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for Roger Napper
Nathan Blair
May 25, 2025
I am happy I found this. This Memorial Day and all before I remember my friend, while our friendship was brief, it was impactful. Roger was my roommate while stationed in Bahrain. I found out of his passing while out to sea. He was a good friend. He was a little older than me and so I looked up to him quite a bit. He often spoke of his wife and family back home and made me want to be a better person. Thank you Roger and may you rest in peace my friend.
Mom
February 13, 2025
Mom
February 13, 2025
Happy 48th Birthday,
We miss you dearly and you are always in our hearts
February 13, 2016
Today would have been your 40th birthday we have thought of you today missing you. Until we meet again in heaven. Happy birthday I love you❤
October 6, 2015
Today nine years ago, we loss you. I thank the Lord for the years we were together, so many wonderful memories to look back on. But we will be together when we meet again with the Lord. I love you with all my heart.
Mom
August 9, 2015
I miss my son, there is not a day that goes by that I don't think of him. But I know he is in a better place. And I know I will be with him in heaven. Life hasn't been the same without you, l love and miss you.
Curtis Mozingo
March 19, 2015
Me & Roger served in the Navy together in Bahrian. I was out to sea when I got the word he passed. I was hurt, but I know he's in a better place. Love you brother.
Brianne Cherry
October 19, 2013
Missing and thinking of my friend tonight. Love you!
Roger Napper Sr.
October 4, 2013
We come to that time of year once again and my thoughts go toward Roger. It has been 7 years now, many things have changed, but not really. Yes, life goes on and time changes some things, but the heart reminds much the same. I guess that is why heaven will be so different. Nothing will be able to empty the heart, the mind, the soul. All will be full there. No more pain, or emptiness of heart. Yes, another year has passed here, but that just means one more year closer to heaven. There will be Mother and Father waiting, along with Roger.
Roger Napper
April 14, 2012
Just thinking of my son, Roger, and how life is so much different now. I believe God has a purpose for all of us, and He makes no mistakes. Not sure why Roger's life was so short, but God does. I have a great concern for Chynna, knowing how much she loved her Dad. They are both special and you could see it when they were together. Chynna, please remember what you do with your life will reflect upon others that love you both. God bless. Roger A. Napper Sr.
Peggy Childers
October 8, 2011
To the family and friends of Petty Officer 3rd Class Roger Allan Napper:
Please accept my remembrance of Roger on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
December 18, 2010
I love you always.
Joe Stanco
October 13, 2010
Man I can't even believe its been four years. I miss you bro. You are an often thought and so is your family. Our friendship was cut short but the great times we had will never go away and are spoken of often.
Peggy Childers
October 7, 2010
To the family and friends of Petty Officer 3rd Class Roger Allan Napper:
Remembering Roger on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
josh cherry
August 27, 2010
I sure do miss Roger. Joshua Cherry( Eton,ga)
Joshua Napper
August 18, 2010
My heart goes with every Soldier, Sailor, Marine and Airman that pays the ultimate sacrifice. They are my brothers and sisters at arms! My prayer are with your family.
Mark Livesay
April 30, 2010
I went to school with Roger at South Hills Christian School in PA. I found our old class picture from 7th grade. He stood beside me, & Lord knows what sort of ornery smiles we had on our faces... I always remember us laughing, & having a great time when we were kids. I have those wonderful memories to remember him by. I know he is with Jesus, & truly this is all that matters in the end. Life is so short, but it is true he is greatly missed. You are loved, & never will be forgotten Roger...
chynna napper
January 8, 2010
My daddy was the best daddy i could ask for :) sure he wasnt perfect but i loved him anyways ill never forget him he is my hero and forever until we are both in heaven will i wonder w
hat life would be like if he was still alive
Becky Millirons
October 7, 2009
Just thinking of you all and sending my prayers and love to you this 3rd anniversary of Lil Roger's death. Love you all!
October 7, 2009
To Roger's family and friends, please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you. May God bless you all.
Kenna Larra
March 11, 2009
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Sincerely,
Kenna
In Memory of Roger ~ (Debra Estep)
October 7, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Roger, but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
Peggy Childers
October 5, 2008
To the family of Petty Officer 3rd Class Roger Allan Napper:
Roger gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
August 4, 2008
To the family and friends of Petty Officer 3rd Class Napper,
I am so sorry for your loss.
My name is Maggie Selzer, and I am directing ‘Run for the Fallen 5K run/walk’ in Boalsburg, PA (just outside of State College) on August 24th, 2008. The event, held on the PA military Museum grounds, aims to keep alive the memory of all fallen soldiers, but particularly those from PA. All proceeds from the event will go to organizations that support the families of fallen soldiers and supports wounded soldiers.
I encourage you to learn more about the event at www.freewebs.com/runforthefallen5k/
index.htm.
The event is meant to keep alive the memories of brave men and women like Petty Officer 3rd Class Napper.
If you have any questions, or would like to send a memory of Petty Officer 3rd Class Napper to be included with the flag memorial that will be set up at this event, please contact me at (814) 571-8755 or [email protected].
June 8, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Petty Officer 3rd Class Napper!
Michelle DiPiazza
November 2, 2007
To the family of Roger: I was shocked and saddened to read of your loss. I was an elementary school classmate of Roger's back in PA and although we haven't been in contact since then, I remember him fondly. My condolences for your loss.
August 15, 2007
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
Florence McSween-Elkins
August 1, 2007
To All Parents
“I’ll lend you for a little time a child of Mine,” He said.
“For you to love the While he lives and mourn for when he’s dead.
It may be six or seven years, or 22 or three,
But will you, till I call him back, take care of him for me?
He’ll bring his charms to gladden you, and shall his stay be brief.
You’ll have his lovely memories as solace and relief.
“I cannot promise he will stay, since all from earth return,
But there are some lessons taught down there I want this child to learn.
I’ve looked the wide world over in my search for teachers true
And from the throngs that crowd life’s lanes I have selected you.
Now will you give him all your love, nor think the labor vain,
Nor hate Me when I come to take him back again?”
For all the joy Thy child shall bring, the risk of grief we’ll run.
We’ll shelter him with tenderness, we’ll love him while we may
And for the happiness we’ve known forever grateful stay;
But shall the angels call for him much sooner than we’ve planned.
We’ll brave the bitter grief that comes and try to understand.”
I share in your loss; Proud Mother of Petty Officer 1st Class Joseph Adam McSween EODMU-11; IKA near Kirkuk, Iraq on 04-06-07
August 1, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Petty Officer 3rd Class Napper and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
Brandi Budd
May 28, 2007
Mr. and Mrs. Napper, my prayers are for you and your family today. I worked with him at Best Buy in Greensburg and he was a great person.
Robyn G
April 4, 2007
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASRUED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. GODSPEED AND SEMPER FI.
A PROUD MARINE MOM
Lee Sirotnak
January 26, 2007
As we offer prayers for your family in this time of sorrow, we will also offer prayers of thankfulness for the work and sacrifice of your Seaman, Roger. God Bless your family, may you find joy in your memories of him, and peace and comfort in knowing that there are many military families keeping you in our hearts.
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
January 3, 2007
My heartfelt sympathy to the Napper family in the loss of Roger. I did not know Roger, ( I lived in the Easton/Bangor PA area 52 years) but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. Roger you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
Jason Lathrop
October 18, 2006
Good Evening,
I did not know Roger, however I am a member of the US Navy also a Master At Arms. My hometown is Linden, MI and I was devistated to read about Roger. On behalf of my self and Naval Reserve Security Forces at Naval Station Everett, WA our hearts and prayers go out to the friends and family. God Bless
Marlene Haines
October 17, 2006
Brother Roger & Myrna,
Just want you to know that my prayers and thoughts are with you and your family at this very tough time in your lives. We know that God is still on His throne and He will be there to comfort you all.
Our church in Washinton, Pa. supports your ministry. (Park Avenue Baptist Church)
Terry Stanco
October 16, 2006
My thoughts and prayers are with Meridith and the family.My son Joseph loved Roger like a brother. It is with love and honor that my son takes Roger home to his loved ones.
MAC PORTILLO
October 16, 2006
My condolences to his family. I worked with him in Great Lakes and we met again in Bahrain. You should all be proud of him as I was. Chynna, your father was a great warrior and friend.
Gloria Waite
October 15, 2006
I know this must be a great loss to your family, you are all in myprayers. Thank God for brave young men such as Roger.
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