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for Scott Bandhold
Sharon Dockweiler
May 26, 2019
I met Scott a few months before 9-11. I was on the missions committee at Wantagh Baptist Church, and he came to us asking for help with a project he wanted to develop. He wanted to make a series of children's videos that taught about American History, Aviation, and Jesus. His main character was "Captain Scotty" played by, guess who! My friend Frank Reiss and I tried to help him put together a business plan and outline a few scripts.
Scott told us about his dancing career, and his wife and children in portugal. He loved Jesus and wanted his kids to know Him, too.
Then 9-11 hit and he enlisted. I said to him, "Are you insane?" He looked at me, offended. I wish I could remember exactly what he said. It was something noble and very right about fighting for his country, but I was so scared for him I couldn't think straight.
When he died, I was facing my own mortality on the ICU for 8 days with congestive heart failure. When my sister gave me the news, my brain couldn't connect the name to the person. It was a blessing because I couldn't have taken it at the time. Weeks after I got out of the hospital, the news just popped into my brain. I asked if it was true.
I'm sorry we had such a short time together Scott. You were a passionate, disciplined, creative, concerned and loving individual, we are richer for having known you, saddened by our loss, and we look forward to dancing with you for eternity.
Mayor Debra Lee Kristian Fader
July 25, 2017
Just thinking about you and me onstage together when we both worked for CCL. Lighting a candle for your spirit now....
Joseph Buchanan
May 28, 2017
I first meet Scott in FT Hood he was one of the finest soilders I've ever meet and he meant so much to me and Dustin that we remember every day and Dustin moss named his son after Scott. My prayers are with his family. Freedom isn't free
April 16, 2015
To the family of Scott Bandhold sorry for your loss Its hard to lose a love one in death. Please find comfort in Gods word by reading Micah 4:3,4
March 9, 2014
Sending a light for you, in prayer, all around the world. Thank you for your ultimate sacrifice. BANDHOLD Family: We will never forget!!!
Looking to Heaven to see you, Scott...
Debra Lee Kristian Fader
March 8, 2014
There is a new video posted on Ruben Nervenga's Facebook and Film pages-also youtube. This video is from CCL's Celebration Cruise Ship-early '90's. Scott is heavily featured in this video, as he is one of the video hosts. Check it out-if you are interested in seeing the theatrical side of Scott's personality!!! It brings back so many memories!! Enjoy, Mayor Deb Fader-Montevideo, MN
Dennis Kerr
November 19, 2013
Unceasing blessings to your soul and family.
Charlie Gili
April 10, 2013
Hello,
We would like to express our deepest condolences and also let the Bandhold Family know that we recently sent Care Packages to American troops in the war zones. Each box carried a dedication sheet that includes the name, service information and a photo of your loved one. We recognize that this is a humble tribute, but we wanted you to know that it is heartfelt and made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals in the youth hockey community and beyond. We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of the US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign
May 12, 2012
To the family of Scott; I offer my sympathy for your loss. To the children, it looks like you are making your Dad proud. God Bless and Peace. Please know that you don't always have to be strong.
Peggy Childers
April 18, 2012
April 12, 2012
To the family and friends of Spc. Scott M. Bandhold:
Always remembering Scott. "Some gave all."
February 1, 2012
Our thanks & Prayers for your Ultimate Sacrifice for Us all. Keeping you & your loved ones & All Service Members in prayer & heart each day. May The PErpetual Light SHine UPon you forever & Comfort you family. AMEN
Mary Bandhold
December 11, 2011
I love you daddy
Julio Rodriguez
September 1, 2011
To the families of our American Heroes,
I want to thank each of you for your personal
sacrifices on behalf of my family and America.
May God comfort your souls and bring peace in
your hearts that your loss is not in vain.
God Bless our valiant warriors families in the
ages to come.
RIP courageous ones!
Psalm 25:20
A greatful Veteran
MSgt USAF (Ret)
Vietnam 64,65,66,68-6
Michelle Caulfield
June 6, 2011
Dear Family of Scott M Bandhold:
We worked together on CCL in the early 90.'s and I always remember him as such a fun going always upbeat person!! I enjoyed working with him. With the time we had on our contract together lots of laughs....
My sympathy goes out to his family.
RIP
We will miss you...
Michelle Staffier Caulfield
Debra Lee Fader
June 4, 2011
Dear Family of SPC. Scott M. Bandhold:
Scott was always a leader. I knew him as a terrific dancer; a funny and compassionate person. He was always full of life, and of course, love. We worked together on the CCL Celebration in the early '90's. He has given the supreme sacrifice for his country, and for all of us. God bless you, his family.
Scott used to call me "Diva", as I was our company singer. I now sing for various armed forces events. I will carry Scott in my heart whenever I sing. Thank you for sharing Scott with the rest of us. We loved him dearly.
With all respect,
Debra Lee Kristian Fader
Mayor of Montevideo, Minnesota
Mary Bandhold
May 24, 2011
thank you for bringing me to the world, thank you for everything you gave me, you were and are the best thing that happened in my life. I miss you and I know that you will always be our side!! Love you Papa!!!!!
Ps. Someday I will have the world in my hands, and I will thank you for that! You mean EVERYTHING TO ME!!!!
Ana Cristina Vasconcelos
May 24, 2011
God bless you for the beautiful messages we are so thankful
God bless
this is the face book contacts to his Family : sun Afonso Bandhol http://www.facebook.com/friends/edit/#!/profile.php?id=100001037340530
-douther- http://www.facebook.com/friends/edit/#!/profile.php?id=1549083100&sk=info
Ana Cristina Vasconcelos -http://www.facebook.com/friends/edit/#!/Acvasconcelos.angel22
Ana Cristina Vasconcelos
May 24, 2011
This is the link to see his douther Mary Bandhold singuing :)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ad2agbIBrIw
Scot, Brother & Ruben -Carnival Cruise Lines
Ruben Nervegna
April 15, 2011
Scott, you have beautiful children, I hope they get to see you in this picture when we were on the ship. You were tons of fun. R.I.P.
Maria Marrero
April 15, 2011
I met Scott at the M/S Celebration, one of the Carnival Cruise Line vessels he worked on. At this time I am in shock because we were looking for him everywhere.. all the dancers are meeting on facebook and he is one of those that we couldn't find.... searching and searching I found this information about him, his life, his kids, his dead. Is my task now to inform the others and to remember him as the joker, the funny guy, the never stop dancer that he was. God bless his family.
Maria Marrero
April 15, 2011
I met Scott at the M/S Celebration, one of the Carnival Cruise Line vessels he worked on. At this time I am in shock because we were looking for him everywhere.. all the dancers are meeting on facebook and he is one of those that we couldn't find.... searching and searching I found this information about him, his life, his kids, his dead. Is my task now to inform the others and to remember him as the jocker, the funny guy, the never stop dancer that he was. God bless his family.
Ginger Mankowski
April 12, 2011
To the family and friends of Spc. Scott M. Bandhold:
Please accept our remembrance of Scott on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Ginger Mankowski/Peggy Childers
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
L Neal
April 7, 2011
To the family of Spc. Scott M. Bandhold:
Please know that just as your loved one remains in your hearts and minds; his sacrifice, and that of your family, remains with the people he died defending. Words cannot express the gratitude we feel for his bravery and selflessness, or the heartache we feel for your loss. God bless and keep you always.
Elizbaeth Raab
February 12, 2011
You will never be forgotten!!! God Bless You!!!
Ana e Carlos
February 7, 2011
Ana e Carlos
February 7, 2011
Elizabeth Raab
January 15, 2011
Your legacy will forever live on in the hearts of those who knew you and shared in your struggle to protect our country and the ultimate sacrifice you gave so that we can be grateful for what we have. Your family, friends, loved ones and fellow soldiers will stay in my thoughts and prayers.
A Proud Military Mom.
Ana Farias
November 9, 2010
Nunca te esqueceremos.
Ana e Carlos, Portugal
ANGEL *you are.All who call on God in true faith,earnestly from the heart,will certainly be heard, and will receive what they have asked and desired.
AC VASCONCELOS
September 2, 2010
AC VASCONCELOS
September 2, 2010
I miss you :)
Scott Bandhold was the most extraordinary human being I had ever met!
"...Loss has been a part of my journey but it has also shown me what is precious ... So has a LOVE for which I can only be grateful..."
This phrase shows one of the most important lessons that Scott as ever told me:
“Even if I knew that tomorrow the world would go to pieces, I would still plant my apple tree. “
Martin Luther
Thank you God for the blessing of having Scott in my life ...
You are always in my hear.
God bless.
Danielle Scárdua Versieux
August 19, 2010
I was looking, at the facebook, for a friend with whom I’ve not talked for a long time. We spoke on the phone a couple of times after his last visit to Portugal and suddenly he stopped to call. As I have not found him in the facebook, I was looking if there was any news about him in the Internet, maybe in another social network ... and just now I found out ... It's so hard to believe. I just can't forgive me for don't have tried to find him sooner.
I just wanted to say that he was the most fun person with the bigger heart that I ever met! The world lost a great person, a good man.
I remember so good times… only good times... he dancing and playing all the time.
He was so brave, I also remember on the September 11th he was sitting on the floor, completely in chock in front of the television, here in Portugal, and said that he have to come back to help his country.
Can pass 1000 years and I am sure that those who knew him will never forget his smile and the person that he was. And there will be always a smile when we remember him and how he was a wonderful and bright. I'm so sad but, when I think about him I start to smile, I only have good memories.
For the family and friends of Scott, my heart aches for your loss which is mine too. Please accept my delayed but sincere condolences.
Scott, thank you to show me how beautiful a person can be. I'll never forget you.
With all my love,
Sincerely,
Dany
Gina Natalie
May 31, 2010
Remembering you today, Memorial Day, as I do everyday.
Sharon Amann
April 16, 2010
I light this candle for my cousin Scott. I pray for the peace of God to comfort his family and friends.
Sharon Gebbie Amann
Tiffany VanWagner
April 13, 2010
You will never leave our minds or our hearts.
Tiffany VanWagner
April 13, 2010
I love you Scott. Until we meet again.
Peggy Childers
April 12, 2010
To the family and friends of Spc. Scott M. Bandhold:
Remembering Scott on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Brad Munn
February 22, 2010
Scott was a great friend and soldier! There is not a day that goes by that I don't think about him! You are missed brother! SSGT (former Army); A Co. 1/67; 4th ID Brad Munn.
Jeffrey Gammel
September 11, 2009
I think of Scott frequently, especially on days like today. Scott was my room-mate at AIT. He signed up, like many of us, because of the 9-11 events. Now I serve my 2nd tour, this time with 1st CAV from Ft. Hood. I'll always remember you buddy.
Jamie Shull
August 7, 2009
Well, good gravy it is hard to believe it has already been three years, nearly four since I lost my best friend!
I got married last year to a wonderful man, Scott... you would love him. I worried that he wouldn't understand why I have pictures of you all over. Yet, he understood and even added photos of you to his website. He is a soldier himself, and is currently serving his third tour in Iraq. He understands how much I loved you, he understands that I still remember the night I got the call and at that moment a part of me died. That part of me will always be dead...because you aren't here anymore.
He described it best to one of his friends... he said " Scott was Jamie's best friend and he was KIA on April 12, 2006. Even now when she holds a conversation, you can tell she is leaving room for him."
It's hard to pick up my guitar without thinking of you. All the times we just jammed. Goodness, I heard the song "Sarah" on the radio the other day and about broke down in hysterics. Why is it still so hard?
Scott, I miss you! I am so sorry it took so long for me to write. I think I am still in denial sometimes! I find myself saying that you are in Iraq and you'll be home soon.
You know what I struggle with the most? I didn't hug you goodbye. I was so angry with you, we had been fighting for days. Then you came to church and took the flag outside, I walked out but didn't hug you goodbye. I called you that night, knowing you were headed out the next day. I told you I felt guilty and you told me there would be plenty of hugs when you got home! I am still waiting for my hug! I'll get it when I get to heaven I guess! I love you brother!!
Crystal Permenter
July 22, 2009
I want to send the Bandhold family my deepest sympathy. I was attached to 1/67th AR BN in the support company. I remember the night before he passed,he was having trouble with his HMMWV and wanted me to take a look at it cause he was going on a mission the next day and didn't want the Maj to be mad when it didn't start. I remember he was SO excited cause he was finally getting to go out on a real mission and leave the FOB. I replaced the battery which was the problem and he was relieved. I remembered him thanking me before he left that evening to prepare for the mission the next day. Early the next afternoon I learned he had been killed along with Calderon. To this day,I feel like if I wouldn't have fixed his vehicle he would till be here today and left his battery maybe he might have gotten a late start and missed the IED. Im deeply sorry for your loss from the bottom of my heart. His memory will never be forgotten.
Kenna Larra
April 17, 2009
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Peggy Childers
April 12, 2009
To the family of Spc. Scott M. Bandhold:
Scott gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Mathew Pickar
November 17, 2008
Dear Bandhold Family,
Scott was a great friend to me. When I first arrived at Ft. Hood he was the first soldier to show me around and take me under his wing. As a result we became good friends and he always was there to give me advice and suggestions no matter the problem. Not a day goes by that I don't think about Scott and miss him with all my heart.
May 28, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Spc Bandhold!
Susan Joseph-Bernstein
May 26, 2008
Dear Scott,
You are in my thoughts this Memorial Day ,the brave sacrifice you made for our country.Seems like yesterday we were kids in dance class.God Bless you and your family.
Love,
Susan
SGT Jeff Gammel
May 19, 2008
Memorial Day is next weekend but that doesn't mean that I don't think about you year round. We went our separate ways after AIT. I went to Hawaii, you went to Texas. Now I am at Hood and I wish you were still here. I miss you.
the Buck family
May 17, 2008
To the family and friends of Spc. Scott M. Bandhold, our thoughts and prayers are with you in your loss. What he has done for our freedom will not be forgotten. May God comfort and bless your family.
Former Sgt. Erik Nipper
May 17, 2008
Scott was a good friend and a good man, I am sorry it has taken me so long to write in the guest book. I just have not been able to bring myself to do it.I served with Scott not only in Iraq but as well as Ft.Hood, I went to psd training with Scott. He was my dart league partner in Iraq. I remember the day of his passing so well. I remember the radio call and arriving at the scene. I miss Scott so very much. He was not only a friend but a brother as well.
SPC Dennis Kerr
April 23, 2008
I was the bugler for his memorial service while in Iraq. I usually get a program at each service, but wasn't able to get one at his.
I wanted to remember it though. One reason being I am dancer myself (of ballroom/etc.) & thought it very special to be playing for a fellow dancer.
Well I got that wish. The next day I received an email about being in the Dallas Morning News (19 Apr 06 article "Fighting back the tears"), which was in honor of him & another soldier in his unit....
I may not have been able to get a program, but I will always remember that memorial service in many ways.
Thank you for your Service.
Cindy Moss
April 14, 2008
I wrote in this book about a year ago, and, I still think of Scott to this day..the picture you see in the album , where Scott is by the bradley and being silly , they were put on by my son...the one where they are being silly, is the one I took right before they left.. They were so excited to go..but I wish they didn't have to..my son is going agian in June..and I don't know if I can handle this once again worrying if he will return..because it can happen,they might not..we miss you Scott...and my son , realy does more then he shows it..I see it in his eyes, when he looks at pictures of you too being silly...
April 12, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers today.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
Please contact me and I will email you back a copy of the
Angel drawing I have posted here.
I did not know Scott, but I am remembering on
this day he gave his all.
He is my hero.
Sincerely,
Debra Estep
Proud Air Force Mom and MIL
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
The Other Side
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sharon Bandhold
September 11, 2007
9/11/07 - Many thanks to all of you who have written such wonderful things. He was my brother-in-law & I'm missing him a lot today, because it was a result of 9/11 that he joined the Army.
What you've written has helped tremendously over the last 1 1/2 years to soothe the pain of losing him. To say thank you is not nearly enough.
August 7, 2007
I don't pretend to know what to say or do that would bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON (KIA on 07/06/07) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
we alwas had fun hu i miss you old friend
August 1, 2007
my friend i miss you and will alwas remember you
August 1, 2007
July 26, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Spc Bandhold and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
Christopher Bandhold
July 26, 2007
My cousin Scott,
It's been a little more then a year and its funny how things fade with time. Pain heals, hearts mend. But not in this case. If you are mentioned, if you come up...I still stop dead in my tracks.
Incredible people can do incredible things.... you my friend are one of those people.
I have memories of you from when I was a kid. (Joe and Donnie were a bit older to pay attention to a silly little boy, but you would actually entertain my idiocy) Let me wrestle with you and think I was a God for "beating up" my big cousin. I remember in one instance we sat on a couch and you just let me kick you....as stupid as it sounds...So there I was kicking you, and there you were letting me...funny the things that stick out. I have many memories like that of you. All of them you did something cool to hook up your little cuz.
The last time my eyes laid on you, I sat next to you at dinner after Aunt Joy's service.
And I was so proud of you. In your uniform. All growed up. A military man.
Your Dad and mine would talk (and I'm sure you know, no 2 men outside your brothers I suppose, ever loved you so much) and bust your horns about your crazy ideas and stunts.
I always loved hearing what you were up to.
Your blood runs through my veins, so like all of us you touched, I can keep you inside, and truly I believe that you aren't gone and here is why:
My father called that fateful morning. He told me what happened. The world around me seemed less colorful. The sun seemed not to shine as brightly. When something affects you so greatly and you are hit with it so hard and fast, you don't take notice to little things. Little things like dates.
I have a son now. A beautiful little boy who has a hero for a cousin it saddens me he will never get to meet in this world. There is no replacement, but to honor you I asked my wife (you remember D) if she would mind naming him after you, several months later, Ethan Scott Bandhold was born. He was born 3 weeks early.
April 12th. 2007.
I had no idea until maybe the next day or so that the day he came into this world is the exact day you parted with it.
I believe you had your hand in that.
For that I'm glad.
You will always be remembered, you will always be inside...and like I said before about incredible impact some people can just make on others....you will never fade...
Some stars just burn to bright.
Until I see you again, kiss my Aunt.
I love you both.
With all my heart,
Chris
Mike Waller
July 10, 2007
I never met Scott, but I wear a bracelet with his name on it. I chose his name because he was the same age as me and died the same day that I got married. I wanted to remember that even though it was a happy day for me, others were making sacrifices so that I could be happy that day.
MSG Mike Waller
From Camp Victory, Iraq
Joe Bandhold
June 1, 2007
Scott Bro,
Hi buddy. I am finally doing this. What's that? What took me so long?
I don't know. At times I have been at a loss for words. At other times I have so much to say to you that it would take a book. I do know one thing though. This is hard to do. You have no idea how hard it is to live feeling like I do. I guess empty is a good word here. Really empty.
So let me try and boost the fun meter a little bit. How about a story? You used to like those.
Let me tell you about last Tuesday. It was a gorgeous, cloud free, bugless day. The sun warmed the skin. The air was clean and fresh. I decided to go have a purpose and head down to Keene Valley, climb Noonmark and fill both you and mom in on old news; I wanted to talk about our house, Bridget's upcoming wedding, Stacy's new furry friend, Donnie and I with Dad at his new digs in Florida, Aidan and Kali, the birth of Ethan Scott on April 12th and my tour in the Army coming to a close.
Yeah, I had lots to talk about and
that was the idea.
But my new hip had other plans.
Yeah, I forgot to tell you, I got all Steve Austin last May and just like Donnie, I am now the proud owner of a metal rod in my right femur. If you were still here we could have put together a band; Scott Bandhold and the tuning forks.
Anyway, I got down to the parking lot,where there was nary a automobile in sight. Incredibly enough, I met only one other guy on the trail who was almost done with his climb as I was starting up. This meant that I had the place to myself.
I believe that this meant there would be no witnesses (Thank God).
No more cool fast FLEXIBLE Joey.
Just call me Crabman.
Well, I started out OK but things got bad real fast. I had my stopwatch going because I was trying to get under a time for the hike posted in some book I saw.
This was a bad idea.
The hip was angry at me for taking me up the mountain. And I looked like I had prepared for the climb using the John Belushi little chocolate donut training plan.
I also sounded like weezer.
Besides that everything was just swell.
Thankfully, nobody got to see me do that last quarter mile to the summit. Yes, I crawled like a crustecean up the slickened bare rock of the trail. I crabbed up ladders and over ledges. And I tried to keep myself from losing my stance so as to avoid pinballing my way off the nearby cliffs.
Like I said. No witnesses.
Well, I got the the top and I was going to talk to you guys but I couldn't cause I felt like a warm cow chip. The only conversation I
should have been having was with a mental health provider.
Soon after the violent shaking stopped. This was due to grabbing onto small trees for dear life on the way up. (*see stance and pinballing above)
At this time I got my water bottle out and chugged that down all the way.
Then I ate my sandwich.
Next I took a few pictures to prove that I actually made it up to the top.
Finally, I sat back down and I took
a look around me. I saw off into forever and out there were all our old friends; Marcy, Algonquin, Big Slide, Giant, Gothics, Sawteeth. All these places you had put a stamp on. Places where we had great adventures, achievements and failure. Places with great stories and good times. Places that I had planned on visiting again with you when you came home.
I thought of this and a wave of sadness coursed thru me.
Up on that mountain, I really, really thought about how much I missed and was going miss you.
I also thought, God this sucks.
But I didn't dwell on it. Like I said before, there wasn't much time for conversation. My hip was pissed at me. And it was getting late in the day.
So I took one last look around and started to descend. I, Crabman took about as much time getting back down as I did going up. And I,Crabman did not look pretty getting Back into my car. It should have been on You Tube.
Once home, I received the obigatory "You're an idiot" speech from Sharon. I think the moans and the crawling around on the floor gave me away. But it was nothing medication couldn't cure so ....whatever.
Little bro, somethings are not going to change. I have lost you but I still love you. I have lost flexibility in my leg and the ability to flow up and down hillsides. This will not keep me away from getting on top of a pile of rocks somewhere. We'll talk soon little brother. Perhaps another story with something to make you laugh. I think you'd like that very much.
Peace,
Joe Bro
Garnet Jenkins
April 11, 2007
May Spc. Scott M. Bandhold, Rest Safely, in God's Loving Care and may the Peace of God continue to be with the Bandhold family.
It is an honor to pay tribute to this Brave Young Soldier, with a Multitude of Thanks, for his Courage, Dedication and Service to our Country and for Freedom.
Those who Made these Sacrifices, So Many and So Young, shall Never Be Forgotten, my brother among them. Killed in action in Vietnam in 1967.
May you find peace in knowing the love and memories you have of Scott, will remain in your heart forever and that this Country Remembers his sacrifice.
"You now have sorrow; but I will see you again and your heart will rejoice." John 16:22
I am So Deeply Sorry for your loss.
Tiffany VanWagner
January 27, 2007
Scott was my first true love though we lived so many miles apart we were so close in each others thoughts, prayers and hearts. He always talked about his exceptional family and i was with him when his angel of a mother passed on. It gives me peace now to know that they are finally reunited. I know hes with Jesus and it wont be too long before i am with him again too. He was an amazing person so optimistic and loving always wanted to please everyone before himself i loved him more than anything in the world and not a moment passes that i dont think of him he always told me that if he were to die defending his country to remember him every time it rained, everytime i felt the sun on my face and the wind in my hair. with every move i make i remember him. and he always told me to be happy and not to cry because if it were his time to go he knew where he was going and it would only to a better place. He always said straighten up little soldier whenever i was done he always picked me up i love him to this day with all of my heart and mr.bandhold you have called my mother to talk to us about your wonderful son scott but i have not the nerve to call you back because i cannot hold the tears and sadness back. maybe i hope in the future days i will be able to talk with you. it just hurts soo bad though i cannot imagine your pain. he was my hero and now hes my guardian angel i will always love him and never ever forget that he died for us...R.I.P. my love
Kristen Bandhold
January 23, 2007
I loved Scott he was one of the best uncles ever he was so fun, nice, and cool. I miss him so much. I love singing and I am writing a song dedicated to him.
John Wacaster
January 22, 2007
Scott was the percussionist in our band, "The Watchmen". He was so full of energy and it was a joy to know him over the two years or so we played together. I recently wrote a song in Scott's memory, and dedicated to the veterans of all past American military efforts. Soldier on Scotty, Soldier on.
Donny Bandhold
December 28, 2006
We were born 13 years apart,
created by the same loving heart.
Separated by 2 different decades, my love for you will never fade.
although we didn't see eye to eye
I will forever question why ?
Perhaps my selfishness, joulosly, or I hardly tried.
I thought I was a know it all
Who knew nothing at all
I never had time to play catch with the ball
I,m sorry I always seemed to put you down,when you were trying to reverse everyones frown.
The last 15 years have been much better, telling you how I felt about you, had to tell you in person not in a letter.
We were always so distant in miles
having to call on the phone, and miss your smiles
You were a great dancer in your younger years,I a stoner, drinking beers.
A real Brother would have protected you from the bullies of school
You gave the ultimate sacrifice of life for my selfish freedom
I mii you so much, the pain will not recead, an other hug is what I need
The great times are always on my mind, the beach,Islander games, climbing, glazier sliding, bicycling, backpacking, go carts
to name a few, or sitting around drinking a brew
You my Dear Brother touched so many hearts, So many I wouldn't know where to start.
You and Mom now have wings,
2 loving Angels teaching the rest to sing.
Please show me a sign , let me know your doing fine.
I miss you so much, it hasn't even been a year
slight depression has set in, sleepless nights I fear.
Birthdays and Holidays will never be the same,
but you will always be in my Hall of Fame.
You are my HERO, a perfect ONE ZERO.
Happy Birthday My Brother
Love, your Brother Donny, and all your Family, Friends, and Fans
You MY BROTHER are a HERO and a LEGEND
Karen Bandhold
August 15, 2006
Shortly after Scott’s death, I realized that I knew nothing bad about him. I had known Scott since he was 15. He came to visit us, his brother Donnie and me, in Colorado when he was 17. He had a crush on the daughter of the apartment complex manager and in an effort to impress her, he managed to shoot a ball off the pool table, through a sliding glass door (which was closed at the time), and made a hole-in-one in the hot tub. Donnie and I both worked at this apartment complex and Donnie was angry at first. I thought it was pretty funny. Scott and Donnie laughed about it, eventually. My personal favorite memory is from a family reunion in 1992. I walked out of Mom and Dad’s house to find Scott leading everyone in the Chicken Dance. It was hilarious! I found out we actually have this on video tape and it’s still hilarious. He was always driving his family crazy by disappearing to hike this trail, or climb this mountainside, or stalk that animal. He never understood why anyone was upset; he wasn’t lost, he knew exactly where he was.
Scott’s ex-wife, Ana, told me he wouldn’t want anyone to cry for him and be sad. So, I’m trying to be happy I got to meet him at all, be in his family, and know that my kids loved their Uncle Scott (and I know he loved them too). He was funny, and loving, and good. He left us two incredible children to love, Mariana and Afonso (wish they lived closer), their mother, who is now my dear friend, and lots of memories. Thank you, everyone, for sharing your memories of Scott. We all miss him.
Jeffrey Gammel
July 2, 2006
Scott had a great influence on me and an inspiration. We had such wonderful times attending AIT school together. His humor made those 19 weeks bearable. As a roomate, he kept us all laughing.
SSG Arthur Osvold
June 3, 2006
Bandhold Family,
Scott was my Best Friend as well as my soldier. He is sorely missed. Not to see him walking around smiling, or breaking something (his brothers know what I mean), it's just not the same. He will forever be in my heart as one who could always put me in a better mood. I considered him a brother, and to the Bandholds, you are my family. God Bless you all.
Kristen Bandhold
May 27, 2006
Scott I love you, you were the best Uncle ever Just to let you know Mariana and I are Best Friends. I miss you soo much I love you. I am praying to god for And I know that you are in heaven. I love you sooooo much and I also miss you sooo much. I love you and I'm always going to. I'm always going to miss you too. I love you soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo much!!!!!!!!!!!!!
WE LOVE YOU DADY!WE PRAY TO GOOD...AND WE HAVE FAITH
May 26, 2006
Dady just like you...I love to sing and make everybody happy! LOVE Mariana.
May 26, 2006
Mariana Bandhold,YOU ARE MY SHINIG STAR, I'LL BE STORNG!
May 26, 2006
Dady just like you... I love sports. LOVE Afonso
May 26, 2006
Afonso Bandhold,I LOVE YOU DADY...I WIIL BE STRONG!
May 26, 2006
HUSH PUPY
May 22, 2006
Scott you saved me with your optimistic thinking...
You were a wonderful man, a Precious Person.
You were the strongest…You are beautiful to me.
Thank you…
Love you forever.
MARIANA AFONSO BANDHOLD
May 21, 2006
YOU WERE THE BEST DADY IN THE WORLD,YOU WILL ALWAYS BE ALIVE IN OUR HEARTS...
WE LOVE YOU FOREVER,WE PRAY FOR THE LIGHT AND PEACE OF YOUR SOLD.
THANK YOU DADY FOR EVERYTHING YOU GAVE US…
INGRID BILLIE MARINELLO
April 29, 2006
DEAR HANK,
I ONLY LEARNED ABOUT SCOTT'S UNTIMELY PASSING TODAY AND AT THE SAME TIME I LEARNED ABOUT JOY. I TOO WISH TO EXPRESS MY SINCERE SORROW FOR YOUR GREATEST LOSSES. MAY GOD COMFORT YOU IN YOUR TIME OF SORROW.
YOU HAVE MY SINCERE SYMPATHY. YOUR FORMER CLASSMATE OF FHS CLASS OF 52. INGRID (BILLIE) NEE WENG.
Pastor Eddie Fernandes
April 28, 2006
Dear Bandhold Family,
Our condolences and our deepest expressions of sympathy, sadness and loss did not arrive on the day of the funeral as we understand. Scott was a member of our church here in Portugal for many years and a personal and good friend to me and many others. We maintained contact telefonically and by e-mail until his death. He was a very special person with an amazing heart. Please receive the love, comfort and prayers from his many friends here at Riverside International Church in Lisbon, Portugal. This coming Sunday April 30th, 2006, we will be holding a memorial service for Scott during our morning services. Scott's ex-wife, Nini, and both their children, Mariana and Afonso, will be present.
One thing we rejoice over and are confident of, Scott has gone on to be with Our Lord where one day soon we too will join him. I encourage you as his family to follow in his steps even as he followed the steps of Our Lord and Saviour, Jesus Christ.
ron landers
April 25, 2006
Dear Mr. Bandhold,
I am a friend of Scott in Portugal. We spoke on the phone a couple of times while Scott stayed with us. My family and I grieve with you. Thankfully, it is not without hope. I truly believe that Scott is where he wanted to be. While he was staying here with us, he called me into his room one day to listen to his favorite song. It is called, "Another Time, Another Place" and was recorded by Wayne Watson and Sandi Patti. It speaks of the desire of a Christian longing to leave behind the sadness and sorrow of this world in order to be in heaven with Jesus. Jesus told his followers that he was going to prepare a place for them. Scott has found that place.
It is my prayer for you that you too would have that hope, and will be reunited with Scott in heaven.
I will try to contact Cristina and the kids and relay our sorrow to them as well. Please feel free to contact us if we can be of any help to you here in Portugal.
Sincerely, Ron Landers
Michael Apodaca
April 24, 2006
To all of Scott's family and friends,
I would like to express my deepest sympathy for your loss. My family and I attend Memorial Baptist Church where Scott was a member and served in the music ministry. He was an absolute blessing to all of us with his musical gifts and his smile that brightened our days. We will all miss him terribly, but take comfort secure in the knowledge he is in Heaven with Jesus Christ. Scott was a great Christian man and truly lived the command Jesus spoke in John 15:12 "Love each other as I have loved you". His memory lives on in our hearts.
Cindy Moss
April 23, 2006
My heart is still hurting for the lose of your son Scott..My son and Scott were great friends. I got to meet Scott in Nov.05 Scott and my son Dustin L. Moss had their flags hang together at their Church for them till they returned home. I was so glad he was there for my son..he got my son back right with the LORD..to my family Scott was a Angel on Earth.I pray everyday for your family. I want you to know ..he will be remember always in our family..I made picture's of him and my son the day they put the flags out and I made and enlargement of you Henry Bandhold (the dad)and Scott, it is hanging up in our house saying here is an American hero.
Diane Watt
April 23, 2006
To Scott's family,
I attended church at Memorial Baptist Church in Killeen, TX, with Scott. He played the bongo drums there...and he was great! I'll always remember how well he played those drums. I remember when he left, we put a flag out in the front of our church for him, and when he got back we were going to put the flag back. This morning, we retired his flag. There was not a dry eye in the church. I know he is with Jesus, yet he touched so many lives at our church. May God bless you during this time.
Sue Horne
April 22, 2006
Dearest Bandhold family:
My deepest sympathy is extended to you in the loss of your brave son, Scott. My son is PFC Michael Horne, currently serving in Iraq at FOB Iskandariyah. Michael called and told me about the loss of your son. Michael served with Scott at Ft. Hood, as they were both assigned to Headquarters. Michael got reassigned to Alpha Company and hadn't seen Scott since they were deployed in Nov 05. As a soldier's mom, I pray that God will give you peace in the midst of your deep grief. Scott is a HERO and all our nation owes him and you an unrepayable debt of gratitude. I pray you will find comfort in your wonderful memories of your beloved Scott. His sacrifice will never be forgotten. May God Give You Comfort,
Susan (Joseph) Bernstein
April 22, 2006
I first met Scott at our first tap dance class together at June Meyers Dance studio (this was before Donna opened Dance Arts).I have a Dance recital photo of us dated 1976 I was 8 ,so Scott must of been 6 or 7.By the time the recital time came along our class was down to three ,me being the only girl,Peter Knoth,and Scott.Many years later I spotted Scott in the halls of Calhoun High School and introduced myself and told him about how I remembered him(he was suprised that I remembered that far back).From then on we were friends, he always had a smile on and said hello in the hallways and we even had lunch together a few times.Back,in high school I thought Scott was brave even then because he was a dancer and didn't have to prove to anybody he was macho by being on the football team.I have not seen or spoken to Scott since the days of Calhoun H.S. but have heard that Scott went on to dance professionally.I always thought it was neat and have always told people that both the boys (Scott and Peter)I started out with in dance have gone on and became entertainers.This is why my son Max age 3 just started dance this year and loves it.I am going to attempt to scan the photo of us at the dance recital if not send it out.May GOD Bless you and your family .Scott is a brave man and I will never forget him.
ROBYN GARSIDE
April 22, 2006
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. YOU HAVE MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY FOR YOUR GREAT LOSS. HOLD ON TIGHT TO HIS TREASURED MEMORIES. THERE JUST AREN'T ENOUGH WORDS. MAY PEACE FIND YOU. SEMPER FI
John McMillan
April 22, 2006
Bandhold, i will miss you...
Peter Chapdelaine
April 21, 2006
Scott:
You are the true meaning of the word HERO. You gave your life for our Freedom and way of life.
Merrick and all America is proud of you. God Bless your family and friends.
Peggy (Smith) Riefenstahl
April 20, 2006
Hank Bandhold: I am truly sorry to read and learn about the loss of your son Scott. Please know my sincere condolences are with you and your family. I was also shocked to learn that Joy has passed away! My husband, George Riefenstahl of F.H.S., class of '51, passed away on April 12, 2006, same day as your son Scott so courageously gave his life for our country. Seems like only yesterday that we four were reunited at the Pompano Beach, Fla reunion. Glad we had that time to share old F.H.S. memories. Joy was so vivacious and spirited and I enjoyed being on the F.H.S. "cheerleading squad" with her. May you soon find peace within your heart.
7th Grade Louisburg Middle School
April 20, 2006
We care and share your sarrow.
John Madden
April 20, 2006
Hank: My sincere condolences on the loss of your son. My daughter is currently serving in Iraq with the USAF Reserve so I have empathy with you for what you felt while he was serving there.
God Bless you and his family.
John Madden
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Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
April 18, 2006
My heartfelt sympathy to the Bandhold family in the loss of Scott. I did not know Scott, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. Scott you are a hero and you will never be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
April 17, 2006
To the Family of CSpc. Scott M. Bandhold:
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courgeous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life. We lost a son 12/1/05.
I know first hand there are no words right now that will bring you the comfort and peace you need. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you mourn this loss. We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with. I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally, but none of these courageous men and women will be forgotten. They will never be able to be replaced, but sometime, someday your loving memories will help to sustain you. This courageous soldier will forever now be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well. To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort. When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero. God Bless this courageous soldier and family.
Pam Adams (SFC Brent Adams, KIA 12/1/05 Ramadi, Iraq)
[email protected]
(Millersville, PA )
Dianne Werner
April 17, 2006
To the Family of Spc. Scott M. Bandhold--My heart aches for your loss. Please accept my deepest sympathy. I pray you find rest and comfort in the Savior's loving arms.
A Proud 172 Stryker Mom
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