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Carl Raines Obituary
Funeral services will be 2 p.m. today at Hillcrest Baptist Church with the Rev. Jim Duhaime officiating. Burial with full military honors will follow in the Meadowlawn Cemetery.
Patterson-Sorrells Funeral HoPatterson-Sorrells Funeral Home, (334) 347-9598, is in charge of the arrangements.
This obituary was originally published in the Dothan Eagle.
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Jim and Kim Straker
October 5, 2018
Thinking of Carl's family, friends and fellow Marines and honouring the courage and patriotism of a fine young American - defined by his life rather than the manner of his passing.
Carl Raines
September 22, 2017
I would like the world to know that I was proud to call him my son. Yes, we did disagree and butt heads several times. But, he (Carl) was always kinder and more willing to help people than I was. As he was growing up I saw the maturity and perseverance he had in difficult situations. He was a natural leader, one who could think on his feet and quickly extinguish the winds of conflict. His mom loved him dearly, as well as his sister Alex. He also had a big heart for his stepbrother Lee, and his stepsister Tracey. Tracie's children looked up to him and respected him. He would not hesitate to play with them even as he grew older.
His untimely death left a void in the hearts and minds of those who knew him. Still some 12 years later, our hearts have a void which nothing else has filled. We miss you son, and look forward to the day we are reunited with you in paradise. Semper Fi. Love, Dad!
February 14, 2017
Carl,
Another year passes and yet the pain is still burning deep inside. Tomorrow you would have been thirty two years old. Who knows what would have happened if you were still here. It's a burden and obstacle that each of us has contended with for these years now behind us.
Alex for the moment seems to be heading in the right direction. All the grand kids are now technically adults. Your mom has her days, as I guess we all do. I have a good dog and she keeps me on my toes. She was scheduled to be put down but God intervened and gave me the company of a loving and loyal. I'm thankful to have her.
Tomorrow, weather allowing we should be heading out to the cemetery to lay flowers at your grave site. It is the least we can do for you.Until the morning, I wish you an early Happy Birthday and a hearty Semper Fi!
Love, Dad.
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Carl Raines
December 24, 2016
Dear Carl,
Another year rolls by, but it still seems like yesterday. Not much change in the every day living here. This town has started to grow tiresome and boring. I never really enjoyed being here, but it's the only real home you or Alex had.
She would like to go somewhere else,I'm sure. Her quest for meaning in life has met a lot of dead ends. The grand kids are all grown now and just biding time to depart here for greener pastures.
As usually your departure from this world came much too soon and your memory lingers in our hearts and minds. Son, it means little now, but to you there I wish a very Merry Christmas.
Love, Dad
Carl raines
November 10, 2016
Dear Son,
Today your memory was strong as I along with many Marines, both past and present wish each other a Happy Birthday. I was tied up with your mom and her medical problems/ She like me was also a little upset that the activities prevented us from paying respect at Meadow Lawn. Tomorrow will be another chance. Here's health to you and to our Corps which we were proud to serve. Semper Fi, and Good Night Chest Puller, wherever you are.
Love Dad
M D
October 6, 2016
Eleven years go by in a blink of an eye and although some things leave our memory, others will always stay. Think about you from time to time, but especially today. I miss you, friend
Straker
October 2, 2016
It's amazing that time can seem so flexible. As children, we often think that some date or other will never arrive soon enough, or that it won't happen at all (although of course it always does !) As we grow older time seems to gallop away. It seems just yesterday that we were writing on this site but somehow, it's almost October 6 again, and many of these world events have literally vanished from our thoughts. So much changes, and it happens so fast. However, some things remain unchanged - namely honour, patriotism, loyalty, decency, service to country and love of family and friends, and these apply to Carl Jnr as much as ever they did while he was alive. Carl, we're thinking of you all and wishing you peace and time to enjoy the good memories that abound. from Kim and Jim
carl Raines
October 1, 2016
Dear Son,
The day is quickly coming upon us. No matter how long this life ends, you will be sorely missed by all of us. Life has not and will not ever return to any kind of normality. Tracey and her kids are moving on and hopefully they will make good choices in their lives and get past those difficult things which throw up a road block in the way.
Your mom and Alex are hanging in there. They will continue on the path that will lead them to accomplishing those things they desire.
Again we miss you and look forward to the day when we are reunited.
Dad
Straker
February 16, 2016
From Kim and Jim - Carl, we're thinking of all of you, and adding admiration for the manner in which you conduct your life despite the sadness of Carl Jnr's passing - you honour him by so doing.
Carl Raines
February 15, 2016
Dear Son, Your mom and I have just returned from laying flowers at your grave site. As usual it evokes memories of the day in October 2005 when you left the confines of earth and reported for duty at the Pearly Gates. Things have progressed but the memory will never be forgotten.
Alex seems to have a handle on things a bit more now and slowly but surely we all have in someway accepted the fact that you are no longer with us physically.
I finally found another "Cupcake". She's a cute little Peke who reminds me of Cupcake in so many ways. She is indeed a comfort and good companion for the days when your memory lays heavily on our shoulders.
It's starting to look a little like spring. It's been a rainy and at times cold winter. It was fairly mild, but on the other days, a good coat or jacket sure felt good.
You would have been 31 today. Tim's birthday was a few days ago. From what I understand through your mom Josh should be a father by now. Time does bring change, some good; some not so good. We just have to endure and pray for strength during those rough spots.
I guess I will let you go for now. Again and a Happy earth Birthday from us to you.
Dad
Straker
October 5, 2015
Remembering and honoring the service and courage of this fine young Marine. Not granted the blessing of a long life, he certainly made the very best of the years he lived, serving with honor and leaving behind many memories for those who love and miss his presence. For Carl's family, we hope that this tenth anniversary brings you some peace.
For Carl Snr: you're often in our thoughts, and never more so than today. God bless you friend.
from Kim and Jim
Mark & Irma McVicker
October 5, 2015
Keeping your family close in thought and prayer all year, but especially during this time of year. Love and prayers to you and your family!
Carl Raines
September 20, 2015
Dear Son,
The days are fast approaching for what will be the tenth anniversary of your death in Iraq. Not a day goes by that we aren't reminded of your sacrifice. We all lost someone dear to us in that moment on 10/06/05. Lives have continued and things remain, allowing us to remember the accomplishments and good deeds that you were able to cram into twenty years of living.
It is a beautiful day and one that would be better if you were here to share it. To say you're missed in a great understatement.One day we will meet again and all this will be forgotten. Until then let us remember the good times.
Semper Fi, Dad!
Ashley
October 6, 2014
You are still thought of and remembered for your sacrifice. Thank you!
- A friend of Danny's
Straker
October 5, 2014
Time goes by but your courage, integrity, love of country and your family continue to shine brightly.
Rest in peace Carl - rest in peace. Our loving thoughts go out to your Dad, who misses you greatly but who always makes the best of the cards he was dealt; he is so proud of you. respectfully, Kim and Jim
Mark & Irma McVicker
October 4, 2014
You and your family will always have a very special place in our hearts! God bless and keep you!
Much love and many prayers!
CWO-3 Bob Bowman USMCR Retired
May 27, 2014
Rest in Peace Carl Jr.
Straker
May 26, 2014
On Memorial Day in the USA we honor your service, courage and willingness to stand by your mates on the field of battle. Rest easy Marine - Semper Fi.
Carl Snr - you're in our thoughts.
Jim and Kim
May 26, 2014
Son,
It's been a fairly quiet day here. Alex is in Atlanta trying to get her life on track. I hope and pray that this is the time she will realize her dreams and desires. Sure miss you a lot. I salute you and give you a hearty Semper Fi.
Dad
Carl Raines
February 15, 2014
Dear Son,
Today would have been your 29th birthday. Instead of laughter we bow in reverence for the ultimate sacrifice you made in combat. Our hearts are saddened by your absence and life will never be the same. But the cold wind of death will never erase your memory from out hearts and minds . I salute you also as a brother in arms. Until the day when we are united once more, Semper Fi and God bless you. Love, Dad
Carl Raines, Sr.
December 22, 2013
Two more days and it will be Christmas again. This year it hardly seems anything like the ones I used to know(To copy the words of the song). Of course today is Alex's birthday(25).It sure seems a lot longer. Time just drags along these days.
Whatever the day or season you are still missed very much and things will never be the same without you. I love you son! Merry Christmas. Dad
November 11, 2013
Carl, you and Danny will always be honored for your service, but beyond that you will be remembered for your lives prior to that day in Iraq in 2005. Your lights still shine in our hearts. God bless you and Danny. Semper Fi. Dad
Mark & Irma McVicker
October 6, 2013
As we posted on Danny's page - Simply stated “it's just a date on a calendar” … the empty feeling doesn't increase or decrease just because of a date, but somehow the events of that day eight years ago is amplified on this date. Our boys will NEVER be forgotten in the hearts and lives of all who knew them.
Keeping you and your family close in thought and closer in prayer.
Love & prayers,
October 5, 2013
Honoring the life, service and courage of Carl Raines Jnr, USMC.
Sent with the hope that all who love this fine young American will find some peace at this anniversary - remembering a youngster, a proud Marine, who served with distinction and whose life is best recalled by the way he chose to live, rather than the manner of his passing.
Semper Fi Marine, rest in peace.
Carl, you know you're especially in our thoughts today - from Australia to the USA. Kim & Jim
Carl Raines,Sr.
September 27, 2013
Son it's getting closer to that damned day again. I know you wish you could have come back. You had a lot of things planned and were chomping at the bit to get started on them. There are days when I sit and start wondering "What If". It is easing with time. It will never disappear, because you will never be forgotten.
Melissa Duerr
May 26, 2013
Thinking of you today, my friend
Carl Raines
May 26, 2013
Well it has been a while since the last entry. Tomorrow is Memorial Day and You and Danny will be on our minds even more. Life isn't always good, but the quality of it was improved by your presence. To say you are missed would not begin to scrape the surface. One day I will see you again. Until then Semper Fi, I both love and miss you. Dad
December 25, 2012
merry Christmas. carl
December 24, 2012
Dear Son,
I hope you like the flowers and everything else I put out for you. I tried to make things look like Christmas. Sure do wish you were here. You and I could be sitting around talking "Smack" or dreaming up some prank to pull on some poor, unsuspecting soul.
I guess Alex is doing o.k. She called yesterday and was not overthrilled with working tomorrow. That's the real world, and she should have Boxing Day off at least. Your Mom is also working tomorrow. I'll get up early, walk the dogs and then go play Santa for the assemblage. Then as usual, I retire back to my house, take a nap and return for the vittles around two. It's raining today and there's a good possibility of it tomorrow.The dogs are asleep by the fire, and I may slip out and visit your mom for a few minutes. She busy in the kitchen so I won't expect a lot of attention. Anyway, thought I would take the time to wish you a Merry Christmas. Love you and miss you! Semper Fi! Dad
Carl Raines, Sr.
October 7, 2012
Son,
Your mom and I remembered your passing yesterday. Hope you like the flowers. Alex was with us in spirit and it's been a rough time for her also.We will never forget just how much you loved your country and felt you owed a debt for freedom and liberty. I'll continue the fight with my last breath is required. God Bless you son, and God Bless America! Semper Fi! Dad
October 5, 2012
Hey there Carl .. you and Carl Jr are both very much in our thoughts and prayers today. Take care friend, take care. from Kim and Jim
carl raines,sr,
October 3, 2012
Son, I'm not sure if the last entry will go through or not. It is frustrating on top of the memory or your death. I miss you and always will. Some day we shall see face to face again. Until that day, Semper Fi Son! Dad
Kim & Jim Straker
October 3, 2012
well Carl - it's almost that time of the year when we pause especially to remember your service and ultimate sacrifice. You're thought of often, even on this side of the world.
Closer to home, your Dad misses you greatly and loves you deeply. Although we all wish that things had turned out differently, and that you'd been granted the blessing of a long life, everyone is proud of you and, for now, that continuing respect and love must be enough. Sleep well Marine - your duty is done.
June 17, 2012
Son,
This ship of state is sailing through some rough waters at the moment, but it will not go down. It will reach port safely and will be hailed as the majestic champion that she is and will always be. No self-serving politican will ever be able to snatch the reins of power from the true patriots of this great land. Your sacrifice will not be in vain. May God bless America again.
Semper Fi, Dad
CWO-3 Bob Bowman USMCR Retired
May 28, 2012
THE FEW THE PROUD
There will be a FEW who will not remember this day and what it means but the PROUD will never forget you.
RIP Carl Jr.
Carl Raines. Sr.
May 27, 2012
Dear Son,
This weekend I think of you even more. You and Danny will forever be in my mind and thoughts. It's hot here, but there are a lot of troops in Afghanistan who have it a lot rougher than I do. It is yours' and their blood, sweat, and tears than let me enjoy the life I live today. One day I hope to see you again. Until then, Semper Fi!
Dad
josh haffner
May 18, 2012
Carl, you were a good friend, brother, and soldier. you gave everthing for us, and we will never forget that. , thankyou is too weak an expression for everything that i take for granted today. GOD BLESS YOU AND KEEP YOU in our hearts forever, take it easy lugnut
your pal josh
March 7, 2012
My heart goes out to you. I have followed you through your journey for years. My son is an Iraq War Vet but he came home. No one unerstands how much that means to me. I think I would be just like you if he did not come home. My life has forever been changed since my son was in Iraq back in 2004. My life will never be the same. I will stop by to check on you from time to time for the rest of my life. You are in my prayers.
Kim & Jim Straker
February 15, 2012
Carl Jnr: your 27th birthday. So much time has gone by and to those who love and miss you it undoubtedly seems like a lifetime.
Carl, you weren't granted the years that ought to have been yours - to travel, maybe marry and have children of your own - to contribute to your community as you contributed to your Country and Corps - to live a long and productive life, happy and healthy. For whatever reason, you drew a different outcome, one which will always be a great regret, and yet you've left behind an indelible memory, and you've given us, in particular, the gift of your Dad's friendship and for that we thank you.
Your Dad is strong in spirit and he has made the best of the situation, keeping that good old Marine thinking, staying active and interested, with his photography, his dogs and his bike. He misses you greatly but his love and respect for you remains undiminished. God bless you Marine - rest in peace.
Carl Raines,Sr.
February 13, 2012
Dear Carl,
Two days away from your twenty seventh birthday. I don't know what you would be doing now or where. Life never lets us in on such knowledge. I never thought I would be sitting here in my early sixties writing in your guest book.
At the moment Alex is living with me, and it does give rise to a few chest pains at times.I'm hopeful the last prcedure was succesfull as I refuse to go through it again. I have felt a new energy level, but tend to overdo it. The Rottweiler keeps me busy and is good company. I had to have cupcake put down it just isn't the same anymore.
Your mom is trying to get to England to help Malcom. Eileen is sinking pretty fast. It seems just a matter of time now. I'm working on it. I will come up with something, I always do.
I hardly see the grandkids anymore. Sam is graduating soon, and Katie is sure growing. Austin is hanging in there, but blazing a trail of glory. Enterprise is as exciting as always. Wish I could leave, but it isn't easy to sell the big house, now now at least.
Now it's the long period until football starts again in the fall. That keeps me going.I would like to go back to the mountains this year, even if it is alone. It's so peaceful and quiet up there.Iknow I need a break from this place.
Well, let me wish you a happy birthday in your permanent duty station. Guess I'll report for duty in the next few years. No rush,just now it will happen sooner or later. Until then, Happy Birthday and Semper Fi!
cody critchfield
January 27, 2012
carl i was there with you brother and not a day goes by that you arent rembered in some way and my sincere condolences go to the family crazy carl raines and daniel mcvicker yall will always be my brothers semper fi
lcpl. cody s. critchfield (usmc)
Carl Raines, Sr.
December 25, 2011
Dear Son,
It was the biggest day of the year when you were here. Now it's quiet and lacks a lot of the color and excitement. All that aside, I still want to wish you the very Merriest Christmas imaginable.
Love, Dad
Theresa-Don Locke
October 25, 2011
Carl as the 6th ann of you and Danny's death has gone pass,that day 6 yrs ago on oct 5 will forever be seared in my heart, you live in the hearts of those who loved u and Danny,Keep a vigil over all the soldiers and marines that are coming to heaven almost every day now.
CWO-3 BOB BOWMAN USMCR RETIRED
October 9, 2011
Carl, a few days late but not forgotten. You are in my thoughts and will always be remembered.
Keep those streets of "Heaven's Scenes" and those gates well guarded; your Dad and I are going to need your help getting in.
Semper Fi Brother.
Phyllis Broomfield
October 8, 2011
On the anniversary of your deployment to heaven remember we love and miss you Cpl. Raines. RIP hero.
Peggy Childers
October 6, 2011
To the family and friends of Lance Cpl. Carl L. Raines:
Please accept my remembrance of Carl on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
October 6, 2011
Carl, Gill and Family,
October 6th 2005 changed our lives forever; let us remember and celebrate their lives. Crazy Carl and Gorilla, our sons and heroes. To live in the hearts of those you leave behind is to truly NEVER die. Our thoughts and prayers are with you today and everyday for peace and comfort that can only come from above.
Love,
Mark & Irma McVicker
K & J Straker
October 4, 2011
Honoring the memory, service, courage and sacrifice of Lance Corporal Carl L. Raines - and sent with the hope that all who love and miss this young man find peace and quiet today as they remember him.
Carl Snr - you are much in our thoughts today.
from Kim and Jim
Carl Raines, Sr.
October 2, 2011
Dear Carl,
Thursday will make six years. It still seems like only yesterday.It doesn't get easier, but I have accepted the fact that you are at peace.One day I too will cross that bridge and greet you on the other side. Until then, we still miss you and are looking forward to seeing you again. Semper Fi!
Love, Dad
Kim Straker
September 26, 2011
Carl - since we have the Marines AND dear Cupcake guarding Heaven's Gates I feel pretty confident that we're all secure. I know how much your Dad misses that little princess but he made the brave and right decision on her behalf and he will be ok. Almost the sixth anniversary of your sacrifice and another year in which your beloved Dad has soldiered on, dealing with whatever life throws at him, for better or worse.
Rest in peace Carl, rest in peace.
carl raines,sr.
September 10, 2011
Hello Son,
Take good care of Cupcake. She was a fantastic friend for both of us.
Carl Raines,Sr.
June 26, 2011
Dear Son,
The Fourth of July is almost on us again. In another week everyone will be outside, having barbeques and relaxing. May we never forget the sacrifices that enabled us to enjoy these celebrations, and may we always be mindful, that freedom is not free. We must cherish it and take whatever actions necessary to preserve it for ourselves and our posterity.
Semper Fi,
dad
Carl Raines
May 27, 2011
Dear Son,
This weekend serves as a reminder of those like you who have paid the ultimate cost for our freedom. It seems like an eternity ago, and people just don't seem to care much anymore.
One day I will simply step aside and let the world as I once knew it pass. There is no need for my ideas anymore. The new age makes light of anything patriotic or faith related. No need for such virtues. Common sense will get you comitted quickly.
Anyway, I love you and miss you.
Semper Fi, Dad
Carl Raines
May 5, 2011
Hello Son,
It's a nice, cool, sunny day here in L.A. One of those days when you'd rather be fishing. Alex is asleep and her dogs are keeping her safe. She has a job interview a little later in the day.
I'm sitting around, waiting to UAB to contact me about my heart surgery. Nothing gets your attention like a bum ticker. I should be good for at least another 100,000 miles as soon as they finish the tune up.Your mom, Tracey and the kids are doing well. Steven in on security duty in Tuscaloosa. It really caught hell in the tornado. Enterprise was bad, but nothing compared to this one.
They finally finished to auditorium for the new high school. Sam is singing with the chorale group tonight, so I will probably be going to see them. I have the sprinklers on for the first time since I bought the new house. Just too dusty without them.
I though I would say hello and get going with my chores. I still have to select your mom sonmething for mothers day. I'll be nice and not give her something even slightly sarcastic, well maybe just a little.
Love,
Dad
Carl Raines,Sr.
February 16, 2011
Dear Son,
For some reason my entry was not accepted in your guestbook. I have no idea, but it is not the first time. I still miss you like it was only yesterday. The years may pass, but your memory will never fade from our minds and hearts. I'm going through another heart problem, this time I hope it can be fixed for good.
Alex is at work. She was pretty miserable yesterday. I know things will get better for her eventually. Hope I'm around to see it. Everyone else still holds you dear and longs for the day when we are all together once more. Semper Fi, and Happy Birthday!
Love, Dad
February 16, 2011
Happy Birthday Carl!
Always on our mind and forever our hearts …
“To live in the hearts of the ones left behind is to never die!”
Love & God Bless
Mark & Irma McVicker
Kim & Jim Straker
February 2, 2011
For February 15, 2011.
It's your birthday Carl. While your Dad has breath in his body you will never be forgotten, and with this new health regime he's undertaking, he's good for another 40 years so you're in safe hands.
Barbara Sitowitz
January 6, 2011
Dear Mr Raines, Your son was honored tonight on the Nancy Grace show. Every night they honor a "fallen Hero" I hope you realize your son would never want you unhappy; he would want you to have the best life you possibly can. That would make him happy. My son served in Afghanistan - he is now back working at the Police Dept. Remember, there is always a child who would love to be taught how to fish, or an animal shelter who could use help caring for the animals. I wish you all the best Sir.
Phyllis Broomfield
December 24, 2010
As the Christmas holidays approach I think of you and Johnny and know that you are looking down and wishing your families a Merry Christmas. We miss you and love you both and even though you are not with us you will always be in our hearts. Merry Christmas Cpl. Raines.
Straker
December 24, 2010
Rest easy Carl Jr. You are missed greatly but loved very much by those left behind - in particular your Dad. He's a champion and a fighter, and you would be very proud of the way he's dealing with life.
As Bob Bowman has written elsewhere, we know you and your comrades are guarding those streets of gold and eventually you'll be reunited with those who love you best.
from Kim and Jim
CWO-3 BOB BOWMAN USMCR RETIRED
December 22, 2010
Carl Jr.
As we celebrate this Christmas season, it serves to remind all of us that without your sacrifice, and those of our brothers, we might not have the freedom to celebrate this and other holidays, as well as the other freedoms we enjoy daily.
We honor you and know that one day we will meet on the streets of gold guarded by you and your fellow warriors. Until then, we owe you nothing short of our utmost respect, gratitude, appreciation and pledge that we will protect, defend, and preserve those freedoms you fought for.
Merry Christmas!
Carl Raines
December 22, 2010
A couple more days and it will be here. Today of course is Alex's birthday. I hope it's a good one for her. She sure does miss you, we all do. I know you are looking down at us and wishing your best. One day we can do that face to face again. Merry Christmas Son. Love, Dad
Carl Raines
December 21, 2010
Went out to the cemetery this afternoon. Shared a drink with you. I'm sure Alex will be out sometime in the next couple of days. It's not the same, but we have to make do with what we have.Love and miss you. Dad
Carl Raines
December 6, 2010
Hello Son,
Few lines to say you are missed dearly and loved very much. It's getting closer to Christmas. I'll be glad when the holidays are over. There's just too much emphasis placed on gifts and toys. Not enough on the reason for our celebration.
Love You,
Dad
Lee Roddis
October 18, 2010
Hi bro not visited for a bit find it hard to say how i feel between me and you words can not say how i feel just wish you was hear you would like my new girl friend she as maneged to put a smile back on my face did not think that would ever come back not seen mum dad Tracey and Alex for a bit will do in 2012 for Sam's graduation can not wait to see all off them. We all miss you bro very much you will always be in owe hearts from one big bro to one little bro love you always.........
CWO-3 BOB BOWMAN USMCR RETIRED
October 6, 2010
LCpl Raines, we know where you are.
If folks ...
"Ever look on Heaven’s scenes;
They will find the streets are guarded By United States Marines."
Your sacrifice will never be forgotten.
Peggy Childers
October 6, 2010
To the family and friends of Lance Cpl. Carl L. Raines:
Remembering Carl on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
tracey kilcrease
October 6, 2010
You are always on my mind i never stop thinking about you.I lost my best friend a brother and a hero but i would rathere have you here in stead. I love you with all of my heart and i miss you every day.
i love you
your sister
tracey
gillian raines
October 6, 2010
i love you son there is not a day goes by that i dont think of you.When you died apart of me died with you.I Miss you soo much one day we will reunite till that day comes i will love you with all of my heart.I Miss you baby
love you
Mom
October 6, 2010
Keeping your family close in thought and prayer today while we celebrate the lives of our heroes.
Love and prayers,
Mark & Irma McVicker
Straker
October 3, 2010
October 6 2010
Remembering and honoring the service, courage and sacrifice of this fine Marine.
With loving good wishes to Carl Snr - we hope that you find peace during your time in the beautiful surrounds of Georgia. Kim & Jim, Doha, Qatar GCC
Carl Raines
October 1, 2010
Dear Son,
Again the time draws near and each year brings back the memory as though it were yesterday. I wish I could say we are dealing better with it, but it still hurts like hell. Life goes on and people somehow manage to try and restart their lives.
Sam,Austin, and Katie are really growing. Alex is still hanging in there and giving it a lot of effort. I'm starting to show my age a little bit(lol). Sometimes I feel like a fine tuned race car, minus the engine. I guess what I'm trying to say is life will never be the same without you here to liven things up.
Love you son. Dad
Donna Thompson
September 28, 2010
My deepest sympathies to you, Lex, and your family. God needed another special angel with Him in Heaven. Your son will always be watching over you and will be your special guardian angel. Our children are never ever gone from our minds and our hearts, they are always with us.
Clinton Sparkman
August 31, 2010
I think of you daily and it does not get any easier, they say it will but I don't think it will. You are all ways missed and Loved as a bro. in arms.
Sgt. Sparkman, Clinton Ret.
"One of the ones that was there"
Carl Raines,Sr.
July 17, 2010
Hello Son,
You've been on my mind a lot lately. I seem to feel your absence more as the day draws near to your time of leaving us. It's been said that time will help with the pain. Some days it's as bad as ever and I guess that means we loved you more than we care to think about.
There have been a million what ifs and whys, but the pain is still there. One day we shall escape this world and join you in that peaceful land. May noone ever take lightly the sacrifice you made for others. I love you and miss you.
Dad
Carl Raines,Sr.
June 1, 2010
Yesterday was another reminder that the freedom often taken for granted was bought at a high cost. I miss you very much, and our lives will always be missing one of it's most important parts.Semper Fi! Dad
Phyllis Broomfield
June 1, 2010
Thinking of you Cpl. Raines on this memorial Day.You are a true American hero RIP.
Paul & Tricia Spiliotis
May 31, 2010
Thinking of you this Memorial Day morning as we raised the flag. Our hearts were heavy and our tears overflowed as we remembered the laughter of happy, hard working Blue Knights, full of vigor and promise. Some taken away from us all too soon, but never forgotten.
CWO-3 BOB BOWMAN USMCR RETIRED
May 29, 2010
Carl Jr. - As we approach Memorial Day, I am giving thanks and appreciation for those who gave all for the price of freedom for all mankind to enjoy. On May 31, 2010, I salute you and my replacement in Vietnam, MGySgt Gerald Fiegle who also gave his life after only 15 days in Vietnam.
We will never forget you and all our brothers who sacrificed EVERYTHING for us to live in peace.
Michele Erker
May 28, 2010
Thinking of you all on this Memorial Day weekend...
Not sure who wrote this, but it still raises goosebumps:
I watched the flag pass by one day,
It fluttered in the breeze.
A young Marine saluted it,
And then he stood at ease..
I looked at him in uniform
So young, so tall, so proud,
With hair cut square and eyes alert
He'd stand out in any crowd.
I thought how many men like him
Had fallen through the years.
How many died on foreign soil
How many mothers' tears?
How many pilots' planes shot down?
How many died at sea?
How many foxholes were soldiers' graves?
No, freedom isn't free.
I heard the sound of Taps one night,
When everything was still,
I listened to the bugler play
And felt a sudden chill.
I wondered just how many times
that Taps had meant 'Amen,'
When a flag had draped a coffin.
Of a brother or a friend.
I thought of all the children,
Of the mothers and the wives,
Of fathers, sons and husbands
With interrupted lives.
I Thought about a graveyard
At the bottom of the sea
Of unmarked graves in Arlington.
No, freedom isn't free.
(author unknown)
Carl Raines,Sr.
April 4, 2010
Dear Son,
Today is Easter Sunday. I went to church this morning and was thinking of you as usual. It's a really nice day out, one of those you would enjoy. Sure do miss you. Wish you were here with us.
February 16, 2010
Sending special thoughts on the "day after" your birthday ... unfortunately due to weather we were stranded out of town and could not make our entry yesterday ... a day late, but always close in our thoughts. Happy birthday Carl!
Love to the entire family,
Mark & Irma
Carl Raines
February 15, 2010
Hello Son,
Today would have been number 25 for you. You will be in our hearts and minds today. Alex is away, but she will also echo those same thoughts. To say you're missed will be grossly understating our feelings. May the sun shine brightly on you and may God's love embrace you.
Dad
Straker
February 15, 2010
February 15, 2010.
Remembering Carl on his birthday - and sending special thoughts to Carl Snr - we may be miles apart but you're especially in our thoughts today.May the sun always be on your face, and as you say, may the stars shine brightly on you and your beloved son. from Kim and Jim
Kim and Jim Straker
January 2, 2010
Hi Carl - despite what your Dad says about trying to be a little nicer - don't pay him any heed. He is perfectly nice, just doesn't put up with stupidity (and there's nothing wrong with that). He's doing so well coping with everything but you know what he's like - it's a 100% and nothing less as far as he's concerned so he sets the bar pretty high for himself .He and Cupcake make a fine pair and I believe that she will live a long and happy life as he takes such care of her - they're really well suited and she generally appears in one or more of the photos he sends
:-) Alex is now settled in England and I'm sure she will keep in touch with your Dad - as he says, she's quite capable, just a little doubtful of her ability (and she's still very young)
You are missed and very much loved by your family - your Dad especially - he is so proud of you and it's wonderful that he shares a little of his life with us.
Rest in peace Carl - rest in peace.
Kim & Jim - still in the Middle East.
Carl Raines
December 31, 2009
A couple of hours from now we'll be in the door for a brand,new year. Will this year be better? Only time will tell. If anything I want this to be the year when I get back into step with the rest of the world.
There's the usual lose wight,get in shape stuff. But there are some bigger, better aspirations. I's like to get serious with some of the hobbies I'v played with for years; i.e. writing and photography. I also want to spend more time in the outdoors, maybe some gardening again.
The smaller house was a lot better in that respect. There weren't so many trees and roots. I still feed the birds and they are entertaining as usual.I would love to grow a nice garden. I may do that anyway. I don't think there would be any problems doing that. I don't get enough sunlight in here to do it.
These are all goals, not resolutions. If you don't have a plan you can't carry something to resoulution. I'd like to try being a little nicer. There are some people who just won't let you, no matter how earnestly you try.
Cupcake has hung around for another year. I don'tknow what I would do without that little dog at times. She is like a child, and a nagging woman at times. She is the most loyal friend I have. You know what she wants and it doesn't take a lot of debate to figure it out. I prayed for a good dog before you left, because deep down I knew, I would need something to hold onto and keep me going. She's still here and she's been a great comfort through all the trying times of the past five years.
If you were here you could understand how close the two of us are. I would really hate to lose her. I hope she lives for a few more years. I know she's almost eight and I'm not getting any younger myself.
I'm sure Rusty is there with you running around. He was a good little dog. I didn't care for a couple of his habits, but all in all he keep me company all the time after the accident. He was my only company for a long time. Never complained, just kept me on my toes and moving. That's what I needed the most. May the two of you have fun. Alex is back in England. I hope she gets it together this time around. It's time for her to solo. I think she's capable, only a little doubtful.
Well, let me close this out for 2009. I want to be asleep when the fireworks start at midnight. Happy New Year Son.
Love, Dad
Carl Raines
December 25, 2009
Merry Christmas Son!
It was a nice peaceful day for a change. There was no fighting here. The food was good and the family was together once more. Your presence was sincerely missed. Tomorrow will signal the fast approach of a new year.
I hope and pray that this one will have more happiness and cheer. We all love you, and miss you.
Dad.
Lori
December 6, 2009
I have been thinking about you a lot lately Carl...I think about things like seeing how you are doing...it is hard to grasp reality...still. I remember when I was told you left us and I didn't believe it. I guess I still don't.
Carl Raines
November 28, 2009
Dear Son,
Thanksgiving is now over and the holiday season has officially begun. I have the tree up and the presents wrapped and hidden. I think you would approve of the way I wrapped them.
I turned a milestone in life today, the big 60. In reality I guess it's downhill the rest of the way. I am not going to slow down though, it's a lot more fun to burn out, than it is to rust out.
Steven is away and Tracey and the kids are doing okay on their own. Things could be better I guess, but they could also be worse. I'm having the family over here Christmas Day to exchange gifts and eat. If I survive the holidays, I may just head to Georgia for a few days of peace and quiet.
I really miss having you around this time of the year. Alex keeps me on my toes at times, and there is the usual annoying things so common in this world. One day we will be reunited and this will all seem like a dream, a speed bump in eternity. Until then I can truly say that you are still very much in hearts and minds, especially this time of year.
Hang in there, we all will be together soon.
Love,
Dad
CWO-3 BOB BOWMAN USMCR RETIRED
October 8, 2009
Carl Jr:
Still remembering you and keeping your Dad and family in my thoughts and best wishes for the future.
You are an American hero and we appreciate the sacrifice to defend, protect, and preserve the freedoms we enjoy as a direct result of your service and sacrifice.
We will never forget you!
Semper Fi
October 6, 2009
Carl,Gill and family,
Not a day goes by that we all do not relive that day four years ago ... please know you are in our thoughts a prayers for comfort and peace in the reassurance that we will be with them again one day.
Love and prayers,
Mark & Irma McVicker
Kim Straker
September 29, 2009
Dear Carl - the fourth anniversary of your death is fast approaching. It's sad that your days on earth were so few, and that you weren't granted the opportunity of growing old with those you love but you certainly packed a lot into the years you were given and I know that the memories you've left behind make your Dad and your family proud. Equally, I'm sure that you are proud of the way in which your Dad has picked up the pieces of his life and literally soldiered on. He misses you so much, but he loves you greatly and nothing will change that, and I think that his faith reinforces his hopes for the future.
Rest in peace Carl, rest in peace and know you are remembered, even by those of us not fortunate enough to know you in your lifetime. With sincere good wishes from Kim and Jim - Australia
Carl Raines
September 28, 2009
Dear Carl,
The days are fastly approaching us for the fourth anniversary of your departure. This weekend and the day will be spent in the mountains of North Georgia. It will be a time of quiet reflection, and renewal of hope for the realization of eternal life, which you are now living. Every day there is some reminder, some small thing that brings you to mind.
You are ever in our hearts and minds and nothing else will ever fill that empty space, that only you could. LIfe has gone on, but missing a lot of the things that were made special by your presence here with us.
The kids are growing and Alex is still slugging away. She will make it, but in her own way. At the moment she is still soul searching and trying to come up with the right answer. I guess you can't ask for more than that. At times, I think, I too am still looking for the answers. Life must go on, there are those who depend on us, no matter how much of a pain they seem to be at times. I strive to do my best, and hope one day to see you again. That is the best vision I can create for the future.
I love you son.
August 30, 2009
Dear Son,
Fall is just around the corner and hopefully cooler weather as well. The grounds crew has improved lately and it's much nicer at your grave.
Thought I would tell you because you're not there. It is a little easier knowing that your resting place is being taken care of.
Alex is working at the Officer's Club and the kids are in school. Alex did manage to get back in class, and I'm hopeing for the best in that regard.
Football will be here with a vengance next weekend. I think I'll pass on the trip to the stadium this year. Early September is not a good time to sit it a hot, crowded stadium.
I hope to start fishing again in a few weeks. It's been quite a while now. I used to enjoy it immensely, now it's just a passing fancy.
At any rate, thought I would say hello.
Love, Dad
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