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Bryant Anthony Herlem

Bryant Herlem Obituary

Herlem, Bryant Anthony (37)
Born Aug. 6, 1968 in Whittier, CA; passed away April 28, 2006 in Baghdad, Iraq. Survived by his wife LaNita; parents Ronald and Sandra Herlem; brother Sean Herlem; sisters Sarah Gardner and Amber Begrin; grandmother Betty Elliott and preceded in death by grandfather Bryant Elliott. Graduated 1986 from Cal High School, Whittier. Family requests donations in lieu of flowers be made to: Oprah's Angel Network or any military support organization. Services Directed by Rose Hills Mortuary on Friday, May 12, 2006 at 3:00 p.m., SkyRose Chapel (Gate #1). 3888 Workman Mill Rd., Whittier.

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Published by Los Angeles Times on May 10, 2006.

Memories and Condolences
for Bryant Herlem

100 Entries

Chad Malley

April 28, 2014

Your soldiers are still thinking of you & remembering you Bryant Herlem. It was an honor having you as my leader 14 years ago while in Korea. God bless brother

Zachary Hartzold

February 17, 2014

Bryant, I just learned of your passing today, some many years after. Please know you have been my thoughts throughout the years since we last spoke. Know that you embodied everything an NCO is, know that I have shed a few tears today, and put back a few beers. I will keep my thoughts and memories of you alive, and pass them on to my son, and use you as a positive example of how a man should live his life. Your memory will live on.

Brandon Bosley

May 29, 2012

Thank you SFC Herlem for all the things that you tought me. You are never forgotten. SGT Bosley

May 15, 2012

Thank you for all you did in our world
may your childeren be proud of you..

Peggy Childers

May 13, 2012

April 28, 2012
To the family and friends of Sgt. 1st Class Bryant A. Herlem:
Always remembering Bryant. "Some gave all."

February 14, 2012

Mrs. Herlem,
Sorry for your loss. I just found this site. SSG. (RET) Patrick C. Fernandez

Peggy Childers

April 28, 2011

To the family and friends of Sgt. 1st Class Bryant A. Herlem:
Please accept my remembrance of Bryant on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Peggy Childers
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

April 28, 2011

We pray you both know how much you mean to us. For every sacrifice you made for not just our freedom, but the freedom of our children and generations to come is incomprehensible. May the Lord keep you and watch over you always. Your legacy is one of honor Bryant as LaNita does her best to carry on knowing one day she will see you again. The work you do for other women who suffer as you have LaNita is priceless and we know Bryant is standing tall and proud as he watches over you. God bless you both always. Love the Campos Family

Will Henry

April 28, 2011

My first Squad Leader while serving with the 14th ENGR BN, a true friend indeed! Bryant will continue to be missed!

LaNita Herlem

April 28, 2011

Bryant, You have my heart. You are my soul. The passing of time has not changed that. You will always be my husband, my love, and the man I need. I love you... and I love you more. Be with God Babe!

Anna Makin

April 20, 2011

May God Bless you And Jose .
forever in our heart that knew you and jose

sean,sorayda,kaydie,emily herlem

April 17, 2011

Your still here in our hearts and mind every day.love from your brother and family !

sean,sorayda,kaydie,emily herlem

April 17, 2011

Your still here in our hearts and mind every day.love from your brother and family !

sean herlem

April 12, 2011

To my brother you will always be in the heart and mind of me and my family for ever.

L Neal

April 7, 2011

To the family of Sgt. 1st Class Bryant A. Herlem:
Please know that just as your loved one remains in your hearts and minds; his sacrifice, and that of your family, remains with the people he died defending. Words cannot express the gratitude we feel for his bravery and selflessness, or the heartache we feel for your loss. God bless and keep you always.

May 30, 2010

SFC Herlem,
You have not been nor will you ever be forgotten. You changed lives of many and were great leader for those you trained. I learned great things from you and will continue to train those under me like you trained me. Always respected and Never forgotten. God Bless.

SGT Bosley, Brandon

pamela carr

May 11, 2010

dear sweet bryant , not a day goes by that i don't miss you. tears to heaven my sweet boy. love aunt pam

Peggy Childers

April 28, 2010

To the family and friends of Sgt. 1st Class Bryant A. Herlem:
Remembering Bryant on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Michael Marcus

April 28, 2010

LaNita,
I was just sent this URL from Matthew Holmes who, I believe, knew your husband. I read everything there was and all the links I could find about him. I saw the photos too. I cannot tell you how touched I am by the amount of love that obviously surrounded your man's life. Yesterday I recalled the 65th anniversary of my uncle, my namesake, who was killed in action in Manila, Luzon. He lives on in the hearts and memories of my family just like Bryant will also live on. God bless you and your family.

Rena Moroni

March 25, 2010

Never forget! God Bless you for the ultimate sacrifice! Our wishes and prays are with all you all the time! Remember all of our Soldiers!

Peggy Childers

April 28, 2009

To the family of Sgt. 1st Class Bryant A. Herlem:
Bryant gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Kenna Larra

April 20, 2009

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Sincerely,
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Paul Kirton

August 31, 2008

Brew, dont know how long it been since you left us, but it seems like a thousand centuries ago. This is the 1st time that I have had the strength to write you although I think about you all the time. I could go on for days about how much I love and miss you. I'll keep it short! I love you, I miss you, your my hero. Tell grandpa, Big Paul, Bobby, and Jennie i love them. Keep the brew's cold and I'll see ya, when I see ya cuzz! Lil Paul

May 28, 2008

You are remembered and respected. Thank you Sgt 1st Class Herlem!

In Memory of Bryant ( Debra Estep )

April 30, 2008

Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.

The Wind on The Downs

“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”

(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )

Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….

“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”

I did not know Bryant, but I am remembering his service.
He is my hero.

~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~

The Other Side

i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.

can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.

i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side

the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)

Sincerely,

Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom and MIL

Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55

The Other Side
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol

Please contact me and I will email you back a copy of my
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.

In Memory of Bryant ( Debra Estep )

April 28, 2008

Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers today.

The Wind on The Downs

“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”

(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )

Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….

“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”

I did not know Bryant, but I am remembering on
this day he gave his all.
He is my hero.

~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~

The Other Side

i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.

can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.

i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side

the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)

Sincerely,

Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom and MIL

Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55

The Other Side
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol

Gary Heffernan

February 11, 2008

I am so sorry it has taken me this long to wright something, I didn't know this was here. Bryant was my best friend. I miss him as much today as the day i found out. I still hear Bryant's voice as if he is watching over me when I am in harm's way. I believe I owe my life to him on a few occassions. I love Bryant as if he is my brother born to my parents. I jusy hope everyone remembers that he gave his life so others my live. Man, I miss you Bry....

Lest we forget.

Brandon Bosley

January 30, 2008

SFC Herlem,
You are a friend and a hero. All the hard work that you put me through when i first came to Fort Hood has made me the person and NCO that I am today. LaNita, mine and my wife's prayers are with you and your family. God Bless all of you.

Edward carliell

January 17, 2008

ssg herlem was one of the first nco's i encountered when i got out of my schooling. i was in his unit while i was stationed in korea. he taught us on enemy tactics during the train up time for the 2d bde 2d inf depolyment. his lost effected us all.

Tina, Anitas cousin

Tina Fulcher

August 22, 2007

Always in our prayers.

Barry Hauser

August 18, 2007

LaNita,

My heart and prayers to you and your family.

It is always hard to lose someone you love. Loved as a man and a CAV Trooper.

Remember Bryant will be waiting in Fiddlers Green.

ALLONS
11th ACR

August 7, 2007

I don't pretend to know what to say or do that would bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.

Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.

I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON (KIA on 07/06/07) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.

REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!

PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)

July 27, 2007

Thank you for the sacrifice made by Sgt 1st class Herlem and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!

Sergio Talavera

July 12, 2007

Mam,family, and friends, : As always, it's hard to find words to say... First, I truly hope that this message does you, your family, and all friends of SSG Herlem well... it's amazing as one wrote... over a year now... I didn't find out about the news until about a month after... I wish I could have been at the funeral... when I heard about it, it schocked me. I always tell everybody that we are not superman and you never know when your time may come... but regardless, I was still amazed... maybe because I saw Herlem as a superman. Well, anyways... I was one of SSG Herlem's PLATOON SGT. in Korea... I was also his wing man at one point in Korea. I remeber one time when he got frost bite on his hand. I am telling you all... he would rather get frost bite in his hand than complain... ONE EXAMPLE, why he was a true brave hero! I was with him in Camp Casey... then he followed me over to Ft Hood, j/k. After we were forced to make an MOS change at Hood... he stayed in Ft. Hood to continue his career as a SCOUT... I decided I would stay in ADA... I tried to convince him to stay ADA but he was too hoah! I say this because I support those people that say he enjoyed his job. I wasn't there in Iraq on that tragic day but I am willing to bet some money that he probably told the enemy something like what the hell do you think you are doing, you idiot... he was the type that would fight until he couldn't move... that was his attitude... Also, I was his sponsor for his promotion board to SSG. I can tell you he was more valuable than a SSG, I seeked his help as a senior to him even thoe he was my subordinate... THAT'S HOW GOOD HE WAS! Also, for all those of you from the engineering side of the house... he bragged so much about you all... just thought I would let you know... him and his sapper, too, another thing he loved. Ofcourse, to his wife... he loved you dearly... I remember the smile in his face when you went to visit him in Korea... I don't know if you remember me but my wife and I were sitting in the same table with you and (Herlo)at the military ball in Ft Hood. Well, I just kind of let my feelings out a bit but I know I speak on behalf of other comrades he served with who have not written for reasons of their own... I see comrades SSG Herlem and myself served with periodically and we always bring him up and talk about how such a great person he was... and how he touched us... I think about him everyday, specially, when i think about re-enlisting... I always wonder what kind of advice he would give me after all the things that have happened. My next re-enlistment would put me in debt status... so, it is a very important decision in my career and my life... I say this because whatever I decide... SSG Herlem... will be in my mind when I make this decision... If I stay and finish my career in the Army... I will continue to use him as a motivator... I will also continue to use him as an example of bravery and excellent leadership to soldiers I train... If I get out, plz don't be mad at me man... something tells me that you would support that, too. If I get out of the Army... I will continue to be thankful for people like you who have sacrificed more than words can say... LOVE YOU MAN!!! SI WAY! You know because of Korea I would settle for the CORONA , too, but I know Heaven has TECATE!

Liz Coffman

June 10, 2007

To The Family Of Sgt. Bryant Herlem: I am so sorry for your loss. I know now a year later you still miss him even more than ever. I pray that the pain that runs so deep lessens with time and God gives you strenth through out your days without him. I know you must be so very proud of him. He sounds like a wonderfully brave man. I thank him for his supreme sacrifice he made for his country and for my freedom. God Bless!! Gone But Not For Gotten!!
In Loving Memory Of Sgt. Brandon Teeters KIA 5/12/07

maura cruz

May 4, 2007

bryant: i always called you my uncle marine,and at the time it was the most funny things to say to you.but now that your gone i cant help regreting not letting you know that because of you and other reason i want to in the air force.you spoke so good of them! to tell you the truth i wanted to be a marine and just to see how low you though of them i always said i couldnt have you thinking less of me.my life took a whole diffrent turn and i stopped contact with you,and now i cant help to cry everytime i think of you, because i never relly told you how much i like sean's family now that you were there.reading lanita's page of you i regret it even more...you were an awsome guy and i hate myself for realizing this now that you are gone!im really sorry

Garnet Jenkins

April 27, 2007

It is an honor to pay tribute to Sgt. 1st Class Bryant A. Herlem, with a Multitude of Thanks, for this Brave Young Soldier's Courage, Dedication and Service to our Country and for Freedom.

May Bryant Rest Safely, in God's Loving Care and may the Peace of God continue to be with the Herlem family.
Those who Made the Ultimate Sacrifice, So Many and So Young, shall Never Be Forgotten, my brother among them. Killed in action in Vietnam in 1967.

"I will lift up my eyes to the hills- from whence comes my help?
My help comes from the Lord, Who made heaven and earth."
~ Psalm 121:1-2 ~

I am sincerely hoping that you continue to feel the thoughts of caring and support that surround you each day, as this Country Remembers Someone Very Precious to you, who is a Hero to all of us.
I am So Deeply Sorry for your loss.

anna Makin

April 27, 2007

Sgt Bryant Herlem,
Happy 1st anniversary in Heaven,
May God Keep you and yoyr loves smiling until you all meet again , Lanita, i just want to say thank you for sending the package to marie, that was very thought of you, keep the memories of him deep in your heart , Bryant and Jose are smiling when we smile and cry for us as we do for them,,, God Bless you and your famliy,
Anna

Christopher Aguirre

March 28, 2007

Bryant was my Squad Leader while in 1st Cav (and Earley's as well). He taught me so much. You are forever my Brother, my hero, my friend! It's not the same without you. All the practical jokes... You are truly a Leader and someone who I still talk about to other friends of mine. It's only been a year now, but your memories and contributions will forever be embedded in our minds! Miss 'ya Bro!

Eric Earley

January 31, 2007

Sergeant Herlem, you were my first NCOIC in the Army, Sorry that I gave you such a hard time. I was really saddened to learn of your sacrifice and the knowledge that the Soldiers of the U.S. Army have lost an outstanding leader and one that I will certainly remember for the rest of my days. I want to thank you for your sacrifice and your family for theirs. I will honor your memory. Thank you for everything that you taught me.
-SGT Eric M. Earley

anna Makin ( marie

December 22, 2006

Bryant,
merry christmas in heaven , may your family smile again when they look up at the shinning star above knowing that its their loving husband ,son, father ,brother , uncle, looking down upon them .
Merry Christmas to your Family

Amber Begrin

May 28, 2006

LaNita- To a wonderful and strong sister-in-law. Remember all of the good times and memories that you had with Bryant and the love that you shared. Bry died a hero doing what he loved the best.

Bryant will always be in our hearts forever. He touched so many peoples lives. He changed Sarah’s and my life forever. We will always have a special bond that only a few will understand being military wives. Find the strength and comfort in those around you. We are all here for you.

Bryant- To my big brother. You have been gone for a month now, but it seems like just yesterday. You said before that you knew that we all would not be the little family of 2 boys and 2 girls but you made that happen for a year. A year of getting to know each other and starting new memories. You are my hero and inspiration for never giving up on making your dream happen and becoming what you wanted to be in life, an Army soldier. You are in inspiration in not only my life but to the others that knew you. We will get to meet someday up in heaven were we can be a family again. Continue to watch over us all and keep us safe. I love you Bryant!

Nicholas Bonfanti

May 27, 2006

Lanita,

How are you sweetheart? I just wanted to remind you that both you and my cousin Bryant are in my prayers daily. May God keep you strong. He is always in my heart and your words of encouragement recently were an inspiration and have helped me tremendously in doing what I need to do. I am doing well and will contact you soon. Be strong and look to the Lord.

All My Love, Nicholas Bonfanti

Here is the poem I read at the funereal. I wanted to post it here. I hope you don't mind. I love you, Lanita.

We all came together,

Both young and old;

To fight for our freedom,

To stand and be bold.

In the midst of all evil,

We stand our ground;

And we protect our country,

From all terror around.

Peace and not war,

Is what some people say;

But I’ll give my life,

So you can live the American way.

I give you the right,

To talk of your peace;

To stand in your groups,

And protest in our streets.

But still I fight on,

I don’t moan, I don’t whine;

I’m just one of the people,

Who is doing your time.

I’m harder than nails,

The enemy, I’ll hurt ‘em;

I’m the immortal soldier,

I’m Sgt. Bryant A. Herlem.

So stand in my shoes,

And leave from your home;

Fight for the people who hate you,

With the protests they’ve shown.

Fight for the stranger,

Fight for the young;

So they all may have,

The greatest freedom you’ve won.

Fight for the sick,

Fight for the poor;

Fight for the cripple,

Who lives next door.

But when your time comes,

Do what I’ve done;

For if you stand up for freedom,

You’ll stand when the fight’s done.

Lorraine Gilmer

May 18, 2006

I posted his obit on classmates.com, here is one of the responses:

Dear Herllem Family

I just wanted to say how sorry I am for you loss of Bryant. He was my best friend from Hillview Middle School. I used to come over and play with the bees, shot the bb gun and of course play war with him all the time. He was a great friend and he will be surely be missed.

Jamie S. Evans (Liston)

( I did not know him, but I post obits to classmates, so other classmates can see) I do want to thank Bryant Herlem for his defense of my freedom.

Lorraine Gilmer

Sherry McDaniel

May 15, 2006

LaNita

I have been reading the guest book and crying as I read it as I know how much he was loved by everyone. It is such a sad loss but we know he served our country well and we are so very proud of him for that. We love you and our prayers are with you and may god help you through this as he is the only one that can really comfort you. I know how much you loved Bryant and that will ago on forever. I admire you with the love, Strenght and courage you have shown. I know how much you loved Bryant.

May God Bless

Love & Prayers

David & Sherry

Sherry McDaniel

May 15, 2006

Dear LaNita

My heart goes out to you ,Bryant was a wonderful person and will certainly be missed. He was always such a loving and caring person. He served his country well and I know you are very proud as we all are. He will surely be missed by family and friends.

Love and Prayers.

David & Sherry McDaniel

Mark and Kimberly Clifton

May 15, 2006

LaNita - I know it's been 20+ years since either of us have seen you but when we heard about Bryant we were deeply saddened. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. I know I speak for all "Bengals" when I say; I appreciate so much Bryant's service to our country in Iraq and also your support for his service. Both of you are heroes in our eyes. God Bless.

Mitchell Gore

May 15, 2006

LaNita and Family,

I am deeply saddened to hear about Bryant. I served with Bryant in Korea in 2000 at Camp Howze. He was a great part in making that year the most memorable of my time in service. He was a great leader that knew how to motivate while keeping a positive fun loving attitude. I know that everyone who has ever served with Bryant will miss him. The world is definitely not as bright as it was with him in it.

KENNETH NEAL

May 14, 2006

FROM THE MEMBERS OF THE 341ST SPACE WING, 341ST SECURITY FORCES GROUP, 741ST MISSILE SECURITY FORCES SQUADRON, MOBILE FIRETEAMS JACKAL FLIGHT (SFOF-1), MALMSTROM AIR FORCE BASE, MONTANA. WE SEND OUR DEEPEST CONDOLENCES AND UTMOST RESPECT TO THE FAMILY OF SFC HERLEM. HIS FAMILY IS IN OUR HEARTS AND PRAYERS AS ARE THE REST OF OUR NATIONS GUARDIANS. WE WISH TO SEND A SPECIAL MESSAGE TO MRS BEGRIN WHO IS SERVING IN ONE OF THE TOUGHEST JOBS IN THE WORLD, AS AN AIR FORCE WIFE. YOUR BROTHER WILL BE MISSED.

Bob and Barbara

May 14, 2006

You are in our thoughts and prayers. Know that we, as do many others, appreciate Bryant being willing to pay the ultimate price for freedom. May God bless you as you go through this tragic ordeal.

Jeffrey Branom

May 13, 2006

I was so sorry to hear about Bryant. I served with him in Korea and he was a truely wonderful person. I will miss him greatly.

Jill Fairley

May 12, 2006

To the family of SFC Bryant A. Herlem: Please accept my sincere condolences on the loss of you beloved soldier. May God help you find comfort during this difficult time. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Terry Tower

May 11, 2006

To the family of SSG Bryant Herlem, my family and I would like to express our condolences for the loss of your soldier. Our son is

1 Lt. Daniel Tower who perviously servered as the XO for the HHT at Fort Hood and he had great admiration for Bryant. He said that SSG Herlem was a great example of leadership, hard work and he had a great senser of humor. Dan also felt that not only was Bryant a great soldier but a great person as well. Our thought and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Sincerely, the Tower Family

RICHARD & JO ANN LOPEZ

May 11, 2006

LANITA AND HERLEM FAMILY:

OUR PRAYERS AND THOUGHTS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. MAY GOD GIVE YOU THE STRENGTH AND PEACE THROUGH YOUR TIME OF SORROW..GOD BLESS YOU...OUR SON JOEL Z LOPEZ IS IN BAGDAD AND IS IN THE SAME UNIT WITH SGT. HERLEM.

Debi Craig

May 11, 2006

LaNita and family, I am sorry to hear about Bryant. I served with him in the 2174th in Martinsville, VA. He was always a good soldier and good person. We will keep you and your family in our thoughts and prayers.

Candice Robinson

May 11, 2006

America has lost a truely great and honorable man. I, as well as my family, will always appriciate the sacrifice he made for his country. For his family, may God bless you and help you through this difficult time.

Bill Johnson

May 11, 2006

Lanita and Family, I really don't know what to say I was really stunned when I saw the article in the paper. I served with Bryant in Det 2, 2174th USAG in Martinsville and also was in Germany with him when our unit was deployed for Joint Endevor/Guard. Bryant was a good man and a good soldier. He was the type of person you could always depend on.

I know that he really loved the Army and enjoyed what he did he will be sorely missed but not forgotten.

Craig & Irene

May 10, 2006

You can be very proud of Bryant. I do not know you but I want to thank Bryant for keeping us free in the good old USA. I lost my daddy 1 month ago and he was in 2 wars. May God Bless and keep you and your family safe. Our love and prayers are with you at this time. I know that it is hard but hang in there and remember that Jesus loves you and so do we

Penny Schneider

May 10, 2006

My heartfelt prayers to you and your family. While I've never met you or your husband, as a military wife I feel we are all a "family".

mishila garcia

May 10, 2006

My prayers & condolences are with the Herlem's and there friends as they go through this diffucult time. May God comfort you and keep you. Cast your burdens on the Lord. He cares for you. Let him carry you through this. Although, our questions are unanswered and hearts broken let him mend and heal your heart.

May HE comfort your soul,

God Bless you

Mishila Garcia

(another soldiers wife)

Jennifer Vance

May 10, 2006

There is no amount of words to express my sorrow for your family, I too am a Military wife, and just want you to know your family is in my daily prayers. May God Be With You.

Nadine Albrecht

May 10, 2006

Bryant,

It's taken me a while to think about what it is I'd like to write to you. First off, I'd say Thank You! You were a hero when I met you and now forever more. I know that your friendship has blessed Kevin. LaNita is amazing and making you so proud. You two are forever in my hearts. You can look down at her from up above and know that she continues to be a proud Army wife. May God Bless and keep the both of you.

Nancy Endries

May 10, 2006

LaNita and The Herlem Family, My condolences are with you. Bryant was an extraordinary Soldier and a hero.We will continue to keep you in our thoughts and prayers. Godspeed, Sincerely, Nancy Endries

Cindy Kelly

May 10, 2006

LaNita,

Signing this guestbook has been one the most difficult things I have ever done. I know I have never met you but your husband was so very important to my son I feel a very unique bond. It should comfort you to know what a great man and soldier Bryant was. Geoff will always remember him and you both will forever be in my heart and prayers. His men loved him very much. I am so very sorry for your loss and pray for peace. Proud Army Mom.

Dianne Werner

May 8, 2006

To the family of SFC Bryant A. Herlem--Please accept my sincere condolences on the loss of you beloved soldier. "I will turn their mourning into gladness; I will give them comfort and joy instead of sorrow." declares the Lord Jeremiah 31:13

A Proud 172 Stryker Mom

t b

May 8, 2006

he looks like a very nice man. he had

a great smile. he must love you very

much. he will be watching over you.

remember the good times.

Dawn Carr

May 8, 2006

LaNita,

I'm not sure what to say, I'm so so sorry. I can rememeber being around Bryant at family functions and feeling so safe he always made me smile and laugh. I was always so excited to see him. I loved hearing him speak and listinging to his stories. I love you and Bryant dearly. Lots of love always. Dawn Carr

Sarah Gardner

May 7, 2006

LaNita: I admire your courage and strength! I'm sure that this expirence will create a lifelong friendship - especially since you're my sister-in-law! You can call or write anytime! I am so sorry for your loss.

Bryant: My Big Brother. Although we never met in person, we are bonded in spirit. You have forever touched my life. I am proud of you, you are my hero! Please watch down on us girls and guide us. And keep some Coronas cold for whenever I arrive! Thank you & I love you.

JODY SMITH-GONZALEZ

May 6, 2006

Hi La Nita it's me....JODY

I too have known Bryant for many many many years. Actually, since kindergarten/first grade. Bryant has always been a true friend and a great inspiration to me (as well as sarcastic, hilarious, and GENUINE!). I have recently been in contact with Bryant and his wonderful wife, La Nita. Bryant contacted me through Classmates.com about 6 years ago, and boy was I happy to hear from him. I have always been proud to know Bryant and to be his friend. I will never forget our days in school, all the times hanging out in our favorite classrooms and enjoying our friendships with friends like Brian "FLEA", and Kelly and others like them. I can also remember the day he told me that he was going to the Army. I have never felt so patriotic and proud to have such a dear friend serve and protect our country. Such wonderful and sweet memories are held in my heart and I am so grateful that our liberties and freedoms here in America have been, and still are being, protected by Sgt. Bryant Herlem and others that are still serving to protect us overseas.

I pray for the family of the other soldier (I apologize I forgot his name)I know that peace and comfort will soon come, their sacrifice has not been in vain. I am proud to be an American, and definitely proud to be Bryant and La Nita Herlem's friend.

All my love and prayers,

Michelle Foster

May 6, 2006

LaNita,

Words can not express my sorrow for your loss. Bryant was a wonderful man and a true hero. I know you loved him deeply. Know that my heart goes out to you and that I keep you in my prayers. May God bless you and keep you strong.

Karen Harrell

May 6, 2006

Lanita, Again let me express my deepest sympathy to you and Bryant's family. I love you and will be praying for you each day. I only met Bryant that one time long ago, but I know he was a great man because you loved him so. He sacrificed all he had so others could know freedom. We miss you. God Bless!

Mike Young

May 6, 2006

Bryant:

We are deeply saddened by the ultimate sacrifice you've made but proud of the legacy you leave behind. All of us at American Standard are proud to have known you as the true soldier you have always been. I personally am proud to have stood with you and as a Veteran, I am ever humbled by the commitment you have shown, the attitude you displayed, and the fervor in which you performed your duties. It is with great sadness that we let go as you ascend to the ultimate battlefield in the sky. Rest in peace my friend as we stand at your feet and honor you for the man you truly are and the ultimate sacrifice you made so that all of us can live in freedom. Your legacy lives on as a tribute to your real value as an "Americcan Soldier". You will be sadly missed, but forgotten never. LaNita Has stepped up with strength we have never seen before to honor the man who was, and is her true love. She is doing you proud buddy. Until we meet again as soldiers who have served our country, I will surely miss you. Save a place for me as I want to stand beside you again.

Courtney Harris

May 5, 2006

LaNita,

I am so proud to have known Bryant and am thankful that I was luckey enough to have meet him. I am eased in knowing that Geoff learned everything he knows from such a fine soldier. You and SGT Gomez' families are in my prayers as well as SGT Herlem and SGT Gomez. Thank you for everything that you did for me and for all that SGT Herlem did for Geoff. I know that all of his boys over there will keep him them and he will never be forgotten.

Tammy Clark

May 5, 2006

I find it hard to imagine what you are going through. I did not personally know Bryant; although I did meet him on several occasions, but I feel as though I knew him very well because of you and the love you have for him. He is a very special person and I will always treasure the emails and photos that you shared with me and my family. I will treasure those photos of you both and remember the love you have for one another. You are a good friend and I will always be here for you either by telephone or email. I think of you daily and also remember Bryant in my thoughts and prayers.

Erin Shue

May 5, 2006

I am so sorry for your loss. It is every Army wives worst nightmare. You are in my prayers. Hugs to you. Your husband was a hero and will continue to be remembered!

jackie bartlett

May 5, 2006

I am so sorry about your loss. Bryant was a great man that done a great job for his country. I am very proud that he represented my country and I am very sorry for your loss. Thank you, as a military wife, for your sacrifice. I wish I could take some of the pain from you and lighten your load. ((((HUGS))))

Wendy Lynskey

May 5, 2006

LaNita, As I said on the phone with you, I can't even imagine your loss, Bryant was your best friend, just as Jimmy is mind. My heart aches for you, and Bryant would be so proud of you right now. I want to thank you and Bryant for the sacrifics you have made to help keep us safe. I want to extend that thanks to all the military men/women and their families. I am truely sadden by your loss, it really was a wake up call that we need to pray every night and morning for our soldiers. LaNita you should be so proud of Bryant, and cherish every memory, for I know Bryant has his arms around you right now, from heaven. He is walking beside you, and I know he is so proud.

Wendy Lynskey (Bassett, VA)

[email protected]

MSG Marvin Tim Chisom USAR Retired

May 5, 2006

LaNita,

Bryant may be gone but he certainly will never be forgotten. It was an honor and pleasure to have served with him in Detachment 2, 2174th USAG here in Martinsville. He was a steadfast friend and dedicated soldier and he died doing what he knew was right and honorable. We all will miss him deeply. May God Bless you and keep you safe.

Beverly Keaton

May 5, 2006

Lanita,

I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. I am extremely proud of your husband and all that he has done for our country. Stay strong and lean on God. He will carry you through!

Royster "Jay" Johnson

May 5, 2006

Our thoughts are with you and Sgt. Gomez' families. We are proud that our son was able to serve with and learn from an execptional soldier. Knowing that Geoff was serving with Bryant was a source of comfort to us throughout this deployment. I was honored to have been able to correspond with Bryant and regret deeply that I will not be able to meet him. His legacy will live on in the soldiers that he trained and led. His service exemplifes the concepts of Duty, Honor, and Country.

Rico Cruz

May 5, 2006

Lanita,

I am very sorry for your loss. Through the emails you have written about Bryant, it is obvious that he was a great and honorable man. May God be with you always, as he is with Bryant now.

Stephanie Turner

May 5, 2006

I was so sorry to hear about your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Denise Morris

May 5, 2006

"When I pray, you answer me; and encourage me by giving me the strength I need"- Psalm 138:3

Lanita,
Just to let you know I am still thinking about you and praying for you and the entire family. I pray for your travel mercy as you venture to California next week to face a duty that I can't even imagine. I pray your heart is strengthened in this difficult time. Bryant will be missed by so many-God Bless Him!!
Love,

Denise

Tony Fields

May 5, 2006

LaNita, my thoughts and prayers are with you. I appreciate Bryant's committment to serving and protecting our country and its freedoms. God has blessed you and He will see you through this time. Keep the faith.

Evelyn Thompson

May 5, 2006

I meet Bryant a couple of times and he is a great guy, he will be missed. LaNita and family are in my prayers.

Xymena Goodridge

May 5, 2006

LaNita,

I am so saddened by Bryant's passing. It makes me only thank God more and more each day that we have such courageous men and women fighting for our country. Know that God will see you through this time, and He will always be there, right beside you, holding your hand along the way. I am glad I met you and Bryant, and I will forever be a part of your life. Jose and Bryant are also MY heroes. I love you LaNita!

Paige Tate

May 5, 2006

Hey Bryant, we've been telling your story to everyone we know, and it's inspiring people who weren't paying attention to check in on their friends and family who are serving our country. Your sacrifice was a wake-up call for so many, myself especially. I never imagined this happening to one of my friends. Nita is doing you proud, dude. She's helping others cope with your loss, at a time when she would surely be forgiven for withdrawing for awhile. She loved you more than anything, and it shows in the way she honors your memory. You will never be forgotten.

"Those who have long enjoyed such priveledges as we enjoy, forget in time that men have died to win them" Franklin D. Roosevelt

Brian Franklin

May 4, 2006

LaNita and the Herlem family - I am so sorry for your loss. You are all in my prayers.

Bryant, a true American, and was one of my closest friends (though we hadn't been in contact in years); we were high school buddies. He was a major factors for me going into the Army. I miss his friendship already. From the time I met him, he always talked about having an Army career. I am glad that he pursued his dream; I have no doubt that he was instrumental in making better lives for the Iraqi people. I am proud of his service!

Bryant, I haven't seen you since high school...and, well, now won't be seeing you for a while (at least hopefully not). But when that day does come, please have at least a case ready for me when I arrive - traveling makes me thirsty!

Thanks for your friendship and service. Rest in peace, buddy!

LaNita Herlem

May 4, 2006

My loving, wonderful husband... How do I say goodbye? How do I go through life without your voice, your smell, your touch? We loved deeply, and through your love and strength and God Almighty, I will find my way and make you proud. Wait for me and when God calls my name, we will be together again. My pain is deep, so deep, but my pride in you is infinite. You will always be my love and my hero. I LOVE YOU BABE.

Amy Tippie

May 4, 2006

To the Herlem Family... My thoughts and prayers are with you now and in the days to come. Please know that I and the rest of my family hold your family dear as you mourn the loss of your Hero. He will forever be remembered and honored for the sacrifice he made on behalf of our country. Stay proud, stay strong. May God Bless you all. From a Proud Mother (Spc TJ Carrillo, KIA 06-28-05, Baghdad, Iraq)

Cathy Adams

May 4, 2006

Lanita, I wanted you to know I'm thinking of You!! I was just surfing around and found this guest book. I love you and I am praying for you. PLEASE call me or if you prefer to email note my address at work. I can usually respond quicker. I grieve with you! Love ya!

Jamie Graves

May 4, 2006

God Bless SGT.Herlem's family/friends..

Land of the free,because of the brave..Thank you for the ultimate sacrifice, you will never be forgotten..

Navy wife~

Pat Canfall

May 3, 2006

My condolences to the Herlem family.

Bryant may you rest in peace. Thank you for making the ultimate sacrifice in the name of freedom. You have earned your golden halo and wings. May you continue to soar in the heavenly clouds up above.

May 3, 2006

To the Family of Staff Sgt. Bryant A. Herlem:

My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courgeous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life. We lost a son 12/1/05.

I know first hand there are no words right now that will bring you the comfort and peace you need. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you mourn this loss. We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with. I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally, but none of these courageous men and women will be forgotten. They will never be able to be replaced, but sometime, someday your loving memories will help to sustain you. This courageous soldier will forever now be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well. To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort. When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero. God Bless this courageous soldier and family.

Pam Adams (SFC Brent Adams, KIA 12/1/05 Ramadi, Iraq)

[email protected]

(Millersville, PA )

Anna Makin

May 3, 2006

my thought are with you and your family as well with Jose's family ,

i am the aAunt of missy Jose's grilfriend , I am very sorry for your lose , may god bless you and keep your love one close in your heart

Henryk Zaleski (USN-Ret)

May 3, 2006

Rest in peace at your last post in paradise.

May 2, 2006

Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

Phyllis Schuster

May 2, 2006

Our family shares the loss of another soldier to this difficult war. Your love for Bryant is larger than anything we can quantify in a guest book. But we lost our son, Spc. Benjamin Schuster to sniper fire on February 25, 2006, after only 9 days in country. Whose life matters any more or less in this terrible conflict? Each person is loved and valued and held precious by his or her own family and friends. We hold Bryant as loved and honored and important as our son Benjamin in every way, since each, for their own, was willing to give all. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time, and as long as we remember Ben, which will be as long as we live.

ROBYN GARSIDE

May 2, 2006

MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. PLEASE ACCEPT MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES FOR YOUR GREAT LOSS. KNOW THAT YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN AND THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE ON. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. GODSPEED. SEMPER FI

MARINE MOM

Barbara Hall

May 2, 2006

I am a civilian working for the Army. I take pride in supporting the efforts of the soldiers. Each day that I am on the job I think of these sacrifices and will never ever forget. I used to be a soldier myself and understand the desire to serve that these men and women have in their hearts. Bless you all. My heart goes out to you.

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