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Memories and Condolences
for Gary Koehler
GySgt Wayne Goode
May 29, 2017
I was Gary's recruiter. Such a good young man. Till Valhalla.
November 2, 2015
I'm a Marine who was with 1/8 BLT on the 24th MEU in 2006. I didn't know Gary well but I had the pleasure of serving with him.
Praying for you.
Semper Fi
November 2, 2015
Praying for you this time of year... Gary is a hell of a Marine...I'm a Marine who was with 1/8 on the 24th MEU with Gary in 2006.
Semper Fi
A. A.
May 30, 2014
I was a grade below you Gary we weren't friends but I knew who you were, an amazing brave man, you were easy to talk to and never judged! you had a smile that would light up a room... I thought about you today. Thank You for your sacrifice. You are a HERO.
Peggy Childers
November 1, 2011
To the family and friends of Cpl. Gary A. Koehler:
Please accept my remembrance of Gary on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Peggy Childers
November 1, 2010
To the family and friends of Cpl. Gary A. Koehler:
Remembering Gary on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Lj Safford Kehn
November 6, 2009
I remember the moment that I heard about Gary in 2006. Every year I remember that date...I have worn his name in every Frankenmuth Bavarian Parade since.
Laurajeanne Safford Kehn
Jim Martin
November 1, 2009
God bless you and your family. I stood for you in YPSI as a Patriot Guard.
Thank You
Slim Jim
B Swatek
September 4, 2009
I had the honor of knowing Cpl Koehler during the short time his unit was being transported to Iraq. He was truly a great person and an inspiration to others, who knew he couldn't take anything for granted. He will never be forgotten.
To his family: I'm only a half-hour away, so please contact me if you ever need anything.
[email protected]
God Bless
Erney Villarruel
August 23, 2009
I had the pleasure of meeting Gary when he and Elliot spent a few days with us right before they enlisted. I enjoyed seeing them together, so full of life. I will always remember seeing them horse around in Lake Roosevelt until they collapsed on the beach from exhaustion. I am grateful for having known him, he will be missed.
Doc Scalabrino
May 24, 2009
Never Forget...
Kenna Larra
March 4, 2009
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Sincerely,
Kenna
Mary Forester
November 1, 2008
Remembering you today, and knowing that you walk among Heroes !!!
Thank you Marine
Peggy Childers
November 1, 2008
To the family of Cpl. Gary A. Koehler:
Gary gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
J. Parker
November 1, 2008
My deep sympathy for the loss of your son, Gary. Each time a young man or woman gives their life in the cause of freedom, the world is a less brighter place to live. I share your sorrow and hope you find the faith to carry on. I lost my husband to an IED in Baghdad in 2004. May we all remember those who gave the ultimate sacrifice and the families they left behind.
In Memory of Gary ~ (Debra Estep)
November 1, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Gary, but I am remembering
his service and sacrifice. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
BigKev
October 31, 2008
Never forgotten..........
Kathy & Doug Hull
August 12, 2008
Our family will always remember and cherish the memories made with Ron, Mary, Robby and Gary, especially with Doug and I being chosen to be Gary's godparents, such an honor. We always got such a kick out of Gary, a funny, good looking kid right from birth! Too many stories to recite...Brian and David, our sons, the same age as Robby and Gary always kept us laughing when they were little...the conversations revolved mostly around poop and pee during our visits together as this was amusing to them in their early years..we were lucky to have had a lunch with Gary and his parents before he went back for his last tour of duty, with me stealing the check from Ron and apparently Gary being impressed with my stealthy move to get it!..our hearts were broken the day we got the call from Ron about Gary's passing, Gary will forever be in our hearts and memories along with Ron, Mary, Robby and Hillary and we will be forever in awe of his bravery and courage. Love and Miss you, Doug, Kathy, Brian and David Hull
June 15, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Cpl Koehler!
Gary in Iraq. We were going to take presents to the children and he was excited and couldn't help making others laugh.
May 26, 2008
Cpl. Danna Berry
May 26, 2008
Gary,
I raced home as fast as I could in hopes of getting to my computer while it was still Memorial Day so I could let you know that I thought about you. It's been almost 4 years since we last saw each other. And while it'll be many years before I get to see you again, I know that you'll be with Jesus until I get there. I held my wife's hand as she drifted to sleep carrying my second son, Zachary, as my oldest son, Camren, slept in his carseat. As I sat in the dark of the Jeep looking at my wife and then looking at my son in the mirror I thought of how Hillary must miss you. On this day we remember her as well and what she gave up that we might continue to live under a flag that flies freely. I thought of how you must've wished you could've raised a family and I want you to know, that in respect for you, I will not take mine for granted and will cherish every moment that I get with them.
Marines have a job in Heaven. They guard the gates. I hope your face is the first I see when I approach those gates.
Gary and my dad
Alexis Hlavaty
March 25, 2008
"Little by little the look of the country changes because of the men we admire." If we were to use Gary as a benchmark, for what is a truly great man, I think the world would be a better place. Gary was a best friend, and brother to me, and a day does not go by that I don't remember him and treasure our time with him.
Michael Godoy
November 7, 2007
To the Koehler Family,
Gary and all of you will always be in my toughts. I served with Gary in Iraq 2004, and some time in the SS plt. He became a good friend to me. He was one of the best Marines I ever met, and an even better friend. I will miss him dearly, and will keep all of you in my prayers. Forgive me for taking so long to write, But be assured that he was always in my thoughts.
Sara and Lee Wadsworth
November 3, 2007
As November 1, 2007 approached and passed No one could begin to seem to understand what family members and loved ones of Gary were going to endure emotionally. This has had to be one of the hardest days that you will ever have to re-live and I just want to extend a shoulder and our heart to the family. Gary had such a zest for life and that is something to admire. I was looking through some old depolyment pictures and videos a couple weeks ago and had to laugh because Gary was being himself silly and carefree, I guess those are the memories that we need to cherish. He will never be forgotten. Hillary, Mr. & Mrs. Koehler and family on this anniversary our thoughts and prayers go out to your family. God Bless
Beverley Bosselmann
November 1, 2007
Dear Mr. & Mrs. Koehler,
This is as painful a day as you will ever experience. How I wish that it was within my power to undo the death of your Gary. I have read the tributes to him, what a fine young man you raised. Your hearts must be bursting with pride for the beautiful person that he was even as they remain shattered with the loss of his life.
In time, the pain in your heart finds a place to rest and your life will resume with an altered pace. Gary will always be with you because you will always remember him. People he knew and loved will always remember him and even those who never had the honor of knowing him, as I, will always remember him and forever be thankful for his service to this country and the great gift that he gave.
May God bring solace to your broken hearts and bless you with peace.
Most sincerely,
Gold Star Mom to Cpl. Kirk Bosselmann KIA 11/27/04
Ian Rauscher
November 1, 2007
It has already been a year since you have passed and it only seems like yesterday you were with us. There was something that was said at the funeral and i still repeat in my head everyday and it was read as "As long as one preson remebers you, you will never be forgotten", and i can honestly say that you will never be forgotten. May you look down upon your friends and family and be proud of how we carry your memory.Rest in peace Gary.
August 17, 2007
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
August 2, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Cpl Koehler and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
Danna Berry
August 2, 2007
I knew and served with Gary in Iraq, June-Jan 2004. He will be missed, but not forgotten.
ROBYN GARSIDE
April 2, 2007
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST SYMPATHIES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE ON. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. STAY STRONG AND GODSPEED. SEMPER FI
A PROUD MARINE MOM
Michael Iezzi
March 29, 2007
Gary,
Happy Birthday in Heaven. May God hold you in the palm of His hand.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Jeff Morgan
January 17, 2007
To Hillary & Mr. and Mrs. Koehler,
It was such an honor to serve with Gary, it was even more of an honor to be his friend. Theres nothing I can say to properly express how much he meant to me and everyone else in the team and platoon. He will be greatly missed, loved, and NEVER forgotten.
Gary,Mr and Mrs Koehler,Hillary and family you are forever in our hearts
Jamey Smith
January 16, 2007
We had the honer of attending the memorial at Camp Lejeune,NC.we also had the honer of having the Koehler family and the Moss family.Sniper Plt and many of garys friends,it was an experience that will be forever in our hearts.Mr and Mrs Koehler,Hillary and family you touched our hearts.It ment so very much to all of us .With Love,Sniper Plt and all of us here at Camp Lejeune
Glen Nevogt
January 7, 2007
“Paid in Full”
In Honor of The War Against Terrorism’s Fallen and Injured Marines
Marines through and through, they paid the price
Six thousand miles away, we live the life
For which they paid with their blood, spirits and bodies
We will never forget what they paid in full
We hope and we pray that somehow their loved ones find comfort
In God, in the flag, in the memory of their loved ones’ bravery
They’re gone now but we see them still…proud, strong, willing
Covering each other’s backs… courageous, moving forward
What kind of love did they have for us to be willing
To give it all for the Black, White, Jew, Christian, Muslim?
We don’t comprehend but we honor you now and forever
You are Our Marines…some living…some not
Forever in our minds we will cherish your lives
Lives too short yet immortal they’ll be
Highest brotherhood of the few, the proud
They stand at attention, and we gaze with awe
Some know their names not, but our admiration for them
Flows limitless within us, between us
They sacrificed their limbs or their lives
Freedom still rings, a soft sound across the miles
It tolls slowly; all of creation takes note
Of the lives that were lost for people unknown
Out of sight but not lost; forever among us
The starched blues marching straight
Toward the place where we will meet them
Many years from now…how we loved them…
Well done beloved Brothers and Sisters…You’ve paid it in full
Always Faithful Marines, You Have Paid it in Full
shirley doney
December 23, 2006
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Mary Manoukian Calhoun
December 10, 2006
Please accept my deepest sympathy and understanding of the deep pain of grief and sadness in the loss of your son Cpl Gary.We are walking the same dark path together as I lost my son and only child LCpl Nicholas Manoukian USMC on Oct 21,2006 in Anbar Province.My prayers and thoughts are with you.Mary
Sherry Young
December 9, 2006
I am so very sorry for your loss and I thank you for raising a son who grew up to be a Marine. My big brother was killed in Viet Nam when he was 19yo., 1 May 1969. I have kept his memory alive for my own children. You'll always miss him, and always feel pain and pride.
Again I thank you from the bottom of my heart.
Alana Meggitt
December 7, 2006
I went to HS with Gary, I even remember riding the bus with him in Middle school. My deepest sympathy goes to his family, and to Hillary.
~keeping fellow troops in my prayers~
Douglas and Joann Blake
November 30, 2006
We wish to extend our deepest sympathy to the family of Gary Koehler on your great loss. Gary’s courage and devotion to duty are truly to be honored, and his sacrifice in defense of our country must never be forgotten. Our own son, Joseph Blake, was killed in action in Afghanistan in August, 2006. We share your grief and sorrow at this time, and our prayers are with you.
Michael Iezzi
November 29, 2006
Father we entrust our brother Gary to your mercy. You loved him greatly in this life: now that he is freed from all its cares, give him happiness and peace forever. Welcome him now into paradise where there will be no more sorrow, no more weeping or pain, but only peace and joy with Jesus your Son, and the Holy Spirit forever and ever.
Trisha Reich
November 28, 2006
To the Family and Friends of Cpl Gary A Koehler,
May you take comfort in knowing that your son/friend, died a hero. God Bless him and every other service person who is protecting us. My nephew LCPL. Brian Parrello was Killed in Action Jan 1, 2005. My family feels your pain. My only advise to get through this is to be there for each other, talk, cry, and yes even laugh at happy memories.
Feel free to contact me at any time.
Once a Marine family ALWAYS a Marine family.
You are in a thoughts and prayers
Phyllis Broomfield
November 28, 2006
To the family of Cpl. Gary Koehler, I know the pain and sorrow you and your family are enduring at this time. I lost my precious son Lt. Johnny Craver on Oct 13th 2006.God bless you and your family at this time of sorrow. He and so many others were true heros. Rest in peace Cpl. Koehler you deserve it.
Tim & Teresa Elrod
November 27, 2006
To the Family of Cpl. Gary A. Koehler,
My wife and I wanted to offer our condolences and prayers. We want to Thank Gary and his family for his sacrifice. He is a Hero! He, like all Marines are truly special! They serve their country out of honor, duty and patriotism!
Like many other Military families we know the sadness you feel. We lost our son LCpl. Nathan Ross Elrod Oct. 21, 2006 in the same area where your son was serving. He was with 2nd Div. 1st Batt. 6th Marines Wpns Co, stationed at Camp Lejeune. He was 20 years old.
We truly know how much you miss him. We also know his fellow Marines truly miss him as well. Marines are a very tight bunch. They are committed to our country and to each other! Being a Marine family, you already know this.
Gary's sacrifice will never be forgotten! Once a Marine always a Marine!
May God comfort and bless Gary's Family!
Daniel Hall
November 27, 2006
To the family of Gary Koehler. I am so deeply saddened by the passing of your son. You might not know me, but I was Koehler's Section Leader until June 05. He was an outstanding man and a great Marine. I apologize for your loss and want to say thank you for raising such an outstanding person.
Sincerely,
Sgt. Hall, Daniel C
Yolanda Valdez
November 27, 2006
To the Family of Cpl. Gary A. Koehler~
I understand what you are experiencing and feeling. No amount of words can ease the pain of your loss. We know firsthand there are no words of comfort at this time. We lost our son on 9-3-2004, at the age of 19. Just know that there are Marine families across the USA who is experiencing your loss and pain.
May he rest in peace knowing that he was loved and remembered by those who knew him as well as strangers who admired his courage and sacrifice My deepest condolences, sympathy and prayers go out to the entire family. May God grant you peace, strength and comfort I will keep your family in my prayers along with all the families of our American Hero’s. Another Fallen Hero --Thank you!
Gary - My family and I are thankful for the Bravery, Courage, Determination and Service to fight for our country, (our freedom) from you ---, my son and all the others in our armed forces for the sacrifice made for us. I also have a Marine daughter and Marine son in law. You all will not be forgotten.
Once a Marine, Always a Marine!
Yesterday, Today, Forever – Semper Fi - Marines!
Proud Mom of a USMC, American Hero
(LCpl. Nicholas S. Perez – KIA 9-3-04 – Al Anbar Province, Iraq)
Claire Zawistowski
November 25, 2006
Dear Koehler Family,
Even though we have never met I feel as if we are a part of a "family". My daughter's fiancee was killed by an IED in Iraq on Oct. 3, 2005. It is my prayer that you will feel God holding close to His heart as He has held my family this past year. May you know His peace and comfort as you face the difficult days ahead.
Zakiya Canteen
November 24, 2006
Dear Kohler and Moss families,
I would like to say that you all are in my prayers. I was blessed enough to be on this deployment with Gary and I can honestly say that I was blessed with his being. I know that you dont want to hear that God has a plan but He does. I have been and will continually be praying for you and your families. I believe that Gary will always be looking over you with love. Today our ship had a memorial service for him and that was a blessing for many out here.
God bless you and love you always
Tina Weaver
November 17, 2006
To the Koehler family I am so sorry for the lose of Gary. He was in the same unit as my son. May God be with you during this time of lose and thank you for giving America such a Brave Marine. Gary you are an American HERO. Thank You!!
Michelle Peretto
November 15, 2006
God Bless your family in this difficult time! our prayers go out to all the families that have lost a loved one during this time!!!
Jim & Patricia Keefner
November 13, 2006
We send our love and prayers to your family. Thank you for raising such a fine young man....a true hero. We are proud to be your neighbors. God bless you!
The Husse Family
November 13, 2006
Dear Koehler & Moss Families: You are in our thoughts & prayers. God bless you.
Dave Hinkle
November 12, 2006
The streets of Heaven are much safer
another MARINE just reported for duty
Stephen and Rebecca Neckel
November 12, 2006
Hillary, Ron, Mary and Rob
The other day,Mom/Grandma called and told us about Gary. It took days to convince ourselfs that this news we were hearing was true. We are so very sorry for your loss. Our hearts just ache for each of you. I remember playing with Gary and Rob in the woods behind your house creating and ruling our own kingdoms in the forest, all of our bike rides to DQ, the fireworks and the Birthday parties. Great memories! I am honored to have Gary a part of my life and will always remember our good times. Thank you Gary for your support and ultimate sacrafice. You are our hero always and will never be forgotten.
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
November 12, 2006
My heartfelt sympathy to the Koehler family in the loss of Gary. I did not know Gary, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Gary you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
Stella Kirby
November 12, 2006
Koehler and Moss families - I was saddened to learn of your tragic loss of Gary. I remember his smile and politeness as a student and also remember his smile as it reflected the energy within. He was a student others respected and followed and I can see that that has continued since he left MHS. Thank you all for the sacrifice you have made. May God and family help you in the painful days you face.
Thomas Catterall
November 11, 2006
I was a member of the Patriot Guard that stood watch out side of Gary's funeral. I would LOVE for the family to give me permission to create a web page dedicted to this fallen hero. I would also love a copy of the words spoken by his two friends Justin Montgomery and Kevin Hlavaty. I did not get to hear anyone else, since we went back outside to maintain our posts.
Because of thier speeches for the first time in my life I am going to read the book East of Eden. His funeral touched my heart and I learned Gary was a person who loved in the truest sense of the word..
I can be emailed at [email protected]
Julie Rowland
November 10, 2006
Dear Hillary, the Moss Family, and extended families...
I know we haven't been in touch in quite a long time, but I was shocked to read of this news online in the newspaper. I want you to know how sorry I am for your substantial loss. I know right now no one can imagine your pain. Please know I am thinking about you and have ever since I moved from Ypsilanti. Your family has always been close to my heart. I will keep you all in my prayers for a long time to come.
Love, Julie Rowland
(formerly Wonneberger)
Christopher Walter
November 10, 2006
Although we are unable to finds the words, since no words will do, our thoughts and prayers are with you. Remember, with love, a brave man, great son, loving husband, and true hero. May you find comfort in each other, and in his memory. God bless you all.
Warren Kruger
November 10, 2006
I was on the Northwest Airlines flight that flew your son's body from Philadelphia to Detroit. Two people in First Class gave up their seats for the two Marines escorting your son. When the pilot mentioned the Marines were escorting a fallen soldier from Iraq people clapped to honor your son. You have my sympathy for your loss.
Sincerely
Warren Kruger
Gail Raphael
November 10, 2006
"Greater love has no man than this, that a man lay down his life" John 15:13. How I wish I'd had the privilege of knowing your brave Gary. I grieve your loss and am humbly, unspeakably grateful for his sacrifice. Your entire family has my prayers not only today as do all the selfess, honorable, courageous men and women serving this country. May God strengthen their loved ones and bless and comfort your family and all those who mourn Gary's memory.
Rebecca Cummings
November 10, 2006
Be Still
Be still like the grass on a melancholy summer day
Be still like desert shrub.
Be calm and you will hear your loved one speak, in the stillness, in the calm, their love resounds.
If you are still this promise I make, you will hear the voice of your loved one helping you along your way.
Melissa Goldman
November 9, 2006
Be Still
Be still like the grass on a melancholy summer day
Be still like desert shrub.
Be calm and you will hear your loved one speak, in the stillness, in the calm, their love resounds.
If you are still this promise I make, you will hear the voice of your loved one helping you along your way.
Melissa Goldman
November 9, 2006
Dear Koehler Family,
Jess's blog informed me of your loss; my thoughts will be with you in this time of need. I chose a poem that I hope will give you some comfort during this extremely difficult time.
Diana Smith
November 9, 2006
Cpl. Koehler... May God keep you in His sweet embrace. Semper Fi Marine your work here on earth is done. May the angels in heaven protect you as you protected us.
God Bless this Marine and his family.
Melody McGowan
November 9, 2006
Please accept my deepest sympathy for the loss of your husband, son and brother. Lossing a loved one leaves us with unimaginable pain and emptiness.
But yet a stranger to me, this man gave his life for our country and I will forever be thankful for his dedicated and selfless service to our nation and for protecting my freedoms. God bless & keep your family.
Jim & Janet Toth
November 9, 2006
Thoughts and prayers to the family and friends of Cpl.Gary A. Koehler. This True American Hero's Service and Sacrifice will not be forgotten. Rest In Peace Marine.
Captain Michael Pretus & Family
November 9, 2006
I had the honor of briefly being Cpl Koehler's platoon commander when he first joined the Scout Sniper Platoon with 1/8. I will always remember him as incredibly sharp and motivated. He was a true Marine warrior and dedicated and unselfish in his service to his country.
I promise that your brothers carry you in our hearts always and you will never, ever be forgotten.
"From this day to the ending of the world,
But we in it shall be remembered-
We few, we happy few, we band of brothers;
For he today that sheds his blood with me
Shall be my brother"
Semper Fidelis
Captain Pretus & Family
November 9, 2006
I had the honor of briefly being Cpl Koehler's platoon commander when he first joined the Scout Sniper Platoon with 1/8. I will always remember him as incredibly sharp and motivated. He was a true Marine warrior and dedicated and unselfish in his service to his country.
I promise that your brothers carry you in our hearts always and you will never, ever be forgotten.
From this day to the ending of the world,
But we in it shall be remembered-
We few, we happy few, we band of brothers;
For he today that sheds his blood with me
Shall be my brother
Semper Fidelis
Jesse Carl & Sheila Lubold
November 9, 2006
To Hillary & the entire Koehler Family,
To say we are sorry for your loss does not properly express our feelings and thoughts right now. Gary was so much more than just a friend and fellow Marine to both Jesse and I. Gary will always be remembered for his contagious smile and his “full of life” personality. He will forever be missed and our memories of him will always be cherished.
You are truly a courageous woman Hillary with a heart of gold. Your genuine concern for others during this difficult time is greatly appreciated and admired. Gary is looking down upon you with pride. We are always here to help you and support you.
Thank you Gary for the unending laughs, the countless memories, and your loyal friendship. You will always be remembered and loved.
Jim & Marge Graham
November 9, 2006
May our Lord comfort you in the loss of Gary. As grandparents of a l/8 Marine, we know the pride you all have in knowing a hero, willing to sacrifice his life for others. Keep the good memories and the knowledge that you will be reunited one day.
Lisa Brown
November 8, 2006
Dear Family,
Your son and husband is a hero...My prayers are with you. I thank you for raising such a fine son, whom was willing to give his life for our country. God Bless you.
In christ,
Lisa
Beverley and Rainer Bosselmann
November 8, 2006
Please accept our deepest sympathy for the loss of your husband, son and brother. The death of one so dear to the heart brings unimaginable pain and emptiness. Would that we could do something to help take that ache away. We hope knowing that you are in our thoughts and prayers will bring you some solace for we truly understand and share your heartache.
Gary gave his life for this country and we shall always hold his memory high and forever be thankful for his dedicated and selfless service to this nation.
KATHLEEN FAIRCLOTH
November 8, 2006
DEAR KOEHLER FAMILY,
I KNOW THAT YOU WILL FEEL THE PRESENCE OF THE LORD WITH YOU OVER THE NEXT SEVERAL MONTHS. HE WILL GIVE YOU WHAT YOU NEED EACH DAY.
GOLD STAR MOM
Jack Ampuja
November 8, 2006
To the Koehler Family
My deepest sympathy on the passing of your son Gary and a great debt of gratitude for his willingness to serve our country. I didn't know Gary but I have son the same age and two brothers who are Marine Corps veterans. As a parent one always wants children to succeed at doing want they really like and obviously your son took pride in being a Marine. Losing someone just getting started in life is certainly a tragedy but you will have lots of wonderful memories. We lost two young uncles in World War II and they are always remembered. May the good Lord help you through what has to be the most difficult time for any parent.
Captain Ronald Bobo - Northwest Airlines
November 8, 2006
Dear Koehler family,
I was part of the crew that flew your loved one home to Michigan today. It was a very powerful moment pulling up to the gate and seeing Gary's family and fellow Marines there. It was a honor to fly a hero home.
With deepest sympathy,
Gunnery Sergeant & Mrs. Kristian R. Ekholm
November 8, 2006
We will continue to pray for you and your family as you deal with the loss of a fine young man and hero. 1/8, our fellow Marines and the spouses and families are always in our hearts and prayers. Semper Fi
Susan and Jim Tish
November 8, 2006
To Hillary, Ron, Mary, Ted, Ruth and all the Koehler extended family,
Being connected to your dear family through the marriage of Kim Koehler to John Tish, we feel we know you all and consider you part of our extended family. Kim has always spoken so highly of Gary - with pride and joy for his accomplishments and the good man that he is. We've prayed for Gary along with the rest of the family and know that he is courageously going on to the next challenge. We feel so deeply sorry for the loss that this has left in Hillary's life and the lives of the rest of the Koehler family.
With our love and support to you all,
Susan and Jim Tish
(sister and brother in law to Kim Koehler Tish)
1/8 Scout Sniper Platoon and Families
November 8, 2006
Dear Hillary & Koehler Family,
We would like to extend our deepest condolences at this time to your family. We cannot even begin to explain how truely sorry we are for your loss.
Gary came into all of our lives and touched each of us in such a way that his life will live on forever through us all. He will never be forgotten.
It was truely an honor to know Gary.
Gary was so much more than a Marine to us all, he was a friend, a brother, a comrade. Gary and Hillary were a part of our "Extended Family" and they both will always hold a place in our hearts.
Gary was always such a positive person with a kind heart. We will each take a piece of Gary with us for the rest of our lives.
We are all be so proud of Gary for what he gave to his country-his ultimate sacrifice. We will never forget him.
Hillary, you are such a brave person. We want you to know that you will always be a part of our family. We are all here for you whenever you need us, We Love You.
Eric Reis and Amy Ramsey
November 8, 2006
Hillary and the Koehler family,
Words can not express how deeply sorry we are for your loss. Gary touched both of our lives with his fun and electric personality. The very first time Amy met him she thought he was so hilarious, a quality that we will always cherish when we think about Gary. He touched Eric's life in a way that only a fellow good and honorable Marine can, and for these reasons, we are very thankful to have known him.
Please know that you can lean on us anytime and we are thinking about you as we remember Gary with a smile.
With deepest sympathy and love,
Peggy Sandstrom
November 7, 2006
Dear Koehler Family,
Even though I never met your son Gary I feel like I knew him since Kevin talked about him as much as he talked about his own son. He was considered part of their family and I know he will be terribly missed by all.
With deepest sympathy,
Peggy Sandstrom(Kevin Hlavaty's sister)
Adam Earls
November 7, 2006
To the Koehler Family,
Our deepest regrets and sympathy in this difficult time. My name is Adam and I served in 1/8 with Gary in Iraq in 2004 and later helped to train him as a scout/sniper. I wish I could have done more. Gary will always be remembered as a hero. My family and I will pray that you find strength in your loss.
Adam, Nichole, Bryce, and Kaelyn Earls
Joshua and April Morales
November 7, 2006
To Gary's family and friends-
My family and I are praying for you and your family during this difficult time. We send our deepest empathy as we lost our Marine on 11/30/05 in Fallujah. We are comforted to know that our Marines are serving their country with such honor and bravery. We are so proud of our Marines and all of our other service men and women for all that they have done and continue to do to keep us safe and to give us the freedom we have that so many take for granted.
They are true Heroes and need to always be remembered for their selflessness and sacrifice to better our world. We will forever be united in the loss of our heros. We are so sorry for your loss and hope our words will ease some of the pain, and maybe fill some of your emptiness.
Yesterday, Today, Forever – Semper Fi - Marines!
Our sincerest gratitude for their bravery-
The family of Cpl. William "Billy" Taylor
2/6 WPNS
KIA outside of Fallujah 11/30/05
Deborah DelleFave
November 7, 2006
Hillary and Gary's Family,
My condolences on your terrible loss! Gary sounds like he was a wonderful man that you should all be proud of! May the wonderful memories you have of him, help you through this very difficult time! My thoughts and prayers go out to you! Semper Fi!
Pat & Lynda McCrystal
November 7, 2006
Hillary and the Koehler Family,
Please accept our condolences on the loss of your husband and son. Our son is a Marine currently deployed to Iraq and we want to thank you for the service that your son gave to this country. The entire Marine family grieves with you and is keeping you in our prayers daily.
Erin Tate
November 7, 2006
To the Koehler family,
My deepest sympathy to you all. Hillary: my heart goes out to you, we are all here for you dear. Condolences from the Brainard family are sent as well.
The David/Hicks Family
November 7, 2006
From another 1/8 family...please accept our condolences. Words can't begin to ease your loss, but please know there are so many of us who care.
Jim and Arlene Correll
November 7, 2006
All our prayers are with the family also our love.
Vanette & Frank Wadsworth
November 6, 2006
Dearest Koehler Family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. Please remember that Gary will live on in the kindness He showed, the comfort He shared and the love He brought in your lives.
Parents of Cpl Lee Wadsworth, 1/8th sniper platoon
Jade Melter
November 6, 2006
Gary, the times Matt and I shared with you and Hilary will never be forgotten. All of our games of “Sorry” will always be fresh in my head. You were an amazing man, always one of my favorites. I hope you are watching over all of us now and may you rest in peace till the end of time. No words can express the gratitude that I feel for you and I am proud to call you my friend.
Matthew Machata
November 6, 2006
Gary,
We will always miss you and will never forget all the goodtimes we had. You are the best man I have ever known and I was lucky to have you in my life.
Renee Owens
November 6, 2006
Please accept my deepest sympathy for the loss of your Hero, and my sincere thanks for his service. May God grant you peace.
The Land of the Free, Because of the Brave
In memory of PFC Chase Edwards, USMC
3/8 Weapons
KIA 4-6-06, Anbar Province, Iraq
GySgt Wayne Goode USMC
November 6, 2006
I am Cpl. Koehler's recruiter. I remember when he and his buddy came into my office in February 2003. All they wanted was to be Marines. Gary was a good young man who came from a great family. I never met his wife, but I knew his parents well. I grieve along with you. My condolences to Gary's Wife and Parents.
Stephanie Knapp
November 6, 2006
I never really got a chance to know Gary. But I am so proud to have gone to school with him. You never really know what to say about these kinds of tragedys. But Thank you Gary. Thank you for fighting for your country. You will never be forgotten.
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