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This obituary was originally published in the Star Tribune.
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Craig Morrison
November 27, 2018
I decided instead of posting on the anniversary of you being taken away from us that I would rather honor the last day that we spoke. It was only a brief conversation on the phone about accountability of your Soldiers, but I remember you asking how I was doing and somehow making me laugh. You were a great man John. I may not think about you everyday, but I do think of you often. RIP Brother!
Rick Buroker
November 10, 2018
Hard to believe it has been 11 years. You are never forgotten John. Every time I open a bag of skittles, i can help but giggle. RIP brother.
Steve Graves
November 29, 2017
John, it's been 10 years, hard to believe. Taken to early in defense of our great nation. Rest in Peace Brother! Never forget!!
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Craig Morrison
November 28, 2017
10 years. I still remember it as if it were yesterday. The terrible news. You were taken from us. RIP Battle. RIP Brother.
November 20, 2017
I would like to inform the loved ones that John is being honored on the Middle East Conflicts Wall Memorial. For more information please visit www.middleeastconflictswall.org
Charlie Gili
April 26, 2017
Hello,
We would like to express our deepest condolences and also let the Tobiason Family and friends know that we will be sending Care Packages to deployed troops this week and we'll be dedicating several of these to your loved one. Each package will carry the name, photo and the hometown of John J. Tobiason US Army Sergeant 1st Class. We realize that this is a small tribute, but we do this with all respect and sincerity and we want you to know that it is made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals from across the American youth hockey community. We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you safe and strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of the US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign
Jill
April 24, 2016
SFC Tobi,
I am tearfully thinking of you today. I am sad because you are gone but so very happy and thankful that God blessed me to meet you. You were truly an Angel on earth.
Craig Morrison
November 28, 2015
Eight years now John. Miss you Battle. RIP.
Dante Cummings
May 24, 2015
RIP
SFC Baxter
May 23, 2015
Wow...it's been 7 years since I received the tragic news of your death.. I miss you so much Tobi Wan! You were an awesome battle and best friend any one could have ever asked for! I miss your hugs, even though you always burned me with your cigarette.. Lol! I miss you, your in my thoughts every day. You will never be forgotten!! Take care bro and rest in peace!! Love you!
Craig Morrison
February 3, 2015
John, CSM Livengood has made his way to your AO. Make sure to call "AT EASE" when he gets there. Miss you Battle! May both of you Rest In Peace.
October 18, 2014
I will always remember our conversation after you were promoted. Asking me how you should act as a SFC. I responded "keep doing what you do each and everyday". "That is the reason why they promoted you"
SFC Dante Cummings
Craig Morrison
May 26, 2014
John, I always find it hard to put my thoughts into words, so bear with me. You gave everything that day so that all of us could live the rest of our lives free. For that, I can never thank you enough. I can guarantee it that I will never forget you or your sacrifice. Miss you Brother. R.I.P. Battle.
Polly Papsadore
May 26, 2014
To the family of Army Sgt. 1st Class John Tobiason on Memorial Day 2014:
My 13 year old son and I travelled to Long Island, NY this weekend to volunteer and run in the 7th annual US Marine Corps Cpl Christopher G. Scherer "I Did the Grid" 4 Mile Run on May 24 in East Northport, NY. This run is in honor of Cpl Christopher Scherer who was KIA in Operation Iraqi Freedom on July 21, 2007 and all the fallen who served in the Iraq and Afghanistan wars. Each runner has four names of fallen service members on their bibs. We were asked to think about and pray for each fallen hero for one of the four miles of the run. SFC Tobiason's name and service information were on my son's bib. It was a privilege to run in his honor. SFC Tobiason is in our hearts and prayers this Memorial Day. God bless. Sincerely, Polly Papsadore
April 3, 2014
Always remembering Toby
Craig Morrison
December 12, 2013
You will never be forgotten John. I hope I have touched the lives of the people I have met the way you have with me. Miss you Brother.
Peter Stevens
December 12, 2013
I was thinking of you John. It has been a long time. I will never forget your laugh as long as I live. You live through others and will not be lost to time. You are a true hero and I am glad to have called you my friend. I miss you and I will see you again some day my brother!
November 30, 2013
Time passes but the memories are still close in mind.
Toby will never be forgotten.
His service to our country, our hero,was the best memory.
Jill Williams
November 28, 2013
Hi SFC Tobi,
I called your mother this past September and we had a beautiful time sharing about you. I know this is what you would have wanted and I am truly honored to have paid my respects to your mother. She is a pillar of strength and is very loving, warm, honest and open.
Your mother and family love you very much. I will ALWAYS remember you with the upmost respect and will NEVER forget your dedication and love for our country. You are my friend forever.
Your friend,
SGT Jill Williams
4/25Th INF BDE
Fort Richardson, Alaska
Steven Graves
November 28, 2013
Thinking of you John!
SFC Graves / Task Force Bronco
Craig Morrison
September 13, 2013
You will never be forgotten Battle.
September 12, 2013
Thank you for your service to our country. We have not forgotten.
Leila Campbell
August 21, 2013
To the family of Sgt. 1st Class John J. Tobiason:
As you may know, the Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation has honored your loved one at its Memorial Day Sunday worship service (each year in May) … since the time of your fallen hero's ultimate sacrifice. We will continue to pay tribute to our nation's veterans … lest we ever forget!
Now we would like to honor you … as the next-of-kin … who have also paid a great price on the altar of liberty. On Sunday 29 September at 11:00 a.m. we will host a Gold Star Family Sunday.
I would like to extend to your family an invitation to honor us with your presence at worship … as we pay tribute to your sacrifice. Our pastor, U.S. Army Chaplain (Colonel-Retired) Kenneth L. Beale, Jr., will preach a message entitled, “By Dying, We Live.” The special music will be the husband/wife vocal/piano — Wickman Duo. Following the worship experience, your family is invited to attend a social time in our Fellowship Hall … with some light refreshments.
As this historic chapel has limited seating, we would be happy to reserve seating for you and yours. To do so, kindly call (651/286-7296) and leave a voice message indicating your veterans' name and the number of persons attending. For more information about the Foundation or driving directions to the historic chapel at Fort Snelling, visit our website at: www.fortsnellingmcf.org
If you are not able to attend, we pray that you would find comfort in knowing that our prayers are with you and all of the fallen heroes.
Respectfully,
Leila Campbell
Office Manager
Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation
email:[email protected]
Grayson
May 28, 2013
You are missed by all and always remembered for the many great times spent together,
You had a great way of keeping the smiles going !!!!
A true hero, freedom is not free !!!
our motto !!!
Craig Morrison
May 27, 2013
Your sacrifice will never be forgotten John. Miss you brother. RIP.
Leila Campbell
May 4, 2013
To the family of Sgt. 1st Class John J. Tobiason:
The Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation will be honoring your loved one at the non-denominational Christian Memorial Day Remembrance worship service at 11:00 a.m. on Sunday, 26 May 2013. We will remember the casualties of the Global War on Terrorism from Minnesota … and the bordering states of Iowa, North Dakota, South Dakota and Wisconsin. Outside of the historic Fort Snelling Veterans Memorial Chapel will be a “Memorial Garden” filled with some 300 white crosses bearing the names of the war dead … including your loved one.
The Memorial Garden will be encircled with larger white crosses representing all of the wars of our nation's history and give honor to all who have served in the United States Armed Forces and made the ultimate sacrifice for the freedoms we enjoy today. Wreaths will be placed at the foot of each 8-foot cross bearing the number of U.S. Service Members killed in each of America's conflicts.
I would like to extend to your family an invitation to honor us with your presence at worship as we pay tribute to the sacrifice made by your service member and family. Our pastor, Kenneth L. Beale, Jr., will preach a message entitled, “Freedom:Free, but Costly.” At the conclusion of the worship hour, all of the congregation will be invited to silently pay their respects at the garden and there place poppies at each of the crosses. A Memorial Rifle Squad of the Fort Snelling National Cemetery will fire vollies as the US flag is lowered to half-staff and Taps is played. Following your visit to the Memorial Garden, your family is invited to attend an informal reception (weather permitting) outside of the Chapel. The Memorial Garden will remain until 5:00 p.m. on Monday, 27 May (Memorial Day).
As this Christian worship service has traditionally been well attended, we would be happy to reserve seating for you and yours. To do so, kindly call (651/286-7296) and leave a voice message indicating your veterans' name and the number of persons attending. For more information about the Foundation or driving directions to the historic chapel at Fort Snelling, visit our website at: www.fortsnellingmcf.org Special rates for nearby hotels will be available. For more information call (651/286-7296) or email the office ([email protected]) and leave your name and contact information.
Also, beginning at dusk (8:30 p.m.) on Saturday 25 May through dawn (6:30 a.m.) on Sunday, 26 May, a “Prayer Vigil for Peace” will be held in the sanctuary of the Chapel. You are invited to stop by, light a candle and place it at the foot of your loved one's cross in the Memorial Garden … and then enter the Chapel for prayer.
If you are not able to attend, we pray that you would find comfort in knowing that our prayers are with you and all of the fallen heroes.
Respectfully,
Leila Campbell
Office Manager
Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation
email:[email protected]
web site:www.fortsnellingmcf.org
Ami
February 9, 2013
Missing you... Five years but not a week goes by that I don't think about you...
February 6, 2013
not sure of the German message, but we will always remember you and your hot dogs and fishing at the cabin. Jane Gordner
Jörg Bökle
February 5, 2013
Hallo mein Bruder just in diesem Moment höre ich Metallica und denke drüber nach wie ich unserem Sohn einen Concert Besuch bescheren kann, woher auch immer der hang zu der Musik kommt (HAHA that was a joke) nach wie vor frägt er nach Dir wer Du warst und warum wir so innig verbunden sind. auch er wird erwachsen und seinen weg gehen und irgendwann verstehen was uns verbindet. lass es dir gut gehen wir sehen uns wieder da bin ich mir ganz sicher.
Jörg the Lumberjack
Jim
November 28, 2012
Not a day goes by without the thought my brother. So proud.
November 28, 2012
Thinking of you still John
Craig Morrison
November 27, 2012
John, I can't believe that it has been five years. 28 November 2007, you gave the ultimate sacrifice for your country. I will never forget you. I miss you John. RIP.
David Hall
May 26, 2012
Will be thinking of you this weekend John...actually been thinking of you all week...and think of you often throughout the year(s). All gave some, some gave all. Thank you for your sacrifice! It will never be forgotten.
Craig Morrison
May 25, 2012
Sorry it has been awhile John. I always find it hard to put my thoughts into words, so bear with me. This weekend is for you and for everyone who has paid the ultimate sacrifice for their country. For many, it is just a three or four day weekend. I, myself, am guilty of saying "Woohoo, a three-day weekend!" Like many others, I forgot what it is really about. Remembrance. Honoring you and the countless others. I will never forget you John, and I am sure there are many others who won't as well. RIP John.
April 20, 2012
To the family of Sgt. 1st Class John J. Tobiason:
The Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation will be honoring your loved one at the non-denominational Christian Memorial Day Remembrance worship service at 11:00 a.m. on Sunday 27 May 2012. We will remember the casualties of the Global War on Terrorism from Minnesota … and the bordering states of Iowa, North Dakota, South Dakota and Wisconsin. Outside of the historic Fort Snelling Veterans Memorial Chapel will be a “Memorial Garden” filled with some 300 white crosses bearing the names of the war dead … including your loved one.
The Memorial Garden will be encircled with larger white crosses representing all of the wars of our nation's history and give honor to all who have served the United States and made the ultimate sacrifice for the freedoms we enjoy today. Wreaths will be placed at the foot of each cross bearing the number of U.S. Service Members killed in each of America's conflicts.
I would like to extend to your family an invitation to honor us with your presence at worship as we pay tribute to the sacrifice made by your service member and family. Our pastor, U.S. Army Chaplain Col. Kenneth L. Beale, Jr., will preach a message entitled, “Lest We Forget Freedom's Cost.” At the conclusion of the worship hour, all of the congregation will be invited to silently pay their respects at the garden and place poppies at each of the crosses. A Memorial Rifle Squad of the Fort Snelling National Cemetery will fire vollies as the US flag is lowered to half-staff and Taps is played. Following your visit to the Memorial Garden, your family is invited to attend an informal reception (weather permitting) outside of the Chapel.
As this Christian worship service has traditionally been well attended, we would be happy to reserve seating for you and yours. To do so, kindly call (651/456-4410) and leave a voice message indicating your veterans' name and the number of persons attending. For more information about the Foundation or driving directions to the historic chapel at Fort Snelling, visit our website at: www.fortsnellingmcf.org Special rates for nearby hotels will be available. For more information call (651/456-4410) or email ([email protected]) the office, and leave your name and contact information.
Also, beginning at dusk (8:30 p.m.) on Saturday 26 May through dawn (6:30 a.m.) on Sunday 27 May, a “Prayer Vigil for Peace” will be held in the sanctuary of the Chapel. You are invited to stop by, light a candle and place it at the foot of your loved one's cross in the Memorial Garden … and then enter the Chapel for prayer.
If you are not able to attend, we pray that you would find comfort in knowing that our prayers are with you and all of the fallen heroes.
Respectfully,
Leila Campbell
Office Manager
Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation
email:[email protected]
web site:www.fortsnellingmcf.org
Daniel Reeve
February 20, 2012
This past weekend, at the Joe Val Bluegrass Festival in Framingham, MA, I gathered some veterans and others. We played a song and drank a toast to John. You are not forgotten.
Peggy Childers
November 28, 2011
To the family and friends of Sgt. 1st Class John J. Tobiason:
Please accept my remembrance of John on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Craig Morrison
November 28, 2011
John, I can't believe it has been four years. I miss you John. I know that there are many many more who do as well. You will never be forgotten. RIP John.
David Hall
June 15, 2011
John...it's been awhile, I should have written sooner. Just wanted to let you know CSM Livengood put me in charge of the Honor Guard for your memorial service we had for you at Camp Liberty. Your 21 gun salute went off without a hitch, the guys were sharp and all in sync. I think they made you proud. I know you would not have wanted me to but "tough ole SFC Hall" cried during your memorial service. I hope you don't think me any less of a man. I was saddened by the loss of you. I am glad I got to know you. Thank you for your service, your friendship and your sacrifice. You will never be forgotten...I will never forget you.
Ken Tschimperle
May 12, 2011
Toby... Another summer is here. It is makes think how fun it would have been to grab a cold beer some where together 27 years later after we left High School. Well buddy Osama got his, We lost you, but your service will never be foggotten.
May 11, 2011
To the family of Sgt 1st Class John J Tobiason:
The Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation will be honoring your loved one at the non-denominational Memorial Day Sunday worship service at 11:00 a.m. on 29 May 2011. We will remember the casualties of the Global War on Terrorism from Minnesota … and the neighboring states of Iowa, North Dakota, South Dakota and Wisconsin. Outside of the historic Fort Snelling Veterans Memorial Chapel will be a “Memorial Garden” filled with some 200 white crosses bearing the names of the war dead … including your loved one. The Memorial Garden’s perimeter will be manned by members of the Patriot Guard and a honor guard from AMVETS Post #1 of Mendota will be posted at the entrance.
The Memorial Garden will be encircled with larger white crosses representing all of the wars in United States history and give honor to all who have served their country and made the ultimate sacrifice for the freedoms we enjoy today. Wreaths will be placed at the foot of each cross bearing the number of U.S. Service Members killed in each of our nation’s wars.
I would like to extend to your family an invitation to honor us with your presence at worship as we pay tribute to the sacrifice made by your service member and family. Our pastor, U.S. Army Chaplain Col. Kenneth L. Beale, Jr., will preach a message entitled, “A Believer’s Look at War.” At the conclusion of the worship hour, all of the congregation will be invited to silently pay their respects at the garden and place poppies at each of the crosses. A Memorial Rifle Squad of Fort Snelling National Cemetery will fire vollies as the US flag is lowered to half-staff and Taps is played. Following your visit to the memorial garden, your family is invited to attend an informal reception (weather permitting) outside of the Chapel.
As this Christian worship service has traditionally been well attended, we would be happy to reserve seating for you and yours. To do so, kindly call (651/456-4410) and leave a voice message indicating your veterans’ name and the number of persons attending. For more information about the Foundation or driving directions to the historic chapel at Fort Snelling, visit our website at: www.fortsnellingmcf.org Special rates for nearby hotels will be available. For more information call (651/456-4410) or email ([email protected]) the office and leave your name and contact information.
Also, beginning at dusk (8:30 p.m.) on Sat 28 May through dawn (6:30 a.m.) on Sun 29 May, a “Prayer Vigil for Peace” will be held in the sanctuary of the Chapel. You are invited to stop by, light a candle and place it at the foot of your loved one’s cross in the Memorial Garden … and then enter the Chapel for prayer.
If you are not able to attend, we pray that you would find comfort in knowing that our prayers are with you and all of the fallen heroes.
Respectfully,
Leila Campbell
Office Manager
Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation
email:[email protected]
web site:www.fortsnellingmcf.org
SFC Richards
February 17, 2011
Thinking of you Battle, you are truly missed.
J Seabloom
December 15, 2010
The Spirit Soars!
Danny Wilson
November 29, 2010
Special people have an impact on your life forever. I think that SFC Tobiason is in Heaven looking down at us. I am a better person for having known him.
Craig Morrison
November 29, 2010
I can't believe it has been three years now. It just shows how much of an impact you had on my life, and I only knew you for a year. I can't imagine how it is for the people who knew you their whole lives. You will never be forgotten John. RIP
Peggy Childers
November 28, 2010
To the family and friends of Sgt. 1st Class John J. Tobiason:
Remembering John on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
August 29, 2010
To the Tobiason family:
May the comfort from family and friends continue to strengthen you, and may you find comfort in the words found in the Holy Scriptures: "And he will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away."
CPT E. Branch
July 22, 2010
John
My name is Branch, but on 28 November, 2007, I was 2LT Sinnott. I was there that night and for years I've carried such painful memories of what I saw and what I wasn't able to do. I wish I could've helped more, I hope you knew I was by your side and that I cared. I'm so sorry I haven't been able to face you or your family and that I've tried to forget because of how much it hurt to see someone wearing the same uniform I do slipping away. I didn't know you but because you and I wear the same uniform, I loved you like my brother. I wish your family all the peace and healing they deserve, and after reading the guest book, I sincerely wish I could've known you better; sounds like you were a great guy.
Craig Morrison
May 31, 2010
Even though I only knew you a short time, I miss you John. I will have a double cheeseburger just for you today.
TSgt Daniel Reeve
May 29, 2010
I worked with him in Baghdad. I didn't know him before then, but I will never forget him. I was at his ramp ceremony. We were all in shock. He was a good man.
April 28, 2010
To the family of Sgt. 1st Class John J. Tobiason:
The Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation will be honoring your loved one at the non-denominational Memorial Day Sunday worship service at 11:00 a.m. on 30 May 2010. We will remember the casualties of the Global War on Terrorism from Minnesota … and the neighboring states of Iowa, North Dakota, South Dakota and Wisconsin. Outside of the historic Fort Snelling Veterans Memorial Chapel will be a “Memorial Garden” filled with white crosses bearing the names of the war dead … including your loved one.
The Memorial Garden will be encircled with larger white crosses to represent all of the wars in United States history and give honor to all who have served their country and made the ultimate sacrifice for the freedoms we enjoy today.
I would like to extend to your family an invitation to honor us with your presence at worship as we pay tribute to the sacrifice made by your service member and family. Our pastor, U.S. Army Chaplain Col. Kenneth L. Beale, Jr., will preach a message entitled “A Day of Remembrance.” At the conclusion of the worship hour, all of the congregation will be invited to silently pay their respects at the garden and place poppies at each of the crosses. An honor guard squad will be on hand to fire vollies as the US flag is lowered to half-staff and Taps is played. Following your visit to the memorial garden, your family is invited to attend an informal reception; weather permitting will be outside of the Chapel.
As this Christian worship service has traditionally been well attended, we would be happy to reserve seating for you and yours. To do so, kindly call (612/970-7866) and leave a voice message indicating your veterans’ name and the number of persons attending. For more information about the Foundation or driving directions to the historic chapel at Fort Snelling, visit our website at: www.fortsnellingmcf.org Special rates for nearby hotels will be available. For more information call (612/970-7866) or email ([email protected]) the office and leave your name and contact information.
Also, beginning at dusk (8:30 p.m.) on Sat 29 May through dawn (6:30 a.m.) on Sun 30 May, a “Prayer Vigil for Peace” will be held in the sanctuary of the Chapel. You are invited to stop by, light a candle and place it at the foot of your loved one’s cross in the Memorial Garden … and then enter the Chapel for prayer.
If you are not able to attend, we pray that you would find comfort in knowing that our prayers are with you and all of the fallen heroes.
Respectfully,
Leila Campbell
Office Manager
Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation
email:[email protected]
web site:www.fortsnellingmcf.org
Kenna
January 6, 2010
Dear Family;
Project Compassion is a 501(c)3 nonprofit organization. Artist, founder and President; Kaziah Hancock will be coming to Minnesota in a few months, approximately March 2010. She has been asked by one of your local media agencies to attend an event to honor our Country and the State of Minnesota’s fallen soldiers/heroes. We would be truly honored for the opportunity to paint a portrait of your hero to present it to you and your family. If you have already received a portrait of your hero from us, please keep in mind that we have been approved by our sponsors to paint a second portrait of each soldier as long as it is requested in behalf of the heroes Mother, Father and/or spouse. We only paint these 100% free to the families because of our sponsors. Please visit www.heropaintings.com or contact me directly at [email protected]. We would be truly honored to have a chance to learn more about each of these fine soldiers, our modern day heroes!
Very sincerely,
Kenna
Project Compassion
Craig Morrison
November 29, 2009
I can't believe it has been two years. You will never be forgotten John.
to my uncle.
October 6, 2009
Jörg Bökle
June 16, 2009
Dear John,
I never found Words for wat I lost
There is no day without a Thought of our deep alliance
You know you´ve been like a Brother for me
Take Care of you, wherever you are
I Love You, be sure we are together
Jörg
Susan D. Wiseman - " The Tribute Lady "
June 9, 2009
My deepest condolences in the loss of this HERO!
My heart just breaks to sign yet another guestbook for a fallen HERO.
I am the mom of a wounded soldier, and, I lost a cousin in Vietnam, so I know your pain.
I'd like to extend my condolences & prayers, through song...for John, my deep appreciation for his life, service & sacrifice.
Below are the lyrics to a song inspired by the loss of another John, our son's comrade in IRAQ, CPL. John Paul Barta, KIA - Dec. 23, 2006.
All my music is free, and, may something you hear be a blessing to you & bring you some comfort.
May God hold John in His loving arms, forever, and, may He keep you in His tender care until you meet again.
In Christ,
Susan D. Wiseman - " The Tribute Lady "
www.ItIsTheSoldier.com
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" The Last Goodbye " - ('Bye John)
"Hello" soldier ... "No son, you don't know my name."
I just wanted to say ... "THANK YOU"... and,
"Welcome Home"... from where you've been.
I just met your lovely wife, John
And, son ... You have a real nice ... family.
All your friends been telling stories, John
But, I'm sure ... you've been listening.
Men like you are special, John
A cut above ... the rest.
A HERO ... in ALL our eyes,
You go on home now, son ... get some rest.
( Spoken Prayer )
Not another soldier, Lord ... Please God,
Not another one.
Not another mother or father, sister or brother, husband or wife,
Please, God ... not another ... mother's son.
Let this be ... " The Last Goodbye "
Please, Lord
Not another one.
( Chorus )
Not another soldier, Lord
Not another one.
Let this be ... " The Last Goodbye "
Not another mother's son.
Please, God
Not another one ...
( Musical Interlude )
' Bye John
( Spoken Prayer in Heaven )
( Heavenly Music Interlude followed by Piano INSTRUMENTAL )
'Bye John.
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Craig Morrison
May 25, 2009
I worked with John in Iraq for a little more than six months. With his help, I was promoted to Sergeant during our deployment together. He helped me study for the promotion board whenever there was any free time. We used to go to lunch and dinner together every day. I remember he used to love to eat double cheeseburgers and french fries. He usually would have two for each meal. We would also do the crossword puzzle in Stars and Stripes together every day as well. We became very good friends over the course of our deployment. I am so sorry for your loss.
April 29, 2009
To the family of SFC John J. Tobiason:
I am so sorry to hear of your loss, and mine. Two nights ago while listening to some music on my computer, the song 'Winds of Change' came on and I decided to search for the person that was my roomate and runnin partner when that song was first released. It was so difficult to read the Yahoo search results.
Toby and I had so many good times, and I wish I had kept up with him. Ive read the entire Guest Book, and it seems as though nothing changed with who he was and what he was all about. I couldnt turn to my wife to let her know that Toby had passed, because I lost her this past December. She knew him and liked him as much as all the rest of us did.
My fellow cooks in the 72d Signal Battalion made what is considered one of the most painful jobs in the Army a joy, and I guarantee you that everyone who worked with him there would be just as saddened from this news as I am. Everyone enjoyed being around him, whether in a club or waking at 0 dark 30 in the field so we could get breakfast cooked before the rest of the troops came to eat at 0600.
Toby and I served together from early 1988 until I PCSd in March 1990. Ill always remember him, and regret not being able to talk with him, just one more time.
CW4 James R. Tinnon
Leila Campbell
April 22, 2009
To the family of Sgt. 1st Class John J. Tobiason:
The Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation will be honoring your loved one at the non-denominational Memorial Day Sunday worship service at 11:00 a.m. on 24 May 2009. We will remember the casualties of the Global War on Terrorism from Minnesota … and the neighboring states of Iowa, North Dakota, South Dakota and Wisconsin. Outside of the historic Fort Snelling Veterans Memorial Chapel will be a “Memorial Garden” filled with white crosses bearing the names of the war dead … including your loved one.
I would like to extend to your family an invitation to honor us with your presence at worship as we pay tribute to the sacrifice made by your service member and family. Our pastor, U.S. Army Chaplain Col. Kenneth L. Beale, Jr., will preach a message entitled “Answering the Highest Call.” At the conclusion of the worship hour, all of the congregation will be invited to silently pay their respects at the garden and place poppies at each of the crosses. An honor guard squad will be on hand to fire vollies as the US flag is lowered to half-staff and Taps is played. Following your visit to the memorial garden, your family is invited to attend an informal reception in the Chapel’s Fellowship Hall.
As this Christian worship service has traditionally been well attended, we would be happy to reserve seating for you and yours. To do so, kindly call (612/970-7866) and leave a voice message indicating your veterans’ name and the number of persons attending. For more information about the Foundation or driving directions to the historic chapel at Fort Snelling, visit our website at: www.fortsnellingmcf.org Special rates for nearby hotels will be available. For more information call (612/970-7866) or email ([email protected]) the office and leave your name and contact information.
Also, beginning at dusk (8:30 p.m.) on Sat 23 May through dawn (6:30 a.m.) on Sun 24 May, a “Prayer Vigil for Peace” will be held in the sanctuary of the Chapel. You are invited to stop by, light a candle and place it at the foot of your loved one’s cross in the Memorial Garden … and then enter the Chapel for prayer.
If you are not able to attend, we pray that you would find comfort in knowing that our prayers are with you and all of the fallen heroes.
Respectfully,
Leila Campbell
Office Manager
Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation
email:[email protected]
web site:www.fortsnellingmcf.org
Rebecca Anderson
March 1, 2009
I miss opening the door on the weekends when he came back to the U.S and welcoming him in with a big hug, I miss his insulting remarks and his sarcastic attitude (Because that was our silly relationship, our friendship), I miss baking cookies with my Mother and Sister and sending it too him and the troops he was with, I miss listening to him and my Father play music (John was insane on the drums) but most of all, I just miss John.
Sometimes, I keep forgeting he isn't alive anymore.
...
And that makes it a hundred times more painful.
Who am I going to speak German with now?
---
...I never did say goodbye.
SSG Steven Graves
January 17, 2009
I worked with John in Iraq and knew him well. I was tasked with building his memorial for the Chapel as well as the Battalion HQ memorial. He will be forever remembered by all Soldiers who enter that building on pad 11 at Camp Liberty and by the Soldiers of the 15th PSB. Please accept my deepest sympathies. Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
SSG Steven Graves
January 17, 2009
I worked with John in Iraq and knew him well. I was tasked with building his memorial for the Chapel as well as the Battalion HQ memorial. He will be forever remembered by all Soldiers who enter that building on pad 11 at Camp Liberty and by the Soldiers of the 15th PSB. Please accept my deepest sympathies. Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
T Starman
January 17, 2009
I offer my deepest condolences for your loss
CJ
December 31, 2008
Here we are at the end of another year. My heart still is heavy with the loss of a dear friend who always made me smile and be !!
Toby was my forever buddy who is with me as I am....everyday..
He loved his military life and was a very dedicated soldier to all those he served. His willingness to go the extra mile for anyone in his care was such a great trait he had. Never putting himself first in any action there was to handle.
May his family know that there will be many memories of yours and my HERO talked of always!!! Never to be forgotten....
Toby is resting now and is enjoying the peace and freedom that he so willingly sought for all of us in the USA.
Drum on Bro...
Soldiers Angels
December 7, 2008
A year has passed now for this HERO!
We are praying that his family and friends are able to continue the journey set before them on this earth and can feel their loved ones inner most self within them.
Life is an unknown adventure and we must remember that the ending will be a glorious one, joining together with all who have gone before us in our eternal home!
Gods blessings to all of you.
We hold you forever in our hearts and Thank SFC John J Tobiason for the support and sacrifice that he gave the United States of America so that we can continue to live in Peace
Kenna Larra
December 6, 2008
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Sincerely,
Kenna
In Memory of John ~ (Debra Estep)
December 3, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know John, but I am remembering
his service and sacrifice. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
The Other Side –
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Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
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Jolene Henning
November 30, 2008
There are so many days that go by that I often find myself thinking about John and all of the good times we had together. You will never be forgotten John! I'm sure you are making everyone laugh up in heaven.
Jolene Henning
Battle Buddies
November 29, 2008
Tobi, you are missed by so many. We gather and remember.
You were our SKITTLE King !!
we won't let go of this ever.....
You walk by our side, every step of the way we are going....just stay in step with us too...one day we;ll gather in the Army up there with you
Jill Williams
November 29, 2008
On 28 November 2007, I was devastated and shocked at the news of SFC Tobiason's death. I had helped him get started on a project he was working on just two days prior (on 26 November 2007). In the eight months I knew and worked with him, I learned: that he was so proud of serving his beloved country and it was as though he felt this was his life's mission. He loved his family so much and spoke of them quite often. He loved his hometown and his 100 year old home. He used to tell me of how he would retire from the army and live a simple life in the woods. He had a genuine care and love for people and one of the best ways he expressed this was by hugging. SFC Tobi knew that there is an unspoken assurance and comfort that comes with a hug and this was his gift from God. Anyone who knew him for any period of time, know this is true. You see, I thought I had lost a friend forever. I was wrong... through reading all the heartfelt entries in this guest book, I have learned so much more about his life and the positive impact and fond memories others have of him. He is even more wonderful than I could have imagined. Please keep his memory alive by continuing to add entries and pics here. I know SFC Tobi would also ask that we keep the memories of all our fallen heroes alive. To the mother of SFC Tobiason and his two remaining siblings, job well done! Your Angel was well prepped for his mission by your love and caring and everything he experienced in his life. I will never forget!
"Lest we forget"
LTC Angela M. Odom
November 28, 2008
SFC Tobiason served honorably and proudly in my former unit, the 15th Personnel Services Battalion, while in Iraq. Thoughts of our interaction are forever imprinted in my heart and on my mind. Our last conversation was about the holiday season, his reenlistment ceremony, and our upcoming redeployment. His life mattered. He made a difference. He will never be forgotten. From The Heart,
Peggy Childers
November 27, 2008
Thanksgiving Day, 2008
To the family of Sgt. 1st Class John J. Tobiason:
John gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Ken Tschimperle
October 23, 2008
Hey Tobi, Happy B-Day... I think of our high school days often. I recall buying you burger king for your birthday lunch... Your one true American Soldier Hero.
Jill Williams
October 22, 2008
Happy Birthday, SFC Tobiason. A year ago today, I called you at the Stryker Stables from the BIAP and sang Happy Birthday to you. I can still hear the surprise and slight chuckle in your voice saying thank you. A budding freindship cutoff too soon. I am blessed to have even known you. I miss you. Your friend, SGT Williams.
Anderson
October 22, 2008
Happy Birthday, John! Boy, we all miss you so much. Your big smile and even bigger hugs are what is missed the most. Love ya!
William Bradley
October 16, 2008
I had the pleasure of not only serving with John, but also get to know him as a person. He was a wonderful friend and a hero to us all. The entire time I knew him was when we were deployed to Iraq, with the 1st CAV Division. He always had a smile on his face. We would talk about home alot. It seemed like every conversation we had always led to him talking about going home to see and spend time with his mom. He will always be my hero.
CPL Bradley, William L.
US Army Recruiting
Mike Nelson
September 29, 2008
I was sad to find out that John had died defending our country. He is a hero and so are all that have served. I knew him from 1st grade to 12th and he was always light hearted and joked around alot. He used to challenge me to fight all the time and then laugh, I was 6'3" and 230 lbs then. Although I never saw him again after high school I felt the loss.
God bless his family.
July 6, 2008
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Sgt 1st Class Tobiason and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
July 6, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Sgt 1st Class Tobiason!
Ken Tschimperle
May 28, 2008
John "Tobi" Tobiason,
Memorial day has come and gone. While I sat and saw news stories on Monday about memorial day I could only think of the sacrafice John made for our contry and the freedom we all enjoy.
Tobi, I have only good memories of our friendship in high school. I know you would never admitt to being a hero, because you saw this as your duty... The same way I look at my job as a Firefighter.
To me Tobi you will always be remembered as a Great American Soldier and a true Friend. Someday I will see you again, when that day arrives - Just like when I went to my locker at Kennedy Sr High, I'll look forward to hearing you hollar out, "Heyyy Chimp."
You'll never be forgotten.
Rosemary
May 27, 2008
There is time that passes and memories are all that is left of a loved ones presence with you on this earth.
Know that your Hero will never be forgotten by all who cherish their freedoms that are continuing because of a fallen soldier.
WE LIVE IN THE LAND OF THE FREE
ONLY, BECAUSE OF THE BRAVE.
Cheryl
May 26, 2008
To the family and friends of Sgt. 1st class John Tobiason - my thoughts and prayers are with you in your loss. I stand in awe, respect and never-ending gratitude of his, and your family's sacrifice for our country. May God comfort and bless your family.
Leila Campbell
April 28, 2008
To the family of Sgt. 1st Class John J. Tobiason:
The Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation will be honoring your loved one at the non-denominational Memorial Day Sunday worship service at 11:00 a.m. on 25 May, 2008. We will remember the casualties of the Global War on Terrorism from Minnesota … and the neighboring states of Iowa, North Dakota, South Dakota and Wisconsin. Outside of the historic Fort Snelling Veterans Memorial Chapel will be a “Memorial Garden” filled with white crosses bearing the names of the war dead … including your loved one.
I would like to extend to your family an invitation to honor us with your presence at worship as we pay tribute to the sacrifice made by your service member and family. Our pastor, U.S. Army Chaplain, LTC Kenneth L. Beale, Jr. will preach a message entitled “The Price of Freedom” At the conclusion of the worship hour, all of the congregation will be invited to silently pay their respects at the garden and place poppies at each of the crosses. An honor guard squad will be on hand to fire vollies as the US flag is lowered to half-staff and Taps is played.
As this Christian worship service has traditionally been well attended, we would be happy to reserve seating for you and yours. To do so, kindly call (612/970-7866) and leave a voice message indicating your veterans’ name and the number of persons attending. For more information about the Foundation or driving directions to the historic chapel at Fort Snelling, visit our website at: www.fortsnellingmcf.org
Also, beginning at dusk (8:30 p.m.) on Sat. 24 May through dawn (6:30 a.m.) on Sun. 25 May, a “PrayerVigil for Peace” will be held. You are invited to stop by and light a candle and place it at the foot of your loved one’s cross in the Memorial Garden, then enter the Chapel for prayer.
If you are not able to attend, we pray that you would find comfort in knowing that our prayers are with you and all of the fallen heroes.
Respectfully,
Leila Campbell
Administrative Assistant
Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation
email:[email protected]
web site:www.fortsnellingmcf.org
Linda Cano
February 21, 2008
To the Tobiason family I send my sincere sympathies. May God comfort and heal your breaking hearts. Thank you, John, for being the courageous and honorable Hero you are. Rest in the arms of Jesus now.
Grateful Citizen
February 11, 2008
Although the days are going by, there is still pain from the loss of a great American Soldier who gave everything for love of his country ! SFC John J Tobiason you will never be forgotten for the sacrifice you gave for each of us to continue our enjoyment of living in Freedom. Rest in God's PEACE !!!!
You are the FREE !!!!!
Beckie (Halaska) Christoferson
January 22, 2008
Nancy,
Oh my dear girl...I just found out about your brothers. My heart goes out to you, your mom and your family. Proud of your brother, grateful for his service and so very sad he had to leave you.
Love,
January 13, 2008
SFC John J Tobiason, Although we did not know you or your family we are indebted for your years of military service to our great nation.
May you find peace and comfort in the days ahead as we know SFC Tobiason was an example of commitment to saving our freedom we are enjoying today. If it were not for brave heroes like him, where would we be.
Peace and healing love of God to all of you.
St Paul, MN
January 12, 2008
My sincere condolences to the Family and Friends of SFC John J Tobiason. I pray for peace and comfort in your time of sorrow. I am forever grateful for his service to our country. Thank you SFC Tobiason for your sacrifices that we may enjoy our freedom. You truly are an American Hero. You will not be forgotten. You Gave your ALL for us here on earth. Now may our Heavenly Father welcome you home where He will GIVE you His ALL, total happiness and peace.
Cathy Wilson
January 7, 2008
To The Tobiason Family, you are all in my thoughts and prayers with each passing day! May God give you the strength you need. Always will Sgt. 1st Class Tobiason be a hero! Thank you for your dedication and service to our country!!
Tom Gugliuzza
December 28, 2007
My heartfelt sympathy to the Tobiason family in the loss of John. I did not know John, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. John you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
"To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
Floyd Peek
December 20, 2007
Another fallen hero, he will not be forgotten. I also lost my son Michael in Iraq. There are so many that are truly thankful for Sgt. 1st Class Tobiasons unselfish service for all of us in this country.
Dewayne Standridge
December 20, 2007
God Bless You Sgt 1st Class Tobiason
Jeri Herrera
December 20, 2007
Though I did not know John personally, he will always be a hero to me. Nothing I can say will take away the pain that you feel right now. Please accept my sincerest condolences and know that my thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
Sincerely,
Jeri Herrera
Proud sister of SFC Rocky H. Herrera
KIA 8/28/07 Jaji, Afghanistan
Valerie Wyer-Pryear
December 17, 2007
My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
The burial at Fort Snelling
December 15, 2007
His drum set(s)
December 15, 2007
Chaplain Dan Gates, Georgia Society SAR,
December 14, 2007
With the deepest regret, I have just learned of the death of Sergeant First Class Tobiason. As a Vietnam Veteran and the State Chaplain of the Georgia Society, Sons Of The American Revolution, I speak for our President, Charlie A. Newcomer, III and the more than 1,400 SAR members around the State of Georgia in humbly expressing the condolences of a grateful Society. Wrapped in the integrity of service to our nation and the inestimable values of duty, honor and country, your American hero stood on a wall of freedom for us all. This precious life, lived and lost in love of America, epitomized every attribute of patriotism the Sons Of The American Revolution hold dear. And, as Americans, we could never repay the debt we owe ..!! Nor the debt we owe you… the family of one of America's best ...!!!
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