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Matthew Pathenos Obituary

Corporal Matthew
Pathenos
Matthew P. Lance Corporal Pathenos, died Wednesday, Feb. 7, 2007.
Beloved son of Gus (Bren) Pathenos and Paula Erney; dear brother of Sgt. Christopher G. Pathenos U.S.M.C., Courtney Grannemann, Kayla Erney, Melanie (Steve) Johnes and William Jenkins; grandson of George and Mary Pathenos; the late Clara and Paul Ertman; Pauline (Bill) Giddings and the late William Highley; uncle of Olivia Johnes; boyfriend of Jessica Determan; dear nephew, cousin, friend and marine brother.
Matthew paid the ultimate sacrifice for our freedom and the future generations of this country. Matthew lived as though Heaven is on Earth. He sang as though no one could hear him and danced as though no one was watching him.
If desired, contributions may be made to Injure Marine Semper Fi Fund, 825 College Blvd., Suite 102, Oceanside, Calif., 92057 Friends may sign the family's on-line guestbook at schrader.com.

Visitation: Friends may call from 1 to 9 p.m. Friday, Feb. 16, 2007, at St. Nicholas Greek Orthodox Church, 4967 Forest Park Ave., St. Louis, Mo. 63108.

Funeral: Funeral Mass will be held at 10:00 a.m. Saturday at St. Nicholas Greek Orthodox Church, , Interment New St. Marcus Cemetery

SCHRADER FUNERAL HOME
Ballwin, Mo.

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Published by Belleville News-Democrat from Feb. 15 to Feb. 16, 2007.

Memories and Condolences
for Matthew Pathenos

147 Entries

Jan Lang

February 7, 2023

So hard to believe it has been Sixteen years. Keeping you in my prayers.

James Polich

February 12, 2020

Dropped my retirement papers today. Can't believe it's coming to an end. It seems like a million years ago I joined the Corps, but only yesterday that I was with you and all the fellas walking those dark grim streets. Raise a glass with Babb and Hines the next time you see them. Miss you guys.

SF
GySgt James Polich

Polich James

February 11, 2019

Well it's been eleven years. Just turned a grandpa if you can believe it and my son is set to fall off active duty with the Corps. Yep, I'm old, but not too old too remember you and all the boys.

Semper Fi my friend
GySgt James Polich

February 26, 2018

Only a couple more years of the Corps until I can retire my friend. Seems like time is leaving us behind, but the memories remain. You're always the first one I think of when February rolls in with the cold days of winter and those bleak streets of Fallujah. Give the rest of the guys my regards. I'll tip a drink to you all.

GySgt James Polich

Syndi Sills

February 14, 2017

Thought of you on that fateful day's anniversary as I do every year, and was going to call Bren, but time slipped away. A few days later she accidentally sent me a text message meant for someone else. Coincidence? Nah. I believe that was you nudging me to say hello to my sweet friend and let her know she and you are always in my thoughts and prayers. And I'm forever grateful to you and the family for the sacrifice you made for us. Will forever wear a virtual yellow ribbon for you, Matthew. Happy Heavenly Valentine's Day.

James Polich

February 7, 2017

Thinking of you, Babb, Hines, and all the others that never came home. God bless you and your family Greek.

Semper Fi my friend

Tim Pettis

January 24, 2016

I miss this man, we were friends before and during the Marines. Driving all around St. Louis and burning out clutches in his car. (Sorry Gus). I cant believe that is has almost been 9 years. Miss you brother.

J. Polich

February 6, 2015

Greek, my son leaves Monday for MCRD San Diego and thought of when I first joined the Corps and all the Marines I was lucky enough to share my life with. Where does the time go.

I seem to be thinking more and more of you and the others.

Semper Fidelis brother.

pam woods

February 5, 2015

Never Forgotten!

carol biggerstaff

February 4, 2015

Forever remembered.

SSgt James Polich

February 6, 2014

Saw your mom and dad at a gold star family event last month and they're doing well. I can see why you turned out well Greek, they're a hell of a nice family.

Still in the Corps after all these years and it's a constant reminder of you and all the other fellas I became so close with in Fallujah.

God speed my friend.

Langenfeld

February 3, 2014

Matt, I had the honor of serving with you in 3/24. You will always be remembered as a hero to me and my family. Semper Fi and God Bless you and your family.

Peggy Childers

February 15, 2013

To the family and friends of Lance Cpl. Matthew P. Pathenos:
It has truly been my honor to sign Matthew's guest book these past few years. Unfortunately, due to complications from my Multiple Sclerosis, this may be the last message I'm able to write. Please forgive me and know that Matthew will always be remembered in my home.
With love and respect ~ Peggy

SSgt James Polich

February 8, 2013

I can't believe its been 6 years Greek, my God the time flys. It seems like just yesterday we were hopping from house to house in Fallujah.

I see your family from time to time at the Gold Star Family events and you sure would be proud of them as they are of you which is evident in keeping your memory alive.

God speed my friend.

James Fox

February 7, 2013

Six years now and not a day goes by I don't remember you. We had some great times in Iraq and I'm proud to call you a brother. Your sacrifice will forever be remembered. We love ya buddy.

Peggy Childers

February 9, 2012

February 7, 2012
To the family and friends of Lance Cpl. Matthew P. Pathenos:
Always remembering Matthew. "Some gave all."

J B

May 2, 2011

I hope today you have a sense of justice.

Peggy Childers

February 7, 2011

To the family and friends of Lance Cpl. Matthew P. Pathenos:
Please accept my remembrance of Matthew on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Peggy Childers
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Jan Lang

February 6, 2011

It is hard to beleive it will be 4 years tomorrow 2/7/11. Your passing has touched many lives, you have made us think about how we want to live their lives, be proud!! In life we have many choices thank you for you Sevice to our country. You spirit continunes to guide those lives you have touched, walk with us all.

God Bless

Syndi Bruchesky

December 20, 2010

Donated to USO to help troops call home over the holidays. Did it in Mattie's memory. He is still in my thoughts and his family in my prayers. Love you Bren, Gus, Wil, Chris, Teri, and Mel.

Rebecca Green

August 23, 2010

On August 21, 2010, in Osage Beach, Missouri, I participated in the "Run for the Fallen". I was given a badge to wear that indicated that I participated in memory of Lance Cpl. Matthew Pathenos. I wrote on my Facebook page that day that this was the most meaningful thing I have ever done in my life. I will be keeping the badge with his name on it, and I hope to be given this opportunity again in the future. God Bless all of Lance Cpl. Pathenos' family and friends, and God Bless America.

Mark Vetter

February 17, 2010

Matt was a great friend of mine for many years... To know and enjoy Matt's presence was a blessing and I will never forget the great moments we had together. Every time I shoot a round of golf, play T-Woods, or bowl a few frames I remember you. I still can hardly compose my thoughts when facing the fact that this is a fact and I'm actually talking to a fallen friend... it's truly heart breaking... I still miss you, but I know you've been there with me... three years has taught me a lot, and you've joined me and some amazing times in some beautiful places I've been since I've last seen you... I will miss you always, as long as I live you shall be remembered... R.I.P. Matthew from Mark...

SSgt James Polich

February 9, 2010

Thinking of you today and all the others that fell those long hard days in Fallujah Greek.

No matter how bad it got your upbeat optimistic personality never wavered.

Still wish we could have gone golfing togethor and drank some cold ones when we got home.

We'll see each other again, Luv ya brother.

Peggy Childers

February 7, 2010

To the family and friends of Lance Cpl. Matthew P. Pathenos:
Remembering Matthew on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Charles H. Miranda

August 20, 2009

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Follow The Rainbow To Heaven.
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A Soldier had die out on the
battlefield;

Broken hearts are weeping For
Them,

But take comfort of knowing
that God had sent Them a
rainbow from heaven;

The Souls of the Soldiers
have gone to there home
in heaven,

Our Loved One's has follow
God's lovely rainbow in the
sky;

All the way to the end of the
sky.

That leads all the way to the
other end of the Lord's
house in heaven,

So just keep on praying and
trust that God will send us
that same rainbow in the sky;

Where Our Loved One's are
waiting For You and For Me at
the end of the rainbow in
heaven.

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Jennifer Miller

May 25, 2009

On this Memorial Day, my thoughs turned to Matthew and his sacrifice. He and the family will always be in my prayers.

Michael Padilla

April 3, 2009

-To the Family and Friends of my MARINE Brother,

I stumbled upon this when I read Pathenos name on a MySpace pagehttp://www.myspace.com/marinesmemorial. I had the honor and pleasure of learning from and serving with Pathenos in Iraq from March '03-Aug '03 in the Mortars section of Echo Co. 2/5 and again in Ar Ramadi from Sept '04-Mar '05 as he made his transition to Armorer. I had no idea he had died. My name is Michael A. Padilla and I'm 26 years old from Chicago, Il. I had been in the Marines for only about 6 months when I met Pathenos in Iraq. Being a Junior Marine in was pretty overwhelming but the Marines in my section, including Pathenos helped me make it through alive. He was a very witty and funny and intelligent guy and his trademark smirk was never far from his face. I remeber laying on a cot talking about baseball and music with him in the dark of an abandoned potato factory in Northern Iraq, and many Spades games between he and I and Calu and Konkol and Rivet and many others...I remember coming back to California and giving him crap about his worn-out Cardinals hat and his Birkenstocks...I could go on but I know that you all probably know a lot of this but I just wanted to talk for a few about what I remember him for. Well I'm sorry for his loss everyone. He is missed.-Michael A Padilla-Chicago [email protected]

Kenna Larra

February 18, 2009

We love our Soldiers! We love our country and we cannot express enough love and compassion to the families. War does not discriminate – It breaks my heart to see the faces of the fallen. We want to give this gift to you. We are a 501c3 nonprofit organization! Over 1,400 portraits have been completed and shipped to the parents and or spouse - at no cost as this is a gift from one American to another!
Contact us directly at [email protected] or go to www.heropaintings.com. If you have already had a portrait completed, we pray that you are enjoying the portrait and God Bless You.
Sincerely,
Kenna

Bev Determan

February 7, 2009

Matthew, I can not believe it has been two years. I still remember the night Jessica received the news from Christopher,and I still see her holding that big white bear you gave her for Valentine's Day crying herself to sleep. You are and always will be the love of her life. As we gather today we will remember you with Jack Johnson playing, tossing back a Bud, sharing many stories, and shedding many tears. You will always be a part of our lives. A Marine's watch is never over. Please continue to watch over your mother, Paula and my Jessica. We love you and miss you.

Peggy Childers

February 7, 2009

To the family of Lance Cpl. Matthew P. Pathenos:
Matthew gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Drew Williams

February 3, 2009

With pictures of Matt placed around our home I am reminded of his friendship, positive attitude, and service to us all everyday. Many friends come and go but Matt will be a friend for life.

Shannon O'Hara

January 13, 2009

Matthew I miss you more then you will ever know. I love you so much, and not a day goes on where I do not think about you. I swear you visit Dolan. He has a great God Father! You are always in my thoughts, and prayers. I love you.

Deb G

January 5, 2009

I never knew Lance Cpl. Pathenos but I would love to be able to thank him and his family for everything they've given this country. Lance Cpl. Pathenos is an American Hero - in every sense of the word.

Josh York

November 21, 2008

Wow! I just learned of Matt's death while reviewing a list on CNN.com of those that had died, my jaw hit the floor. I served alongside Matt in 3rd Bn, 24th Marines until Feb 2006 when I was discharged. He was always very cheerful and good at making us laugh. His character and personality will always be missed, it was a pleasure to serve alongside of him.

Douglas Harry

November 17, 2008

I attended Matt's funeral 2 days after my dad's death. Being at Jefferson Barracks visiting dad's grave, looking out over all of the headstones, reminds me that we all have a list of people to thank for our freedom. Unfortunately, the list grows, and will continue to grow forever. Matt put himself between me and people that hate me, and he gave his life to protect me. When I read about a police officer or firefighter that died in the line of duty, I think of Matt and those who loved him, and those that he loved. I am grateful for those who serve, and proud to live in a country that was built by heroes. I'm sorry he's gone and proud to have met him. Matt lives on forever.

Erin O'Hara

October 30, 2008

I miss you so much. I still have a hard time getting through the days with out seeing you or hearing from you. I just wanted to say hello. I love you and miss you! I hope to see you soon! Visit! I love you always and forever.

Ernie Birch, Jr.

August 8, 2008

My deepest condolences to you and as a former Marine, may I please mention that your son is still on patrol in heaven, guarding the streets, as mentioned in the final stanza of the Marine Corps Hymn.

June 20, 2008

You are remembered and respected. Thank you Lance Cpl Pathenos!

April 24, 2008

April 23, 2008

www.unitedwestandmo.com

Marybeth Dinges

April 13, 2008

The Riley Baker and Matthew Pathenos Memorial Ride

This new event will take riders from Shady Jack’s Bar & Grill in downtown St Louis to the Jefferson Barracks National Cemetery then to the scenic hills of Labadie, Missouri.

Riders and sponsors can enjoy the ride or they can spend the day playing washers, while supporting the men and women who defend our country every day and honor those who have given the ultimate sacrifice.

The Ride
Departure:
Shady Jack’s bar & Grill
1432 N. Broadway St Louis MO

$20 Per Bike or $25 with passenger

Registration at 9:00 am
Ride begins at 12:00 PM
Breakfast Plate $6.00

Destination:
1811 Grand Army Road
Labadie MO

Activities Include: Food, Entertainment and Freebies!

The Washer Tournament

1811 Grand Army Road
Labadie MO

$20 2 person per Team (Limited to 32 Teams)

Registration at 11:00 AM
Tournament begins at 12:00 PM

1st Place Prize

Proceeds benefit the USO of Missouri

REGISTER ONLINE at www.unitedwestandmo.com

Please let us not forget our fallen, past, present and future. We look forward to all of us riding together and supporting all of our military and the USO.

United We Stand United We Ride
The Baker & Pathenos Gold Star Families

Carol Biggerstaff

February 12, 2008

Febraury 17th 2007, I will never forget that day. Family and friends of Matt were saying their final good-byes. We were there with the PGR. It was so cold that day, I was sure I was going to have frost bite. My feet and hands were hurting so bad, I was shaking so hard. Before that day, when the weather was bad, I would think to myself "our military don't have the option of giving up" and then I stay. I started praying to Matt Pathenos to give me the strength to stay in the flag line. I stayed to the end but when the services were over Don got me to the truck to warm up while he helped put the PGR American Flags away. When I got in the truck I realized my feet and hands did not hurt, I thought I was feeling nothing, I was past the point of frostbite. I took my gloves off and went to put my hands on a warm part of my body. They were not cold, they were warm. Your Matty answered my prayers that day, he gave me the strength, he had God warm my hands and feet.

Before that day Matthew Pathenos was the boy who's picture was always next to his brother's at a parade. 2/17/07 Matt gave me a memory of him which I will never forget. When it is very cold out, I know Matt is with me keeping me safe and warm.

Thank you for raising such a fine man. We will never forget Matt.

They gave his tomorrows for our todays. May we never take our todays for granted.

Megan Wiesemann

February 7, 2008

To the Pathenos family,
You're in my thoughts and prayers today as we are reminded of how amazing Matt was. He was the most incredible and fun loving man I knew... May he rest in peace. He may be gone but he will NEVER be forgotten! Take care!

Jan Lang

February 7, 2008

Gus and Bren,
On the anniversary of Matthew’s death know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Matthew will always be remembered as a true American Hero

Ginger Davis

December 12, 2007

I loved you like family matt and may angels lead you in. You were the little brother I never had and you knew it. We miss you and love you here. We will continue serving the military in your honor and memory. What you did means the world to all of us, and all I can say is that I love you for it. But you already know this. We love you forever matt.
Ginger & Sheena

Grier & Lisa Baker

September 20, 2007

Dear Gus,Bren,Chris,Mel,& Will
Our hearts are broken along with yours. Even though we never met Matty ...we feel we know him from watching each of you tell your fondest memories as you laugh,cry and remember him with love.
Thank you for raising a great Marine, who served with Honor,Courage and Commitment to defend our freedom.
May your faith and family lift you up and all those wonderful memories of Matty comfort you in the days ahead.
Our prayers and thoughts are always with you!
Love,
Grier and Lisa

August 16, 2007

There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.

Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.

I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.

REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!

PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)

Kathy Wilson (Harrington-Bennett)

August 14, 2007

Dear Gus and family,
I was shocked to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you. It seems like just yesterday when I saw you last and the boys were still in grade school. Love to you and yours.

Jamison Sweet (SSgt)

August 8, 2007

I was so shocked when I heard the news of what happened. For those that don't know, LCpl Pathenos was one of my Marines that did Military Funerals with me. He has stood at attention for other Marines that have fallen in battle. He understood the cost, haven seen the devistation himself, yet, he still went over. Thank you LCpl Pathenos for some great times and great memories.

Thanks for fixing my swing. I still have your Nike Driver...and no..I won't get rid of it.

Semper Fidelis!

August 8, 2007

Thank you for the sacrifice made by Lance Cpl Pathenos and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!

ROBYN Garside

May 3, 2007

MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST SYMPATHIES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE ON. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. GODSPEED AND SEMPER FI.

A PROUD MARINE MOM

Sandy Bonesteel

April 17, 2007

As the mother of a son (my only child) who is enlisted in the Army, I want to send my condolences.

Kay Karras (St. Nicholas)

March 20, 2007

To Matthew's family and friends,

My profound sympathy on your loss. Although I didn't know Matthew, my heart broke when I heard of his death. May his memory be eternal!

Thank you Matthew and Christopher for your service.

Beth Pettis

March 13, 2007

Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. My son serviced with Lance Cpl. Matthew Pathenos. He misses Matthew very much. We spoke on Sunday and he told me that Matthew always had a smile and a joke to bring along for the day.

Trudy Lowe

March 12, 2007

My heartfelt sympathies to your family. My heart breaks with each new name added to this list, and I am saddened by your loss. Know that you are surrounded by prayers, grace and the deep gratitude of all who live in freedom. My God hold you in his arms and grant you peace. Please find joy in the memories of your loved one and comfort knowing so many are holding you in their hearts.

Christopher Pathenos

March 10, 2007

Happy Birthday Matty, I love you buddy.

Clay Ezell

March 6, 2007

Mr.P
I am sorry to hear of your loss.

Willie and Jane Hull

March 5, 2007

Gus and Paula,

Please except our sincere sympathy for the loss of your son. We will keep you and your family in our prayers. We are so thankful for your children serving our country. God Bless all of you.

Willie and Jane Hull

Jamie Graves

March 5, 2007

Thoughts and prayers to your family..My heart aches for all our loved ones ..God Bless your family!!

He will never be forgotten and forever remembered!!
(Proud Navy Wife)

March 4, 2007

I served my first fire watch with 3/24 with Matt.I want your family to know that the Marine Corps will always remember him. Marines that fall in combat do not die. They live forever in the Corps, and if anyone asks me if I ever knew a hero, I will be damn sure to mention his name with honor and respect. Semper Fidelis.

Lcpl 3/34 H & S Comm

Lee Sirotnak

March 3, 2007

Our deepest sympathy is extended for the loss of your Marine. We are thankful for the service provided by your loved one, the sacrifice that he made as part of our Armed Forces, and are blessed to be living in a country which heroes such as Matthew are willing to serve. God Bless your family with peace and comfort in his memory. Semper Fi.

Kai Ellis

March 3, 2007

I pray God bless your soul Matt... in the short time we knew each other,we forged a bond that will stay etched in my mind & heart 4ever...I took U under my wing @ McDoogles(seeing that we were a generation apart)& spent time w/ U in Life. U told me that I was a role model & kind of "big brother" 2 U & that touched my heart. We shared many thoughts/conversation & laughs day after day, & those times I miss already,lil bro...Til we meet again, my friend...Love Kai

Jim Antokas

February 28, 2007

Dear Gus,
Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers
during this time of profound and deep mourning for you son Matthew. May he rest in a place of light, green pastures, where there is no pain,sorrow nor mourning but life everlasting.
Eternal be his memory, he who is worthy of blessedness and eternal memory.
+Jim Antokas

Lcpl USMC

February 27, 2007

I am sorry for your loss and I will keep Matt in my prayers. It hurts to hear of any service member who is killed in action but when it is a fellow Marine and a friend it makes it that much worse. May your wonderful son rest in peace. Semper Fi.

February 25, 2007

I just wanted to thank the Pathenos family for the sacrfice Lcpl Pathenos made. I served with his brother in Echo 2/5.

Sgt Rian Madden
USMC

James Polich

February 25, 2007

Mathew, or we all just call him "greek", was a great friend. I fought with him in Fallujah and theres not a better man, with a more generous heart. He came with me from St. louis and I wish I could have been there for the funeral. LtCol Johnston from 3/24 emailed me and said the honor gaurd did a beautiful job. My heart goes out to you all, he spoke of his girlfriend often and we were looking forward to playing golf togethor when we got home. May god soothe your pain.

Sgt James Polich

Ron Dirks

February 23, 2007

Gus,Bren & the entire Pathenos family. May God be with you in this time of need. God please accept & welcome Matt into your kingdom and my he dwell in the house of the lord forever more. (Semper fi)

Christy Thompson

February 23, 2007

Our children
live within our hearts
their tears, triumphs, hopes
are all ours

For we want what is best for them
We want what they want
and feel for them
more than they will ever know.

Yet in it all
this is nothing
that you ever wanted.
The pain is more than what seems bearable.

I want to encourage you
that God is real, true and with
this child, now
who has given you so much pride.

Stand strong in faith for
Matthew lives,
Alive with Christ
Alive in your heart
Forever...

Jody Russell

February 23, 2007

Dear Paula and Family: I was so sorry to hear about your loss of Matt. I think of you and Kayla often.

Tom Gugliuzza-Smith

February 23, 2007

My heartfelt sympathy to the Pathenos family in the loss of Matthew. I did not know Matthew, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Matthew you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom

"To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~

Laura Lock

February 23, 2007

Dear Gus and the Pathenos Family,
We have thought of you often and cannot express our sorrow at your profound loss. Please know that you have and will continue to be in our thoughts and prayers.
Laura J. Lock, for the entire Lock Family

Chancellor (Chance) Lastra

February 22, 2007

I hung out with Matt one time. What a GREAT and AWESOME man! Such a cool person! I was visiting from Las Vegas and I couldn't tell you how open and hospitable he was to me, the SECOND he met me. When I heard the news, I was shocked, of course, like everyone else, but I just couldn't believe it. This kid, this man who was SO nice, talking to me, a kid that he JUST met and being so genuine and generous to me, and he had taken me to Jack in the Box with him, just him and I. It stands out and I remember because it was really the only time that it was just he and I. But that's the thing, I had JUST met this man, and he was so kind and hospitable as well, he bought me some food at Jack in the Box, I mean really, what people that you JUST meet will be so nice to you and take you places and THEN pay for YOUR food for you. That's the memory that I wanted to share with you, I know it may not seem like huge memory but it meant a lot to me. I won't forget him or his nice and kind attitude, and I know those who were blessed enough to experience more of his presence and memories won't either. The memory that we shared may not be so significant or remembered by him, but it had an impact on me that I'll always remember (this was in 2005). It was, indeed, short and sweet, but it will NEVER be forgotten.

Rest in peace, Matt. You will be FOREVER remembered and missed! Thanks for being such a good, caring, nice, and kind person to ALL people you met, whether stranger or not! Everyone is celebrating your life and the people you touched in it!

Randy Harpole

February 20, 2007

George,

I'm very sorry to hear about the loss of Matthew your grandson. I am extremely proud to know that he was protecting our land by being in the service. I'm sure he will be missed.

Marilyn Bailey

February 19, 2007

Bren, Gus, and family, We're so very sorry for your loss of Matthew, a true American Hero. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. God Bless.

Glen Nevogt

February 19, 2007

“Paid in Full”
To Honor The Service of Fallen and Injured Marines

Marines through and through, they paid the price
Six thousand miles away, we live the life
For which they paid with their blood, spirits and bodies
We will never forget what they paid in full

We hope and we pray that somehow their loved ones find comfort
In God, in the flag, in the memory of their loved ones’ bravery
They’re gone now but we see them still…proud, strong, willing
Covering each other’s backs… courageous, moving forward

What kind of love did they have for us to be willing
To give it all for the Black, White, Jew, Christian, Muslim?
We don’t comprehend but we honor you now and forever
You are Our Marines…some living…some not
Forever in our hearts we will cherish your lives

Lives too short yet immortal they’ll be
Highest brotherhood of the Few, the Proud
They stand at attention, and we gaze with awe
Some know their names not, but our admiration for them
Flows limitless within us, between us

They sacrificed their limbs or their lives
Freedom still rings, a soft sound across the miles
It tolls slowly; all of creation takes note
Of the lives that were lost for people unknown

Out of sight but not lost; forever among us
The starched blues marching straight
Toward the place where we will meet them
Many years from now…how we loved them…
Well done beloved Brothers and Sisters…You’ve paid it in full
Always Faithful Marines, You Have Paid it in Full

Tyson Cato

February 19, 2007

Pathenos Family
Hello, I worked with Matt for a short time at Stonewolf golf course. What a great personality he possessed. Always in a good mood, cheerful, and a great pleasure to be around. I am deeply priveleged to have called Matt a friend. In your time of loss, I want you to know that I believe he is in good hands. He was very proud of his Greek Orthodox roots, and would share his faith with anyone who would listen. Both myself and my family will be praying for Matt and your family. Matt was a great guy who was one of the bravest people I know. He was doing what he said he wanted to do...Serve his country, and help those who could not help themselves. He has been taken from us at a young age, but the memories I have of him will stay with me forever. May God bless your family and help you through this difficult time. You will be in our prayers!
Tyson Cato

Deb Duren

February 19, 2007

Paula and family,
Sorry for your very terrible loss. Bless your son for being so brave. I remember the good times at Stephens.

Bernie Jones

February 19, 2007

Myself, as well as all members of the George Phillips Detachment, Marine Corps League, Ballwin, Mo wish to extend our sympathy at this time. We have all been there, have had children there, and our hearts bleed with your pain. May a good and gracious God give you peace.

Bernie Jones
Chaplain

Linda Reddis-Jones

February 18, 2007

Bren, Gus & Family, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your brave son. God will guide you through this.
With love and deepest sympathy,
Linda Reddis Jones

Heather Palmer

February 17, 2007

Pathenos Family:
I am very sorry for your loss. I knew Matt in Middle School and also High School. I will always remember how he had such a big heart and also a wonderful grin that he always had on his face. You are all in my prayers.

Rev. Iakovos Olechnowicz

February 17, 2007

As priest at Annunciation Church of the Metropolis of Detroit in Vestal, New York and a former Marine, and father of two adult children, I can only express my deep sense of solidarity with you in your time of loss. My presvytera and I assure you of a remembrance of your son in our prayers throughout the year and especially that Our Lord will comfort and console your family in your loss. May his memory be eternal!

Andy and Krista Griffin

February 17, 2007

Gus, Bren and family,
We are so sorry for your loss and so proud of Matthew. He is an American Hero and we will be always proud to call him family. We love you and our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love, Andy and Krista

Trisha Smith (O'Keefe)

February 17, 2007

Gus and family,
I am deeply sorry for the loss of your son Matthew. I wish you all the strenght in the world to make it through this difficult time. You may not remeber who I am, but (Gus) you were my boss when I worked at Pantera's Pizza. If your son was anything like you, I know he had to have been a kind hearted person who loved to make people laugh. Time may not heal all the grief you and your family feel from this time forword but may it somehow lead you on a road to recovery and prepare you for a life that let's you somehow remember and cherish the days, months and years of joy and love you shared in his precence.
With all of my sympathy and then some.

Alexis Bante

February 17, 2007

Our deepenst sympathy to the Pathenos family on the loss of your brave son and grandson. Too many have lost their lives.

josephine weil

February 17, 2007

Our hearts go out to you. We are very close to one of Matt's fellow Marines, Steve Petersen. They were in the same unit. He has written me of the death of Matt and told me of the service the unit had for him. How sad they are. They have become as close as a family. They are good friends. It is so wrong that our beautiful young men have to face death; but clearly they have a noble purpose to life. Matt obviously lived a dedicated and honorable life. Our prayers today are for your family. Josephine and Richard Weil

Marine Corps League Detachment 184

February 17, 2007

The Marines of Marine Corps League Detchment 184 offer our condolences. We are diminished.
Semper Fidelis!

Linda Rhodes

February 16, 2007

Heaven's Call

Heaven called and you were taken
So young to go, to young to know

The call of heaven did not wait
Your time here a short stay
You were called away
To be part of God’s everlasting garden

Borrowed seed from the Master
A small little bud that graced us with your beauty
Now returned upon heaven’s call

A finely chosen rose
Taken before it bloomed
Before your beauty had time to unfold

He is the Gardner and you his prize winning bud
Perhaps He seen a storm that you could not with stand
So he picked you before the wind would fall

The memories forever etched in our hearts
Our little bud now blooms
With the angels up on high

Jenise Markowitz

February 16, 2007

I am so sorry for your loss. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. He is truly an American Hero.

Leslie

February 16, 2007

"If the Army and the Navy ever look on Heaven's scenes;
They will find the streets are guarded by United States Marines."

My heart is with you.

Lcpl. Matthew P. Pathenos...
Forever our Hero

In loving memory from the aunt of
Lcpl. Anthony C. Melia - 2/4
KIA 27Jan07 - Al Anbar

Jennifer Biggs (Riley)

February 16, 2007

Matt was always charming, funny, sweet, honest, and very down to earth. He carried this sense of pride with him-- the kind that others wished they had--and he walked with his head held high. I admired these qualities tremendously. I will always remember Matt as a great gentleman. I remeber my freshman year, Matt and his friend Mike took me to homecoming together- Matt was the first to open doors and offer me his coat when he thought I was cold. I cry knowing he won't be able to spead even more joy to all the people who knew him- But I am so thankful for his time on Earth. To his parents, you should be so very proud of him and his accomplishments. I will forever keep you in my prayers.

Judy Laspe

February 16, 2007

Gus, my deepest sympathy for the loss of your brave son. You and your family have been constantly in my thoughts and prayers. I know that God is watching over you all and keeping you wrapped in His loving embrace. Just reach out and grab hold of His strength to help you through this most difficult time.

B C

February 16, 2007

Thank you Lance Cpl. Pathenos. I am so very grateful for your protection. May God surround your family and friends with love and strength.

Larry & Betty (Jackson) Singer

February 16, 2007

Brenda and Gus,
Betty and I were so saddened when we heard of Matt's death. What a sacrifice this young man made. Our thoughts are with you at this time as we know that yours are with your family in Kansas City as we prepare for the funeral of your cousin Jim.
Larry & Betty

Diane Tallo

February 16, 2007

Dear Gus and Bren,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this difficult time. Matthew died for all of us and it
is a high price to pay for freedom. He is an Ameican hero. We will always honor him and your family forever. God Bless.
We love you
Pat and Diane Tallo

Vickie Rosier

February 16, 2007

To Jess and the Pathenos's parents, family and friends

From members of the Determan family thinking of Jess and of Matthew's parents, family and friends.
We thank you brave soldier for sacrificing your today for our childrens safer tomorrow. You have our utmost respect and graditude. May God provide your parents, family, and friends with much comfort in their time of sorrow. May you forever rest in heavenly peace knowing you will be remembered as a hero fighting for freedom. Freedom was your gift to us and remembering you will be our honor.

Never forgotten
Raymond and Vickie Rosier (Determan)and Casey
Doris (Victor)Determan
Duane and Brenda Determan
Margaret, Kimberly, and Joshua Weik

Raymond and Vickie Rosier

Feb 15, 2007
Belleville, IL

Amy Betz

February 16, 2007

Matt~ you were such a breath of fresh air, you always made everyone feel so wanted and good about themselves no matter what they looked like, talked like, or if they weren't "so popular" in high school, when I heard of this news I could not believe it. You are a hero to all of us, and my love and prayers is reached out to your family in their time or greif and sadness. It is hard to accept that you made it home before any of us, but we all know you are in a better place now, and all we can do now is wait and dream about the times when we will all be together again. Rest in peace my old friend. I'll be seeing you! God bless!

Yvonne & Dwight Morgan

February 16, 2007

Gus, we are so sorry to hear of the loss of your son. It's times like this that one must hold on to God's hand and pray for strength. God will carry you and your family through the pain and, with time, turn your pain into sweet memories. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

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