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Jeffrey Kettle Obituary

Sgt. 1st Class Jeffrey D. Kettle, 31, was killed while serving in Afghanistan August 12.

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Published by Oklahoman on Aug. 13, 2007.

Memories and Condolences
for Jeffrey Kettle

97 Entries

Carson Loveless

September 11, 2024

Condolences to his family

Charlie Gili

February 16, 2018

Hello,
We would like to express our deepest condolences and also let the Kettle Family know that we have made a small donation to The Green Beret Foundation to honor and remember Jeffrey D. Kettle US Army Sergeant 1st Class. We recognize that this is a humble tribute, but we wanted you to know that it is heartfelt and made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals across the American youth hockey community and beyond. We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you safe and strong.

Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of the US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign

Peggy Childers

August 12, 2011

To the family and friends of Sgt. 1st Class Jeffrey Kettle:
Please accept my remembrance of Jeffrey on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.

Jim Fieo

June 3, 2011

I want to first give my deepest sympathy to Jeff’s wife Brandi, and sons Donovan and Logan as well as the rest of his family. I know that it has been some time since his passing and the whole in your heart may never fully heal. I hope that you can find comfort in recognizing that Jeff lives on in Donovan and Logan. I am sorry that this has come late but I only recently realized the loss of Jeff. My commander took a moment of silence to remember the SOF Warriors that have made the ultimate sacrifice since 9/11. I saw his name time stopped for a minute, I lost my breath, I was in disbelief. How could Jeff have been taken in this war? When I realized he was actually gone and read some of the information about his passing and saw his picture I started to reflect on how I knew him.
I was Jeff’s Platoon Leader for nearly 18 months in the 2-505th PIR we deployed together for OEF in 2003. I don’t say this lightly, “Jeff was by far the finest NCO I had the pleasure to serve with in this Army.” I can say with confidence that Jeff loved everything about being a soldier. More than anyone I knew he was made for the job. It was apparent in the fact that when things were at their worst Jeff was at his best and had an inherent leadership that brought everyone around him up to his level. Jeff and I showed up to the unit at about the same time he took over the Weapons Squad. At that time his men were in desperate need of direct leadership and confidence. He may have had an unconventional leadership style but he always lead from the front and his men understood that Jeff would be there for them, he demanded a lot from his men but at the same time he would give them everything that he had every day. His men thrived under his leadership; they wanted to perform at their best for him not because they had to but, because they wanted to. He turned the Weapons Squad into one of the best in the Battalion if not the Brigade all while his men loved and respected him.
Then there was Jeff my friend, I will never forget his one liner’s and his noises. Of course they were never utilized at an appropriate time but that is what made it all so funny and so Jeff. I think it was impossible for Jeff to have a dull moment in his life and his company always made for a memorable moment. Jennifer and I will never forget our “Karaoke New Year’s Party,” at Jeff and Brandi’s before we went to Afghanistan.
These words do little to express the level of respect I have for him as a soldier and a friend.
Rest in Peace Jeff and I hope to see you on the other side.
[email protected]
Sincerely,
Jim Fieo

Jim Fieo

June 3, 2011

I want to first give my deepest sympathy to Jeff’s wife Brandi, and sons Donovan and Logan as well as the rest of his family. I know that it has been some time since his passing and the whole in your heart may never fully heal. I hope that you can find comfort in recognizing that Jeff lives on in Donovan and Logan. I am sorry that this has come late but I only recently realized the loss of Jeff. My commander took a moment of silence to remember the SOF Warriors that have made the ultimate sacrifice since 9/11. I saw his name and time stopped for a minute, I lost my breath, I was in disbelief. How could Jeff have been taken in this war? When I realized he was actually gone and read some of the information about his passing and saw his picture I started to reflect on how I knew him.
I was Jeff’s Platoon Leader for nearly 18 months in the 2-505th PIR we deployed together for OEF in 2003. I don’t say this lightly, “Jeff was by far the finest NCO I had the pleasure to serve with in this Army.” I can say with confidence that Jeff loved everything about being a soldier. More than anyone I knew he was made for the job. It was apparent in the fact that when things were at their worst Jeff was at his best and had an inherent leadership that brought everyone around him up to his level. Jeff and I showed up to the unit at about the same time he took over the Weapons Squad. At that time his men were in desperate need of direct leadership and confidence. He may have had an unconventional leadership style but he always lead from the front and his men understood that Jeff would be there for them, he demanded a lot from his men but at the same time he would give them everything that he had every day. His men thrived under his leadership; they wanted to perform at their best for him not because they had to but, because they wanted to. He turned the Weapons Squad into one of the best in the Battalion if not the Brigade all while his men loved and respected him.
Then there was Jeff my friend, I will never forget his one liner’s and his noises. Of course they were never utilized at an appropriate time but that is what made it all so funny and so Jeff. I think it was impossible for Jeff to have a dull moment in his life and his company always made for a memorable moment. Jennifer and I will never forget our “Karaoke New Year’s Party,” at Jeff and Brandi’s before we went to Afghanistan.
These words do little to express the level of respect I have for him as a soldier and a friend.
Rest in Peace Jeff and I hope to see you on the other side.
If you need anything please contact me [email protected]
Sincerely,
Jim Fieo

Shannon Williams-Austill

May 30, 2011

The flag is flying in the sky
A daily reminder of who and why
We sit here remembering them today
These heroes that now lie in their grave.

While here on earth, the bravest ones
A soldier, a mother, a daughter, a son
The father's who went far off to war
To ensure our safety and so much more

To keep our children happy and free,
Someone must do this job, you see
So, today remember the soldiers who served,
Because this is one thing they truly deserve.

The loved one's that they have left behind,
The Gold Star mothers, like your and mine
We honor them proudly, every day
Our American Soldier...Proud and Brave
By Shannon Williams-Austill

I want to thank this soldier for their sacrifice.
And, I wish to extend my deepest regards to the loved ones they have left behind. Their service to our nation, has not gone unnoticed. They are our heroes, who paid the ultimate price for us, and that is something that every American needs to be reminded of and remember everyday.
The freedom we all have, we have because of brave young men and women who made a choice to defend and serve.
Today, let me remember your loved one with you.

SFC (Ret) Michael Fitzpatrick

January 13, 2011

SFC Jeffrey Kettle was one of my Squad leaders in Afghanistan in 2003. He was a good man and a great soldier and an even better friend. May you Rest in Peace Brother.

Peggy Childers

August 12, 2010

To the family and friends of Sgt. 1st Class Jeffrey Kettle:
Remembering Jeffrey on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

August 12, 2010

3 years ago today. Feels like it was yesterday. I am so proud of you. We all miss you and love you. Peace, Brother

John Vail

May 27, 2010

I didnt even know anything happened. I just came across this page lookng up some old friends from the 505. I served with him during my tours attached to Aco 2-505. He will be missed, what a great guy

March 15, 2010

SFC Kettle and I served together for three years in Italy. He was a very dear friend and a fine man. We were privates together and made Sgt together. He was like my brother.

SSG G. Koch

Jim Miller

February 20, 2010

I was the CSM for 2-505 during OIF 1. I remember Jeff well and wished all my NCOS were just like him. Some gave all and each day I live I will remember & honor my brothers who did not make it back.

Rest in Peace Jeff

Jim Miller CSM, Ret.
2-505 OIF 1

January 11, 2010

Jeff and I served as Sqd Leaders for B 2/35 In Hawaii. I have so many memories of Jeff as a soldier and my good friend. I left the Army in 2001. Jeff came to NJ to visit while on leave, enroute to Ft Benning. I was devastated when I found out. Miss you brother.

Mike Taylor

January 11, 2010

SSG Adolfo Dominguez

November 17, 2009

I served with SFC Kettle in A 2-505 PIR and he was one of the leader that I always wanted to be and I'm now... he thought me that being a leader with some sense of humor and love to the job I could be a better leader. Thasnk you Jeff we will miss you

SFC Joseph McKinney

October 20, 2009

I served with SFC Kettle in B 2-35INF. Has my first squad leader coming into the Army as a Private. I just remember all the long days teaching me how to tie knots, all the days at the CQ desk reading the Ranger Handbook, and most of all the PT ( Bleachers of Pain). He pretty much taught me everything I know about the Military. My deepest condolences to his family, friends, and fellow soldiers. SFC Kettle made me the man and Soldier that I am today !

August 20, 2009

I served with Jeff in Scouts 2/505PIR during OIF1. I have been a Scout in Jeff's old unit 2/35INF for 3 years now. Never will I forget our talks old friend. You are a good man. Others want to be like you. You truely did lead the way. Your old friend, Don. Never Forgotten brother...

SSG Campbell

Shelley Isaacs

May 27, 2009

Brandi,

Still thinking of you, Jeff, and the kids.

SSG Peter J. Trompeter

May 25, 2009

SFC Kettle

We only knew each other for a short period of time. I had suffered a back injury that kept me from continuing my career as a Paratrooper in the 82nd Airborne Division. I was on my way to Fort Stewart, GA and he was on his way to Special Forces. He told me, "T. Don't worry. You're still going to be great soldier regardless if you can jump or not."

Thank you, SFC Kettle, for all that you did.

Rest in Peace

Stephen Garcia

May 6, 2009

Hey Brother, Just wanted to let you know you're still apart of our lives. I'm getting out of the Army and doing the Texas Guard thing, the company is a different place now, but i'm sure you've been watching.

Christopher Tucker

May 5, 2009

The hole will never be replaced or filled by the loss of Jeffrey. He didn't leave us he just went home. I met him in Hawaii and at the time we became the best of friends. We went to Air Assault school together and if it weren't for him I probably have failed. He was the funniest person I have ever met and he would make any situation livable. Hauss would always tell me great life's lessons mixed up in a Texas style euphemism. He was not only a friend and a mentor but a father and husband. I am a better person from knowing you Jeff and I consider you family. We brethren that have gone over there; from time to time we look around and our numbers are fewer. Let us not be sad but rejoice for we will all come together on the other side saving a space for each other. As we enter heaven we will feel that slap on our backs and hear "good job Soldier, way to carry on!" The last time I shook his hand was when I took him to the airport; headed for Bragg for SF Selection. I shook his hand and said take care. Looking back I wished I could have said more. The numerous nights we would sit around his apartment on the North Shore in Hawaii and just talk, I strain to remember every word he said so it will not fade or get lost. I wonder if he ever got his camaro finished or if his Copenhagen lid from ranger school made it back to the family....by the way I accidentally put the hole in the top one night we were playing darts many years ago, sorry. If anyone in the family ever needs any help at any time e-mail me
[email protected]
SSG Tucker, Christopher D.
Cacti" 2-35 INF 1997-2003

Rachel Ramos

January 27, 2009

My mom called and told Fredo the news. When he told me my eyes welled up with tears that I could not fight back. I walked out of the room so I could cry in private. I grew up a block or two away from Jeff and Clay. Jeff and I went to school together since kindergarden. As a childhood friend I remember how much he loved sports and how much he liked to laugh and cut-up. I think we even got in trouble a few times for talking too much in class. Jeff and Clay were always together and would sometimes come over and play hide and go seek and four square. Jeff was one of the best four square players in the school but I was still better (LOL!). For those of you who knew him, you knew he had a scar on his face. I was there the day it happened. As a matter of fact it was my dad who took Jeff to the ER and stayed with him until his dad was able to get there. The last time I saw Jeff was in high school (over 14 yes ago). However, the day I heard he was KIA it cut me as though we had spoke only days prior. I am in the Air Force and on that particular day my brother was visiting me and helping me pack for my deployment to Iraq. Since that day, I think of Jeff very often. I think about Clay, his parents, and also of his wife and kids. I really wanted to attend his memorial service in TC but was not able to. I found his obituary, printed it and hung it on my door at work ( home station and deployed) so everyone one would know that my childhood friend and brother-in-arms is a
decorated war hero. Since then I have returned from Iraq but am now on my way back. This will be my third tour. I really just wanted to expess my own sadness and offer my condolences to the entire Kettle family.

V/r,
Rachel Ramos (TC,TX)
Captain, USAF

Kenna Larra

December 15, 2008

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Sincerely,
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Chris Rowe

November 21, 2008

To the family of SFC Jeffrey Kettle I am sorry for your loss, my thoughts and prayers are with you.
I served with SFC Kettle in A Co 2/505 PIR 82nd Airborne. Jeff was my squad leader for a couple of years and we deployed together to Afghanistan in 2003. Jeff was a great leader and an outstanding soldier.
Jeff had a way of connecting with each of his soldiers that made him different, he could push you to exhaustion and care for you every step of the way.
I remember one afternoon talking with then SSgt Kettle on the base at Fort Bragg. He was telling me about trying out for Special Forces and telling me how he wanted to be the best. I had not doubt in my mind that he would one day make it.

To Jeff's family please contact me if you need anything or wish to share stories.

SFC Kettle (Jeff) I miss you bro.
God Bless you and your family.

Donald Kettle

August 19, 2008

It’s been a many years since I’ve had the joy of hearing my nephew’s voice. I had been informed over the years of the many places Jeff had serve and served well. I knew his Dad and Mom were truly proud of the man their son had become, but also worried for his safety like some many mom's and dad's do. Jeff was a man of good character, loyal and committed to what he believed in. He showed it every time he woke up and put on the uniform and said " yessir" whatever the orders were, a true patriot of our country... from Bosnia to Iraq and Afghanistan he walk the talk. I am very proud to have know him and been related to him as his uncle. These words below I have pondered for some time and they remind me of how truly blessed we are as a nation to have gallant, brave young men and women watching over us in far away lands, living in adverse conditions and facing constant danger and the sacrifices made by all of the fathers,mother,wives,husbands and families.

For Ryan's Dad, Mom, Lovely Bride and children, brothers and family of friends

Jeff is watching over us with God almighty Amen.
Love ya Jeff
Uncle Don

Semper Fi,
Donald L Kettle
Gysgt USMCRET

Bobby Anspach

August 13, 2008

Still thinking of you Jeff. It doesn't seem like a year has passed already. I hope you are still looking out for us down here. I wonder if you've met up with some of the guys from 3PLT that are up there. Tell Jamie I said hi, if so.

Shelley Isaacs

August 12, 2008

Brandi,

It's hard to believe that it has been a year already. I think of you and the boys nearly everyday, and we have not forgotten Jeff.

In Memory of Jeffrey ~ (Debra Estep)

August 12, 2008

Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.

The Wind on The Downs

“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”

(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )

Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….

“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”

I did not know Jeffrey, but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !

~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~

The Other Side

i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.

can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.

i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side

the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)

“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008

The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol

Sincerely,

Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB

Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55

Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b

Jeffrey D. Kettle..our Brother.

July 9, 2008

July 2, 2008

You are remembered and respected. Thank you Sgt 1st Class Kettle!

Kristina Feely

June 8, 2008

It's hard to believe it is going on a year since your passing. Ill never forget where I was when I heard the news. This past Memorial Day was especially somber knowing that you Jeff.. had given the ultimate sacrifice and we are so thankful for your service. I knew us Kettle's were strong... but to see how your family has handled this with strength and grace is truly amazing! I love of all you and love you cuz. God Bless all our troops and families. Kristina Kettle Feely

George Huebsch

May 26, 2008

The sacrifice of your son, your dad, your brother, your friend will never be forgotten.

Jeffrey will always be one of our heros and our inspiration.

Stephen Garcia

November 13, 2007

Jeff is my brother. He got to the unit a few weeks after I did. We went through the Special Forces "Q" course together. It was good seeing him in the unit, he made it easier to be the new guys around. I will forever have the memory of him talking about his family and making funny noises in the company hallway to make me laugh. I wasn't around when he died but I was at a Firebase near by. I always think of Jeff at random moments through out my day, sometimes everyday sometimes a couple of days apart. Jeff is a good soldier and father, his boy should be proud, they have a hero to always look up to and a role-model to live by.

Erica Hernandez

November 11, 2007

Jeffrey and the Kettle family will always be in our thoughts and prayers. Thank you all for your service to our country, both on the front lines and on the home front.

Sean DeWinter

November 9, 2007

I was in DC recently and as usual, I make it a point to go to Arlington because unfortunately...I now know several heroes who gave it their all. All I can say is...witnessing the site in which "Kettle" is laid to rest was a sad experience. As I remember him being a really funny guy - some of the humorous things he did came back to me and I ended up walking away with a bit of a smile.

God bless Jeff and his family - especially the little ones

Debbie , Kenny Coffey

October 12, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers out to the KETTLE family,Knowing now what they have always known is one of many reasons that our HEROES shall NEVER be forgotten,Rest well brother that star spangled banner will FOREVER wave,Your name stamped in steel shall FOREVER be clutched in the tallons,And your spirit will FOREVER soar high in the skies in the symbol of our great nation,COME by NORTH--COME by SOUTH--COME by EAST--COME by WEST ,We were all gathered and united on that great day as strangers, And upon those last [4] spoken words we are FOREVER BROTHERS............HU..RA.........SEMPER..FI...........B.V.C.

Brian, Susan, and Katie Brown

September 27, 2007

Our greatest sympathies go out to ALL the Kettle families. Jeff is loved, missed, and thought of everyday.

Misty and Josh Flores

Misty Flores

September 27, 2007

I did not personally know your son but I want to say first off I am so sorry for the loss of your son, (I do unfortuatly know how it feels to bury a child) I thank God for Brave men like your son who stand in the gap for our Country and fight on our behalf. The bible states there is no greater love than this that a man would lay down is life for his friends. What a beautiful gift he has left us all, Freedom....

Once again I am sorry for your loss
The Flores Family

Shannon Latuch

September 27, 2007

I just want to say that I miss him and think of him everyday. I am so sorry for your loss. He will never be forgotten. He was a great and wonderful man and an amazing husband, father and friend.

Blue Star Mothers Mannford Chapter 9

September 26, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Linda Farmer

September 18, 2007

Dear Kettle Family. It was a blessing to sit next to Clayton from Atlanta to Houston on August 15 to retrieve his uniform so that he could escort Jeff to Arlington. I am sorry for your loss. It was obvious how much Clayton loves his family. I pray for you often and would love to hear from you.

Shelley Isaacs

September 12, 2007

As a friend of Brandi's, I am so sorry for her and her children's loss. Jeff will be forever remembered as one of our Country's heroes. May God Bless and give you, Donavan, Logan, and all of the family comfort in this time of sorrow.

Miguel Espinoza

September 10, 2007

To Jeff's family, I served with Kettle while in 2-35 Inf. I just returned from Iraq and was looking forward to talking to him. I found out from a friend.
Jeff was a great soldier and friend. He will always be remembered.

September 10, 2007

I did not know SFC Kettle, but I do know the pain of losing one of these fine heroes. My nephew was KIA on August 4th. They will live on in our hearts forever. Thank you, his family, for your sacrifice.

Sincerely,
Heidi Perry-Hipp
Proud Aunt
Spc. Matthew M. Murchison
KIA August 4, 2007
Baghdad

Sean DeWinter

September 8, 2007

In Vicenza during the late 90's, I knew him as SGT Kettle...I was sad to read of his passing and am sad that the Army lost another good one. More importantly I feel for the family.

Jeff was a great guy and had the best sense of humor...I am laughing like crazy thinking of some of his antics. It is no surprise to me that Jeff went to SF; he was a great soldier -- very technical. Nothing but great things to say and that I am so sorry for the family and their loss.

I will be sure to order a round in his name!

Troy Truxal

September 4, 2007

I also served with SFC Kettle in B co. 2-35. He had a lot to teach, he always had a solution. Never a dull moment, no matter what mood you were in he always made you laugh! A great teacher, a great soldier and a great human being!
I am a better man since I was blessed to have him in my life.

Cody Sherrod

September 3, 2007

I served alongside SFC Kettle while with B 2-35. He was a great leader and friend, we would often talk about Texas and how we missed it. My deepest condolences to his family and friends.

Mandi O'Bannon

August 31, 2007

Hey Jeff, I am glad I got a chance to meet you. You came into our family like it was your own. When Ryan and Chel got married I can remember how happy everyone was that you and Clay got to be there. I know that was the last time all the Kettle brothers were together. I remember the last time I got to see you, it was a year later at Thanksgiving. Man you sure did like moms pie. I know that you will be in our hearts and in our homes forever. We love you and thank you for being out there for us. Now you are still watching out for everyone, just from up above. We'll see you again soon.

Kelly Osborn

August 31, 2007

We thought of you with love today
But that is nothing new.
We thought about you yesterday
And days before that too.

We think of you in silence
We often speak your name.

Now all we have are memories
And your picture in a frame.

Your memory is our keepsake
With which we'll never part

God has you in His keeping
We have you in our Heart.

Author Unknown

Jeff, You were many great things.. a great father, husband, brother, son, friend and leader and you will be missed by so many people. Thank you for your service

Doug Phillips

August 28, 2007

Jeffrey Kettle: I don't know one member of the Kettle family. I live in the Great Northwest part of our country. I learned of this terribly sad loss by sheer happenstance. My heart goes out to the entire Kettle family. Brandie, you are in my prayers. You're far too young a widow. May God's grace be sufficient and sustain you, comfort and eventually, heal each and every person who knew and loved this brave and dedicated soldier. I will continue to pray for each of you.

SFC Joseph McAuliffe

August 27, 2007

I served with Jeffrey in Bravo Company 2/35 Inf in Hawaii, he was my squad leader. A great Soldier and Outstanding Leader. Like other people who have left condolences I to was suprised and taken back when I read the Army Times. May God Bless you Jeff, Rest In Peace. And may God look down upon your family always as I know you will be doing your self. God Speed, TAKE ARMS!

debbi rivers

August 27, 2007

To the parents of Jeffrey, I would like to extend my heart felt sorrow as I know what you are going through and what you will yet go through in the coming weeks. I too am the mother of another fallen soldier and with God's continued support in my life I try to reach out to other who might need the support of someone who has been where you are. I want to offer you the support you may need to contact me anytime so that you may vent, talk or just seek comfort I am here for you. As a Gold Star Mother I've reached out through God's blessings to many across the country and we have a good support group. May God continue to give you and your family the love, comfort and healing that you need. In memory of my son SPC Harry (Buck) Winkler III KIA Samarra, Iraq November 12, 2006

Gale Poindexter

August 27, 2007

I am writing to offer my condolences to you and your family over the loss of your son Sgt 1st Class Jeffrey Kettle. I lost my son in Iraq on May 6/2007, so I can well understand your pain of losing a child.

When things settle down, I recommend that you contact a man named Michael Reagan @
www.michaelgreaganartist.com

He will draw one portrait of the fallen soldier. He does this for free and will draw any picture of your choosing. He has drawn presidents and other celebrities. My husband and I got one and it has helped me with the healing process. Michael is a truly gifted artist that captures the very essence of the person he draws. I look at my picture everyday and it gives me a connection that I cannot explain.

I pray you will be guided by a higher power to give you peace, comfort and strength in this time.

Psalm 34:18
The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit
GOD Bless you and your family. Your son was a true American Hero and we are all very proud of his service.

(Proud mother of Sgt Joel W. Lewis, 5/20, 3-2 SBCT -KIA May 6/07, Baqubah, Iraq)

Kettle Brothers

Ryan Kettle

August 26, 2007

I am jJeff Kettles brother.. I thank you for the listings about Jeff. He was a great man and father. Hes more than a man, hes a true hero to risk all for kin and country. He always respected the fallen heroes and was thankfull of the honor they have been given. He would have been 32 today. Remember always what we have and fight for, never take that for granted...if we falter then it would all be in vain.
Rember the Fallen and God Bless!
Sincely,
Ryan Kettle

anonymous

August 25, 2007

I served with Jeff in Afghanistan and Iraq. One of the best soldiers that I have ever known. And an even better leader and teacher. See you on the other side.

August 24, 2007

Thank you for the sacrifice made by Sgt 1st Class Kettle and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!

Tom Gugliuzza

August 24, 2007

My heartfelt sympathy to the Kettle family in the loss of Jeffrey. I did not know Jeffrey, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Jeffrey you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten. I live close to ARLINGTON NATIONAL CEMETERY and I visit there frequently. Each time I am at ANC I will visit/honor Jeffrey.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom

"To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~

linda kettle, cordova

August 23, 2007

my dearest jeff, i have thought about you and clay everyday since i found out where you two are, clay i pray every night for both of you, you guys have grown to be so brave and give to this life more than anyone should have to. i just want you to know how proud i am to have been your aunt ,,and i pray jesus will always be with you and protect you , my only regret is the time that has past since i have spent time with jeff, and i pray you and i will not let time be lost ,, take care and thank you for the free life you and jeff ,and all men and women have given to me and my family..you both make me proud ,,,i love you and your brothers a great deal ...stay safe,,,aunt linda

Patrick Parker

August 23, 2007

I did not know Jeff but I know he is a hero to his nephew Zachary. I hear his name often in our conversations and my deepest sympathies go out to the Kettle family.

Sean Burton

August 23, 2007

I served alongside (then) SSG Kettle in Afghanistan and more extensively in Iraq, when I was B CO 2/505 and he was in HHC scouts. He had a lot of knowledge and was always willing to share it. My condolences and prayers for his family.
Sgt RS Burton
frmr B Co 2/505 PIR
now IACH MEDDAC
Ft. Riley, KS

Berri Gentry

August 23, 2007

Kettle family-
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time. My fiance Charles Kitowski III was in the truck with Kettle. Just wanted you to know that I'm thinking about you. If you would like to contact me, I'd love to hear from you. I am originally from Oklahoma, so I am up there often.

Carolyn Terry

August 21, 2007

Dear Clayton Kettle and family,

A friend in my Sunday School Class, Linda Farmer, sat next to Clayton on an airplane to Houston, TX. She shared with us Clayton's story about the loss of his brother in service to our country and his heart grieving responsibility of escorting his brother home. My husband and I are praying for God's comfort and grace as you mourn the loss of Jeffrey. We also want to thank your family for your loving sacrifice for our freedom.

Joe and Carolyn Terry

SFC Miguel Ortiz Mercado

August 20, 2007

I served proudly along side of SFC Kettle as a Squad Leader of the same platoon in B Co. 2-35 Inf. I got my copy of the ArmyTimes and soon as I saw his face it hit me, I haven't the words to express what a sad day it is for me. I send my deepest condolences to his family and fellow friends. The world and the Army has truly lost a valueable treasure. SFC Kettle may God have you in his graces and may you save a spot next to you and Jamie Huggins in heaven. There are few men in this world worthy of the title "Great Man" you are one of them.

Rest In Peace my Brother!!

Jeremy Bryan

August 20, 2007

I fought with SFC Kettle in Afghanistan and Iraq. I knew him for about 2 1/2 years. Great solider and leader.
SSG Jeremy W. Bryan
Aco 2/505 PIR
82nd ABN DIV

Jason Humfeld

August 20, 2007

Jeff was a great man, and a great soldier. I only knew him briefly in this life, but my life was forever enriched by him. Both from seeing the love shared between him and his family, and by living in a world that he protected. My Love and Respect to the Kettles.

Gary Allain

August 20, 2007

Sgt. 1st lass Jeffrey Kettle
you are my hero
may god keep you in his arms forever.

Kimberly Carpenter

August 20, 2007

I won't even try to pretend I can express the right words to bring comfort to each family member and friend, but, know you are in my thoughts and my heart aches for you. Ronnie and Cindy, you are amazing parents and there is no doubt at all Jeffrey (as well as Clay and Ryan) knew you loved him and that you were proud of him! And, Brandi, I pray for strength and peace and wisdom for you...particularly in the months ahead. You have the most difficult, yet, most rewarding role now....loving and nurturing those boys who are a part of you and Jeffrey. May the Lord bring you an overwhelming amount of peace, joy, and comfort. We are all so proud of the man Jeffrey was and what he represented.

CPT Ramirez

August 20, 2007

My deepest condolences to the family and friends of SFC Jeffery Kettle. He was one of my best squad leaders I had as a Platoon Leader in Hawaii. He was truely one of the best NCO's I have ever known. SFC Kettle rest in peace and Take Arms!!!

Erica Hernandez

August 19, 2007

I did not know Jeffrey. Sadly, I will never know him or be able to thank him personally for all the sacrifices he made for all of us. You will be remembered Jeffrey. I promise you. Rest in peace dear soldier and God bless your family.

Bobby Anspach

August 19, 2007

I am not sure what to say. Jeff Kettle was my leader. He trained me to become a leader in the military and did one hell of a job at it. When I heard the news about Jeff it hurt. Jeff was not only my leader but so much more. He was a neighbor, a friend, Heck he was a brother.

Rest in peace SFC Kettle. Until we meet again.

Lori Halt

August 19, 2007

My deepest condolences to the family of hero and Sgt. 1st Class Kettle. Brandi, you and the boys are in my prayers. I'm so, so sorry.

VICKIE GARZA

August 19, 2007

JEFF YOU WILL ALWAYS BE IN MY HEART.YOU ARE MY HERO.GOD WANTED YOU HOME WITH HIM..I truly was blessed to have had you as my nephew!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! A job well done soldier... You will never be forgotten.LOVE ALWAYS AUNT VICKIE

Clayton Kettle

August 18, 2007

Jeffrey.....In about a day and a half, I will take the longest flight I have ever taken. I'm coming to escort you to your wife and your mother and your proud family. This will be the most horrible yet the most honorable day I have ever had.
God be with you My Brother, My Hero. I'll be there soon.

My family and I thank you for all your prayers and support during this most tragic time.

SSG Clayton P. Kettle

Mindy Giordano

August 17, 2007

Jeff is a person that had helped my husband get through it all. I thank him for the man he is and will always be in our hearts. I am sorry to all the family and our prayers are with ya'll He is a hero in my book any day.
Ralph & Mindy Giordano

Rich Barton

August 16, 2007

I know your family member Nancy Butler and want to pass on my condolences to your family. I thank you for your service to our country and the sacrifice you made for this great country. Our community hurts for your family and we pray that God blesses them richly.

A. Flores-Causor

August 16, 2007

May God grant you the comfort that he granted us when we lost Spec. Roberto Causor on July 7, 2007 in Samarra, Iraq. Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends. John 15:13

Michael iezzi

August 16, 2007

Father we entrust our brother Jeffrey to your mercy. You loved him greatly in this life: now that he is freed from all its cares, give him happiness and peace forever. Welcome him now into paradise where there will be no more sorrow, no more weeping or pain, but only peace and joy with Jesus your Son, and the Holy Spirit forever and ever.
May God hold Jeffrey in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. My deepest sympathy.

P. Wakeman

August 16, 2007

May God bless your family and give you solace. My family owes Sgt. 1st Class Jeffrey Kettle a huge debt of gratitude, and to you as well. With deepest respect and sincere sympathy,
The proud aunt of Sgt. Dustin Wakeman, kia 8/4/07, Iraq.

August 16, 2007

To the Family and Friends of this Soldier:
I will stand in grief with this soldier's family to honor him. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life, but I promised Brent that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.
We lost our son SFC Brent A. Adams on 12/1/05 and it seems like yesterday. I wish so badly there were things I could say to you right now to make the pain you are feeling go away, but I know first hand there simply are no words that will bring you the comfort and peace your heart aches for. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you go through this tragedy moment by moment and as you mourn this loss.
We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with as our hearts both burst with pride and pain together.
I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally. While they can never be replaced, neither will they ever be forgotten. You must trust that sometime, someday the loving memories you have will help to sustain you and help you go on. This courageous soldier will forever be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well.
To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is your wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever.
If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero.
God Bless this soldier and family who gave all and God Bless legacy.com for setting up this site where families can so quickly share their condolences and prayers with others like themselves.
Proud Parents of SFC Brent A. Adams, KIA, 12/1/05, Ramadi, Iraq
Pam and Bill Adams, Lancaster, PA

Joanne Chubb

August 16, 2007

Our hearts are heavy as we mourn your death. We honor your commitment to freedom and your sacrifice for us all. We know you served with the best of the best. May God Bless you always and all who knew and loved you.

We honor your last full measure of devotion. You will never be forgotten.

In the long and honored history of America
There are names that shine like beacons in the night
The Patriots whose vision gave us meaning
Who kept the lamp of freedom burning bright

In the long and honored history of America
There are those that paid the last and final price
Who were called upon by chance, or desperate circumstance
To make the ultimate sacrifice

A grateful nation bows its head in sorrow
And in thanks for guaranteeing our tomorrow
The last full measure of devotion
That's what they gave to the cause

The last full measure of devotion
And though they cannot hear our applause
We honor them forever and keep alive their story
Pay tribute to their lives and give them all the glory

The last full measure of devotion
Beyond the call of duty were their deeds
The last full measure of devotion
They gave themselves to serve the greater need

And for those who did survive
And came back home alive
They join in praise of comrades who were slain
And highly resolved, most highly resolved
That these dead shall not have died in vain

I am a Proud Military Mom of 3 Men-2 Army, 1 Navy

etta grimes

August 16, 2007

dear Brandi i wnat to let you know how sorry i am for your loss i know you had a wonderful husband may the wonderful memories you two had together bring you comfort at this time the Bible can also give you comfort because at John 5:28&29 it tells us that all those in God's memory will be brought back to life then there will be no more sickness or death or war

Brandi Kettle

August 15, 2007

"Those who have long enjoyed such privileges as we enjoy, forget in time that men have died to win them." (Franklin D. Roosevelt)

Thanks to all of you for your prayers & thoughts. I was very lucky to have such a wonderful man to be my husband.

Linda Clifton

August 15, 2007

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Carol Cline

August 15, 2007

Sgt. 1st Class Jeffrey Kettle & Family:

Know in your heart that you are a true hero and will never be forgotten. All gave some, some gave all. Rest in peace. You will be missed by everyone’s life you have touched.

To the family, as the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family, friends, and all Americans for the sacrifice of one of your family members for our freedom. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May you find comfort in the loving embrace of our Heavenly Father.

Renee Owens

August 15, 2007

Please accept my deepest sympathy for the loss of your Hero, and my sincerest gratitude for his service. The great state of Texas is mourning the loss of another of it's sons. May God grant you peace and strength.

The Land of the Free, Because of the Brave

Aunt of a Hero
PFC Chase Edwards, USMC
KIA 06Apr2006

Sandy Bonesteel

August 15, 2007

As the mother of a son who is deployed, I want to send my condolences. Please know that there are many, many people who grieve with you.

Michele Kettle

August 15, 2007

Jeff, it's me..Chel. I came across this by google'n your name. You really are amazing...you always have been. I was honored to become your sister in this world. So many memories you left with us. Thank you so much for opening your life to us..you will always be remembered, never forgotten. Your battle is over, may you rest in peace forever and ever. Thank you Jeff. Thank you so much.

valorie

August 14, 2007

My prayers and thoughts are with you.
I know how you feel losing a "HERO",Becoming a "Gold Star" Mother myself on 25 March.. The sacrafice our sons and daughters are making on a daily basis should tell us all..These young HEROS knew full well what they were doing and did it proudly When you hug your loved ones tonight.... Remember... We also hugged ours and now they are protecting you..We.. as Americans need to make the "Ultimate Sacrafice" by supporting all our military(HEROS)...the Proud Mom of SGT. Jason W. Swiger
5th Squadron, 73rd Cavalry Regiment, 3rd Brigade Combat Team, 82nd Airborne,Fort Bragg, N.C. KIA 3/25/007

ROBYN GARSIDE

August 14, 2007

MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. PLEASE ACCEPT MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES FOR YOUR GREAT LOSS. KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. GODSPEED AND SEMPER FI.

A PROUD MARINE MOM

SHIRLEY DONEY

August 14, 2007

REST IN PEACE JEFFREY,TO YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS MAY THE MEMORIES OF THIS WONDERFUL SOLDIERS LIFE FILL YOUR HEARTS WITH BEAUTIFUL MEMORIES
GOD BLESS YOU

Emily

August 14, 2007

My heart is with you as someone who has also lost someone very dear to me, to this war. There is nothing I can say to make you feel better, but my thoughts and prayers are with you all. May you find comfort in knowing that people out here do care, and are thinking of you, and praying for you. Peace be with you.

Garnet Jenkins

August 14, 2007

The price Sgt. 1st Class Jeffrey Kettle and his family have paid for this country and for freedom, Will Never Be Forgotten. Please know how Deeply Sorry I am to learn of the loss of this Brave Young Soldier.

May Jeffrey rest safely now, in the Loving Care of God and may the Grace and Comfort of the Lord be with the Kettle family.
There will Never Be Enough Ways to Humbly Thank these Young Heroes for their Sacrifices, my brother among them. Killed in action in Vietnam in 1967.

"I consider that our present sufferings.
are not worth comparing with the glory
that shall be revealed in us."
~ Romans 8:18 ~

May you find Peace in knowing the love and memories you have, will remain in your heart forever and that this Country Will Not Forget the Sacrifice Jeffrey made.
You are in my thoughts and prayers.

August 14, 2007

There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.

Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.

I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.

REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!

PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)

Julie Ward

August 13, 2007

I thank you for allowing your son, brother, and friend to serve our country and honorably give his life for our freedom. I cried as I saw the news tonight, my heart going out to each person that his life touched.

My extended church family just buried our brother and friend, CPL Jaron D. Holliday today, so you see that I feel some of the pain that you feel. I pray that you will be as cared for as my dear friends, John & Kelly.

I pray that you will find comfort through Jesus Christ, knowing that your son gave of himself just as Christ did on the cross. God bless you.

A grieving friend,
a grieving American,

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