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Troy Gilbert Obituary
Major Gilbert was a career military officer with 13 years of service in the United States Air Force. Upon completion of the U.S. Air Force Officer Training School at Maxwell AFB, Ala., he served at RAF Lakenheath, England; conducted pilot training at Sheppard AFB, Texas; and was assigned to the 555th Fighter Squadron at Aviano AB, Italy, before becoming an instructor pilot with the 62nd Fighter Squadron at Luke AFB, Ariz. His career included 130 combat flying hours in F-16 aircraft and he has been posthumously awarded a Purple Heart and the Distinguished Flying Cross with Valor.
Major Gilbert met his wife at Angelo State University and they were wed in Clovis, N.M., upon graduating from Texas Tech University in 1993. He held a degree in International Economics. He was an active member of Desert Springs Community Church in Litchfield Park, Ariz.
Survivors include his wife, Ginger, two sons, and three daughters currently residing in Litchfield Park, Ariz. He is also survived by his parents, Ron and Kaye Gilbert, of Wichita Falls, Texas; and a sister, Rhonda Jimmerson and her husband, both of Arlington, Texas.
Major Gilbert was interred at Arlington National Cemetery on Dec. 11, 2006.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to "The Gilbert Family Memorial Fund" at the Clovis News Journal, Portales News-Tribune, or at the Bank of Clovis.
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Charlie Gili
July 23, 2025
Hello,
We wanted to let you; your family and friends know that we have made a small donation to the St. Baldrick´s Foundation in honor of Troy Lee Gilbert UA Air Force Major.
We realize that this is a small tribute, but we do this with all respect and sincerity and we want you to know that it is made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals from across the American youth hockey community, their families and friends and others who support our mission.
We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you safe and strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of our mission: US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Inc.
nick lawter
December 17, 2016
Thank you.. god bless
Preston Wilson
December 8, 2016
A member of my Air Force Family. My prayers and sympathy to his Family.
john gilbert
October 6, 2016
God be with you Troy, rest in peace my brother and God be with your family
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October 5, 2016
Our condolences to the Gilbert family, we know this has been a rough journey, our son was KIA Dec 2010, prayers go to all our military. Thank you Troy for you heroism and you will never be forgotten.
March 17, 2013
In memory & honor of Major Troy Gilbert. We will always remain grateful for his service and the sacrifice he made for us.
courtney retz
February 7, 2012
I didn't have the privilege to know Troy. But I do have the privilege to know his sister rhonda. And his two nephews colton lee & landon troy jimmerson. I have also heard many wonderful things about ginger and her beautiful children. I hope they know how much they are loved and how much their daddy is missed. His story will live on in rhonda& kaye& Ronnie as long as god will allow. My deepest sympathy goes out to all of maj. Troy's family. May god watch over all of you.
Amanda Zinza-Anderson
December 18, 2011
Mrs. Gilbert and family,
I had the honor of serving with your husband in Balad, Iraq. His office was next to ours and he was an amazing officer and man to know. I think of him often and pray for your family. I am honored to have known such a great man. Please accept my sincerest rememberance of Major Gilbert. Merry Christmas and may God grant you peace.
Amanda Zinza-Anderson
December 18, 2011
Major Gilbert's memorial service at Balad, Iraq
Amanda Zinza-Anderson
December 18, 2011
Peggy Childers
November 28, 2011
November 27, 2011
To the family and friends of Maj. Troy L. Gilbert:
Please accept my remembrance of Troy on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Mags Dearduff
November 27, 2011
Ginger, Scott and I are thinking of you and the children today on this Troy's 5 year Anniversary. No matter the time that passes we know the grief and pain of that Day is fresh and we just wanted you to know that we will NEVER forget Troy. We will always be so thankful that we had him in our lives even for a little while. May God continue to grant you peace thru a very difficult time and may you and all of Trojan's Family know that he is remembered in our hearts each and every day. Troy was a very special Man and a true gift from God! We love you, Scott & Mags Dearduff
Peggy Childers
November 27, 2010
To the family and friends of Maj. Troy L. Gilbert:
Remembering Troy on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Chief Scott Dearduff at "Troy's Place" Balad Iraq 2009
Chief & Mags Dearduff
November 27, 2009
Ginger, you and your children remain in our Hearts and Minds and in our thoughts and prayers again today on this the 3rd Anniversary of "Trojan's" Crash. He is never far from the thoughts of his "Band of Brothers" who had the honor and privilege to serve with him in Iraq. Please Know that the Chief has Troy close to his heart and takes his picture out and tells his story every chance he gets. Today as he continues to walk miles throughout the AOR I know that he spent every minute of every hour reminding Any and ALL Airmen, Soldiers, Marines, Navy & Coast Guardsman that he ran into of the Service and the sacrifice of this Great American Hero and Friend Major Troy "Trojan" Gilbert. He also reminds them of the ones he leaves behind and of their continued Sacrifice. Those of his Wife & Children, Parents and other Family Member's as well as the many Friends who Miss him so much in their lives but who have found the courage and fortitude to continue to live Life to the fullest with great purpose and Conviction. We admire you all so much for your daily strength and perseverance. Maj Troy L Gilbert was and is the Epitome of what the Airmen's Creed stands for and our Air Force was a better place because he served in it for our Nation. God bless, Mags & Chief Scott Dearduff
November 2, 2009
Dear Ginger and Children,
I cannot adequately express my grief for the loss of your Husband/Father or the profound admiration that I have for the Major.
I will never be able to thank him enough in my prayers or to adequately tell you how very sorry I am for your loss.
My Son was only 20 years old on that day when he radioed your husband of their dire situation.
I firmly believe that it was Gods will that the Major was on station for the assist. From what I heard not many would have been able to do what he did for those "special" young men who would surely have died without the aid of your Troy.
My Son is out of the Military now and he still is unable to talk about that mission, it's just too painful for him. My boy continues to bring the bad guys to justice and to protect the innocent, he is a good man and tries to be worthy of all that have given their lives so that others may live.
He once told me that the Air Force pilots were the best in the business and that he could always count on them to hit the mark.
Thank you God and thank you Major Gilbert.
And Ginger, peace be with you and the Children, always.
Kenna Larra
March 4, 2009
We love our Soldiers! We love our country and we cannot express enough love and compassion to the families of our fallen heroes. War does not discriminate – It breaks our hearts to see the faces of the fallen. We want to give this gift to you. We are a 501c3 nonprofit organization! Over 1,450 portraits have been completed and shipped to the parents and or spouse - at no cost as this is a gift from one American to another!
Contact us directly at [email protected] or go to www.heropaintings.com. If you have already had a portrait completed, we pray that you are enjoying the portrait and God Bless You.
Sincerely,
Kenna
Mags Dearduff
November 27, 2008
Thanksgiving Day 2008.
To the Gilbert Family, the Command Chief and I wanted to let you know that you remain in our constant thoughts and prayers but you are in the forefront of our hearts and mind today on this Trojan's 2nd Anniversary. Trojan was the ultimate Warrior who served with honor and courage and will forever remain a True American Hero to us.
The Chief was able to stop at his Memorial At Balad in Iraq yesterday to spend time with Trojan's memory and to take a moment to honor and reflect on the man who he had the distinct privilege to call friend. We know that Trojan is flying high over the skies of Iraq, and we know in our hearts he has already touched the face of God.
He continues on with a new mission and that is to protect those who remain in harms way continuing his legacy of Service before Self. He was and will always remain the epitome of what our Airmen's Creed stands for. We are so sorry for your loss. God Bless you, Chief Scott & Mags Dearduff
In Memory of Troy Lee ~ (Debra Estep)
November 27, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Troy, but I am remembering
his service and sacrifice. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep - Aleandri
Twinsburg Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
Peggy Childers
November 27, 2008
Thanksgiving Day, 2008
To the family of Maj. Troy L. Gilbert:
Troy gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
kileigh dlouhy
October 20, 2008
i miss you so much i still have happy memories of you as if you were still here i would be way happy but ur not so i have to understand that you are not coming back but i know ur having a good time up there with god say hi to my aunt dee for me love u and will always miss u love kileigh dlouhy
Heather (Alexander), Andy, Piper, and Sam Everett
September 6, 2008
Oh my goodness. I am so sorry to hear about you and your family's loss. I have decided today to look you guys up as I wanted to get in contact. Such sad news. I worked with Ginger back in Lakenheath travelling around the UK. The last time I saw you, you were pregnant with your first, Boston. Andy was at the flight school as an instructor there and knew Troy as well. I still would love to get in contact. We wish you well, and give you or love and support.
June 15, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Maj Gilbert!
Kim (Kelley) Teeter
March 24, 2008
Ginger and Family,
I just wanted to you know that I am still praying for you and your family.
A K
March 23, 2008
Here's an other photo of Troy for those who remember him
AK
BLUE SKIES TROY
A K
March 23, 2008
Troy
You were known to us through " VIPER" and your duties at Hill AFB .You were a great pilot, flight instructor and an oustanding officer. Today on behlaf of my company and on behalf of " VIPER ASSOC." we salute you. You are gone but will never be forgotten
Alex
Jeffrey McFay
March 19, 2008
God Bless you and your family for the loss of your husband and father. I am proud we have hero's like Maj. Gilbert protecting and serving our country. Once again THANK YOU.
Talking to his family on the phone.
TSgt Carrie Orta
November 28, 2007
Mrs. Gilbert,
Maj Gilbert and I worked in the same office while we were in Iraq. He always seemed to know when I was down, missing my family, or having a hard time dealing with the stresses of a job I had no experience in. He was a fantastic mentor. His devotion to you and your children was an inspiration. The look in his eyes when I would come back in the office (I'd leave, If possible to give him some privacy) after he had talked to you was amazing. I'd be hard pressed to point out a more devoted husband and father. Today, when I think about Maj Gilbert, I know that he isn't coming back, but I also know that he is in Heaven. Please accept my most sincere sympathy, as he was, for a short time, part of my family too.
Jeff Dearduff
November 27, 2007
One year has passed, it has gone so fast since we lost this brave American flyer.
His family is strong, they've suffered so long with his love in their heart they will never tire.
Godspeed Trojan
Scott & Diana Mitchell
November 16, 2007
Ginger,
This is Diana and Scott Mitchell, we met you and Troy when we were stationed at Lakenheath AFB, you use to be my boss when I was a Visual Merchandiser. Scott and I were very shocked when we saw you on the Bill OReilly news show. We didn't know you had lost Troy. We sat in disbelief because we didn't know that Troy had gone to be with the Lord. You two are wonderful people. Our hearts and love are with you. Troy was such a kind soul and you two made such a beautiful couple. When I last saw you, you two were pregnant with you first, then I received a Christmas card with a picture of you Troy and two of your boys. How blessed you are with five chidlren. We are praying for you and will remember Troy forever and the great sacrifice your family gave so that we may be safe and free. We love you both. If there is anything we can do feel free to contact us. God bless you...
Ret. MSgt. Scott and Diana Mitchell
Susan Stanley
November 7, 2007
Dear relatives of Troy, my son SSGT Russell J. Verdugo is buried in Arlington National Cemetery along with your hero. I took some photos last Memorial Day Week-end 2007 and have a photo of your Troy’s grave site and marker. If you would like a copy emailed to you, please let me know. I know we are so very proud of our fallen heroes, but we miss them so.
In loving remembrance of our heroes!
Gold Star Mother,
Joseph Higgs
October 26, 2007
Mrs. Gilbert,
I am a 2Lt in the AF on my way to pilot training. I don't know if you read these postings so long after your husbands' passing, but after viewing your interview on the Factor, I would feel ungrateful if I didn't try to say this to you. You are an incredible example of humility and strength. I truly believe that you exemplify what a military member and his/her family strives to be... patriotic, fearless in the face of oppression, and stalwart in doing what's right. Your husband is proud of you and your family. Thank you for being a great example to me and my wife. May God be with you.
Wesley A. Pollard
October 25, 2007
Mrs Gilbert and Children: Maj Gilbert, you and the children are all true heroes to our family. May God bless you all. SMSgt & Mrs Wesley A. Pollard, USAF Ret.
Chrystina Swain
October 24, 2007
Mrs. Gilbert,
I was watching the O'Reilly Factor and saw the segment with you on it. My heart goes out to you for your loss. I am sorry that some in our nation do not understand your sacrifice or comprehend the kind of man that was lost. Major Troy L. Gilbert was a one-of-kind, a rare jewel in the Lord's eyes. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers as the anniversary nears.
My husband is a Captain in the U.S. Army, military service runs deep in both our families. We admire and honor your esteemed husband. I know it is hard for you and your children and pray that they will always remember what an extraordinary lineage they hail from, a legacy to be proud of.
I am in awe of you for standing up and speaking out. What a difference you are helping bring about in our media system. I can not begin to imagine how hard this is for you. Just know that you are an inspiration to many. You are a stranger to me but a sister in heart through our Savior, Jesus Christ. American military spouses salute you and your family! Thank you for your strength, I am sorry that you have to show it so strongly.
Doug Sinopoli
October 24, 2007
I saw your appearance on O'Reilly on Fox News on October 24th....I will pray for you and your family. I am a Vietnam Veteran and Troy is an American Hero. God Bless you and your family.
Kathy Kasson
October 24, 2007
I saw Mrs. Gilbert on The O'Reilly Factor and I wanted to leave a comment somewhere. I'm sure he's in Heaven and you and your family have your own angel watching over you. God bless you and your family. Thank you Major Troy!!!
Jeff S
October 24, 2007
Your husband is a true hero. You and your family are in our hearts and prayers..and please know that most Americans feel this way...despite what the press shows. Your loss is not in vane...The world will be a better place. God Bless.
Tiffany Fink
September 14, 2007
Ginger, I can not believe it has almost been a year. I still think about you and your family everyday. My step-daughter was in Miss Paulson's class last year. My entire family is deeply sadened by your loss. This tragedy puts life in a whole new perspective. I try not to take so many things for granted anymore, thank you for helping me realize just how precious life is.
Our prayers are still with you, the kids, and your entire family. God Bless
The Fink Family
Ginger Allain
August 14, 2007
We, as American's have lost too many of our wonderful young people. MY HUSBAND WAS A FIREMAN, who died two weeks before Katrina took our home in New Orleans. His loss was devastating, as is any loss of servant or soldier in our great country. My name is Ginger, as well. Please accept my love and prayers for you and your family. Troy doesn't need them, he is already seeing Jesus face.
August 8, 2007
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON (KIA on 07/06/07) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
August 3, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Maj Gilbert and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
Derek Morkel
July 16, 2007
Ginger - as one of the nicest people that I have had the privilege to meet, I was truly saddened when I came upon this. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Derek Morkel
Maj. Jared (Jabba) & Sara Hutchinson
July 16, 2007
I feel like I know you and I have never meet you. I have heard so many great things about your family from mutual friends that we share. I dont even know what to say but that I am so very sorry for your loss. I have never stopped thinking about you and your family. We were in Utah with Bart and heard some great things of your husband. What a wonderful guy.. I hope you know you are and will forever be in my mind and in my heart. God bless...
Robert Lowenberg
May 25, 2007
No greater love has a man, than he lay down his life for his friends.
Robyn Garside
April 6, 2007
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE ON FOR YOUR CHILDREN. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. PLEASE STAY STRONG AND GODSPEED. SEMPER FI
A PROUD MARINE MOM
Marilu Gordon
March 23, 2007
To Ginger and her children:
God Bless you each until you meet again in heaven to embrace yet again. To Troy: Thank-you for your sacrafice. All gave some yet some gave all.
mike butkus
March 22, 2007
may god bless you
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
February 20, 2007
To the Gilbert family; I previously signed Troy's guest book. As promised each time I am at ANC I visit/honor Troy. Yesterday while I was at ANC a friend that served with Troy came to visit him. Happy Birthday Troy. You are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten. To the Gilbert family from the most inner part of my heart I am so very sorry Troy was taken from you. If you ever need me to do anything for you at ANC please feel free to email me I would be honored to help you.
Jamie( Wife of a deployed Sailor)
February 18, 2007
Very heartbreaking..God Bless the Gilbert family!! Your family has paid the utlimate sacrifice..He will be sadly and forever missed..
Land Of The Free~Because Of The Brave..
marinecomfortquilts
Mona O'Kelley
February 18, 2007
I am truly sorry for your loss. The Honorable Troy Gilbert is an American hero. The family and loved ones are the heroes of American too - they have paid the ultimate price for the freedom of us all. May God grant you peace.
Lee Sirotnak
January 26, 2007
Please accept our sympathy in the loss of your loved one, our thanks for his service to our country, and may God bless your family and comfort you with his love and grace.
Julia Guerra Santeliz
January 25, 2007
Gilbert Family and Relatives:
I am so sorry to hear of your loss, our prayers are with you. I felt a strong and urgent need to locate Rhonda and googled her and Troy and came across this terrible news. I knew him and Rhonda from Edison Jr. High in San Angelo, TX. Please let his children know that Troy was a great guy, no one ever had anything negative to say about him. May you always feel God's presence and may that give you peace. I would love to give my personal condolences to Rhonda and her Parents, please forward my information to them: Julia Guerra-Santeliz, 323 Sarto Avenue, Coral Gables, FL 33134 [email protected]. Phone:305.215.6526
Gary Gillespie
January 16, 2007
May
God bless the Gilbert family with courage and solemnity in this time of grief. We are so proud of Troy and all that he stood for -- he will
forever be a hero of our hearts.
In the words of Abraham Lincoln: "I
pray that our heavenly father may have assauged the anguish of your
bereavement and leave you only the cherished memory of the loved and
lost and the solemn pride that must be yours to have laid so costly a
sacrifice on the alter of freedom."
Kaya Ethridge
January 10, 2007
troy was a great man in my life. i always looked up to him. he was my role modle.he wrote me a letter before he went to iraq.that letter means every thing to me. i will always remember him not for just what he did for me but what he did for our country. he was a great father,uncle,and soldier.he is my hero.with all my love Kayla
Kayla Ethridge
January 10, 2007
Troy was a great man. I met him 2 times . He is my uncle by mariage his sister Ronda is my aunt . i iss him alot . his family is in my prayrs . with lots of love Kayla Ethridge
Peter Gilbert
January 10, 2007
Saddened by your loss.
January 3, 2007
To the Family of Major Troy L. Gilbert:
I will stand in grief with this soldier's family to honor him. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life, but I promised Brent that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.
We lost our son SFC Brent A. Adams on 12/1/05 and it seems like yesterday. I wish so badly there were things I could say to you right now to make the pain you are feeling go away, but I know first hand there simply are no words that will bring you the comfort and peace your heart aches for. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you go through this tragedy moment by moment and as you mourn this loss.
We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with as our hearts both burst with pride and pain together.
I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally. While they can never be replaced, neither will they ever be forgotten. You must trust that sometime, someday the loving memories you have will help to sustain you and help you go on. This courageous soldier will forever be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well.
To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is your wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever.
If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero.
God Bless this soldier and family who gave all and God Bless legacy.com for setting up this site where families can so quickly share their condolences and prayers with others like themselves.
Proud Parents of SFC Brent A. Adams, KIA, 12/1/05, Ramadi, Iraq
Pam and Bill Adams, Lancaster, PA
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
January 3, 2007
My heartfelt sympathy to the Gilbert family in the loss of Troy. I did not know Troy, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Troy you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten. I live close to ARLINGTON NATIONAL CEMETERY and I visit there two or three times a week. I promise that each time that I am at ANC I will visit/honor Troy.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
pat L
January 2, 2007
Gilbert Family & Friends: I am so sorry about the loss of your most precious loved one & one of Americas Heroes. Words are totally inadequate @ a time like this, but i want to honor Maj. Gilbert. I appreciate his courage & valor & everything he accomplished in the service. Who know's, maybe he helped save my 2 nephews lives @ one time or another as they are @ TQ, Iraq. God bless you all & may the Great Comforter comfort you & strengthen you hour by hour.
John & Judy Pielemeier
January 2, 2007
As the parents of an A1C we extend our deepest sympathy to the Gilbert family.Maj, Gilbert may you "CROSS INTO THE BLUE"
Marc Doran
January 1, 2007
Ginger,
Tess, Phillip, Ryan and I are praying for you and the kids during this most difficult time. Troy loved his country, the Air Force, to fly every day, and most of all you and the children! Our deepest sympathy during the holiday season and your time of mourning. Love Marc and Tess
Kenneth Martin
December 31, 2006
Troy, although I never met you, I heard of all your triumphs from your Uncle Don. You were what makes America Great!!!! And the kind of man you were will never be forgotten.
Henryk Zaleski (USN-Ret)
December 30, 2006
Your sacrifice lives in our hearts and minds.Rest in peace with our gratitude.
Gary Allain
December 29, 2006
An Eagle Has Fallen
Maj. Troy L. Glibert
you are my hero
may god keep you in his arms forever.
David Morris
December 29, 2006
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Cordy Diaz
December 29, 2006
To the family of Maj. Troy L. Gilbert, It is with great sorrow that I offer my deepest sympathy and condolences. Troy will never be forgotten. My thoughts and prayers are with you always.
Rob & Maria Martens
December 26, 2006
Please accept our deepest sympathy at the loss of Troy. May God bless and keep you and may He give you comfort in this time of terrible grief.
Major Gilbert's name will be honorably added to the list of Arizona's fallen heros of the Iraqi and Afgani wars at the Nathan Martens Arizona Memorial. It had been our fondest hope that noone else be added but, sadley, our heroes continue to fall. May God bless and keep all those still in harm's way.
Proud parents of
HN Robert Nathaniel Martens (FMF), USN
3/6 India, II MarDiv
Killed in AlQaim, Iraq September 06, 2005
Garnet Jenkins
December 23, 2006
My deepest and most heartfelt sympathy to the family of Maj. Troy L. Gilbert, with a multitude of Thanks for this Brave Hero's Courage, Dedication and Service to our Country and for Freedom.
The price Maj. Gilbert and his family have paid, Will Never Be Forgotten.
May Troy Rest Safely, in God's Care and may God's Loving Peace and Comfort be with the Gilbert family.
These Air Force Pilots rank very high on my list of heros and I was devastated when I learned of this crash on the news.
I am the Sister of such a young hero, who made the Ultimate Sacrifice in Vietnam, 12/6/67.
Surely He hath borne our grief, and carried our sorrow.
Isaiah 53:4
May you find comfort and strength, in the beautiful memories of times spent with Troy. Quietly and gently, may healing come, with each new day.
You are in my thoughts and my prayers.
Kenneth Thilges
December 19, 2006
My family is sorry for the loss of another hero. Your husband Troy gave the ultimate and I am proud of the service he gave to our country. He will be remembered in our prayers along with all the other soldiers. Contact me so I can give you something special from a former Vietnam Veteran.
Kim (Kelley) Teeter
December 18, 2006
Ginger,
Words are not enough to express my deepest sympathy for you and your precious children right now. You have been in my families prayers and will remain in our prayers for a very long time. I know God can and will give you the strength and comfort to carry you through these difficult times. I want to thank you for allowing your husband to be a protector of our country and our freedom. May God be with you all this Christmas Season!
Larry, Virginia, Heather, Holly, and Matthew Glenn
December 14, 2006
Ginger
"Be Strong and of good courage: Do not be afraid, nor be dismayed, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go."
We are so proud of Troy and his service to protect our freedom. Please know that you are in our prayers and we are here for you.
Love,
Mike Dlouhy
December 13, 2006
Ginger,
I cannot find the words to tell you how saddened we are for you and your children and family. We'll continue to pray for you. Trust in God.
Love,
Mike, Becky, Baylee, and Kileigh Dlouhy
Joe and Linda Reed
December 13, 2006
Ginger,
We are greatly saddened over the loss of Troy. Our prayers are with you and your children.
Mark Tejada
December 12, 2006
It's nice to know there are real American heros out there! My prayers go out to all of the family and friends. May God be with you!
Robin Mercado
December 12, 2006
To the Family of Major Gilbert:
May God give you the Grace needed at this difficult time. No words can express our gratitude to the Major and the sorrow we feel for your family. My family will always remember your family and your Husband in our prayers and especially when we hear & see the Jets from Luke over our home. Thank you for our continuing freedom.
May God grant you peace.
The Mercadnte Family Colonial Park Country CLub
December 12, 2006
Ginger,
Our thoughts and deepest sympathy are with you and your family at this time.
Thomas Reyna
December 12, 2006
Thank you for your service to the country. Your family is in our prayers. God Bless you.
Steve & Teri Barnes
December 12, 2006
Dear Mrs. Gilbert (Ginger),
We thank you for your commitment to your husband and all the difficulties that military life brings. Bless you and your children. We will have you in our thoughts for some time...
Jim and Laura Jorde
December 11, 2006
Words cannot convey how saddended we are to hear about your loss. We are praying for your family. Love, Jim, Laura, Brie, Jared, Hayden, and Allie Jorde
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