; aunts, Beverly Kirk and Anne Jackson; and cousins, Aimee Jackson, Sean Kirk and Army Pfc. Aaron Jackson. Sgt. Kirk was born and raised in Baton Rouge, graduating from McKinley High School as a member of the school's gifted and talented program. Following high school, he enlisted in the U.S. Marine Corps, completing boot camp at San Diego, Calif. Upon his graduation from boot camp, Sgt. Kirk was invited to join the elite Fast Company Anti-Terrorist Security Team. At the time of his re-enlistment, Sgt. Kirk accepted a position as an instructor at Officer Candidate School in Quantico, Va. Following the Sept. 11, 2001, terrorist attacks, however, he requested a transfer to a ground forces unit to fight overseas. Sgt. Kirk was assigned to the 3rd Battalion, 5th Regiment, 1st Marine Division, based at Camp Pendleton, Calif. He was wounded during house-clearing efforts in the city of Fallujah on Nov. 10, 2004, and spent the next four weeks recuperating. Sgt. Kirk recovered and rejoined his unit in early December. During his career, Sgt. Kirk received the Good Conduct Medal, Global War on Terrorism Expeditionary Medal, Sea Service Deployment Ribbon and the National Defense Service Medal. He is expected to receive a medal for valor in combat for the injuries he suffered in November, as well as a posthumous Purple Heart, which is awarded to members of the U.S. armed forces who are wounded or killed in action. In addition to his interest in the military, Sgt. Kirk was an artist and poet. Friends and relatives are invited to attend the funeral services for Sgt. Kirk at Florida Boulevard Baptist Church on Tuesday, Dec. 21. Visitation is from 9 a.m. until 11 a.m., with services to follow. Interment will take place at Port Hudson National Cemetery after cremation at a private ceremony. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Injured Marine Semper Fi Fund, 825 College Blvd., Suite 102 PMB 609, Oceanside, CA 92049

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Published by The Advocate on Dec. 21, 2004.

Memories and Condolences
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Holly Worley

September 7, 2019

I miss you everyday. You were my first best friend and from babies it seems like we were together all the time. God hold you forever. Semper Fi.

Always in my heart,
Holly Worley

Benjamin Woodbury

March 24, 2017

I thought of you today, as I often do, and decided to google your name once again. This time it brought me here.
I had a birthday this month; I'm 34 now, and it seems so strange to me that you are, and forever will be, 24. I remember thinking of you as some old man! even though you were only 3 years older than me at the time.
We went through a lot together, and my fondest memory of you will always be when we were clearing houses and found the Iraqi peanut butter and Date jelly. It haunted me when, re-clearing the city, I found the jars still sitting there on the counter, just as we left them, a reminder that, in fact we had shared the moment, but only I will remember.

And I will never forget.

Cindy Ardoin

August 3, 2013

Love and miss you.

August 1, 2013

My Darling Grandson:

Your family and friends love and miss you very much.

Yesterday we had a small birthday celebration to show how thankful we are for your time shared with us here and I believe you are still with us in spirit.

Love,
Gram

May 3, 2013

My Darling Grandson;

I just wanted you to know you will never be forgotten by your family and friends.

Actually I saw one of your best friends last Friday and he named his son after you, KIRK. Little Kirk is very proud to be named after you and
T J and his spouse said he goes up to anybody and everybody and tells them he was named after a hero.

Love,
Gram

Jayne DeJean

February 2, 2013

Lisa & Peter like John I know it's been years since you lost your son but I wanted to let you know how very sorry I am. It's kind of a long story on how I found out & I wish I knew how to contact you. Sending many thoughts & prayers. Please contact me if you get this message. [email protected]

Peggy Childers

December 12, 2011

To the family and friends of Sgt. Jeffrey L. Kirk:
Please accept my remembrance of Jeffrey on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.

Beverly Lynch

July 31, 2011

My Darling Grandson;

Today is your birthday and your loving family and friends will go to Port Hudson Memorial Cemetery for a celebration of your birth and your heroism.

You and your brother Ben whom you loved tremendously always did enjoy holiday and birthday parties and today we will celebrate yours with you. We know you will not be there in body for you are God's Warrior now. But we feel sure you will be there in spirit sharing the celebration with us.

We all love you very much.

Your loving Grammy

June Moody

December 16, 2010

Thank you Sgt. Kirk for your ultimate sacrafice. And my heart and prayers are with this family and I pray you know that Sgt. will remain a hero to us forever.

Peggy Childers

December 12, 2010

To the family and friends of Sgt. Jeffrey L. Kirk:
Remembering Jeffrey on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

December 12, 2010

Sgt Kirk,
I will never forget what you've done. You are and always will be my motivation as a Marine.
Semper Fi GySgt Distelhorst

Odis Gilmore

August 21, 2010

Thanks to your family, I am free. I was at Port Hudson today and he is truly my hero. I share your tears. Odis Gilmore, Chief Petty Officer, USN, Retired.

Kenneth Distelhorst

August 19, 2010

Sgt Kirk,
I'm back in the fleet again. I will continue to use your strength and courage to carry me through the rough times. We forever will be a team of Honor,Courage,Commitment because of you. I know that we will again link up in Heaven and continue our eternal tour together guarding the gates of Heaven.
GySgt Kenneth Distelhorst
3/5 Kilo for Life!

Beverly Lynch

July 20, 2010

My Beloved Grandson:

Although it was much too short, I am grateful for the time that we had with you. You were a delightful and loving grandson, son, brother and husband who will always be sorely missed.

I am lighting candle for your upcoming birthday on the last day of this month.

Love, Gram

Donna Gillette

December 26, 2009

On this day and with each day that we enjoy our freedom, I would like to give thanks and let you know that I do not take our troops for granted. May you experience God when you feel your loss.

john dawes

November 5, 2009

Lisa and Peter, i know it's been awhile since you lost you son. I'm sorry i didn't get to know him but by all accounts, he would have made any parent proud. Sorry for you loss and we will not forget what he and the other brave young men and women who put their life on the line for us. god bless him and both or you guys.

John

November 3, 2009

The Marine Corps is the Marine Corps because of you Semper Fi


GySgt Distelhorst

Cheryl Kirk

August 27, 2009

I was looking for someone and came upon Sgt Kirk's notice. We share the same last name although we weren't related and never met I feel a bond.....my Daddy grew up in Pearl River, LA, fought in Vietnam and served honorably in the US Navy for over 22 years(MSCS W.H. Kirk USN retired) I just want to say thank you.....thank you to the Kirk family for raising such a wonderful young man....thank you for sharing him with us & thank you for supporting him ....I remember every time my Dad was deployed or was stationed somewhere that we couldn't follow.....sometimes the military family life is harder than the soldier in the fight...and thank you to Sgt Kirk ....for protecting us and serving our country with honor.....hopefully someday this war will be over...but until then I thank god for brave men and women like you.....I pray my 4 yro son doesn't have to suffer the same sacrifice you did. Sincerely, Cheryl Kirk

Kenna Larra

August 4, 2009

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Sincerely and Respectfully,
Kenna

February 11, 2009

Sgt. Kirk thank you for what you did for the marines in fallujah you gave them hope and you never left them though my heart is heavy for the loss of you and the rest of our brothers on that cold day you will always be remembered a hero 3/5 Semper Fi

Peggy Childers

December 13, 2008

To the family of Sgt. Jeffrey L. Kirk:
Jeffrey gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

In Memory of Jeffrey ~ (Debra Estep)

December 12, 2008

Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.


The Wind on The Downs

“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”

(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )

Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….

“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”


I did not know Jeffrey, but I am remembering
his service and sacrifice. He is my hero. !

~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~

The Other Side

i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.

can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.

i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side

the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)

“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008


The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol



Sincerely,

Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB

Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55

Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b

Jessica Gauthier

November 28, 2008

You have been on my mind alot lately, Jeff. I hope you hear me when I talk to you. I miss you so much. I pray for your family everyday. I miss them and love them as well.
Love, Jess

Kenneth Distelhorst

November 17, 2008

Sgt Kirk, I still think about you everyday brother and the legacy you continue to have in our Corps SEMPER FI ! Ssgt Distelhorst

April 21, 2008

You are remembered and respected. Thank you Sgt Kirk!

Beverly Lynch

April 3, 2008

You have been on my mind lately,even more than usual. Easter reminded me of how much you especially enjoyed the holidays and other special occasions. I love you my baby.

Love, Gram

Captian William Kirk

April 2, 2008

Iv alway been pulled by startrek once i got promoted but you are damn good soldier regimental duty son god bless CPT KIRK.

Justin Chriss

December 14, 2007

Well its been a while old friend.2d FAST 1st Plt. OOHRAHH!!

Beverly Lynch

December 13, 2007

Lisa, Peter,Ben:
My heart aches for you and for our loss. Just as Lisa, Richard and myself discussed at the gravesite yesterday, we have many great memories to console us. We are thankful for the time allowed us to acquire those wonderful memories. Even though the time seemed too short, we feel blessed for what time we did have. He was such a grand person that anyone who truly knew him cannot ever forget him.
Love,
Gram

Anne Jackson

December 12, 2007

Dear Carly, I know today is 3 years down the road from that day that Jeff paid it all. I pray that all is well with you and your family and that you can go on knowing that Jeff will never be forgotten, he is a Hero and may God give total peace to you. God Bless. Anne

SSgt Distelhorst

October 24, 2007

Sgt Kirk, there isn't a day that goes by that you don't enter my mind....although time is suppose to ease the pain...your spirit is always there. You will never be forgotten brother

August 14, 2007

There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.

Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.

I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.

REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!

PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)

ROBYN GARSIDE

July 19, 2007

MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST SYMPATHIES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN....HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. GODSPEED AND SEMPER FI.

A PROUD MARINE MOM

July 15, 2007

Thank you for the sacrifice made by Sgt Kirk and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
Aunt of a Marine

Jessica Whitmire(Gauthier)

July 10, 2007

i just wanted to write a quick message. I always think of Jeff and the family. I hope everyone is doing well. My prays are always with yall. Also have a Happy Birthday Jeff. I love you.

Linda Lewis

July 3, 2007

Lisa,
I think of Lynn and your family often. Always know he has touched the lives of people he had never met, and will always be remembered. My son, Brent, is being deployed to Iraq soon, which has brought you into my thoughts more often recently. I think of our conversations about our sons when we were at work, two proud moms sharing a sacred bond. The Mardi Gras beads you gave me (with the soldier on it) hang in the bedroom. I am thankful for having met you and for the wonderful memories of Lynn you shared with me.

Jamie Damon

May 20, 2007

To the Kirk Family:
I am very sorry for your loss. My son was Jeff's company commander and spoke so highly of him, and the leadership skills he utilized on a daily basis. My son and the entire company were devastated at Jeff's loss. God Bless you all.

Peter and Lisa Kirk

April 12, 2007

There will be a Silver Star Presentation for Jeff at the WWII Museum in New Orleans Sat., April 21, at 2pm. I know a lot of you were obviously unable to attend the one in Ca. All who would like to come are invited. There is no charge for entry into the museum when you tell them you are here for the ceremony.

brandon garate

March 6, 2007

jeffrey I i honer you god bles you

Linda Clouatre

February 2, 2007

Jeff, I still think about you often. I will never forget what an awesome man that you had grown into, and what a great Marine. Much Love, Linda

SHIRLEY DONEY

January 20, 2007

JEFFREY GOD BLESS YOU, YOU ARE MY HERO. TO YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS HOLD CLOSE TO YOUR HEART ALL THE MEMORIES OF JEFF AND THEY WILL BRING YOU COMFORT.

Tom Gugliuzza-Smith

January 20, 2007

I previously signed Jeffrey's guest book; Jeffrey it has been over two years since you were taken. I was thinking of you and just wanted you to know that you are my hero and that you will NEVER be forgotten.

Phyllis Broomfield

January 20, 2007

Rest in Peace Sgt. Kirk, you and my son Lt. Johnny Craver now can lead a troop of soldiers in heaven.All gave some, some gave all, you will be missed BUT never forgotten. Phyllis Broomfield

An American

January 19, 2007

...Perhaps their brave young spirits hear the bugles sing, go to sleep...Comrade true, born anew, peace to you. Your soul shall be where the heros are and your memory shine like the morning star...The danger has passed, and now at last, go to sleep...
By Sgt Joyce Kilmer
165th US Infantry
(formerly 69th NYNG)
42nd (Rainbow) Division
American Expeditionary Force
Killed in Action July 30, 1918
Ourcq, France

Sleep Well Marine

Misty King

January 19, 2007

I know that I will probably never be blessed enough to sign each guestbook, but I will try. These fallen soldiers are not just a face and name, but a legacy for each life after them to see and be touched. I can not imagine what this family is going through. I pray that every day is filled with happiness in knowing that your soldier is a HERO. As if God personally picked him out to go home, he is now an angel in God's Army. Never will any of the sacrifices any of you made be forgotten. Thank you for allowing America to be free. September 11,2001 is a day that passes through America's mind each day on several occasions. I know that a lot of times it seems as though people have forgotten. But, I assure you as a very forgettful person, I have searched the internet almost daily to remeber every life lost on the road to freedom that continued from that day forward. I am so appreciative that these soldiers are here to keep my family safe. Thank you again and may every day bring you closer and closer to Sgt. Kirk.

Henryk Zaleski (USN-Ret)

January 19, 2007

You gladly answered the call and gave your all.Rest in peace in Eden where honor meets God.

Shelley Chesser

January 18, 2007

I am so sorry for your loss. Your son is a Hero and I appreciate his sacrifice. He fought for our freedom and our great nation. God bless his family.

Gary Allain

January 18, 2007

Sgt. Jeffry L. Kirk
you are my hero
may god keep you in his arms forever.

Anne Jackson

December 12, 2006

John 15:13 Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.
May God continue to heal your hearts and ease the pain that you carry. God bless all of the family.

Garnet Jenkins

December 12, 2006

Paying tribute to Sgt. Jeffrey L. Kirk, on the 2nd anniversary of the day, he gave his life for our Country and for Freedom, with a Multitude of Thanks, for his Courage, Dedication and Service.
Rest In Peace Young Hero, in God's Loving Care and may God's Grace and Comfort continue to be with the Kirk family.
Those who Made the Ultimate Sacrifice, So Many and So Young, shall NEVER BE FORGOTTEN.
My brother among them. KIA-Vietnam 1967.

"I will lift up my eyes to the hills-
from whence comes my help?
My help comes from the Lord,
Who made heaven and earth."
Psalm 121:1-2

Hoping you continue to feel the thoughts of caring and support that surround you each day, as this Country remembers someone very precious to you, who is a Hero to all of us.
I am deeply sorry for your loss.

Sheila Ellis

May 21, 2006

I want to say that I am very proud of this young man and I'm so very sorry to hear of your loss.I am very proud of each of our servicemen and women. I have a nephew right now serving in Iraq and I worry every day for him. May God Bless you in many ways.

Beverly Lynch

April 4, 2006

My Beloved Grandson:

Time will never erase the wonderful memories of you and love in my heart for you. Time just brings us closer to a reunion.

Love,

Your Grammy

Sara Foust

March 25, 2006

Carly, on behalf of all of us here at Camp Pendleton us ladies in the KVN would like you to know that we miss you very much. We hope you are well and know that you and Jeff's family are in our prayers. We love you and hope to hear a good word from you soon. Lots of Love Hugs and Prayers.

Your Friends,

Sara Foust & KV Network

Camp Pendleton

Tom Gugliuzza-Smith

March 24, 2006

My heartfelt sympathy to the Kirk family in the loss of Jeffrey. I did not know Jeffrey, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. Jeffrey my heart was touch by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. You are a hero and you will never be forgotten.

I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.

Love and Peace

Tom



To live in the hearts

of those you leave behind

is never to die"

~Robert Orr~

Jessica Gauthier

January 13, 2006

Just wanted to let Lisa, Pete, Ben, and Carly know that you are always in my prays. I'm always praying that you have a blessed life.

Love you.

Billy and Sandra Guidry

January 11, 2006

Just wanted to give share some words of confort. Our Son is in Iraq and we are proud of ALL of our heros. Jeffrey will never be forgotten. We will forever pray for those who gave that full measure.

Vangi & McKaLyne Lunsford

January 10, 2006

Psalm 23



1

The LORD is my shepherd, I shall not be in want.

2

He makes me lie down in green pastures, he leads me beside quiet waters,

3

He restores my soul. He guides me in paths of righteousness for his name's sake.

4

Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.

5

You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies. You anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows.

6

Surely goodness and love will follow me all the days of my life, and I will dwell in the house of the LORD forever.



This is a verse that I have found to be comforting to me during my husbands death. Remember that when it seems that no one else is round, God is still there with you! And he will be your rock!



My daughter,McKaLyne, and I send our heartfelt sympathy for your loss! God Bless this warrior, God Bless those whom serve freedom's cause! They are our true HERO's!!!!



If you need anything, please feel free to contact me!!!



Wife & Daughter of the Late

Sgt. Audrey Daron Lunsford

KIA May 23, 2005

Anne Jackson

December 29, 2005

Carly, Just thinking over the last year and all the changes. I pray that this year will be good for you and the ones you love and care for. Aunt Anne

Beverly Lynch

December 14, 2005

A YEAR HAS PASSED

I often think of all the joy throughout the years that was brought to us by the child, the boy, the man. He was such a cute little sandy haired child that loved to play outdoors with his trucks. I can still see the sheer excitement on his face when he took his first plane ride, his first deep sea fishing trip, and his many swimming trips. When he did the wrong thing, he seemed to learn from each experience and emerged a better, stronger person.



He loved boldly and strongly. He knew early in life that he wanted to protect his loved ones and this country that he loved so much. He spent his earlier years preparing to do this for us because he loved us so much. Words cannot express how much we miss you. We are consoled by the knowledge that you gave your life doing exactly what you wanted to do. How many of us can ever say that? WE LOVE YOU JEFFREY LYNN KIRK, MY BELOVED GRANDSON

Steve Kirk

December 12, 2005

Though it has been a year, still little time passes that I don't think of Lynn. I think of the times in Louisiana with family and his visits to Sarasota. I will always think of, and remember him as a boy, a son, a brother, a grandson, a man, and proud Marine. He will always be a part of a family that will never forget, but will never be ther same. My love to all.



Steve

Anne Jackson

December 12, 2005

Lisa, Pete, Ben, It has been one year, and I pray that you have been able to stand strong on the Bridges that your family built with Lynn. I know that it has been so hard on you and I pray for comfort still for all of you. Remember God's Garden must be beautiful, because he only chooses the Best. In loving Memory of Sgt. Jeffrey L. Kirk, THE BEST. I love you all, I am here. Anne

12/12/05

Ann Droy

August 12, 2005

Please accept our sympathy on the loss of Sgt. Kirk. Please know that we appreciate all that he did in the service of his country. His sacrifice will not be forgotten. May God Bless your family.

Crystal Smith

June 11, 2005

To Mrs. Lisa, and Mr. Pete, Hello this is Crystal, Cindy's niece. I just wanted to tell you I think of the two of you, and Ben all the time. My prayers, and heart is with you all.

Kristin Vorhies

March 26, 2005

I just wanted you all to know that I continue to hold you in my thoughts and prayers...I will never forget...God Bless!!

peter kirk

March 17, 2005

To all who continue to inquire and view this site...there will be a memorial for Jeff at the Port Hudson cemetary 3/31 at 1000am. All are invited. Thank you for being so supportive of our family in the days since 12/12/04. We couldn't have gotten by without you. The 3/5 unit is returning early April. There will be a memorial at Camp Pendelton 4/20 for the fallen with his unit.

Sandra Breaux

March 13, 2005

Thank you for your sacrife for this country and our freedom

Kathy Vorhies

January 20, 2005

Dear Carly, We have never met or have spoken.My son is LCPL William Vorhies III. I just want to tell you that I think of Jeff everyday.Billy thought very highly of Jeff. When Billy was having a rough time last year Jeff was there for Billy and had been there to talk to my husband, Bill at that time. I know that my daugher-in-law Kristin became close to you and counted on you the last few months. I cannot express my sorrow and want you to know my thoughts and prayers are with you. It would be an honor to meet you someday. Sincerely, Kathy Vorhies

Chandra Payton

January 13, 2005

Dear Carly,

I am LCpl. George Payton's mom. We met at my son's funeral in November, 2004. I can't tell you how I felt when I heard about the loss of your husband. I had wanted to get in touch with you earlier but was not able to. Please know that you are in my prayers. Thank you for your support at my time of need. Please know that I am here if you need a someone to talk to. My heartfelt love to you and your family.

Jessica Gauthier Whitmire

January 9, 2005

First I wanted to say I'm sorry to Carly and all of Jeff's family & friends. Jeff was a great person. He was born to be a Marine. He died doing what he loved to do. I will miss him greatly. We will all have our memories with him. Jeff, you will be loved, missed, and remembered always. We will meet again one day. Carly, I'm sorry again. I am here.



Love,

Jessica

lisa kirk

December 30, 2004

TO ANDREA: do not be sorry for being glad to see your man back home. no need to feel guilty. you know i'd be just as glad to see my boy home safe and sound. he was a hero. and his time here was finished. he'd already done so much for so many in his short years. i know this now. i hope you come back to the site to read this. don't have your personal address to tell you. and i'll even be as brave as to tell you if i'd read it was you instead of me, i would be just as guilty to feel one of the lucky ones. i'm glad people can relate. it does help. but his life wasn't wasted. not just in the military. he was the perfect son, friend, and husband. really. he already was a hero before he got shot the first time in november. and he knew this was were he needed to be when he swiched his m.o. if he'd known the future, i think he wouldn't done anything different. he went back in to save another brother. now i know more than ever that we are still here because there is unfinished business for us still here. god bless you. to everyone else that's been with us through all this, you don't know how much it's helped. i've been doing well and it's because of the support of you guys, known to me and just met. thanks again. i've been hearing from all his old fast company buddies as well as the recent guys. he was very appreciated. i'm seeing usmc sites with memorials and reading all the memorials and the fun stories of times he touched them. all we have is memories, and they are so good. i'll print them all to keep in mind that all we have in the world is each other and you never know when you're making a difference in someone's life.

Andrea Price

December 29, 2004

Carly,

I have never met you, but my heart breaks for you like you were my best friend. My husband, Corporal Price, was in Fallujah, too; he was shot in the left hand on December 12th, and he's now home, safe and sound, in California. I went to visit him this past week, and it was so hard to look at him, because it was like looking at a ghost. In the middle of all the joy of seeing my husband home safe, there is a twinge of guilt and anger when I think of you and others like you. I don't know why Noah got to come home and Jeff didn't, but I do know that it is because of men like Jeff that men like Noah get to make it home safe. And I promise you that I will never in my life take for granted the time that I have been given with him. I'm so sorry, Carly. With all the love in the world,

Janet Broussard

December 29, 2004

I just read all the entries in this guest book and I am truly in awe of the love and admiration for Lynn. I can tell he was a wonderful person and a great Marine. My son is with the LANG currently serving in Baghdad. I think as parents we all feel the pain every time a young man or woman dies while serving our country. Please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Jo Kirk/Lee

December 29, 2004

Peter, Lisa, Ben, Dave, & Audrey,

I love you all, and I feel your pain. It has been a few years since the last time I saw Lynn, but I always remember your Christmas with Jack and I. I treasure it(and our "early" morning shopping spree, Lisa) more than ever. I am sorry I never met Carly, but my heart and prayers go out to her. There is nothing I can say about Lynn, that has not already been said, but always remember "Greater love hath no man...."

Betty Falgout

December 26, 2004

Dear Audrey and David, Your Grandson was a very talented young man.The poem he wrote and his art work that was included in the funeral program showed a person with vision and a spirituality far beyond so many of us.Ronnie and I will keep you and Jeff's family always in our prayers. May Jeff's strength hold you up and comfort you always. Betty

Dana Blazer

December 23, 2004

My Dearest Carly, My heart is breaking for both of us. This has been the most difficult time of my life as I'm sure it is for you. Our lives will forever entertwined because of our mutual losses. Please know that I will keep you in my heart & prayers always. God Speed Jeff & Jr. till we are together again.

Love & hugs

Dana, Alyssa & Erik Blazer

In loving memory of Jeff Kirk & Melvin Blazer Jr Dec. 12, 2004

Lori Kirk Mize

December 23, 2004

Peter,Lisa,Ben.There are no words to express the gratitude for a man like Lynn Kirk. I am very proud to share a name with him. I did not get the chance to know Lynn. But I've read all the entrys of those who shared life with him. What a hero. What a gift you guys gave to all us. His ultimate sacrifice will never be forgotten. I hope to get to meet Carly one day soon too. I heard she was a beautiful person on the outside and from those who know her it sounds like she is just as beautiful inside. I love you guys and realize there will always be a hole in your heart for Lynn.But Dear God, what a wonderful person whom the world will miss. But thank you Lynn, for your gift to my family and all Americans. God give you peace and comfort because that is the gift Lynn gave us.

Randy Saucier

December 23, 2004

From Jeff's military accomplishments, he was cleary very good at what he did; a special warrior. His loss is a tragedy to us all. My special condolence to Audrey and David Kirk, grandparents, whom I consider friends.

Nathan Prejean

December 22, 2004

Jeff was like our brother, we learned alot together and he taught us so much. I will admire and miss him always.



with all of my love

David & Beverly Kirk

December 22, 2004

We moved away from Baton Rouge 15 years ago and therefore did not get to see a lot of Lynn during that time. Lynn was never out of our thoughts or our prayers. We loved Lynn very much and always admired Peter & Lisa for their love and support as Lynn grew up. Lynn became a fine gentleman and he gave the largest and strongest hugs we ever experienced. The last time we saw Lynn was at his and Carly’s wedding in 2002. We spoke with him the night before he shipped out to Iraq in September of this year. His voice still sounds our ears as a man of true convictions and great courage. We have never known a more honorable and courageous young man in our lives. We love and will miss you Lynn.

P Rounds

December 22, 2004

I've never met the Kirk family, but as the mother of an Iraqi Freedom combat vet, I wanted to express my sympathies and let you know that Sgt. Kirk and his family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Rosemary Enlow

December 22, 2004

As the mother of a former Marine, I stand among the proud for the selfless courage Lynn and countless others in the military have shown in defending this great nation. Giving one's life is the ultimate sacrifice. My heartfelt sympathy goes out to the entire Kirk family. I do not know many of you, but DO know grandparents Audrey and David for whom I have deep affection. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.



With deepest sympathy,

Omar Cosme

December 22, 2004

To the Kirk Familia: I was privilaged to know and become friends with Jeff at 2nd FAST Co. He was a great person. The first thing that comes to my mind when i think of Jeff is strength. He had super human strength. One thing that made me laugh about him was that he sounded like Rocky Balboa!! He was a great guy and an even better friend. (I still have the black shirt that he made for our platoon and so better everyone else) Carly, I never had the honor of meeting you but im sure your a great person too. My families thoughts are with you and the Kirk family. Semper Fi!

C.C. & Vickey McDonald

December 22, 2004

Thanks Jeffery for your loyal service for our country and for the freedom that it stands for. May God Bless your family during these days and the coming new year. May your memory live on and serve as an incentive for the young men who go after you in fighting for what we all believe in. God Bless The United States of America!

Forrester Goodrich

December 22, 2004

Peter, Lisa and Carly, On the way back to Houston last night, Deborah and I were discussing our son Brad's grades. He is very smart, the teachers love him but he does not turn in all his assignments. He does draw alot when he is supposed to be doing work (Do these traits sound familiar?) I stopped mid sentence and had a lump in my throat. I was teaching Jeff how to be a responsible Marine. He was teaching me to be a better father. Jeff, the old Gunny has learned the lesson. Thanks. Bradford is going to get the "Jeff Kirk" treatment.

John Graff

December 22, 2004

I do not know Sgt. Kirk or the family,except for his courageous story that I heard on the news. Nevertheless, my prayers are with his family. It is men like this that have made America what it is today; the greatest country in the world. His is a story of a hero and I know he will be sorely missed. God bless you!

Kristin & LCpl. William D. Vorhies, III

December 22, 2004

To Carly and the family and friends of Sgt. Jeffrey L. Kirk...On behalf of my husband and I, our deepest sympathies go out to all of you during this difficult time. Know that each and everyone of you is and will remain in our thoughts and prayers.



Carly~I wanted to personally thank you for always being there for me. You are the definition of a "Key Volunteer". I don't know how many times I've e-mailed you, we developed more than just an informational relationship...Thank you for being my "rock"...I hope someday I may return the generosity.



You know how much Jeff meant to my husband. He was always more than a Platoon Sgt. to Billy. He was so honored to serve with him, both tours in Iraq...and devastated at his passing. I hope that you find some comfort in the fact that Jeff will FOREVER be remembered as our "HERO"!!! God Bless you today and always...



~Semper Fi~

Mark Brown

December 21, 2004

After sitting through today's services, I feel like I have done so little with my life. Before Lynn, I never thought I knew a real hero. Today, I attended services for one. Hmb

Alan & Pat Rust

December 21, 2004

We didn't know Jeffrey,but Julius and Susie were members of our church for several years. Although we didn't know Jeffrey personally, we are thankful for what he and other young men and women like him are accomplishing in Iraq and Afghanistan. May the Lord help and bless all those who knew and loved him.

constance schwartz

December 21, 2004

God bless you in this great time of sorrow. I know Jeff will be terribly missed by those who knew and loved him.However,this is the time to celebrate his life. and find peace in knowing that our Lord and Saviour has taken home to live forever.Jeff is not gone,but is watching over you and waiting until you join him ever in Gods eternal home.I pray his family will find peace and hope in knowing this. Love & Prayers.

Kendall Zakariassen

December 21, 2004

Jeff Kirk was my rack mate in boot camp and then we were rack mates in the school of infantry and traveled together all through our careers with 2d Fast company. We had numerous talks late at night while in our bunks about life and what career paths we wanted to take. There was never a time that he would leave another man behind reagardless if it was a mission or a simple field day. Jeff Kirk was a unique invidiual with great courage and dedication to the Corps. He will be greatly missed by everyone he came into contact with. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family and friends and that a great hero was lost, but never forgotten.



Sgt. Zak

Sharon Ducote

December 21, 2004

My heartfelt sorrow goes out to the Kirk family. Although I didnot know Jeff or his wife Carly, I do know Carly's parents, Julius and Susie Furr. They are wonderful Christian people and from the conments of others their son-in-law must have touched many people's lives in a special way also. You will be in my prayers. May God be with you.

David Guitrau

December 21, 2004

May the peace of God fall upon the family and friends of Jeffrey. Thanks Jeff for your unselfish commitment to your country and its freedom.

Karl Newman

December 21, 2004

Your husband did his absolute best. Kirk was a good Marine who would do anything for his Marines. Alexis and I send our deepest condolences.

sarah thomas

December 21, 2004

You and your families are in our prayers. We thank God for the individuals like Lynn who gave the supreme sacrifice for those of us who are keenly aware that freedom is not free. God Bless you Lynn and rest in His eternal peace.

Tammy Benson

December 20, 2004

Lisa, Just wanted to let you know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers this holiday season. Although I did not know your son, it sounds as though you and Pete did an awesome job as parents. Be strong, for though Lynn's is, your job on earth is not done.

wendy&jesus guerra

December 20, 2004

we feel so sorry for your great lost carly. but jeff will not be forgotten not only as a great marine but as a geat hero..he will be on our prayers..

Ricardo Vela

December 20, 2004

I knew Kirk for a short time while at FAST Co. What can I say, the world and the USMC have lost greatly. Initially, I thought Kirk was a little strange because he was so serious and quiet. After getting to know him I understood what he was about. This guy was a true warrior. He was so mentally and physically strong. He made me want to be a better Marine without even saying a word. He will forever motivate me to do better. I will never forget him.



My family and I are deeply sorry for your loss. If there is ever anything I can do for the family, don't hesitate to give me a call.

Jo Ann Ray

December 20, 2004

Our prayers are with you all at this special time. Love Jo Ann & Jeff Ray

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