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Monta Ruth Obituary
FORT BENNING, Ga. - Sgt. Monta Sherauz Ruth, 26, of 119 C Kessler Drive, Fort Benning, passed on Wednesday, Aug. 31, 2005, in Samarra, Iraq. He was born Aug. 6, 1979, in Winston-Salem, N.C. Funeral services will be conducted at 1:30 p.m. today, Sept. 10, at Christ Temple, where Pastor Kelly will officiate. Burial will follow in Evergreen Cemetery. The funeral cortege will assemble and leave from 2786 Reynolds Park Road, Winston-Salem. The family will receive friends from 1 to 1:30 p.m. today, Sept. 10, at the church. Arrangements have been entrusted to Gilmore Funeral Home. (Gilmore)
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Memories and Condolences
for Monta Ruth
Kelly Cleary
August 31, 2019
Thinking of Monta and his family. Sending love and light, and feeling grateful that Mike and Monta had each others friendship.
Jason Waters
October 5, 2018
SGT Ruth was in platoon during OIF I. He was a good Soldier, honorable kind hearted man. Today, I am blessed to be promoted to LTC. At the beginning of the ceremony, we will hold a moment of silences, to honor his memory.
Misty Stone
August 9, 2016
Add miss you kid.
K Wagner
August 8, 2016
Thank you, Sgt Ruth!
To your family, friends, and teachers....know you raised a National Hero. Thank you.
Erin
August 3, 2012
Thinking of u all the time...
Jennifer White
May 29, 2012
I can't thank Monta's family enough for bringing a wonderful, brave man into this world. Monta will be truely missed and loved forever.
Morris Ray
May 28, 2012
Truely missed but not forgotten !
Peggy Childers
August 31, 2011
To the family and friends of Sgt. Monta S. Ruth:
Please accept my remembrance of Monta on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Crystal Lozano
January 2, 2011
I miss you SGT RUTH.....I can't believe that your gone....I'm on my second deployment in I just recently found out of your passing. I still remember the first time I met you in Benning my 1st duty station. I will never forget you, you taught me so much n you will forever live in my heart. I loved baby sitting lil zoe so that you n your wife could go out. I miss Zoe n im sure she is so big n beautiful by now....Ive spent years looking for you n Erin but i could never find you til now:(....If someone on here could give me a means of contacting SGT RUTH's family id be so grateful....
After retirement but still remembering....
September 1, 2010
I have just retired and I was just thinking about you. God Bless your Family and you are always missed...
SSG Deric Hunter
U.S ARMY RETIRED
tatjana almestica
August 31, 2010
i wont ever forget u monta...always in my heart!
Peggy Childers
August 29, 2010
To the family and friends of Sgt. Monta S. Ruth:
Remembering Monta on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Erin Hughes
August 13, 2010
My Guppy, my Baby Ruth... it's been almost 5 years now. So much has happened in that time and I wish I could just sit and tell you about every single detail...BUT, you're watching and you know. You know me and my heart. I can simply have peace in knowing that though you were taken from me in a terrible way, God wanted His time with you too. There are so many things I wish could be different but again, to God's will.
I miss you all the time and I think about where we would be now.
You are forever a hero in my heart. NEVER to be forgotten.
James Lewis
May 28, 2010
Never forgotten! Forever honored!
Tara Ellis-Grigg
May 19, 2010
For the memory of my old high school buddy and the memory of your life and that you sacrificed all for our freedom.
May 18, 2010
SGT Ruth,
I still remember the day it happened. I was in the tank. I remember LT Cleary calling me on the net. I think about you each and everyday. I have your bracelet, one that LT Cleary gave me, which makes it very special for two obvious reasons. RIP.
Crusader 6......
Peggy Childers
August 31, 2009
To the family of Sgt. Monta S. Ruth:
Monta gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
June 23, 2009
,monta i love you.you never foregotten you always in my prayers.
Kenna Larra
June 9, 2009
”Honor and Remember” - “Project Compassion” We love our Soldiers! We love our country and we cannot express enough love and compassion to the families of our fallen heroes. War does not discriminate – It breaks our hearts to see the faces of the fallen. We want to give this gift to you. We are a 501c3 nonprofit organization! Over 1,550 portraits have been completed and shipped to the parents and or spouse - at no cost as this is a gift from one American to another!
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Sincerely and Respectfully,
Kenna
Don
August 31, 2008
SGT Ruth,
Thinking of you three years after our loss. Rest in peace.
In Memory of Monta Shevauz Ruth ~ (Debra Estep)
August 31, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Monta, but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
Jayne Bowman
August 15, 2008
My heart goes out to you now almost 3 yrs ago to your son Monta's death.
As another mother of a military soldier, also a combat engineer, I am thankful for your son's service to protect and defend the USA, in Operation Iraqi Freedom.
As a Blue Star Mother, your star has turned to gold, and I understand your loss, as another military mom. No one but another mother of a soldier knows what we go through.
Your son will never be forgotten,
as we read the names of our fallen heroes in the Triad Piedmont each month at our chapter area meetings.
Please feel free to contact me
any time. In your service,
Jayne Bowman,
President of Triad Piedmont Blue Star Mothers NC
Chapter 3, Jamestown, NC
Jase Baxter
July 24, 2008
You will be missed
Don B.
May 26, 2008
SGT Ruth - thinking of you on Memorial Day
May 8, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Sgt Ruth!
Annette ruth
January 25, 2008
In My Pocket
I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.
My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.
They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.
Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.
But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.
BARRY ROACH
November 5, 2007
IT HAS BEEN MORE THAN 2 YEARS SINCE I LAST SAW YOU ON AUGUST 31 2005 I MISS YOU MUCH AND THINK ABOUT YOU DAILY AND THE FUN TIME THAT WE HAD IN IRAQ
Michael Johnson
November 4, 2007
My heart goes out to Sgt. Monta S. Ruth. I don't know him but he will be miss.
Don
August 31, 2007
SGT Ruth,
It's been two years since you were taken from us. You are missed.
Debbie.....Kenny Coffey
August 29, 2007
Our condolences,thoughts and prayers to your family...May Montas name stamped in steel forever be clutched in the tallons,and spirit forever soar in the symbol of our great nation.
August 19, 2007
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
July 22, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Sgt Ruth and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
Nona Barton(Downing)
June 11, 2007
After nearly two years people are still signing this book about Monta. That is proof enough that he was a special gift from God. Look at all the lives he touched and still is. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't think of him. And it will sound strange, but I think he visited me after the funeral. I served my time in the military, but will be forever indebted to Monta and his family for the sacrifice they all made. We have all been blessed by his life on Earth.
Cody Kanuscak
June 10, 2007
I remember before we left for the rotation how much I hung out at Monta's and Aylins house sitting around discussing are busniess plans and throwing some cold ones back. You are missed by me alot. I think about you everyday still, I hope you watch over me now that im on my second rotation. I wear a braclet with your name on it so I will never forget you man.
DERIC HUNTER
June 1, 2007
Barb it's me Deric, or STAFF SERGEANT HUNTER. I have not forgotten, nor I will, when ilook at picture # 3 I can remember when he was a little man, you all take care and I love you much. And dont worry my big sister (anda) is with him and you know she will look after him for you. God Bless you and your family.
Hunter, Deric
SSG, USA
Corrections Company (RCF)
Fort Knox KY 40121
Deborah Still
June 1, 2007
Monta lived across the street from me and my family on Tise ave. in winston-salem,nc. The short times we spent together will remain in my heart forever. I always looked at him as a big brother. I remember how he'd come over and we'd sit outside for hours looking at the stars. Now when I look at the stars I think of Monta because he's looking down at me now. I remember riding home with him after North Forsyth vs Glenn's football game. I was so proud to know Monta was fighting for our freedom. Sorry I missed your funeral Monta but I didnt find out about your death until after the funeral. I went to the past two memorial services and visit your grave faithfully. Some may take freedom for granted but for me I'm thankful because you lost you put your life on the line for all of us. I love you and you'll forever live in my heart. When God took you he took the best.
Kisha Tuttle
May 31, 2007
To my family, my Auntie, Aylin, Zoe, and my cousins (Monta's Siblings) I know we are all still grieving, and I pray to God that he will be our strength. God honored us with a wonderful man, and also he honored us by allowing him to fight for us, and be taken away. There aren't too many brave men that would stand for both us, and our country the way that he did. Monta you will be remembered always, I love you, and we miss you. Zoe is doing great, she is a beautiful girl, I watch her grow daily. I know you are looking down on us proudly. We love you, and God Bless both you and our family.
Tara Ellis
May 31, 2007
The past 2 Memorial Days have been so different for me. I honor them more now than I ever did. A lot of men have fallen for our freedom. A really good man named Monta did also. I am so grateful for all he done so me and my children can sleep in peace at night in a great country. Not only me but everyone else. I knew him in high school and he always had a wonderful personality and a great smile that would make anyone smile. Thanks for all you have done Monta!
Don
May 28, 2007
Thinking of you this Memorial Day.
jimmy Oates
May 28, 2007
another memorial day without you and the days will never be the same as time goes on i love you alot and wish you were here and near with us to be together and share the times that we lost together still with you all the way.
Kent and misty stone
March 24, 2007
my wife and I lived at 119 d kessler nxt door to monta for 3 yr. We loved him with all of our hearts. we have fond memories of rough housing watching movies and watching maddie, aubrie, and zoe play together. monta was the biggest kid of them all. To montas family please give zoe a big hug and kiss from the stones, and please know how sorry we are for your loss and our thoughts are always with you. Please know how much joy he and his family brought to us. Love Kent, Misty, Maddison, and aubrie Stone. C co. 1/15 INF 3rd ID
JIMMY FERRELL OATES
February 26, 2007
A POEM TO MY SOLIDER:
FOR MY BROTHER WHOM IS NO LONGER HERE,YOU ARE IN A BETTER PLACE AND STILL NEAR,LOOKING AT YOUR PICTURE RIGHT INTO YOUR EYES,YOU MAKING ME LAUGH STILL MAKES ME CRY,REMEMBERING ALL THE GOOD THINGS WE DID TOGETHER,YOU MADE US ALL STRONG AND EVEN BETTER,WORDS CANT EXPLAIN JUST HOW I FEEL,JUST COULDNT BELIEVE THAT YOU WERE KILLED,MAN WAS HURT AND IN A LOT OF PAIN,THINGS I FELT COULDNT BE EXPLAINED,FOR NOW YOU ARE IN A BETTER PLACE,GOD HAS YOU NOW AND FOR YOU HE WILL EMBRACE,I LOVE YOU MAN TAKE CARE AND WE STILL DIRTY DEUCE FOREVER SSG OATES,SSG RUTH,SSG VAUGHN,SSG WELCH,SSG BALMONTE,SGT BINNS,SGT JHONSTON,SGT TERRELL,SGT ROACH,SGT PARRAH- THE DAY NOT FORGOTTEN AUGUST 31, 2005
OIF III KUWAIT JAN 2005 RIP RUTH
February 25, 2007
OUR LAST DAY TOGETHER GONE NOT FORGOTTEN
JIMMY OATES
February 25, 2007
I WOULD LIKE TO SAY FIRST OF ALL I AM SSG JIMMY F OATES THE SQUAD LEADER OF SGT RUTH AT THE TIME OF HIS DEATH OF AUGUST 31 2005. IT WAS A QUIET DAY NORMAL ROUTINE AND AS I AWOKE FROM BEING KNOCKED OUT SPC JOHNSTON SAID THAT HE HAD PASSED. SGT RUTH FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART I MISS YOU SO MUCH AND I WILL LOVE YOU FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE. THE BEST THING THAT EVER HAPPENED TO ME IN THE 1-15TH INF BN WAS GETTING YOU AS A TEAM LEADER. MAY YOU LIVE ON AND MAY YOU REST IN PEACE DIRTY DEUCE FOR LIFE.
Kisha Tuttle
September 12, 2006
It has been a long hard year, for both myself and my family. We deeply miss this fallen soldier that brought sooooo much love and joy to our lives. At the same time we were supposed to be celebrating your 27 years of long life, we were mourning the loss of such a beautiful life. No one will ever understand how hard it is for us daily, to go on without you, unless they too have lost such a wonderful person. I miss you, little cousin, and I"m trying my best to help take care of your seed, Zoe. She's beautiful, and growing, and looking more and more like you everyday. (with that big ole head lol) Aylin and I teach her soooo much about you, and there's not a day that goes by, that she doesn't hear your name, or see your face. We love you sooooo much and miss you dearly. God bless your soul, and my Auntie's as well, because this has really been tough for her. We love and miss you baby boy!!
Garnet Jenkins
August 31, 2006
Remembering this Young Hero, Sgt. Monta S. Ruth, on the anniversary of the day he gave his life for our Country and for Freedom, with a Multitude of Thanks for his Courage, Service and Dedication.
May Monta rest in God's Loving Care and know that he will NEVER BE FORGOTTEN.
May God's Grace and Comfort, continue to be with the Ruth family.
From the sister of a Fallen young hero, who made the Ultimate Sacrifice in Vietnam. KIA~1967.
I can do all things in Christ who strengthens me.
Philippians 4:13
May the memories of your loved one live in your heart always.
Softly and slowly....
Time heals...
ROBYN GARSIDE
June 25, 2006
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST SYMPATHIES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE ON FOR YOUR DAUGHTER. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. STAY STRONG AND GODSPEED. SEMPER FI
A PROUD MARINE MOM
Pat Canfall
April 9, 2006
My condolences to the Ruth family.
Monta may you rest in peace. Thank you for making the ultimate sacrifice in the name of freedom. You have earned your golden halo and wings. May you continue to soar in the heavenly clouds up above.
Kisha Tuttle
February 28, 2006
Monta, I miss you soooooo much. I really wish that you were here with us, although I know that you still are at heart. Not a day goes by that I don't think about you, and just wish that I had spent as much time with you or thinking about you before. I love you, and miss you. Know that you are the biggest hero our family has ever had. Zoe is growing up, into a beautiful little lady, and know that she is well taken care of, and always will be, never a need to worry. Again I miss you, and love you dearly. Your cousin, Kisha
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
February 26, 2006
My heartfelt sympathy to the Ruth family in the loss of Monta. I did not know Monta, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. You are a hero and you will never be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
annette ruth
February 18, 2006
i love you boo you won a good fight may god be with you your kuz,
Shane Yost
February 2, 2006
Miss you bro. Hope your doing well whereever you are
RIP
Bonnie Wade
December 14, 2005
God bless and keep you, because He said he would.
Tatjana Almestica
November 24, 2005
Monta, you can be so proud of your girl Erin! She is so strong! I promise you I will never let her down - I will always be here for her!I know you watch down from heaven and I can imagine your proud smile when you look down on Erin! She miss you so much! Monta, you will never be forgotten!!!
Erin H
October 31, 2005
Two months...and I still have a broken heart and big smile all at the same time. It was worth every last second. Having it to do all over again, knowing this exact time line, and knowing the outcome-I would do it all again...just to be with you.
I miss you so much and that can't change.
You always said it was *One day cloer, just one day closer, baby* until we would see each other again and now...once again, I'm counting down ONE DAY CLOSER to see you again...
You will always hold the key to my heart Guppy.
I love you
Sgt. LaShomb
September 30, 2005
Sgt. Monta Ruth a great man. I was blessed to have worked with him and be assighned to the same platoon as him. I can remeber many nites I would meet up with him outside of our trailors here. We would talk about anything and everything. He was a very easy man to talk with. He was always talking about his family and how much he loved and missed his baby Zoe. Monta is missed greatly and will always have a place in my heart and in the hearts of all the men that he served with. God Bless your family.
pfc barry roach
September 30, 2005
sgt monta ruth will never be forgotten i will remember all the things that he taught and how he took care of me as his soldier. sgt ruth we will never forget. to his family i just want to give my love and sympanthy to you and to let you know what sgt ruth did for me.
SGT ERIC MCFARLAND
September 30, 2005
SGT. MONTA S. RUTH YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTEN. YOU WILL ALWAYS BE WITH US FOR THE REST OF OUR LIFES. YOU HAVE MADE A GREAT IMPACT ON ECO 1-15TH INF BN. WE ARE ALL SO SORRY WHAT HAS HAPPEN TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. YOU WAS MORE THEN JUST A KEY LEADER YOU WAS A FREIND AND A HERO IN MANY PEOPLES LIVES AND THAT WILL ALWAYS BE THERE. YOU ARE A HERO IN MY EYES SGT RUTH.
francis o'brien
September 29, 2005
My heart goes out to all of Sgt Ruth's family, neighbors and friends. Sgt Ruth will be remembered for his positive attitude, courage and love of family and country. I will not forget his sacrifice. I will not forget.
Jonathan Shaw
September 26, 2005
Monta was a very dear friend of mine. My freshman year of high school, he was the highlight of my ROTC career. Everything he did was so kind and generous. It is such a shame that he has passed, but I believe that he is in a MUCH better place. My prayers are with you all, and his family,
Jonathan
Zach Loggins
September 26, 2005
I just want to say that I went to high school with Sgt. Monta S. Ruth and he was a great leader and insperation to me. He will be missed.
Jessica Brewer-Wright
September 25, 2005
To the dear family, I just wanted to express my sincere sympathy to you. Monta has been a fantastic friend. I remember so vividly the fun moments and the long in depth conversations we used to share. He will be remembered as a man of character and compassion. He left us doing what he loved to do. I never had the oppurtunity to watch him as a father and husband but I have no doubt that he had nothing but love for you both and God has sent some special angels to watch over you. My prayers are with you daily. My husband too is serving in Iraq for 18 months and I can't help but cry as I look over our daughter (also 3) and think "what if." My heart hurts so deeply for you right now and I wish that I could be there to offer comfort and support. I pray that those around you will lift you up and that a pure peace will come upon you. To the parents of Monta, thank you for bringing an amazing person into this world and for giving him the keys to have such a special presence about him. May you be blessed in all that you do. I can't wait to dance with him in heaven.
James Lewis
September 25, 2005
Words fail to express the emense gratitude I have in my heart for having known Monta. He never failed to make me laugh.
Never forgotten!
Nick, Tiffany, and Indigo (cecil) Hartley
September 25, 2005
No words can explain our deepest sympathy for the loss of such a wonderful man. There was not a person he did not befriend. Me and my husband went to high school with Monta and he was one of my best friends. I will never forget the memories that we shared. I am just glad to have known him. And, am truely sorry. I hope one day Zoe and Indy can play together.
Coffee & Oscar Larkin
September 21, 2005
We are sorry for your loss. We to have lost a awesome love one, and my thoughts and prayers will be with you.God bless you Ruth Family
Joseph Schweitzer
September 20, 2005
A great lose, Monta was an extremely wonderful friend, and a great guy to know, I was in JROTC with him and it was a great experience working together with him in school. My warm thoughts go out to his family and friends. May his soul rest in perfect peace.
Tamesha White
September 17, 2005
To the Klutz/Ruth family~ Gone but not forgotten, Monta will be greatly missed. We love you and just remember that were only a phone call away.
michael elmore
September 17, 2005
baby i am sorry for what has happend
i have lost someone that i have
loved too. the worse part is over
that is knowing. baby i dont know you as well as gaye and secil. you need to know that monta is part of a bigger picture. no matter what happens zoe is the one that will need to know how much you and her daddy loves her. mike
Kwone Hughes
September 17, 2005
To the Ruth family, Monta will be missed very much. He was such a outstanding friend. I remember riding around in that green Duece & Quarter, riding to school and to Mocksville when we worked at Burger King. As well as the competitive nature we had on the drill team and in marching band.
I also rember how we all wanted to be Gung Ho and join the service (Marines)and decided to join something diffrent. I know I'll miss you Monta.
Love you Man.
Secil Özaydin
September 17, 2005
My thoughts and prayers are with his family,his lovely wife Aylin and his sweet lil angel Zoe that loved Monta the most,you will always be in our hearts and thoughts,your friend Secil and lil one Görkem.
Deric Hunter
September 15, 2005
Remember as i am a NCO I really understand Monta's sacrifice. Dont worry Angela is going to look after him now. God Bless and stay strong. SSG DERIC HUNTER
Amy Brown
September 15, 2005
Death isn't easy the only comfort we have is that we all know that Monta feels no pain and He knows no war he passed on doing something he truely believed in. I know him from high school and we had many laughs. He always knew how to make me smile no matter the problem.
Spread your wings Monta and fly my angel
Lynn Moore
September 15, 2005
My thoughts and prayers are with the family and friends of Monta. He was a wonderful person who brightened my days in high school. His presence on this earth shall be sorely missed.
Danielle Bolinsky
September 14, 2005
My deepenst sympathy is sent to Ruth's family, I am very sorry for your loss. I would like you to know that I have wonderfully fond memories of Ruth- even though I had not seen him in a while. I had known him all through high school in JROTC. In a group of sometimes rough and uncaring individuals, Ruth was a breath of fresh air. I value the time and conversations that we had together. My memories of a calm and truely caring soul is unwavering. He will always have a special place in my heart - its the place where when you think of this person you have a warm smile.
Kisha Tuttle
September 14, 2005
I am Monta's first cousin, and this has been one of the hardest things to happen to my family. He was one of the most looked up to men in our family, yet still being one of the youngest. I had just sent Monta an instant message on this tragic day, and it hurts my soul that it never reached him. MONTA, KNOW THAT WE APPRECIATED YOU MORE THAN WE COULD EVER SHOW, you taught us a lot, by just being you.
Aunt Barbara & Uncle Fred, although we've had this loss, know that he is looking down from heaven on us smiling. He did what he wanted to do.
Aylin, you are and always will be family. Cousin, Lin...We love you very, very, much.
Zoe, Mecca & I love you punkin pie, and daddy did too!!
To my other family, Nicky, DeeDee, EJ, Tabby, Kia, nieces, nephews, aunts, uncles, cousins, and extended family we will all have to still love him and stick together.
Monta you will never be forsaken, and definitely not forgotten. WE LOVE YOU!!!!!
Kisha, Mecca, and Mike
Chris Lippert
September 12, 2005
My deepest condolences to the family of Monta Ruth. He was a great leader and will be missed!
Rita Connett
September 11, 2005
May God bless you all.
Proudly serving our country. US Air Force
Jon Underwood
September 11, 2005
I went to high school with Monta as well. And one thing I can tell you for sure is that I know Monta died doing what he loved doing; Serving his country! He exemplified what a soldier should be, and I sincerely thank Monta for what he did in Iraq!
My hope and prayers go out to Monta's wife, daughter, and other family members.
Mike Groce
September 11, 2005
My thoughts and prayers go out to Monta's family and friends. I went to high school with him and I always knew him to be a very kind, warm hearted, and caring person. He will be missed by many but never forgotten. I truely thank him for his courage and service to this country. May God bless Monta Ruth and his family.
christine marshall
September 11, 2005
to my friend aylin... i know this is a very hard time for you, zoe and his family.i will pray for you all!
Patrick "Mac" McKaughan
September 10, 2005
To Monta's family and wife, you are in my thoughts and prayers. I was in JROTC with Monta for two years in high school and during that time he always inpressed me with his "Can Do" attitude and spirt. I can't remember a time that I saw him where he did'nt have a smile on his face as he greeted me with "Whats up McKaughan..Hooha!" I never got the chance to tell him, but I have always thought of him as a true leader. Monta was a true inspiration to everyone who knew him. I will always strive to be like him. If I can ever help, please call me. (336) 655-1797
Mary Culler
September 10, 2005
I would like to send my deepest sympathy to a hero's family. I did not know Sgt. Ruth, but, my heart goes out to all of you. My nephew was killed in Iraq in Dec. 2004 and my heart was broken, and I know that your's are. All the brave soldiers that are in Iraq and all those that gave their lives for this country are real hero's to me. God bless you all and always be proud of what he did for us all.
Mary Culler, Winston-Salem, N. C.
Alandra Bolinsky
September 10, 2005
To Monta's wife, daughter, and family, My heart is with you all during this hard time... I knew Monta during High School in JROTC. He was a great friend, and soldier, he was one of the most thoughtfull people there ever was he would do anything for you, and I wouldnt think twice to do something for him, I still remember giving him that ride home when his big ole car he loved so much, broke down. May god be with you, WE LOVE YOU! The Bolinsky Family.
Charles Boston
September 10, 2005
On behalf of the Boston family, I want send my prayers out to all of you. I will miss Monte, and I pray for the safe keeping of his family and wife. I went to school with him, his love for his country showed even in our days of JROTC. I only wish I could've been with him on the battle field that day with him as well. I'll keep you all in my prayers.
A Marines wife
September 10, 2005
I do not know your family, but after coming across this on another website, I had to sign your book. I am in North Carolina too, my husband is a Marine getting rady to go on his second deployment to Iraq, my heart breaks for you all I cannot even begin to imagine what this must be like for you all. Regardless of the branch if they serve they are family!! All of our prayers!!
ashley
September 9, 2005
I went to hs with Monta and he was truly a sweet sweet soul. I am praying for you all as you go through this hard time.
Lisa Penn
September 9, 2005
To the Klutz/Ruth family. My deepest sympathy are with you. You know Monta was a light in everyone's eyes. He will be missed, and always remember "he is in better hands than every before". May god bless and keep your entire family.
Love,
The Penn's
Willie, Lisa, D'Andrea, & Deion
marta weatherly
September 9, 2005
hi my name is marta and i went to hs with monta. we became good friends and talked though out the years since glenn. he was a great friend and a wonderful person. i am stationed here in VA in the navy and found out about monta through friends back home. it broke my heart to hear that i had lost a very special friend who was very dear to me. i remember monta back in school and the big smile he always had on his face. i just want you to know that your families are in my thoughts and prayers. i know a lot of people who are in iraq but this is one of the ones that i knew from home and had been friends with for 10 years. if you need anything at all fell free to email and ask. monta may be gone from this earth but his spirit and soul will always stay alive.
Clyde,Char,Toni,&Phil Bowden
September 9, 2005
We would like to extend our deepest sympathy & condolences to the entire family. Our thoughts & prayers are with you. We salute yours & our hero,"Sgt. Monta S.Ruth".Our daughters served in Iraq & are still active duty.
Beth Stewart
September 9, 2005
Monta was a great friend and will be deeply missed by those that knew and loved him. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and loved ones.
LOIS SMITH
September 9, 2005
TO THE KLUTTZ/RUTH FAMILY
Barbara, I'm very sorry for your loss. I didn't even meet Monta, but I know you & I know he comes from good stock. Just remember that there's no sorrow that God can't heal. Just remember that He was so special that God couldn't wait to have him home. He is now Safe in His Arms. My deepest sympathy extends to you & your family
Love, Lois Smith
Margaret Zombinski
September 9, 2005
To the family of Monta I want to extend my deepest sadness in the death of a wonderful man.
Alyin, you and Zoe will be in my prayers. I know that Aylin will let Zoe know the legacy that her Daddy left her and will always keep him in her heart.
A Proud American
September 8, 2005
My condolences for your family. The loss of a loved one is one of the hardest things a person will ever have to go through, especially a tragedy such as this one. I hope that the fact that he passed as a hero will someday give you a little peace of mind and heart. Thank you to Monta for fighting for the freedoms in this country and my sympathy is with his family. God Bless you all and the men and women who are still fighting for our freedoms!
Ken Beck
September 8, 2005
To the family of Sgt. Ruth, my heartfelt sympathy's. I served in the USMC, Vietnam 68' 69', so I feel the loss of a fellow defender of freedom. Make no mistake you will meet again, God's peace to you all KEN
Ashley K.
September 8, 2005
My sincere sympathy to the family of Sgt. Ruth and especially to his loving wife, Alyin and his young daughter. He gave the ultimate sacrifice and for that he will be remembered.
Stephanie Snedaker
September 8, 2005
God Bless all of the friends and family of Monta. I hope you are holding up well Erin.
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