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Carl Morgain Obituary
Carl James Morgain, 40, of Butler died Sunday in Balad, Iraq.
Born Sept. 22, 1964, in Butler, he was the son of Carol Fay Lewis Morgain and the late Louie James Morgain.
He was a 1982 graduate of Knoch High School and was an electronic technician at T.W. Phillips Gas & Oil Co. He was a faithful hunter.
Mr. Morgain was a member of the Cabot United Methodist Church, the William H. Miller Lodge 769 F&AM and Butler American Legion Post 117.
He was active in the Army from 1981 to 1985 and served as a communications technician at the White House and at the presidential retreat at Camp David under President Ronald Reagan. He also was active in the White House Contingency Support of FEMA Facilities. He was awarded the Presidential Service Award and the Army Achievement Medal in 1985.
In June 2000, he joined the Pennsylvania Army National Guard, Co. A, 1st Battalion, 112th Infantry HG Unit in Butler. He served as communications technician and then converted to an infantry fire team leader. He received the Strom Thurmond Award for outstanding NCO leadership.
He was deployed June 30, 2004, in support of Operation Iraqi Freedom. Posthumously, he received the Purple Heart, the Bronze Star and the Combat Infantry Badge.
He was a proud soldier and gave the ultimate sacrifice for the love of his country.
Surviving are his wife, Janice Sankey Morgain, whom he married July 8, 1995; a stepson, Zachary Macurak of Butler; a daughter, Madison Morgain of Butler; his mother of Butler; a sister, Mrs. Scott (Janet) Waag of Slippery Rock; and several aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces and nephews.
In addition to his father, he was preceded in death by his paternal grandparents, John Louie Morgain and Easter Fowler Morgain; and his maternal grandparents, Carl and Faletta Lewis.
MORGAIN Friends of Carl James Morgain, who died Sunday, May 22, 2005, will be received from 1 to 4 and 6 to 9 p.m. Tuesday at FOX FUNERAL HOME, 410 W. Main St., Saxonburg. Services will be at 11 a.m. Wednesday at the funeral home with the Rev. Daniel Maurer, the Rev. Matthew Judd and Maj. Bruce Farrell, chaplain of the Pennsylvania Army National Guard, officiating. Burial will follow at Summit United Presbyterian Church Cemetery, Jefferson Township.
A Masonic service will be held at 7 p.m. Tuesday at the funeral home.
In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the Carl J. Morgain Memorial Fund, c/o National City Bank, 364 Center Ave., Butler, PA 16001.
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Memories and Condolences
for Carl Morgain
Julie Weber
May 23, 2025
I can´t believe it´s been 20 years.
Jamie Graves
May 23, 2025
Hard to believe it has been so long. But the pain and sadness will always be there . So many Angels and Heroes in heaven. Janice is now with you , she missed you so much . Thinking of your family and all those who gave their lives for us . Jamie Graves , Hampton Virginia
SSG Jayson Waugaman
May 22, 2025
It has been 20 years. Feels like it still just happened. Gone but not forgotten.
Julie Weber (was Meyer)
May 23, 2024
Not forgotten.
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SSG JAYSON WAUGAMAN
May 22, 2024
19 Years brother. Gone but never forgotten.
SSG JAYSON WAUGAMAN
May 22, 2023
As the 18th year rolls past, your memory still lives on my friend. Gone but never forgotten.
Jamie Graves
May 26, 2022
God bless the family and their friends. Hard to believe how the years have passed with so many of our heroes in heaven. They are missed and thought of often.
Julie Weber
May 23, 2022
I´ll never forget your kindness when I ran out of water. I keep your bracelet near.
SSG Jayson Waugaman
May 22, 2022
17 years my friend. Today we remember a fellow Warrior. Gone by never forgotten.
SSG Jayson Waugaman
May 22, 2021
16 years my friend. We keep your memory alive in our hearts and minds.
SSG Jayson Waugaman
May 22, 2020
15 years have passed since you paid the ultimate price. Gone but not forgotten.
SSG Jayson Waugaman
May 22, 2019
It has been 14 years since your passing. I tell my daughters about you when they ask why I still wear your bracelet. I tell him that it is a constant reminder of a man who gave himself so that others may be free. So that they can be free. I pray for your family often and especially on this day. I pray for their comfort and that you continue to rest in peace. Keep smiling Carl.
SGT. Andrew Waugaman
May 25, 2017
It's been 12 year s ago that you gave the ultimate sacrifice. My deepest condolences goes out to your family. You are never and will never be forgotten. Until we meet again....RIP my brother in arms.
SGT. Andrew Waugaman
May 24, 2017
It's been 12 year s ago that you gave the ultimate sacrifice. My deepest condolences goes out to your family. You are never and will never be forgotten. Until we meet again....RIP my brother in arms.
Jayson Waugaman
May 22, 2017
After all of these years, Carl is still with us. May God Bless you and your family.
5-22-05. Like yesterday.
September 22, 2016
Happy Birthday Sgt. Morgain !
Miss spending joyful birthdays with you.
Birthday gifts, dinners, family and hugs.
We are sending a dove to heaven,
With a gift on its wings.
Be careful when you open it
It's full of beautiful things.
Inside are a million kisses
Wrapped in a million hugs,
To say how much we miss you
And to send all our love.
Happy Birthday, American Soldier!
All our love and Forever Proud
Jan, Zack and Madison
May 22, 2016
Another year has passed. It's hard to believe it has been 11 years. We think of you everyday Carl, but today - we mourn for you once again. We can never fill your void in our family. Today, we think of all the happy times and laughs that we had as a family. There are so many stories to be shared. I'm doing my best in your honor. Always seeking your guidance and direction. I hope you hear my prayers and conversations with you. Hope you found our Dad's and all of you are watching over us. And you met up with Kenny and are talking about camp. Give Tessa and Duncan a squeeze for me - I know you are all together. Until we meet again - American Soldier - watch over us and guide us with your your love and guidance. I miss you.
Forever Proud, Jan
Judy Sankey
May 23, 2015
Happy Birthday dear Carl....our guardian hero in heaven.. you are stilling protecting us in your spirit. Miss the twinkle in your eye.
Jayson Waugaman
May 23, 2015
May those who knew you never forget you. May your family continued to be blessed. May you always rest in peace.
Mary Geib
May 22, 2015
How could it be 10 years? Seems like yesterday.
Julie Meyer
May 21, 2015
I met you once while training for Iraq and ran into you again in Kuwait...never forgot how nice you were. My heart goes out to your family.
SSG Jayson Waugaman
May 22, 2014
As it has been 9 years since you have passed it always seems like yesterday. I will continue to pray for you and your family. May you continue to feel the love of GOD and may he continue to shine down upon your family. It was an honor to have served with you. Gone but not forgotten SGT Carl J. Morgain!
Jake Brewer
May 17, 2014
with the 9th annver. Fast approaching carl and your family is in my thoughts everyday you are forever missed by your family and the men u served beside. RIP carl
Ben Waugaman
May 21, 2013
Those blessed to know you will not forget you.
Mary Geib
September 23, 2012
Today my mom asked me if it was really necessary to change the oil in the car every 3000 miles. She got an email forwarded to her that says it isn't. My first thought wasn't to tell her to check her manual. My first thought was of the lecture you gave me because I burned up my engine when I didn't (and wasn't checking my oil, either!) It's funny the things that remind me of you!
Sa'ad Salihi
September 22, 2012
He died between my arms and his American fellow in front of my house door in Tikrit (Iraq).
I am the native Iraqi doctor who tried to save him , but , it was too late..
Please .. give me the chance to say ...God bless his soul.
Dr.Sa'ad
Tikrit- Iraq
May 22, 2012
As I looked at your picture today, I wondered where the last 7 years have gone. I thought of how our lives would be so different if you were here with us today. I pray that the values you have instilled in us shine bright in everything we do. We miss you Carl. All My Love and Never Forgotten, Jan.
September 22, 2011
I think of you often, especially today, your birthday. Really, it’s no different than any other day – you’re always on my mind and I miss you so much. Each day, I wait for that special moment when I think of something you said or have done, or that huge laugh and grin. Sometimes it brings a smile, others – a tear. It’s so hard to believe that another birthday has come to pass without you. No gift-shaking or guessing, no cake – only memories. God knows, that every prayer I say, I ask that you watch over us. Our family needs you in our hearts and minds to guide us in the right direction with the vigor you always shown us. Keep shining your light on us! We miss you terribly. As always, the only birthday gift we can give you now is our love and our promise to live by the standards you established for all of us as a family.
Happy Birthday American Soldier!
All My Love and Forever Proud
Until we meet again,
Jan
SSG Jayson Waugaman
May 24, 2011
Six years ago we lost a great man! You and your family will never be forgotten! Continue to rest in peace Carl. Until we meet again.
Peggy Childers
May 22, 2011
To the family and friends of Sgt. Carl J. Morgain:
Please accept my remembrance of Carl on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Jan
February 14, 2011
Happy Valentine’s Day to the one who stole my heart 17 years ago. I think back to the days when we shared a notebook and wrote to each other every day. I still have that notebook and read it often, sometimes with smiles, and sometimes with tears. The words and dreams we shared brought us so close. I can only hope that Zack and Madison find the love of their lives, like we did. You are always on my mind and in my heart.
Until we meet again American Soldier,
All My Love Forever
G Shawn Lowry
December 29, 2010
Dear Jan,
I didn't know your husband in the traditional sense. Being in the Air Force, I haven't met a large number of Army soldiers throughout my career. However, one fateful day, I found myself on the tarmac in Balad, Iraq paying my last respects to a great American hero who gave his greatest sacrifice for his country. As I stood in line to receive the hero I heard the words "SGT Carl James Morgain" as we all saluted smartly and sternly as he came by and we helped load him on the plane to transport him to his final resting place.
I accompanied him on the plane for his last flight and stayed for the priest's last rights, as I prayed for his soul and for his family. This image has been etched in my memory forever.
With a ceremonial salute and tears in my eyes, I stepped off the plane. I prayed that night that with all the hurt that his passing would cause that his family would see at least a glimse of good that he had done for his country, so far away and prayed that they would be kept safe.
It's been many years since that day but I can't get his name out of my head. I sent a number of men home that way. He was the first and they are all remembered in a tattoo on my arm. I was stationed in Ohio and now, I live in Illinois, but would be more than happy to drive to pennsylvania, it's that important to me.
I don't know how you will receieve this, but I would love to meet SGT Carl Morgain's family. I do not want to open old wounds, the last thing I would want is to make this harder for your family, but I have thought about this man for 5 years now and there has to be a reason why he always comes up in my mind. I really think I need to meet you and your family. If you aren't ready for that, I completely understand and will not bother you. That is in no means my intension. I will leave my email address and let you decide.
I found Carl's obituary online and read through all 36 pages and I heard the same phrases over and over, "happy", "friend", "Patriot", "funny", "Loved his country". Anyone who knows me would (hopefully) say the say the same thing and I would just like the opportunity to meet the family of such a man who I sent home.
With all my respect,
MSgt G. Shawn Lowry, United States Air Force
Madison
November 24, 2010
Well yet another Thanksgiving comes, and as the family gathers we think about you. Not a day goes by dad that I don't think about you or wonder what it would be like to have that Father daughter relationship, spend the day together. I wonder what would be different if the situation was different. In every single action I make I wonder, is this going to impress my father, I wonder what he is thinking right now. I think about you, it brings a smile to my face tears to my face and a heartache in my heart, but I know it was for a good cause. Well I love you very much and I'll never forget about you
Love you with all my heart
~maddie~
SSG Jayson Waugaman
May 23, 2010
I went to your resting place and still I am saddened. Five years ago you gave the ultimate sacrifice so that we may live in peace. May God continue to bless your family. Carl, I will never forget!
Jamie Graves
May 23, 2010
God Bless . Remembering Carl and his family this weekend and Memorial Day weekend and every day!
Hard to believe it has been so many years, I know the pain is still fresh and it hasnt gotten easier. Thank you Carl for your sacrifices and to your family for theirs.
Jamie Graves/ Navy Wife
Operation Quiet Comfort
Operation Homefront
Much love and many hugs!
May 22, 2010
Five very long years ... I miss you Carl.
All my love forever,
Jan
Peggy Childers
May 22, 2010
To the family and friends of Sgt. Carl J. Morgain:
Remembering Carl on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
December 25, 2009
It is early Christmas morning & I wanted to share a story with you about how your angel Carl has changed my holiday and hopefully my life for the better. I have recently been in a state of self imposed misery and just not in a thankful or gracious mood. I have been feeling generally sorry for myself and dwelling on how some things in my life are not the way I see them in my dreams. I was also being so selfish and self centered that I was blaming the people I love for the fact I couldn't "get into" the holiday spirit. At a few minutes past midnight on 12-25-09 and the name Carl Morgain somehow pierced through all the self pity and self loathing in my mind, suddenly his name was all I could think of. I found it strange that a man I had never met could be so steadfast in my thoughts. I have however, heard his name spoken many times in reverence ( and in grief, remembrance, and even happiness from some memory) but always with a sadness that comes from a profound sense of loss. When I have heard about Carl it has come from deep within the heart of a man, a soldier, that I have come to know and love. So I came to a very swift realization of just how blessed I have been in this life, for I have the people I love an arms distance or phone call away from me. I have never had to feel the anguish or loss that you most certainly do and for that alone I should have been greatful. Since this awakening, I have spent all my time on the Internet reading anything I could about Carl. I have learned more of what I have been told by my soldier, that he was a wonderful and selfless man who lived, loved, and sacrificed with his entire heart and soul. It humbled me to think that this man who had so much to lose had the courage and honor to fight for the freedoms of those of us that he had never even met. I will continue through this holiday season ( and hopefully the rest of my life) with a new outlook on life and what is important in it. I wanted to share this with you in the hopes that it might give you a small sense of peace to know that Carl is still helping people he has never met. I would like to thank you ( as I will thank him in my prayers) for the sacrifices that He and your family have made, and for letting my heart be touched by your angel. At this moment I feel truly at peace and I have an angel in desert khakis to thank for it.
September 22, 2009
Another year comes, as we think about you on your birthday. It’s hard to believe that it has been six years since we had a cake for you. Our gift to you this year, is to keep living our lives to make you proud. We are sad but I am sure you are smiling right now, because Tessa is with you. She was a loving dog to all of us, but she was your buddy, “pot-licker” and “rosie”. Knowing she was going to be with you was the only thing that made it a little easier to let go. She was a part of you that we hung on to and couldn’t let go. Every day we have thoughts of you that bring smiles to our faces, but tears to our eyes. I, myself often wonder what we would be doing that day, maybe sitting on that porch swing? Zack wonders if he has made the best decisions. And, Madison, wonders what it would be like to have a father/daughter relationship. Some bring smiles, some bring tears. That will never change. I miss you Carl, the kids miss you. We miss our family. I cannot believe how things have unraveled and each one of us is just hanging on by a thread. I ask for you to continue watching over us and shining your light on us. Happy Birthday American Soldier. Until we meet again,
All My Love,
Jan
Kenna Larra
June 23, 2009
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Jamie Graves
May 23, 2009
God Bless Our Military and their families.
I think of our Heros everyday, but Memorial Day is the day we all should remember them.
Love and appreciation,
Jamie(Proud Navy wife)
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Jake Czekanski
May 22, 2009
Still missin you and thinking of you all the time. Until we meet again.
May 22, 2009
One more year has passed. It seems like an eternity since I have looked into your eyes, held your hand, hugged you before you left for work. Some days it seems like it has been so long ago, and then others, it seems like it was only yesterday. We still tell you good morning, and we close our eyes and give you a hug and kiss, that’s all we have. My world will never be complete without you. Zack and Madison have grown into respectful, young adults and you would be so proud of them. I know you look down upon us, so I guess you already know that you live in their hearts and mine, day after day. Your strength and love is what brought us together as a family, and your strength and love is what gets us through each day. Thank you for the years of happiness,and the friendship we shared. I miss my best friend.
All My Love Forever,
Jan
Mary Geib
May 22, 2009
I miss you and am thinking of you today, especially. I hope my dad is getting the chance to meet you in heaven. I am honored to have been your friend. I know how difficult it was for us to experience the passing of my dad even after a long life, a long illness, and a whole month where we knew that the end was just around the bend. I don't know how people cope with such a sudden and tragic loss. My prayers are with Jan, Zack and Madison and your family, and all of your friends, particularly those who are still in harm's way to protect us. To all those serving our country, particularly in the PAANG, thank you.
Peggy Childers
May 22, 2009
To the family of Sgt. Carl J. Morgain:
Carl gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
SSG Jayson Waugaman
May 21, 2009
SGT MORGAIN,
It has been four years since that dreadful day.
The visions and pain still won't go away. But there is one thing I keep in my mind.
It is the love you gave for God, country, family and friends, and for your ultimate sacrifice.
Until we meet again my friend,
In YOUR HONOR, we will continue the fight!
November 10, 2008
Over the weekend, I was fortunate enough to witness the love of Sgt Morgain's sister towards her brother and just how proud she was.
As I approached the service area, there are a substantial number of people waiting. There was a heavy set, kind of rough looking woman, who appeared to be the end of the line that I got behind. She was a bit off to the side, and I heard her ask the clean cut young man if she was there before him. He quietly, but politely and confidently said he was there before her. So she acquiesced, and we all waited.
After awhile, I was at the front of the line and waited for the next service rep to call me. While motioning me to her register, I heard her say, "Thank you for serving" to the young man previously mentioned as he was walking away.
As I stepped up, her efforts to hold back the tears were apparent. But like a dam that had cracks from strain, a small, but steady stream trickled from her eyes. I am sure there were more tears, but she was at work and in public and she struggled to maintain composure. In a broken voice, she said “I am sorry, but he was in the same unit as my brother who was killed in Iraq 3 years ago”.
Caught a bit off guard, I said a few things anyone should say…, “ I am sorry for your loss” and “Thank you for you and your families sacrifices”. I ask her what his name was and she proudly said, “Sergeant Morgain” and she noted he was from Butler. After a few other words, my transaction was over and I moved on.
However, I really didn’t move on. Yes, I left the store, but I could not forget the emotion I experienced. I have seen it on television, but now for the first time I personally saw the impact of the sacrifices made by our military and their families. This was three years later. I imagined the thousands of similar tears by family members since the day they learned they lost their husband, father, brother and son.
I didn’t know them, but I felt inadequate as I have given nothing but my support and opinion over the years. His sister showed me all I needed to know about Sergeant Morgain and their military families. Sergeant Morgain, the young soldier in front of me, along with their families are who really set the example we all should emulate. I also saw the true patriotism as she honored the young soldier before me, while continuing to honor the fallen soldier she loved.
Although I have forgotten virtually all of my previous store transactions, this was one I will never forget. I was given much more than the value of my item.
My prayers go to all the family members.
Thank You.
September 22, 2008
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September 22, 2008
Our last family picture May, 2004
September 22, 2008
September 22, 2008
Once again, your birthday reminds us of the void that you left in our hearts. Once again, we are reminded how you were so quickly stripped from our lives, and not be able to celebrate with cake and gifts. We miss you Carl, each one of us in our own way. I miss my best friend and endless hours of talking, laughing, and working together on projects. Our life together was built on projects, one after the other, hoping to get everything done so we can sit on that porch swing. The kids miss their father, role model, mentor, and friend. You would be so proud of Zack and Madison. I wish I could only see your face light up, I know it would, and your happy eyes would show approval. They both have gifts for you and that is, to forever make you proud of them. I have such vivid memories of our dreams and goals and the plans we had for our future, they are still dreams and never will they be. Every morning I look at your picture and ask you to protect us and guide us through the day. At night end, I look at your picture again, and ask you to watch over us as we sleep. That’s all we have - memories and your pictures. The only birthday gift we can give you now is our love and our promise to live by the standards you established for all of us as a family.
Happy Birthday, American Soldier. May God present you with the most beautiful cake and the most elaborate of gifts. Your unselfish love will never be forgotten.
Until we meet again,
All my love and Forever Proud,
Jan
Judy Sankey Blackwell
September 2, 2008
Jan & Family...I think of all of you often and see Zach is following in Carl's footsteps...we are all proud of him ....keeping all of you in my thought and prayers.......God will watch over Zach.
August 4, 2008
To the family and friends of Sgt. Morgain,
I am so sorry for your loss.
My name is Maggie Selzer, and I am directing ‘Run for the Fallen 5K run/walk’ in Boalsburg, PA (just outside of State College) on August 24th, 2008. The event, held on the PA military Museum grounds, aims to keep alive the memory of all fallen soldiers, but particularly those from PA. All proceeds from the event will go to organizations that support the families of fallen soldiers and supports wounded soldiers.
I encourage you to learn more about the event at www.freewebs.com/runforthefallen5k/
index.htm.
The event is meant to keep alive the memories of brave men and women like Sgt. Morgain.
If you have any questions, or would like to send a memory of Sgt. Morgain to be included with the flag memorial that will be set up at this event, please contact me at (814) 571-8755 or [email protected].
The Neal family
June 14, 2008
To the family of Sgt. Morgain,
Please know that just as your loved one will remain in your hearts and minds, his sacrifice and that of your family, will remain with the people he died defending. Words cannot express the gratitude we feel for his bravery and selflessness, or the heartache we feel for your loss. God grant you the peace that passes all understanding.
Judy (Sankey) Blackwell
May 24, 2008
You were proud to be an American....I am proud that you stood up and did your part...sorry that we lost you.....it seems just yesterday in the computer department I met you......keep watch over your family ...we keep them in our prayers......till we all meet again someday my soldier friend...
In Memory of Carl ~ (Debra Estep)
May 22, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Carl, but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
Visit this link to hear the song.
The Other Side –
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom and MIL
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Please contact me and I will email you back a copy of my
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
Mary Geib
May 22, 2008
Three years... I can't believe it. I think of you all the time. Every time I have to get the oil changed in the car, I think of you giving me a hard time about putting that off for too long. Every time I consider painting my toenails, I think of you teasing me about my red toes when I was at the house in the summer. Every time I take pins out of a new shirt for Steve, I sit and laugh (and cry) remembering the story about my wedding. And when I see your children, I can't help but remember how you really taught them to respect people. I can see Zack carrying my suitcase through the airport because you taught him to do that!!! He was like 10 years old! I coudn't believe how much of a gentleman he was then, and he continues to follow in your footsteps... And Maddie... You would not believe what a beautiful young lady she has become! Everyone misses you so much... I miss your quick wit and twinkle in your eye like you are "up to something." I know that your family misses you like crazy.
I'm so proud of you for what you did. You are a true hero.
But we miss you.
Jan
May 22, 2008
It’s so hard to believe that three years ago today, I lost my best friend, it seems like an eternity. But it seems like only yesterday that our lives fell apart. Each and everyday, I think of you and wonder what project we would be working on next. I look around and see your tool belt hanging where you left it, your favorite movies are still on the top shelf, and your favorite pictures are still on the walls. I ask God everyday to make it easier for us, to give us the strength to keep forging ahead, to put love in our hearts, and to give us the wisdom that you shared with us. A few weekends ago, the kids and I went to camp – the first time without you. I can’t even begin to explain the overwhelming emotions we had, with many prayers and requests, you guided us and watched over us. We have a lot of wonderful memories, but none of them, can comfort our aching hearts. The kids miss their father, their mentor, and their teacher. I miss my husband, my best friend, and my soul mate. Your work here on Earth was not finished, you had a family to lead, and friendships to share. I will never understand. Please watch over Zack, for he leaves for basic training in June. My stomach wrenches at the thought, but he is following his heart, just as you did. I pray to God everyday, that I will not have to go through this grief twice. I am not that strong. Madison and I will continue sharing your memories here at home, and continue to live by the values you believed in. I feel that my family is dwindling at a pace too fast for me to keep up. Carl, you need to continue guiding and protecting us – your family. And now, you need to watch over the 250 soldiers from your Army family, because your unit is going back. I know you will - that was your purpose for going to Iraq in the first place. Until we meet again - the day that cannot come soon enough.
All My Love and Forever Proud,
SSG Jayson Waugaman
May 21, 2008
Sgt. Morgain, three years have come and gone since your passing. Everyday I think about being over there. I wear your bracelet with pride, never to be taken off, and you will never be forgotten Carl. I shall pray for your family.
Jake Czekanski
May 20, 2008
As the day draws near that marks 3 years since you left us, I just can't stop thinking about you. There is not a day that goes by that I don't. I have worn my bracelet in your remembrance since the day I got it, and have never taken it off. I am so proud to say that I served with you. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. Miss you bud :(
Mary Geib
May 19, 2008
Naturally, you've been on my mind this week... and Jan and the kids, too... And then I heard on the news tonight that the PAANG is deploying again to Iraq... Bob's unit (107 FA) was on the list. I think I saw yours, too, but now can't find anything online to confirm what I saw on the news... I know that you joined the Guard for a reason. You all did. I know that there is a fine line between the guilt you feel about leaving your family, the fear that you will not return, the sense of duty to both your family and your country, and the excitement that you get knowing you are about to make a difference and be part of something big... I get it. I still felt my heart drop knowing that more guys I know are going back in harms' way... Watch over them, Carl. It's what you always did. You were always there to protect the other guys.
I miss you.
Karen Hull
May 9, 2008
Dear Carl,
I received a email today from Jan,she is having a Memorial in your Honor,After I read it I sat here and cried.So many times she has needed you and she misses you so much like thousands of other people,as Memorial Day and the anniversary of your death comes closer,I am so proud that I can say I knew you and what a wonderful person you were.Now Zack is following your footsteps,PLEASE watch over him each and every day. Maddie is growing she is simply beautiful.You would not be able to handle yourself when the guys start coming around!!!Or maybe she would not be able to handle you,haha Miss you and I will continue to help Jannie through this,time is supposed to heal things? I do not think time will ever heal the pain I see from Jannie,Zack & Maddie Miss You Love You
May 4, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Sgt Morgain!
December 26, 2007
Merry Christmas to all our Special Heros in Heaven! What an awesome get together you are having in Heaven with all our other HEROS!
Jamie Graves( Navy wife)
Hampton,VA.
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December 25, 2007
Another holiday is here, another holiday without you ~ I cannot believe what has happened to our family. I used to decorate for Christmas while you were hunting and it would be such a task to get everything done before you got home. I no longer have that desire to decorate; you are not here for me to surprise. That one small gift we would open on Christmas Eve is not under the tree, and our Christmas mornings are lonely. I try to make it an occasion for the kids, but they know as well as I do, it will never be the same. I look at your picture everyday and hope that someday – you will actually come walking in the door. I am not ready to give up on us. We miss you so much, not just today, but everyday. We look to you for guidance, strength and love to get us through each day and the tribulations we face. There is so many things that I miss, but our friendship is what leaves a terrible hole in my heart; a bond that only two people in love, can share. The kids miss your laughs, your stories, guidance, and your love. You would be so proud of both of them. They have grown with your values and have become wonderful people. Merry Christmas to my American Soldier – we will always love you, keep you in our hearts, and wait for the day that we meet again.
All My Love,
Forever Proud,
Jan
August 6, 2007
I don't pretend to know what to say or do that would bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON (KIA on 07/06/07) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
July 17, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Sgt Morgain and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
Judy Blackwell (Sankey)
May 23, 2007
You are a true hero...I think of you often and know that you are watching over your family and your country. It does not get any easier for your family...but to know that you are watching over them definitely gives them and all of us great comfort. Be strong Jan cause that is what he would want of you. Love and prayers to the family.
Mary Freshwater Geib
May 22, 2007
I can't believe it's been 2 years. It seems like yesterday. You and your family have been in my thoughts all the time. The craziest things make me think of you--when it's time to change the oil in the car, I think about you giving me a hard time about putting that off for too long. I miss your laugh and great sense of humor. It's been such a hard year for Jan, and I can't help but think of the irony that you were so often the "one that kept her on her standing on her two feet," and, in the past year, it's one thing that would be such a relief to be able to do (literally). We all miss you. Keep watching over your family and all of us. My prayers are with Jan, Zack, and Madison, and all your family and friends.
SSG Eric Petrosky
May 22, 2007
Never a day we don't think about you. Never forgotten.
Eric and Whitney
SSS Jayson Waugaman
May 22, 2007
Carl, I wear you rememberance bracelet with pride. People ask me all the time, "What does your bracelet say?" My reply everytime is, "He was friend of mine that was killed in Iraq. "He was a good man!" It is hard to believe it has been two years, and I can still remember what I was doing when I was told of your passing. You will be missed, and every soldier/person should take something from your life to better themselves. Rest in peace my frined.
Jan
May 22, 2007
They say it will get easier, it doesn't. They say we will get stronger, but we don't. It is so unbelievable that this all happened two years ago. It seems so long ago that we got to see you and give you a kiss and hug, but it seems like only yesterday when we received the dreaded visitors at our door. Carl, we have wonderful memories that the three of us will cherish forever. Each one of us has acquired one of your traits and we challenge ourselves everyday to keep up to your standards. Until we meet again...
All my love,
Garnet Jenkins
May 21, 2007
May Sgt. Carl J. Morgain, Rest Safely, in God's Loving Care and may the Peace of God continue to be with the Morgain family.
It is an honor to pay tribute to your Brave Soldier, with a Multitude of Thanks, for his Courage, Dedication and Service to our Country and for Freedom.
Those who Made these Sacrifices, Shall Never Be Forgotten, my brother among them. Killed in action in Vietnam in 1967.
May you find peace in knowing the love and memories you have, will remain in your heart forever and that this Country Remembers Carl's Sacrifice.
"You now have sorrow; but I will see you again and your heart will rejoice." John 16:22
I am So Deeply Sorry for your loss.
Spc. Jacob Czekanski
May 21, 2007
Sgt. Morgain...i can't believe it's been 2 years as of tomorrow. I think about you all the time and how you always were there to make everyone laugh or smile. You will never be forgotten. My thoughts and prayers are with your family all the time.
Mary Freshwater Geib
February 15, 2007
It just doesn't go away... I can't imagine how you are all getting through this day after day. Time is passing so quickly in some ways in our lives, and, yet, Carl enters my mind so often that it seems like it was only yesterday that I was driving up to the house from WV and calling to see if there was enough "Must-go" to go around... Carl was a wonderful man, a model husband and father, and a sincere friend. He really spoke from the heart, and his perspective helped me through some tough times. I valued his opinion. I am so honored to have known him. I only wish he were still with us here.... There is a hole in the universe without Carl here to bridge the gap.
It's not his birthday. It's not a holiday. It's just a day, like any other, and I miss him.
My thoughts and prayers are always with you, Jan, Zack, and Maddie.
I wish you enough,
Mary
September 22, 2006
Happy Birthday Carl!
I can't believe that another year has gone by without you here with us. We still are waiting for you to come home. There is not a day that goes by that I don't miss you, my husband, my best friend. There is not a day that goes by that the kids don't miss their idol, their friend and their father. You would be very proud of both of them. Zack is off to college and Madison is growing into a beautiful young lady. I can just see the twinkle in your eye now. I can't help but question God why you were taken from us, when we need you so badly. I stare at your pictures everyday, and look into your eyes. I have wonderful memories, but we were to finish things around here - so we could sit on the porch swing together and dream some more. We never got to do that. I found our list of dreams the other day, there was so many things we wanted to do -a lifetime full. It's so lonely here without you. As always, lovey, please continue to guide the three of us and give us your strength to get through each day with out you. Until we meet again, Happy Birthday and All My Love, Your Wife, Jan
ROBYN GARSIDE
August 7, 2006
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE ON FOR YOUR CHILDREN. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. STAY STRONG AND GODSPEED. SEMPER FI
A PROUD MARINE MOM
Linda Flannery
June 11, 2006
My sincere sympathy to the family of Sgt Morgain.
I did not know him, but wanted to thank him and his family for his service to America.
He will long be remembered as a national hero.
My flag flies in his honor.
Mom of 2 Marines and widow of VietNam Army Ranger.
Katie Lazzo
May 22, 2006
~To the Morgain Family~
Jan, Maddie, and Zack
Today I woke up thinking of your family and no other, Praying that God be with you today and forever and to have his angels watching over you...I was talking with my mom this morning, and thinking about these past few months. I have just recently gotten to know your family more through Zack, and you’ve shared with me a lot of things about Carl. You have told me many stories of him...and I now sit in front of my computer with those thoughts running through my mind, and remembering the words I heard of a year ago today. In life we all have cherished friends, and to your family, a true American Hero, Sgt. Carl J. Morgain, will forever be remembered all around the world today and everyday, in our hearts, for the sacrifice he has made for his country to keep all of us safe. There are no words to express the amount of thanks this country gives our soldiers; they ALL are true heroes in my heart. I can not tell you how grateful I am to know your family; you have taught me so much. To Jan, you call me “sweetheart” but you are more of one than me. You are one of the strongest women I know, I can’t imagine ever knowing anyone who has more shoes to fill than you. I look up to you and wish I had the strength and courage you possess. You are a hardworking mother and student, which makes an amazing role model. I want you to know how much I love you all. To Maddie, even though I am your brother’s friend I hope that you know I’ll always be yours too. I am here for you and love you. To Zack, within the time I've known you, I've learned what a big heart you have. You are so important and special to me and I'm lucky I have you in my life. My heart breaks for you knowing your loss. Along with you, your family has given me the privilege of meeting fellow friends and soldiers whom Carl fought with and loved. I listened to their heartfelt memories of Carl; they ALL say what a
wonderful father, husband, friend, and soldier he was.They also say how much you remind them of him. I only wish I could have known him. I know he would be so proud of who you have become, a hard worker, both academically and physically. Your family and our troops are always in my thoughts and prayers each day. Please know my family and I are here, if you ever need anything, we are always just a phone call away. All my love, Katie
Damian Herbert
May 10, 2006
I am very sorry for your lose and can understand the hard times it has been and not only I but the people across America will always be praying for your husband/father. Zach if you ever need anyone Remember I'm just a phone call away buddy.
James Shumaker
March 24, 2006
I will always remember SGT. Carl Morgain as a Hero and a Brother in Arms.Who always put eveybody before Himself My heart and prayers are with his family
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
January 23, 2006
My heartfelt sympathy to the Morgain family in the loss of Carl. I did not know Carl, ( I lived in the Easton/Bangor PA area 52 yrs.) but my heart is broken and I am sadden for your loss of such a young man. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers.
I send each of you a hug from my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
Q Madp
December 8, 2005
Thank you for your service. I will not forget.
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
Joyce Beglin
December 1, 2005
Hi Janice, My thoughts and prayers are with you every day. [email protected]
Mary Kulbacki-Reina
October 29, 2005
My heart goes out to the family and friends of Carl. I am originally from Cranberry Township, Pa. and my family still lives in the area, with one brother in Butler.Carl's death and all others who have made the ultimate sacrifice for all of us to live our lives has not gone unnoticed.
Jan
September 22, 2005
Happy Birthday Lovey! I miss you so much and would do anything to have you back. Please watch over us and give us YOUR strength to get us through each day. We have always needed you, and now we need your guidance. We will meet up again, just wait for me. All My Love Forever, Your Wife, Jan
Joyce Beglin
August 5, 2005
Dear Janice and Family, We would like to express our deepest sympathy. My son Gregory was serving with Carl in Iraq in the 1/112th INF. There are no words had will help the pain and hopefully knowing that all of you are in are thoughts and prayers. Love lives on forever, it will never fade away. For in our hearts, our loved ones are with us every day. Love lives on forever in each memory and thought of the special ones who meant so much and the happiness they brought. Joyce Beglin and Family
Larry Shane
July 23, 2005
I remember the first time I met Carl. I was having trouble with the radio in the company truck and waited in the New Ken Shop for Carl to come down and put things right. After we introduced ourselves to one another we began talking about being how he became a radio tech. We traded stories about being in the Army and I felt I was talking to an old friend.
Carl just had a way of putting you at ease.
Last year the big thing at work was our serviceman's vans were being replaced with new ones that had air conditioning. Carl came down during the middle of the change over and announced that only 2 of the 3 new vans had air. That kind of stirred things up as to who would not get the A/C van. (He had that twinkle in his eye that those who knew him would recognize.) He was a bit of a curmudgeon.
He was helpful, would do whatever needed done to work around a problem. He knew his way around a few good jokes and had a bit of the devil in him as far as pranks.
Most recently I found out that Carl was a Brother of the Craft. That marks him as a very special man indeed.
I regret never having sat with him in Lodge and becoming close friends with him. But I will NEVER regret having known him.
He was the Mason's Mason, the Soldier's Soldier and a man to look up to. May God bless you and keep you by His side.
Neena Hallock
July 9, 2005
I am the mother of a US Marine who also fought in Iraq. Please know that through brave men like your sons so many others were returned home safely. God Bless Your Family
Byron & Jean Elliott
June 19, 2005
you know....
Love, Byron & Jean
Donna Ceriani
June 13, 2005
Janice, Zach, and Maddie,
I have waited a while, prior to signing this guest book, in the hopes that I could find the most appropriate things to say to you. Something that would both comfort you and alleviate some of the pain that you all are experiencing.
As time has gone by, all that I could think to say to you was........
Please know how much Carl was loved and respected by all those who knew him (especially by his "brothers" in PAARNG, Co. A, 1/112th Mech. INF). Know that Carl will never be forgotten, nor will his dedication and the sacrafice that he gave in order to ensure that all of us continue to possess the freedoms that we so treasure.
My thoughts and prayers are with you all, forever and always.
My family is always here for you, no matter what.
I love you all.
Donna Ceriani (SOS Butler)
Melissa K
June 11, 2005
Morgain Family,
I am very sorry about your loss. I had never met Mr. Morgain, but just wanted to send my condolences for a great man who served our country to help keep us free, and protected. Thank you Carl, you were a fighter, and I hope that one day I will be able to thank you personally in Heaven. you are in God's arms now, and I will hold you in my thoughts, and prayers. Until we meet, I will think about this freedom you helped give us.
Myron & Diane Greenert
June 7, 2005
It was pleasure and honor to know Carl. His love of his family and country is know to all, that were so lucky to know him. At these very sad times we can hold in our hearts the knowledge that we can say "I was blessed to know such a true American Hero” Janice our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family everyday.
Alecia Norris
June 5, 2005
Janice, my heart is breaking for you and your family. Carl is forever a hero in my eyes. I wish I could snap my fingers and make your pain go away, but I can not. Please know that I am here for you always!
Jamie Graves
June 5, 2005
I didnt know Sgt.Morgain, but had emailed his wife a few times and she emailed me with SOS information. My husband is Navy and we live in Hampton,Virginia..so we have a common bond, a military wife.. we wanted to let her know we are thinking of her and her family!! He will be sadly missed and remembered by all..God bless our military and their families for what they do and the HUGE sacrafices they make..Jamie
mike papariella
June 4, 2005
Thanks to Sgt. Morgain for making the ultimate sacrifice. Freedom is not free. Sadly it costs the lives of great people like Carl who give so so much. You have my ultimate respect Sgt Morgain. Thanks for doing a job the rest of us would run away from. God bless you and your family.
Andrea Powell
June 3, 2005
I also never met Carl, but it is very obvious he was a very loved dad, husband and friend. My fiancee is currently in Iraq and it is the families like yours that i pray for every nite. Be as strong as you can be. God bless
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