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Robert Volker Obituary
He was born on August 7, 1985, in Big Spring, Texas and married Martha Ramsey on April 7, 2006 in Belton, Texas.
Robert was a 2003 graduate of Big Spring High School where he played the french horn in the Steer Band. He attended UTI where he graduated the auto body repair course in 2004. Robert worked at the Big Spring Collision Center before joining the United States Army September 22, 2005. He served his country during the Iraq war where he was awarded the Combat Action Badge, Bronze Star, Purple Heart, Global War on Terrorism Service Medal, Iraq Campaign Medal, National Defense Service Medal, and the Army Service Ribbon. He volunteered to serve his country and for this mission. Robert was a loving son, brother, husband, friend, patriot and a hero.
Survivors include his wife, Martha Volker of Big Spring; his parents, Robert and Melissa Volker of Big Spring; one brother Johnathan Volker of DDG USS Roosevelt, Mayport, Florida; his grandparents, Jim and Gloria Roe and Chuck and Janet Frank all of Big Spring; numerous aunts, uncles, cousins, and friends.
He was preceded in death by his uncle, James Drury; grandfather, Henry Drury; mother-in-law, Mary Johnson; father-in-law, Larry Ramsey, and a sister-in-law, Susan Ramsey.
The family suggests memorials be made to the Force Ministries, PO Box 720130, San Diego, CA 92172-0130, or www.forceministries.com
Arrangements under the direction of Nalley-Pickle & Welch Funeral Home & Crematory of Big Spring. Online condolences can be made at: www.npwelch.com.
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Memories and Condolences
for Robert Volker
Charlie Gili
October 18, 2016
Hello,
We would like to express our deepest condolences and also let the Volker Family and friends know that we will be sending Care Packages to deployed troops this week and we'll be dedicating several of these to your loved one. Each package will carry the name, photo and the hometown of Robert James RJ Volker US Army Specialist. We realize that this is a small tribute, but we do this with all respect and sincerity and we want you to know that it is made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals from across the American youth hockey community. We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of the US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign
Fergus Murphy
December 21, 2013
We did not meet in this life but from one veteran to another, RIP brother!
Beth Andrews
December 20, 2013
Thank you...........freedom isn't free
Summer Clanton
December 20, 2012
RJ I never knew you but have gotten to know you through your sweet momma that my son calls Nano. I know you are loved and missed greatly.
Sandy Dunlap
December 20, 2012
RJ will always be in our thoughts and prayers.
Melissa Volker
December 20, 2012
How long it has been...more yrs ahead. Some days are much easier then others now. Today...being a bad one. Your loved & missed so much. So much has changed since we lost you & I have found my feet & am finding the path again. I am slowly finding what I supposed to do - somedays better then others - lol. Courtney & I will be out at our usual time tonight & hoping daddy will make it too. I Love you Armajayn ~ Moma
Krystal Garcia
December 20, 2012
You will always be in my heart and in my thoughts. Thinking of you and your family today.
Lorena McWhorter
December 19, 2012
Our hearts are with each and everyone of our lost young men and women. We pray for thing to get better.
Michelle Deatherage
December 22, 2011
Miss and love you - Aunt Shell
Peggy Childers
December 20, 2011
To the family and friends of Spc. Robert J. Volker:
Please accept my remembrance of Robert on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Melissa Volker
December 22, 2010
Things are getting worse around here with out you & your brother since he moved away. Some days are harder then others. I wanted to write here on Monday... but just couldn't. Today's not much better for writing. I miss you & wish things could be different but I understand now when your brothers & other Vet's tell me your "the lucky one". I guess you are at that. We are scattered like leaves before a storm. I love you Armajayn, whole bunches & miss you even more
~X~ Moma
Peggy Childers
December 20, 2010
To the family and friends of Spc. Robert J. Volker:
Remembering Robert on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
November 11, 2010
Thank you...
Lara Drury
August 7, 2010
Happy Birthday, RJ.
Lara Drury
August 7, 2010
Happy Birthday, RJ. We miss you everyday.
Love always,
Gary, Lara, and Savannah
Gary Drury
April 22, 2010
From Arizona missing you everyday your uncle, aunt and cousin. We love you very much.
MELISSA VOLKER
April 22, 2010
MISSING MY BOY TO DAY & EVERYDAY. I LOVE YOU RJ
Michelle Deatherage
December 26, 2009
Your Aunt Shell hasn't forgotten you. We all went out to see you and your momma really makes it really pretty for you. She has you a little solar lite Christmas tree standing on your headstone. It's so cute. I miss you so much and know you are here with us.
Donna Gillette
December 25, 2009
On this day and with each day that we enjoy our freedom, I would like to give thanks and let you know that I do not take our troops for granted. May you experience God when you feel your loss.
Craig & Cherise Felty
May 25, 2009
To the family of RJ Volker:
We would like to say thank you again for the price you and RJ have paid for our freedom. Proudly we can say that we knew a true American Hero and we are very grateful for the sacrifices you all have made. We know you will always miss RJ and we want you to know on this Memorial Day 2009 that he is not forgotten. Our prayers are with you and may God Bless You.
Kenna larra
February 27, 2009
We love our Soldiers! We love our country and we cannot express enough love and compassion to the families of our fallen heroes. War does not discriminate – It breaks our hearts to see the faces of the fallen. We want to give this gift to you. We are a 501c3 nonprofit organization! Over 1,450 portraits have been completed and shipped to the parents and or spouse - at no cost as this is a gift from one American to another!
Contact us directly at [email protected] or go to www.heropaintings.com. If you have already had a portrait completed, we pray that you are enjoying the portrait and God Bless You.
Sincerely,
Kenna
In Memory of Robert ~ (Debra Estep)
December 28, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Robert, but I am remembering
his service and sacrifice. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
Lara Drury
December 20, 2008
I can't believe two years have passed without you. We miss everything about you. We love you,
Uncle Gary, Aunt Lara, and Savannah.
Michelle Deatherage
December 20, 2008
Well, it's that time of year again. Two years since you were taken away from us. I know where you are now and I miss you so much. I wish I could just see you "alive" one more time and tell you that I love you, but I'm going to the cemetery with the kids so we can all say it. It's so hard not having your around. Love you and miss you terribly, Aunt Shell
Peggy Childers
December 19, 2008
To the family of Spc. Robert J. Volker:
Robert gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
BERNARD TEICH
July 14, 2008
Hi my name is SSG Teich i was in eco with Robert i was the other squad leader for the bradleys i was also hit and lost my leg . I think about Robert all the time as a squad leader your whole goal is to make sure the guys come back okay and that didnt happen its hard to control what happens over there i sometimes wish it was me instead of Robert I cant forgive my self for not getting him home he was a great man and my hero he never complained and was a great driver for lt.Brown who you now he saved my life and gave it all he could for Robert I hope everything is going okay goodluck SSG Teich B12
Katie Policky
June 17, 2008
Was cleaning out my closest to pack things up to move and came across some photos of Robert and I and a couple others from the BSHS band...long time ago now it seems...made me think of all the good times we shared. To the Volker family...hope all is well....to Martha...I never knew you but I hope that God has continued to give you strength. Just a little note to let you all know that he is still in my heart and that I do think of him often...he will never be forgotten!
June 16, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Spc Volker!
Katie Policky
December 20, 2007
It has been a year since Robert has left us and he is still in my heart. Wishing his family a wonderful holiday season! I miss Robert very much, but your son will never be forgotten.
Krystal Garcia (Gonzales)
December 19, 2007
Its taken me a year to leave something on this page because I guess I really did not know what to say about his death and I still don't. For those of you that know me I date Robert in high school. He was a great boyfriend and a great friend even when we stop dating. I really want to say to his family and his wife that this man changed my life for the better he always made me see the good in myself and in my life. I wish we never stopped dating but that's how life goes and we both meet great people for us. To Martha I don't know you but I am sure he loved you very much and you must have meant the world to him, I know this because that's how he treated me and I just dated him, so you must mean even more. He was a great guy. I will miss him dearly and I will always cherish my memories of him.
John Shawkins
October 12, 2007
To the Volker Family,
I did not know Robert, but I knew his father, we grew up together in West Virginia. We had lost touch over the years. I saw an article that mentioned that SPC Robert Volker had fallen in combat and then found my way here through the internet. When I saw the picture of SPC Volker, I knew it was the son of the Robert I grew up with. I returned from Iraq the month Robert gave the ultimate sacrifice.
I wish to give my deepest sympathies to the entire family, especially to SPC Volker’s wife, his mother and my childhood friend, his father.
LTC John W Shawkins
US Army
Fort Carson, CO
August 14, 2007
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
August 4, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Spc Volker and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
PFC Brandon Rich
July 19, 2007
Dear Volker Family,
I am a soldier now assigned to B co 1/5 cav and I served with R.J for a long time while assigned to E FSC. I am a Bradley mechanic and I very much miss Robert... He became like a brother to me and I always looked forward to him coming to me with problems on his brad. No matter if they were big or small, Robert was all about attention to detail, I enjoyed repairing his vehicles and being close to him as he was a very big help in keeping his own vehicles in the fight.. He was like a brother to me and we always reminised on times past and what we were going to do when we got home. I am very touched by Roberts care for others and his un paralelled passion for his battle buddies.. Robert will be GREATLY MISSED by myself and all of the other brothers in arms whom he served with...
"I will see you again my brother, whether soon or not so soon, we will enjoy the company of one another once again"
(Brandon M. Rich)
Susan Colley-Monk
May 25, 2007
For each soldier that has fallen so that many may stand
We honor their spirit as they pass to God’s hand
For without their sacrifice we would live forever in fear
We pray for their loved ones and provide a salute and a tear
God help us heal the wounds of hate and the misery of war
That is our gift to our fallen heroes that are amongst us no more.
Written by my friend, C. Gragg and submitted by a parent of a 1-5 CAV soldier deployed in Baghdad, Iraq
Robyn Garside
April 12, 2007
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. GODSPEED AND SEMPER FI.
A PROUD MARINE MOM
BERT HOLLER
April 10, 2007
I WISH TO HONOR SPC. VOLKER'S SERVICE TO OUR COUNTRY. WE LOST OUR SON-IN-LAW IN IRAQ IN JANUARY 2007. AS MUCH AS MY HEART IS BROKEN BY NICK'S DEATH IT HURTS MORE AS I SEE MORE MEN THAT WON'T COME BACK. I PRAY FOR YOU AND CRY WITH YOU OVER YOUR PRECIOUS FAMILY MEMBER. THE DEEDS OF THESE MEN WILL LIVE ON AS LONG AS WE CONTINUE TO HONOR THEIR COURAGE. THANK YOU,
Glen
January 29, 2007
“Soldier”
To Honor the Service of Our Fallen Soldiers
Soldiers write history, we pay the price
Many miles distant, you live the life
Entered the Battle of our own free will
Out of Duty for Country, and we’d do it still
We hope and pray that all will find peace
In God, in the flag, in memories of valor
Gone now, our pride and courage you see
“An Army of One” our motto forever
Willing to risk all for love of our Brothers
We’re still Your Soldiers…and we showed the way
Our Lives too short, now pray for the others
Lived free died Heroes in lands far away
Deep within souls all cherished our Service
We’ll always have what some never know
Courage and Honor, our names forever
Lived life with purpose…just our time to go
We march in the Heavens with Honor and Glory
Missions accomplished we fought the Good Fight
Many years from now…we’ll tell the full story
Until that Day we will live in the Light
Our lives we laid down in a land far away
Still watching o’er you this night and by day
No need to talk…just know we are with you
There in your hearts and we hear what you pray
Yes we are your soldiers
Our lives we laid down
Still We guard o’er you
Still Duty bound
Entered the Battle of our own free will
Out of Duty for Country, and we’d do it still
We’ll always have what some never know
Lived life with purpose…it was our time to go
Tanya
January 21, 2007
I just recently heard the news... and it broke my heart. I went to school with Robert... first time I met him was 6th grade in band class. I ended up sitting next to him then because we both played french horn. From then on, we became really close friends till we graduated back in 2003 and we went our separate ways (I went to college on the East Coast, while my parents moved to the West Coast). Because of it, I haven't had the opportunity to visit Big Spring in 3 years...
Thinking back, I remember all the little details about our friendship...such as his nickname (it was Alfred from the batman comics because he always seemed like he would make a cool old guy). Or how he and a couple of our other buddies tried to get me to teach me how to skateboard. Or one particularly boring day in history class, he showed me the various uses of duct tape (hat, wrapping paper, etc). It was a crazy day, I laughed so hard when I got home because my backpack was filled to the brim with random pieces of duct tape. I have so many great childhood memories of him. It's a pity that he passed away so young, but he was fighting for a cause that he believed in. I thank him and all the other soldiers for being so brave... I know that I wouldn't have the courage to fight as bravely as they did.
Anyway, just wanted to say that he was a very kind-hearted, genuinely good guy who always told me that I would become a great person. He was the first person that I told about wanting to be a famous filmmaker someday. He didn't laugh, but in fact looked me straight in the eye and told me that it WILL happen. He was so confident in his response...for that, I'll be forever grateful. Hopefully I'll live up to his expectations... RIP RJ Volker..
Sheila Gill
January 18, 2007
It is with great regret that learned of the death of your son in Iraq. Our son, Sgt. Erik Gill, is with 1-5 Cav and our other son, Cpl. Fraser Gill, is serving in Afghanistan with the Canadian Army. Our thoughts are with you and your family. In our eyes your son is a hero who fought for his country. May God hold you in the palm of his hand.
Sheila and Ian Gill
The McIntosh Family, Proud Patriots
January 16, 2007
God Bless this wonderful hero and his family. Thank you for your service Spc. Robert James Volker
SPC MARTIN MCDONELL & RACHEL MCDONELL
January 15, 2007
MARTHA, WE ARE SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. ROBERT WAS A LOVING MAN, KNOW THIS YOU WERE EVERYTHING TO HIM, I HEARD IT ALL THE TIME, HE SAID HE WOULD BE LOST WITHOUT YOU. JUST REMEMBER, EVEN THOUGH HE IS GONE, HIS LOVE NEVER WILL BE. MARTHA, I LOVE ROBERT LIKE A BROTHER, THERE FORE THAT MAKES YOU LIKE MY SISTER, AND IF THERE IS ANYTHING I CAN DO, JUST LET ME KNOW.
FALLEN BROTHERS NEVER FORGOTTEN
RESPECTFULLY
Cindy Justice
January 10, 2007
My heart and prayers are with you. My son is currently serving in the 4-9 Cav. I know the men are feeling much sadness at the loss of Robert.
Dolores Rhoney
January 10, 2007
I am a mother of a soldier (Shawn) whom is is in the 1-5 Cav and in the same company with your son. My son did know your son and we feel so sad for your loss. My prayers are with you and your family. If you get a chance please contact us. God Bless you. Dolores & Don
JEANETTE CREWS
January 9, 2007
In My Pocket
I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.
My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.
They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.
Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.
But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.
Ken Hinrichs
January 9, 2007
My family prays for you in this time of sorrow. I can only imagine how deep your sorrow goes. Your son, while here too short, now sits in the loving arms of our Saviour. A hero to remember, a son to mourn and a man to look up to.
Fenton Family
January 9, 2007
My family and I are so very sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with everyone who knew him. He died a hero and will always be with you in your mind and heart. If you never forget him, his memory will live forever. God bless you.
Verena Aiken
January 8, 2007
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our hearts go out to each & every one of you!
Please know that you are being thought of.
Sgt.Kenny & Verena Aiken with Family
Karen Robinette
January 8, 2007
My thoughts and prayer are with you and your families. You will always have memories and friend to help you. He is always with you, watching over keeping you safe.
Karen Robinette
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
January 7, 2007
My heartfelt sympathy to the Volker family in the loss of Robert. I did not know Robert, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Robert you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
Joscelyn Vandeventer
January 6, 2007
I am the wife of a soldier in 1-5 Cav and our thoughts and prayers are with your family. R.J. died a hero, protecting the lives of his those he cared most for. Stay strong and remember he is in a much better place.
Susunu & Mary Faaola
January 5, 2007
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
becky york
January 4, 2007
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I am the fiance of a soldier in Iraq and my prayers are with every single soldier and their families.....know that there is a very special prayer going up for you tonight and in the nights to come. I know it doesn't seem much of a comfort but it helps me to know that there is someone up there bigger than this war and that He will help ease your pain
Lindsay Correa
January 4, 2007
It is a sad day when we lose a hero. Our thoughts and prayers are with the family.
-SPC Correa & Family (HHC 1-5 Cav)
Trudy Lowe
January 4, 2007
My heartfelt sympathies to your family. My heart breaks with each new name added to this list, and I am saddened by your loss. Know that you are surrounded by prayers, grace and the deep gratitude of all who live in freedom. My God hold you in his arms and grant you peace. Please find joy in the memories of your loved one and comfort knowing so many are holding you in their hearts.
Frances & Jermaine Wisdom
January 4, 2007
our condolences goes to the Volker family and keep God with you always and just know that he watches over eveyone.
Roland and Joline St. Pierre
January 4, 2007
We are the parents of a SSGT also serving in Iraq, words can not express our sympathy for you and your family.
Barbara Gogue Wife of SPC Jeffrey Gogue
January 4, 2007
The loss of someone so close is difficult to bear. We share your grief. R.J. will never be forgotten. He was and always will be our HERO.
Britta Stevens
January 4, 2007
We are so sorry for your loss.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. Please know, SPC "R.J." Volker will never be forgotten.
HHC 1-5 CAV
1SG C.Stevens and family
Rebecca and Bob Reynolds
January 4, 2007
Our son, 1st LT Bo Reynolds, is in B Company, 1-5. He often speaks about the dedication and professionalism of all the soldiers in the unit. We are so very sorry for your loss. Please know that you are in our thougths and prayers.
SSG and Mrs Bridges
January 4, 2007
We are truly sorry for the loss that you and your family have suffered and hope that you can find peace in knowing that SPC. Volker will forever be regarded as a true American hero and patriot. We will never forget his sacrifice and courage.
Leah Lahoda
January 3, 2007
To the Volker Family,
I am sorry to hear about your loss. I also am a wife a military man and I am constantly worrying and praying for all the brave men and women who are serving our country in Iraq. I feel like all of the families of the men and women over there are a family, and when one member is down then we all are. I will continue to pray for your family.....
Love,
The Lahoda's
Lori Ailstock
January 3, 2007
I am so sorry for your loss. With being a wife of a military man I feel we are all family here. I worry about every man and woman in the military that is deployed in Iraq. I will keep you and your family in my prayers and if there's anything I can do for you, please let me know. [email protected]
HHC 1-5 CAV
Mary Larson
January 3, 2007
Dear Vollker Family,
There are no words to express the sorrow I feel for your family. The sacrifice that RJ made is incredible and will never be forgotton. I pray that God can hold you in His arms and help you to find healing. He is holding RJ now. Your family will continue to be in my prayers. May God bring you peace.
Mary Rose Larson
Wife of LT Brian Larson, Bravo Company, 1-5 CAV
S. Sparrow
January 3, 2007
I do not know the Volker Family but we attend the same church. I sat a couple pews behind you last Sunday. This has definitely put my petty problems into perspective. May God grant your family peace in your time of need and thank you for your sacrifice to preserve our country.
Marshall Hardin
January 3, 2007
Martha,
I know you dont know me but I got to know Rob very well while we were together in E co he was a great guy and an even better friend. He will be missed and never forgotten. We all loved him like a brother, my thoughts are with you during this time and if you ever need any thing do not hesitate to ask.
Elizabeth Kinney
January 2, 2007
I would like to express my deepest condolence for the loss of your husband, son, brother, loved one. My husband, Brent Kinney serves in Echo Company. Brent told me of the moving ceremony they had for R.J. in Iraq and how deeply it effected him and the men over there to lose their brother. I am proud of our men and women serving in Iraq and I am so very proud of Spc. Volker who gave his life protecting others. Please know R.J. will never be forgotten and he will always be loved.
Jesus Pastrana
January 2, 2007
I have no words to express my pain for the loss of such a wonderlful human being and a brave soldier.I will remember SPC Volker for the rest of my life.His beautiful family will be on my Prayers and I am there for them, ALWAYS. SGT Pastrana
Evelyn Pereira
January 2, 2007
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help at this time.
Karen McLeod
January 2, 2007
I am so sorry for your loss. I can't even begin to know how you feel. He was a good friend to my daughter and her husband (Cassie and RD Archie). I send you a big hug and many prayers.
Dana Mace
January 2, 2007
R.J will never be forgotten, he was my fiances' best friend and brother in the Army. Sean and I love you Martha and will always be here if ever you need us. Our prayers go out to you and his family. May God Bless you and give you strength.
Cassandra Archie
January 2, 2007
To Martha, Mama Volker, and Family,
My husband proudly served with RJ in the 1-5 Cav, he was a great soldier and a very good friend. Him and Martha were just like family to us. He will be deeply missed.
stefanie pyatt
January 2, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Shawn and Jennifer Claybaugh
January 2, 2007
Shawn and I would like to send our deepest sympathy to your family. Spc. Volker was a brave soldier and I know that Shawn was proud to serve with him. May God bring you a peace of mind knowing that he is an angel looking down and continuing to protect you.
Rebecca Levy
January 2, 2007
To the Volker Family,
Your son has made the ultimate sacrifice, and for that I say thank you. It is my prayer, that the Lord will comfort you everyday and help you with the loss of your loved one. May God bless your whole family.
Sincerely,
The Levy Family (Larry, Rebecca, Sterling, & Madilynn)
Lee & Natasha Anthony
January 2, 2007
To the Volker Family,
You are in our thoughts and prayers. We would like to express our sympathy to all of you at this time. May God be with each and every one of you.
Shannon and Michael Wynus
January 2, 2007
I did not know R.J. persoanlly but he served in the same unit as my husband. My husband was friends with him and R.J. was a good man. One of my heros who had his life taken to save others. We will not forget what he has done.
Meg Turner
January 2, 2007
Dear Martha, Melissa, Robert, Jonathan, and Volker Family,
My heart aches for all of you and I am so sorry about the loss of your husband, son, brother, and friend. R.J. was in my husband's company and I know his loss has been felt deeply. He had many good friends, was well-loved and will be missed deeply. I wish there was more I could say to comfort you all at this time. Just know that my family and I are praying for God's comfort -- for you and your family -- that he would wrap his arms around you and hold you close. R.J. made the ultimate sacrifice for our country and we will not forget that sacrifice...his or yours. With Love and prayers, Meg Turner and Family
Jacqy Matlock
January 2, 2007
To the Volker Family:
May God lift up and keep "R.J.". May He ease your pain and lighten your burden.
Thank you for "R.J."'s sacrifice and your sacrifice as a family.
Sincerely,
LTC and Mrs. Patrick Matlock
and the trooper of 4-9 CAV Darkhorse Squadron.
FAYE WAGNER
January 1, 2007
MY HEART BREAKS FOR YOU ALL, MAY EACH OF YOU FIND PEACE IN YOUR HEART, MAY YOUR HEARTS HEAL.
SPECIAL THOUGHTS WTIH LOVE,
Sam Cimino
January 1, 2007
My heart and prayers go out to all
the family at this time. I thank
God for his willingness to serve
this country and put himself in
harms way so that we can be safe
and secure in this country. He is
a proud example of what freedom is
all about. We will pray for your
family throughout this year for
healing and strength and peace
that can only come from the Lord.
Love and prayers, SAM Cimino
Lara Drury
January 1, 2007
I have no eloquent words to express my feelings. R.J. is my nephew and I am proud of him! When I had learned he was going into the Army, I asked him "Are you sure you want to do this?" and he said "Yes". It was not my place to question him, so I simply supported his decision. I will miss him terribly. My heart goes out to his wife Martha, his parents Robert and Melissa and his brother John. They are stronger than they realize and they will survive this tragedy. I love all of you!
Ellen Kuehl
December 31, 2006
To Martha, Robert's parents,Robert and Melissa, and his brother, Johnathan, and to his loving grandparents, family and friends , I want to express my deepest sympathies. Words do not adequately communicate the feelings and emotions that I wish to convey. Robert was in my husband's battalion and was a model soldier. His loyalty, integrity, and courage were unmatched. He was well-respected by the soldiers,the non-commissioned officers, and the officers of the 1-5 CAV.
Robert was a member of a very select group, the United States Military. Less than one-half of one percent of our 300,000,000 will raise their right hand to swear an oath to protect the Constitution of the United States of America. That number is roughly 1,500,000. We truly enjoy our freedoms because of the character, the courage and the sacrifices of the Few, soldiers like Robert.
A flag given to a family cannot adequately thank this family and the other families for their ultimate sacrifice. Please know this. They will not be forgotten by their fellow soldiers or by the family members. When the war is over, the memory of Robert will be honored in our hearts. He will not be forsaken.
Debra Roe-Burnett
December 31, 2006
Even though I have never met this young man who was tragically taken away from his family, he is a second cousin of mine. My heart goes out to Melissa, John, Shelley and anybody else in the family that I have not mentioned. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Debra Roe-Burnett
norman miller
December 29, 2006
Yesterday, 28 December 2006 I was a pilot on an airline flight from Philadelphia to DFW . I noticed a young US Navy sailor standing near the door of the jet bridge in his uniform. I said Hi and asked him what ship he was with. He proudly told me the USS Roosevelt. A few minutes later I was told by the gate agent that he was a body escort. When I was in the USMC I also was a body escort once for a squadron mate.. It is an honor that really cannot be explained. I went over to him again and said “Body escort” and he told me it was his brother. I just said “Iraq” and he nodded and said “US Army”. Its been many years since I felt such a shock. Here was a 19 year old member of our military taking his bother home. He stood there for 10 minutes tall in his uniform very proud if his present position in life. Later we went down to the tarmac and the casket arrived and he stood by his brother as he was raised into the aircraft. He held a salute until the casket was in the cargo hull and slowly lowered the salute. We went up to the passenger area and he was seated. I flew the aircraft to DFW. When we taxied in we could see the motorcade there to pick two brothers up for the journey to Big Springs. Once again the younger brother proceeded to the now open cargo compartment and saluted as the casket was lowered from the aircraft. I stood about 100 feet away and watched a lone 19 year old member of our armed forces watch and supervise this trip in a calm professional manner. Seeing this reminds me of our young men overseas and the incredible job they are doing. Airline employes are particularly sensitive to the sacrifices of our youth after the attacks of 9/11 into out workplace.
Every time I fly over Big Springs, Texas the rest of my career I will remember the brave young Sailor taking his brother home. God bless both RJ and Jonathan and their family during this tough time.
Grateful American Citizen
December 29, 2006
God bless your family at this time. Thank god for the men and women that fight for our Country. May your family find comfort in their memories of you, and how Honorable your life truly was.
CD Kirchner
December 29, 2006
To the Volker Family
Many a person walks this earth we call home and leaves nary a footprint in the sands of time, or positively touches the life of a child,elder,peer or parent.
As a father of an Iraq Army Vet, Major Chad Elliot Kirchner, who may be called back to Iraq any time now, I want to say to all the Volker family that your son Robert, who may also be your brother, cousin,nephew,friend or uncle made his footprint forever in service to his country and to all those formentioned.
We are running out of Robert's in this great nation and heaven help us when they are all gone. I am positive he is at peace with the Lord and may all those near and dear to him find peace in their heart in rememberance of this true american hero.
God Bless all the Volker family and God Bless you Spc. Robert J. Volker
CD Kirchner
Comfort,Texas
Linda Rhodes
December 28, 2006
Dear Volker Family,
With sympanthy from my family to yours we are so sorry for your lost ,as a family of 1st Cav we send our prayers to you and your family God Bless you.
Ashley Bedell
December 28, 2006
I am at a loss of words to say only that I my prayers are with Robert's family and loved ones. I am an old school friend of his that I can even remember back to our days in band. These are days that I will cherish the rest of my life knowinf he fulfilled his dreams in becoming a soldier. I remember the first time he told me he was going to be a soldier we were in the 8 th grade together at Runnels Jr. High. He is a hero yesterday, today, and forever to come. May God be with his loved ones and help them find peace. I will always remember Robert and the good times we had in school.
Ashley Bedell (Tuttle)
Danielle Ramirez
December 28, 2006
My heart & prayers go out to Robert and his family! May you all be proud for which he stood and may you reflect the peace of the Lord he is with today. Amen to Robert and all of our Soldires!
Danielle Ramirez
December 28, 2006
To the Family of Spc. Robert J. Volker:
I will stand in grief with this soldier's family to honor him. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life, but I promised Brent that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.
We lost our son SFC Brent A. Adams on 12/1/05 and it seems like yesterday. I wish so badly there were things I could say to you right now to make the pain you are feeling go away, but I know first hand there simply are no words that will bring you the comfort and peace your heart aches for. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you go through this tragedy moment by moment and as you mourn this loss.
We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with as our hearts both burst with pride and pain together.
I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally. While they can never be replaced, neither will they ever be forgotten. You must trust that sometime, someday the loving memories you have will help to sustain you and help you go on. This courageous soldier will forever be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well.
To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is your wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever.
If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero.
God Bless this soldier and family who gave all and God Bless legacy.com for setting up this site where families can so quickly share their condolences and prayers with others like themselves.
Proud Parents of SFC Brent A. Adams, KIA, 12/1/05, Ramadi, Iraq
Pam and Bill Adams, Lancaster, PA
EFFIE SHULTS
December 28, 2006
GOD BLESS US ALL FOR HAVING BRAVE MEN AND WOMEN TO PROTECT US. R.J. IS A BRAVE WONDERFUL PERSON. HE WILL ALWAYS BE A HERO TO US. GOD BLESS ALL OF YOU.
Andrea Allison
December 27, 2006
Hero's never truly die. They live on in our hearts forever. Thank you Robert for serving our country and paying the ultimate price for our freedom. God be with your family and friends and ease their pain until you are all together again.
Jim Logel
December 27, 2006
R. J. was my great nephew and we wish to express our sympathy to his wife, parents and grandparents. May you place your trust in the Lord and know that others are upholding you in their prayers and will continue to do so. God bless you and keep you in His care.
Vada Ryerson
December 27, 2006
Our country and many others have been built on the blood, sweat, tears and sacrafices of soldiers and their families. I'm sorry for you loss...but very proud of Robert. May God reap blessings upon your family. You are in my prayers.
Leslie Helmer King
December 26, 2006
For all the Family of R.J.:
We wish to express our condolences...so terribly sorry. How proud you are of him, I am sure. We live in Florida, and Melissa is my cousin. We pray for strength for all of you. May you keep in mind God's plan, and draw near to Him in times of pain and sorrow. Don't turn away. RJ is safe and doing fine in God's loving arms. He was surely greeted with wonderful loving family members and the angels rejoice as a fellow angel returns. We will keep all of you in our prayers.
robert lester
December 26, 2006
rest in peace robert. the bob lester family.
Ruth Bodiford
December 26, 2006
To Robert's family I extend my deepest sympathies at this time. May the Lord Bless and Comfort you at this time.
I do so much appreciate and respect those who protect my country. Robert is truly a hero.
To his family I know how you are feeling but please know he is at peace and remember those fun times you had with him
Robert was a special young man.
Sandy McDiffitt
December 26, 2006
I am Sandy McDiffitt a long time family friend. RJ we will miss you not being here. The jokes you used to tell, the wrestling around with Sonny,Ashli and Lee and other friends you had growing up. We will miss you mostly just being your self. I am sorry that you are not here with us in person but you are here in our Hearts!!! Our Thoughts are with RJ, His wife and His Father and Mother.
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