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David Unger Obituary
He was born the son of Diana L. Daniel Pitts and Matthew E. Unger on October 31, 1984 in Kansas City, KS.
He married Laura K. Ott on February 14, 2004 in Lampasas County, TX. She survives of the home.
Cpl. Unger enlisted in the U.S. Army on August 21, 2003 after graduating from Leavenworth High School. He was raised in the Leavenworth area and had attended West Middle School and David Brewer Elementary. Since he was 13 he had worked at the Main Post Chapel on Fort Leavenworth. David was always there for his friends and was a comic relief when things were tense. During his off time in Iraq he kept busy by producing an 'Iraq Cribs' that was enjoyed by all of his many friends and family. He was full of life and touched many lives and will be deeply missed.
He is survived by his wife Laura K. Unger; their son Gage M. Unger; father Matthew E. Unger, Lansing; mother and step-father Diana L. and Scott Pitts, Easton, KS; brothers Jeremy Unger and Shane Unger; sisters Joani Unger and Sadie Pitts, all of Easton; grandparents Don and Kathie Echols, Easton, Tom Daniel, Sunrise Beach, MO, and Virginia and James Culicigno, St. Louis, MO; great-grandparents Pete and Gertrude Derezinski, Leavenworth; and many uncles and aunts including Joe Unger, Joe (Tom) Daniel, and Mary Shelley; and numerous cousins including Caitlin Sullivan;his grandfather Edward Unger and great-grandparents Danny and Mary Daniel preceded him in death.Services:A visitation will be held Thursday, October 26, 2006 from 5:00-8:00 p.m. at the Leavenworth High School gymnasium. Friends may call from 11:00 a.m. until 3:00 p.m. at the BELDEN-SEXTON-SUMPTER Funeral Chapel.A service will be held Friday, October 27, 2006 at 10:00 a.m. at the Fort Leavenworth Main Post Chapel. Please prepare to arrive early with your identification for the front gate security check. Burial with full military honors will follow in the Fort Leavenworth National Cemetery.
In lieu of flowers the family requests that memorials are made to the David Unger Memorial Fund in care of the Belden-Sexton-Sumpter Funeral Chapel (500 Oak St. Leavenworth, KS 66048; 913-682-1614) or the Frontier Credit Union (690 Eisenhower Leavenworth, KS 66048; attn: Jodi or Brenda).
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Memories and Condolences
for David Unger
Sean
December 1, 2020
I miss you brother. I still have the charizard
Laila
October 14, 2020
I miss and love you dad. We all do. I hope everyday you're up there smiling and trying your best to guide us as if you were here with us physically. You're the light guiding us in the darkness and we all love you so much ❤
Mom
October 14, 2020
Life has continued to push forward without you. We love you as we did before you left us, we miss you more each day. You now have 4 notices and nephews. Sadie is graduating this year, your baby sister! Laila is graduating, has your smile and so much resemblance, your beautiful daughter. Gage is white the guy. Your kind heart, humor, smile. Your other 3 siblings are living life. When I look at them, I see you peeking out in different ways. Life has gone on, but a part of it hit a brick wall nearly 14 years ago and we havent fully dug ourselves out. I love you David!
October 13, 2020
I miss you
&
I'll never stop
Tomorrow is our Daughters 17th birthday. Shes so much like you! She hilarious and caring just like you, not to mention shes got your smile. I see you so clearly in her eyes. She wishes as do i that you could be here on earth with us all. You would be
Jennifer Martin
June 24, 2020
Laila
April 9, 2020
Dad soon i'm going to be 17 and I just really wish i could be with the goofy, fun and loving person everyone loves and talks about. Mom misses you too everyday and no matter what she is always going to love you with all her heart. I often ask her questions about you all the time like what you like to do and your favorite color is or little things you liked or did. I just really miss you dad and i love you.
Jennifer
January 14, 2020
I remember you.
I remember the way your eyes closed when youd laugh or smile big.
I remember the way youd drive with your right hand on the steering wheel With that little lean of yours lol.
I remember your spinning plastic rims you loved so much on that big baby blue Oldsmobile.
I remember the silly faces youd make to break any awkward silence.
I remember the way youd bite your nails out of habit.
I remember so much and as the years pass I fight to hang on to every detail about you!
I cry, I shake my head and laugh and smile with tears in my eyes when I think of you & then I cry some more because I miss you!
Laila
December 25, 2018
When you speak of him, speak not with tears, for thoughts of him should not be sad. Let memories of the times you shared give you comfort, for his life was rich because of you. You were a great man and father david we all love you. My prayers are with you Diana, and the rest of the family.
Diana Unger Pitts
August 31, 2018
I miss you the same everyday. More is everyday. September is upon us. The last conversation share remembered. The last to speak with you in the family. Your words and the sound of your voice radiate in my mind and heart. You would be here on the farm with us. Living your siblings, children , nieces and nephews. Our family would be whole but other plans happened. I love and miss you so very much. I miss you the same. Love you. Mom
Jennifer
August 22, 2018
I have so much to say....
I miss you
Everyday without question!
Our baby girl has graduated from 8th grade !! Xoxo couldn't be more proud of her David
Jennifer Martin
June 2, 2017
Gail Wiley
May 29, 2017
David you are a hero to so many, and I have no doubt that Gage will grow up to be a fine man like you.
My thoughts and prayers are with you Diana, Gage and his mom, and the rest of the family on this Memorial Day.
Gail Wiley
Charlie Gili
March 24, 2017
Hello,
We would like to express our deepest condolences and also let the Unger Family and friends know that we will be sending Care Packages to deployed troops this week and we'll be dedicating several of these to your loved one. Each package will carry the name, photo and the hometown of David M. Unger US Army Corporal. We realize that this is a small tribute, but we do this with all respect and sincerity and we want you to know that it is made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals from across the American youth hockey community. We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you safe and strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of the US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign
May 30, 2016
You fought hard and it will never be forgotten nor was your sacrifice in vain. You continue to inspire so many and courage is the legacy you've left behind.
Praying for the peace and comfort of the Lord to blanket your family.
Gail Wiley and Family
May 29, 2016
On this Memorial Day weekend it is not about picnics and celebration; instead it is about thanking those who have served and given their time and life for our country. Therefore I say thank you my sweet prince, thank your for your sacrifice, thank you for the love of your country and thank you for following in your fathers footsteps..he loves you so much and is so proud of you! On this Memorial Day our hearts continue to break because we miss you dearly, yet our hearts explodes with pride and love for you! Watch over us and protect all those who love you! Thank you!
May 16, 2016
Thoughts of you came to me today...in wondering what it would be like if you were still here...what would you be doing..assuming a wondeful father and great big brother...we cannot take back a day or a missed moment...I only hope you know you are missed more than you can imagine...please watch over your father..he needs you!
May 9, 2016
Mother's Day 2016 came and went but I can only imagine the emptiness which remains in your mamas heart...it can never be filled or mended...but only comforted in knowing you are watching over her and the knowing that you will always be her boy no matter how far you may travel.. Missing you for all those who remain to broken to tell you!
May 9, 2016
Today I heard a story..a story of a fallen soldier..a broken family with broken hearts...I thought of you...funny how just a thought of someone can bring tears to ones eyes...as the story went on my heart lightened as I was reminded you are safe and protecting others under the arms of God and our job is to continue to share your memory and share in Gods grace...as he needed you more than we did...loving you always...
May 8, 2016
A Soldier Reports to God
The Soldier stood and faced his God
Which must always come to pass
He hoped his shoes were shining
Just as brightly as his brass.
Step forward now, you soldier,
How shall I deal with you?
Have you always turned the other cheek?
To My Church have you been true?
The soldier squared his shoulders
and said, No Lord, I guess I ain't
Because those of us who carry guns
Can't always be a saint.
I've had to work most Sundays,
And at times my talk was tough.
And sometimes I've been violent,
Because the world is awfully rough.
But I never took a penny
That wasn't mine to keep...
Though I worked a lot of overtime
When the bills just got too steep.
And I never passed a cry for help,
Though at times I shook with fear, And sometimes, God forgive me,
I've wept unmanly tears.
I know I don't deserve a place
Among the people here.
They never wanted me around
Except to calm their fears.
If you've a place for me here, Lord,
It needn't be so grand,
I've never had that much in life,
So if you don't I'll understand.
May 7, 2016
Dear angel you are missed more than you can imagine, we carry you in our hearts everyday..watch over your family and give your dad the peace he needs to live his life..he stopped the day you were taken to heaven. You are loved and miss more than you will ever know. Until we meet again.. God bless!
April 29, 2016
God Bless the angel that remains watching over us!
January 3, 2016
I miss you. I will always miss you. Life is forever different each day however, missing you remains constant. I love you forever and will always speak your name whenever I can. I love you David. Love, Mom
May 25, 2015
Never forgotten, and will always be grateful.
God Bless you Diana. You are an amazing mother and woman.
My Best Regards,
Gail Wiley
Scott Borawski
March 28, 2015
Think of you daily brother, never forgotten......
March 28, 2015
April is around the corner. The 29th of April is the day you arrived back from Iraq for two weeks of R&R. I will never forget that day. How you hugged everyone, the look on your face when you hugged and saw each family member there to greet you at the airport. You are my first born always. I should have gone before you but for some reason we are left here without you. I have tried to do you proud. To educate on the true meaning of what you and so many others have given in a theater of country (war) not of ours. I will speak your name and as many others as I can that have gone on before us. I love you, miss you and will NEVER forget. The longing in my heart makes my gut ill. I love you David. Love, Mom
Alana Schellenschlager
March 26, 2015
I never had the privilege to know you, but I just watched The Nancy Grace Show and she always ends every night with a moment of silence for a fallen hero. Tonight was YOUR night, you were the fallen hero. So I thought I would take the time to thank you for serving, protecting and giving your life, "The Ultimate Sacrifice" for our country so that we can enjoy our freedoms. My thoughts and prayers go out to your family, friends and loved ones. They must be proud and heartbroken at the same time. They say time heals all wounds, but the fact is, time only allows loved ones to adjust to earthly life without you physically in it. You were called home to Heaven because God needed more Holy Warriors to serve Him. So God Bless and keep you in his arms and give your family comfort and peace in knowing that we all will eventually be reunited with our loved ones again. God Speed and Thank You!
Christy W
October 17, 2014
Year's have past yet the lose of you is still fresh. I'm miss you today as much as then. Love you!
Gail Wiley
May 26, 2014
Still grateful to you Davy for the ultimate sacrifice you made so many years ago. And to you too Diana and family.
God Bless You Always,
Gail Wiley [email protected]
Christy
May 14, 2014
Think of you today! Love you always.
October 25, 2013
Today we brought you home on your last flight ever, seven years ago. These days are never easy. So many that have significance in Oct. The KIA date, Oct. 25 when we brought you home, 26 was the memorial at the high school, the 27th was your funeral and the 31st, it'll be your 29th birthday. I will never forget you and will love you always as I have from the very first day I knew you would be part of our lives. I love and miss you David. ~Mom
October 23, 2013
October is always so hard for me, Gage talks about you all the time. He loves to talk to me about all the pictures I have of you all over the place. It breaks my heart that you are not here with us. I love you and miss you.
Christy Wilson
October 21, 2013
Well my friend so much time has passed and yet it till seems like yesterday. Loving and missing you.
lil' bro
August 17, 2013
well my friend a lot has happened since we last spoke, I have a little one on the way, we are all so excited. I finally deployed I know you wouldn't have wanted it but its what I had to do, I had to see what you saw and experience what you did in more positive out comes I pray. I think about you a lot here, what it would have been like if we could have done this together hell we could have fixed this place all on our own, your warm creepy smiles and my award winning charm haha. oh I miss you bud an some times it hurts so bad to think about you not being here, but I still do and i live the best way i know how, spreading your smiles and laughter every where i go! Keep an eye on or lil brother, he's been having some rough goes at things an i know it hard on him, heck its hard on me not being able to be there with him because i know excactly the things he's going through. Look out for mom to man she's having a hell of a time with me being gone, and I cant blame her. I really miss you a lot bro, wish you were here to share the wealth I love you with all my heart!
Gail Wiley
May 27, 2013
The sacrifice of your life is not forgotten, nor is the deep loss your parents, Gage and the rest of your family still feels.
January 20, 2013
I have Gage tonight and he was dancing to donkey kong rap and all I could think about was how very much you and he are, he is just like you were and we love both of you very much, wish you were here :'(
January 20, 2013
January 20, 2013
Christy
October 17, 2012
A day I will never forget. Missing you always and thinking of you often.
jenn lopez
October 17, 2012
Another year has come and gone :( we all miss you and will never forget ?
Susan Loudon
October 17, 2012
Diana, as we travel to Arlington this morning I am keeping the memories of 4 heroes in my thoughts: David, Russ, Joe and Chris. I know this date will always mark time for us, as we remember how our lives changed in an instant. May you find some semblance of peace on this day. Prayers and hugs to my fellow Gold Star Mom.
October 16, 2012
In a few short minutes, six years ago in Iraq you were taken from us. I will never understand why and as your mother will never be able to take the bandaide off my wound. I do things in honor of you, Chris, Joe and Russ because it helps to fill the void. With Jeremy in it also helps me to honor his service too. I think of you each time something happens that you should have been at. When Gage calls me and tells me out of the blue that he is eating at a mexican restaurant or a see a picture of your beautiful daughter Laila on facebook, or your brothers and sisters do something like you would have done. I miss you. No others words!! JUST MISS YOU!!! :( Love,Mom
October 16, 2012
You are always on my mind<3
Aunt Shirley
October 14, 2012
Remembering you and thinking 0f your mom and dad and all the siblings as the anniversary of departure from this life approches. You are not forgotten.
judy penney
October 11, 2012
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
October 11, 2012
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
steve lee
October 11, 2012
Thank so much for your service DAVID M. UNGER !! You will be missed by all. God Bless you and your family. All Gave Some YOU Gave ALL!!
Janice Feaster
October 11, 2012
Dear God in heaven, grant unto David eternal rest. Bless those he served with and those who mourn his death.Help me honor his sacrifice every October 17, that when I celebrate my birthday I remember his ultimate gift to our country. God bless his special mother, Diana, whose friendship I share because of this date. In the name of the Father, and the Son, and the Holy Spirit, Amen.
October 9, 2012
6 years to the day that you past away on the 17th of this month that makes me cry so much, I cherish our memory of the times growing up just wishing we had the time to finish it up, I stop to think about you now an then even the times I sin I still see that evil smirking grin. You were my brother the oldest of five, you taught me to fight and then how to drive. You showed me things that only a brother could, understood when I didn't even when I should. I love you fully I want you to know, superman has nothing on my hero. It's been 6 years without you brother, an not one single day has past that I have not thought about you in some kind of way. Some days come easier than the rest, but there will always be a void in me because you are not here. I wish you could be here to see the people we have become and watch are baby brother and sisters grow. They are growing so fast, slipping away from me in a since, mostly just gaining ground I guess. I miss you best friend and I still think about the day I saw you again, it had been over a year an I was called in class to be checked out. I had no idea it was you and I was so excited. You always found ways to reach me when you had time to call even if you had to get the school number from mom. I miss you so much David an I've done alright by myself, I like to think a lot of you lives thru me an the sibs, I also like to think I'm the man I am today because of the man you were. Even when things got rough on us you made a stand to get us thru. I love you big bro, I thank you for your service and I'm so very proud to be able to call you my brother my hero. Till death I will remember you and in death I we will reunite. Until then keep a watchful eye.
May 26, 2012
Still missing you. Will always miss you. This Memorial Day is no different than any day. I remember you everyday. Every family event that happens we miss your presence. No words, just miss you.
ace-
January 3, 2012
Well bud christmas was great everyone was together for once. Got along pretty well to. Only a lil while left till I'm done, then ill be doin the real thing. Miss you a whole bunch dude, I'm bout to grAduate with honors crazy huh. Well jus thought id stop in ta see ya. It was good to see ya the other day. Giggity alright... much love
December 19, 2011
Hi,sweetheart.Tomorrow is going to be a rough day for us. Gage is going to have his surgery. Please stand by God and ask him to watch over your little son.He is a tough little guy and reminds us of you all the time. We got him a BB gun-per his request when Grandpa Don went and had lunch with him.(you know how grandpa Don is with you grand kids:) and of course we got it. He had a good time with Uncle Shane showing him how to shoot it. We sure hope this surgery helps his migrains. I know you are watching over him all the time. Put your angle arms around him tomorrow and keep him safe. I love and miss you so much. You are always missed and loved so much. Tell g'ma Gertie we love her and g'pa Pete misses her so awfull much. Till I write again, I'll always love and keep you close to my heart! Love you, Grandma Kathie
December 8, 2011
I miss you buddy. So much would be different if you were here. Our lives are more different and full of hurt than I would have ever imagined. Please place your hand and heart on everyone here and let them feel how you would want some things to be. I miss you more each day.Love ya! Mom
December 7, 2011
hey dave i just wanted to let you know that i am the FIRST UNGER( from mom) to make it to college...and actually stay a full semester. next weeks finals and their gonna be killer. i know youll be helping me cheat my way through them someone( whipser the answers in my ear!) but i should go. love you bro bro
Nick Inkman
December 7, 2011
hey there David,
hey sorry that it has been so long that i have look at this but i wanted to let you know i am proud of you for serving our country and for what you did, and my heart goes out to you, i love you and miss you.
your cousin
Nick
Peggy Childers
October 17, 2011
To the family and friends of Cpl. David M. Unger:
Please accept my remembrance of David on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Denise Culbertson
October 17, 2011
Hugs and prayers to all of you as a day that we never wanted to share comes and goes again. It is so hard to believe it has been five years, but yet it seems like just yesterday.
Teresa
October 17, 2011
It is so hard to believe it has been 5 years. I pray that God will help all those that love you to get through the very difficult days ahead. You were such a cute kid, a handsome soldier and now an angel on duty 24/7. Thank you David!
christy
October 17, 2011
Five years has passed and yet the day seems like it was just yesterday. I miss you always and think about you often. Your laugh, your smile, your walk and those dog gone baggy jeans ( five sizes to big). Nothing about you is forgotten. Nampa Na is ten now and talks about you often. Remember her laughing at you every time you looked at her or played on the floor with her at the chapel. E.J. is 13 and bigger than a 13yr old should be. We all miss you. . Untill we meet again. Love you always and forever.
Susan Loudon
October 17, 2011
I am keeping your family in my prayers for this most difficult day. Our family is forever bonded with yours as our sons wait for us in Heaven.
Thank you David for your service and sacrifice.
Debbie
October 17, 2011
David,
There are no words that fit on days like this. Just know our family thinks of you every time we are in Leavenworth.The fact that we even met under those circumstances is unreal. You finished your mission on earth so enjoy your final one in Heaven. 5 years is a long time but soon, you will be united with your family and what a joy that will be. Rest, David.
October 17, 2011
David, today is the day we all hate to see come. It still seems like it was just yesterday. We have Gage and Laila to see your beautiful face and ways in them. Be with all the family today. It is so hard for all of us. Reach down and give G'pa Don a birthday hug today and let him feel your presence. At time I feel that you are here with me. Help us to go forward, remembering all the soldiers that have sacrificed their all for us. We miss you so very very much!!! Grandpa Don always mentions all the places that meant alot to him as we pass them, 10th st, the breakfast that you and him had when you were home, etc. Watch over your siblings as they are having a hard time right now. Tell G'ma Gertie hey for us. I know she is probably with you, looking down on us today. We'll always keep you in our hearts forever!!!!! MISS AND LOVE YOU, G'ma Kathie, G'pa Don and great g'pa Pete
October 17, 2011
Sometimes I wonder if this sense of missing you is normal after so long. When family passes, that aching pain of loss never completely goes away, but we weren't family. We werent even one another's best friends. My mind tries to shame me into thinking that the sadness I hold over your death is fabricated, but my heart knows that it loved you in a way that childhood friends love. Memories with you are surrounded by bright tall trees of summer, a Sugar Ray album, and adventures to our "not so secret" secret spot. I can still see the disbelief in your face as we realized our secret thinking spots were the same dead end overlooking Limit Street! Often I think about the last time I got to see you when you came home for R&R. I can still feel the belly ache I had from laughing uncontrollably as we sat out on your back stoop with everyone and traded stories for a good hour. I remember gathering you in a hug before I left and feeling your skinny arms wrap around my neck. In that second I remember having a sense of peace that I think only comes from being around someone who reminds you of who you are... someone who ties you back to your younger years. I hold tight to those moments I have of you because wrapped inside of them is your unforgettable smile. It's the first thing that materializes in my mind whenever I think of you and be it 15 years ago when we first met or in those last memories I have of you, that smile never ages.
I love you David and truly miss you still. Your family is always in my heart right next to you.
October 16, 2011
hey dave, tommorrows the day that is stuck in my mind for ever and i cant seem to get it out. im sitting here in my room right thinking about how damn old youd be this year, and what you look like. it kills me to know that i wont be able to come visit you tommorrow, but i guess you would want me to be in class and actually learn things. i just hope they know that ill be physically there, but not mentally..not a day goes by that i think of you dave. and i know that mom is trying to be strong right now for everyone, but tommorrow i dont want you to be with anyone else but her. i think shes going to need you the most dave..but im going to write my paper now dave. i love you.
October 16, 2011
jbird
October 16, 2011
I always think it.will be easier when this time of year comes with each passing year. People say it will get better but somehow each time it brings more an more painful, I wonder sometimes if these signs your sending me are jus a weird timing thing or if it really is you. As I received the news of your death emotions filled my body that I had never felt nor could I describe them l, I never wanted to fill that way again but I go right back to that feeling everytime this date comes up. I keep pushing forward knowing that your behind me pushing making my journey that much more easy. We can never get you back an I will never be ok with that, i look at your death differently now that I am a soldier it hits harder means more. You were a good person you made people smile an taught me to do the same, I miss your smile an the laughter you brought me. If your with me now leave me an head to ks be with the rest of the family I no they are having a very hard time at this current time, I will be ok until you return. I couldn't ask for a better guardian angel, jus wish it didn't have to be you there will be a prayer in you an all your battles memory tomorrow I feel it is necessary plus I'm hoping it will help me thru this time. It will never get easy but the show will go on. : rest easy young soldier for you have fulfilled your duties, you have been reassigned to a new unit in heaven, your mission will be to look after all who need you in tough times, you were selected personally for this mission because your heart is full of love, life and laughter bring them good memories an do your best to eas there pain, now rest young soldier. I miss you more an more each day I love you.
October 14, 2011
Hey David,
About two weeks ago I was driving past the old house one Iowa. One of the very vibrant memories in my mind of you is when you came home in Nov. of 05 before going to Iraq and looking at my K State flag. You said, "Mom, take that flag down and replace it with the American flag". I did so right after you left but before you left for Iraq. When you came home for R&R from Iraq I remember you setting out on the picnic table, one leg outstretched on the deck floor and one hicked up on the table bench, you were smoking a cigarette and the wind was blowing the smoke back in your face. The next thing I remember is you laid the cigarette between the space between the table boards and began to unwrap the American flag that had become wrapped all around the flag pole. I never thought about this until those two weeks ago...you had learned to respect that flag more than you even probably knew. In your death, you taught me the something, that we can never say thank you enough to those that serve our nation. They do a job not many would opt to do...you were one of them and in your memory I will continue to honor that flag with you and your brother in my heart all the way! Love, Mom
Lillian burns
October 13, 2011
Oct 17 is comming up fast. I still miss you like the day I was told about your death. Talk to you later David
lil bro-
September 18, 2011
It's comin up the day I wish could be takin out of the calendar. Gonna be five years without you this year, I tell people about you an your story all the time an they can't believe what I'm doin. I guess they jus don't understand the people we are never backing down even tho were losing the fight. I can't describe the feeling I get when I think about you its like its not real or jus a bad dream. Wish I had your number jus to call an say hey or chat it up a bit, things are kinda crazy for me jus goin with the flow almost in a daze sometimes like I'm jus here for nothing but I'm actually doin good. Been thinkin bout you a lot hope to hear from ya. Stop in from time to time let me no your still here love you bro.
little sis
September 11, 2011
hey bro,
just having a hard time right now. its getting hard without you, itll be 5 years this october. every year people think that its gonna get easier for me but it doesnt, in some sick sense of form it gets harder knowing that you arent gettin to see me in college and my room, i met this girl named bre dave.. it think you would have loved her, shes just like me(only likes camo) id love for you to visit her sometime. but ill be seeing you in my dreams, im out.
July 31, 2011
I miss you Dave. Not a second, minute, hour, day goes by that you are not on my mind. I look at the picture of you and Uncle Joe at the old house when you were here for R&R back in May 06'.It is right above my computer. You are smiling that beautiful, goofy smile I miss so much. I have those thoughts of..what would you be doing, where would you be, would your hairline take after my family or your dads? How much stronger family bonds would have been had you not been torn from us. I continue to do what I do each day..yes..in your honor but also our military and veterans. Also, for my peace. I need to give back to those very people, like those you served with and now your little bro'. I need to make sure they are respected and honored, remembered each day. To take a piece out of my selfish, American daily life and give back. If more Americans did that..we'd have a better world! You will never be forgotten! Always loved, Always missed!!! I love you, Mom
lil bro
July 30, 2011
I wanted to tell you first I miss you like crazy an I wish you could have been there to see me graduate. I'm proud to follow in your footsteps an learn how you became the man that I so aspire to be you are my biggest motivator an will always remain my biggest hero. I only wish you could have walked with me through the years an helped lead me along the way but I have really grown as a strong individual, and I want to think you for what guidance your were able to give me thru those short precious years we were givin together I no in my heart and in my mind you were lookin down on me the day I graduated an were proud I felt it. I wake every day because I no that you did without complaint without complaining without a hesitation you did what you had to do I wish we could have spent more years together bro but that wasn't in the plan. I serve in your honor taking your place in roll call everyday I will try my hardest to fill your boots but no you can never be replaced. When it happens please protect me on the battle feild. I love an miss you so much big brother.
July 27, 2011
Hey Dave we didn't know each other long but what I knew of you was a clessing. Many things in my life changed after you died. I began life as a single mom and for the first time all alone. I moved back to Manhattan Ks to be near family and to start life with my boys. You and your family come into my thoughts often and think back on our days working at the chapel and the fun we had. You are never forgotten! God Bless You,
Mandy Appelgren
July 17, 2011
Hey you, I miss you so much, I ask why??? everynight before I fall asleep and still cry because you are gone, Gage is so much like you, it fills my heart with pride yet leaves a lump in my throat when we talk about you. Gage is such a wonderful little man and you would be very proud of him. Laura is doing a great job with him. We love and miss you everyday.
Human Being
June 11, 2011
David,
Your sacrifice for the country has been great. Person whose heart is filled with patriotism will never forget you.
I salute you , your Mother and Father for bringing such a great soul on to this earth.
America will always remember you.
Gail Wiley
May 30, 2011
We haven't forgotten your sacrifice, nor your mother's and the rest of your family's. We will never forget. Hoping you are seeing the gratitude and love poured out to you on this Memorial Day.
Gail Wiley
Tatiana Altice
May 27, 2011
Wow, I can't believe it's been five years. I still think about working with you and Gage's baby shower (he looks so much like you!) and even though I wasn't part of it for very long I still consider your family, my family. So, I just wanted to say, love ya, cous and miss you, always.
Tater
Becky Price
May 27, 2011
Missing u David
May 23, 2011
hey bro,
ill be graduating soon, 6 days to be exact. im actually really worried that im going to make the wrong decision... Florida or Kansas.. confusing, mom started crying when i told her that i applied fo KU. im trying to live for today, but i keep thinking about tommorrow. its been stressful lately. secret agent apples gone, and the wolf pack is slowly pulling apart. my and stew the jew are the last of the former wolf pack. but im in school and the bell is about to ring. pray that i wont slip and knock myslef out at graduation...ill be the last Unger to graduate from LV.
- Blueberry yum yum
graduating class of 2011:)
April 20, 2011
Hi Dave,watch over you younger brother as he goes through the next several months. I know you and grandma are so proud of Jeremy, as are all of us. It sometimes seems like I have lost more than you and grandma Gertie. Some of my relationships just aren't the same now as in the past. None of us are the same, but I still try to hold the family together. Family is my life!! Forever missing you, tell grandma hello
love,G'ma Kathie
April 7, 2011
The Cord
We are connected,
My child and I, by
An invisible cord
Not seen by the eye.
It's not like the cord
That connects us 'til birth
This cord can't been seen
By any on Earth.
This cord does it's work
Right from the start.
It binds us together
Attached to my heart.
I know that it's there
Though no one can see
The invisible cord
From my child to me.
The strength of this cord
Is hard to describe.
It can't be destroyed
It can't be denied.
It's stronger than any cord
Man could create
It withstands the test
Can hold any weight.
And though you are gone,
Though you're not here with me,
The cord is still there
But no one can see.
It pulls at my heart
I am bruised...I am sore,
But this cord is my lifeline
As never before.
I am thankful that God
Connects us this way
A mother and child
Death can't take it away!
Author Unknown
I am listening Dave.
Love,
Mom
March 30, 2011
I often wonder what would really be happening if you were actually here David. Life would be much simpler.
March 29, 2011
As the years roll by it seems that the pain and heartache gets worse. Ive never said goodbye I've always said see you soon, just like you would always tell me. I don't ever want to let go and as long as I have Laila I promised I would make sure she never forget who you where and the love you have for her. You maybe gone physical but your spirit is always with me especially when im at my lowest . You already know how much I miss you so until we meet again see you soon xoxoxoxo
March 3, 2011
hey dave,
keep the wolf pack strong. love you.
wolf pack out.
February 8, 2011
Hi Dave, we sure do miss you. We went to Gage's 6th birthday party sunday. He is growing up so fast. We could feel your presence, but always so hurtful that you are not actully here with us. Gage is more like you everytime we see him. Time just does not allow us to spend much time with him, which makes us sad. I know you and grandma Gertie were with us in spirit. You and Grandma Gertie are our angels now. Please help guide me in taking care of Grandpa Pete. He is so lonely. I wish I had more family to help me, but I'm so grateful for your wonderful grandpa Don. Jeremy helps when he is home, but he leaves apr 18 and then I''m trying to decide how to help grandpa Pete even more. Watch over the family, tell Grandma Gertie we love her and miss her. We will forever miss and love you. Sorry I havent written more. Love Grandma Kathie
February 2, 2011
The wishes you talked with Joani and her achieving them, being with Jay and Joani with their big decisions, Shaner being a sophmore with only 2 more years ahead of him before he looks seriously at going in the Coast Guard. You were with us with Jay enlisting in the Army. Through what we've learned from your death we have been able to make sure his paperwork is in order and that everything goes exactly where he wants it to go, that he got a MOS that will enable him to get a good job outside of the Army, and to know what to watch out for, also the support of some senior ranking officials for help if needed. I am going to miss him so much. I am proud of him just like I am forever proud of you. You are protecting your little bro through your death.
Joani is driving me crazy! I'm trying to keep up on all this GI Bill, scholarships, graduating info. and it's about to run me ragged. She on the other hand is just worried about how the roads are between here and town, ha!
Shane is doing his best in school. Needs to beef it up quite a bit, but he'll be okay. Keep your hand on him.
Sadie is getting so big. It'll be awhile yet before any of the above effect her, but it'll be here sooner than we know.
Scott is out blading waist high snow. The type of snowfall that you would love!! I can see you out in it. Smiling, falling, laughing always!
I am trying to manage life. All that it brings. There has been more hurt since your death, but I have dealt with it the best I could. Your death changed my life, things that were important before aren't now, things that weren't are and things I truly love have been limited from my life. Somethings, I just don't know how to handle it.
I miss you, love you and always think of you.
Love,
Mom
oompa loompa
January 31, 2011
Hey you! just wanted to say hey. I know that you are with all of us all the time but Jay and Joani have some big decisions to make this year. Please help them in making the decisions that are right for them. Miss you and love....
January 28, 2011
hey dave,
im just droping by to say i miss you. and that i really wish you were here, and could watch me achieve everything that you and i have hoped for.
love you.
Gail Wiley
December 27, 2010
Just want to let you know you're not forgotten, nor is your mother and family.
A Grateful American,
December 25, 2010
You were home for Christmas...but only in my dreams! Mike is here and it is really great. Had everyone out here last night for Christmas Eve. G'pa Tom commented several times how much Gage resembled you. I sat and looked around at everyone and once again reality hit, You were not here. You will always be missed, your void will never be able to be replaced, and you will forever be loved.
Always in my heart and thoughts.
Everyday of the year, not just a few!!
Love,
Mom
ace ventura
December 10, 2010
been awhile i no guess its easier jus to talk to you in my head that way i dont gotta spill these tears all over the place. i wanna say thanks because in all the dumb things i do i no you have a say in my thoughts an how i make my decisions, an your leadin me in the right direction some how some way, i seen mike the other day it was great he could never replace you but he some how fills the void like you to were exactly the same an if i didnt feel the pain already lol an he wasnt black it would be like you were never takin from us. i ask god all the time why you an if not why you why so soon, i stare at myself sometimes in the mirror an try as hard as i can to see your face in person one more time. i have a huge decision i have to make real soon for myself, im gonna need your help alot. i want you to no that im good startin to add things up on my own gettin myself together for the most part. i may be gettin to finally see my neice for once, i hope so jus another part of you. i miss you man so so much i get so mad thinkin bout it some times we werent done livin we werent done fightin, fact is it never gets easy i guess i no your around and you hear my thoughts but some times it jus doesnt cut it i need your faces your stupid irritating, aggrivating faces your baggy clothes, stupid bass bumpin down the street, an some times your older im gonna kick you butt serious faces... i love you man, do me a favor give billy a high five for me.
November 28, 2010
Love you,miss you and wish you were here. Mom
October 17, 2010
October 17, 2010
Remembering you David, and praying for all those you've left behind. You are not forgotten.
John 15:13~~Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends~~
AND for his country.
Christy W.
October 17, 2010
Four years have past and yet it seems like yesterday that the phone call came to tell the news of your death. I can remember everything that I did up to the moment I heard. I must say after that everything is a blank. I think about you all the time. Your goofy little faces or the sly smirks that you would give for this or that.
Every time I go on post with the kids they have to go see Davin. They still don't get it right but it amazes me in there own little way how much they miss you.
There are so many words to say but the most important ones are we miss and love you and wish every day that you were here with us. You are always in our hearts and NEVER will you be forgotten.
Peggy Childers
October 17, 2010
To the family and friends of Cpl. David M. Unger:
Remembering David on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
October 17, 2010
It's the day that will keep our families drawn together in remembrance and love for our sons who died together. I'm certain David, Russ and Chris are gathered in heaven to cheer us on in our pursuit of celebrating life in their memory.
Diana...the items you left at Arlington were still there...a little worn by weather, but readable...Thank you
Denise Culbertson
October 16, 2010
Forever our families will be linked. We think of you this weekend as I know your family thinks of us.
David-I hope you and Russ are looking down and wrapping our hearts with your love this weekend and always.
Laura Unger
October 15, 2010
Hey David, It will be 4 years since your death date, this sunday Oct. 17. And 2 weeks from that day will be your 26th birthday. So, we will honor you in death and celebrate your life!
Love,
Laura
October 14, 2010
Hi Dave, its been along time since I wrote to you,but you know I think of you everyday. It will be 4 yrs Sunday Oct 17 and it seems like yesterday. Grandpa Don has a hard time with his birthday being on that day. We don't get to see Gage that often anymore,but he sure is growing up. Jennifer and I facebook and email, Laila still looks like Sadie, but of course you know that.Tell grandma Gertie we love her.Send a blessing down to all the family as this is such a hard time for us.G'pa Pete is so lonely without grandma Gertie. I hope you enjoy the pumpkin face I brought up for you.I will forever love and miss you. :( Love you Grandma Kathie
July 31, 2010
I wish Heaven had a phone so I could hear your voice again. I thought of you today, but that is nothing new. I thought about you yesterday, and days before that too. I think of u in silence, I often speak your name. All I have are memories and a picture in a frame. Your memory is a keepsake from which I'll never part. God has you in his arms, I have u in my heart.
I miss you so much David.
Love,
Mom
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