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Jay Collado Obituary
Jay Tirona Collado, 31, of Oceanside died Feb. 20. He was born in San Antonio and served in the Marine Corps in the Iraq war.
Survivors include his wife, Judy Collado; daughter, Kaiya Collado of Oceanside; parents, Florante and Teresita Collado of Columbia, S.C.; and sister, Annadelaide Collado of Columbia, S.C.
Visitation: 6 p.m. today, Dunbar Funeral Home, 3926 Devine St., Columbia, S.C.
Services: 10:30 a.m. tomorrow at the funeral home.
Interment: 1 p.m. tomorrow, Florence National Cemetery, Florence, S.C.
Donations: Contact the family.
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Memories and Condolences
for Jay Collado
Dany Oliva
May 30, 2021
On this and every memorial day weekend I always think of you. You were my Filipino brother when I got to 167 and made me feel right at home. I thank you and Judy for inviting me into your home and family and sharing home cooked meals with me. I will never forget the kindness you shared with everyone, your positive attitude and the overall positive energy you generated. You and your family will always be remembered in my heart.
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Dany Oliva
Travis
May 28, 2017
Semper Fi brother.
October 25, 2013
Jay,
I thought of you today my friend as I have so many times since we served togehter. You and I were Gamecock Fans and could talk about them anytime we got it together. I pray for you and your family. I believe that I will see again one day and keep you alive in my memory. Semper Fi Jay.
Always your friend,
Jeff Holliday
Clinton Hollibaugh
November 22, 2012
Ill always remember you bro. For a lifetime. Happy Thanksgiving. That road was the saddest and lonliest time of my life. Mongo (my k-9) and i did everything we could to find him man.
August 3, 2012
SSGT Jay Collado remembered today and everyday. Although several years have passed, our family remains grateful to him for the sacrifice he made.
Peggy Childers
February 23, 2012
February 20, 2012
To the family and friends of Staff Sgt. Jay T. Collado:
Always remembering Jay. "Some gave all."
Eduardo Garcia
November 11, 2011
Jay I remember all the fun time we had from middle school thru High school at RNE.I still talk about the days when I would drive from Camp Lejuene all the way down to Albany Ga to bring you home to Columbia for the weekend. Those where some good times.You might be gone but you will never be forgotten as long as you have family and friends that think about you all the time you memory will always be everlasting. Miss you and Love you cuzin.
Marcia Hook
November 9, 2011
collado and I were in Japan together. He was my lil big bro. He was the sweetest guy anyone could ever know. I look at our pics that we took on the beach with our friends dwight,franklin,debeary, mario, hook and jackson. Man we had fun that year! I left and lost touch with him until one day I walked out of walmart in columbia and there he was. HIs wife and I were pregnant and we had our kids a month a part. We stayed in touch until he went to Iraq and I never heard from him again. I miss you big bro. Man i miss you so much. Thank you for being there for me.
Jeff Fink
May 10, 2011
Jay,
Tomorrow we have a Skid Kid Reunion to remember our brothers that paid the ultimate sacrifice. Many of your old friends from 167 will be there. Oh how I wish you could be here. I Promise, we will make you proud. God bless you brother. I miss you...
Peggy Childers
February 20, 2011
To the family and friends of Staff Sgt. Jay T. Collado:
Please accept my remembrance of Jay on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Peggy Childers
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
M D
June 2, 2010
Jay
Im sorry it took me so long to say goodbye brother. Thanks for continuing to watch over the rest of marines. I will never forget you and I will see you on the high side someday
John Pollack
May 31, 2010
Dear Collado Family.
Jay replaced me at HMLA-267 as he took over the position as the Intelligence Chief. I only new him for a few short months during the time of our turnover. And I really came to know and like him. I'll never forget the poistive energy that he brought to work everyday. He was always so excited to come in and learn what new things were in store for him at his new job. He was a breath of fresh air to have around the squadron, no doubt. He brought with him such a positive energy and an eagerness to learn. He definately was a great guy. The day he got hit by that IED I wasn't to far away in the Al Anbar province of Iraq and I remember seeing the report with his name in it. My heart sank and I was filled with grieve, because, I knew the counrty had lost a great guy and a young child just lost a daddy. He gave the ultimate sacrifice for his nation and should never be forgotten. He will always be a hero to me. God bless you Collado family.
My deepest condolences and utmost Respect.
Sincerely
GySgt John Pollack
Camp Leatherneck, Afghanistan
May 2, 2010
It has been 4 years my cuzin, You will never be forgotten as long as you have friends and family that keep you in their hearts. You will always live on in our hearts. One day we will see each other again may the blessing of the Lord all mighty shine down family.Love you cuzin
Steven Akana Sr
May 1, 2010
To Jay... Kimo and I visited the Hall of Heroes in Camp Taji COINSOC (Sept 09) where we saw your Plaque. I was assigned there and saw it in the COINSOC HQs and made sure Kimo saw it when he came through to undergo training...It was so touching to see and read about You and the honored men ... Miss You Son... This world is full of violence and Now Youre Finally At Peace. God Bless
John (Crow) Hughes
February 24, 2010
4 days ago made 4 years ago, Not a day goes by that you dont cross my mind and not a month goes by that I dont drive out to see you in florence. One day we will all find out the answer as to why God chose you. But as we all know Gods plan and timing is PERFECT. I will see you again MY friend. -Crow
Anthony Mason
February 23, 2010
To the family of SSGT Jay T. Collado, my thoughts and prayers are with you on this anniversary. I pray that God will always look over each and every one of you and keep giving you strength. God Bless you all..
Peggy Childers
February 20, 2010
To the family and friends of Staff Sgt. Jay T. Collado:
Remembering Jay on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Tina NeSmith
May 25, 2009
Jay and I went school together in Columbia, S.C.. I will always remember his bright smile. He may not be here physically but he will always be here spiritually and in our hearts. It's never easy to lose someone you love but it gets easier to be comforted by their loving memories. God will give Jay's family and friends the strength to celebrate the time that we were blessed to have known our Hero.
Kenna Larra
April 28, 2009
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Norme Meriado
April 20, 2009
To Florante & Tess, parents of Jay:
The pain of losing a son is a lifetime painful memory. May God give you the grace and strenth to carry your cross.
Rey and Norme Meriado
Debbi
April 18, 2009
Jay it's now been three years since you were taken from God's earth. I pray that you and your family know that you will be forever remembered. May God continue to give comfort to your family.
http://goldstarfamilysupportgroup.com
In memory of my son
SPC Harry (Buck) Winkler III
KIA 11/12/2006 Samarra, Iraq
CO-A 2-505th PIR 82nd Airborne
Peggy Childers
February 19, 2009
To the family of Staff Sgt. Jay T. Collado:
Jay gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Lynn Kennedy
September 28, 2008
To the family of SSgt. Collado. Please know on this Gold Star Mothers day our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. We will not forget.
Lynn
SC coordinator Home of the Brave Quilt Project
May 26, 2008
On this Memorial Day you are remembered and respected. Thank you Staff Sgt Collado!
Jackie Frye
March 1, 2008
To the family of an American hero, I am grateful. I lost my nephew Spc T Caughman in June 2004 (from Lexington S C) and know the price that is being paid by ones we love dearly. May we never forget that our freedom comes with a great price and I am thankful for Staff Sgt Collado for he willingness to serve and protect for our freedom. May God give you the strength you need each day
August 15, 2007
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
July 26, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Staff Sgt Collado and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
Jun Bernis
June 22, 2007
Jay,
Thanks for protecting me out there in Iraq. I will never forget you. Up to this day I still cant believe what happened to you. Thanks for treating me like a brother. I hope to see you in the next life. To Judy, if you need anything give me a call @ 7608458679. Goodbye buddy.... I hope someday I will wake up and everything was just a bad dream and that you are still with us.
TC~
May 26, 2007
Remembering you this Memorial Day~
debbi rivers
May 24, 2007
I am a mother of another fallen hero. My son SPC Harry (Buck) Winkler III was KIA 11-12-2006 in Samarra, Iraq. I know the pain you must be feeling right now and will feel forever. May God's healing love and comfort be yours for all the family. While I don't know the family I want to offer you my support. Please call on me at any time as together we can find comfort and support. Debbi
February 25, 2007
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
Semper Fi Marine~
TC
Boiling Springs, SC
February 25, 2007
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Semper Fi.
TC
Boiling Springs, SC
Garnet Jenkins
February 20, 2007
Please know how Deeply Sorry I was to learn of the loss of Staff Sgt. Jay T. Collado, one year ago today.
The price this Brave Young Marine and his family have paid for this country and for freedom, Will Never Be Forgotten.
May Jay rest safely in the Loving Care of God and may the Grace and Comfort of the Lord continue to be with the Collado family.
There will Never be Enough Ways to Humbly Thank these Heroes for their Supreme Sacrifice, my brother among them. KIA~Vietnam, 1967.
"Cast thy burden upon the Lord,
and He shall sustain thee."
~ Psalm 55:22 ~
May the Peace of God and your memories of Jay, remain in your heart always.
May this give you comfort and strength through the difficult days.
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Lynda Wayne
December 20, 2006
I am sorry for your loss and would like to be able to get in tough with Staff Sgt Collado's wife Judy.
I have a quilt that is just about ready for her from the Home of the Brave Quilt project. If someone could get in touch with me, so that i may know where to send it, that would be great.
Again, I am sorry about your loss and hope that the quilt that I have for her may help in some way.
Captain Andy Christian MITT 0841
June 3, 2006
Jay,
It was an honor to serve with you in Iraq. I am running the Rock N Roll Marathon tomorrow and carrying the American flag we had with the team in Iraq. The flag will represent your sacrifice so all Americans can live free in this great country. You are my hero! The team misses you brother!! I know you will be running alongside me tomorrow.
God Bless you & Semper FI
ROBYN GARSIDE
May 1, 2006
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST SYMPATHIES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE ON FOR YOUR LITTLE ONE. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL. GODSPEED AND SEMPER FI
Sgt William Robertson
March 30, 2006
Jay,
What can I say bro, you were one of the best guys I've ever had the pleasure of calling a friend. You will be truly missed and the world will be a sader place without you. My condolences to your wife and daughter. I still remember the time back in 03 when we drove down to South Carolina from school in Damneck Virginia for a weekend to take our kids to the zoo. We had some great times at that school. Well bro, I have been given the great honor of bringing you home to your family. I hope I do you proud.
Sra Roman Huntley
March 19, 2006
Jey,
We're goingto miss you. Thanks for all you've done. You'll always be remembered as a hero.
We'll miss you,
Dawn Ami
March 15, 2006
Dear Collado Family,
I found out through A. Mason about Jay Collado. I work with him while he was at HMLA-167, as well with Mason and Chevy. My prayers are with your family. He was a good person and always had a smile on his face. Take care in knowing that he was always thought of in a good way. God Bless
Marvin Abuan
March 13, 2006
I served with Jay in 2d Intel Bn. I will truly miss him. He was my big brother in Iraq. I'll miss the the many computer problems I fixed for him out there. I'll especially miss the excitments on our faces when we found out we were both being stationed in California. I'll miss you kuya Jay.
Lola
March 11, 2006
Jay and I attended high school together. He was so much fun and so kind. My condolences go to his family. Although it may be hard to see it now, know that God has a plan for us all. I pray that God continue to grant you grace and peace during this difficult time. May Jay's life never be forgotten.
Malykha McDaniels-Jackson
March 11, 2006
As days go by, I think of Jay. I laugh, I cry and I pray for his family that he left behind. I hear a song, it makes me laugh. I think of him not being here, it makes me cry. Jay will be deeply missed. I think of the good times we had just hanging out and acting silly. He was such a good person. Even typing this brings tears to my eyes but I will always remember Jay laughing, joking and enjoying life...May God Bless his wife, daughter, parents, sister, family and friends.
James Nickerson
March 10, 2006
Well...I met SSgt C in the smoke pit. Me and him BS'd for awile, it was about computers that day. He had seen me at SAMS working my secound job and wanted more info on computers because he was plaining on buying one soon. I knew him for a breif amount of time but in that time it was clear he was very down to earth and treated people with respect. It's very sad to see such a great guy get taken away. Semper Fi.
R/
Sgt James C. Nickerson
HMLA 267 IMRL
Charles Santos
March 10, 2006
Jay was a fine American, and the greatest SNCO I have ever worked for.
My prayers got out to his wife Judy, and Daughter Kaiya and the rest of his family. please do not hesitate to contact me if there is anything I can do.
Semper Fidelis
LCpl Charles Santos
Nathaniel Griscom
March 10, 2006
Excellent Leader, and Marine.
Jonathan Longman
March 7, 2006
Jay was one of the greatest leaders that I knew as a young Marine. He was one of the friendly easy going person that I ever had the chance to get to know. I feel lucky to have know such a person.
My deepest condolences go out to his family. God bless
Jeffrey Adamson
March 7, 2006
Staff Sgt Jay Collado was a great mentor and leader who inspired me in more ways than I can remember. If I could say one thing to his family I am deeply saddened for your loss.
Dan Oliva
March 6, 2006
To the Collado Family,
My deepest sympathies go out to you. Jay was like my younger "older" brother when I got to 167 and he and Judy made me feel like I had a family there. I'll miss Judy's home-cooked meals he invited me over for instead of eating at the chow-hall. Semper Fi to one of the few and proud and someone I will forever call my brother.
-Sgt Oliva, USMC 2000-2005
Nick Johnston
March 6, 2006
To the most laid back, easy going person I have ever met. You will be missed by all!
Sgt. Johnston HMLA 167 Flightline
SSgt Jeffrey Fink
March 6, 2006
Jay,
You were always an inspiration to me as a young Marine. I grew to have a great freindship and respect for you. Ahhh the good old times in San Diego... In a time when good friends are hard to come by, you made it clear what the meaning of a true friend is. May God Bless your family in these hard times. Semper Fi my Friend, Rest in Peace.
Jeffrey Fink
March 6, 2006
Jay,
You were always an inspiration to me as a young Marine. I grew to have a great freindship and respect for you. Ahhh the good old times in San Diego... In a time when good friends are hard to come by, you made it clear what the meaning of a true friend is. May God Bless your family in these hard times. Semper Fi my Friend, Rest in Peace.
Jeffrey Fink
March 6, 2006
Jay,
You were an inspiration to me as a young Marine. I grew to have a great friendship and respect for you. You will be deeply missed my friend. God Bless you my Brother.
oscar rodriguez
March 3, 2006
JAY
YOU WILL BE MISSED DEARLY.YOU WERE GOOD A GOOD FRIEND TO ME AND PETE. I HAVE NOTHING BUT GOOD MEMORIES OF YOU. MY PRAYERS TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. REST IN PEACE MARINE. SEMPER FI.
OSCAR RODRIGUEZ
CPL USMC 1994-1998
Claire Zawistowski
March 2, 2006
Dear Fitzgerald Family,
Even though we have never met I feel as if we are a part of a family. My daughter's financee was killed by an IED in Iraq on Oct. 3, 2005. It is my prayer that God will hold you as close to His heart as He has held my family these past months. Maybe you feels His comfort during these difficult days.
pedro rodriguez riopedre
March 2, 2006
I want to say that Jay was a good friend that I met when I moved to S. Carolina in 1989. My brother Oscar and I hung out with Jay during our high school years. Even though we lost contact because of us both joining the military you never forget good people. I want to pay respects to a fallen comrade, to pay respects to his family, and I will never forget him. Jay, you will always be remembered as a good friend from the days of youth and innocence. Rest in peace, Semper Fi Marine.
Pedro A. Rodriguez Riopedre
TSgt, USAF
Walter Harvey Jr.
March 2, 2006
Jay was a friend - and in a time when it's hard to find ginuinely good people, I'm proud to say that I knew him and that I called Jay my friend. My prayers go out to his family and everyone who loved and cared about him.
Charles Gavin
March 2, 2006
I was shocked to hear of the death of SSgt Collado. I didn't know him to well but I was stationed at MAG39 HQ before he took off to Iraq. He was a fellow Intel Marine and from the times we spoke he was very down to earth and very kind. Its just a damn shame. You and your family will be in our prayers here.
LT MARIA NAVARRO, USN
March 1, 2006
Jay,
Thank you so much for serving our country. You are a HERO. My prayers go out to you and your family. You'll never be forgetten.
Tessa Kenerson
March 1, 2006
To family and friends of Jay, there are no words I can think of which would ease your pain or make his loss any easier to deal with. The disbelief makes it even harder. I didn't know Jay very well but our parents are friends through FAAGC. He is truly a hero. His name and legacy, and family and friends will be in my thoughts and prayers this lenten season.
Cynthia & Bob Howard
March 1, 2006
Our Prayers are with you and your family Always.
Taki Wallace
March 1, 2006
To the Collado family:
Sometimes the hurt is too big for words. To let you know that thoughts of deepest sympathy are with you. Extending deep and heartfelt sympathy to you and your family. My heart goes out to you and yours. You are in my thoughts and prayers and Jay will forever remain in my memories.
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
March 1, 2006
My heartfelt sympathy to the Collado family in the loss of Jay. I did not know Jay, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. You are a hero and you will never be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
Felicia Brown
February 28, 2006
When I saw this on the news I just kept hoping and praying that this was not the right person. I went to high school with Judy and we were good friends. Although I only met Sgt. Collado one time, my deepest thoughts and prayers go out to your family. May you find peace in your hearts!
Dana and Johnny
February 28, 2006
JAY THIS WEEK HAS BEEN A NIGHTMARE FOR US SINCE WE HEARD THE NEWS ABOUT YOU. MY HEART GOES OUT TO JUDY AND KAIYA. THERES NOT ONE DAY THAT GOES BY THAT WE DON'T THINK ABOUT YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.I DON'T KNOW ANY MAN ON THIS EARTH THAT IS KINDER THAN YOU. YOU'VE BEEN A GREAT HUSBAND TO MY FRIEND AND A GREAT FATHER TO KAIYA. JOHNNY AND I ENJOY THE NIGHT WE ALL WENT OUT TOGETHER TO CELEBRATE YOUR HOMECOMING 4/2005. WE WERE ALL EXCITED ABOUT SPENDING SOME TIME WITH YOU AND JUDY. THANK YOU JUDY FOR INVITNG JOHNNY AND I THAT NIGHT. NOW I HAVE GREAT MEMORIES TO GO ON BY. JAY I WILL CHECK UP ON JUDY FROM TIME TO TIME SO YOU JUST GO ON REST IN PEACE MY FRIEND ONE DAY WE WILL SEE YOU IN HEAVEN. WE LOVE YOU JAY,JUDY ,AND KAIYA!!
SSG "Q.T." Harvey
February 28, 2006
To the Collado family:
You are in my thoughts and prayers and Jay will forever remain in my heart and memories.
Justin Waldeck
February 28, 2006
Jay,
I'll never forget what we've been through. I will always tell your story. You are a true friend and Marine.
1stLt Justin Waldeck
BN MiTT 0841
FOB Duke, Iraq
Michiko & Dewayne Martin
February 28, 2006
To Jay
We really miss you, Jay. You are our best friend and like our real brother.
We will always remember your jokes and your great personality.
You will live in our memories forever.
At last, we want to thank you for being our friend. You, your wife, and your daughter mean a lot to us.
Donna Karolasz
February 28, 2006
My GOD Bless your family,
I know what your going though, I just lost my brother (SSG Edward Karolasz) on Nov 19, 2005 in Iraq. Be stronge durning these tough times. I like to think they are in a better place, watching over us. They will forever be missed, and will always be heros. GOD BLESS!!!
The Felder/McDaniels Family
February 27, 2006
My family knew Jay well and it was absolutely devestating to find out what happened. My family and I cried for hours. Our hearts go out to his wife and daughter and his entire family. We love you all deeply.
Christina Hopkins
February 27, 2006
To the Collado Family, I met you and your son when I was younger through my parents and the FIL-AM Association here in Columbia. From what I can remember of your son and brother, he was a nice guy. I didn't know him very well but I knew his family and I know that he grew up as a strong and courageous man. I have to say THANK YOU for instilling the character of being strong and having the willingness to risk his life and fight for our country. I send my deepest sorrows and sympathies to you and wish your family well as you grieve this loss. God Bless and God Speed.
SSG Steven Akana
February 27, 2006
I dont even know where to begin. I lost my childhood friend a cousin a brother a part of my family. I cant help but cry from time to time. This past week has been difficult and my heart aches I cant explain it but a part of me died.Let it be a song or a thought and I remember the good times we had. The crew we had too many to remember. Remember going to school? to Mayfest? to Jack and Johns old house? So many times to cherish. My prayers and love are with you and your family. May the Lord grant them Strength and courage during this hard time. I see that you have touched the hearts of many.I cant beleive you went to the Marines and let me go alone to the Army but I never held that against you my friend.My only regret is not being able to talk or see you before you deployed. Because I never got a chance to tell you how much you mean to me and that I love you. You will forever live in our hearts. I know you are in a better place. But I cant help but feel such an emptiness. What I would give to see and hear your laughter.Everyone here you left behind will always remember Jay T. Collado Rest in peace my friend you are truly missed and will never be forgotten!! My Filipino brother.
Eduardo Garcia
February 26, 2006
To my long time friend Jay, A lot of people knew you as SSgt Collado I knew you as (Paco)My heart goes out to Judy and your daughter.I will miss you but. You will never be forgotten as long as you have freinds like Steve,Jack ,John,Marty,Leland,Jose,and myself your memory will always be there.May the lord bless you and your Family and we will met again in the promised land.Love Eduardo Jose Garcia aka (jewjew)
Moe Zaw Latt
February 26, 2006
My Friend, I am very sad, to know that you had given your life for the freedom. You are just like my brother, my family, i love you very much, and you'll be missed. I think about you everday, remembering the time when we were together back in SC. I love your family, and very sorry for the young daughter you had left behind. I pray that you are in God's home, in enternity, i hope i'll see you in the other side. I love you Jay.
John Hughes
February 26, 2006
My thoughts and Prayers go out to the entire Collado family.
Jay, is someone I will miss. One of the easiest going guys I have ever had the honor to know, And he could keep you laughing... IE. the night our crew was all hanging out shortly before Jay left for the Marines. Jay Says to me "John, you look like a crow."
But with any luck, I hope to one day be able to see Jay again in the presents of our Lord.
John Aka. CROW
Nakya McDaniels
February 25, 2006
I would like to send my condolescences to MR. and Mrs. Collado, Anna , his wife and daughter. I will always remember Jay as a fun, outgoing, and energetic person whom I was happy to have known. I will never forget his laughter and friendship. I will always cherish the friendship and comraderie of our little crew, Jay, Steve, Marty, Jack, John, Leland, Malykha, Yashica (Buffy). With Deeps Wishes, SSG McDaniels, Nakya
Trish Price
February 25, 2006
I find it hard to know what to say to you. My boyfriend was a good friend of Jay's and was also with the 167th. His name was Sgt. George Chevrette, Chevy to his friends. I lost Chevy on November 21st, 2005, he too has passed away. There are no words to express the kind of pain I know you are feeling right now. I take it one day at a time, but the pain is incredible. George always told me that the Marines take care of their own, and I find that to be very true. Turn to and lien on Jay's Marine Corp Brothers, they can be a tremendous help right now. My heart goes out to you and Jay's daughter. If there is anything at all I can do, or if you just need to talk, feel free to contact me. I would welcome emails from any of Chevy's friends at the 167t, especially anyone who knows how I can get in touch with Gunny Porter or Sgt. Major Allison. I would like to tell them about Chevy. Take good care and God Bless. Trish
Dianne Werner
February 24, 2006
Dear family of SSG. Collado,
I am so sorry for your loss. All of America shares in your grief.
There is a beautiful Christian song "I have a Father.He knows my name. He knows my every thought. He sees each tear that falls and hears me when I cry."
Praying that the Lord brings you comfort in your time of deep sorrow.
A Proud 176 Stryker Mom
Anthony Mason
February 24, 2006
I would like to extend my condolences to the family of SSGT. Collado.. I served with Jay at HML/A-167 in New River, NC.. I myself am currently serving in Iraq.. I did run into him on several occasions.. I myself feel as if I lost a brother too.. Once again,, my prayers go out to the family of SSGT. Collado.. Semper Fi. Specialist Mason, Anthony New Mexico Army National Guard..
Josh and April Morales
February 23, 2006
To Jay's family and friends-
My family and I are praying for you and your family during this difficult time. We send our deepest empathy as we lost our Marine on 11/30/05 in Fallujah. We are comforted to know that our Marines are serving their country with such honor and bravery. We are so proud of our Marines and all of our other service men and women for all that they have done and continue to do to keep us safe and to give us the freedom we have that so many take for granted.
They are true Heroes and need to always be remembered for their selflessness and sacrifice to better our world. We will forever be united in the loss of our heros. We are so sorry for your loss and hope our words will ease some of the pain, and maybe fill some of your emptiness.
Yesterday, Today, Forever – Semper Fi - Marines!
Our sincerest gratitude for their bravery-
The family of Cpl. William "Billy" Taylor
2/6 WPNS
KIA outside of Fallujah 11/30/05
Vangi & McKaLyne Lunsford
February 23, 2006
Psalm 23
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The LORD is my shepherd, I shall not be in want.
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He makes me lie down in green pastures, he leads me beside quiet waters,
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He restores my soul. He guides me in paths of righteousness for his name's sake.
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Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.
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You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies. You anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows.
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Surely goodness and love will follow me all the days of my life, and I will dwell in the house of the LORD forever.
This is a verse that I have found to be comforting to me during my husbands death. Remember that when it seems that no one else is round, God is still there with you! And he will be your rock!
My daughter,McKaLyne, and I send our heartfelt sympathy for your loss! God Bless this warrior, God Bless those whom serve freedom's cause! They are our true HERO's!!!!
If you need anything, please feel free to contact me!!!
Wife & Daughter of the Late
Sgt. Audrey Daron Lunsford
KIA May 23, 2005
February 23, 2006
To the Family of Staff Sgt. Jay T. Collado:
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courgeous young man who gave his life so selflessly. We lost our son 12/1/05.
I know first hand there are no words right now that will bring you the comfort and peace you need. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you mourn this loss. We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away. God Bless this courageous soldier and his family.
Pam Adams (SFC Brent Adams, KIA 12/1/05 Ramadi, Iraq)
[email protected]
(Millersville, PA )
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