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Memories and Condolences
for Nathan Barnes
Charlie Gili
March 28, 2021
Hello,
We realize that we are very late to express our deepest condolences, but we wanted to let your family and friends know that we will be sending Care Packages to deployed troops this week and several of these will be dedicated to your loved one. Each package will carry the name, photo and hometown of Nathan S. Barnes US Army Sergeant.
We realize that this is a small tribute, but we do this with all respect and sincerity and we want you to know that it is made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals from across the American youth hockey community, their families and friends and others who support our mission.
We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you safe and strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of our US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign
June 26, 2016
I really appreciated learning about Nathan on BYU TV today. Thanks again to Matthew for sharing your story of grief and closure. Nathan continues to be an example of bravery and service to the United States.
B. Ridley
February 20, 2015
Thank you for your sacrifice and service. Matthew, thank you for sharing your story of grief and closure. I saw it this morning on the BYU channel. My heart goes out to you. The bitter cup that was yours is a reminder that freedom isn't free. You and your family shoulder a burden that many of us will never know. Nathan is still touching peoples lives through your story. I pray you and your family feel Heavenly Fathers grace and mercy. Thank you, again.
November 21, 2014
Your son is not forgotten.
May 13, 2012
Remembering and honoring Nathan on this spring day.
Julio Rodriguez
September 1, 2011
To the families of our American Heroes,
I want to thank each of you for your personal
sacrifices on behalf of my family and America.
May God comfort your souls and bring peace in
your hearts that your loss is not in vain.
God Bless our valiant warriors families in the
ages to come.
RIP courageous ones!
Psalm 25:20
A greatful Veteran
MSgt USAF (Ret)
Vietnam 64,65,66,68-6
Peggy Childers
July 17, 2011
To the family and friends of Sgt. Nathan S. Barnes:
Please accept my remembrance of Nathan on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Joe Strauch
July 17, 2011
Hey Bud, it has been a long four years with out you around. I have not forgot about what you did four years ago and just wanted to say thank you. God bless
Elizabeth Raab
January 15, 2011
Your legacy will forever live on in the hearts of those who knew you and shared in your struggle to protect our country and the ultimate sacrifice you gave so that we can be grateful for what we have. Your family, friends, loved ones and fellow soldiers will stay in my thoughts and prayers.
A Proud Military Mom.
Sarah & Chris Speich
November 10, 2010
Happy (early) Veteran's Day Nathan. We remember and talk about you a lot, especially here lately. No matter how many years pass, you & your memory are alive in our family as much as ever, and we love you so. Take care Brother.
Peggy Childers
July 17, 2010
To the family and friends of Sgt. Nathan S. Barnes:
Remembering Nathan on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Peggy Childers
July 17, 2009
To the family of Sgt. Nathan S. Barnes:
Nathan gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Sarah & Chris Speich
May 25, 2009
Love you Nate....thinking about you a lot today.
Edward Lalone
May 24, 2009
I would like to remember Sgt. Barnes and express my heartfelt gratitude for his act of selfless service at a time when we all express our respect and gratitude for those who have fallen in the line of service.
May God bless his family and friends as they remember Nathan as a person that they knew and loved.
In memory of SGT Nathan S. Barnes-Vernal, UT
Delene Jaques
May 24, 2009
Our thoughts are with you this 2009 Memorial Day weekend. We do not know you, but we will always pray for your family and their sacrifice.
Jaques Family
Vernal UT
Kenna Larra
December 30, 2008
We love our Soldiers! We love our country and we cannot express enough love and compassion to the families at this time. This is a Nonprofit Organization to honor are Soldiers!
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Sincerely,
Kenna
Chris, Sarah, Gabriel, & Baby to Be! (SUPRISE)!! :) Speich
September 9, 2008
Hey Nathan, We're at our new station and it just isn't the same without you. It always feels like something is missing here. Army life....or any life for that matter isn't the same without you. Miss you... The Speichs
Ashli
September 8, 2008
Just been thinkin about ya today bud miss you lots
In Memory of Nathan ~ (Debra Estep)
July 17, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Nathan, but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
Ashli
July 17, 2008
Wow this past year has gone by super fast. Its so hard knowing that you aren't coming home. To this day it still doesnt feel like you are really gone. Your Dad is so funny. i enjoy when he comes in my work and visits with me. Please watch over trav and trent help them keep making the right choices and watch over your family we all miss you dearly. Nathan You will always be my favorite and my hero. Love you bud see you soon
July 1, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Sgt Barnes!
ashli
June 24, 2008
Hey buddy its so crazy you have been gone a year already time is flyin. Miss ya like crazy man wish we could see that cute smile of yours. Remember we all love you very much
the Buck family
May 18, 2008
To the family and friends of Sgt Nathan S. Barnes, our thoughts and prayers are with you in your loss. What he has done for our freedom will not be forgotten. May God comfort and bless your family.
Sarah, Chris, Gabriel Speich
April 9, 2008
Missing you and your smile. We wish we could go back in time and hug you everytime we saw you and tell you we love you and that you are our best friend. We hope you know just how much we love you.
ashli
April 7, 2008
Hey nathan i was just thinkin about ya today and wish you were here but i know you are in a better place. please watch over travis and help him keep making the right choices we all love you lots. see you soon
Ashli Davis
January 16, 2008
HEY NATHAN JUST WANTED TO SAY I MISS YOU SO MUCH AND NOT A DAY GOES BY THAT I DONT THINK OF YOU..I WISH YOU WERE HOME. YOUR DAD IS SO AWESOME AND I LOVE THAT HE COMES AND VISITS WITH ME WHEN HE COMES TO MY WORK...PLEASE WATCH OVER YOUR FAMILY AND TRAV. YOU ARE HIS BESTEST FRIEND AND YOU ALWAYS AND FOREVER WILL BE...SEE YOU SOON LOVE YA
Sarah & Chris Speich Love also, Gabriel Nathan Speich
January 7, 2008
We love you Nathan and miss you so much. Not a day goes by that we don't think of you and remember all the great times we've shared. We will never find a more true friend. We wish you could see Gabriel...but we know you are watching over him and all of us.. because you are our angel. Thank you for being in our lives and touching them so. We love you our Hero.
kim sorensen
September 13, 2007
to nathans family. i'm am truely sorry for your loss. i heard all about nathan. im one of michael and karla's friends. they would tell me all these stories and how cool he was. i hope i can meet him some day! just wanted to let you know your in my prayers! hang in there!
Doc
September 4, 2007
I miss you buddy. I'll never forget.
debbi rivers
August 27, 2007
To the parents of Nathan, I would like to extend my heart felt sorrow as I know what you are going through and what you will yet go through in the coming weeks. I too am the mother of another fallen soldier and with God's continued support in my life I try to reach out to other who might need the support of someone who has been where you are. I want to offer you the support you may need to contact me anytime so that you may vent, talk or just seek comfort I am here for you. As a Gold Star Mother I've reached out through God's blessings to many across the country and we have a good support group. May God continue to give you and your family the love, comfort and healing that you need. In memory of my son SPC Harry (Buck) Winkler III KIA Samarra, Iraq November 12, 2006
Anna Dickerson
August 23, 2007
Thank you Sgt Barnes for your service and your sacrifice! You will NEVER be forgotten and always loved by many! You will always be a hero, and so honorable deserving of that!
To his family, I offer my love and prayers for the loss of such a beautiful young man..I can say or do nothing to ease your pain..but know there are those of us that share it.
I lost my grandson, Sgt. Ryan Wood in Iraq a few short weeks ago.
So I definitely know your heartache.
May God be with you as He is with Nathan. Nathan is a star above you watching down on you forever.
Anna Dickerson
ashli
August 23, 2007
hey just been thinkin about ya today....i miss you like crazy
August 19, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Sgt Barnes and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
ashli
August 15, 2007
Hey Nathan just wanted to tell you how much i miss you and love you...You are going to be missed by many people...You are my HERO always and forever thanks for being such a great friend. I will cherish all the memories and keep them close to my heart...Cant wait to see you and your amazing smile again. love you and your family dearly...See you soon
A True American Hero
Valerie Carrillo-Gifford
August 12, 2007
Please know how much your son was loved by the guys that served with him and missed so much more. My husband knows he was blessed for just knowing and working with him. Thankful it was him during his final moments. Please accept my condolences. God bless you all.
Scott and Cozette Deveraux
August 9, 2007
Kevin and Donna:
Although I did not know Nathan, I have known and worked with Kevin in Scouting and Kevin's dad in my employment. I appreciate the sacrifice that Nathan and your family have made for me and my family. Our love and condolences go out to you.
Emily
August 5, 2007
I heard of your lose through a family member's email and my heart goes out to you. I've been a soldiers wife for fourteen years and understand the pride you feel for your son. Thank you for your sacrifice.
August 4, 2007
I don't pretend to know what to say or do that would bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON (KIA on 07/06/07) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
A Grateful Family in Riverton
August 2, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family at this time. Even though we have never met you, we have been profoundly touched by the unselfish sacrifice of your son to preserve our freedom. May God's love and comfort be with your family today and always. Respectfully,
Deon Smith
August 1, 2007
Dear Barnes Family,
Please know of our love and sympathies for your family. We had our first son return home three years ago from Iraq and our second son returned home last year. We now have our first son returning to Iraq for his second tour and our third son will be leaving for his first tour at the end of the month with his older brother. Please know that your son was a HERO and that we loved him and all our service men and women. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayer, and may God bless you and your family at this time. It is a great comfort to know that you will see Nathan again.
Thanks!! for his life and a great family that believes in our freedom and the freedom of others.
Vogan
July 31, 2007
Dear Barnes Family-
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family at this hard time. My family had the honor to know Nathan and his family. His faith, honor and sacrifice will not be forgotten. many blessings to you in this hard time.
GOD BLESS AMERICA
Vogan-Family
Sharon Murphy
July 30, 2007
Dear Barnes Family,
I do not know you, but my daughter and her family lives above you. While the flags were by your house, I drove through them every day. I even took my friend with me and drove through them again. It gave us both "chills". The memory of those flags will forever be with me, and your son and his sacrifice will never leave my thoughs. My son in law and my nine year old grandson had the privledge of taking part with the flags on Saturday. We will never forget. May you find peace. You will see Nathan again.
Sharon Murphy
Ryan Walker
July 29, 2007
Thank you so much for your service...So sorry for your loss
Kim Leigh (K.Leigh) Thomas
July 29, 2007
Dear Barnes'
I want to express my heartfelt thoughts to you. Having been raised all of my life in the military and experiencing the fears and worries as my father was deployed to war 3 times, I can't thank you enough for the support and encouragement that I know you gave to Nathan as he went out to serve. There are no greater heroes than those that give their lives for another. "Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends." Thank you Nathan for your ultimate sacrifice so that I and my children may remain free and able to do those things in this wonderful land that are our privilege. It will be my endeavor to live worthy & to teach my children to live worthy of that precious gift.
Gary Allain
July 29, 2007
Sgt. Nathan S. Barnes
you are my hero
may god keep you in his arms forever.
Bates Family
July 29, 2007
Our hearts go out to you at this time. Please know of our gratitude to you and your family for your son's service in our armed forces and his ultimate sacrifice for the freedom of this great nation. May our Heavenly Father's choicest blessings be with you at this time and in the many years to come.
Kim Austin-Oliver
July 29, 2007
I am sorry for your loss. I know the pain you are feeling, with my sorrow the only relief I found was in God. I'm sure it's the same with you all. I lost my brother 2 months ago in Iraq. He was my only brother...my only sibling. Please find comfort in each other. We are blessed to have loved these true heros! We will see them again. God Bless.
Marci DeHaan
July 27, 2007
Dear Barnes Family,
My heart goes out to all of you. I am so sorry for your loss. I do not know you or your son but I wanted to say 'Thank you' for your son being a hero and fighting for my freedom and to his family for paying the ultimate price. God Bless. May his memory live on forever.
The Pinegars
July 27, 2007
You gave your life for our freedom. We will never forget you!
THANK YOU!!
Ann Christopherson
July 27, 2007
I'm sorry.
Yvonne Bennett
July 27, 2007
Heartfelt thanks to Nathan and all those who have given their lives in defending our nation. Their families truly understand the price being paid for our freedom. May the comfort of our Savior's love for you and for Nathan bring you peace at this very difficult time. From a friend of Ruth and Alan.
Jennifer D
July 27, 2007
Your son gave the ultimate sacrifice. We will always be greatful. God speed.
Lisa Ellett
July 27, 2007
I did not know your son, but being military also, I just wanted you to know that my prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. I am so sorry for your loss, but I am proud to have had such a brother in arms. God bless your family in this time of need may you be comforted and healed.
John Festin
July 27, 2007
I don't know you or Nathan but as I read his Obituary I felt compelled to pass along my condolences. I am so sorry for your loss. I am so grateful to Nathan, as well as all of the other Servicemen and women who are fighting for our freedom and for the sacrifices they are making. Nathan is a true hero in my book! May the Lord bless and comfort you in your loss of a son and brother.
God Bless!
AMERICA
July 27, 2007
THANK YOU!!!
A grateful American
July 27, 2007
Sgt. Barnes,
Words can not express the gratitude and appreciation my family and I have for the TRUE AMERICAN HERO YOU ARE. There never has been a time when the world needed REAL HEROS as is needed now. When many have misplaced there value system and loyalty, you did not. You answered the call. You saw the bigger picture. You, SGT., are the fiber that makes America strong.
The greatest generation, as we call the World War II soldiers, are few in number now. They too served with Honor and have much in common with today’s soldier. Our home land was attacked and the call was answered again by great warriors who place God and Country first. Warriors keep America safe and free. You are part of a brotherhood that only those of us who have been or are soldiers can appreciate in a way different from others . . . the LOVE and HONOR we feel for GOD and COUNTRY can not be expressed in words. We are a “band of brothers.”
You served with honor and bravery and in so doing you gave the ultimate sacrifice. Your death is not in vain and you will not be forgotten.
To the Barnes family:
I do not know you or Nathan, but wanted to say THANK YOU for raising a real HERO! One who has been called home to a kind and loving Heavenly Father who needed him there. You will be with Nathan again for the eternities, when sorrow will be no more. May God pour out peace and comfort upon your family at this difficult time. Thank you for your sacrifice and for sharing one of America’s Greatest Sons. I am sure Nathan and General Moroni are sharing experiences, both having placed others before themselves.
God Bless.
Respectfully,
a grateful family
Kevin & Bobbi Davis
July 27, 2007
Dear Kevin, Donna & Family
We are so broken hearted over the loss of Nathan. Nathan was the best friend my kids could have ever asked for. He was like a son to Bobbi and I, as he spent many days and nights at our home hanging out and doing things with our kids. He is the type of person who never ever talked bad about anyone. It was very hard for us seeing him go off to war but we knew it was something he wanted to do in serving his country and keeping us safe at home. We will always remember his great smile, and wonderful spirit he brought to our home. The day before he went off to boot camp we remember him coming to our house and giving each of us a big hug. I don’t think he had ever seen us cry until that day. Nathan kept in touch with my kids through email as much as he could. The memories my family had with Nathan will always be cherished.
Kevin and Donna, thank you so very much for raising such a wonderful son. You must be so proud of him for what he has done in his life. May god bless and comfort you and your family during this trying time in your life. It is comforting to know that you will be reunited with him again one day. God will make sure of that!
Sgt. Nathan S. Barnes, thank you so much for giving the ultimate sacrifice to protect this great nation, and the freedom we have today. You will never be forgotten, and will always be a hero in every American's eye. We love you Nathan, and wish you the best as you serve your father in heaven.
Love Always,
Kevin, Bobbi, and family
Sandy Stevens
July 27, 2007
Dear Barnes Family,
I don't know you, but I do know what it's like to lose a precious child. I lost my Lindsay when she was 17 years old. Your heart is bowed down and on it's knees, but as I'm sure you are seeing, God does lift us up and comfort us and our weary hearts. Our children served well here in this short mortal probation, just as they are serving their Lord in their next probation. They will rise up to the beautiful sound of Moroni's trumpet in the East, and we shall forever be in their mist again. Just think of the love and hugs they are receiving because of their service here. Thanks to our loving Heavenly Father for keeping us all together in the end. What amazing love that must be. Our children are not really gone, we just can't see them....yet!!
May God hold you in the palm of His hand until you are reunited with Nathan again. You are in my prayers.
Respectfully,
Sandy Stevens
Dan and Lilian Broadbent
July 27, 2007
Lisa and Alan,
We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
carmen anderson
July 27, 2007
I am a stranger but I want to write a THANK YOU for your brave warrior who stepped forward to make a difference in our continued freedoms. I am sad you have lost you precious, handsome and brave child. Thank you for having shared him with the world.
An American Family
July 27, 2007
May God accept this young man and keep him by his side. for the honor he gave to us all. FREEDOM.
All my family can say is this, God bless your family in this time. And THANK You.
Carolynn Mirabile
July 27, 2007
I don't know the family or Nathan and yet he has a special place in my heart. To me, he is a hero. He gave of himself for others and never worried about what it would cost him. I thank him for my freedom, I thank him for my children, I thank him for the lives we lead. May you find the peace and serenity you so deserve to raise such a beautiful, strong, loving man. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
Nesha Smith
July 27, 2007
Dear Barnes Family,
Knowing your family personally I know what great people you are, as was Nathan. My heart has been so touched. I have seen the beautiful way your community has supported you by the many flags that line your neighborhood, it is a very touching site to see. I am humbled as I read the beautiful words fellow Americans have written about your Nathan, you must be so proud. He is truley being remembered as an American hero. I have been blessed to know your wonderful family and to have Mike a part of mine, for this I am thankful. I love each and every one of you and express my deepest sympathy to all of you. You are in our thoughts and prayers always. God bless you, and Nathan.
Love,
Robert and Nesha Smith Family
July 27, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Joe Hyde
July 27, 2007
I just read Nathan's obituary and simultaneously felt heartbroken for your ultimate sacrifice and uplifted by your immense strength and faith. You are an inspiration for us all. Thank you. May God's most tender mercies and blessings be with you and Nathan.
A thankful American
July 27, 2007
to the Barnes Family:
My deepest sympathy to your family I never knew your son but it is soilders like him who made the ultimate sacrafice to keep us free I am eternally grateful. Just remember families are forever.
Julie Hall
July 26, 2007
Dear Donna,
You served us as a wonderful counselor when our children were students at Mountain Ridge Jr. High. We express our deepest condolences for your loss, and add a measure of faith to the testimony you have always displayed. We know you will be with your son again. We know this life is a small duration and temporary part of our existence. We appreciate your son for his service and his goodness. He is blessed to have you for a mother, as you are also, to have him for a son.
Sincerely,
Julie & Kirk Hall (Christopher and Sterling Ingram)
Andrew and Lisa Underwood
July 26, 2007
May God hold you in His tender care during this difficult time. We are grateful for the Nathan's of the world who faithfully serve their country.
July 26, 2007
God bless your son and you for raising such a fine young man. Though the pain must be great, please know that your son is a patriot. We have no hope as a Nation without the service of great men like your son. Know that his sacrifice is appreciated by someone you will never know.
Amanda Holmes
July 26, 2007
I didn't know your son, but would like to send you my deepest sympathy.
He is a hero to the United States of America.
He deserves more then what he will ever know.
May God bless you.
Apryll Anderson
July 26, 2007
MEMORIES WILL GIVE YOU THE STRENGTH YOU WILL NEED TO PROCEDE!
GOD BLESS!
OUR FALLEN HERO!
SGT. JEREMY E. DEPOTTEY
KIA SEPT. 11, 2006
RKR
July 26, 2007
Dear Barnes Family,
May I take a moment of your precious time and thank you for your sacrifice that you and your son have given to me and my family. Words can never express my heart felt gratitude. May you have the comfort that God extends to those who have given the ultimate sacrifice for the freedom that comes at such a great cost. "Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends." This scripture says a lot about your son. My family is indebted to you and to all who have given the ultimate sacrifice and served in any war for our freedom. Words cannot express how much is owed to these great hero's like your son. God bless you and your family. God is aware of you at this time and the veil is extremely thin. May you feel that peace and comfort that he has promised.
Stephanie Pace
July 26, 2007
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2007
Olga Kopp
July 26, 2007
My heart goes to you. You are in my prayers. May God bless you always.
Patricia Bird
July 26, 2007
Nathan, I sit here and cry tears of pride and sorrow. Thank you so much for wearing the uniform and serving this great country so honorably. I know in my heart that this war will surely bring something the people of Iraq have never known - freedom to pursue their dreams as we have ours. You sit at God's knees and he smiles on your warmly. I will pray for your family.
L.S.
July 26, 2007
I am sorry to hear about the loss of your son. I don't know you or him, but his sweet smile touched me. May God be with you at this time.
AMS
July 26, 2007
Thank you to Nathan and all his family for what you have given to preserve our freedom. God bless you all.
Jane Jenkins
July 26, 2007
To Kevin:
I am so sorry for your loss. It is really tragic that war costs such a dear price.
A former co-worker,
Kyle and Emilee Covington
July 26, 2007
We are sorry to hear about Nathan, he was just a sweet kid. your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
Ed Jones
July 26, 2007
I do not know you folks personally,yet I wish you our deepest sympathy. Men like your son make me proud to be an American. Thank you Mr and Mrs Barnes for giving this country and our community a real hero. May God give you his love. We love you and will forever remember his sacrifice.
Ed
Debi Bateman
July 26, 2007
I am so sorry for your loss. I am someone you have never met, but I am so greatful to your son for all he has done and for the sacrifice he made to protect and defend our freedom and country. May God Bless you and your family in this difficult time.
Sherry and Kully Jones
July 26, 2007
We do not know your family, but please accept our deepest sypathy for your loss. We pray for our troops daily and appreciate so much the willingness of our youth to defend our freedom. May our Heavenly Father bless you with all blessings you stand in need of at this time.
Barbara Parry
July 26, 2007
Although I never met you in this life, I want to express my appreciation for your great sacrifice in defending our country's liberties and mine. I have a soft spot and admiration for our veterans because my dad served in the Army Aircorp in WWII and was a POW in Germany for a year. Thank you a million times over. To your family and friends. May God watch over and bless you and may your many memories of Nathan strengthen you in the days ahead.
Sincerely,
Barbara Parry
j d
July 26, 2007
I am so grateful for your sons service to our wonderful country.He gave his life for our freedom.I am so thankful for him and the many others which are willing to give so much for what they believe in.Your son is a true Hero.
Terry & Tammy Messersmith
July 26, 2007
We just want you to know how much we think of Nathan. He was a hard worker with amazing intergrity. We loved being around Nathan. What a sweet young man. And we also want you to know of our deep appreciation for the sacrifice he made for us and our country. He gave all for his family, friends, and strangers. We think the world of your family,
The Terry Messersmith Family
malissa bigham
July 26, 2007
Thank you so so much for lending all of us your son. Because of the men and women like Nathan we are still free.{THANK YOU Nathan} My heart and prayers are with you all. LOVE a very grateful Americian
Jeri Levin
July 26, 2007
Dear Barnes Family,
I've never met your son but I know the type of man he was. My son is a U.S. Marine serving his third tour in Iraq. I know that your son like mine was where he knew he should be, serving his country.
God Bless you and you are in my prayers.
D
July 26, 2007
Thank you for raising such a fine young man; one who did not hesitate to defend the freedoms we enjoy, yet take for granted. Our Marine son served 3 tours in Iraq and we are so proud of him. He lost both legs, but we still have him to hug and kiss. May your memories of Nathan always be ones of joy.
July 26, 2007
Our family does not know yours, but please accept our deepest gratitude for the sacrifice of your son for our Country. There is no greater show of love than one that would fight and die for our freedom. There are no words to fully extend our thanks to Nathan and your family. Please know he did not die in vain, and your sacrifice will never be forgotten. You are in our prayers.
Love,
The Snyder and Goss Families
Orem, UT
A Proud American Support Our Trops
July 26, 2007
I don't know you or your family, I am also 23yrs old. Thank you for all you have done for your family, friends, and country. You deserve the best. May GOD greet you and hold you high. GOD Bless you and your family. My Prayers are with you and your family.
The Johnson Family
July 26, 2007
Donna, Kevin and family,
I often saw Nathan at Kathi and Lee's home whenever there was a family function for one of their children. He was a nice boy as I remember him and knowing the family he came from I'm sure he was a fine young man. My deepest sympathies for your loss. We are proud of his sacrifice for all of us to remain free.I know the gospel will give you comfort that you cannot find any other place. I want you to know we care about you and are honored to have known your family through the years. Our prayers are with all of you always.
Rosanne and Allen Johnson
(Kathi's cousin)
July 26, 2007
Thank you for your service and sacrifce. I am so proud to be an American and I'm so grateful for men and women like you who continue to fight for our freedom. Words will never be able to thank you enough.
Phoenix AZ
Jared Wilks
July 26, 2007
Kevin, my heart breaks for you and your family in your loss of Nathan. I've held my little ones a little tighter and a little longer every night this past week as I contemplated the uncertainty of life and how grateful I should be for what time we are given. Nathan's courage and ultimate sacrifice will be taught as an example in my family as I hope to raise my children to honor their country, their parents, and their neighbors. I weep with you, and I honor Nathan with you.
Emily Kennedy
July 26, 2007
**Hello Barnes Family**
My name is Emily and I am Chris Speichs sister-in-law. I also had the pleasure and honor of knowing Nathan through Chris and Sarah (his wife, my younger sister) as did my whole family. And what an amazing man he was/is! I have stories and pictures of when my family visited them in Alaska at Ft Richardson, as well as a few weeks that I visited them when they first moved to Ft Drum. Nathan often came back to Ohio with Chris and Sarah when they had short leaves from Ft Drum and oh how much we enjoyed him being here! His enthusiam for life, his sense of humor, and his ever shining humanitarian spirit~ that is what we loved and will always remember about Nathan. I would love to snail-mail you the pictures that we have along with a few stories which we remember him best for!! Please feel free to contact me if you wish.
With sincerest gratitude for raising such a fine young man and condolences for him moving on, we will never forget Nathan or your family!!!
~The Kennedy Family~
Kurt M
July 26, 2007
My heart sorrows for your loss. You son is a true hero, one who gave his life for his country as those brave men and women of wars past. I pray your spirits may be lifted in comfort knowing that he gave his life for others and thus will gain his life. Your family will be in my prayers.
Fred & Jackie SANDQUIST
July 26, 2007
We are gratful for what your son did for us.to keep U.S. free.My god be with your Family.
Mrs. Newton
July 26, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
J H
July 26, 2007
Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
-from one of Nathan's classmates
MIndi Kurtz
July 26, 2007
I don't know your family either, but I'm so proud of your son for sacrificing his life to keep us free. We should never forget the young men and women who lose their lives in order to perserve our freedom in this great land. God bless all of you, his family. It is comforting to know we will be together again with our families in the eternities.
Vicki Killian
July 26, 2007
To Nathan and his family, you're sacrifice is that of being and having a hero among us. We have five children in the Navy and are so proud of all of them and know you are proud also. Please know that there are many out there that thank you so much for your service and for being a wonderful family of a true hero. Take care, the Killian Family, Spring Creek, NV
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