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Memories and Condolences
for Bradley Shilling
Adam
May 28, 2017
This is a poem I wrote on the morning of 19 November, 2006.
On the previous night, a Saturday, we were informed that our friend, Specialist Bradley Shilling, was seriously wounded. We were in shock. A little later that evening, we were told that Bradley died from his injuries.
Not knowing what to expect, as far as a ceremony goes, we slept in our clothes. I actually slept with my boots on, laying back on my bunk with my feet on the ground.
At first light the next morning, we began congregating outside the barracks. It was a cool, sunny morning. Everyone had tear-tracks on their faces, trying to muster smiles and comfort, coffee in hand, wearing our black bear jackets for warmth. Then we slowly began walking towards the helipad, by the morgue and the hospital. We were all sort of gaggled - moping, dragging feet. Almost like wandering zombies. Walking towards inevitability. As we walked, I wrote, and later finished this poem.
Bradley would be the first brother we lost, but not the last. He was a good friend of mine, and I was his gunner during training. I named my son, Bradley, after him.
When the chopper lifted off, I felt as if our collective breathes were taken away.
nov 19, 2006
Walking into the sun
The death knell stroll we may know well
This trek we make anew
Through chilled new day across the stone
Farewell to brethren crew
Soldiers dressed in darkness
In shadows where they stand
Replaying all the hallowed echoes
Across the pummeled sand
Tear-track faces and quivered lips
A strength of holding in
A brush across a comrades back
And empty, half-heart grins
When the fateful time arrives
To rest we send our friend
The beating wings borrows our breath
And lift him to his end
When or if I come to pass
In days come far or nigh
I hope to have such sunny day
For which my hearse to fly
AbbieRose Shilling
May 27, 2016
I LOVE AND MISS YOU DADDY :-(
The Miller Family
December 7, 2015
Although we never knew you, we know of you through your father and you are in our hearts. Thank you, and God bless.
Momma
November 20, 2013
Well son...we some how muddled through another day. I cannot say that time has made it easier but time has brought me one day closer to you, a day I look forward to. You are loved and missed so very much and I am so proud of you and the man you became. Your children are a wonderful legacy and it is such a joy to share your stories with them and your little brother. Thank you for sending him to us to help us through. He is a wonderful gift, just like you said when Sam was born...."This is the best Christmas present ever". And like you, he asked me if Melissa was a witch. I know that you are guiding him and for that I am grateful...he couldn't have a better role model....although he does do his homework.... ??. Keep watching over your sisters, your brother, and your children and I know they will be fine. I love you mostest son!
AJ
November 19, 2013
Not forgotten
September 13, 2013
Thank you for your service and sacrifice.
Farrah Robinson
May 28, 2013
Brad you were a brave man. You did something not just anyone could do. Thank you for that. You are missed dearly.
May 28, 2013
Dear Brad thank you for serving for us. I still remember when you were just a little guy playing next door with my little sister Nikki Robinson. You sure were a cute thing. I pray for you and your family every day. I know some day we will all get to see you again. Till then save us a spot up there. Your a great man and you are missed very much. Farrah Robinson.
Nikki Robinson
May 27, 2013
Hi kim, i know this is for brad but i didnt know how else to get in touch with you....i hope that u will get back with me soon. Id really
Like to talk to you if its alright by you. Please get with mr soon!!! Thank u kim!!!
Nikki Robinson
Nikki Robinson
May 27, 2013
Today is memorial day.....thank you Brad!!!! I miss you friend...love you!!!
Nikki Robinson
May 11, 2013
I miss you brad...every day!!!! You will forever be in my heart....i will see you again someday. I Love you friend!!!!
Love,
Nikki Robinson
Tammy Pollaski
February 7, 2013
Brad I miss you so much! I can still see your smile. I have been thinking about you a lot today I know you are trying to tell me something. I am listening. Trying to keep looking out for your Mom but you know how hard she is to keep up with. I will stay by her side forever don't worry about that. Tell my Daddy and my cousins hi for me. Can't wait to see you all again someday
Love,
Aunt Tammy
Kim Donahue
November 20, 2012
This photo does not do you justice son. Just had to get that out. Where is that twinkle in your eyes, that smile that told me you were planning on doing something or already did it. What I wouldn't give to see them again, to get one of your big bear hugs, to have you wake us all up at 4am Christmas morning. It is not the same anymore baby boy. It was hard enough letting you grow up but losing you is unbearable. My heart is forever broken. I miss you like crazy son! I love you to Heaven and back. Love, Momma
Sandi
November 19, 2012
A Candle lit for you Brad, and your brothers from the 125th Infantry. Loving thoughts and prayers to all of the Shilling family members.
Kim Donahue
November 19, 2011
Spc. Bradley Shilling
5/2/1984-11/18/2006
Five long years of living hell,
With pain we have come to know so well.
Our hearts are constantly aching inside
... Although our tears we sometimes hide.
We miss your smile, we miss your face,
Nothing or no one will ever take your place.
You gave your life for the freedom of others
And made me a member of the Gold Star mothers.
It is a title I wear with pride,
But the hole is still there inside.
You were always one to help a friend
Which is what cost you your life in the end.
You blessed us with your daughter and son,
Your life ending as his had just begun.
Although your days with them were too few,
They know all about you.
A part of you will always be alive
We see you every time we look in their eyes.
We hate the time that we are apart
But always hold you close in our hearts.
Until we are united again,
You will be loved and missed
by your family and friends.
Peggy Childers
November 19, 2011
November 18, 2011
To the family and friends of Spc. Bradley N. Shilling:
Please accept my remembrance of Bradley on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
November 18, 2011
Thinking of you today. Been 5 years since that day. It's a tough memory.
Miss you and the boys.
Momma
December 25, 2010
Merry Christmas son! I sure miss having you set your alarm for 4 am and waking me up to tell me that Santa came. Melissa did the honor this year of waking everyone up. Your poor little boy got sick today--just like Abbie did on your last Christmas with us. I am sure Christmas in Heaven is absolutely beautiful but Christmas on earth sure isn't the same without you baby! I love and miss you so much son!
Peggy Childers
November 18, 2010
To the family and friends of Spc. Bradley N. Shilling:
Remembering Bradley on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Kim Donahue
November 18, 2010
In Memory of Spc Bradley Shilling
05/02/1984-11/18/2006
Four long years have gone by
and we still haven’t found the reason why.
Why did God call you home so young?
There are no more hugs, no more kisses.
All that is left is broken wishes.
We try to move forward, and learn to cope
but without you, there is no hope.
There are so many lives that you touched
So many people that miss you very much.
If love alone could have protected,
your unit may have been undetected.
We would not have shed a single tear,
because love alone would have kept you here
There are no more phone calls, no more letters,
Will life without you ever get better?
Love and missed by your friends and family!
Sandi Vollmer
November 18, 2010
Thank you Shilling family
It has been 4 years since that day your world changed. Your loss of Brad has brought you to and trough many rough times. Because of our boys, we have become friends, which I'm forever great full for. We are able to remember, laugh, cry and stay strong when you have experienced the same loss. My heart is breaking again as we enter this time of year. They will not be FORGOTTEN. OUR HEROES
HUGS AND TEARS
Sandi
Brian Shilling
November 17, 2010
Son, It has been 4 years since our lives have been changed forever. I know you are up above watching over us. That is just not the same as you being here with us. You are loved and missed by many.. I love and miss you son..
Samantha Shilling
November 12, 2010
I know I am a day late but I couldn't bring myself to get online yesterday. I just wanted to wish you a happy Veteran's day and thank you for your sacrafice. It is harder than hell down here without you, but I know you are here always! I love and miss you TONS big brother!
Debi Fain
November 7, 2010
I have a Duck that was left at the Dallas Love Field airport and just wanted to let the family know that I was thinking about them
Kim Donahue
July 9, 2010
Son,
Independance Day was made possible because of people like you who gave all, or who have fought for our country. It doesn't seem fair that we have to celebrate it without you. Melissa did an awesome job getting the family together to celebrate what you accomplished. We are all so very proud of you. I just wish that all that pride we have for you could take away the pain. I love you and miss you oh so very very much son!!!
Eric Daggs
July 4, 2010
Hey guy wish you could see the fireworks here. You will always be the best "redneck in my book". Love ya bro
Daggs
June 9, 2010
To remeber the honrable Brad Shilling. Again my brother was stationed with him in Iraq, I pray that your family has recieved the answers to any questions you had. I met him and my heart will forever be broken for this lost. He really was a great guy and my brother (Lawrence) talks of him often.
josh duerr
May 30, 2010
Thank you TIM, he is GREATLY missed. keep wearing that band, if you knew him/ worked with him get with me @ joshduerr(AT)sbcglobal.net im sure his family would be greatly happy to hear from you.
love ya bro i am thank full for your service to this country but it is overshadowed by the hurt and pain of you not being here today. keep and eye on your momma and sisters and keep them safe.. love ya ~josh
Timothy Perren
March 11, 2010
To the Shilling family. I just want you to know that there are a lot of us Iraq vets out here thinking about your son, and others like him. I think about them every day, and your son in particular. I bought a memorial wrist band the other day, and it came with Brad's name on it. I wear it every day. I am so sorry for your loss. I know there is nothing that can take away the pain you feel from the loss you have experienced, but know this, he will never be forgotten. I thank the Lord every day for the sacrifice my brothers made over there. I only wish I could thank them with more than a wrist band. Thank you.
December 25, 2009
Merry Christmas son. I love and miss you so very much! Christmas isn't the same without you here to wake us up at 4 am. Not a day goes by that you aren't thought of, spoken of, loved, and missed.
Love,
Momma
December 3, 2009
No words are enough, none will ever be. I worked with Brad at AAR & I'll never forget his smilin' eyes & ready smile.....
Joseph S.(Cadillac)
johamm521405@yahoo
Sandi Vollmer
November 18, 2009
To Brad's Family
Another long year has passed, but it seems like yesterday. It has not gotten any easier and the ache in our hearts is still as big as ever. Just wanted to let you know that I'm thingking about all of you and Brad, especially today. Be strong. We will never forget our HEROES.
Sandi
November 18, 2009
Son, It has been 3 hard long years. I love you and miss you very much.
I love you Dad
Mommy
November 18, 2009
Well baby, another long year has gone by and I still can't believe it. It seems like only yesterday sometimes, other times it seems like it has been a lifetime since I have seen your smiling face. I miss you soooo very much. I'll never stop thinking about you. I love you so very very much. Here's this years newspaper article, I hope you enjoy it!
Love always and forever,
Mommy
IN LOVING MEMORY OF SPC. BRADLEY SHILLING
THREE LONG YEARS HAVE PAST BUT
THE MEMORY OF THAT HORRIBLE DAY
STILL LAST
THERE IS A HOLE IN OUR HEARTS
THAT WILL NEVER HEAL
THERE ARE NO WORDS TO DESCRIBE
THE PAIN WE FEEL
YOUR LIFE WAS CUT SHORT BY
THIS HORRIBLE WAR
BUT THE BATTLEFIELD
YOU WILL SEE NO MORE
A SHINING STAR IN THE SKY
YOU WILL ALWAYS BE
WAY UP HIGH
FOR ALL THE WORLD
TO SEE
ALWAYS ON OUR MINDS
AND FOREVER IN HEARTS
IS WHERE YOU WILL BE
WE LOVE YOU TO THE MOON
AND BACK
SADLY MISSED AND ALWAYS LOVED
BY YOUR FAMILY
Joseph Pfeifer
November 10, 2009
I met Brad, when I was attending Ferris State University, he was working as the Recruiters Assistant. He told me how wanted to serve his country. I found out of his death 4 months later in the Wolverine Guard magazine. I have not been able to bring myself to see his grave. I hope his children and family are doing well. Brad was a special person, he helped me realize some important things in life. I pray for his family and God Bless.
Tammy Hubbard
May 18, 2009
Hey Buddy don't know what happened but I'll write to you again.Well your Birthday was a bad day. Uncle Dave put up the New Flag For You.Miss you always.Love Aunt Tammy
May 3, 2009
Happy Birthday..I hope you enjoyed the surprise we sent ya yesterday..Love ya and Miss Ya..
Aunt Linda and Uncle kenny
Aunt Sissy
May 2, 2009
Happy Birthday Brad(aka Ben)!!! There is not a day that goes by that I don't think about you. We all miss you very, very, very much. I love you!
May 2, 2009
Happy BIrthday big brother!!! I wish we could actually celebrate it i miss you so very much! I wish you were here
Love mel
May 2, 2009
Happy birthday my beloved son! I can't believe it was 25 years ago today that I first held you in my arms and looked in those mischevious eyes of yours. I think you had that trademark grin on your face from day one! Boy do I miss that grin! I'd give anything to see it again! I miss and love you so much baby! I hope you get the balloons we sent you. Your babies are growing so fast and miss you so much. I know you are watching over them and keeping them safe. I am looking forward to seeing you again baby!!! God how I miss you! Your on my mind and in my heart everyday!
I hope you enjoyed your party!
May 2, 2009
Happy Birthday Brad ... 25 wow .. I sure do wish you were here to celebrate. I must say you are missed dearly and everyday. Everytime we see the kids and have them with us we see you through there sweet and loving eyes. There getting so big and they have soo much of you in them! On easter weekend we had both of them and they got bubbles in there baskets...we went outside and it was so sweet Abbie says .. Nana me Jordon are going to send these next ones up to Daddy... There sweet little smiles and the love in there eyes they sent you tons of bubbles ... I know you recieved them .. because they both told me so !!! If its bubbles or prayers or just a one on one talk each day with you ...Your loved and missed dearly by so many...Give Craig a big hug from us and let him know he is missed dearly too....Love You Brad ... xoxox Alison
May 2, 2009
Son today is your 25th Birthday... I miss and love you so much!!!! I hope you have a very nice Birthday.... I love you always DAD
Kenna Larra
March 5, 2009
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Sincerely,
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josh duerr
February 22, 2009
love ya and miss yo bro
Samantha Shilling
January 30, 2009
Bradley...where have the years gone. I miss you sooo much. I can still remember the day we found out, like it was yesterday. I can guarentee that was the worst day of my life. Yesterday we had the funeral for Craig. It was horrible. Why can't all of this hurt and pain just go away? Why can't we have both of you back? I just don't understand. Please make sure to help Aunt Penny and Uncle Kevin...and the rest of us. This hurts so bad. You two behave up there. No given God grief. I LOVE YOU BIG BROTHER!!!!!
Tammy Hubbard
November 21, 2008
2 Years where have they gone. You kept your Promise to me Chris came home .But without his Best Friend and cousin .Sometimes he gets this look in his eyes I know he is thinking about you.But I wonder and Hope it is the good things he Remembers not that terrible day .He still needs you Brad . We miss you so Much. Love you Aunt Tammy
Samantha Shilling
November 18, 2008
I miss you!! It's so hard not having you here....I know you are watching over ALL of us. You have proven that. I love you soooo much!!!!
In Memory of Bradley ~ (Debra Estep)
November 18, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Bradley, but I am remembering
his service and sacrifice. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
PVT. Mike Galloup
November 18, 2008
to the family of Spc. Brad schilling.i met brad a little while back when i was with gavin one day. i thought he was a really great guy. well a few months ago I joined the National guard. Because i realized what a hero men and women like brad are. Not only did they die for their country but also for their brothers and sisters in arms. and i want you to know that brad is my hero. when i die and go to heaven i want to see him and shake his hand and tell him how grateful we all are that he did what he did. and my thanks goes out to you kim. for raising such a wonderful son. And to the rest of the family i want you to realize that Brad died doing something that not many people would dare to do. and for that i salute Spc. Schilling. i hope you alltake care and keep safe.
Kim Donahue
November 18, 2008
Well, my little boy, has it really been two years. It seems like only yesterday I got that dreaded knock at the door. Not a day goes by that I don't think about you, miss you, and long to hold you again but always know that I am so very proud of you. I know you are still with us in spirit, you have your subtle ways (and sometimes not so subtle) of showing us. You touched a lot of lives here on earth as I am sure you are in heaven. I hope Grandma and Cousin Brenda gave you my messages when you met them at the gate. I am jealous they got to see you first but I know that I will hold you in my arms again and that and dealing with all the normal drama in our family keeps me going. I love and miss you so much baby, my heartbreaks a little more everyday. I know we have had you working overtime watching over your sisters, your children, your new baby brother, aunt sissy, uncle John, the boys, and especially papa. Even in Heaven you are still coming to everybody's rescue. I love you son and look forward to seeing you again!!!! Love, Mommy
Sandi Vollmer
November 18, 2008
Shilling Families
My thoughts and prayers are with your families, as you relive this day. I can not put Chad's call out of my mind that day. This is a very difficult time of year for all of us. But, we are strong, as our sons were and we can do no less then to "Carry ON" and never let them be forgotten.
God Bless
Chad's proud mom
Sandi
Your Dad
November 18, 2008
Son, It has been 2 years and it is not getting any easier, who ever came up with that line is full of it. I miss you so very much. I know you are around because you keep scaring your little step sister. You also need to stop smoking in the house. I miss you son, I love you always and forever. Love your Dad
Peggy Childers
November 18, 2008
To the family of Spc. Bradley N. Shilling:
Bradley gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Samantha Shilling
September 23, 2008
I love you...I miss you...I remember you! I am proud of you!
Samantha Shilling
September 18, 2008
I have always hated asking people for something. Especially you. But I am begging you. We really need your help. God already took one brother from me. I can't handle having another one taken too!!! Please Brad HELP US!!!!!!!!!
Long Family
August 27, 2008
Brad we seen your name and all the fallen battle buddies names on the wall in Washington, DC last week..You are truly a Hero. We think of you daily and love you.
Brian Shilling
August 25, 2008
Son, I did it I ran half of the 1.6 miles we ran Sunday for the fallen. Next year I plan on training and will run the whole thing. I also plan on running the mile before your mile marker. This year your marker was in Kentucky. I miss you and love you. Dad
Bradley Shillings
July 28, 2008
To the Family of Bradley N. Shilling.....I was sad to read about your loss. I know how proud you must be of Bradley I have two nephews serving our country, one of which is currently in Iraq, and frankly it scares me to death. I would personaly like to thank you Bradley for paying the ultimate price for our freedom. So Thank You to you and your family and god bless.
June 15, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Spc Shilling!
Tammy Hubbard
May 9, 2008
Brad you have had two birthdays in Heaven now. We think of you all the time not one day goes by that I don't see something that reminds me of you.My buddy.I Love You. Aunt Tammy
May 4, 2008
Hello brother of mine i liked your little trick yesterday it was pretty sweet. i miss you so very much not a day goes by that i don't think about you. sometimes it takes my breath away how i hurt that you are gone.. sometimes i want to go to your house to see if you are there.. i love you so very much and i always will your sister mel
Kim Donahue
May 2, 2008
Happy Birthday Son! I hope you received the balloons we sent you today! I miss you so much and will always be thinking about what joy and excitement you brought to my life and all of those who knew you! I am so very proud of you! I love you and look forward to the day you can sit on my lap again and give me that mischevious grin of yours (yes, I sugar-coated that). Love always and forever, Mommy
Jason Egan
April 14, 2008
Brad was my driver and most of all he was my friend. I survived the blast......Only GOD knows why.
diana jones (knight)
February 22, 2008
Brad you are much loved and missed. Never to be forgotten.
William Washburn
February 16, 2008
BRAD WAS AWSOME HE WAS MY INSPERATION TO JOIN THE ARMY AND MAKE SOMETHING OF MY LIFE. I CANT THANK HIM ENOUGH FOR BEING MY FRIEND AND HELPING ME OUT IN LIFE I MISS HIM ALOT.
PVT. WASHBURN
1/27 INFANTRY
25TH INFANTRY DIVISION
SCHOFEILD BKS HAWAII
Danica Chiszek
December 13, 2007
Brad -
We never met but it still upsets me to know that you have been gone for over a year. Being your penpal for those few months was the best thing that ever happened to me. I really miss being able to open up my email and see your email address under new mail. Your letters always brought a smile to my face no matter how upset I was that day. The day I found out you had departed this world was the day that I felt like I had lost a friend I had known forever, knowing that the day we had set up to meet each other would never come. I still shed a tear every once in a while to this day. I miss you and your emails. =( THANK YOU SOOOO MUCH FOR EVERYTHING YOU DID!!!!! GOD BLESS!!!!
sandi vollmer
November 18, 2007
Dear Shilling Family,
My heart goes out to you again today, as it did a year ago when Chad called to tell me. He made me promise that we would be there in his place (Chad's) to honor Brad, even though it would be very difficult. He even called again to make sure, he was so devastated. I sent him one of everything you had in honor of Brad, never knowing we would be in the same place in about a month.
You are forever in my thoughts and prayers, as are all of the families.
Sandi
LaPetra Shubert
November 14, 2007
Brad,
I know we only met once when I was at work, great place to meet huh? dj was sooo excited to come visit me and have me finally meet the man who changed my best friends life for the best.
when i woke up that monday morning and heard the news that you were gone i couldn't hold back the tears. Even though i really didn't know you i felt as though i had lost a brother. its almost been a year now and i pray everyday for you and all of your family. i know your at peace with the lord looking down at your beautiful children.
i just want to tell you thank you for all that you've done for me, america and for the greatest friend i have ever known.
with all the love
one can give
LMS
THANK YOU
Rachele VanWormer (Evanish)
September 11, 2007
Thinkin of you and your family today and ALWAYS. Thank you for your brave commitment to our country.
August 15, 2007
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
August 3, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Spc Shilling and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
judy knight
July 23, 2007
Brad- its been awhile and still, the heartache is strong. I tell people about you. The boy I knew, the man you became. I tell them how very much you loved your family, your country. You faced many difficulties and dangers, with dignity and bravery, that most of us would have run from. I tell people about you and I tell them not to forget.
Robyn Garside
April 5, 2007
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST SYMPATHIES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE ON FOR YOUR LITTLE ONES. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. STAY STRONG AND GODSPEED. SEMPER FI
A PROUD MARINE MOM
Mongo
February 10, 2007
I had the distinct honor of speaking at Brad's funeral back in December. The pride I felt standing there that day was indescribable, both for the man and for what he stood for. The following is from that day. Just thought someone might like to read it. (My apologies for the tardiness).
A great many tears have been shed in the past two weeks. Two weeks of tears that Brad would not have wanted. He would rather we had spent that time building bon-fires, hoisting a few cold ones and having lengthy debates on who was going to wade thigh deep in mud to pull DJ out of the swamp. But as I sit here writing this I realize that only a small fraction of the tears shed were for Brad. Most were shed for the ones that loved Brad the most:
Tears for Abbie and Jordon who must grow up without their Daddy. A daddy who loved them so very much. The catch left un-played, the fish left un-caught, the hugs left un-given.
Tears for DJ who must press on without her loving husband. A husband who would have moved mountains for her. The kisses left un-given, the songs left unsung, the love left unmade.
Tears for Mel and Sam who must struggle every day with the “WHY”?……why “MY” brother? A brother who would have gone to the ends of the earth to protect his little sisters. The 21st birthday rounds left un-purchased, the softball games left unattended, the advise that only a older brother can give……un-given.
Tears for Kim who must bear the pain that only a mother can feel when losing her only son. Anyone that knows Kim knows that her children “are” her life. Words here seem so inadequate that I will not even try other than to say that, Kim, you are the strongest woman I’ve ever meet and none of us can even begin to imagine what you are feeling.
Now I must admit selfishly that a tear or two may have been shed for myself, for I was just getting to know Brad and spend time with him. Teaching him to fly fish, working on the house or the truck, pulling his truck out of the swamp on more than one occasion, triaging him in the Wal-mart parking lot after his motorcycle accident so his mother would know the “true” extent of his injuries and not just the line he was feeding her over the phone. These are all memories that I will cherish for the rest of my life and by the same token I will regret everyday the memories not made.
But really, I guess, we shed the most tears for the ones who did not know Brad, for their loss is the greatest. They will never get to see that "smile". A smile that was never far away no matter his mood. They will never get to witness the true meaning of the word “Love”. The love Brad had for his family and they for him is like nothing I’ve ever seen. Lastly, they will never get to shake the hand of a true American Soldier. He wasn’t a soldier for the money or the glory, he did what he did out of a sense of honor, duty and love of the job.
Ladies and Gentlemen, friends and most of all family, before you shed another tear, take comfort in knowing that....catch will be played, hugs and kisses will be given, games will be attended and rounds purchased. New memories will be made and the pain that we all are feeling will ease however slightly with each passing day. And remember that Brad died doing what he loved to do; driving a 4- wheel drive truck, helping others in need and most of all he died being a soldier for the greatest nation on earth.
It has been an honor and a privilege. God’s speed Bradley Shilling. I love you and will miss you dearly.
Diane Heck
February 8, 2007
My condolences to the family of Spc. Brad Shilling, especially to the mother of such a fine young man. I did not know your son, but I also have a Brad that has served time in Iraq with the Marines. I know how hard it is to send your son to an area so violate, but I also know the pride that you feel knowing that your son is doing something that not everyone has the courage to do. I work with Kathy and as I told her when I heard the news, the Lord says " their is no greater gift than to lay down your life for your brother". He gave the greatest gift for us and he will always be remembered for that and will always remain a hero!!!
Anthony
February 2, 2007
I posted this in the guestbook at www.bradshilling.com I hope you don't mind if I share it here..
Thank you for this website that honors my nephew SPC Brad Shilling who gave his life to defeat terrorism and give the Iraqi people their freedom. Brad gave the ultimate sacrifice to help secure our freedom. He understood that terrorists attacked our homeland and intended to destroy our way of life. I am thank full we have brave Americans like Brad who will not let that happen… I believe that Brad stands guard over us, protecting us and helping us through this tough time.
Brad made a difference; he showed the world and me what he stood for. I talked to Brad before he left and I remember him telling me he wanted to help the Iraqi people. He gave his life doing what he believed… He felt he was helping to make the world a better place.
Brad will forever be missed, he served his country proudly and I will never let him be forgotten.
"To live in the hearts of those you leave behind is never to die"
I heard that somewhere and I wanted to share it with you all.
Brad I miss you … I wish you were here and I wish I could change this. I know you’re here in our hearts, prayers and thoughts and I hope we all get some comfort in that.
Brad your forever MY HERO!
Anthony
Glen
January 30, 2007
“Soldier”
Written to Honor the Service of Our Fallen Soldiers
Soldiers write history, we pay the price
Many miles distant, you live the life
Entered the Battle of our own free will
Out of Duty for Country, and we’d do it still
We hope and pray that all will find peace
In God, in the flag, in memories of valor
Gone now, our pride and courage you see
“An Army of One” our motto forever
Willing to risk all for love of our Brothers
We’re still Your Soldiers…and we showed the way
Our Lives too short, now pray for the others
Lived free died Heroes in lands far away
Deep within souls all cherished our Service
We’ll always have what some never know
Courage and Honor, our names forever
Lived life with purpose…just our time to go
We march in the Heavens with Honor and Glory
Missions accomplished we fought the Good Fight
Many years from now…we’ll tell the full story
Until that Day we will live in the Light
Our lives we laid down in a land far away
Still watching o’er you this night and by day
No need to talk…just know we are with you
There in your hearts and we hear what you pray
Yes we are your soldiers
Our lives we laid down
Still We guard o’er you
Still Duty bound
Entered the Battle of our own free will
Out of Duty for Country, and we’d do it still
We’ll always have what some never know
Lived life with purpose…it was our time to go
Bethanie Myers
January 30, 2007
dear sam and melissa im so sorry for the lost!! i miss him so much and i cant stop thing about all the memories that we all shared together i hope we all stay in touch!
love always Bethanie Myers
Lee Sirotnak
January 26, 2007
As we offer prayers for your family in this time of sorrow, we will also offer prayers of thankfulness for the work and sacrifice of your loved one, Bradley. God Bless your family, may you find joy in your memories of him, and peace and comfort in knowing that there are many military families keeping you in our hearts.
Pama Klemp
January 26, 2007
I am so very much saddened by the loss of your Soldier Son. I did not know Brad. I am the mother of an Army Soldier that has served in The War on Terror and will deploy again for another tour. While my Soldier Son is not "over there", at this time, I have come to know and adopt "The Hooligans" as my own. Many of their Soldiers write to me and have sent me a recent video of their unit "over there". They take such pride in what they are able to do for The United States of America. As a military family, and as a Soldier's Mom, please accept our heart felt sorrow for your loss. Brad "Stands Guard" now over all that serve, we thank him.
Pama Klemp;
former Police Communications Officer
Don Klemp; former USAF SAC
Our Soldier Son; Drew, served tours in Afghanistan, and Uzbekistan. Please contact me any time.
Tammy Hubbard
January 23, 2007
Brad my Nephew,God how I miss you not a day goes by without me thinking of you and crying.What a big part of are life is missing.My prayers are with your Mom,Dj,Mel,Sam,Abbie and Jordon.I looked to the stars and when I see the brightest ,thats you Brad smiling down on us.Love you always Aunt Tammy
Linda Long
January 21, 2007
Brad you will forever be our Hero! We miss you alot and we thank you each day as we are Free to be in America. We love you and always will. Thoughts and prayers for Kim, DJ, Mel, Samantha, Abbie and Jordon..Also for Granny and Papa who stuggle to deal with the loss of a wonderful grandson. I have no words, just arms to catch you when you fall. I look up at the stars and know that Brad is not alone..He has family..He will always watch over us and we will always keep his memories alive..
To Abbie and Jordon: You Daddy is a Hero!!!A great father he was..Always know he loved you with all his being.. Be proud to have such a wonderful daddy...
Love Aunt Linda and Uncle Kenny and Steven Long
DEBBIE KNAPP
January 15, 2007
HI I GOT THE PLEASURE OF MEETING BRAD THROUGH MY DAUGHTER ASHLEY.HE CAME TO MY HOUSE A FEW TIMES.I LOVED HOW HE MADE ME COMFORTABLE AND MADE HIMSELF TO HOME. OH THAT SMILE JUST WARMS YOUR HEART.HE LOVED MY COOKIES AND HE HAD FUN WITH THE OTHER KIDS HANGING AROUND A BOMB FIRE.HE IS TRUELY A HERO IN MY HEART AND MY SMYPATHY GOES OUT TO ALL WHO KNEW AND LOVED HIM.
Aunt Kathy,Uncle Eugene
January 13, 2007
Words cannot express the emptiness that I feel now that we have lost such a special, caring man. My heart has been broken and Brad will forever have that special place in my heart.He is truly our hero but that smile will be missed.We will never forget Brad that you helped make a difference in our lives and helped to keep us all free, your star will shine brightly.We pray Kim that you find peace, that this family finds peace.
Patricia Evanish
January 11, 2007
Kimmy And D.J. Mel, Sam Abbie,Jordan There are no words to tell you how sorry we are I know you will miss Brad as we all will miss him his smile love of life ect. I know he is watching over us all up in heaven.Love Aunt Patsy
Patrick Donahue
January 10, 2007
Brad - Nothing in my life has ever prepared me to say goodbye to a loving son like you. You will always be in my thoughts and in my prayers. I will always be proud to call you "My American Hero". I will keep your memory alive in my heart, and the hearts of others, until the day I meet up with you in heaven. Until then, give me the strength to watch over the loved ones that have been left behind, and your courage to carry on when things become unbearable. I miss you very much, son - I love you
Kim Donahue
January 10, 2007
Thank you all for your thoughts and prayers during our time of immense sorrow. Please continue to pray for the safety of all our troops.
Proud mother of Spc. Brad Shilling
melissa shilling
January 10, 2007
I would like to thank everyone for their sympathies on the behalf of my family. We are very grateful to know that people will never forget Bradley and his heroic acts. My brother was a kind person who always put others first and that is exactly what he did over there.
Melissa
Proud lil sis of SPC Shilling
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
January 3, 2007
My heartfelt sympathy to the Shilling family in the loss of Bradley. I did not know Bradley, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Bradley you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
CPT Chris Call
December 24, 2006
To the Shilling family: I did not know your son personally but my unit trained along side Bradley's unit at Fort Dix, NJ. The men of Company B/1-148th Infantry out of Bowling Green, Ohio send our deepest condolences to you and your family. As soldiers we share many experiences with each other both good and bad. We are a proud fraternity and we share the grief whenever a soldier is lost. You should be very proud of him for his service to his country and the pursuit of freedom for people he didn't even know. His sacrifice defines what it is to be an American. God bless you and your family.
Sincerely,
Christopher G. Call
Captian, Infantry
Commanding
B/1-148th IN
Donna Bulson
December 18, 2006
The loss of someone so close is difficult to bear. We share your grief.
courtney c
December 12, 2006
bradley you were one of my favorit cosins and you will always be in my heart not matter what
anna ward
December 9, 2006
To the family,i'm very sorry about your loss.it is very hard but it does get a little better everyday.our family was hit with our loss last year. Infact they might of new each other they were in the same infintry. pfc. John Dearing. they are all together up there now as our angels. and we are all together here as a family.with love and support from everyone it will surely help. as i get support from out side of the family such as friends thier will be someone out there for you. i'm sorry again
Lori Platz Proud National Guard wife of SFC Ted Platz, Echo Co. 1-125 IN
December 6, 2006
Words just can't explain the loss of Brad. He is an American Hero and is watching over us now. The Hooligans will continue their mission with you guiding them from above. Thank you Brad for proudly serving your country!
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