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Merideth Howard Obituary
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for Merideth Howard
115 Entries
Charlie Gili
November 3, 2022
Hello,
We wanted you to know that we will be honoring and remembering your loved one this holiday season. We are sending Care Packages to our deployed troops in his name. Each package will carry the name, photo, service branch, rank and hometown of Merideth L. Howard US Army Sergeant 1st Class.
We realize that this is a small tribute, but we do this with all respect and sincerity and we want you to know that it is made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals from across the American youth hockey community, their families, friends and many others who support our mission.
We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you safe and strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of our US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign
David Braceros
May 31, 2021
Memorial Day 2021
Still remembered by all, Mimi. Still missed.
MSG (Ret) David Braceros
David Braceros
May 31, 2021
Memorial Day, 2021
Still remembered by all of us, Mimi. Still missed.
MSG (Ret) David Braceros
Robert McLaughlin
March 31, 2021
I remember her well and think of her often. We were at Ft Bragg together and had enough similarities in our past to hang out with one another. She was always smiling. I know it has been many years but we are a lesser country without her here. I can't imagine the family feelings. Mine haven't gone away so I know theirs haven't either. if you are reading this, we have not forgotten. She will always be in my heart.
MSG (ret) Robert C McLaughlin
Michael Horn
September 7, 2020
It has been 14 years since that terrible day. My dear sister-in-law - you are not forgotten. Your service and sacrifice remain alive in my military classroom every day in South Korea where I've been coordinating instruction in convoy operations and 'convoy live fire' since March of 2013. I keep your warrior spirit alive in the hearts of our new soldiers.
Cara Ward
May 25, 2020
It's been well over a decade now, but I still think of her. Especially on Memorial Day. We were bunk mates at Bragg before deployment. She was headed to Afghanistan and I was headed to Iraq. A bunch of us went out one night, and I won the flaming hot oyster eating challenge with her encouragement. I was just a Specialist back then, and Sgt. Howard was always very supportive and understanding of my young age and naive ways. One day I came back from training and her bunk was empty. Her unit had moved out. She left a note on my bunk, telling me to be careful since I was going to the "more dangerous" Iraq. I wish I could have said goodbye or thanked her for taking care of me. I also found a card her husband had written her still in the springs above her bed. I wonder if I still have it, and the note, buried in my memory boxes. I treasured them for years. In any case, I still think about her, and miss her...
Michael Mounts
May 24, 2017
I didn't know Meredith well but I did talk to her and Robert just before they rolled out of Bagram. They both were in good spirits and devoted to their mission. At all times, I wear a simple black wrist bracelet with their names and the date on it in their memory.
December 1, 2013
Now teaching IED Defeat to troops in Camp Carroll and Henry, Korea - every class is dedicated to her service and honor.
Brother-in-law
Mike Horn
Daegu, Republic of Korea
james fitzgerald
November 30, 2013
I did not know merideth but I carry here everywhere. While in Iraq years ago I received a knife in memory of her and I use it and carry it everywhere. May god bless her family gone but never forgotten
September 29, 2013
In memory and honor of SFC Meredith Howard. We will always be grateful to her for her service and sacrifice.
COL Margaret Haecherl
November 12, 2012
Mimi-
I'm thinking about you and your family today on Veteran's Day. Know that you will always be in our hearts and minds.
Joy Zz
November 11, 2012
Thinking of Merideth and all soldiers who have paid the ultimate price defending our freedom on this veterens day
LTC Mike Horn USA, ret
November 9, 2012
Thank you to all who pay rememberance to my dear sister-in-law. Merideth- may your country never forget you and all those who paid the ultimate price. May you and all that were killed and wounded not have done this in vain.
November 8, 2012
Approaching this Veteran's Day, we honor SFC Howard for her devotion to duty and sacrifice.
W Eklof, Medical Co., 34th Regiment, 24 Division. Korea 1954
H. P.
September 8, 2012
R.I.P. Merideth Howard
You gave all you could to save the freedom of people whom you never knew. You are now in heaven ,where you belong to be , with your almighty God and other comrades of you already there. Live good in heaven for an eternal life. You will not be forgotten.
SFC John Faircloth
September 21, 2011
Over 4 years ago I left a message on here saying I re-joined the Army in honor of this amazing woman and soldier. Today I am a SFC, too. I am deployed to Iraq now. I hope I have honored your memory SFC Howard.
Peggy Childers
September 9, 2011
September 8, 2011
To the family and friends of Sgt. 1st Class Merideth Howard:
Please accept my remembrance of Merideth on the anniversary of her passing and know that she will never be forgotten.
May 26, 2011
I did not know Merideth, but today I'm lighting a candle to honor her memory and thanking her for her sacrifice for my freedom. I salute her today for her service to our country. My prayers this memorial day weekend go out to her family and friends who I'm sure miss and loved her.
Sincerely, A Grateful American
March 6, 2011
Will not give my name but i was there straight after the explosion. I worked for a PSC protecting the U.S. Embassy at that time and took over the scene until US / UK forces arrived. As OIC at that time i dealt with the unfortunate giving of KIA over the radio and other things which had to been done. To the family they both were teated with respect and dignity from us and taken to American soil at the U.S. Embassy ASAP. I am sorry for your loss and has always been in my memory.
"H" Ex UK Airborne.
Michael Horn
February 21, 2011
ALCON:
There is a plaque in her honor at Bagram Airbase hospital according to "JP" a Special Forces Major from the 7th Group and a personal friend. His HQ signed a flag - and had it flown in an F-15E strike eagle on a weeks worth of combat missions. It is making its way back to me for family presentation.
LTC Mike Horn, USA, ret
(Merideth's brother-in-law)
CDR Candace Eckert, USN
February 20, 2011
I trained with SFC Howard in early 2006 at Ft. Bragg - we were all learning new Civil Affairs skills and things generally weren't very well organized. That caused a lot of the service members (Army, Navy, Air Force) to complain about how things were progressing, but not SFC Howard! I remember her for her sunny personality, bright smile, and the fact she looked at the bright side of everything!
I remember she received a box of cookies from a family member and shared them with us all - Those cookies were soooo good!!! I had a key-lime frosted cookie, and I can still remember how good it tasted. She was generous to everyone and the best kind of person to represent American ideals and values.
Our training group deployed to Iraq and Afghanistan, and when word of her death reached us in Iraq, we were all so overwhelmed with sadness. Not only did we lose a shipmate, but the world lost a bit of its brightness.
I think of her often and wish her husband well.
Raymond Chan
February 7, 2011
When I was deployed to Al Asad Air Base, I'd met a female Navy chief (E-7) who knew of SFC Howard. She had express that Howard was a good heart person.
CW4 (Ret) Raymond Chan
Debbie King
January 1, 2011
I didn't have the honor of knowing Meredith, but i am involved in a gps based scavenger hunt and i purchased a trackable coin that was made in her honor. I was wondering if there was somewhere Meredith would have wanted to go, because I can add a note to the webpage so that other geocachers will bring it there. Anyone with suggestions, please email me at [email protected]. Thanks and God bless you all. :-)
Walt Beattie
September 8, 2010
Just stopped in. Thinking of Merideth today. Hugh, I hope you are doing okay.
Peggy Childers
September 7, 2010
To the family and friends of Sgt. 1st Class Merideth Howard:
Remembering Merideth on the anniversary of her passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
LTC (R) Mike Horn
August 22, 2010
I'm at Fort McCoy Wisconsin -almost 4 years to the day when last there - I received the terrible news.
Merideth - I will never forget you, your good cheer and devotion to my brother-in-law Hugh.
So the family and all will know - the 91st Command Group - then the 91st Division (higher HQ to the 6399th RTU) has also added you to their honor roll and will dedicate your memory as a member of the 91st - now at Fort Hunter-Liggett on September 11th 2010.
Friends of mine in the 7th Special Forces Group HQ - now in Afghanistan -will fly an American flag in your honor, sign it - fly it in an F-18 conducting Close Air Support to Special Forces and will send it onto me for presentation to Hugh...
This is such a painful trip for me.
Loren Parkhurst
June 26, 2010
Let it be known to all who come here that Merideth was my friend. I am well aware that when we look at the past we have a tendency to recall only the good and to dismiss the bad. The most phenomenal thing about Merideth is that I can not remember her ever being anything but kind and caring. Even when she was upset, she never hurt. I keep her Memorial bracelet with its “KIA 8 September 2006” on a shelf at eye level so she can remind me everyday to be a better person. This is the best tribute in her honor that I can think of.
David Braceros
May 31, 2010
Thinking of you on Memorial Day, 2010.
Lawrence Grant
February 15, 2010
I did not know her, but read her memorial on the wall in the DFAC and CMA building almost every day...I hope she is resting in peace...and her family understands that we appreciate her service.
Melissa (Majors) Addison
December 31, 2009
From time to time I return to the numerous web-sites that do honor to Merideth's service. I never want to forget her sacrifice and I want to remember that there are many who still mourn her. Merideth was a dear friend of mine when we both lived in Corpus Christi, and I always admired her strenght and courage, and her wonderful humor.
Thanks for everything kid! Everytime I see the scar on my shin, I'll think of you, and the mad dash we made in the dark to dive in the swimming pool! I jumped short, and you made it - but you taught me to "laugh it off", and I'm grateful. You touched a lot of lives.
Deborah
October 21, 2009
Meredith,
You were always so welcoming, so giving, so generous with your laughter and hospitality. I will never forget those New Year's Days at your home where you made sure that we ate black eyed peas for the New Year. You opened your home and heart to me and even drove so far out of your way on a business trip to visit me in veterinary school. Your house felt like a home away from home. I miss the way you would shake your head when you'd laugh. You gave so much more than you ever received. You are deeply missed.
SFC Howard at the range.
September 9, 2009
Helping children at a school in Mehtar Lam.
September 9, 2009
Paul McCarthy
September 8, 2009
SFC Howard, it seems like yesterday that you hugged me goodbye and told me not to worry about the malfunctioning helicopter that I was boarding. Three years have past, but the memories remain vivid. I think about you each time I visit Alameda and I wish that you could have met Elizabeth and Aidan. Our time together was short, but I will never forget what a wonderful person you were to everyone. May you rest in the loving light of our Lord.
Peggy Childers
September 7, 2009
To the family of Sgt. 1st Class Merideth Howard:
Merideth gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Cozette Haggerty
May 20, 2009
Re: SGT Merideth Howard
Hello,
I represent PRAYER SHAWLS 4 FALLEN SOLDIERS (PS4FS), an organization that since October 2007 has sent over 2,800 prayer shawls to military families who have lost a loved one. We are an organization of over 240 groups from all over the country. We make every effort to reach families even when post cards are returned after they have moved. Would you kindly send me a contact email/address so that we may send a loving hand-made prayer shawl to the family? Thank you!
Cozette Haggerty, Prayer Shawls 4 Fallen Soldiers
Email: [email protected]
Website Address: http://webpages.charter.net/ps4fs/shawls
Kenna Larra
March 17, 2009
We love our Soldiers! We love our country and we cannot express enough love and compassion to the families of our fallen heroes. War does not discriminate – It breaks our hearts to see the faces of the fallen. We want to give this gift to you. We are a 501c3 nonprofit organization! Over 1,450 portraits have been completed and shipped to the parents and or spouse - at no cost as this is a gift from one American to another!
Contact us directly at [email protected] or go to www.heropaintings.com. If you have already had a portrait completed, we pray that you are enjoying the portrait and God Bless You.
Sincerely,
Kenna
Jason Coppola
November 13, 2008
I had the wonderful opportunity to serve with SFC Meridith Howard at FOB MetharLam, Afghanistan in 2006. I was an Infantryman assigned to B Co 1-102nd Infantry Det 1. Myself and the other infantrymen were SECFOR for the PRT and the FOB. SFC Howard was the nicest, loving, caring, friendliest, person I have ever known. She was always upbeat and optimistic about our mission in Afghanistan. She was extremely dedicated to helping the people of Afghanistan and never complained about working too much or not getting enough rest. She constantly volunteered for missions and volunteered to be a turret gunner on those missions as well. I remember her always constantly preparing for missions and cleaning her 240B machine gun on her down time. I would walk by her and chat with her informally about anything and everything and she would always listen and offer advice and positive opinions. She was one of the finest NCO's I have ever known and she always respected the enlisted soldiers below her . She never ever abused her rank or threw her weight around. It has taken me a long time to write in this guest book because I had to deal with my own personal issues from serving in Afghanistan. I have been thinking about SFC Howard lately because I am doing a graduate school project about women serving in the combat zone. Frankly, I could not have met or thought about a better female soldier that I could discuss about to my classmates and professor. In closing, I would just like to give my sincere condolences to her husband, family, and friends. I am proud to have known and served with SFC Howard and I feel that she did make a difference in the lives of the Afghani children and citizens. SHE WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!
In Memory of Merideth ~ (Debra Estep)
September 8, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
I did not know Merideth, but I am remembering
her service. She is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
Bridget Dodds
July 22, 2008
She was a wonderful woman. She had an amazing laugh - very infectious. My husband and I rented a cottage in the back of her house the year we became engaged to be married (1994). She was so sweet and so caring. Her and her husband (boyfriend at the time) were always so kind to us. I was so upset when I heard about her death. My first thought was of how Hugh must feel. It was nice to hear that they had finally gotten married. My thoughts and prayers are with her family. God bless.
Ryon Gambill
June 6, 2008
Thank you for your service Sgt Howard. God Bless You for your sacrifice.
June 3, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Sgt 1st Class Howard!
Joy Zz
May 26, 2008
I purchased a memorial bracelett last year with the name Merideth Howard. I wore it not really knowing much about this woman other than she gave her life for our country. Today memorial day I went online and found out alot about this woman we actually graduated high school the same year. I have learned alot about her through stories I have read. I will proudly wear her bracelett and tell whoever asks about this sweet, brave, well loved woman.
jackie frye
February 25, 2008
Thank you for your sacrifice. I know the pain of loosing a l oved one, My nephew SPC Thomas Caughman also paid the ultimate sacrifice so that we can continue to live in a land that is free. I just hope we never forgot the price that is being paid ever day by our loved ones so we can be free. God bless
J Frye
Dianne Sterling
October 20, 2007
Love Lives On
Those we love remain with us
for love itself lives on,
and cherished memories never fade
because a loved one's gone.
Those we love can never be
more than a thought apart,
far as long as there is memory,
they'll live on in the heart.
The Landstuhl Hospital Care Project has honored Sgt. Howard with shipments of care and comfort items to wounded troops in military hospitals stateside and overseas including CSH and field medical units. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Betty Nielsen
September 30, 2007
I have to say Merideth what an awesome lady you are. When I was in the military women were not allow in combat and to know a fellow sister made it to show that women have what it take makes me proud very proud and honor to be a sister that also wore the uniform to serve my country. So long ago but yet it seem like yesturday. You will not be forgotten. You make every women proud to say you are one of us except you actually got to go where the battle was at. I know where you are is in heaven with your smile bring joy there also. You are a huge loss to this country but you will not be forgotten. God bless your family that is left behind to mourn your loss may they find comfort in knowing that the country cares.
Bernice Logan
September 16, 2007
There is not a day that goes by that I do not think of Merideth. I treasure the memories we had. Her laugh is a plesant echo in my mind every time I think of her. She was a hard worker and some one I admire. Merideth I miss you, I miss your laugh and all the fun times we had playing cards.
Frances Hvolboll
September 8, 2007
Dear Merideth,
Well it has been a year. It isn't hard to believe because it has been a very long year!!! I have tried writing before but have not succeeded.
Just wanted to share something that will maybe make you smile or think we have finally gone off of our rockers. Krista and I got tattoos to mark the anniversary of your death.
Krista's is an M with angel wings and it is on the back of her right shoulder. You now have the task of officially being her guardian angel.
Mine is a yellow rose with a butterfly and a chinese symbol meaning immortal. Lots of meaning there. The yellow rose is obvious, the butterfly symbolizes transformation and the immortal follows the belief of some religions that as long as you are remembered you are still with us.
oh and yeah it is on my left forearm, left being the side connected to the heart.
So many times over the last year people have said that you didn't realize how much you meant to people. In my case it is because I never told you. I am trying to take this huge error I made with you and not repeat it.
Love you,
Frances
August 21, 2007
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
Patsy Jo Reed Sircy
August 15, 2007
Suncere sympathy and love, Pat - R.N.
SFC Merideth Howard
August 9, 2007
MSG David Braceros
August 9, 2007
Merideth,
We still remember and still miss our friend, Mimi. You had many friends, those of us who served with you back at the 6399th RTU, and here at Mehtar Lam, Afghanistan where you served your country faithfully.
July 31, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Sgt 1st Class Howard and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses her! May God bless all of you!!
Rebekah
May 28, 2007
M... it's Memorial day. Sad day, but I think of you and salute you, thank you lovey.... thank you.
I miss you so much.
SSG John Faircloth
May 19, 2007
On April 12, 2007 I re-enlisted into the Army National Guard after being out of the Navy for 20 years. I did this because of this amazing lady. I hope to honor her life with my service.
Thomas Gardner, SMSgt, USAF, (Retired)
May 13, 2007
Dear Merideth and Family
This is a fitting day to honor, admire and pay tribute to women soldiers. Mother’s Day is a day that pays tribute to the woman that is always a caretaker, courageous and a protector of her family. As a Mother hen spreads her wings to protect her chicks from death and will sacrifice her life if needed, so has Merideth spread her golden wings to protect each American Citizen from evil and give back to each one of us another day of Freedom. We are eternally in your debt for your sacrifice. You have established your right of Motherhood and to be in the presences of the Creator of the universe.
May God bless your family.
Walter Lott
March 29, 2007
I served with SFC Howard for almost 7 years in the 6399th RTU. Together we worked on a project, and this is where I got to know her.
I'll never forget her loving smile and her joyful laughter. She brought happiness to all on the darkest of days.
To Merideth: We love you and you will never be forgotten. May God grant you peace and blessings upon your family.
Lt. Col. Walter Lott, USAR (Ret)
Lona King
March 19, 2007
There are no words to consol a person for their great loss. Thank you Merideth for your service to our country. You will not be forgotten as long as we remember you. SFC Lona King-Ret
Rebekah Bridges Tervydis
March 10, 2007
M. I am in amazement that it's been six months, since I heard of your passing. I think,pray and feel you everyday. Thank you for being my best friend. Thank you for always telling me the truth. I miss you so very much. I know this Weekend, Hugh will be doing the Texas memorial for you. I wish I could be there. Your memorial in December in SF was amazing. I hope one day you and I will discuss the fun, somber, loving time that was had by all. The way we always did after a party we'd put together.
Emma, I miss you so much, I hope you hear me talk to you everyday. I feel you, so I'm hoping that you can hear me.
Always the best love coming your way,
Reba
John Faircloth
January 30, 2007
I read this sad news back in Sept. Since then I have been trying to get back into the military. I was so moved by her story. I am 45 years old, and I will be entering the Army Reserve very soon. When I raise my right hand I will do this in honor of SFC Meridith Howard.
Glen
January 30, 2007
“Soldier”
Written to Honor the Service of Our Fallen Soldiers
Soldiers write history, we pay the price
Many miles distant, you live the life
Entered the Battle of our own free will
Out of Duty for Country, and we’d do it still
We hope and pray that all will find peace
In God, in the flag, in memories of valor
Gone now, our pride and courage you see
“An Army of One” our motto forever
Willing to risk all for love of our Brothers
We’re still Your Soldiers…and we showed the way
Our Lives too short, now pray for the others
Lived free died Heroes in lands far away
Deep within souls all cherished our Service
We’ll always have what some never know
Courage and Honor, our names forever
Lived life with purpose…just our time to go
We march in the Heavens with Honor and Glory
Missions accomplished we fought the Good Fight
Many years from now…we’ll tell the full story
Until that Day we will live in the Light
Our lives we laid down in a land far away
Still watching o’er you this night and by day
No need to talk…just know we are with you
There in your hearts and we hear what you pray
Yes we are your soldiers
Our lives we laid down
Still We guard o’er you
Still Duty bound
Entered the Battle of our own free will
Out of Duty for Country, and we’d do it still
We’ll always have what some never know
Lived life with purpose…it was our time to go
Ralph Weidling
December 30, 2006
To the family of Merideth, please accept my condolences for your loss, from what I have read Merideth was an incredible individual. Merideth the first female firefighter in Bryan Texas, and at 52 fighting in Afghanistan so that we can live in freedom. Thank you Merideth, you made us proud.
from a "Brother Firefighter"
Solie and Martha
December 29, 2006
We just wanted to let Merideth's family know that we appreciated her service. We didn't know her personally but we know of her.
We send our prayers to her family and friends.
Stacey Petrikas
December 29, 2006
There are no words that could ever be spoken to honor this amazing American. Although, I am not there physically I am there in spirit, honoring her. May you all find peace and solace in your memories.......
Dee Schade
December 28, 2006
Not a day passes that I don't think of Meredith. She was the light of her father's life. He adored her and she never let him down.
Jacqui Lewis
December 28, 2006
My heart breaks as I think of Merideth and her family. She was the star and precious idol of her father's heart. She is my hero and I will always be one of the people that she touched with her sparkling personality, loyalty and friendliness. I pray for you, Hugh, and my life has been enriched by her joy and kindnesses and those of her father. I know that she is being loved now and eternally.
Jacqui (Colorado)
Colin Boyd
November 11, 2006
Semper Fi and god bless you Sergeant First Class Howard.
SSgt Boyd
1/3 Metharlam "Lava Dogs"
Michelle Hill
November 6, 2006
You all are in our thoughts and prayers. Godspeed.
S Francis
November 5, 2006
She's one of the toughest non-complaining girls I've ever met, she did her jobs and all of them well. I was facing a decision in my life and I felt alone in what I was going to choose. She made the same decision in her life, that's really helped me come to terms and know that it's ok for me to make the choice I have. She was a blast to work with here in mehtar lam, and greatly appreciated even though I didn't say it.
Linda (Webber) Barrington
October 16, 2006
I was a sophomore at King High School when Meredith was a senior (1972). We had a class together (don’t remember what, maybe P.E.) and she was always so nice to everyone. Some seniors acted superior to sophs, but Meredith was a friend to all. I don’t remember many people from thirty years ago, but as soon as I heard her name on the news, I knew it must be her, which just shows how much impact her personality must have had on me. I am so sorry for your loss.
JIM WATSON
October 11, 2006
TO MEREDITH HOWARD'S FAMILY AND ALL WHO KNEW AND LOVED HER...
THE ONLY KNOWLEDGE I HAVE OF MEREDITH IS THAT, THAT I'VE READ HERE, BUT YOU MUST TAKE COMFORT IN THE TRIBUTES POSTED BY THOSE WHO DID KNOW HER.
WORDS.....CAN BE SO INADEQUATE, LET ME ONLY SAY THAT I PRAY YOU FIND COMFORT AND WHAT A MARVELOUS PERSON SHE OBVIOUSLY WAS FROM THE ACCOLADES
LIFE IS AROUND YOU-BELIEVE IT OR NOT,
ALTHOUGH IT APPEARS THAT SOME HAVE FORGOT,
LIFE IS FOR LIVING-AND SKIMMING THE CREAM,
NOT FOR THE SOUR MILK-AS TO SOME IT MIGHT SEEM.......
MEREDITH OBVIOUSLY CHOSE THE CREAM WHILE SHE WAS HERE...
GOD BLESS YOU ALL...
JIM WATSON
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
October 10, 2006
My heartfelt sympathy to the Howard family in the loss of Merideth. I did not know, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the beautiful/wonderful things written about you. Merideth you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
Rebekah Bridges Tervydis
October 9, 2006
M.
Yesterday, was such a hard day for me. I let myself wallow in the sadness of not having you to turn to, even though I know you would NEVER have accepted my behaviour yesterday. It would have been one more time, your good German roots would have won out, and you would have told me to 'snap out of it'.
But I miss you so very much, I cannot believe it's been just one month since you've been gone. My days don't seem as bright, my future without you to look to and the holidays without you are seeming dismal.
And, I'm saddened to say, nothing much has changed in the war arena, there are more hero's to report, more destruction to talk about.
I so want to make your passing, make a difference, so no other best friend or sister goes through what I've felt and done this last 30 days.
I love you so much and appreciate all that you gave us your friends and family, our Country, the people of Afghanastian and to humanity, in general.
I won't forget you and I'll do my best to not let anyone else forget, the incredible person you are.
With my sincere love,
Rebekah
MCpl Paul Dubé 2 Svc Bn
October 8, 2006
I returned from Afghanistan last February, Serving with the NSE of the Canadian Army for OP Athena ISAF and Op Archer OEF.
My deepest condolences to your husband and family.
Brent Greider
October 2, 2006
As an ex-colleague of Merideth's I was very saddened to hear the bad news from Afghanistan. Although it has been a few years since I last saw Merideth, I had recently been receiving regular email updates written by Merideth via another mutual friend. Although life in Afghanistan did not sound like fun, it was apparent that Merideth accepted her role in the army with the same enthusiam and dedication that she had in civilian life. Judging by the number of entries in this Guest Book, it is apparent she touched many lives and will be sorely missed by all.
MSgt Andy Willis
October 1, 2006
First and foremost, my condolences go out to the family and friends of SFC Meredith Howard. You will forever be in my prayers. I was part of the Mehtar Lam team that SFC Howard replaced. I got the opportunity to spend a few weeks with her and the new crew prior to departing Afghanistan. SFC Howard left a lasting impression on me that I will never forget. She was motivated and determined to make a difference in the lives of the Afghan people and the people whom came to know her. She was the ultimate soldier, and it showed in every aspect of her daily accomplishments. As the senior enlisted advisor to the PRT Commander, I learned so.. much from her. When I was having a bad day I could always depend on SFC Howard to make it better. She had a funny sense of humor and a smile that would let you know that everything was going to be alright. When I recieved the news of her death I felt physically drained. SFC Howard was a very important part of a puzzle that can never be replaced. She will be missed dearly. We all feel the pain of this great loss, but none greater than that of her family. May God bless each and everyone of you.
Alex Ramos
September 30, 2006
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Rhonda Bauer
September 29, 2006
To Merideth's family and friends,
Merideth truly was the unique,fun,smart and lovely person everyone has written about. I knew Howie in high school and we were roommates our first year at Texas A&M university. A fellow classmate called me with the news of Howie's death. I had not looked at the front page of our newspaper here in College Station yet. What a stab of shock to hear the news. I have received several phone calls and hear there is to be a special ceremony for her at the football game halftime tomorrow. My husband and I knew Howie well. We both agree the world will never be the same again without her. Our hearts go out to her family and her husband who made such a wonderful statement about her beautiful blue eyes. I wish we could do more. It still does not seem possible she is really gone. Howie, you will always be remembered in our hearts. We'll still hear your laughter and see your sparkling eyes, and feel your kind touch. God bless your family. All our love, Nate and Rhonda(Wiley) Bauer
Rick Guevara
September 29, 2006
I was deeply saddened to hear of Meredith's passing. I met Meredith early in my carrer in loss prevention and enjoyed working with her on various challenging inspections. She always wanted to learn more and more. We'll miss her.
Daniel Maldonado
September 28, 2006
I am a United States Navy veteran who served in the first persian gulf war. I would like to extend my deepest sympathy for your lose. I would also like to tell you how grateful I am that there are Americans that will put service to their country before service to themselves. May God bless you.
Anthony Feagin
September 27, 2006
I had the honor to serve as SFC Howard's Commander at Mehtar Lam for two months and work with her for an additonal month before I departed Laghman Province for Nuristan Province where I still continue to serve.
She came onto my Forward Operating Base with the new group of Provincial Reconstruction Team personnel at the end of April and I was to change command with her Commander. He broke his wrist and I remained in command for an additional two months working closely with SFC Howard and the rest of the new Team.
To say she was a phenomenal soldier is an understatement. She was responsible for managing the Commander's Emergency Response Fund (CERP) in addition to her Civil Affairs job. She replaced a high speed Civil Affairs NCO who had developed an excellent approach to how we managed CERP at the PRT. SFC Howard came in and made the best CERP Program in Afghanistan even better. She was organized and detailed. She made our program one to envy but more importantly one that delivered millions of dollars in development to Laghman and Nuristan Provinces. She was one of a kind and an absolute pleasure to work with.
I am a career Infantry Officer with over 20 years of continuous service on active duty in defense of our nation. The hardest day I've ever had was the day she and SSG Paul died in Kabul. It was a black day for me. I have been in Afghanistan now for over 21 months continously and I have never felt so frustrated or angry than on that day. I am genuinely optimistic about Afghanistan's future but her death took even my optimism away. I recovered after thinking back on the many talks she and I had about what CERP, the PRT, and the Coalition presence was doing for Afghanistan. I mentally dedicated my last few months in this country to her memory.
I will leave Afghansitan, lord willing, in November. My last act will be to celebrate Thanksgiving with my Team in Eastern Nursitan. I will give thanks for how the lord has blessed me and my various team mates since my arrival in Afghanistan in January 2005. I will give thanks for SFC Merideth Howard. I am a better person for having served with her. She made a difference in the lives of many people and for that she will always be remembered.
I salute her and all the members of the Civil Affairs community who truly serve selflessly every day. They come not to take lives but to make lives better. I will never forget her smiling face. I am sure there is a special place she now occupies in heaven. May God continue to bless and keep her, may he bless her family, may he bless the members of the Mehtar Lam Team, and may he bless the soldiers, sailors, airmen, and marines who do his work each and every day in Afghanistan.
God bless us all and God Bless the USA.
From Eastern Nuristan,
LTC Anthony Feagin
Infantry
Past Commander Mehtar Lam PRT and current Commander Nuristan PRT
kathleen
September 24, 2006
My deepest sympathy to your family for your loss. I never met Merideth or anyone in your family, but she sounded like someone I would love to have known. From all that I have read she sounds like a trailblazer and after reading about her it seemed just like her to have been serving her country in a war zone at the age of 52. I only hope I can be half the person she was. Thanks Merideth. I hope to meet you when I get to heaven.
Rémi Bertrand
September 22, 2006
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Hugh Benziger
September 22, 2006
I will never forget having lunch with Merideth in Oakland CA about 10 years ago after a property insurance survey.
Almost fell out of my chair a couple of time from laughing.
I know they are enjoying her in Heaven as much as we did on Earth.
Robyn Fees
September 20, 2006
I loved her too. Will deeply miss her.
ROBYN GARSIDE
September 19, 2006
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. PLEASE ACCEPT MY DEEPEST SYMPATHIES FOR YOUR GREAT LOSS. KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HER BEAUTIFUL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE ON. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. STAY STRONG AND GODSPEED.
SEMPER FI
A PROUD MARINE MOM
September 19, 2006
To the Family of Sgt. lst Class Merideth Howard:
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courgeous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life. We lost a son 12/1/05 and it seems like yesterday.
I know first hand there are no words right now that will bring you the comfort and peace you need. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you mourn this loss. We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with. I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally, but none of these courageous men and women will be forgotten. They will never be able to be replaced, but sometime, someday your loving memories will help to sustain you. This courageous soldier will forever now be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well. To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss her, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by her presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is those wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever. If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero. God Bless this courageous soldier and family.
Pam Adams (SFC Brent Adams, KIA 12/1/05 Ramadi, Iraq)
[email protected]
(Millersville, PA )
Brach Schmidt
September 19, 2006
Meredith lived, “…What we do for others is our legacy, and lives on forever….” Having worked with Meredith for a dozen years, I have nothing but grateful and happy remembrances of her as a person, her chosen profession, her dedication to our Country, and extend my sympathy to her family for your loss.
As I write this brief note, I will never forget her identifiable laugh, which will last in my memory forever.
Sincerely,
Robert McLaughlin
September 18, 2006
I met Merideth at Fort Bragg, we were in training together for several months for this depoyment. Our ranks are close and we both worked for a Fire Dept so we had a few things to talk about. She was instantly likeable by anyone she met. She was always smiling. I will miss her very much.
Tim Whalen
September 18, 2006
My heartfelt prayers are with Merideth and all of her family and friends in this sad time. May we all be greatful for having known one so unselfish and caring.
Tom Foster
September 17, 2006
I wish to express my families deepest condolences for the loss your beloved Meredith.
The example of her life should give much strength to those who knew her and to those who learn about her.
Sincerely,
Thomas J Foster and family
Rebekah Bridges Tervydis
September 16, 2006
Dearest Writers and Well Wishers,
I had the sincere pleasure of being Merideth Howard's best friend, or... perhaps, she was my best friend. For nearly 22 years. In fact, she was my Maid of Honor at my wedding in 2004.
Apparently, she had many best friends. In fact, it's difficult to believe I am writing this at all...I would never have concieved that Merideth would be gone from this world. Never.
IN retrospect, Merideth taught me more about life, love, forgiveness, comfort and honor, then I could every concieve of returning to this world.
Merideth found me in a home for "Christian Women" in transition in San Francisco, in the mid 80's, where she herself had decided to stay as well.
Immediately, I could tell Merideth was intelligent, warm, loving and incredibly to her "word". What you saw, was what you got....
Merideth, however found me broken... lost and without an anchor. That is what Merideth became for me... she essenitally became my Anchor, my Mother, Sister and most beloved best friend in the following years.
Never did she waste words or sentitment, often you know what she thought... or perhaps what her good "German House Frau" Grandmother would have thought of a situation.
I, can never begin to thank the World, her parents or the Good Lord, for the love, care and consideration that Merideth has shown upon me.
It is my duty from now on, to do the same to those I meet who might come to be... broken as I was!
Here's to you my friend, my dearest Emma... I will love you forever... until we meet again!
The Girgis Family
September 16, 2006
We feel a real loss in her passing and want to extend our sympathy to her husband, Hugh and family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Merideth was a caring, generous women and a significant influence for good in others' lives. Even while commissioned in Afghanistan, she would ask for school supplies to be sent in care packages for those children and teachers in the villages she helped restore.
She accomplished so many “Firsts” in her life time that most will only dream of. And for those who will only read or write about her, I would say they have missed the opportunity of having met a person of true beauty. The legacy of love and compassion she has taught me and my family will live on through her memory. We will not forget her ultimate sacrifice for our freedom and this country.
We will always remember Merideth as an outstanding, honorable, honest and cheerful woman who loved life, family and friends. We will miss her warmth and humor. Our family is privileged to have known and worked with her.
Forever in our hearts,
AM Ledbetter
September 16, 2006
Merideth had a wicked sense of humor. Every time I saw her she had a smile on her face. May all couples have the joy her and Hugh had together. Even though she will be missed she will always be in our memories.
Amy Downing
September 16, 2006
The world was a better place for having Merideth in it. I know I am a better person for having her for a friend for a quarter of a century. I will miss her. And am oh so glad we went paragliding.
Keep them in line in heaven Merideth.
Jeff Arita
September 16, 2006
Words cannot express how sad we are about Merideth's passing. My Wife, Lori and I were blessed and honored to know and love Merideth. She was 'one of a kind'. We got to know her through work, but we soon became friends. She loved to play tennis and her love of life and travel were second to none. She had the most infectious laugh...She would start laughing and then we would laugh, and then she would laugh, and so on.
The last and most heart-breaking correspondence we had with her was we discovered she and Hugh got married, just before her deployment to Afghanistan. I asked her when, oh when were we going to have a reception for their wedding! She said just as soon as she got back home to the U.S.A.
We will all miss her. God bless her.
korie
September 16, 2006
My heart breaks for your loss!
Caroline Paul
September 15, 2006
Thanks for Meredith for all she has given as a firefighter and a soldier.
Thomas Kitchen
September 15, 2006
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Lee Sirotnak
September 14, 2006
Please accept our condolences for your loss. You will be in our prayers, that the Lord provide you comfort and peace. We are grateful for the work, and sacrifice, of your Soldier, a true American hero. God Bless.
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