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Charlie Gili
October 13, 2024
Hello,
We wanted to let you know that we will be honoring and remembering your loved one this holiday season. We are sending Care Packages to our deployed troops in his name. Each package will carry the name, photo, service branch, rank and hometown of Jason L. Merrill US Army Sergeant.
We realize that this is a small tribute, but we do this with all respect and sincerity and we want you to know that it is made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals from across the American youth hockey community, our family, friends and many others who support our mission.
We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you safe and strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of our US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign
Charlie Gili
October 13, 2024
Hello,
We wanted to let you know that we will be honoring and remembering your loved one this holiday season. We are sending Care Packages to our deployed troops in his name. Each package will carry the name, photo, service branch, rank and hometown of Jason L. Merrill US Army Sergeant.
We realize that this is a small tribute, but we do this with all respect and sincerity and we want you to know that it is made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals from across the American youth hockey community, our family, friends and many others who support our mission.
We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you safe and strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of our US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign
Joshua Lewis
March 31, 2022
I love and miss you Jason
December 16, 2019
I ran across Jason's gravesite one day while visiting graves nearby. In reading his headstone I begun to cry. Thinking how brave these young men were. While standing there thought about my own son whom served also.
I have a young son whom served also in Iraq in 2010 to 2011.
I have been back a cpl times to your sons grave to say thank you and apologize for your loss.
It touched me........
Diana Brooks
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Thomas Kippenbrock
May 26, 2015
We will never forget your ultimate sacrifice. God Bless.
Brian Klecha
May 26, 2014
I just found this sight and it was very hard to read everything.
Jason you are a great guy I had a blast every time we hung out, to playing drinking games (wearing a beer box) to shaving each others heads. Memorial day is always tough on me thinking back on old times. Ill never forget
Steph Clarke
March 6, 2013
I never knew Jason. But my fiance served with him in Iraq and has a tattoo of Jason's name on his arm. I would like to contact his family if at all possible.
Stephanie Hailey
September 11, 2011
I think of Jason on this day, every year. I think of the fact that I am so thankful to him for being not only such a great friend and boyfriend, but Im also eternally thankful to him for defending my freedom. Im thankful to him for defending the freedom of those who dont even deserve it. Im thankful to him for sacrificing everything so I have to sacrifice nothing. Thank you Jason, always. And to Sue, and the rest of the family, you are in my thoughts, prayers, and hearts, not just today, but everyday.
Peggy Childers
September 3, 2011
To the family and friends of Sgt. Jason L. Merrill:
Please accept my remembrance of Jason on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
tara alatorre
June 27, 2011
Jason I am in Costa Rica because I finally graduated. I never would have made it here without you, but you are not here to
celebrate. I dedicate my degree to you,because you deserve it more than me, your detirmination and love inspire me daily, and the only thing I could ask for now is for you to just show up on my doorstep one day ( just like Batman did when you were on r and r last time ). Until then I will keep collecting seashells and rocks for you, and carry your memory with me on our adventures
Randy Johnson
April 15, 2011
Happy birthday brother. I miss the hell out of you. Hope you're fighting the good fight on the other side. Drink a heavenly heiny just for me bro. Love you and miss you man.
Alfredo aka "Dooley" Hernandez
November 10, 2010
I served with Jason in Germany and there is not a year that passes where I fail to honor him as both a Battle Buddy and a friend.
Peggy Childers
September 3, 2010
To the family and friends of Sgt. Jason L. Merrill:
Remembering Jason on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Shea Walker
April 15, 2010
Happy Birthday Jason...
Shea Walker
April 15, 2010
Happy Birthday Jason! You're missed today. :)
Michael Lopez
January 1, 2010
Not one day goes by when I do not think about you or "Tito"! You played such a vital role in my life and the person I feel I should be, strange how things work sometimes, I can not forget the times we had together whether it was training, fighting or drinking. I miss you as I know all of us do! Dawg!
Pam Stewart
November 3, 2009
Hello, I am trying to contact you regarding honoring Jason in a veteran's day assembly at Brimhall Jr High. Please contact me at 480-472-2551 or [email protected]
Thank you Pam Stewart
September 14, 2009
Thinking of you today J. Miss you more every day. I think of you often, and your infectious laugh. I think of your awesome hugs, and how much I miss them. But I know you are peacefull. Thank you for all you did for me J, you made me realize what I was worth.
Love you forever,
Stephanie
Peggy Childers
September 3, 2009
To the family of Sgt. Jason L. Merrill:
Jason gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Morgan Farquer
March 26, 2009
J, we were going through some old photos today and found some of us when you were on leave. I never know whether to laugh or cry - most of the time I find myself doing both. I've been having the most vivid dreams of you lately. I can still hear that crazy laugh of yours. You were always the loudest in the room. Man, I wish you were still here. It hurts so much still. You were so unique and such a great friend. I love you so much. We were toasting you the other night over drinks and I swear I could feel you there with us! I still have my dog tags, you will never be forgotten!
Kenna Larra
March 19, 2009
We love our Soldiers! We love our country and we cannot express enough love and compassion to the families of our fallen heroes. War does not discriminate – It breaks our hearts to see the faces of the fallen. We want to give this gift to you. We are a 501c3 nonprofit organization! Over 1,450 portraits have been completed and shipped to the parents and or spouse - at no cost as this is a gift from one American to another!
Contact us directly at [email protected] or go to www.heropaintings.com. If you have already had a portrait completed, we pray that you are enjoying the portrait and God Bless You.
Sincerely,
Kenna
Krista Burress Sarant
March 9, 2009
Jason, while I watched a movie today, my mind was stuck on you. The movie was called "Taking Chance" It was about the journey a senior officer took as an escort in taking a fallen soldier home. It emphisized on the amount of dignity and respect a fallen soldier receives. From evryday people to the crew that loads the fallen soldier into the plane to be returned to their families. I couldnt help but cry many tears throught this movie as they reflected on the kind of man that Chance Phelps was and I reflected on the kind of person you were. I miss you all the time. Thank you for what you did for me, and our coutry. With my heart full of love, sadness, and appreciation, Thank You. I love you Jason.
Krista
K-dog...as you ALWAYS called me!
Charley Alger
February 24, 2009
My heart just fell when I saw this. As a long time friend of Sue's side of the family, I am deeply sadden. Please note that my prayers go out to the family. Sue and I lived in Prescott and lived on the same street. Not a day went by that I thought about all the friends that lived on our street.
Good Bless you all.
602/942-1275
morgan farquer
January 18, 2009
J, I've been thinking about you alot today. We watched Amber get married yesterday and I broke my heart that you weren't there. We still think about you everyday and I honestly don't think that'll ever change. I love and miss you so much! Watch over us! xoxox
Brian Kirsch
November 28, 2008
Jason,
The times we did have were a blast. You could make anybody laugh man. It was as honor and privilege to serve next to you and Andino. That day was a dark day for all of us in the Mad Dawg platoon. You two will never be forgotten man. I think about you two constantly and still remember that funny impression you would do down range. It was an honor to have met your family when we all got back. It was hard for everybody. You and your family are great and honorable people. I am proud to have served next to you brother.
In Memory of Jason ~ (Debra Estep)
September 3, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Jason, but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
Bob Lamb
June 22, 2008
Sgt Merrill, My folks are near your resting place in the Mesa cemetery. my father was a decorated WW-2 Army infantry Major. I get a sense of honor when I am near your resting place. The same feeling I get while visiting my father. You and all other service members who have paid the ulitmate price with your life so all of us back home can live free. Thank you. You are not forgotten.
June 1, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Sgt Merrill!
sandi alatorre
March 23, 2008
it's been a while since anyone has given a thought here. not to say that doesn't mean you aren't in the hearts and minds of us all because of course you are. it's funny how i feel your absence so strongly, but at the same time i feel your presence so strongly too. i think of you every single day. you have left a lasting impression on me forever. love you, sandi
Stephanie Hailey
January 15, 2008
J,
Was thinking a lot about you today, mostly because I saw my lone doc martin. Yes, I still have the surviving shoe. That was a crazy night. I also drove past the hanted house the other day...thanks for throwing me over the fence....I didn't even care that my fake nails popped off I was laughing so hard. I miss you more than I think you ever thought I would. I'm glad the last night I spent with you was perfect. Sometimes I dream about you still and when I wake up, I swear I can still hear your voice fading.
SSG Eric Mullins
December 28, 2007
To the Merrill Family, I am very sorry about your loss. SGT Merrill and I were in basic training together back in 2002-2003 and were friends there. I found out about his death today, when I was reading The Army Times and it was a shock. The soldiers of 1-26 IN went through hell. My condolences goes out to all the families and to the Merrill family. Everybody lost a special person and he will never be forgotten.
Julia Wilcox-Armstrong
October 15, 2007
I am so saddened to hear about your loss. It has been so many years since I have seen any of your family. However, it seems like yesterday that Amber & I were playing in her room, as little 8 yr old girls do, trying out best to avoid the pesky little brother! It's been over a year now, but I am sure the pain you feel is just the same. I don't know what made me think of Jason today... something must have reminded me of Amber. I wish there was something we could do to make this easier on your family. You are in my thoughts and prayers and I wish you all the peace and comfort possible. I pray that our knowledge of Eternal Families, can carry you through this and give you peace of mind knowing you will all be together again!
With Love,
Julia Wilcox-Armstrong
Greg King
October 13, 2007
I participated in a memorial ride on June 16, 2007 that ended in Marseilles, IL at the recently constructed memorial wall dedicated to the fallen soldiers from the Middle East conflicts. At the beginning of the ride we recieved "dog tags" with a fallen soldiers name. The tags I wore were for Jason. I have not taken them off since. I would be glad to ride up and do a rubbing of his name on the wall for anyone interested. Please e-mail me and let me know where to send them.
Betty Nielsen
September 29, 2007
As I read this guest book my heart goes out to the family for it sound like you had a wonderful young man that touch so many people in such a very short time in life. Your pain is something that doesn't go away for you will carry it forever and those that don't understand may say without meaning to that you need to move on. I know they are hurtful words and those people do not understand that you do move on as best you can for the sake of others. Time will pass and your pain you will find a way to use that pain for good use. I know that my dear because your son is an example of what goodness is all about. It take parents that took time to teach their children to care as you have and yes my dear it is painful and don't let anyone tell you when it's time to move on because your heart knows very well that it will always be hurting you will just know how to deal with this pain for so that others don't to see it. I pray that you my dear will find some peace in knowing that he did this country proud that we mourn by your side and pray that God will give you strength. I made a quilt and hope that I have the right address to mail it to you. I want you to wrap yourself in your quilt and if you need to have a good cry then do it my dear do it anytime you need to just take your quilt and wrap yourself with it and cry if you must. My email if you ever need to get a hold of me is [email protected] and my website if you ever choose to check it out is www.freedomquilts.net I'm here if you ever need me just email me. God blesses and take care know you are in my prayers.
September 5, 2007
yesterday was still too painful. i just want you to know....one year, five years, fifty years, or more...i will never forget you. it's still so difficult to even look at your picture, or to speculate your life and potential. i looked forward to experiencing your adulthood as much as i have looked forward to experiencing tara's....as you two were one in the same. two halves of a whole, two kindred souls. i miss the energy and life of tara and jason...the two loudest, most obnoxious, most exhausting, most fun, most real, most full of life kids i ever knew. i love you my sweet boy. rest and watch over my sweet girl.
Mary Ann Jennings
September 3, 2007
Jason thinking of you especially today. We are so proud of you. Ryan misses you so much.
August 8, 2007
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON (KIA on 07/06/07) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
southern man rockin the free world
August 6, 2007
Jason,, Had to write a few words, Got to say u made me one proud vet, seeing you grow as you did in the short time I knew you. You touched my heart a many a nights, sitting drinking a beer, talking about the military, and all that goes with it,, brought memories back to me about friends I had and some I lost,I'm not a funeral or emotional kinda guy, but seeing you there at the church, brought back a flood of memories, and i say one thing,, i was godamn proud of you,,As you very well know there a special bond between the military family and i am honored to have known you and just wonted to say, you are one of the resons i keep my faith in the country. I see the love in this family here that adopted me in there life, everyday for you,.. One thing that shows when a boy becomes a man is how many peoples lifes he affected in a postive way, and you did a damn good job of that,,, i can only hope i do as well as you do,, my friend,, sleep well and rest,,, i will see you again one day, I have faith in that... maybe we can make some shine and just relax as we always did when you came home
July 31, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Sgt Merrill and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
Tara Alatorre
July 23, 2007
I can never bring myself to sign this guest book. There is nothing profound or aggrandized enough for my words to express how your life and death has impacted me. I feel as though my written word does injustice to your indescribable beautiful soul. However I know I have to write something, if I am ever to write anything ever again.
The day I found out you were gone I was destroyed. Everything that I knew, felt, and thought was absolutely shattered. You helped create me Jason. Even though you are gone you continue to live inside me. With you not being a part of this world I was unable to realize how I continue as a person in this world. You have left your eternal footprints all over me. So many of my thoughts and aspirations are byproducts of your life being a constant presence in my adolescence and adulthood. Countless life experiences shared with you that have lead to consequences that made my very identity. When you left my life I had to rebuild myself, which is why I haven’t been able to write a single word since your death (you know the significance of this). However, I know that this would not be what you wanted, me defeated! Your departing is the hardest thing I have ever struggled with; a constant tumultuous absence that I am slowly learning to tolerate. I had to teach myself that trying to stop the pain you have caused is not forgetting your memory. So here I am writing to you to let you know I won’t be defeated anymore! I am not healed but all in good time. I miss you everyday and I still look to you for guidance everyday. Last night at 3 in the morning I was crying and toasting my Jack in The Box tacos to you. I hate those damn tacos, but I ate one for you!
To electric cars Jason!
I love you,
Tara Alatorre
Morgan Farquer
July 7, 2007
Today's been a rough day, and I always turned to you when I needed to talk. We found out today that Chris might have to go back and it just left a pit in my stomach. I know I won't be able to go through this again. I miss you so much J! We went to your grave this morning and sat for awhile - where the heck is your grass?! Chris said we're gonna steal some from a golf course - you'll have the best grass in the whole damn place! Anyways, I was sitting here thinking about and needed a way of feeling like I was talking to you. Please watch over Chris - you know what he's going through right now. Love you so much!
sandi alatorre
July 6, 2007
thought about u yesterday. took a flag to your grave, u will forever be my symbol of freedom, bravery, and american pride. 5 yrs ago i tried to guide u, and now u guide me. life throws us such unexpected twists and turns my dear friend. losing u was a slippery, hair-pin, skidding turn in the rain. i love u and miss u every day, sandi
May 25, 2007
today tessa had her 8th grade graduation. tessa is such a pure soul, she still calls upon u for strength. i know u would have been there. i saw her and felt like i would burst with pride. she looks just like lacee. it's the same as when i see your military pic, i forget for a moment that u are gone and i see your face and just burst with pride. the kids talk about u all the time. caleb remembers when he was little and u and chris rolled him up in the downstairs area rug. u are a person full of smiling memories. i love u and i miss u terribly. can't believe your gone. sandi
Sylvia Moreno Anaya
May 22, 2007
Jason,
Today myself, my sister and younger brother had the pleasure of meeting your Mom & Dad at Johnson Elementary School where we attended the Award ceremonies and the 6th grade graduation class. Although my sister and I had no children attending JES my brother did, their names were Yvonne & Monique Moreno and you were their classmate when they were both killed in an automobile accident on May 5th & 6th, 1996. The year after they passed away my brother started the Y & M Children's Foundation in honor of his girls, and now JES, every year hands out the Y & M Memorial award to 2 students. They then announced that they were going to present the Jason Merrill Memorial Award, they read a short letter which touched our hearts. After the presentation was over, my family and I were outside admiring the plaques which are a beautiful tribute to you. My sister and I decided to go on a mission to look for your Mom, so we head to the office and asked for her, but we were told that she had left for the day. We go outside told my brother that your Mom had left, and he said, no I just talked to her. We stuck around for a while longer and your Mom shows up and my brother stopped her to introduce her to us and she in turn introduced us to your dad. Jason I can't begin to tell you what a wonderful set of parents you have, in just the few minutes we had with them, you could see and feel the love that they have for you. Your Mom even showed us her necklace that has your picture on it. We cried with your parents for the loss of their only son, but a brave son you were. Jason I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for being out in a country far away from home to protect our country and our freedom. God Bless you and your family.
Mary Ann Jennings
May 13, 2007
Jason I think of you everyday. I didn't know you well, but you were an important part of my son Ryan's life. You were both wild teenagers. I know your family is so proud of you. You are greatly missed by all who knew you.
Ryan Jennings
May 12, 2007
Fallen but not forgotten, and the ultimate sacrafice you have paid. You are deeply missed and always in my thoughts and prayers. I am proud to call you a friend. Rest in peace my friend.
SGT Ryan Jennings, USA, AD
Morgan Farquer
May 11, 2007
Another day of "why's". Its still not real. We hung your picture up today along side one of your uniforms from your first tour and it just brought tears to my eyes. What I wouldn't give to just have one more night of laughs and drunken stories with you. I was trying to tell Chris about the spicy Bloody Mary's and I was laughing so hard he couldn't understand me. We're always going to keep your memory alive and always tell our kids about the greatest friend in the world. Missing you daily J!! We love u!
Alfredo Doolyey-Hernandez
May 6, 2007
I'm really not sure what to write. I served with Jason in Germany and during our first tour in Iraq. I left Germany and went back to the states. This really hurts. Jason was a good friend and a special individual. Take care Jason and know that you are thought of and missed. Much love Bro and I know that some day I'll see you again.
SGT Dooley
Randy Johnson
April 16, 2007
Happy birthday brother, I miss you man. Counting the days till your nephew is born. See ya soon
Love always,
Your brother
Randy J
Jason Merrill
April 2, 2007
only the best get to heaven
our work is never done
Jason Merrill USAF March AFB, CA
Tessa Alatorre
March 21, 2007
big Bro,
I think about U all the time.I always wonder if u are looking down at me watching my every move I do, to see if I'm doing the right thing.I remember when I first saw u and U first saw me, for the first time when u left to Irqa for the first time and when u hugged me and said "Tessa u have boobs now".Mom said I was red!Now thats a memorie to remember.And the next day we went to a restaunt Called "May" and we all sat in the same table and had a great time.When we were finish eating and went out side u told me that no boys were alllowed near me.When u said that it scared me ,but, I felt protective cause I new that u were there for me when I needed it or not.I never had a big brother and u were mine big brother blood or not.I love u Jason with all my heart and always will be.
Love ur little sis,
Tessa.M.Alatorre
Morgan and Chris Farquer
March 21, 2007
Jason, Thinking about you today and can't stop the tears. We miss you so much words can't even explain it. We know that you're in a such a better place now but can't help but be selfish and miss you here with us. The holidays just aren't the same here without you and your signature "loud" voice and crazy stories. Ms. "Jacie" is doing fantastic and
crawling, I know ur looking down on us. Love u forever and missing you terribly!
sandi alatorre
March 15, 2007
i had a dream about you last night. we were sitting in a room watching family videotapes of you and tara and all of us. they were actual tapes i have. we were laughing and reminscing. in my dream i knew you were gone but you told me you came back just for a day and that is what you wanted to do. there were no tears just laughter and smiles and wonderful memories. your face was so clear and when you hugged me when you had to go i felt that big bear hug and you told me "man, sandi i love you" like you always did. and again, in my dream i did not cry, but when i woke up i did. then i realized, no tears in my dream meant something. it was you telling me to just smile and remember and celebrate those moments. that is what i will try to do. tara misses you so much, she is crushed. i wish she could have had that dream, she needs it. i miss you my sweet boy.
Randy Johnson
March 4, 2007
Dear bro
Just sitting here thinking of the good times we had together. Missing you now more than ever. I have decide to name my son after a hero. His name will be Jason Daniel Johnson, I know that would make you proud to here that Your legacy will in some way live on even if its through your brothers children. As I sit here writing this, and the tears continue to poor down my face, I know how fortunate I am to be free. And its because of your patronage that this is possible. As your birthday aproaches, the fear becomes more and more clear, that you will not be here to hold, play or to see my child, "your nephew" to grow up and be a man. But in this dim light I know youll be Watching. Watching over him, and us fighting the good battle even in the after life. I love you bro and you can expect my regular visit. Dont be a stranger. By the way I talked to your uncle Dick recently, and he says hello. I love you man, and I miss you.
YOUR BROTHER,
Randy
P.S. Remeber, brothers in arms!
Glen
February 2, 2007
“Soldier”
Written to Honor the Service of Our Fallen Soldiers
Soldiers write history, we pay the price
Many miles distant, you live the life
Entered the Battle of our own free will
Out of Duty for Country, and we’d do it still
We hope and pray that all will find peace
In God, in the flag, in memories of valor
Gone now, our pride and courage you see
“An Army of One” our motto forever
Willing to risk all for love of our Brothers
We’re still Your Soldiers…and we showed the way
Our Lives too short, now pray for the others
Lived free died Heroes in lands far away
Deep within souls all cherished our Service
We’ll always have what some never know
Courage and Honor, our names forever
Lived life with purpose…just our time to go
We march in the Heavens with Honor and Glory
Missions accomplished we fought the Good Fight
Many years from now…we’ll tell the full story
Until that Day we will live in the Light
Our lives we laid down in a land far away
Still watching o’er you this night and by day
No need to talk…just know we are with you
There in your hearts and we hear what you pray
Yes we are your soldiers
Our lives we laid down
Still We guard o’er you
Still Duty bound
Entered the Battle of our own free will
Out of Duty for Country, and we’d do it still
We’ll always have what some never know
Lived life with purpose…it was our time to go
sandi alatorre
January 12, 2007
the last time i talked to jason was on his last leave as he and tara were leaving vegas. he talked a mile a minute, trying to fit in everything he could into our usual short span of time. i know i do not have the distinction of jason's ONLY 2nd mom, he charmed all of us along the way, but it was 100% sincere. it is still so painful. to his family i want to say that he brought so much to our family. my pain pales in comparison to yours yet it is so great, and because of that i pray for you night and day. i love you jason.
Stephanie Hailey
January 9, 2007
J
I've been thinking about you a lot lately. I miss your smile. I miss your hugs. They were always so warm and almost suffocating. :) I wish you were here. I wish we were on our way to Filibertos. It's because of you I have a Carne Asada addiction. I just miss you so much. I will always love you, but you know that. I can't wait to see you someday. I hope you are doing okay. You will always and forever be my hero.
PS I will never forget Randys.
SGT Franklin Oldham
November 11, 2006
Jason, we had many good times and went through alot together here in Germany. I saw you come from a private to an excellent Non Commissioned Officer for our great nation. The definition of Pride, and of Honor, was seen in your actions. You always brought a smile, even in difficult situations. We will meet again, and I will buy the first round.
Barbie Abney
November 8, 2006
Many Prayers for your family. And many Thanks for what you did for our country. You are truly an American Hero.
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
October 10, 2006
My heartfelt sympathy to the Merrill family in the loss of Jason. I did not know Jason, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Jason you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
Randy Johnson
September 28, 2006
To mom and dad,
You know how much I loved Jason and you know how much it hurts me to mourn his loss. I cant even imagine the pain that you feel inside because he was yours. All I can say is that Jason confided in me that I would watch over the family while he was gone, and thats exactly what I intend on doing. We can be thankful now that He isnt fighting the war on terror, but be comforted that He is fighting the spiritual war on the other side, comanding the troops against satans army, and doing everything in his power to once again make sure that we stay free. If he were here today I could think of nothing better than to give Him a hug and tell Him as a brother, how proud of Him that I am and that I will never forget the sacrifices that He made and are still making to this day. I love you Merrill Family and you guys are under my watch now. To anyone that didnt know Jason who reads this, Know that He was the most likable person that I have EVER come in contact with or had the pleasure of knowing. And if He were here today, He would thank you all for kindness and hospitality to his family. We love Jason, and we will never forget you.
randy johnson
September 28, 2006
Jason was my friend, but more importantly he was my brother. Of all of the things that i will never forget about him is his smile. I love you bro and I will never forget you or the things that you have done for me and my freedom. But most importantly I want to thank you for being the best friend that anyone could ask for. I love you .
September 19, 2006
To the Family of Sgt. Jason L. Merrill:
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courgeous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life. We lost a son 12/1/05 and it seems like yesterday.
I know first hand there are no words right now that will bring you the comfort and peace you need. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you mourn this loss. We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with. I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally, but none of these courageous men and women will be forgotten. They will never be able to be replaced, but sometime, someday your loving memories will help to sustain you. This courageous soldier will forever now be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well. To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is those wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever. If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero. God Bless this courageous soldier and family.
Pam Adams (SFC Brent Adams, KIA 12/1/05 Ramadi, Iraq)
[email protected]
(Millersville, PA )
Mike and Pam Dustin
September 19, 2006
I just wanted to let you know that there are so very many people that are praying and thinking of you right now. Jason is a true American hero, and, he will never be forgotten. Thank you, Jason for your service. Without heroes like yourself, I don't know where we would be today. Thank you to your family. They paid a great sacrifice to keep our country free. I know there are no words that can help, but please know that in time the wonderful memories will take over and you will find some peace.
with love and respect
ROBYN GARSIDE
September 19, 2006
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. PLEASE ACCEPT MY DEEPEST SYMPATHIES FOR YOUR GREAT LOSS. KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE ON FOR YOU ALWAYS. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. GODSPEED AND
SEMPER FI.
A PROUD MARINE MOM
Beth Roszel
September 17, 2006
Please accept my sincere condolences for the loss of your son and brother. My son served with him and considered him a close friend. He has spoken highly of Sgt. Merrill and was very saddened by his loss.
My thoughts and prayers are with your and your family.
Michele Vaughn
September 17, 2006
Merrill family,
I want to take this time to express my deepest sympathy in the loss of your son.There are no words that anyone can say that will bring you comfort, but I wanted you to know that it does get a little easier with time. You start to remember the good times and can smile about him more. I know this because I lost my brother, Lt. Dennis W. Zilinski on November 19th in Baygi, Iraq. To the sisters of Jason, I know what you are going through and if you need to talk, know that I am here for you.
Jason, God bless you and know that you are a hero.
Sincerely,
Michele Vaughn
P
September 16, 2006
My deepest condolences to the family and friends of Sgt. Jason Merrill. My heart aches for you, and you will remain in my thoughts and prayers. I pray that the deep hurt you feel can be in some part be eased by the feeling of great pride for Jason’s’ valor and deep sense of patriotism. He will always be remembered as an American Hero by my family and we will never forget the great sacrifice made by your family.
In spite of all that happened here in New York City that dark Tuesday morning five years ago, millions continue to live and work here without fear, because of our awesome U.S. Military. We still stand tall and proud here today, thanks to wonderful people such as your Jason.
To Jason I would say you have made the ultimate sacrifice and did so willingly and without hesitation. Thank you so very much for defending my freedoms. It means so much to me, to the people of NYC and to the entire nation. Thank you for your bravery and sacrifice in the service of the country that I love so very much.
John 15:13 Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.
May God be with you until we all meet a Jesus’ feet.
Most Sincerely,
Pat Shoukry - NYC (6 miles from "Ground Zero")
Margy Bons
September 16, 2006
Tim and Sue,
I know we do not know each other, but you have joined the ranks of Gold Star parents now. None of us wants this star but our boys wanted to serve their country and for that and their ultimate sacrifice they will forever be heroes. And you will forever be a parent of that hero. As a packagesfromhome volunteer, and thankfully their only Gold star mom, I am honored that you have asked for any donations to be made to continue to help Jason and Michael's fellow comrades still in harm's way and with the same resolve as our boys. I know the walk you will be walking and trust me when I say that I wish you weren't in these shoes. Our boys are heroes but still they are our boys. They are now in our hearts and will forever be in our memories. They will forever make us proud because the gave the ultimate sacrifice.
Regards,
Sgt. Michael Marzano's mom, who gave the ultimate sacrifice 5/7/05 in Haditha Iraq. Semper Fi.
mary watson
September 15, 2006
I pray that your family and friends will be of much comfort to you as you go through this most difficult tragic time in your life. May God bless you. Your wonderful son is now in heaven with the angels.
Lynn Price
September 15, 2006
May we all join together in expressing our heartfelt condolences in the loss of another fine young man.
Please know that we are ever grateful for your son's most unselfish sacrifices and eternally grateful that he chose to serve our Country so proudly.
Each of your sons and daughters touch my heart ever closer as we are still grieving the loss of one of our precious sons, Ross Edward Price. Tomorrow marks the 2 week mark since he went to Heaven. In joining the 'ranks' of a Mother who's given her child, my heart is grieving with you.
May God send His Mighty Angels to surround you with love and comfort.
Respectfully,
Ed and Lynn Price
Deb Meyer
September 15, 2006
There are no words that I can express that will help you during this time of grief and sorrow. I imagine that you are still numb. This is completely normal. It will eventually fade. The first days, weeks, and months are very hard. The whole first year is the hardest, as is the entire "year of firsts" such as the first holiday, first birthday, first anniversary (if he was married) etc. I know from our own painful experience...We, too, lost a son in Iraq. PFC Jason Meyer, was KIA 08 APR 2003 in Baghdad, Iraq. Jason was my step-son. but the loss is no less painful than if he had truly been my child.
When I heard about the death of your son, it really hit hard. Each soldier's death does, but lately it's especially difficult. We have another son, who is currently serving in the USArmy and stationed at Fort Hood, TX. He's my oldest, PFC Jonathon Meyer. He is preparing to go to Iraq and left for Kuwait on 9/11/06. As you can guess it's a very hard thing to deal with. My youngest, Christopher, has enlisted in the Marine Corps and just started Boot Camp at MCRD San Diego on Aug. 21.
Your pain and grief are undoubtedly unbearable right now. Sometimes, you just have to go minute by minute to get through the day. If you ever feel the need to talk to someone, please feel free to contact me. Sometimes it helps to talk to someone else that's "been there" and understands what you are going through. My email is : [email protected]
Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers as you go through the next few unbearable days and weeks. You are in the thoughts and prayers of many people right now. Please, don't hesitate to contact me if you need to.
I hope that God helps you to find some measure of Peace in the days to come. Thank you for the Service your loved one gave to our Country.
Deb Meyer
Bill & Louise Summerville
September 15, 2006
To the Merrill family:
Louise and I wish to express our sincere sympathy at the loss of your dear son and brother Jason. We are so grateful for Jason's service and for the sacrifice he has made for us and our freedom and for the cause of liberty. May Heavenly Father and the Saviour comfort and bless you and your family during this time sorrow.
Barbara Porter
September 15, 2006
My heart breaks each time I hear of a loss of one of our fine men or women in the service of our country. Nothing I say can bring your loved one back, but the military family is a strong one and we do not forget the sacrifices they make, nor the sacrifice of their family. As one military family to another: We promise to never forget and we promise to do our best to make sure your loss will not be in vain.
Barb Porter
Very proud Marine mom
Brittani Jarvis
September 15, 2006
Jason was an awesome person. He was always giving me a hard time when he was younger, but was still very respectful. I didn't get the chance to see him the last time he was here and I'm sorry for that. I will miss him. Jason, thank you for serving our country and fighting to make this world a better place for everyone. You will be greatly missed but we will all be able to see you again. Love you!
TIFFANY HARRIS
September 15, 2006
DEAR,MERRILL FAMILY,
I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS OF JASON I AM VERY PROUD OF HIM IN THE WAY HE SERVED ARE COUNTRY!
MAY HEAVENLY FATHER BE WITH YOU IN THIS HARD TIME! I LOVE YOU GUYS! YOUR FRIEND FROM BASHAS STORE#45 TIFFANY HARRIS
L Ferg
September 14, 2006
To Jason's family and friends, words cannot say enough. Jason made the ultimate sacrifice for those of us in this country, so we may live free. For that, I will always be grateful. I do not know you, nor did I know Jason, but his love for his country and the appreciation we have for what he stands for will not be forgotten. May he rest in peace and may your hearts gain peace in knowing that people who have never met him honor and appreciate the life for which he stood.
Larry Keeler
September 14, 2006
I grieve about the tragic loss of Jason, who honored us by serving overseas. I will be a member of the Patriot Guard riders on Friday, September 15th, and riding to honor this fine man. Jason, you are a hero to your family, friends and to this country.
Mark Janecek
September 14, 2006
I am a SGT in the US ARMY also. Jason was a friend of my older brother's friends. That was when I was in Johnsonn Elementary. His death is obviously a terrible loss to his surviving friends and family members. We all choose to join the Army and we all know the risks. Someday you will all come to realise the gift he gave us with his passing will never pass.
Barbara Merrill Thomas
September 14, 2006
My thoughts and prayers go out to Jason's family and dear friends. Although I didn't know him. He was a hero in my eyes. I do have family in Arizona and Utah and wouldn't be suprised if he and his family are related. I am so very sorry your loss. A Brave Young man to say the least. Thank you to him for his protection and service.
Sincerely Barbara
Dean Settle
September 14, 2006
Merrill Family,
Thank you so very much from all of us to everyone of you. Your flowers arrived, and our hearts were full of love for your family.
The door is always open to your family at our place, and all you have to do is contact me at my e-mail. I will make it happen.
We draw much comfort from the fact that EJ was resolute in his duty. I knew my nephew had grown into a fine young man, and that he had no hesitation to go out and meet an enemy who he knew was attacking "his boys".
I admire your son's dedication to the task at hand, and you must feel so priviledged to have seen him achieve a level of responsibility and commitment that most in our society never achieve, no matter how long they live.
I have struggled with the deaths, but ultimately adopted the words that describe it best for me. I hope it comforts you in the years that follow when time eases the pain we feel right now.
"The light that burns twice as bright, burns half as long".
EJ and Jason were that light. They excelled, they flourished under yours, and the Army's guidance. They blossomed into the top echelon of our society, with the values and honorable qualities that many would be enviable to posess.
Who Jason was is a direct reflection of the fine family values, and selflessness you placed in him, and there can never be any sadness about the person that he became. Only that you lost him and will not enjoy his comfort on a daily interaction from this time forward. As time passes, he will be with you in your memories and your heart, and that will comfort you the rest of your days.
Our family shares your tremendous loss, and God has seen fit to unite our families as friends for the endurance that you desire it to be. Even if it is until our deaths. Please feel free to use the platform he has provided us to use us as a shelter, a family extension, or join us in human fellowship anytime you desire.
I am, sincerely and unwaveringly, your friend and EJ's Uncle.
Terry Huggans
September 14, 2006
Tim and Sue and the Merrill family:I am so very sorry for the loss of your son. I am grateful for his service and you will be in our prayers.
Tina McCoy
September 14, 2006
To the family of Jason L. Merrill,
I am very sorry to hear of your loss and will be keeping you in my prayers. I am a new Army Mom and my heart goes out to you in this time of great need. I pray God will send you peace and comfort beyond measure. Never forget how many lives your Son has touched, his name will be forever branded across my heart. All of us mothers of Soldiers feel your pain as if it were our own and you will stay in our thoughts always. I wish each and every one of us could be there with you to help give you the support and courage to face these trying times...Being new to the life us Army Mothers go through, I am finding out very quickly that we truly are "A family of One"!!!
Telleny Gilliam
September 13, 2006
Jason's memory will live on in the hearts of the staff and students of Sun Valley High School. Thank you for touching our lives.
Tara Brockunier
September 13, 2006
Sue, Tim, Amber and Family,
I'm so sadened by the loss of Jason. Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers and that your friends are here for you.
Love, Tara
Maurine Salcido
September 13, 2006
What a special boy Jason was and still is. We are so blessed to be a part of this family which watches out for eachother and provides support like a shoulder to lean on when hardships come our way. These trials are given to make us stronger, and to prove us for the life to come. I'm know Jason has been called to be a valiant servant on the other side, upholding the same honor and virtue he held while on this earth. We love you all, and will keep you in our prayers!
KENNETH . BARBARA EHLE
September 13, 2006
TO THE JASON MERRILL FAMILY. OUR HEARTS GO OUT TO YOU ALL ON THE LOST OF YOUR WONDERFUL SON JASON. WE KNOW THE SORROW.AS WE LOST OUR GRANDSON CPL. JERAMIAH W. ROBINSON ON OCT 6 2005 IN IRAQ BY A ROAD SIDE BOMB. YOUR SON WAS A WONDERFUL SOLDER AS WAS OUR GRAND SON.OUR PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AT THIS TIME. JERAMIAH WAS A MESA SOLDER ALSO.
Philip Vogel, MSG-USAR(ret)
September 13, 2006
I know God will wrap his loving arms around the Merrill family during this sad time. As a Vietnam veteran and Gulf War veteran and a proud member of the the Big Red One, Jason is with his brothers, the finest this Nation has to offer. Jason, you are not and never will be forgotten. I fly my flag in salute to you and for your sacrifice for all of us. God Bless the Merrill family.
Susie Payne
September 13, 2006
From another local U.S. Army family who also has a soldier in Iraq, please accept our condolences. Your son was an exceptional man and dignified human being. Though we did not know your son Jason Merrill, personally, we thank him and we thank you for his fantastic contribution to not only our country but to our world. Jason's story is inspirational and I can only hope and pray that I raise my son to be such a caring and confident person willing to give so much. Jason will not be forgotten. May God give you peace during this difficult time. You are all in our prayers.
Darwin and Terri Hall
September 13, 2006
Tim and Sue,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. How proud you must be of this valiant son. We are grateful for his service and dedication to help keep our county free and safe. May you find comfort in the knowledge of Eternal Families.
Bern Porter
September 13, 2006
Tim, Sue & family -
While I did not know your son, your grandfather Phil was my Bishop while I was in law school in Tucson. He and Fern were dear friends.
I remember one Sunday, the High Councilman assigned to speak in our ward went on and on and on... Finally, Bishop Merrill stood up, put his arm around the High Councilman, and said, "I'm sorry, Bro. Jones (or whoever), but I promised my ward members that they would be home in time to watch Maverick."
I am certain that Grandpa Merrill has met Jason with out-stretched arms, with his infectious smile and will be watching over your family as they continue their earthly journey in preparation for that final reunion in our Father's highest kingdom.
You must be very proud of a son who honored God and Country as he did.
May God bless you Fern, Tim, Sue and all...
BEN HOWARD
September 13, 2006
MAY GOD BE WITH YOU IN THIS TIME OF TRAGEDY! YOUR SON GAVE HIS ALL IN SUPPORT OF OUR COUNTRY AND EVERY AMERICAN OWES HIM A DEEP DEBT OF GRADITUDE. GOD BLESS YOU AND COMFORT YOU AND TRUST THAT YOU WILL SEE JASON AGAIN! MY FAMILY SALUTES YOUR SON AND YOUR FAMILY!
Ben Howard,MSgt, USAF (Ret)
Chandler, AZ
September 13, 2006
I did not know Jason but want to say thanks for protecting our great country.
Angela Carder
September 13, 2006
I met Jason last summer while visiting one of his friends while they were stationed in Germany. He was such a sweetie. I had a foot injury and he helped me hobble around town, rub my feet, and keep me entertained as I recovered for a few days before heading back across Europe.
I am very blessed to have met such a great guy for such a short time. JJ truly put a smile on your face and made you laugh til it hurt.
I will miss him, but he will live on through our picutres and stories. I will pray for him and his family.
Love you JJ Merr Merr!!
Mindi V
September 12, 2006
I am so sorry to hear about your wonderful son, he was a great man. My thought are with you at this difficult time in your lives.
judy day
September 12, 2006
Dear family of Jason,
Jason was a bright and caring young man. He was always welcomed in our home. He taught our daughter about young true love. Our deepest sympathies with your family.
Judy Day, David Day & family
Mother of Stephanie Hailey (Eyre)
Donna Hudson (fka Olson)
September 12, 2006
Tim, Sue and family:
I was saddened to learn about Jason's tragic death. I have many fond memories of him trying to make the kids "behave" when they came over to swim or watch movies.
He is truly an American hero. You are in my heart and prayers.
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