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Ryan Dallam Obituary
Cpl. Ryan Scott Michael Dallam, 24, died Friday in Baghdad along with two other soldiers, Dallam's father, Scott Dallam, said Monday. The federal Department of Defense had not identified Dallam as a war casualty as of Monday afternoon.
Ryan Dallam was born in Norman and lived for a time in Arizona, where he graduated in 2002 from Show Low High School. He later attended Oklahoma City Community College.
Dallam served in the Headquarters Company, 1st/18th Infantry, 2nd Brigade Combat Team, 1st Infantry Division that was deployed to Iraq. He had been scheduled to return to Oklahoma next week on leave, his father said.
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Memories and Condolences
for Ryan Dallam
April 13, 2021
Ryan it's 2021 and you are not forgotten
Carla Waugh
May 28, 2019
❤❤❤❤
May 27, 2019
Miss you brother, I will never forget. Remembering our time spent stationed with the BRO, Mickey's Hornet leads the way!
April 5, 2017
Ryan I will always remember you ❤
Leslie Dallam
April 4, 2017
It's been 10 years and I still miss you. ♥♥♥
Clarinda James
September 10, 2014
Thinking of you :)
April 18, 2014
:)
Thinking of You
March 30, 2014
....just remembering the time we spent in Germany together....love ya brother.
Carla Waugh
September 17, 2012
I will always remember how special you were. I miss you and love you, Ant-e Carla
September 16, 2012
Always remembered.......
Peggy Childers
April 7, 2012
April 6, 2012
To the family and friends of Spc. Ryan S. Dallam:
Always remembering Ryan. "Some gave all."
Kimberly Vandever
April 6, 2012
“In our time together, you claimed a special place in my heart, one I'll carry with me forever and that no one can ever replace.”
I miss you Ryan.
You will never be forgotten, I will forever cherish the memories we had.
ramon casarez
March 29, 2012
Dallam,
Your always remembered and I will never forget serving with you. Thanks for all you did till we meet again. Sgt. C
Shannon Williams-Austill
May 30, 2011
The flag is flying in the sky
A daily reminder of who and why
We sit here remembering them today
These heroes that now lie in their grave.
While here on earth, the bravest ones
A soldier, a mother, a daughter, a son
The father's who went far off to war
To ensure our safety and so much more
To keep our children happy and free,
Someone must do this job, you see
So, today remember the soldiers who served,
Because this is one thing they truly deserve.
The loved one's that they have left behind,
The Gold Star mothers, like your and mine
We honor them proudly, every day
Our American Soldier...Proud and Brave
By Shannon Williams-Austill
I want to thank this soldier for their sacrifice.
And, I wish to extend my deepest regards to the loved ones they have left behind. Their service to our nation, has not gone unnoticed. They are our heroes, who paid the ultimate price for us, and that is something that every American needs to be reminded of and remember everyday.
The freedom we all have, we have because of brave young men and women who made a choice to defend and serve.
Today, let me remember your loved one with you.
L Neal
May 10, 2011
To the family of Spc. Ryan S. Dallam:
Please know that just as your loved one remains in your hearts and minds; his sacrifice, and that of your family, remains with the people he died defending. Words cannot express the gratitude we feel for his bravery and selflessness, or the heartache we feel for your loss. God bless and keep you always.
Peggy Childers
April 14, 2011
April 6, 2011
To the family and friends of Spc. Ryan S. Dallam:
Please accept my remembrance of Ryan on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Peggy Childers
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Leslie Dallam
March 14, 2011
Love you miss you!!!! Leslie
Clarinda James
April 19, 2010
Just thought of my good friend Ryan. Took my kids to play at the playground where you, TJ and I hung around in Cottonwood. Miss you.
Peggy Childers
April 6, 2010
To the family and friends of Spc. Ryan S. Dallam:
Remembering Ryan on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Shannon Williams-Austill
May 26, 2009
On this Memorial Day, I've set aside time to reflect on the past and remember that your family is now a Gold Star Family, too. Spc. Dallam, thank you for you service and duty. Thank you for paying the ultimate sacrifice...to protect our country and our freedom.
Sister of Spc. Jeffrey S. Henthorn (Balad, Iraq Feb. 8, 2005)
God bless this special soldier and his grieving loved ones. Be by their side in their time of need.
[email protected]
Peggy Childers
April 6, 2009
To the family of Spc. Ryan S. Dallam:
Ryan gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Kenna Larra
January 30, 2009
We love our Soldiers! We love our country and we cannot express enough love and compassion to the families. War does not discriminate – It breaks my heart to see the faces of the fallen. We want to give this gift to you. We are a 501c3 nonprofit organization! Over 1,300 portraits have been completed and shipped to the parents and or spouse - at no cost as this is a gift from one American to another!
Contact us directly at [email protected] or go to www.heropaintings.com. If you have already had a portrait completed, we pray that you are enjoying the portrait and God Bless You.
Sincerely,
Kenna
June 22, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Spc Dallam!
Debra Estep
April 6, 2008
To the family and friends of Ryan.
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers today.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Ryan, but he is my hero.
Please contact me and I will email you back
a copy of the Angel drawing I have posted
here.
xo xo
Deb
Proud Air Force Mom and MIL
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Debbie , Kenny Coffey
April 6, 2008
Our continued thoughts and prayers out to the DALLAM family .Knowing now what they have always known is one of the many reasons that our HERO[S] shall NEVER be forgotten.Rest well brother as prommissed and in your honor that star spangled banner shall FOREVER wave.Your name stamped in steel shall be FOREVER clutched in the tallons as your spirit FOREVER soars high in the skies in the symbol of our greatfull nation...THANK YOU......B.V.C......
August 12, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Spc Dallam and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
August 2, 2007
If this person can stand in battle to ensure my freedom, then I will stand in grief with his/her family to honor him/her. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guest book for the rest of my life, but I promised LE RON A. WILSON (a dear friend KIA 7/6/07, 18yrs old) that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
July 8, 2007
Please accept our heartfelt condolences on your loss, and our prayers that God grant you comfort and peace. Your loved one will live on in the prayers of thanks that we give for those who serve with such bravery and sacrifice. We also pray that you feel the love and support that will be sent your way in prayer by many military families and loved ones. God Bless.
Charlene Phillips
June 26, 2007
God Bless. I lost my brother August 4, 2006, My prayers are with you!
ROBYN Garside
May 22, 2007
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST SYMPATHIES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. GODSPEED AND SEMPER FI.
A PROUD MARINE MOM
Ronn Massie
May 19, 2007
God bless the family and friends of Ryan. You will all be in our prayers.
Thank you Ryan for being such a hero.
(In remembrance of Cpl. Joey Cantrell 4-4-07)
Cindy Overstake
May 11, 2007
I think about Ryan every day. It still doesn't seem real to me. I will always miss Ryan but am thankful I have so many memories of him to treasure and make me smile. He is a hero.
Glen
May 5, 2007
“Soldier”
Written to Honor the Service of Our Fallen Soldiers
Soldiers write history…they pay the price
Many miles distant, you live the life
Entered the Battle of our own free will
Out of Duty for Country, and we’d do it still
We hope and pray that all will find peace
In God, in the flag, in memories of valor
Gone now, our pride and courage you see
“An Army of One” our motto forever
Willing to risk all for love of our Brothers
We’re still Your Soldiers…and we showed the way
Our Lives too short, now pray for the others
Lived free died Heroes in lands far away
Deep within souls all cherished our Service
We’ll always have what some never know
Courage and Honor, our names forever
Lived life with purpose…just our time to go
We march in the Heavens with Honor and Glory
Missions accomplished we fought the Good Fight
Many years from now…we’ll tell the full story
Until that Day we will live in the Light
Our lives we laid down in a land far away
Still watching o’er you this night and by day
No need to talk…just know we are with you
There in your hearts and we hear what you pray
Yes we are your soldiers
Our lives we laid down
Still We guard o’er you
Still Duty bound
Entered the Battle of our own free will
Out of Duty for Country, and we’d do it still
We’ll always have what some never know
Lived life with purpose…it was our time to go
Patrick Mange
May 4, 2007
My name is Patrick Mange, I served as Ryan's team leader. I wanted to express to the Dallam Family my deepest simpathy, Ryan was a friend before a soldier to me he is missed every day by us here. Ryan will be in my heart forever. He is greatly missed and valued as a friend and brother to me. My wife and I miss you Ryan you are a great friend.
Tom Gugliuzza
April 25, 2007
My heartfelt sympathy to the Dallam family in the loss of Ryan. I did not know Ryan, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Ryan you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
"To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
Olivia Jones
April 23, 2007
We didn't know this young man, but we send you our most heart felt condolences. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Being the wife of an ARNG combat medic, currently serving in Afghanistan, and the mother of three children, I can only pray that my husband and all our troops, fighting this war, return home safe. Things seem much harder every time I hear or read about one of our OK soldier that didn't make it back. I will keep praying that God will give you the peace and strength, to make it through this hard time and keep going.
God Bless you all.
Sgt. Stewart "Doc" Jones & family
Lydia Goodwin
April 21, 2007
To the Family of Spc Ryan Dallam- I did not know Ryan or the family but I wanted to post a tribute after I read about him today. I am sorry for your loss my condolences and prayers to his entire family. He was an honorable man who died in service to our country, for that I thank him. Thank you Ryan for your service to our country and for the sacrifices you made to help keep America free. You will not be forgotten. May God be with you and may you rest in peace.
Cathiann Evans
April 18, 2007
I want to express my heart felt sorry for your family. As the mother and wife of US ARMY soldiers I know that your son was a good man and that his light will be missed. Most in this country have no idea how lucky they are to have men like Ryan protecting them, I know that he would want you all to hold your heads high with pride and remember him laughing
Matt Struble
April 18, 2007
Ryan,
I bet your watching the ghostbuster again right now. It is a tough time for your family and mine. My dad will die in the next couple of days from cancer. It seems as though life was to short for the both of you. But rather than be sad for the one second of the one day you died I am happy for all the days you lived and the joy you brought to your families lives. You will be remember always in my heart Ryan.
Larry Warren
April 18, 2007
My thoughts and prayers go out to the family and of course the loss of their son may god bless you ..
Larry Warren (Vietnam Vet 67-68)
Lou Smith
April 17, 2007
I am so sorry for the loss of your loved one in this terrible manner. No words will ever be able to give you the comfort needed to heal your heart, only time can ease the pain some. Rest assured your will see him again when you too cross over the eternal bridge. My prayers are with you.
Laurel Hostler
April 17, 2007
To the Dallam family - my thoughts and prayers are with all of you. May you find peace knowing that your son was a true hero for our country He will never be forgotten by his family nor the men he served with. May the good Lord comfort all of you during this time. We will be here to support you Laura when you come home.
Martha Beets
April 17, 2007
My heart and prayers are with you at this time. May God help you find peace
GAYLE BROWN
April 17, 2007
CPL. DALLAM, WE THE AMERICAN PEOPLE SALUTE YOU. YOU HAVE MADE THE SUPREME SACRIFICE. THE YOUR FAMILY, THEY HAVE ALSO MADE THE SUPREME SACRIFICE. MAY GOD HOLD YOU IN HIS LOVING ARMS AND SHOW YOU PEACE. YOU ARE ALL TRULY THE HEROS.
Bill and Paula Johnson
April 17, 2007
Scott and Family,
May the loving memories and overwhelming pride last in your heart forever, overshadowing the anguish of loss. I and Paula remember him as a happy young boy when he visited you and Leslie in Fairflax, VA. Remember the blessings of his smile.
Cory and Mary Orvik
April 17, 2007
We can't imagine what you have been going through since being notified of the death of your young Warrior. The Military and families all over the USA and world are grieving with you and praying for you. What a very brave individual you have in your family that would give up a life for their homeland and its people so they can remain free. Your Freedom Fighter has served the Country above and beyond the call of duty, let no one ever tell you different. With the mission now completed your Warrior has been redeployed to Heaven to sit on the right hand of the Supreme Commander and Chief. The Father above has Ryan in his arms and will give him peace as well as eventually easing your pain and suffering. God speed to you and SPC. Ryan S. Dallam, our HERO. We are so proud of them that are willing to sacrifice for this great Nation, THANK YOU.
Army Retired
Joe Wotring
April 16, 2007
Scott and Family:
I'm very sorry for the pain and grief you must feel at this moment. I'm also humbled by the courage and honor Ryan maintained as a solider who sacrificed his life that we may all stay free. His reward is a new enlistment in God's Army where he will watch over those who raised him so well. May God comfort you all as you miss his physical presence, yet never forget that his spiritual presence is greater now than ever.
Doreena Teasyatoh
April 15, 2007
Ryan, It feels just like yesterday when I meet you! You hung around with my cousin Tj.
He came down from Texas to see your mom yesterday and had to leave again. I am sure he will miss you alot! You were like a brother to him and all of us.
My words are at a lost this very moment! I remember the last time we all were together; you, Tj, me, and Clar. We ate out at Chili's, and we left without paying... which we all knew was bad! We all walk together out the door and started toward the car. Oh, we were all scared that the waiter was going to come after us... hahahaa And then we all started running to the car! hahahaa Oh, we all laughed like there was no tomarrow.
Oh, Ryan, my friend, for such short time we have known each other you were welcomed (more like adopted) into our family. Our family, The Blackwater's, Tsosie's, Teasyatoh's, and Yazzie family will truely miss your sweet, brave, and honored presence in our house.
May you rest in peace. To the family of my dearest friend, Ryan S. Dallam. Our hearts, tears and prayers go out to you all.
Always and forever Ryan's extended family, The Blackwater's, Teasyatoh's, Tsosie, and Yazzie family.
Linda Clifton
April 14, 2007
I am sadden to learn that another American Hero has fallen. I pray that God will give you the strength and courage to make it through the days ahead and soon you will be able to reflect back on many wonderful memories of Ryan. God Bless!
Carol Cline
April 14, 2007
Know in your heart that Scot is a true hero and will never be forgotten. All gave some, some gave all. Rest in peace Scott. You will be missed by everyone’s life you have touched.
To Scot's family, as the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family, friends, and all Americans for the sacrifice of one of your family members for our freedom. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May you find comfort in the loving embrace of our Heavenly Father.
Clarinda James
April 14, 2007
To my friend, Ryan. so weird i thought of you last night and then to find out this morning your no longer with us. I'll miss you, and I'll remember all the good times me,you, and TJ had. You were such a good person. I'm happy to have known someone like you. Once again, I'll miss you and someday we will meet again. To Ryan's family: I am soo sorry for your loss. GOD BLESS
Steve Fisher
April 14, 2007
May God Bless the Dallam Family for the Ultimate Sacrifice. Sincerely, all past and present members of C/1/180th, your friends forever
April 14, 2007
May God Bless You and Your Family for the Ultimate Sacrifice a Family can Give. With Sincere Respects, Steve Fisher, USA Retired, Charlie Company, 1st Battalion, 180th Infantry, 45th Inf Bde
Girls from Bank of America
April 13, 2007
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
Beth Makibbin
April 13, 2007
Scott, Leslie and family. Ryan's service today was beautiful. It was comforting to see the outpouring of love to you and to Ryan by the great crowd of people in attendance and comforting to see the bikers standing so long outside the church building out of respect and holding the American flags. The specialness of it all could not be dampened by the few protesters, whose right to protest was because of the sacrifice given by Ryan and so many others.
May God comfort you in the days ahead and hold you in His arms.
COL (R) Rob & Darcy Cline
April 11, 2007
Scott and Family,
May God comfort you and your family during your time of grief. We soldiers have all faced the tought decisions that Ryan willingly made and know the consequences. He is a hero for all of us to emulate. I pray that through your grief you will someday see God's plan. He tells us in Romans 8:28 "And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose." God Bless.
beth messner
April 11, 2007
my love and prayers for you and your family at this time beth messner
Sandy Bonesteel
April 11, 2007
As the mother of a son (my only child) who is enlisted in the Army, I want to send my condolences.
Jerry Adams
April 10, 2007
My thoughts and Prayers with your family And thank you for your sacrafice God Bless you and family. Thank you and you are a HERO
COL(R) James Wilhite
April 10, 2007
Scott,
I am so terribly sorry to hear about the loss of your son. I spent time in Afghanistan a couple of years ago and know how much it means to have the support and love of friends and family. Iraq is no different. I cannot imagine what you may be going through at this time but I want you to know that you and your family are in our prayers. God Bless You and God Bless America.
Yours in Brotherhood.
Gary Allain
April 10, 2007
Spc. Ryan S. Dallam
you are my hero
may god keep you in his arms forever.
J Penn
April 10, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Alicia Lutz
April 10, 2007
Thank you for your service to our country and ALL THAT YOU'VE DONE TO HELP KEEP OUR COUNTRY FREE!!! I am so GREATFUL!! The freedom we enjoy is because of precious men and women fighting for our freedom and feeling this is/was their call in life. Many blessings.
Leota McCoy
April 10, 2007
I can only imagine the pain you are struggling with right now. Look up to God, he will sustain you and give you strength. Your son will always be a HERO.
Rebecca Huycke
April 10, 2007
Our hearts go out to your family, my husband has been to Iraq and it is one of the hardest things i have gone through waiting to see if we would get the knock on our door....just know he didn't die in vain....we respect and love your son for what he has done for us....May God Bless you and keep you....
Vickie Young
April 10, 2007
My heart is heavy today for your family. My son who is also in the army served 1 year in Iraq. I understand the fear you have had and know that your worse has happened. Thank you for having a son who was willing to give his life for his country.
April 10, 2007
To the Family and Friends of this Soldier:
I will stand in grief with this soldier's family to honor him. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life, but I promised Brent that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.
We lost our son SFC Brent A. Adams on 12/1/05 and it seems like yesterday. I wish so badly there were things I could say to you right now to make the pain you are feeling go away, but I know first hand there simply are no words that will bring you the comfort and peace your heart aches for. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you go through this tragedy moment by moment and as you mourn this loss.
We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with as our hearts both burst with pride and pain together.
I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally. While they can never be replaced, neither will they ever be forgotten. You must trust that sometime, someday the loving memories you have will help to sustain you and help you go on. This courageous soldier will forever be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well.
To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is your wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever.
If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero.
God Bless this soldier and family who gave all and God Bless legacy.com for setting up this site where families can so quickly share their condolences and prayers with others like themselves.
Proud Parents of SFC Brent A. Adams, KIA, 12/1/05, Ramadi, Iraq
Pam and Bill Adams, Lancaster, PA
The Burkhart's
April 10, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Our family is thinking of you and if there is anything you need, don't hesitate to call.
Tracy Wagoner
April 10, 2007
Although I didn't know Ryan, I would like to thank him for putting his life on the line to protect people he didn't know. God has a special place for men like him, he truly is a hero. May God help his family heal and find some kind of peace in knowing what a great man Ryan was. God Bless!
Nancy ROBERSON
April 10, 2007
TO THE FAMILY, GOD HAS SPECIAL BLESSINGS FOR PEOPLE LIKE RYAN, JUST KNOW HE IS IN GODS ARMS AND CARE FROM NOW ON.
Kevin Weber
April 10, 2007
Sir, my thoughts are with you and your family. If there is anything I can do, don't hesitate to ask.
MAJ Kevin Weber
Sgt. John Osborn
April 10, 2007
May we as a nation never forget the fallen heroes like Cpl. Dallam. May God keep you in his comfort during your time of loss. God bless you for your supreme sacrifice.
Tiffani
April 10, 2007
Iam sorry for what happend to your son. God bless you and stay strong
Joyce Burnett
April 10, 2007
My heart goes out to your family, I have two sons and can't imagine losing one of them. Your son gave his life for my family and all American citizens. My prayers are with you and your family. May God bless.
Viki & Ron Sellers
April 10, 2007
Our prayers & thoughts are with you at this time. We are grateful for men and women like your son that has paid the ultimate price for our freedom. God Love you all.
Jimmy Ringgold
April 10, 2007
God Bless You for the loss of your son. I'm surprised to be writing you this note, but as soon as I looked into your son's eyes from his military picture, I felt like I needed to send my condolences. His eyes show me that he was a peaceful young man, and I believe with my heart that he would want you to find peace and solice if you can with his loss~ if only you can. I am truly sorry and may God give you the strength.
Milton Bates
April 10, 2007
You have our deepest sympathy in your loss of Ryan. My only grandson is serving in the same 2nd Brigade Combat Team in which your son served. Before leaving for his Army assignment he wrote this to two of his buddies:
"For if I die in combat I want you both to take my place.
Even though I will be gone, I know you won't forget my face.
When I wait for you in heaven above everything will have changed;
Everything but our love."
Karen Winham ( Williams )
April 10, 2007
Dear Dallam Family, I am so sorry for your loss. God will watch over you and comfort you today and in the days ahead. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Scott we went to school togather, I know what a great friend & person you were to me back then, so I can imagine what a wonderful son you & Leslie raised. Thank you for Ryan and his bravery to keep us safe and free.
joe pratt
April 10, 2007
i am so very sorry your son died....
SGT Pete Wernke
April 10, 2007
God Bless your Ryan as he will always be recognized as an Honored HERO in the eyes of many.
Steve and Linda Wilson
April 10, 2007
May God Bless your family in this time of sorrow. Our prayers are with your family.
SPC Todd Anderson
April 10, 2007
Ryan gave himself unselfishly for his country. He is a hero in the eyes of all who have served, are serving, or will serve in the future.
Not knowing Ryan personally, I still feel compelled to offer this condolence to his family: Even though the pain must be immense, rejoice in knowing the Ryan died doing what he felt he was supposed to do. He knew the sacrifices he would have to make. He understood the danger, yet he unselfishly did it anyway. Rejoice in knowing that your Ryan lived a life without regrets. That he accomplished many things and that one day, you will be reunited with him. Until then, the pain will be immense. But when times are down, look at his picture and smile. Your son is a hero.
Heather Johnson Cooke
April 10, 2007
May the loving memories and overwhelming pride last in your heart forever. A HERO is never alone.
Sherri Hollon
April 10, 2007
I do not know the Dallam family, but I have 3 sons and can only imagine the feeling of loss your family is experiencing at this time. May God grant you peace and healing. Thank you for the ultimate sacrifice Ryan and your family have made for our country.
Rodney Bellamy
April 10, 2007
Coach Dallam,
May you find peace in your heart during this difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Ben Camp
April 10, 2007
He "frequently volunteered for night missions because nobody else wanted them – they were too dangerous."
How much that says about your son, and our loss for not having him back home. How much it says for the standards we must live up to and how much harder that will be without him. I hope we, the living, can carry forward something worthwhile from so great a treasure that your family instilled in your son.
John Kidd
April 10, 2007
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Bud Kahmar
April 10, 2007
So sorry for your loss, its great people like your son that keeps the rest of us free. God bless your entire family
Ladd McGraw
April 10, 2007
Please accept the heart-felt condolence of a fellow soldier.
"Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends." John 15:13
John and Samantha Looney
April 10, 2007
To the Dallam Family,
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you on your tragic loss.
Angela Reagan
April 10, 2007
My prayers are with you God bless.
Diana Jordan
April 10, 2007
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. My son is with the 45th Infantry Brigade and will be going to Iraq soon. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Adriana Hall
April 10, 2007
TO Dallan Family: May God Bless you and confort your family,in this time of sorrow know that Hi always be remember wiht great admiration ,sincerely
Jason&Adriana
Vickie Kyzer
April 10, 2007
Cpl. Ryan Scott Michael Dallam -
My thoughts are with the Dallam family and friends at this time. Please know that Cpl. Dallam is one of America's - and Oklahoma's finest. I, too, have a son in Iraq right now. I pray for all the soldiers every single day. My family knows the heartbreak you feel. My uncle, my mother's brother, died in Vietnam August 25, 1966. He is not forgotten to this day. I know that Cpl. Dallam will not be forgotten either. Please accept my families heartfelt prayers. Signed, Vickie
Gloria Youmans
April 10, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. God bless you.
Oscar Santana (SSgt, USAF)
April 10, 2007
Men like Ryan are the reason this country is so great. He will never be forgotten. My prayers are with your family.
The Hunt Family
April 10, 2007
To the Dallam Family,
My daughter is a student of Mr. Dallam's and we want you to know how saddened we are for the loss of your son and brother Ryan. I cannot imagine the pain you are going through right now, but just to let you know you are in our thoughts and prayers. My husband has been overseas twice now and just receiving notice of maybe another tour next year. Know Ryan is our HERO and we thank him dearly for everything he did to help keep our country free. I am sorry to say we never met Ryan, but being a solider I know he was a true leader with a loving heart. God bless the soliders and their families.
Leann Overstake
April 10, 2007
You are in our prayers and thoughts. What great memories we have of riding bikes with Ryan when he and Aaron were younger - always great fun. We are so glad he was a part of our lives. We salute Ryan and honor his service to our country. May God bless you and hold you tightly in His sweet peace.
Patricia (Bizzle) Palmer
April 10, 2007
To the Dallum Family,
We are so sorry to hear about your loss. Our thoughts and prayers will be with you. May God Bless.
Pat and Leon Shackelford
David Norton
April 10, 2007
My heartfelt condolences to the family. Having been a soldier for 20 years myself, I am always saddened when we lose another brother or sister. As soldiers, we are family, and we all feel your grief as if it were our own. Just know that we are all with you at this time. God Bless.
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