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Memories and Condolences
for Marcques Nettles
Evan Gohman
July 5, 2025
Hey man I still to this day remember on the way to Iraq sitting alone being attached to another unit (from 29 palms) but the corpsmen from Pendleton being friendly and you sharing a Toblerone that you bought with me in Germany then hanging out in Kuwait. I'll never forget the greeting to me when you arrived in Al Qaim,
"Hey Corporal!"
Then our chats.
I wish the world had more of you, always cheerful.
Abbey Moon
May 31, 2025
Suzie, I am so sorry I was not around for you during this time, but I would love to get in touch and see you. Much love Abbey
Suzie Nettles
June 11, 2024
What a indescribable honor it´s been being your mother , I miss you & love u so much.Thank you Lord that he´s with you.
Patrick Mullen
April 3, 2024
I’m Marcques’s wife’s father. Today marks 18 years since his passing. Continue resting in peace Marcques.
Todd Hargrave
October 30, 2022
My name is Todd Hargrave I am now 38 years old. I was an HM3 (FMF) corpsman of marines like marcques. I was there in Iraq with him.. I was 21 years old. I got on scene of where the accident happened about an hour later. I was part of a security team but me and nettles were close. Just to let the world know what kind of man he was I will share this true story that not many people know....marcques was not in that 7ton truck that day. In fact there was a female corpsman who me and nettles (along with other corpsman) tried to keep out of harms way if possible....he was in a humvee several positions back in the convoy. When the wadi (dry River bed in Iraq) became a raging River from flash floods...he switched vehicles with the female corpsman who´s name I won´t mention. And shortly after he switched with her the 7ton tried to cross when it was swept away....this female corpsman survived solely because of marcques!!!!! He was an amazing corpsman, and while I had only known him for a short 3 months he has left a lasting impression on me and my life. Marcques I miss u brother, and while writing this I have goosebumps. I know you are in heaven because I remember having talks with u about your faith. I will always remember you brother....Gone but never forgotten!!!!!!! RAH!!!
Ashley Corey
June 12, 2015
I went to Five Oaks Middle School and then graduated from Westview High in 2009. I still remember when we got the news about Marcques. The whole school seemed to stand still. My class was specifically shaken because his brother, Manny, was my classmate.
I am now a 2nd Class USN Corpsman currently serving with1st MLG, 1st Medical Battalion, H&S company at Camp Pendleton (near where Marcques was last stationed). Until 2013 (after being enlisted for 2 years), I didn't know what branch of service Marcques had served in, and so he hadn't crossed my mind. Every year we celebrate our heritage by remembering our fallen brothers and sisters on the Corpsman's birthday, June 17th. While prepping for the Corpsman birthday ceremony in Bremerton Washington, I saw his name. That day, I learned that Marcques was an FMF corpsman.
Now, I never met Marcques, and Manny I were merely classmates, but seeing his name struck something in me and I cried for about 10 minutes. It was so close to home.
Since that day, Marcques frequently pops into my head, especially when I listen to my shipmates' stories about their fallen sailors and marines. Next Wednesday, June17th, we are holding a tribute ceremony for our fallen corpsmen, to say thank you and to remember where we came from, and celebrate the Hospital Corps. I will be a part of the ceremony, carrying Marcques' picture. At this point, the plan is to lay down our shield (earned when we go through FMTB) and FMF pin at the memorial site we will create, along with their name, hometown, and picture.
I know that I never personally knew Marcques, but as of June 2014 and until the day I am no longer on active duty, those around me will be reminded of his sacrifice and know his name, not just his face. To them he may just be another fallen brother that we honor, but I do hope it brings some form of comfort to his family to know that his Navy family has not and will not forget him.
Sempre Fi, Brother.
Liz Fischer
November 11, 2014
This morning we were talking about Marcques at breakfast with our kids and the kids say that he sounds pretty nice to them. We read a book to our kids called, "How to Behave and Why" and when Ben described Marcques to the kids, they asked if Ben had read it to him when they were in the Navy. It is basically a book about how to treat other people with love and respect and Ben said that HE hadn't read it to Marcques, but that someone had taught him the lessons of the book because he always made the people around him feel good. We have been listening to the Ben Harper cd's that he made for Ben all morning. Teddy (7) is sad for Marcques and we want Marcques' family to know that, even in death, he is a strong example of how to live.
Lisa Hempel
May 29, 2012
Marcques and his great sacrifice for our country will never be forgotten. We honor his memory at Better Off Read Ministries. http://betteroffread.com/2012/05/28/no-greater-love/
Peggy Childers
April 15, 2012
April 2, 2012
To the family and friends of Petty Officer 3rd Class Marcques J. Nettles:
Always remembering Marcques. "Some gave all."
Jorge Martinez
April 6, 2012
Marcques I miss you man,I think about you often,i just can believe that day April 2nd 2006. One day you were here next day you were gone. It was so hard seen someone cleaning your bed and locker you had. You were a cool roomate, marines loved you and still love you. I will never forget you.
USMC
Alvin Melancon
November 10, 2011
It had been over five years and I still find myself going back to this site. I smile thinking that he had such a impact on so many peoples lives. I thank his parents for raising such a wonderful person there has never been anyone who could ever say anything bad about Marcques. God rest your soul not a day goes by that I dont enter my mind.
Ariel Cortez
June 4, 2011
I had the pleasure to spend time with Marcques and his wife pre-deployment and was one of his roommates for a short period before I changed Units in Al-Asad. He was an intelligent witty and articulate deffinatley had the Denzel smile and charm. From Jack johnson, to making video's for his wife and smoking cigars until he was green, he was an original and unique man. I remember specifically signing along to LL cool J's "Goin back to Cali" song thinking we'd all be goin home just before President Bush ordered the surge in IRAQ. Well Marcus went Home 1st GOD rest his soul...Much LOVE to him ,his Family and friends. I know he watches over me from above.
Enrique Gomez
May 28, 2011
To the family of the best man I have ever had the privileged to accompany. I had the opportunity to serve with Marques in Iraq. I just wanted to let you know he is still setting a good example for the world through everybody who ever met him. He will never be forgotten. God Live
L Neal
April 8, 2011
To the family of Petty Officer 3rd Class Marcques J. Nettles:
Please know that just as your loved one remains in your hearts and minds; his sacrifice, and that of your family, remains with the people he died defending. Words cannot express the gratitude we feel for his bravery and selflessness, or the heartache we feel for your loss. God bless and keep you always.
Linda Mealman
April 2, 2011
Remembering Marcques on this day as well as others. My nephew, David, was in the truck with him that terrible day. I know that the past five years have been as hard on your family as it has been on ours. I appreciate Marques for the sacrifice he made for our country.
Ginger Mankowski
April 2, 2011
To the family and friends of Petty Officer 3rd Class Marcques J. Nettles:
Please accept our remembrance of Marcques on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Ginger Mankowski/Peggy Childers
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
GLO RICHARDS
March 26, 2011
After all these years I finally got on fb and couldn't wait to contact your mom! To my utter heartbreak this is the news I got! You were such a delight to know and a very special part of our lives when we lived in Tricities. How your brothers and sister and Mom and Dad must be so heartbroken! At the same time so very proud of you. Thank you for giving your life for our freedom! You are more like Jesus in more ways than you knew! See you again soon friend! My prayers are with your parents as I know they will miss you very much! Love Matt and Desi's mom Glo
devin baldwin
December 12, 2010
Hey buddy, i think about you from time to time. That infectous laugh. Man I do miss you. I wonder what it would have been like to have gone with you when i was supposed to- a little regret. Not that i could have changed things but the simple fact of perhaps changing my life for the better and showing me what a man really is.You are a hero to many and are never never be forgoten. I truly love ya bro and will always think wwmd.
July 8, 2010
We are blessed for your kind sacrifice. You will never be forgotten.
Noel Morgan-Metz
July 8, 2010
I've known Marcques since the 6th grade...it was one of those times, where you feel immediately drawn to someone...He had that effect on so many!
He had class and character before many could even solidify who they were growing up to be!
Ronnie, your story is beautiful. And I am happy to see the amount of admiration and respect you have for Marcques. He had a heart of gold...I honestly think there is not one bad thing you could say about him. Congrats to you on the scholarship and you're very right, what an honor!
Marcques you are loved...and missed dearly...also thought about often!
Ronald Rothstein
June 11, 2010
My name is Ronnie Rothstein, and I'm now a graduating senior at Westview High School. Today was our Senior Ceremony, and I was honored and blessed by winning and accepting the Marcques Nettles Scholarship!
I did not know Marcques that well, because at the time I heard about him, I was only a freshman. Yet, after hearing all the stories of who he was, and how he made an impact on everyone, especially those at Westview, I really wish I could have met him.
Although I know his brother Curtis, who has shown up to our football games and practices to give us inspiration and remind us of who and what Marcques stood for, I feel I have met him, and now I will always remember who he is!
Hearing the stories about Marcques has made me realize that there are people in the world that can really touch your feelings, and make it feel like you've met them. Also, hearing about Marcque's accomplishment, has made me want to live up to his expectations as a person, because he set an example for how people should act to one another, and that's exactly what I want to do.
So thank you Marcque's family for embracing me with such a prestigious honor, and something that I will pass on to others, to make sure Marcques is not forgotten, but remembered everyday by people, especially those coming in and out of Westview!
God Bless All of You, and especially Marcques
May 30, 2010
Remembering our Veterans this Memorial Day and paying a special tribute to a great guy Marcques Nettles. He will not be forgotten.
Phyllis
Emily Pena Howell
May 29, 2010
It doesn't take a "Memorial Day" for me to think of Marcques with a heart full of love, longing and pride. As his Aunt, I am priviledged to have him in my life. I am inspired by the young man he had grown into, and my family and I will cherish every visit he and Christina made to spend time with us in Seattle. Lots of people comment on Marcques's smile...I know that smile came from a special, God-given place...the very core of his Spirit and soul. His smile is just an expression of the joy that he IS.
Marcques, you are loved and missed and "I Can Only Imagine" what loving smiles your are spreading and great works you are at, right now, in the amazing presence of our Lord.
(Hey, Marcques - Steph is still lookin' for that "husband who's just like Marcques"...can you help her out?)
Peggy Childers
April 2, 2010
To the family and friends of Petty Officer 3rd Class Marcques J. Nettles:
Remembering Marcques on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Curtis Nettles
December 9, 2009
Dear friends: My name is Curtis Nettles Sr. Marcques' father. I can't thank you all enough for all your kind words and acknowledement of what a great guy Marcques is. I can't tell you how much we still continue to miss him. We really appreciate how many of you saw so many of his excellent qualities. I will repeat what I said at his funeral. For those of us who were close to him or who was somehow affected positively by him as a person must take those positive qualities he possesed and apply them to our own lives. That way Marcques continues to live through us and because of him, we can all continue to make the world a better. If we are not able to do that, then he died in vein. Hopefully, all of us can positively effect other peoples lives like he did.
God Bless You All
Holly
November 16, 2009
I met Marques Nettles at Naval Hospital Oak Harbor, WA. We were on the Hospital Color guard together. I remember walking with him in colors one beautiful morning. When we raised the flag and saluted, he looked so beautiful and proud, his salute was perfect. Marques had the most beautiful and caring smile, every time I ever remember seeing him, he was always smiling. I like to remember him like that, proud, happy, and a good person. My heart goes out to his family and close friends.
cesar garciabueno
August 4, 2009
My name is Cesar A Garciabueno. I served in OIF in 2006 with Nettles. He was a nice friend that went out of his way to help me get used to the hospital corspman routine and environment in iraq. I proudly served with the best and it was an honor to have gone to the chowhall and eat with him. Nettles had a funny laugh and made everyone smile. My condolences to his wife and family. I took the liberty of asking his mom what his favorite meal was, and upon my return to the usa, my mother father and I honered him with a plate of pork chops mash potatoes and fresh watermelon. Now there is yet another angel in heaven
Christian Sperry(Nettles)
June 22, 2009
Thinking Of You Cuzzo!
Love You.
Arlene Siegel Cogen
June 18, 2009
Please accept my deepest sympathies.
Kenna Larra
April 20, 2009
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Peggy Childers
April 2, 2009
To the family of Petty Officer 3rd Class Marcques J. Nettles:
Marcques gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Eric doing what he loved
March 29, 2009
Patrick Mullen
January 14, 2009
My name is Patrick Mullen, Marcques Nettles father in-law. As we near the 3rd year since your passing, the time is slowly easing some of the pain, yet I'm sure it remains difficult for all that knew and loved you to go a day without feeling some of that raw pain and emotion of April, 2006. I'm sure you can read this from heaven so I just wanted you to know how much we miss you, especially your nephew, little Benny, whom you loved dearly. You earned the hand of my daughter and the love and respect of our family by always showing class, an eagerness to help out without being asked and taking great care of Christina.
I wish I could send a big plate of my macaroni and cheese to you.
Love,
Patrick
Susie
July 18, 2008
I love you Marcques and think of you all the time. You were so fun and full of life..who could forget? I look forward to laughing with you again soon
May 26, 2008
On this Memorial Day you are remembered and respected. Thank you Petty Officer 3rd Class Nettles!
Betty Frye
April 5, 2008
My deepest condolences to the family.May God comfort you in this time of indescribable pain and grief. Our prayers and thoughts are with you.
Jesse Burkhardt
September 3, 2007
As I sit hear and read these wonderful entries of Marcques tears pour from my eyes. I had the pleasure of attending High School with Marcques. I can't remember a time when we would talk that he wasn't smiling, positive, and the best guy to surround yourself around when you needed a laugh. He was a wonderful guy and I am sure an even better serviceman. I can't believe he is gone. I wish the best to Curtis, Christina, and the Nettles family. Can't wait to see you soon Marcques I miss that smile more than words can express.
RIP Marcques Nettles
Jesse Burkhardt
August 17, 2007
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
Jon Evans
August 4, 2007
We will always remember you Marcques. Time passes, but your impact on us does not. I, and Westview High School, which you blessed us for your time here, will always hold you in our hearts and thoughts. You were a shining light for everyone you met. God Bless you, Christina, and the Nettles and Mullen families. Jon Evans
Florence McSween-Elkins
July 31, 2007
To All Parents
“I’ll lend you for a little time a child of Mine,” He said.
“For you to love the While he lives and mourn for when he’s dead.
It may be six or seven years, or 22 or three,
But will you, till I call him back, take care of him for me?
He’ll bring his charms to gladden you, and shall his stay be brief.
You’ll have his lovely memories as solace and relief.
“I cannot promise he will stay, since all from earth return,
But there are some lessons taught down there I want this child to learn.
I’ve looked the wide world over in my search for teachers true
And from the throngs that crowd life’s lanes I have selected you.
Now will you give him all your love, nor think the labor vain,
Nor hate Me when I come to take him back again?”
For all the joy Thy child shall bring, the risk of grief we’ll run.
We’ll shelter him with tenderness, we’ll love him while we may
And for the happiness we’ve known forever grateful stay;
But shall the angels call for him much sooner than we’ve planned.
We’ll brave the bitter grief that comes and try to understand.”
I share in your loss; Proud Mother of Petty Officer 1st Class Joseph Adam McSween EODMU-11; IKA near Kirkuk, Iraq on 04-06-07
July 26, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Petty Officer 3rd Class Nettles and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
Joel Celi
July 12, 2007
I have known HM3 Nettles during the time he joined CLB-1. He was an amazing, heart-warming, wonderful person. He has left myself and others thinking about him everyday. Working with him was a pleasure and I am glad I met him. I have many reasons as why I live the way I do and that motivate me to do the things I do now. Marcques, you are one of them. From when I first met you and until I die you will not be forgotten. Because I know I would not want anyone to forget me. You have touched our hearts, thank you Marcques. Best wishes to your loved ones and friends.
Michael Iezzi
June 20, 2007
Father we entrust our brother Marcques to your mercy. You loved him greatly in this life: now that he is freed from all its cares, give him happiness and peace forever. Welcome him now into paradise where there will be no more sorrow, no more weeping or pain, but only peace and joy with Jesus your Son, and the Holy Spirit forever and ever.
May God hold Marcques in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. My deepest sympathy.
Cory and Mary Orvik
June 18, 2007
We are sorry it took us so long to post an entry for your family member. We are trying to catch up after locating this website. God Bless Legacy.com for allowing us to honor these heros.
We can't imagine what you have been going through since being notified of the death of your young Warrior. The Military and families all over the USA and world are grieving with you and praying for you. What a very brave individual you have in your family that would give up a life for their homeland and its people so they can remain free. Your Freedom Fighter has served the Country above and beyond the call of duty, let no one ever tell you different. With the mission now completed your Warrior has been redeployed to Heaven to sit on the right hand of the Supreme Commander and Chief. The Father above has Marcques in his arms and will give him peace as well as eventually easing your pain and suffering. God speed to you and Petty Officer 3rd Class Marcques J. Nettles, our HERO. We are so proud of them that are willing to sacrifice for this great Nation, THANK YOU.
Army Retired
sheila
June 17, 2007
My heart was really hurting reading the wonderful messages people wrote to express how truly likeable and warm he was. My deepest sympathy to his family.
Henryk Zaleski (CWO4,SC,USN-Ret)
June 17, 2007
Fair winds and following seas shipmate.
Justin Red
May 4, 2007
Brother in arms you have fallen but will not be forgotten. I will carry your memory and spirit on my shoulders into battle. I pray you watch over me from heaven and wait for me at the gates...
Garnet Jenkins
April 2, 2007
Please know how Deeply Sorry I was to learn of the loss of Petty Officer 3rd Class Marcques J. Nettles, one year ago.
The price this Brave Young Hero and his family have paid for this country and for freedom, Will Never Be Forgotten.
May Marcques rest safely in the Loving Care of God and know that he is a True American Hero that will Never Be Forgotten.
May the Grace and Comfort of the Lord continue to be with the Nettles family.
There will Never be Enough Ways to Humbly Thank these Young Heroes for their Sacrifices, my brother among them. KIA~Vietnam, 1967.
"Cast thy burden upon the Lord,
and He shall sustain thee."
~ Psalm 55:22 ~
May the Peace of God and your memories of Marcques, remain in your heart always.
May this give you comfort and strength through the difficult days. Hope is not only the light we carry within, it is also what often carries us through...
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Christine Weber
March 31, 2007
Thinking of you on this anniversary. You are in my prayers. May the peace of the Lord comfort you.
Semper Fi,
SSgt Christine Weber
Drew Deatherage
February 8, 2007
Marcus was my Counciler for Outdoor School in 2000, I remained friends with him even though there was an age difference. I didnt ever think that he would join the marines because of his warm heart, but then realized he had a huge heart for his country. I am proud to say I knew him.
Ralph Perez
December 24, 2006
You know i was in Iraq with HM3 Nettles and he was a great guy after he was gone all the guys and myself could do was talk about the great ppl we lost that day, i still think about them all to this day, i just want his family to know they would have been proud of him, and i am expressing my deepest condolescence , this world has lost out on such a great person....
Cpl Perez Ralph
[email protected]
Andrew Boyd
December 23, 2006
During this Holiday season, you are missed. Merry Chistmas, Marcques.
From former HM3
johanna watson
December 22, 2006
I remember nettles when I was leaving corp school. Though we were not in the same class I remember seeing him during class break from a test eating from the vending machines. I just remember thinking he is tall compared to me standing 5'1 and 1/4. He seemed like a decent guy, very respectable and mannerable. It's funny how you remember faces or names and I just happen to view this website today and I knew I knew him. I am truly saddened as anyone for his loss, but I respect him. I respect anyone who has the courage to go to war. My condolenses go out to the family. Sometimes we don't know or understand God's plan, but just know that he is smiling down from a better place. I know he made a fine corpsman because he seemed to care rather than some others who accepted it as a job. I beleive he will always be with you in spirit and continue to keep his memory alive. Don't dwell on the past or why because his steps were already ordered. I will pray pray for you during the remainder of my life.
hn watson (nmc portsmouth-Tricare chesapeake clinic, VA)
Nathan Hamann
December 15, 2006
I went to Field Medical Service School (FMSS) with Marcques, we were in the same platoon. He actually stood in front of me most of the time in formation. He was a good corpsman, and was dedicated to doing his best! He motivated everyone in his fire team, squad, and platoon. I would often joke with him about being able to beat him up, although he was twice my size, at least! He would just laugh, and box with me. It was a lot of fun knowing Marcques the short time I did. I would like to send my deepest sympathies to the Nettles family. HM3 Nettles will be missed, even by those who only knew him a short time.
R.I.P. HM3 "Doc" Marcques J. Nettles
Very Respectfully,
HN (FMF/SW) Nathan S. Hamann
3/4 BAS Al Qaim, Iraq
Mike and Jeanie Wellman
August 27, 2006
Dear Curt and Susie,
This short note cannot bring Marcques back, but we believe that all those who reach out to each other when tragedy occurs help to ease the pain a little. We did not know Marcques personally, but the tributes to him show what a fine person he was. We have him in our hearts now, along with your family, and send our love and care. Having lost our own son, Nathan to drowning, we understand how painful it is to lose a child. The memories never fade, but the pain does diminish.
We share your grief,
Mike and Jeanie Wellman
Jaime Noyola
July 31, 2006
I had the privilage of having HM3 Nettles as a friend and fellow corpsman. My heart goes out to his family and friends. I will always keep him in my mind.
HN Jaime J. Noyola
Brian Smith
July 31, 2006
Still thinking of you, Curtis (and Nettles family, inc. Christina). Hope all is well these days.
- Brian R. Smith
Annette "Butch" Taylor-Fox
July 18, 2006
Dearest Curt and Family,
It is Annette "Butch" Taylor-Fox.We are so very sorry for your loss.
We are living in Arizona and my friend Elizabeth Ferrell from the "Trap Club" and Trap Council called to inform us of your loss.
My husband Bill Fox drummer from the Daze of Nite also sends his regards our prayer are with you and your family.
God Bless you all.
Butch and Bill Fox
Jay Arce
June 20, 2006
To the Nettles Family,
My deepest sympathy and prayers to you all. I actually known Marcques back in 2003 where we shared one anothers comapny attending Hospital Corps School. It was a pleasure being in the same class with him. He always got along with everyone. I remember 2003 4th of July weekend we all rented a car and drove up to Canada. I have pictures for you, if you would like to see them, not a lot though. feel free to email me, i may also have some from when we were in school together. He was a wonderful person.
Robert Travelstead
June 15, 2006
To the Nettles Family,
You do not know me, but i had the privelage of working with Marcques at CLB-1. I remember when he checked in everyone was looking at him all of the time because he was always smiling we new at that time he was going to be a great 'DOC' and friend. I would play raquetball with Marcques quite a bit and of course he would beat me just like he would everyone else, but then he would always try to help me out to get him back. I had the privelage to go and play golf with Marcques a few times we had a great time doing that, even though then again he would win. Marcques left for Iraq one week before I left with a different unit I will never forget the way he looked that night, you could see that he was prepared to go serve his country. The day i found out i could not believe it the one thing that kept popping in my head was his face and of course that smile he could turn a bad day into a great day for someone by just looking at them. To the Nettles family i send my thoughts and prayers, may god bless. To Marcques thank you for serving your country and giving that ultimate sacrifice. We know you will still be looking over your family and friends and always remember you are a great DOC.
HM3 Travelstead
CLB-1 BAS
Pamela Dustin
June 10, 2006
There are no words that can ease your pain. Please know that many people grieve with you. I have a grandson in the Marines. I know that the corpsmen take excellent care of them and are really true heroes. Know that Marcques is an angel and will always be watching over you and protecting all of us.
Christine Weber
June 9, 2006
My deepest sympathy is with you as you mourn the loss of Marcques. I had the privelage of putting him on the plane and participating in the "Angel Ceremony" as he left Al Asad on his way home to you. I wear a memorial bracelet with his name on it and Easter will always have a special meaning to me as that was the day he was found. I was serving with CLB-7 on my recent deployment to Iraq. You are in my prayers and thoughts. Sincerely,
Christine Weber SSGT, USMC
CDR Jamie Kersten
June 5, 2006
I had the priviledge to know HM3 Nettles during his tour at NH Oak Harbor. He was a hard worker and always wore a smile. I will remember our hometown talks and think of him with fond memories. My heart felt prayers go out to his family.
LaDawn White
June 1, 2006
I had the priviledge of working with HM3 Nettles at Naval Hospital Oak Harbor. He was a great Hospital Corpsman and human being. I'm currently deployed to Kuwait and found out that HM3 Nettles was missing when I read the Stars and Stripes newspapers. I was in shock and hoped and prayed that he would be found safe. When I found out that he was gone,such an over-whelming sadness came over me. I won't see Marcques's smile, hear his laughter or see the compassion and concern he showed his patients ever again. I still can't believe he is gone. I feel the deepest sorrow for his wife and family during this sad time. May God bless you and keep you always.
Irene Irby
May 31, 2006
To the Nettles Family,
My heart is filled with sorrow for your loss. Marceques was such a bright and caring individual. I had the pleasure to work with him at NHOH, and remembered him well because he stood out as an outstanding corpsman. He is a great loss to ya'll, the Navy and mankind. Please accept my deepest condolence.
Rosie Kohake
May 27, 2006
This entry is long overdue, since I have been praying for Marcques and his family for nearly two months. My "almost" son, Eric Palmisano, also died in this terrible accident. He was engaged to my daughter Claire, and was a part of our family for nine years. I was comforted many times by the thought that the two of them were together, giving each other strength. God had other plans, and that is difficult to accept. May God hold us all close at this time of mourning.
Sincerely,
Rosie Kohake
Christian, James Michael Sperry(Nettles)
May 27, 2006
Hey Cuzzo, I didnt get to know you very well but you always seemed so sound, and well balanced. To all of my family members out there keep together dont let our roots thin any more than they have. Christina and kids, We love you . Christian James Sperry(NETTLES) Son of Jamie E Nettles,
Cuzzo'z For Ever
Nadene Minyard
May 20, 2006
The whole world will sorely miss your bright influence.
Chris Terry
May 18, 2006
Hey Marcques man I still can't believe your gone. I'll never forget those snowboarding trips we took. We did spend more time takeing hard falls then actually snowboarding but hey, who cares right. Everytime I was around you it was a blast, never a dull moment. From working to golfing everything was better when you were involved. You've had a tremendous impact on me and the way I approach life. You are the best of the best and we are all going to miss you. RIP Marc
Susie Chamberlain
May 17, 2006
I don't even know where to begin. Marcques is so dear to my heart. The first time we met--freshman Algebra class, we had so much fun in that class together. We continued to stay friends throughout highschool and senior year, he told me some things I will never ever forget. About a week after we graduated, I recieved an email from Marcques telling me some very nice things and then told me that he was going to miss me but since he was joining the Navy, he would be discontinuing his email account. Before I could respond, his account had been deleted and that was the last time I had heard from him. Because of this, I thought about Marcques on a frequent basis, praying that he was doing good and safe. I also wondered whether he and Christina were still together.
I'll never forget when I found out that he was missing. I was at Red Robin in Salem, Oregon celebrating a friend's birthday. Right before we were to be seated, a friend from Highschool saw me and came up to me to give me the devistating news. Since that day, I have shed many tears and have thought about him and Christina daily, wondering why this would happen to such a sweetheart. I am constantly reminded, though that God is good and his faithfulness endures forever. The Lord knew the number of Marcques' days before he was born just as He also had each of the hairs on his head numbered.
I trust the Lord that Marcques knew Him and is now dancing in celebration with our Lord and King.
I love Marcques and I am very thankful for the sacrifice that he has made for his friends--for there is no greater love that one lay down his life for his friends.
Much Love,
Susie
I Corinthians 13
David Smail
May 15, 2006
I had the pleasure of working with Marcques at Naval Hospital Oak Harbor. He was a fine man who was very popular with both staff and patients. I feel lucky to have worked with him. I remember him very fondly. I extend my deepest sympathy.
David Smail, M.D.
Don Bellairs
May 15, 2006
Christina,
It is very early in the morning, the day after Mother's day. I am crying, just a little now--I have known about Marcus for a while but didn't know what do to.
Someday--maybe you will help me--I want to write something that will help others remember him--and you--because you two were already very much a couple by the time I got to know you.
I remember your struggles for acceptance and understanding.
I remember how gloriously you two could smile at each other--smiles with your eyes that told the truth about young love.
He was a little bit of a hero to me long before he became a soldier. It was because of the respect he showed for you. He understood the special nature of your relationship. He was a man when a lot of people were still boys.
Everyone who knew Marcus is better for it. He was a good citizen. He is missed. He will always be loved.
Ryan Black
May 14, 2006
To the Nettles Family,
In high school, I was never a friend of Marcques'. He probably didn't even know who I was. But as I'm sure you all know, he was the kind of guy that everyone knew, liked and nobody ever had a single bad word to say about him. The kind of guy who transcended cliques. I have a few friends who were very close to Marques, and although we never once spoke to each other, words cannot express how this world is lesser place without Marques. My heart goes out to all the family and friends who will forever mourn his tragic passing. He was a shining example of how to be a great guy. I feel unfortunate to have never known him better.
Scottie Halgren
May 14, 2006
I was lucky enough to go to Middle School and High School with Marcques. I only got the chance to play on the same team as him one year, 8th grade basketball. Even though I didn't play football or I wasn't in his close group of friends, he always made me feel like I was. That goes to show to volume of his character. He always made me feel welcomed. I am forever greatful and extremely honored to be able to call Marcques Nettle my friend. RIP buddy.
Nick Lilja
May 14, 2006
I would just like to say what a great service todays events were to Marcques. Although I didn't know him as well as a lot of people signing this book, I can still see his smile and hear his laugh. He was a good man, and I'm proud to call him a friend.
Meghan Bochnak
May 13, 2006
Christina and the Nettles Family,
My junior year of high school I was lucky enough to meet and become the best of friends with Curtis Ray. Towards the end of high school we were inseparable. At this time I was blessed to be surrounded by your whole family on almost a daily basis. I felt at home there and was overwhelmed by the love in your household. Most of all I was in awe of the love that existed between Christina and Marcques at such a young age. Even I knew that the two of them were meant to be together forever. I love Curtis with all of my heart and although I hate to see him mourn the loss of such an amazing brother, I know that he and others will forever celebrate the life of a gorgeous, brave, and talented man.
My prayers are with you all.
david kruger
May 12, 2006
To the family of Marcques, i express my deepest condolances for your loss. i to am a hospital corpsman who has spent time in iraq. i know of the oath that we as corpsman takeand we do hold in the highest esteem. we are no more heros then the next man. we do not want ribons or praise, all we ask for is god to grant us the strength to carry on, we pray that god gives us the strength to and sound mind to bring our friends home. out in iraq for us it isn't about george bush's agenda or his politics, it is our friends and family we think of. i know marcques did that verything, he brought his friends and family together. he held his position as "doc" with the utmost pride. i am truely sorry for your loss.
Bobbi Mabunay, HMC
May 11, 2006
Christina and Family,
It is with a very heavy heart that I must deal with the loss of one of the best Corpsmen that I have ever had the honor of working with in over 23 years! It was extremely difficult to deal with the loss of such a man, very wise and mature for his tender age. I pray that we can all remember the good times we shared together and how he loved serving as a Hospital Corpsman, no matter what the assignment entailed. Marques worked for me at CLB-1 for only a short time, but in that time, he touched everyone of us in a special way that none of us will soon forget. His desire to help others succeed and genuine love of life were so refreshing during these times of great turmoil. I will truly miss him and look forward to the day when we meet again in the future!
Remember, "God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life." John 3:16
May the Good Lord continue to keep us all together in our hearts and minds until such time as we meet again!
HM1 Christopher Meade
May 10, 2006
Dear Nettles Family,
You are in my prayers. I never got to meet Marc, however, Curt Jr. worked for me out in Texas a couple years back and the fondness he spoke of his brother I felt as if I knew him also. Curt Jr. has a charisma and charm I can see his brother possessed as well from reading the Guest Book....As my unit ramps up for our deployment to Iraq we will carry with us the strength of our fallen shipmate! Marc...Fair Winds & Following Seas shipmate!
kim phillips
May 10, 2006
I will never for get when he walked in when i was feeding my little girl "oh my gosh i am so sorry i thought you we're sleeping". nope. having a baby-2hours of labor. the look on your friend face walking in on you feeding her- priceless.i will never forget the look and it was so funny and he was always so polite and was always good to the little man and the little girl. marcques you will always have a place in my heart and my daughters heart you will never be forgotten!!! miss you tons and see you soon ninja!! there is so much more to say and to remember him by lets just keep his spirit living.
Nicole Oakes
May 10, 2006
My sympathies go out to the family of Marcques, especially Christina. I graduated from Westview in 2000. Marcques & Christina were a known couple at school. I didn't have a personal relationship with either one of them, however it is saddening to hear of the loss. I wish you all the best of luck Christina, keep positive. Marcques will be missed!
alvin melancon
May 9, 2006
i had the pleasure of knowing marcques at corpsman school and serving with him at clb 1 when we were in a school marcques used to highlight what was on the test and give it to me since i was in the class behind him i would take the test a couple days later and would pass because of this as long as i rememeber there was never a bad thing that anybody could ever say about him there was no flaws to him he was geat at everything from sport s of just being a friend I guess I have to thank his parents because they raised a great young man. He was a born leader and im just glad i was able to know him for the time I did and there wont be a day go bye that i wont think about him
jenny moreno
May 9, 2006
dear nettles family i was very sad to hear about marcques i knew marques as daniels best friend everytime iwould see him at dans he would always have a big smile and a hello he was a great person.I am very sorry for your loss.
shenika brown
May 9, 2006
i would just like to offer my condolences to the nettles family i had the pleasure of working with him here at clb-1 and he was an awesome person always smiling always calling me maam just to pick with me even though i knew him a short time i will remember him always
Cassidy Green
May 9, 2006
Although Marcques and I only knew eachother a couple years, I can't help but think of how welcomed he made me feel. I had a few classes with him senior year and even though the classes were filled with his best friends, who were people I knew but I wasn't that close to, he always made sure I felt included and welcomed to the group. I never got to thank him for that. Ive never met a man so selfless and caring. To Christina and the nettles family, I cannot ever imagine what you are going through... but all of you showed more strength on sunday than I thought possible. My prayers will always be with you each and everyday of my life.
David Fisher
May 8, 2006
To the Nettles Family,
I would like to add my deepest condolences to all of the Nettles family.
I was Marcques Department Head at Naval Hospital Oak Harbor and he was above the best. His manner and how he treated all people with caring and empathy is something that cannot be taught and comes from an inner calm and strength that Marcques shared with everyone.
His smile was reassuring and his potential was limitless.
I had many conversations with Marcques and was always encouraging him to set his sights high because he had true leadership qualities.
I miss Marcques from the depths of my heart and I am honored to have had the priviledge to serve with him.
Although we are racked with sadness at the loss of our Shipmate, God is rejoicing that a truly special son has come home.
May God Bless you all and thank you for sharing Marcques with us.
LCDR David Fisher
Naval Hospital Oak Harbor
Marcus Williams
May 8, 2006
To Marcques,
Marc was one of the most respectable and down to earth kinda guys that I have ever met. There aren't enough words to express his valor and meaning. I appreciated marc for his ability to make everyone around him better in life. He was all about progression and making moves in life. My love and heart goes out to the nettles family. Although lost, Marc will never be forgotten.. For he has left his legacy and spirit with his family and all those who crossed his path. Much Love Marc. Some day, we will play ball on the heavenly courts, with rims made of gold!!! Miss ya man. Hold ya head up family!!
HM2(SW) Jeremiah J. Johnson
May 8, 2006
It's been a week since I found out that Marques had passed and it still is hard to believe. I was his Platoon Sergeant during his training here at Camp Pendleton at Field Medical Service School (FMSS), not even 6 months ago. If there is one thing I can say about Marques, it's that I could always count on him and his dedication to duty. If I needed something done and I needed it done right, I could always call his name and know it would be done quickly and without question. He always made me laugh; telling me I was out of step when calling cadence, making little jokes, letting me know what the juniors were concerned with. He could always bring light to my day, no matter how dreary it was. He was a great leader and a great friend. I remember feeling bummed out that he was headed to Group and not with Division, where I am now. My parents asked me after graduation from FMSS who I talked with the most. I had said Hayes, Keaton, Jernigan, Nettles, Newton, or Heald...they then asked me who I was closest with and without hesitation, I told them Nettles. I saw him about a week before he left for Iraq and had asked him to come to my Superbowl party...not knowing that it would be the last time I would see him. His face is still so vivid, so close, his friendship will never fade. His Marines were very lucky to have him as their "Doc", as their friend...I can only pray they appreciated him as much as I did. You will be missed, Marques...I know I miss you. The tears in my eyes now are not only for your loss but, for the lives you have touched and the lives that will never know what it was like to know you, to be around you...Semper Fi, Shipmate.
To those that have lost loved ones, please do not dwell on what has been lost but, look at what has been shared; the positive. In our line of work if you dwell on the negative, it will soon take over any positive thought and drag you down. Don't ever give up your support for the troops. I myself will be headed there soon and your support is what I will need...what my family will need. Ooorah, 2nd Platoon!! 2006010
To the Nettles family: I wanted to call you, tell you how much he will be missed and how much he meant to our great nation but, this is one thing you already knew. You know his sacrifice will never be forgotten. You know the United States of America will always be proud of it's Armed Forces members, as I am. I will never give anything other than 110% to my Marines and our great nation, for your protection, for you. My condolences to your family is all I can offer.
God Bless
Jose Nicola
May 8, 2006
To Mrs. Nettles and his Family,
I had the pleasure of being beat several times by Marcques at racquet ball while he was stationed with me at CLB-1 in Camp Pendleton. I guess the reason I mention this is because I choose to remember him during the moments of laughter, competitiveness and drive that he had. He was like this at work as a corpsman also. I can tell you with certainty that he was larger than life with an infectious smile and good attitude that everyone liked and were drawn to. I am truly saddened by your loss, but know that I will never forget him. God Bless you all
Lisa Fischer
May 8, 2006
Dearest Suzie and Curtis,
I am so very sorry for your loss. Marcques was an amazing young man. I worked with Marcques for the four years he attend Westview, and although I have taught for 19 years Marcques immediately became dear to my heart. Marcques was a natural leader, his calm and easy going nature attracted kids to him like a magnet. Of course everyone who has meet him comments about his smile which just seemed to me to be an expression of his heart, big and bright and welcoming. I never ever heard Marcques speak ill of any other person, even when he had reason to and that is something when you are in high school. I know Marcques had a huge impact on the people he met, he was a positive force and a terrific son, who loved you both dearly. I was honored to work with him.
Dick and Donna Schmidt
May 8, 2006
Curtis and Suzie: How very sorry we are for your tragic loss. It all just seems so unfair. Although we never had the pleasure of meeting Marcques, we know what great people you and Suzie are and that you loved him very much. You must be so proud of all that he accomplished in his young life. And that he was good to others and was cherished by many. Please know that we are thinking of you and all of your family during this difficult time. Hang on to your memories, friend, for they will soothe your heartache.
Vickal Singh
May 8, 2006
We miss you marc dogg, i will remember you forever. Thanks for being a good friend and much much respect for what you did for me and the whole nation. one love
"The ice on my wrist shine like a light it can brighten up your day and even at night"
you know what Im talking about marc
Your boy Vickal Singh
Darlene Brandt-Palmisano
May 8, 2006
To the entire Nettles Family and Friends:
My heart goes out to you in your time of sorrow. Although, I did not know Marques, my brother in law was with him at the time of the accident. From the articles I have read, he seemed like he was a wonderful person and will be greatly missed. My prayers and thoughts are with you all in during this time of hardship, as it is not easy to lose someone you so greatly love with such amazing attributes. I appreciate Marques' dedication to our country and the service he provided, and he will always remain one of our great American Heros!!!
Rick Klein
May 8, 2006
It was an honor to be able to pay my respects to HM3 Nettles and his family. As a Patriot Guard Member I want to thank Christina for her invitation to us. I know many of those who attended did not get a chance to meet many of us, what I found is some very caring people in the PGR. They rode from all over Oregon, Washington, Idaho and California to honor this fine hero. My heartfelt sympathies go out to the family and friends of our fallen hero. With honor and respect.
Andrew Boyd, HM3(AW)
May 8, 2006
I worked with HM3 Nettles at Naval Hospital Oak Harbor. He was one of the most dedicated, committed, and kind Corpsmen I have had the priveledge to know. He has inspired me in life and now in death to be a better corpsman and human being. He will be sorely missed. To his wife and extended family, you also are an inspiration through your testimony of faith in the Lords goodness. Keep strong.
Hoon Lee
May 8, 2006
Marcques was like my to me and he is the greatest man that I know. All I want to say is that I love him and I can't wait till see him again.. and Love you, mom and dad...
Joseph Pottle III
May 8, 2006
I had the pleasure of playing football with marcques and knowing him all threw highschool and it was a pleasure. you will be missed and ill see you soon
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