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VALDEPENAS, LANCE CORPORAL ERIC P., 21, of Seekonk, MA was killed in action in Fallujah, Iraq serving on Active Duty in the USMC.

Born in Providence, he was the son of Dr. and Mrs. Jesus B. Valdepenas of Seekonk.

Besides his parents, he is survived by his brothers and sisters: Edna-Anne Valdepenas of Newtown, PA, Marie-Ines Drury of North Providence, Sean J. Valdepenas of Columbia, SC, Neil P. Valdepenas of Phoenix, AZ, Nora-Jean V. Lough of Warwick, Karen B. Ing of Randolph, MA, Teresa J. Valdepenas of Brookline, MA and seven nieces and nephews.

Raised in Seekonk, Eric attended George R. Martin School, St. Margaret's School, and Bishop Hendricken High School. He was a communicant of Our Lady of Mount Carmel Church in Seekonk. Eric was studying for an engineering degree at UMASS-Amherst, but postponed his studies to join the Marine Corps to fight for his country.

Calling hours will be Wednesday, September 13, 2006 from 3-7 p.m. at the PERRY-McSTAY FUNERAL HOME, 2555 Pawtucket Avenue, East Providence. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held Thursday, September 14, 2006 at the Cathedral of SS. Peter and Paul in Providence at 11 a.m. Burial will be private.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be sent to the Lance Corporal Eric P. Valdepenas Memorial Scholarship Fund at Bishop Hendricken High School, 2615 Warwick Avenue, Warwick, RI 02889. Condolences may be sent to the Valdepenas family at P.O. Box 95, Seekonk, MA 02771.

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Published by The Providence Journal on Sep. 11, 2006.

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jb

September 4, 2015

not forgotten

Mitch Foresti

June 12, 2014

Met your other sister today at our LAX banquet. Wish I had a chance to know you.

Luke

June 8, 2014

Hey Eric, saw a fellow member of the JV Basketball squad today and your name came up! Had the best times of our lives with you back in the day!!! Never forgotten, always remembered.

mike stricklin

September 5, 2013

L. Cpl.
a salute to you. Because of Cormac you are in many peoples mind and spirit. time flies

Kristen Mackinnon

September 4, 2013

Thinking of you today- RIP

Eileen Mackinnon

September 4, 2013

Wearin of the RED Eric every Friday.....you and your family are never far from my thoughts and prays.........

Eileen Mackinnon

January 11, 2013

Happy Birthday Eric.....Wearin of the RED on RED FRIDAY.............

October 1, 2012

I will be eternally grateful to Eric for his service and sacrifice.

Eileen Mackinnon

September 6, 2012

Never forgotten Eric......Wearin of the RED on Red Friday..........

Peggy Childers

September 4, 2011

To the family and friends of Lance Cpl. Eric P. Valdepenas:
Please accept my remembrance of Eric on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.

September 4, 2011

It has been five years and I think of you and your family every Friday as I wear my RED....I hope in someway that your family can feel my prayers. You will never be forgotten...

Mary Connolly

August 31, 2011

To the family and friends of Lance CPL Eric Valdepenas, Please know that Eric has not been forgotten. You are in our thoughts and prayers. The Eastern MA Blue Star Mothers

January 10, 2011

Eric you are the reason I wear red on friday Happy Birthday.......

Jim

September 6, 2010

You have not been forgoten Eric.

Peggy Childers

September 4, 2010

To the family and friends of Lance Cpl. Eric P. Valdepenas:
Remembering Eric on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Eileen Mackinnon

August 31, 2010

As we approach your four-year anniversary, I wanted to make sure you are never forgotten....... On Sunday, September 5, 2010, The Pawtucket Redsox's at McCoy Stadium will honor your memory. I only knew you a very short time but you have touched my life. The gift you gave my daughter for her birthday came in a red basket and I still have the red basket. It is ironic that it is red. It sits on my vanity, and Eric, you and what you stood for are never far from my thoughts...Your family too....Your Mom, Dad, and family did a great job in raising you. Your sister said it so well... We should all try to strive to embrace life as you did.........Thank You Eric for making our world a better place........Gob Bless........

Marie Drury

January 11, 2010

As today we celebrate your birthday, you have left a legacy that continues to be expressed by your nieces and newphews. Only you have taught them through your example the real meaning of Carpe Diem. Our hearts will be saddened by your absence but they are also filled with the many memories and your big contagious smile.

We can only strive to embrace life as you had, little brother. With love and peace, we will remember you always.

Peggy Childers

September 4, 2009

To the family of Lance Cpl. Eric P. Valdepenas:
Eric gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Kenna Larra

March 21, 2009

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Sincerely,
Kenna

In Memory of Eric ~ (Debra Estep)

September 4, 2008

Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.


The Wind on The Downs

“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”

(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )

Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….

“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”


I did not know Eric, but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !

~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~

The Other Side

i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.

can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.

i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side

the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)

“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008


The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
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Sincerely,

Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB

Remembering The Fallen – Blog
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Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
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June 3, 2008

You are remembered and respected. Thank you Lance Cpl Valdepenas!

Marie Young (Fincik)

June 2, 2008

Dear Valdepeñas Family,

I went to Bayview with Edna-Anne Valdepeñas (Class '86) and wanted to let you know you are in my thoughts in prayers during your very difficult time.

Sal Valdepena

April 26, 2008

I am sorry for your loss. God bless your family during this difficult time. Your son is and always will be a HERO.

ronilo Valdepenas

January 5, 2008

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

July 31, 2007

Thank you for the sacrifice made by Lance Cpl Valdepenas and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!

LINDA SHOEMAKER

March 22, 2007

Dear Valdepenas Family,

We just wanted to write and tell you we have not forgotten you all or Val. We know that you all continue to miss Val as much as we miss our son Jared. It has been a hard six months--but we are so proud of Val and Jared. They were faithful to the end and I know the Lord is blessing them--

Thinking of you;our hearts are with you--

Ken and Linda Shoemaker

Kimberly Smith

October 18, 2006

i Cannot express how sorry i am for your loss. Knowing that my Brother was a close friend and bunkmate of Eric's while in Iraq, i hope that if there is anything i can do to help, you will not hesitate to ask.

Tom Gugliuzza-Smiths

October 8, 2006

My heartfelt sympathy to the Valdepenas family in the loss of Eric. I did not know Eric, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. Eric you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom

To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~

Bunny Menges

October 2, 2006

Your son gave his life defending what we all take too much for granted - our freedom. All Americans should never forget such sacrifice.

The pain of your loss must be unbearable. May you always hold warm memories in your hearts.

God bless you and your family . . .

Jennifer Kirby

September 21, 2006

To the Family & Friends of Eric,



Deeply saddened by the loss of another great hero. May he live on in your hearts.

Sister of Sgt. Ronald Kirby (1/25)

Kelly Cavanagh

September 20, 2006

I was shocked and saddened when I heard of Eric's death. I knew him fairly well from kindergarten through 8th grade. Although we werent very close, I still considered him to be a good friend. Eric always had such a strong heart and was the type of young man that parents could be proud of. I just saw eric when he was on his last trip home, it had been so long since we parted ways for high school. It must be very painful to have lost a son, but you must be very proud of the man he was and how much he accomplished in life. I hope the best for the Valdepenas family and that some joy of memories of eric fill their hearts.

Lisa

September 20, 2006

My prayers are with you and your family, at this time. I hope that one day you will find peace and someday (we) as a nation will find peace.

God Bless you!

Donna Freeland

September 20, 2006

To the Valdepenas Family:

My deepest sympathies to you on the loss of your son. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time. May you find peace in the Lord. God bless our fallen sons.

Donna Freeland (Mother of 2LT Matthew Coutu KIA 27June05)

Madison

September 20, 2006

To the Valdepenas family: I am so deeply grieved to hear of your lost. I cannot even begin to imagine how you must be feeling at this time. I did not have the pleasure of knowing Eric personally,but he seemed to be a man of real character and strong belief. No doubt he looks forward to the promise held out for him in John 5: 28, 29 of enjoying life on a beautiful, paradise earth full of peace, the very thing he was fighting for. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.

Rev. Liz Wold

September 19, 2006

To the Valdepenas family-May you know the comfort of God's grace and be held in God's loving, gentle hands. Thank you for Eric and this incredible sacrifice for our freedom and way of life. You are surrounded by the love, support and caring of community, especially the military families who have experienced this sudden and painful emptiness. May your guardian angel Eric watch over you. Please know that you are forever in our prayers and that Eric will never be forgotten. God bless you. Semper Fidelis. Respectfully, Rev. Liz Wold

September 19, 2006

To the Family of Lance Cpl. Eric P. Valdepenas:

My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courgeous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life. We lost a son 12/1/05 and it seems like yesterday.

I know first hand there are no words right now that will bring you the comfort and peace you need. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you mourn this loss. We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with. I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally, but none of these courageous men and women will be forgotten. They will never be able to be replaced, but sometime, someday your loving memories will help to sustain you. This courageous soldier will forever now be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well. To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is those wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever. If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero. God Bless this courageous soldier and family.

Pam Adams (SFC Brent Adams, KIA 12/1/05 Ramadi, Iraq)

[email protected]

(Millersville, PA )

ROBYN GARSIDE

September 17, 2006

MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. PLEASE ACCEPT MY DEEPEST SYMPATHIES FOR YOUR GREAT LOSS. KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE ON FOR YOU. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. STAY STRONG AND GODSPEED. SEMPER FI



A PROUD MARINE MOM

Thankful Citizen

September 15, 2006

To the Valdepenas Family,

My thoughts and prayers are sent to you all along with your son Eric. Yesterday I was part of your son's service as a police officer on a motorcycle. It did me great honor to help give Eric the moving tribute that he so deserved. As I stood at attention at the cathedral, as Eric was carried out by his fellow Marines and thorugh the corridor of Hendricken family gathered, tears rolled down my eyes for you all. May he rest in peace. Remeber that he is everyone's hero.

JAMES LUTZ

September 14, 2006

TO THE VALDEPENAS FAMILY, THIS IS A GREAT LOSS TO ALL OF US.TO ME IT IS A DEEPLY FELT TIME OF GRIEF.I AM PROUD TO SAY I WAS IN THE MARINE CORPS FOR 8YEARS AND I CAN ALSO SAY THAT I AM PROUD TO BE A BROTHER TO L/CPL VALDEPENAS.YOUR BRAVERY WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. SGT LUTZ J.M.

A retired Marine.

September 14, 2006

Dear Dr. Valdepenas and family,

Every Marine that ever served grieves along with you on the sad occasion of your brave son's passing while in defense of this country.

We will be ever mindful of his supreme sacrifice, and will be forever comrades in arms.

God bless you.

SF

Sandra Lindsay

September 14, 2006

You don't know me ,but i tuly understand your great loss.I lost my nephew 2LT Matthew S. Coutu in Bagdad in June of 05.We are all proud of their dedication to our country.Deepest and sincere sympathy on the loss of your fallen hero.

John J. McKenna III

September 14, 2006

Valdepenas Family



Thr family of Captain John J McKenna IV KIA in Iraq on 8/16/06 extend our heartfelt condolences to your family. We understand your pain and it is shared by all of Eric's Marine family. Our prayers will be with you and Eric , forever.

Joe Cooney '03

September 13, 2006

Dear Valdepenas family, I was truely saddened and shocked to hear what happened to Eric. He is a true patriot, a true friend, and a wonderful human being that will never be forgotten. It was an honor to go to Hendricken and graduate with Eric. May he rest in heavenly peace.

Donna and Bill Carosi

September 13, 2006

Dear Dr.Valdepenas,Your wife,and all the children; I did not know Eric, but his courage and strength will be yours to carry on in his honor... It seems like a heavy burden at this moment but as did Jesus, we will all help carry this CROSS with you...In memory of ERIC and all those who lost their lives to protect us : UNITED we stand together.

Sandra Miranda

September 13, 2006

Dear Valdepenas Family,



Please know that our hearts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time. Although we don't know you personally, we have a son who is a Cpl in the USMC and is currently serving in Iraq and we felt the need to share our sympathies with you. May God Bless you and your family.



Chief & Mrs. Norman Miranda (Rehoboth, MA)

Steven Howitt

September 13, 2006

Eric will not be forgotten. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this most difficult time.

Louise Pereira

September 13, 2006

Dear Valdepenas Family,

We did not know Eric in life but he is still very dear in our hearts. He gave his life to keep our country safe and so we may have freedom. God will carry you through (Footprints)and always be by you side. I have a son who is also a Marine and has been in Iraq twice, he also sends his sympathy to the family. God bless you.

DJ Manuel

September 12, 2006

Dr. Valdepenas and Family,



My prayers are with you...



2 Corinthians 1:2-5 Grace and peace to you from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ. {3} Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, {4} who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God. {5} For just as the sufferings of Christ flow over into our lives, so also through Christ our comfort overflows.



From: Reliant Pharma

Barbara Kwasny

September 12, 2006

May God comfort you and your family

during this time of sorrow.



Sincerely,

Baystate Medical Center School of

Nursing Alumni Association

jean matteson

September 12, 2006

i'm so sorry for your loss. your son and your family are in my prayers.

Mickey & Dave

September 12, 2006

Our thoughts and prayers are with Eric's family at this very difficult time.



Although we didn't know Eric in life, we met him in death. He's a true hero. Our thoughts and prayers are with him.



"His love lives on in the lives he touched with his gentle caring way. In the words he spoke, in the hearts he warmed, in the joy he brought each day."



Rest in Peace, Eric

Mark Wonders

September 12, 2006

To Eric's family and friends:

Through your sorrow, remember our nation grieves along with you, and that Eric's service and ultimate sacrifice at this critical time in history will never be forgotten.

Maria

September 11, 2006

Dear Dr. Val and Family,

We worked together at Fatima during the '80's. I was truly saddened to hear about your son. May God bless you and be with you in your time of grief.

Anderson Family

September 11, 2006

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of saddness. We did not know Eric, but we know he died a hero fighting for our country. For that we are greatful.

Karen and Dale

September 11, 2006

To DR Valdepenas and Family, Our thoughts and prayers our with your family at this time. May your memories of Eric bring you comfort.

September 11, 2006

My thoughts and prayers are with Eric's family at this difficult time. Although I did not know Eric, I want you all to know how much I appreciate and admire his heroic efforts in serving our country. He is a true hero and will never be forgotten. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you always.

James Shemenski & Family

September 11, 2006

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Mary Rego

September 11, 2006

To: The Valdepenas Family,

Our prayers and thoughts are with you. May God Bless Eric and all of you.

Sincerely,

The Rego Family

Rumford,RI

September 11, 2006

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

sherry marfeo

September 11, 2006

Dr Valdepenas and Family



Our deepest prayers and thoughts go out to you and your family at this very difficult time.



Your patient

Sherry Marfeo & Gary Pina and Family

Dorothy Rogers

September 11, 2006

Our deepest sympathy to the family of Valdenpenas, our hearts and prayers to our hero's who served our country.



The staff of Slase's Ferry Bank

(Seekonk Branch)

Mr. Lamoureux & Family

September 11, 2006

Dear Teresa and Valdepenas Family,

We would like to extend our deepest sympathies for your loss. We will pray for your strength in these trying times.

Jack Murphy

September 11, 2006

My sincerest condolences to the Valdepenas family. Eric was a very brave and admirable young man. May you take comfort in the great memories you have of him.



(A friend of Ed and Lori Flynn)

jack Cute

September 11, 2006

Thank you Eric,for laying down your life, to protect our nation. May you rest in peace, and your family know that many like I, care . Jack Cute, USAF

The Ross Family

September 11, 2006

With heartfelt condolences to the family and friends of an American Hero. May the memories of your beloved bring you comfort. May his courage and strength help you through the most difficult times. Thank You for your services to our country.



We did not know Eric or his family, but we did want to send our condolences to you and to thank you.

Dr. & Mrs. Louis M. Damiani

September 11, 2006

Deepest sympathies.

Don & Lisa Talbot

September 8, 2006

We offer our most sincere condolences to the family of LCpl Eric Valdepenas. Your sacrifice will always be cherished and remembered by our family. Our son is a Marine with the 1/25 serving his country in Iraq.

Joshua and April Morales

September 8, 2006

To Eric's family and friends-

My family and I are praying for you and your family during this difficult time. We send our deepest empathy as we lost our Marine on 11/30/05 in Fallujah. We are comforted to know that our Marines are serving their country with such honor and bravery. We are so proud of our Marines and all of our other service men and women for all that they have done and continue to do to keep us safe and to give us the freedom we have that so many take for granted.

They are true Heroes and need to always be remembered for their selflessness and sacrifice to better our world. We will forever be united in the loss of our heros. We are so sorry for your loss and hope our words will ease some of the pain, and maybe fill some of your emptiness.

Yesterday, Today, Forever – Semper Fi - Marines!

Our sincerest gratitude for their bravery-

The family of Cpl. William "Billy" Taylor

2/6 WPNS

KIA outside of Fallujah 11/30/05

Claire Zawistowski

September 8, 2006

Dear Valdepenas Family

Even though we have never met I feel as if we are a part of a "family". My daughter's fiancee was killed in Iraq by an IED on Oct. 3, 2005. It is my prayer that you will feel God holding as close to His heart as He has held my family these past months. May you feel His peace and comfort as you face the difficult days ahead.

Caileen Fitzgerald

September 8, 2006

Americans are safer today because of the bravery of Eric and his fellow Marines. My thoughts and prayers are with the Valdepenas family.



From: Girlfriend of a Marine currently serving with 1/25 in Iraq.

Lee Sirotnak

September 8, 2006

Please accept our sympathy for your loss, and our prayers that God provide you peace and comfort. Eric will live on in the hearts of many Marine families, who recognize his honor and courage and who will be here to support your family with prayer. Semper Fi and God Bless.

sandra cross

September 7, 2006

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Renee Owens

September 7, 2006

Please accept my deepest sympathy for the loss of your Hero and my sincere thanks for his service. May God grant you peace.



The Land of the Free, Because of the Brave



Aunt of Marine PFC Chase Edwards

KIA 4-6-06

Garnet Jenkins

September 7, 2006

My Deepest and most heartfelt sympathy goes out to the family of Lance Cpl. Eric P. Valdepenas.

The price this young hero and his family have paid for this country and for freedom, WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN.

There is so much thanks to be given, for these young heroes, for their Courage, Service and Dedication.

May Eric rest safely in God's Mighty Hands and may God's Loving Comfort and Grace be with the Valdepenas family.

I am the sister of such a young hero, who made the Ultimate Sacrifice in Vietnam, many years ago.



" What we once enjoyed and deeply loved we can never lose,

for all that we love deeply becomes a part of us"

~ Helen Keller ~



May the memories of your loved one live in your heart always.

Softly and slowly....

Time heals...

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