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Memories and Condolences
for Brian Parrello
mackenize
April 22, 2023
dear brian i miss you so so very much i am mackenize parrello and you are my uncle i miss you even no i never got to see you every time at 4th of july i think of you and what you did for ourer country you are my hero and no one can replace it
Erica Mandt-Musto
July 8, 2014
Thinking about you today and always B.
Nicole LaVine
June 15, 2014
Brian-
I saw a movie tonight called "Lone Survivor" it happened to be about navy seals an not marines but the story portrayed the brother hood of others that people in the service have for one another.
The powerful story made me think of you right away an the fact that you to gave your life for the other lives of your fellow Marine brothers and our country!!!
So tonight I honor you an i light this candle in memory of your life An the sacrifices you made for not only our country but your "brothers"
All my love
Nicole LaVine
Class of 2003
Bobby Cline
January 19, 2014
I feel your pain and wish I could say something to take away your tears. my brother Mark was much like Brian because he believed in what he was doing. mark died in 1968 in Viet Nam.
Daniel Wittnam
January 1, 2014
Brian,
You are gone but will never be forgotten. Kilo Company, 3rd Battalion, 7th Marines fired mortar illumination last night over Sangin, AFG to ring in the New Year and to celebrate your life. An added benefit was to deter enemy freedom of movement in the Sangin Valley. Despite you being gone for nine years now, I remember our time together on the Euphrates River like it was yesterday. I knew that you would enjoy the light show and were looking down and providing an added layer of protection to our Marines and Sailors on the anniversary of your passing. I pass along the story of your life to our Marines often and speak about the uncertainty and the fraternity that can only be forged under fire in combat. I rest easier knowing that the last moments of our life were spent with Marines of Small Craft near Haditha. I remember vividly the phone call the MSgt Hogan and I received from the hospital that you were a Hero (military speak for fatal casualty). We both sat in awkward silence as we couldn't find the words to describe our sadness and frustration of losing such a young a seemingly invincible young warrior. Thank you for your sacrifice and laying down your life for your brothers. Semper Fidelis -- Gamewarden 6.
January 1, 2014
9 long and agonizing years....the pain and tears never stop.they are a constant reminder of how much we miss you..again we will gather together in your honor to celebrate a life cut short. Some of your Marine brothers will be with us as well as your niece Addison and all your younger cousins. Most of who never got to know you, but they know all about you.i know you would be proud of Matt and Anthony and all their accomplishments. Please keep them safe..Mike ran your mile this year in the NJ run for the fallen. I was able to spend a great deal of time with Mike this year and share with him all the things that were done or given to us in your Honor. You know how much you are loved and missed so there is really nothing more to say...love your PROUD MARINE MOM.
Kerry Gerety
December 31, 2013
Remembering the young man this family knew. God Bless you.
Leann Martin
November 11, 2013
Thank you for your service. I hope to thank you face to face one day on the other side. I'll be looking for you.
Peggy Childers
January 1, 2013
To the family and friends of Lance Cpl. Brian P. Parrello:
It has truly been my honor to sign Brian's guest book these past few years. Unfortunately, due to complications from my Multiple Sclerosis, it has become increasingly difficult for me to continue at this time. Please forgive me and know that Brian will always be remembered in my home.
With love and respect ~ Peggy
January 1, 2013
Hey Marine.
In my thoughts as always, not a day goes by that you are not remembered. You blessed us all that we knew you. Pictures on the walls, my stories to my sons of what a fine USMC Marine you were. My son Daniel Brian flys your flag in his room, carries your name with pride, we pass your pictures adorning our new home every day and I am honoured to speak of you when we have visitors. Forever remembered Brian, your legacy remains with us forever until one day we can join you again. Stand easy Marine. You have excelled your duty. We remain safe because of you. An honour to have served with you. God Bless'es the best,God Bless you Brian.
Always. WO1 RSM Matt Tomlinson CGC MC RM British Royal Marines. Sharon and the Kids. Forever in my thoughts.
December 31, 2012
Brian, how is it possible that 8 years has passed since that tragic day..still seems like yesterday..tomorrow we will gather as always to honor your life. There will be someone special joining us this year, your niece Addison. Unfortunately she will never know her Uncle Brian in life. I know Matt will share all his Brian's stories with her and she will learn all about you. Please watch over her and your brother's. The years go by, but the sadness and heartache remain the same. You are missed and loved by so many, and have touched so many lives. You have have made us all proud, I only hope I have made you proud..LOVE AND MISS YOU ALWAYS AND FOREVER...MOM
Shirley Parrello
November 22, 2012
MR. B...another Thanksgiving without you. There will be plenty of family , food, and thoughts of you. As always I know you will be there with us in spirit and in all of our hearts....Matt and Anthony placed your Christmas tree up at the cemetary and fri. It will be decorated by your cousins, most of whom never had the opportunity to know you ..they know all about you and in time will learn more about the Mr. B we all know and love...MISS YOU, LOVE ALWAYS and FOREVER, MOM
May 28, 2012
May you rest in peace.
Shirley Parrello
May 25, 2012
Hey Bri..as everyone prepares for the long holiday weekend, I can only think of how much I miss you. Starting with Mothers Day and ending with your Birthday on June 7th, it's a roller coaster of emotions..I spent Mother's Day in Cape May, being near the water that always makes me feel closer to you. Dad and I were invited by Brendan Kenny, your classmate and friend, to the HS where teaches history ..there, they had a Memorial Day service that included Brendan telling the students all about you.. Yes, even the crazy things..It was awesome and such an honor to be included ..as we left and were driving home you know what song came on the radio...Thanks for that. Tomorrow we will be in the Poconos with your family..No one will have to say anything because we all are thinking the same thing..how much we wish you were there.. you loved being there with all of us.. so many things are going on in our family and you are not here to celebrate with us..the birth of your first Niece, Addison and your cousin Grayson. the upcoming wedding of Anthony and Dana, your cousin Laura and all the graduations of Joanna and Danielle..Scholarship night is around the corner and in your honor we are presenting 4 scholarships..2 hockey to the senior players who recently helped retire your Hockey Jersey and 2 Military Awards presented to 2 Marine recruits..And then there is your 27th Birthday..I know i should be thankful for the 19 years i had to love you, but.....I often call the house just to listen to your voice on the answering machine or listen to the messages you left on my cell..I am thankful that i have them. Please know that you and all stood for will never be forgotten... Love and Miss you, ALWAYS AND FOREVER..MOM
Peggy Childers
January 1, 2012
To the family and friends of Lance Cpl. Brian P. Parrello:
Always remembering Brian. "Some gave all."
Aunt Trisha
January 1, 2012
Hi Brian,
7 years ago today you were taken away from us. It hurts just as much today as it did when i got the phone call. The Outback was great, just because we were all together (minus you, although you were with us in spirit).
We all miss you so much, your smile, your laughter, and your hugs. Please
continue to keep an eye on us and to keep us safe.
Forever in my heart
Shirley Parrello
December 31, 2011
Hey Bri..as the hours pass it gets closer and closer to that time where you left us..People sometimes say you are in a better place.. as far as I'm concerned the only place you should be is here with us.. I look at all the kids in our family and think about how you and them have both been cheated out of so much.. They will never get to know the Brian the way we do. only thru pictures and stories. you will never have the opportunity to hold or hug them, rough house with them or make them feel better when they cry. Your niece Baby P. will never know her uncle Brian. There are so many happy things happening in our family this year. Dana and Anthony will be married , Matt and Jenn will have Baby P. Laura and Rick are getting Married, Becky and dan are expecting and You will also be getting another cousin from Dan and Christine. No matter how happy the occassion is, there is always something missing , and that is you.. I know you give me signs that you all always around and God knows I need that, but it's just not the same...7 years is a long time to be without someone you love and time doesn't make it easier. I would trade places with you in a minute if i could so you could live your life and have the opportunity to be a husband, father, uncle and friend . Please continue to protect your Brothers and all the little people in our family. Your Christmas tree looks great this year, ithink it will be planted by Matt and Jenn's. Tomorrow is the Outback to celebrate your life with our family. this years special guest is Martini Jeannie and Uncle Ted..You are always in our thoughts and forever in our hearts..Love you Brian.
December 31, 2011
Hey Marine- Its nearly that time of the year when you bravely paid the ultimate sacrifice in order that we may sleep safely at night. A MAN,HERO AND TRUE MARINE- MADE OF SUCH HONESTY AND LOYALTY TO US ALL- WE WILL NEVER FORGET YOU BRIAN. GOD BLESS YOU AND GOD BLESS YOUR VERY SPECIAL FAMILY. WO 1 Matthew Tomlinson CGC MC RM- Royal Marine blessed to have served alongside such a fantastic Brother in Arm.
Jessica Troeller
September 11, 2011
Rallo, I thank you for the years of being my '2nd brother' when mine decided to be mean & you'd always give me a hug when he wasn't looking. You always looked out for me in general. If it wasn't for a cut knee after taking my bike training wheels off, it was just out of pure love which you were full of. You always lit up the room no matter what. I remember specifically every time you walked up our stairs, we knew exactly who it was. miss you 'big bro' theres not a day i dont think about you.
Shirley Parrello
May 27, 2011
Hey Mr. B..started the holiday weekend off on thurs. with Marines from nc at the Honor Day celebration at Eagle oaks Country Club..Gotta love those Marines..we all had a great time.. They were all very special and there were plenty of hugs going around..just finished writing the speech for Memorial Day , when we present West Milford with an Honor and Remember Flag..It's to honor you and all those who have fallen before and after you, from all wars..tomorrow will be a tough one Brian, another family get together in the pocono's without you..then next week your Birthday..Scholarship awards at the HS, Mike's graduation..the Hope and Possibility 5M (giving another hand crank bike endowed in your name to a wounded vet) and the list goes on..bottom line is that YOU SHOULD BE HERE. Life goes on , but the pain never stops.. Love and Miss You, your PROUD MARINE MOM..
Elizabeth Raab
January 14, 2011
Your legacy will forever live on in the hearts of those who knew you and shared in your struggle to protect our country and the ultimate sacrifice you gave so that we can be grateful for what we have. Your family, friends, loved ones and fellow soldiers will stay in my thoughts and prayers.
A Proud Military Mom.
Peggy Childers
January 1, 2011
To the family and friends of Lance Cpl. Brian P. Parrello:
Please accept my remembrance of Brian on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten in my home.
Peggy Childers
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Miss your hugs..
Shirley Parrello
January 1, 2011
Hey Mr B...How is it possible that it has been 6 years since I touched , hugged and kissed you? The pain never stops and no, it doesn't get better with time..I can remember every single detail of that horrible day and the ones that followed as it it were yesterday.. You are loved and missed so much by those who knew you as Brian, Rallo and as LCpl... You are even missed by those who didn't get the opportunity to know you, Will, Kyla, Madison and now Caiden Brian..Everyone does a great job in telling these young ones all about you in terms they can understand.. I look forward to the day that i can share your Marine Albums with them along with pictures and emails that tell the story of your life..Today, we will sit as a family at one of your favorite resturants and together celebrate the baby, boy, man ,Marine and HERO you have become..SCCO will be represented again this year by Rich Rupert and we are so happy that he can join us ..i have been in touch with many members of SCCO and it's comforting to know you will never be forgotten by them..Uncle Jimmy says thanks for the visit..I think we could use a few more of those if you could spare the time from your duties up above..Love and Miss you more than you will ever know Brian..You will forever be a part of me and my Broken heart..PEACE
WO 1 Matthew Tomlinson, Royal Marines
December 31, 2010
Hey Brian,Its been another year, full of thoughts for you, as with all Marines you especially will never be forgotten. Its cold here in the UK, wish I could borrow your gloves again. As you did before back in Nov 2004 Iraq,you remember, well I will forever. At the going down of the sun and in the morining we will remember them. God Bless you Brian, and God bless your family.
Aunt Trisha
December 18, 2010
With a heavy heart and alot of tears in our eyes the holidays are slowly approching. We miss you so much. Will asks about you everyday, and we never get tired of telling him what he wants to know. He is little you. He has your sense of humor and when he gets mad watch out!!!!. Kaitlin...is amazing...your memory will never be forgotten as long as she is around. You would be proud of her!! She wrote a story for the school newspaper about Jimmy B. He loved it.
Miss you!
Forever in our hearts
December 15, 2010
Most people say "it's the most wonderful time of the year." I could not disagree more. It is the worst and most dreadful part for me and gets harder and harder as time passes on. You are forever with me...always
"See you when I see you"
LOST HEROES ART QUILT..BRIAN REPRESENTS NJ
Shirley Parrello
November 25, 2010
Hey Brian..November started out with dad and I going to Branson Missouri to honor not only veterans past and present, but to also meet with other Gold Star Parents whose Heroes are representing their home states on the LOST HEROES ART QUILT..there was quite a turnout and the proceeds of the LOST HEROES ART QUILT BOOK went to Snow Ball Express..$10,000.00...The month is ending as always with another thanksgiving without you..There will be both laughter and tears as there are now as i write this..HONOR AND REMEMBER is what i am dedicating my life to now Brian.. For all those veterans past and present..I hope you are proud of us and how we all try to Honor and Remember..It is the least we could do..Love and Miss you, your Proud Marine Mom...
Aunt Trisha
November 24, 2010
Brian
Here we go again. Another holiday without you. We will be at Uncle Jimmy's house stuffing our faces as usual. You will be with us in spirit, that i know. I'm sure we will be having alot of laughs,especially when we talk about you and the crazy things you did.
Happy Thanksgiving in Heaven....
Miss you now and always.
Forever in my Heart
NJ Run for the Fallen ..Dedicated military who ran in honor of Brian and his Fallen Brothers and Sisters.
October 3, 2010
Mr. B..What a month it has been..There were so many things going on in your honor and also all the Fallen Heroes..We started Sept off celebrating Uncle Jr.s 80th..No words need to be spoken, cause when i hug him we both gently weep and we know why..There was also the Brian P. Parrello Memorial Classic Youth Bowl game where Kaitlin gave her speech and the wonderful people running it raised $500.00 to be added to your Scholarship Fund..Aunt Dina and I Went to the Nautilaus Museum in Groton, Conn to transport the Lost Heroes Art Quilt, in which you represent NJ, to the West Point Museum.. Needless to say it was a great road trip with Uncle Argo's company van..There were plenty of laughs, a few tears and we meet some awesome people..Last weekend, we spent time in Cape May for the start of the NJ Run for the Fallen.. We met up with Bubba ( home from his 7th tour) and all the runners from Maguire and Fort Dix that made the weekend so special.We spent time by the ocean because that's one of the places i feel closer to you.. You loved piloting that Swiftboat in Iraq. I am sure you spent plenty of time on the water..On Sun the 26th, I walked your mile at the track before we headed down to Uncle Jimmy's to have breakfast before heading over to Mile Marker #130..Once we were all set up, we waited patiently for Bubba and Rob and the escorts, all the while playing music I downloaded from your ipod and computer.. Laura joined the runners to run your mile ..Aunt dina and I were Jumping up and down when we saw them approaching in the distance..It was so awesome Brian..I know you were there with Laura , Bubba and Rob.
One of the first Runners I met was Jason, from Maguire ..over the coarse of the weekend we talked and he will be running in the Military Ruck at Maguire in Oct...Jason and his team will be running for you Brian.. It should be a great time...Bubba has your Bracelet that he will be wearing when he returns to Afghanastan in a few days..Rob also was given one before the run...Brian, please keep them all safe so their families don't have to endure the pain that we do..Looking forward to your hugs..Love and Miss you..MOM
September 11, 2010
I'm thinking of you as always... but especially today because today is the day that helped you make your choice. I couldn't be more proud of you. I miss you like crazy but its days like today that make me so proud and at the same time miss you most. I love you forever and wish more than ever that you were here with me. See you when I see you. Xoxo
A
Uncle Jr and Brian..my 2 favorite Marines
shirley parrello
September 7, 2010
Hey Mr. B.
Still winding down from the incredible weekend we had..another one without you.friday nite we attended the Brian P. Parrello Football Classic and Kaitlin did an awesome job with her speech. Sat. was Uncle Jrs. 80th Birthday party in the Poconos, I signed your name on his Birthday Banner..One Marine To Another..Today, dad and I had the honor of receiving your NJ Distinguished Service Award Medal..Aunt trisha and Grandma were also in Attendance. I was able to see Jimmy before he left, and we had an incredible talk about you....i recently received a beautiful letter from Amanda..5 years later brian, we are all still grieving for you..you have made such an impact on so many lives it's sad to think that you never got to reach your full potential..you had so much more to offer this crazy world..we have many events coming up in honor of you and your fallen brothers .I know you are always with us, i just hope you know how proud we are of you and how much you are loved and missed...Love always and forever, your PROUD MARINE MOM...
Aunt Trisha
September 3, 2010
Hey Brian, What a night! Kaitlin gave a great speech at the LCPL Brian Parrello Youth Bowl.
Tomorrow we will be in the poconos the celebrate Uncle Jr's 80th Birthday... We know you will be there in spirit..
Miss you today and always
Forever in my Heart
July 22, 2010
B- It's crazy. We talk and share stories like they happened yesterday and you were with us. You'll always be with us and we will never forget you. A part of you is in each and every one of us and we'll hold onto that piece forever. Thanks for the recent and frequent visits. It's a relief to see your smile but hate only being able to see you in my dreams. You took a huge part of me when you left and you'll forever have it. I love you more than words can express and miss you even more.
"I'll see you when I see you."
Aunt Trisha
June 7, 2010
Happy Birthday Brian. I can't believe 25 years ago i held you in my arms. I remember it like it was yesterday.
Kaitlin did a great job at the scholarship awards. You would have been proud of her.
Miss you today and always.
Brian celebrating his birthday with his cousins
Shirley Parrello
June 6, 2010
HAPPY 25TH BIRTHDAY BRIAN..It's hard to believe it will be 25 years ago tomorrow that dad and I welcomed you into the world. I try to think of what would have been..all the what ifs..From a boy to a man in the blink of an eye..And then taken from us before you even had a chance to grow old..I hope you know how proud we all are of you..5 Hockey Scholarships and 1 Military Award were presented in your Honor at WMHS to 6 deserving Seniors..Sending a birthday hug your way with lots of love..Missing you like crazy..love you always and forever..MOM
Infantry Training Graduation 2004
shirley parrello
May 30, 2010
Hey Brian
Thursday I had the honor of being in the company of over 200 of your Marine Brothers up for Fleet Week, from Camp Leguene.It was Honor Day at Eagle Oaks country Club..And Honor them they did..there was great food, drinks , dancing and plenty of hugs to go around..It was a happy event to honor those who unselfishly give so much..Sat. up to the pocono's for our usual family gathering..You were there in spirit, I know. because you loved it up there..and I know you were in everyone's thoughts..Sun, another family event without you..Becky's wedding to Dan..It's just not Fair..You should be there with us..then, Monday..Memorial Day..A day that we will remember you with love ,
laughter and honor ..It's a day just like every day for your family and friends.. the emptiness and sadness has not lessened since you left us..You will forever live on in our hearts. Love you LCPL. BRIAN P. PARRELLO. My Son, My Hero.
Aunt Trisha
May 28, 2010
Hi Brian,
Memorial Day is just around the corner, and as usual we will be in the Poconos, and you will be in our hearts as always. Caiden is making his first Pocono trip.
Thinking about you today and always
Love always
Shirley Parrello
May 16, 2010
Hey Bri, another ornament was added to your tree at picatinney today, for ARMED FORCES DAY...Sharing the pain with family and friends as we remember and honor the 135 men and woman of NJ who , like you made the ultimate sacrifice..Your FB page is great..Little Caiden made his first memorial today..New Dawn is now in the hands of many family and friends and will tell us all about our great military...You included..Richard Lowry did a great job..Spent some time in your room today , thinking of days past when i would lay on your bed looking up at the collage on your ceiling while you were working on the computer and listening to your music..It's exactly how you left it...Love always and forever, MOM
Kaitlin Reich
March 9, 2010
Hey B,
Miss you so much.... more than ever. Mom's always say that their kids grow up way to fast. For some reason, it seems like my 15 years here have been dragging on and on. Feeling so small in this huge world lately. Can't wait to leave, though that may sound horrible. I think my goals are to big for WM to handle. Once I'm off for college, I'm off for a long time. Even though this is HOME, I can't help but think that this is not where I really belong. I need to be able just to run and never look back, I want to find out if love really is the size of an ocean and even if I crash down or burnout in the end, at least I'll know what it's like to just be out there. And Brian, I am not scared. I'm more scared of what will happen if I stay here forever. I just don't think it's good for me anymore.
Thanks for being that voice in my head (More like kick in my butt) that keeps me out of trouble. Came in very handy today. Please continue to keep me out of trouble and keep me safe. I really need you to do that right now.
Love you Bro.
XOXOX,
Kaitlin
January 23, 2010
Hey Mr. B
Missing you alot this week..Another family torn apart. Sgt Chris Hrbek's family will now know the pain that we are enduring..Spoke with Kevin P. yesterday and we shared a great deal about you..Hope to see him at the SCCO reunion along with all your other Brothers..Brian, I feel so lost without you. Love always and forever, MOM
Matthew Tomlinson
January 1, 2010
L/Cpl Brian Parrelo USMC.
At the going down of the sun and in the morning we will remember you. The US Marines the British Royal Marines, God bless you all. God Bless you Brian.
WO 1 Matthew Tomlinson CGC RM (Colours)Royal Marines
Matthew Tomlinson
January 1, 2010
To one of the finest US Marines I have ever had the honour to serve alongside. Brian, to say you are remembered today on new years day would not be true, my friend, you are remembered very day of every year. Why? , because of who you were, and what you stand for, an absolute true Hero, a person I am so proud and lucky to have known. Brian,a name I include in my sons name, in order to ensure you are forever part of our future families lives when we one day join you.
Forever in our thoughts Brian, God blesses you. God blesses the Brave.
God Bless your Mum, Dad, Brothers and Relatives. Know that we are all thinking of you not only now but always.
WO 1 Matthew Tomlinson CGC RM
Royal Marines, England
Shirley Parrello
January 1, 2010
Hey Bri
5 years..I still can't believe it. The Pain, sadness and tears never stop.ONe second in time and all of our lives were changed forever. Today we will again celebrate your life with family at one of your favorite places..I know you will be there with all of us in spirit and in our hearts..You were blessed to have such wonderful, loving people in your life and we were blessed to have you, even if it was for only 19 years .Thank you Mr.B for all the hugs,love and laughter you gave to me..You are forever loved and missed. Your PROUD MARINE MOM
Peggy Childers
January 1, 2010
To the family and friends of Lance Cpl. Brian P. Parrello:
Remembering Brian on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
December 31, 2009
Dear Brian,
5 years ago you were taken away from us, and our lives haven't been the same. We miss you more each day. Happy New year's in heaven.
Love you always
Grandma and Grandpa
Aunt Trisha
December 31, 2009
Brian,
It's that time of the year again. A time we use to love,because we would all get together, play poker,have a couple of drinks and do alot of laughing. Five years ago it became our worst nightmare. They say that time heals all wounds. Time has not healed our wounds we just learned to live with them. Kaitlin is finally able to be a normal 15 year old. Tonight she is at Tim's house,enjoying herself. Will is pissed he couldn't go. He is just like you. He wants to be where all the action is. He forgets that he is only 6.
I miss you so much Brian, Your laugh,your smile and your hugs.
Just like my tattoo says
Forever in my heart<3
Jon Snow
December 31, 2009
It's been 5 years. I often imagine what it would be like if you were still with us. I am actually sitting here with Rupert and as always we talk about you. Roehrig is actually coming down from NY for New Years. I know we would still be great friends and you might be coming to Philly too.
Thank you for all you have done for the Small Craft guys. I miss you much and I still have permanent shotgun in the Neon.
Love,
Snow
Kaitlin Reich
December 30, 2009
Hey Kid,
So everythings been a little crazy around here. miss you more and more each day during this time of year. wish it would get better but apparantly time does not heal all. Gonna be partying it up this new year's, though.... I decided that's what you would want most. My friend said that there would be a toast made to you at midnight... I told him to forget the toast. . .that all we need to do is remember what you died fihgting for (and maybe pass a Rolling Rock around!! ) just kidding. . . this I know you would probably not want from me yet. Woke up this morning at about 4 am and am still swearing up and down i heard your voice. Wgo knows at this point, right? Let me tell you something, if that';s what I have to believe in, then fine. Fine with me. I was talking to Courtney B. via email a few weeks ago. You are still so missed by the people who COULD NEVER forget. I pray that over time that God heals their pain, and the pain of our family. A friend a song for you a few days ago, and she gave it to me when i saw her last night:
You'll Always Be
Music and Lyrics by Gianna Galioto
for Kait and Brian
I remember the day clearly
I know I'll never forget
I never thought it would happen
I thought God wouldn't let it
But I guess it wasn't meant to be
I still wish you were here with me
Chorus: You'll Always be my hero
Not a day goes by without thinking of you
You'll always be in my mind
With every little thing I do
You'd pick me up when I was down
But your wings are more useful
Where you are now
Time passes by without you
Its too much for me to take
It was much worse before this
Held back tears with smiles I faked
And I know time can heal all wounds
I just wish that time would come soon
Chorus
You were always right here with me
And now you're gone but I can't see
Why'd you, why'd you have to leave?
Without you I feel so empty. . .
But,
Chorus
Love you with all my heart and will try to make it up to see you soon,
xoxoxoxoox,
Miss Kaitlin
Juan rubio
December 29, 2009
Hello brother, Things are going good right now. Of course dreading the New Year Day. I'm going to do the best i can to make it through the day. I have made some very good friends who are vets. We talk about the good, bad, and the ugly about our deployments. I talk about you a lot. Thanks again for the twenty.
juan
Amanda A
December 25, 2009
B,
MERRY CHRISTMAS :) I know you're partying it up like ever up there. We're Stilling missing you more than ever but will be up in a couple of days to see you! Love and Miss you more than you'll ever know XOXO <3
December 25, 2009
Hey Mr. B
Another Christmas without you..We watched videos of past christmas at grandma's with everyone when all you guys were younger..Even then, you were so full of life and spirit. You watched over your younger cousins and had such determination to suceed in whatever it was you wanted to do.. I guess that determination is what made you a great Marine..The best gift of all was the phone call from Rupert..The lights on your tree look nice..We gave out the LOST HEROES ART QUILT BOOKS to everyone where you are proudly representing the state of NJ on page 70. I ran into Snoops at the gym and he had on his Angel Tag he says he wears it all the time...I plan on giving him a copy of Kaitlin's video..He's doing well and like all the rest of us misses you ..I miss your hugs, laughter, smile and voice..Forever in my heart Brian..I love you ,MOM
Aunt Trisha
December 10, 2009
Thinking about you today and everyday.
We all miss you so much.
Don Webb
December 9, 2009
Brian it was a pleasure meeting your mom tonight. She is a very strong woman.
Shirley Parrello
November 28, 2009
Hi Bri, The holiday weekend is winding down and again without you ..Uncle Jimmy's as usual. Heard from M. cummings and he sent me the video..Can't watch it just yet, but I will.They buried J.F. close by you. I can only imagine the two of you playing hockey together. It's sad that another family has to endure the pain of losing a son...Love and Miss you .MOM
The Kittlesons
November 11, 2009
Brian, thank you for your service & sacrifice. You will never be forgotten.
shirley Parrello
September 29, 2009
Hi Brian
Just spent the weekend in Washington with all the Gold Star Families. It's amazing how we all support each other and continue to support the troops that are continuing the mission. They dedicated the LOST HEROES ART QUILT Fri nite with you representing NJ and it was also at the ceremony on Sat. We shed many tears this past weekend , but also had many laughs. I am sure you , Matt and Mike had a good laugh at the quilt presentation. Miss you much. Love you, Mom.
Kaitlin Reich
September 4, 2009
I'm soooo lost in HS and am finding it weirder and weirder that teachers i have go "Oh! You're a Parrello, right?" All I can say is "Close. . . I'm on their mom's side." On her side of the family and forever by her side . . .God, Brian I am so proud to be considered "A Parrello". But like I said, HS+Kaitlin= AHHHHHHHH! I'm constantly lost and scared, and trust me I know you were laughing your butt off today as I got lost and slowly began hitting my head against the glass enclosure by the main enterance, practically in tears. I saw I yellow butterfly out the window, Shook my head, laughed, and looked up at your jersey. I stopped there yesterday too. It'll probably be daily, and kids will think I am a freak, but . . . I don't give. Whatever it takes to get me through the day without giving myself a concussion. Just no more butterflies, Ok? It gives me the creeps:)
Love,
The little freshman who could not be more proud to be a gold star cousin.
Blowing a kiss up to heaven,
Miss Kaitlin
NJ RUN FOR THE FALLEN ..MILE MARKER 130
Shirley Parrello
September 3, 2009
BRAIN,YOU WILL BE FOREVER IN OUR HEARTS ...WE ALL MISS YOU
NJ RUN FOR THE FALLEN
September 3, 2009
Hey Bri
Thinking about you alot. We had the NJ RUN for The Fallen and it was Awesome. Bubba is something else. We started at Uncle JImmy's for breakfast and then went to your mile marker to place your banner and stand united as a family waiting for them to honor your memory. The shirts looked great . A Marine Capt from Camp Legeune stopped , spoke with us and left us with a coin from the 2nd Marine Div. I know you were there with us from the beginning (the butterfly circling the gazebo at Uncle Jim's) and then the downpour at the end of the race. the next few weeks will be busy with the Broken Hearts Memorial, time of Rememberance, the Elks Memorial picnic and then Rolling Thunders Dedication. Kaitlin started HS today. I can't believe she is walking the same halls that you did a few years ago. Miss you more than you will ever know. Love your proud Marine Mom...
Kenna Larra
July 20, 2009
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Daniel Wittnam
July 12, 2009
Brian,
My heart is still filled with sadness and disbelief. It has been over four years now and your passing has not become any easier with time. It is obvious by the postings from your family that you sacrificed a more than most to serve your country and for that I am thankful. Thank you for your unselfishness and willing sacrifice for your fellow Marines. You serve daily as an inspiration to me.
Semper Fidelis,
Dan Wittnam
Shirley Parrello
June 7, 2009
HAPPY BIRTHDAY MR. B
WENT TO DINNER AT THE OUTBACK WITH DAD, MATT, ANTHONY AND DANA TO CELEBRATE YOUR BIRTHDAY AND LIFE. YOU WERE THERE IN SPIRIT AND AS ALWAYS IN OUR HEARTS. I MISS YOUR HUGS AND LAUGH... LOVE AND MISS YOU, MOM
Aunt Trisha
June 7, 2009
HAPPY BIRTHDAY BRIAN!!!!
24 years ago you came into our lives, only to be taken away to early. We miss you and think about you every day.
Hope you have a good one.
Forever in my heart
Kaitlin Reich
June 5, 2009
I really don't see how me being embarraseed in DC was funny. I was practically crying! LOL. Everyone was watching as female officer patted me down and a male officer did a metal detector. alarms were blasting. I hope you are laughing your butt off because that was your birthday gift. Have a good one. miss you lots. Until we meet again,
Your potential convict cousin,
Kaitlin
Amanda Atieh
June 4, 2009
B,
Your birthday weekend celebration kicks off tomorrow with nothing but Rolling Rocks and telling stories from the past. For some reason, I feel like it's going to be the hardest one. It doesn't get any easier as time goes on. Think of you everyday and been missing you more than ever. Love you.
Shirley Parrello
June 3, 2009
Hey Mr. B
Scholarship awards tomorrow night.Mr Fraser can't make it this year, but he wrote another awesome speech and it will be presented by Mr Blakely. We will be giving out 1 hockey award and 1 military award in your honor. You have made us all so proud Brian. YOur brother will be there to hand out the award. You are in our thoughts and hearts always. Love and Miss YOu, MOM..
Aunt Trisha
June 3, 2009
Hi Brian,
Kaitlin is in Washington and YOU caused a little problem. You see she was wearing your "Angel Chain" and forgot to take if off before going thru the metal detectors. I think every alarm went off and she was pulled aside and they had to use the metal detecting wand on her. I could almost hear you laughting now. You would have appreciated it.
Miss you
Forever in our hearts
Casey Hines
June 2, 2009
Miss you bro. Think about you every day.
Aunt Trisha
May 25, 2009
Hi Brian,
As this Memorial Day comes to an end our thoughts of you go on and on. Your brothers look so handsome in their police uniforms as the walk you mom up to receive her flowers presents to her and Mrs Butkus at the Memorial ceremony.
On saturday we were in the Poconos. As usual we did alot of laughing,especially when we all talked about the old days.
Miss you always
Forever in our Hearts
Shirley Parrello
May 25, 2009
Thinking of you and all fallen heroes on this Memorial Day. We will never forget you,all those that when went before you and those who will continue to make the ultimate sacrifice. Mr B. you are forever in our hearts...LOVE AND MISS YOU MORE THAN YOU WILL EVER KNOW. YOUR PROUD MARINE MOM....
Shirley Parrello
May 24, 2009
Hi Mr.B
Went to the poconos to see everyone today. As usual it was fun and all the kids had a great time. I brought up the new portrait to show everyone and they all loved it. It was from the picture we took at your going away party when you were holding will. I have been thinking about you more than usual. I guess it's because of Memorial day. the Scholarship Awards at the High School and lets not forget your 24th Birthday. We all miss you so much Brian. The tears and heartache never stop. Love and Miss you, Mom
Aunt Trisha
March 17, 2009
Hi Brian,
Happy St. Patricks Day in Heaven.
We miss you
Forever in my heart
Shirley Parrello
March 15, 2009
Hey Brian
Not having a good night. But then again, no day or night is ever good. My heart is aching because I miss you, your smile , your laugh and most of all your hugs. Trying to keep busy so I don't have time to think about how much we all miss you. The portrait that Kevin Taylor drew is so lifelike that I feel that you are looking right at me. It's comforting to look up and see you there. If only it were really you. Met up with matt and mike's mom. Together we share our stories and heartaches. You were chosen to represent NJ on
the Lost Heroes Art Quilt . I got to share your story with people from all over the country. Brian , you will never be forgotten. Love and Miss you. Your Proud Marine Mom.
Aunt Trisha
March 10, 2009
Hi Brian,
Just sitting here waiting for Will to come home from school. I was looking at family pictures that Will needs for school and right at the top Will put your picture. He wants that one to be the first in the book. I don't even know if he remembers you (he was so young) when you left us. But he keeps telling me he wishes you could see how big and strong he got. I keep telling him that you do see him and that you are always watching over him and protecting him,Kaitlin and the rest of the family.
Forever in my heart
matthew tomlinson
January 8, 2009
BRIAN, ive just been reading all the lovely words and thoughts your loved ones have written to you. Your some Guy. Always in my thoughts, My son Daniel-Brian is now 3, A day will come when he asks of his name, It will give me great honour to explain my reasons for his chosen name, Its a special name from a very special person. God Bless you Brian, God Bless your Family, You are the Hero Forever in our Hearts. WO 2 M TOMLINSON (COLOURS) ROYAL MARINES, AFGHANISTAN 12,08-07/09
In Memory of Brian ~ (Debra Estep)
January 1, 2009
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Brian, but I am remembering
his service and sacrifice. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
Grandma and Grandpa
January 1, 2009
Dear Brian
They say time will heal a broken heart. Time doesn't heal you just learn to live with the pain. It has been 4 years since you were taken from us without even a chance to say good-bye..
We love you and miss you more each day.
Love always
Shirley Parrello
January 1, 2009
Mr. B
Thank you. 4 years ago you left us without a chance to say goodbye. Instead you left us with memories that we will cherish forever. You came into our lives and allowed us to love and take care of you for 19 years. Now, you are taking care of us, only from up above. Brian, my heart was shattered four years ago today and the pieces will never be put together again. I am trying to learn to live with it, I have no choice. I look to you for guidance and strength to help me thru each day. I look forward to the day that I will feel your arms around me giving me one of your awesome hugs. Take good care of Jersey for Matt and Jen. And thank you again for loving and protecting us, and allowing us to love you. You have made all of us very proud and will forever live on in our hearts. Semper Fi. Love Mom.
Peggy Childers
January 1, 2009
To the family of Lance Cpl. Brian P. Parrello:
Brian gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Aunt Trisha,Uncle Bill,Kaitlin & Will
December 31, 2008
Brian,
It's that time of the year again. Everyone has that empty feeling of loss. Your memory will live on forever in our hearts. Tomorrow as we eat at the "Outback" we will be sharing memories as well as tears.
Forever in our hearts
Uncle Jimmy
December 31, 2008
Brian
This is the worst time of year and this the worst day. Time moves on, my kids get bigger as I become older but time for me is frozen, to this day 4 years ago, I mss you dearly as does the rest of the family. Till we meet agian.
Doc Rubio
December 22, 2008
Heroes never die. They live on forever in the hearts and minds of those who would follow in their footsteps, by Emily Potter.
Aunt Trisha
December 22, 2008
I can't believe that Dec 24th will be 4 years since we have heard your voice. Kaitlin is amazing. I wish you could see what a beautiful young lady she has become. You left such an amazing impact on her. Will is you with red hair. He has your personality.
We miss you dearly and not a day goes by that your name is not mentioned.
Forever in our hearts
Doc Rubio
December 21, 2008
Here we go again, pushing forward through another set of Holidays. My thoughts and prays are with you and your family. God Bless my dear brother and all your love one here on earth.
Shirley Parrello
December 21, 2008
Hey Bri,
It's that time of year again. The holidays are here and the 4th aniversary of your death is near. It still seems like yesterday. Kaitlin did some wonderful things lately . You would be so proud of her. She's amazing!!!. The tears and heartache are never ending. Keep your brothers safe and know that you will live on forever in my heart. Love, mom.
Aunt Trisha
November 28, 2008
Hi Brian,
I can't believe that the holidays are upon us again, and you won't be here with us. We went to uncle Jimmy's for dinner. It was nice sitting at the table after dinner and telling some stories about you.
You would be soooo proud of Kaitlin.
Project Grateful is finally finished. What an amazing job she did. She also created a cd all about you. It was great.
You are forever in my heart
Miss you
Love Always
Shirley Parrello
November 27, 2008
Hey Mr. B
Happy Thanksgiving. Another holiday celebrated without you. went to Uncle Jimmy's with everyone. You were thought of often and missed terribly. Your cousin Kaitlin is amazing. The Book is completed and she gave us a copy. It's unbelievable. She also put together a cd about you that I can't even begin to describe. You would be so proud of her, as we all are. Dec 2, we all go to Picatinney Arsenal so that she can present the book that will be sent to the Marine's from Picatinney that are presently in Iraq. She has put her heart and soul into it and deserves all the credit she gets. I want to visit your tree while we are there and check on the items we left on it in June. I spoke with Shane and he is doing great. I finally completed your marine album as painful as it was. Hopefully we will get your live christmas tree up to the cemetary next week and can than decorate it. The tears have finally stopped flowing from this very emotional day. It just never gets better Brian. I just don't understand why and I guess I never will. Just know that you are with me every single second of every day. Please keep your brothers safe. Miss and love you more than you will ever know. Mom
Doc Rubio
November 27, 2008
Have a very wonderful Thanksgiving.
Doc Rubio
November 12, 2008
The moment of zero
It is the moment of zero
We all had to be heros
We had to be brave
And like an animal behave
We had to be men
All my life I give to you
They'll support with love
But remember
It is the moment of zero
And we all had to be heros
In a crater,burning, dazed, scared
Hurry lift yourself up
As if from a nightmares dream you wake up
You will prevail
It is the moment of zero
Who will to be hero
Think, plan, work hard
Through the valley of death we walked and death followed.
Indestructible we are
An illusion we all believed
"Heroes Never Die. They Live On Forever In The Hearts And Minds Of Those Who Would Follow In Their Footsteps."
So give all to Ole' Glory
In the moment of zero,
We all had to be heros.
Doc Rubio
November 3, 2008
Brian and All,
Man, what a change this past month has been. Next week will be a month sence being out of the service. My family and I are doing well. We have made the move from Corpus to San Angelo. My wife and I feel that it was a good decision being close to family. God Bless, Always Remember, Never Forget.
Kaitlin Reich
October 11, 2008
Hi Bri,
You were only 10 when I came into the world. I always had so much to look up to in you. Really smart, funny, and had a big heart. And it hurt that after your graduation, you knew what you had to do. But While everyone else understood that you wanted to help with the war, and they were hurting because they knew you'd be sent over seas, I was sad because I knew you had to leave me for four loooong weeks of boot camp. I look back on that time now and I wonder why I cared. You were doing something great. protecting me. Making my future brighter.
Sometimes I still don't understand why God took you. You were one of the good ones, Brian. Simetimes I still can't grasp that even though I may need you, you can't be here. Sometimes, I still beg Him to send you back down. I want to show you how tall I got, How short my hair is, i want to show all my new friends at school the kind of person that you were.
I think about you not being here and I want run away like those wild horses that I love. Run through the wide open some where far away. i need that, i need far away sometimes. I wish it could be that easy to just run. But then again, that is not me. I refuse to just run from my life. Life happens. I miss you. I need you but, I draw my strength to carry on from our family. I hope they know how much they mean to me. I hope you knew too. . .
Love
Miss Kaitlin
shirley parrello
September 27, 2008
Hi Mr B.
Thank You and you know what for. I know now that you do hear me when I visit you and ask that you watch over and protect your brothers. I guess now its your turn to watch over and protect them from harm. They certainly did their share watching over you. Went to Washington DC with dad for a time of Remembrance. We meet many wonderful people who like us are hurting and trying to move on . We learned of their sons and proudly told them of our hero. We visited Arlington and stopped and JT's and Jason Butkus Grave. Section 60 just keeps getting bigger. We also stopped at the Pentagon and the memorial was beautiful. I thought of Doc Rubio when we were there. He's doing ok and I plan to email him after I'm done with this. I miss you more than ever and the pain never goes away , I guess that makes me realize that I'm not dreaming and you never are coming back to us. Please just continue to keep your brothers safe and out of harms way. You are missed more than ever Brian. Thanks again. Love Always and Forever Mom
Brothers
Juan Rubio
August 5, 2008
Brian,
Well a major chapter in my life is about to close. On October 9th, 2008; I'll will be leaving the Navy. The hard work we did and the three combat tours have taken it's toll on my body and mind. I know now that i am a surviver like many of us who served in combat. A new chapter will began as a cilvain but the war within will always continue and the streghth i learn from you and our brothers, I will make it. One day at a time.
Always Remember, Never Forget
Doc Rubio.
Kaitlin Reich
July 22, 2008
Hey Brian,
I've heard over and over again that in time, the pain we carry around will heal. I'm starting to think it will never happen.
I had dreams about ypu coming home and the family having a giant party (not that our family needs a reason to have a party). I remember thinking how happy Aunt Shirl was going to be when she met you at the airport. She'd cry tears of joy and never have to cry tears of sorrow again. Now all anyone does is cry tears of sorrow. We miss you and want you to be here with us but one day our whole family will be together again and we will throw a BASH up there.
The cabin is changing alot. They actually decided to finsh the walls. . . the walls that have so much history. All our names and the dates are all covered up now. They built a deck so sitting in the dirt is now optional instead of neccessary :o) .
Good times . . .
love you
miss you
Miss Kaitlin
Suzanne Amitrano
June 28, 2008
Hi Brian:
I never had the opportunity of knowing
you but in my heart I will always feel
the heroism you gave for this Country.
A fellow Marine by the name of 2nd Lt.
John Wroblewski was killed on April 6,2004
and I will continue to keep him alive by
sharing his story.
Your courage will always be remembered
as your family and friends share that
special love for you.
An Angel walks besides us......
With admiration,
Suzanne Amitrano
Aunt Trisha
June 7, 2008
HI BRIAN.
Happy Birthday. 22 years ago today i held you in my arms for the first time. I will never forget that day. You are forever missed
We love you and miss you more each day.
Forever in my heart
Shane Olden
June 7, 2008
Hi Brian,
It has been a couple of years since that tragic day. All those events leading up to the tragedy I will remember, but the last image I have of you will be forever locked in my mind. I pray for your family and friends that they deal with your lost well,but they will never be able to do that. You will be forever missed by all that know you. God Bless you.
Cpl Olden, Shane Small Craft Co. June 06, 2008
shirley parrello
June 4, 2008
Hi Bri
Having a very bad day. Miss you lots. The Frasers are up from NC to present 5 military monetary awards and 2 hockey scholorships at the HS. Matt and Anthony will be there also. Mr. b you would be so proud of your brothers. Then, we move on to Sat. June 7th. Your 23rd birthday. I so want to be a celebration of your life, but it's very difficult when your not here to help us. I will always remember how we celebrated your birthday the first year you were gone. WE got to meet and celebrate your life with your other brothers down in NC. We laughed and took pictures that are now in your Marine Album. We knew how you loved to party, so it couldn't have been more fitting. We all had a great time despite the fact that the guest of honor wasn't there. At least not physically. You are always with us Brian and will continue to live on in our hearts forever. If I could I would trade places with you in a minute, so that you could live a long and happy life and experience all the things that life had to offer you. I am so sorry you never got the chance . Love you .MOM.
PS we would love to hear from any members from SMALL CRAFT CO. Please contact us
Aunt Trisha
May 27, 2008
Hi Brian,
The weekend was a bad for all of us, As we honored our fallen hero. There were many tears shed. We were all up in the cabin on saturday and you were missed. (as always). Everyone came back to my house on monday after the Memorial Day ceremony for a BBQ. In honor of you I drank Rollin Rock.
You are and will always be forever missed.
Joseph Santiago-- If you read this please get in touch with me. I met you with my sister and her husband (Brian's mom and dad) In NC June of 05. Remember the Mexican Resturant??
Forever in my heart
JT Butler Family
May 26, 2008
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