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for Joseph Berlin
Jennifer Rushing
December 30, 2024
It's been 17 years since Joey moved to Heaven. I have missed him so much!! I have a Christmas picture he made our Mom at school when he was very young, it's on my refrigerator, it makes my heart smile every time I see it!! And my youngest grandson thinks it's himself!!! The resemblance is very strong!! Our Mom moved to Heaven 2 years ago...my heart is at peace that they are together in the presence of God and Jesus!! I love you both forever!!! Until I move to Heaven, you'll both stay in my heart!! Always, Jennifer
Lauren
May 16, 2022
Thinking of you. <3
Carr
May 14, 2022
Sorry brother, but this may be the last time I am able to post to your page. Love you. Miss you deeply. Glad I got to stop at your resting place. Maybe I´ll stop by and see your dad soon. Time for me to fade into the sunset.
Lauren
June 28, 2021
Joey I miss you so much! Listening to breaking Benjamin thinking of you and crying! I love you so much ! You left us way to soon !!!
Lauren Carr-Schultz
April 20, 2019
I love you and miss you every day ! I wish you were here life would be different. Love you so much !
SGT Derrick Carr
November 19, 2017
Coming up on ten years Joey. Love you and I miss you everyday brother. I'll never forget you and the times we had together in and out of Iraq.
Deborah Causey
December 30, 2015
My son Joey left us 8 years ago today. It feels like yesterday. I miss him so much and wish I could hug him.
Deborah Causey
February 18, 2014
My Baby, I know it has been a Long time since I wrote. I didn't think this site was still here. Another Gold Star Mom told me it was still up. I miss you so much sweetheart. Jen and Bill are fine. Bill left the Marines after 17 1/2 years. I love and miss you son. I wish you were here!
Cheri Lineberger
November 6, 2013
I'm thinking about you baby boy. I miss you so much. I love you. Aunt Cheri
June 2, 2012
Thank you Joseph Berlin for your military service.
Peggy Childers
December 30, 2011
To the family and friends of Pfc. Joseph R. Berlin:
Please accept my remembrance of Joseph on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Deborah Causey
December 16, 2011
i miss you so much this holiday season. i know you are with our father in heaven. I love you, Mom
Corie Bailey
November 21, 2011
Hey Uncle Joey. Sorry I havent written in so long I though I lost this website. I got married about a month ago his name is Doug you would love him he's really funny. We still think about you everyday and miss you bunches. I love you
Michael Danner
February 4, 2011
To all of Berlins friends n family big Joe. I fellow battle buddy and friend. miss the good ol days back with the FEC. Joseph and I worked together on the same shift. He will never be forgotten by me sir. I just wanted to tell the family and friends that he is truly a hero and an inspiration to all. God bless you all. respectfully SPC Danner..
Deborah Causey
January 25, 2011
Hey my sweetheart. I love you and miss you so much. Three years is a long time to go without talking to you or hugging you. I just found out that your brother will be deployed to Afghanastan in September. After 17 and a 1/2 years in the Marines he really has to go. My heart hurts again like it did when you went and it will continue until he returns safely home. Our God is a good God and I don't believe he would take another son from me. But that is His business and I try very hard not to help Him with it! I love and miss you my heart and hope we will be together again. Your loving Mother
Peggy Childers
December 30, 2010
To the family and friends of Pfc. Joseph R. Berlin:
Remembering Joseph on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Gabriel Nelson
April 30, 2010
1st class BERLIN, You have touched so many lives in many ways. You will be missed very much.Thank you for your unselfish service .God Bless!
s B
April 6, 2010
I can only hope you are doing ok day to day. I read through all the entries and although I never knew Joey, it is very clear he is a special, and loved guy. I hope for you all time will ease the pain. Joey: Thank you for your unselfish service.
SSB
handsome man.
April 1, 2010
dad
April 1, 2010
after reading all these entries again,i am thankful for all the kind and wonderful things said about joey "the son",and "pvt 1st class Berlin" he is a great person,and has truley been missed here on this earth these past going on three yrs,my every waking moments have you in them son,God says one day we will see each other and be together again,and so that is my hope,you know we spent so much time together you and i, its hard for me now..but i wait,as God has us apart for now,you know it never ceased to amaze me how fst u could eat a steak,well anything for that mater ,but that time i got you the biggest t-bone winn-dixie had to offer,it was as big as a roast !!!you had it down before i finished my ribeye,that makes me smile when i think of things like that,oh! alabama won the national title! #13 all i could think of while it was happening was how much you would have loved it,remember how i used to drive you down to t-town and watch them in the spring practice ,you always watched in amzement,ha ha well so did i! love so much son!!! dad.
Cheri Lineberger
February 27, 2010
Time goes so fast, it seems like only yesterday I was watching your birth. I just reread all the entries in your guestbook, and had to selfishly cry for the pain of missing you. But I pray for your mother who is lost without you. Whenever we are together especially in or around the water, she always says "wish Joey could see this". You touched our lives in many ways, and we won't every forget you. You are precious in His sight. I love you so much. I'm trying the best I can to take care of your mom like you asked me to do. It's a hard job sometimes. I'll write again soon, my little love. Love, Aunt Cheri
Corie Rushing
December 20, 2009
Hi Joey I miss you. This is your niece. I wish you could of seen me become a teenager and we could of had more time together for you to see Im not an irritating little girl anymore. Our family misses you so so much. Not a day goes by that we dont think about you. I know that you are looking over us and see this as Im typing it. So for the record :) Im sorry for jumping on you to wake you up all those years ago!! You better be waiting for all of us because we will meet you in heaven one day!!! I love you.
Donna Gillette
December 13, 2009
On this day and with each day that we enjoy our freedom, I would like to give thanks and let you know that I do not take our troops for granted. May you experience God when you feel your loss.
Flowers at Arlington, July 4, 2009
October 25, 2009
C&J
October 20, 2009
Gone from our sight, never far from our hearts.
Lisa Swanzy
April 19, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort. Thank you Pvt. Berlin and family for your service and ultimate sacrifice. You will ALWAYS be an Alabama and American hero!
With DEEP sympathy and MANY thanks to you and your family,
Debbie Causey
February 26, 2009
Thinking of you my little heart. You would have loved the weather today in the Florida Keys. We had so much fun here. I went out on the pontoon boat by myself just to sit and think about you and how much we had here.I I know the pain of losing you will never go away that I'm feeling but I pray every day that it will become bareable. Hug your sister and great grand parents for me and give Gabe a good pat on the head. I love you son, you will always be my hero.
Love Always, Mom
Gary & Karen Bradberry
January 25, 2009
God Bless you, and may he bring peace to your Mother and Father, who's hearts are in pain. Thank you for your service to us and your Country. We can never re-pay you for what you have given us. Rest in Peace.
T Starman
January 17, 2009
I offer my deepest condolences for your loss
In Memory of Joseph ~ (Debra Estep)
January 1, 2009
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Joseph, but I am remembering
his service and sacrifice. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
Peggy Childers
December 30, 2008
To the family of Pfc. Joseph R. Berlin:
Joseph gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Kenna Larra
December 4, 2008
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Kenna
July 6, 2008
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Pfc Berlin and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
July 6, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Pfc Berlin!
the Buck family
May 26, 2008
To the family and friends of Pfc. Joseph R. Berlin, our thoughts and prayers are with you in your loss. What he has done for our freedom will not be forgotten. May God bless and comfort your family.
Pat Perry
March 24, 2008
Debbie, It has only been a few months since we learned about the loss of your son, Joey, in Iraq. One can really never forget the preciousness of a child no matter how long they shared their life with us. Although Joey was only 21 when he was killed, let us never forget him. I found a beautiful poem that I hope you'll like for all mothers and fathers who have ever loved a child. It goes like this.....
"I'll lend you for a little time
A child of mine." He said.
"For you to love the while he lives
And mourn for when he's dead.
It may be six or seven years
or twenty-two or three
But will you, till I call him back
Take care of him for me?
He'll bring his charms to gladden you
And should his stay be brief,
You'll have his lovely memories
As solace for your grief.
I cannot promise he will stay
Since all from Earth return,
But there are lessons taught down there
I want the child to learn.
I've looked this wide world over
In my search for teachers true,
And from the throngs that crowd life's lanes, I have selected you;
Now will you give him all your love,
Nor think the labor vain
Nor hate Me when I come to call
And take him back again?
I fancied that I heard them say,
"Dear Lord, thy will be done,
For all the joy thy child shall bring,
For the risk of grief we'll run.
We'll shelter him with tenderness,
We'll love him while we may,
And for the happiness we've known,
Forever grateful stay.
But should the angels call for him
Much sooner than we planned,
We'll brave the bitter grief that comes
And try to understand."
A Child Loaned by Anonymous
Suzanne MacDaniel
March 2, 2008
To the Berlin family,
I know there are no words to say, except how sorry I am for your loss. May you hold Josephs' memory in your heart and please remember he shall never be forgotten.
...For you every single soldier
Those who served so honorable
Your life was forever altered
While I’m home safe and free
I stand with grateful admiration
I stand respectful and so proud
I know I’m only a civilian
And I don’t even know if it’s allowed.
But I salute you; allow me the honor
to salute you with permission let me say
Even though I hold no rank know that from my heart
My humble gratitude comes from the deepest part.
I salute you.
A Proud Aunt
David M.Fisher
KIA 12/1/04 Iraq
LUCILE WILSON
February 4, 2008
I AM PRAYING FOR YOU AND FRIENDS
February 4, 2008
It has been a month now since they told me you were gone Joey. I miss you so much. We went fishing on Aunt Cheri's boat and we cought 77 fish! I wish you could have been there. I snorkled a couple weeks ago looking for lobster and saw a huge Baracuda (like the ones you used to chase)! I know you would have loved to see that. They still scare me to death! Even the little ones. I heard "The River" for the first time since you left, and I had to sit down in the store and cry. I love and miss you so much my heart. I added some pictures.
Mom
ALS
February 4, 2008
What a tragic loss of such a wonderful young man. I'm so sorry for your loss and pain. I will keep you (his family and friends) in my thoughts and prayers! God Bless You!
Bonnie and Ron Graff
February 3, 2008
We send our deepest sympathies. We have a son and two grandsons in the Army and know they are in harms way at all times. May God bless you and your family
The Sweet Family
February 3, 2008
Our heartfelt prayers are with you and your family and for Joseph. We did not know him and he did not know us yet he was fighting for our freedom. We feel honored and loved by his willingness to serve our country. His life was not lived in vain. He, you and your family have our utmost respect.
Judy Bennett
February 3, 2008
I lost my son in 2002 and words will never describe that feeling for you but I believe that your son and mine are with the Lord. Ours is a military family so we feel the loss of each of it's members - there are many prayers out there for you and your son.
Until we are reunited...Bill, Mom, and Jenn
February 3, 2008
Mom gets her Flag
February 3, 2008
Folding the Flag
February 3, 2008
21 Gun Salute
February 3, 2008
Arlington
February 3, 2008
Arlington
February 3, 2008
Arlington
February 3, 2008
made our own jelly
February 3, 2008
Growing grepes
February 3, 2008
Bills visit
February 3, 2008
Joe and Joey
February 3, 2008
karissa clark
February 1, 2008
hi i myself didnt know your son but my husband was working with him in iraq. he is in stb 4id. so they knew eachother. i am sorry to hear about his passing. but my husband and son and i have you guys in our prayers.
Louisa Butler
February 1, 2008
I'm the mother of Sgt Glenn Butler who knew and worked with your son for over a year. He spoked very highly of the late PFC Berlin and his troops. Know that my prayers are with your family.
Tommy Lee
January 30, 2008
Joey and I were, and I guess still are cousins. I grew up with his sister Fer-Fer, brother Little Bill, and my sister and brother, Lissa and Chrissy. We couldn't have been closer, and loved each other more than we knew at the time. Joey came later, so he was the little brother that wanted to be included. We treated him like most older siblings and cousins treat younger kids. I can remember many times he would be running to tell Aunt Bebbie and we would be running to hide. Unfortunately like so many families these days we moved away and did not communicate that much. Their is nothing I can say about Joey that you do not already know. You told me God has a plan for us all, well I don't like it very much.
Aunt Debbie,
Last night we laughed and laughed on the phone and I love you so much. After we hung up I looked at Wyatt and Tommie and started crying. I can't imagine the pain and anguish a parent must feel losing a child, much less two. No one has words that will make it any easier. Just know I love you very much and would gladly do anything I could to ease your pain.
Susan shreve
January 30, 2008
I did not know Joey but met his mother Debbie and Aunt on the plane returning from his military buriel in Arlington Cemetery. Debbie's openess and generosity was a window into the heart of his family and Joey himself. Meeting them, seeing Joey's photograph, reading the amazing tributes to him put a face of heroism on this war in Iraq. I thank you for your courage and this country is the better for the man and soldier that joey has been. With love to his family.
Nami Takemoto
January 30, 2008
My deepest condolences to the family of Pfc Joseph Richard Berlin Jr.
I heard about the sad news from my dear friend SGT Glenn Butler. I personally did not know about Mr. Berlin, although from what Glenn has told me, and from the comments that I read from this guestbook, he sounds like such a brilliant man. I can only imagine how hurtful time it is now to the family.
I am not an American. I am from Japan. I will not pretend to know what it is like to be in the Army at a time like this or how hard it is to be thousands of miles away from your loved ones. But as a sister whose little sister is training to be a doctor at a self-defense force, and having one of my closest friends, Glenn Butler, also in Baghdad, I believe that I can feel your pain.
I will pray for him and for your family.
Pat Perry
January 28, 2008
To Debbie and family: I cannot fathom the pain and sense of emptiness you are feeling in the loss of your fine son, Joey. To see you at work, Debbie, and Sheri too, I can see the sadness on your faces and the heaviness of your hearts as you step. I look at your son, Joey, in the picture on my desk at work and on my nightstand at home, and also grieve for a son I never really knew personally.
I feel proud, however, of this young man and soldier who I study in the photos you have shared. Somehow he says to me, "I was proud to serve my country and do whatever I was capable of doing to stand up for innocent people. Men, women, and children who have already fell victim to the violence of terrorist attacks and murderous bloodshed because they might think or worship differently than others." Joey must have felt strongly about protecting these rights and values of his fellow human neighbors or he wouldn't have been in Iraq in the first place. He gave himself freely to his country to risk all that he had for us. And I thank him dearly for that. More than I can express. So his life is a reflection of your life as you must have modeled that for him as he grew up. So, thank you , too, for bringing into this world a fine young man who cared about his fellow man.
As a mother of a 16 year old son, I cannot imagine my life without him and I can only pray that one day you will not be so sad and empty and that your heart will stop hurting and your spirit be lifted as you get closer and closer to the time when you will be with Joey again. In the words of Kahlil Gibran, remember, "When you are sorrowful, look into your heart and you shall see that you are weeping for that which has been your delight." Thank you again, young Pfc. Joseph Berlin, for giving us the ultimate gift of human love, your life, for your country and for me.
Sharon Holly
January 28, 2008
I am praying for your family. I am family friend of SGT Butler who is a friend of PFC Berlin. My heart goes out to you.
melissa reese
January 28, 2008
To my brother,
I love you!!!... Little Joey could
master a Rubic's cube in a matter of seconds. His computer knowledge
was way beyond anything I had ever
seen.I could call Little Joey anytime day or night to help me with the computer and he was there
he didn't care what time it was or
how long it took. If I had a need he was there to help!because he was special like that!! Little Joey loved for me to make homemade
choc-o-suprises they were his favorite cookies. I will deeply miss you!! Little Joey was so intelligenet, kind and a gentle person!! you were an Awesome Nephew!!! I love you so much!
Aunt Mem.
Monica Johnson
January 28, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. It is hard to understand this but God does what is right for the whole just as Joey was doing by serving our country. Thank you for your service and may God Bless the whole family. Please contact me if you need anything.
Dave and Mary Register
January 25, 2008
Dearest Debbie and Dearest Joe,
Our family circle has been broken at this time. Our hearts ache to see Joey again but God promises the circle will not be broken in heaven. Joey is our hero and he served our country with honor. We feel peace with the wonderful words everyone has shared in this guest book. We love you both and thank you for giving us such a great nephew. May God keep you both strong. Love, Uncle David and Aunt Mary
MAJ Kevin Robinson
January 25, 2008
Although the present light that was PFC Joseph Berlin no longer is visible in this world, his spirit lives forever in the hearts of his family, friends, and in those fellow Soldiers who knew him. I pray for God's peace and comfort in mending all hearts affected by his loss.
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SGT. Brandon Jones
January 19, 2008
To the Berlin Family,
I want to express condolences for your loss from my family. I've been a member of the Alabama Army National Guard for 18 years and served a tour in Bosnia and Iraq. I also work with Tommy White, a friend of your family. He was the person that informed me of your loss. I'm sorry it has taken this long to contact you all. Stay strong through the days for I know well the question asked most often "Why Lord?" I have asked that eternal question numerous times after the loss of our twin boys, Austin and Gage back in 2004, one day after birth. I feel certain that the Lord will heel your broken hearts as he has with my family. There will be days that you feel that you can't get out of bed but if you talk with God everytime you feel weak he will bring you up. Just remember through faith in the Lord we all will be able to see them again and spend an eternal life together. If our paths ever cross hear on earth it will be a pleasure to meet you all. WE ARE ARMY FAMILY, HOOOAH. Stay Strong and know that you all have a gaurdian angel right beside you. I know that my wife and I have two.
Mark Truex
January 18, 2008
My deepest condolences to the family of Pfc Joseph R. Berlin. I know you are very sad yet very proud, Rest in peace soldier. At ease.
Samuel Ray
January 16, 2008
“For we know that if our earthly house, this tent, is destroyed, we have a building from God, a house not made with hands, eternal in the heavens.” 2 Corinthians 5:1 (NKJV)
The coffin, housing the “tent” in which your dear son once resided, was placed on the funeral bier. In the background, you heard the gun salute and “Taps” was played. Most never realized that there are words that go with this familiar melody. Here are the words as they are known to me. (There are many variations.):
TAPS
Day is done, gone the sun,
From the hills, from the lakes, from the sky.
All is well, safely rest, God is nigh.
Go to sleep, peaceful sleep,
May the soldier or sailor,
God keep.
On the land or the deep,
Safe in sleep.
Love, good night, Must thou go,
When the day, And the night
Need thee so?
All is well. Speedeth all
To their rest.
Thanks and praise, For our days,
'Neath the sun, Neath the stars,
'Neath the sky,
As we go, This we know,
God is nigh.
Your dear son’s “tent” has been destroyed. But, as Paul said in 2 Cor. 5:1, God has a better plan for us. The “tent” that once housed your precious boy has been replaced by a building not made with hands.
Your soldier’s duty and day is done on this earth. BUT, “All is well, safely rest, God is nigh… As we go, This we know, God is nigh.”
The proud father of a soldier in Iraq and a retired military veteran,
Samuel A. Ray
Here is a link if you would like to hear or read more on “Taps.”
http://www.arlingtoncemetery.net/taps.htm
http://www.arlingtoncemetery.net/taps.mid
Monica Washington
January 15, 2008
To the family of Pfc. Berlin and to my friend Joey. My heart, thoughts and prayers are with you. Even if I never meet Joey Jr., I watched proudly thru photos and e-mails that Joey Sr. sent me. I am gratefully and proud of Joey Jr. for everything he has done, now he is still watching over the ones he loves with a grander view. I hope and pray that his family and my friend can find peace with that fact. Thank you for everything, God bless you all.
Cheri Lineberger
January 15, 2008
To my twin sister, mother of Joey. I was in the room the day he was born. As his life flashes before me I recall so many funny times with that little guy. Remember the fish he caught while we were camping? He was so proud, and so sad when he had to throw it back. He sang to me too, "Once bitten twice shy beybe". Presious memories of a precious child, one of a kind, with more personality in his little finger than most of us have in our whole body. I still remember the last time we spoke. He was just about to leave for Tx. and he said "take care of my Mom, and I love you Aunt Cheri" HERO is not a big enough word to describe our Joey. Heaven has a lot of steak Joey, eat it up. God loves you my babysmurf. I will still take care of your Mom. We are blessed for the time we had you here. My love always, Aunt Cheri
PFC Dustin Cash
January 14, 2008
My deepest condolences to the Family. I don't know if you remember me or not, but I went to church with LJ at Cahaba Heights. As a fellow Soldier, I know why he did what he did, and I know that you should be proud of raising a son that was willing to stand up and volunteer in a time of war. Although I can't feel the exact pain that you do at this moment, I grieve for a fellow Soldier, a Brother, a Friend. I say this from the bottom of my heart....HOOOOAH!!
Glenn Butler
January 14, 2008
To The Berlin Family,
My name is SGT Glenn Butler and I had the honor of being one of Joseph's leaders. What an incredible young man you shared with us. I was fortunate enough to see Berlin grow as both a man and a soldier over the past year and am confident there was nothing, absolutely nothing he was incapable of doing if he put his mind to it. He came out of his shell fairly quickly and settled in as family in our section. His loss is something that none of us will ever understand or truly get over. We feel cheated out of seeing the success that life had in store for him. You have been separated from Joseph for the better portion of the last 18 months, but know that in that time he affected lives. He has forever left his imprint on all of us. He has been a family member to those of us that have been separated from our own families while we where this uniform. He remains family, as do all of you. Nothing could be more evident from his memorial service held here in Baghdad. The chapel was filled with people there to pay their respect including our Commanding General, but the 20 or so that have worked with him since he arrived from training were all I saw. Grown men that were hurt to their soul over the loss of a good kid. We stood around afterwards and mourned his loss and then we celebrated his life. Just us, his Army family. Tears were shed and stories were shared. There is so much joy he brought to each of us just as we know he brought to you. We prayed there, huddled together, for both of his families. I pray that God comforts you all and gives you peace. Thank you again for sharing him with us. I will forever regret not bringing him home to you. Rest in peace kid.
beth howland
January 14, 2008
joe i am praying for u. i loved little joey he was always such a good kid! i remember every sunday at church he always had a smile on his face. he could make anyone smile! i am thinking about you and i know you are hurting. you and lil joey are brave!i pray for you and soon we all will be with him! he was a true american hero because of him we are free. your sister in christ, beth wyatt howland
Army Wife
January 14, 2008
Dear Ms. Beavers, I am so very sad for you and your family. I came here to give you my condolences, I do not know your family, but I was immediately touched by you from a condolence you wrote today for someone else who neither of us knows. My husband is on his third “tour” in Iraq. It’s terrifying. You had to live the biggest fear we each have when our love ones leave to Iraq. May GOD Bless you and your family! I grieve with my whole heart for you and your family.
connie skellie
January 13, 2008
Dear friend
The grace of Christ is with you. We love you and are grateful to have known your precious son. Love, Bill and Judy Etheredge,Stokes and Connie Skellie
Debbie Beavers
January 13, 2008
My precious son,
My heart is broken that I can not hold you in my arms and tell you how much I love and miss you. The pain is unbearable. When I saw you last you lay so still and quiet and peaceful. And when I sang to you "The River" by Garth Brooks, that we used to always sing together, in my heart I felt you singing with me. I will sing that song every time I think of you , my little "Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtle", as long as I live. I will watch every Godzilla movie I can find, and Mothrah will always be my favorite. I will cherish in my heart every precious moment we shared,and yes, I forgive you for every computer you broke!
Your sister and brother are in so much pain that you are gone. When we went to say good-bye to you at the funeral home after I sang to you, I overheard your brother say how much he loves you as he patted your forehead and cried his heart out. He whispered to you that he was sorry he wasn't a better brother to you, and he wished he could have spent more time with you. He talked about the thousands of times (it seemed to him)that he took you for a ride on his 4 wheeler. Your precious sister has so much faith in our Lord Jesus Christ and knows that you are wrapped in his arms at this very moment, that she does not cry for you , or what you will miss out on here on earth. She cries for the pain of missing you, and not getting to see you have children and a happy and long life here on earth. But she rejoices that you are in Heaven with our Father where there is no pain, no fear, no sorrow or tears. I look forward to the day when God calls me home as he has done you my heart, and until that day , I will try to live out the plan that the Lord has for me, and as I wait, I will be singing "the river" with a smile knowing in my heart that we will one day we will get to sing it together again. Rest my heart,and know that we will be together again, and this time, for eternity.
~Your Loving Mother~
Wesley M. Causey Sr.
January 13, 2008
A personal note from sergeant Causey
My nephew,My hero
For meritorious service while assigned in Iraq.His dedication, devotion to duty, and professionalism were recognized by all who served with him. Joseph put asside his personal needs and desires to devote his life to the protection of family, friends, and all Americans, causing him to be an asset to his greatful nation.The exemplary service rendered by Joey reflects distinct credit upon himself, his family and the United States Army.We loose a son, a brother, a nephew and gain a true HERO. I am proud to be of the same blood line, and would proudly serve beside Joey in combat. God Speed
My Love and prayers to my sister Debbie and the family.
Linda Cano
January 13, 2008
THANK YOU JOSEPH, FOR YOUR HONOR AND COURAGE AND ULTIMATE SACRIFICE FOR US. GOD BLESS THE BERLIN FAMILY IN THEIR TIME OF GREAT SORROW.
Christy Kirker
January 13, 2008
I met Joey when he was very small, at Jenn's wedding in 1992. I was the Maid of Honor at her wedding, and while we were getting her dressed, Joey was on his knees, playing air guitar and belting out "I've Got Friends in Low Places" at the top of his lungs. It was adorable. It is how I remember him now. He was such a great boy. I feel lucky and honored to have met him, and to have shared a part of his life through the stories that Jenn told. Your loss is also a loss to humanity, as he was an outstanding person, and a true hero. My prayers are with you, ~Christy Kirker
TERESA LE GEAR
January 12, 2008
COUSIN TERESA LE GEAR
Liz and Jim Epler
January 12, 2008
To the berlin family,
We are sorry to here about your son. Our son geoff epler is the one that told us about him. He was a very nice looking young man and always happy and smiling from people we have talked too. I know that nothing we can say will ever bring him back.He will always be a HERO to us and all our family and friends and everyone else that knew him.He was a very good soldier and will be missed very much. He will always be remembered as a hero.Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May you rest in peace.
Gabriella Nelson and family
January 12, 2008
To the Berlin Family,
I did not know your son,but my brother geoff and his wife arlene told me about him. I know my brother showed us some pictures of him at their house recentky, and he was a very good looking young man. I thank you for a son that is willing to lay down his life for our country.We do not always know why, this happened for a reason.This is to let you know that others you dont even know,are crying along with you for your sons sacrifice.You will be missed deeply. May you rest in peace knowing that you made so many proud.
Randy Nelson
January 12, 2008
Debbie,Joe, and Family,
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. I remember Joey as a young boy,with a kind spirit, a childs heart and an infectious smile. You should be proud to have raised a young man that choose to protect the values of our country,and to give the price of his precious life to make the rest of us feel safe. I know that i appreciate it. As i read all of the guest entries, i learned that Joey did grow up to be a fine, and well liked young man, and again you should be proud of the job done in raising him.I know that i feel proud to have known him for the small part of his life that i did. You are in my prayers, and may God Bless you all.
PFC Derrick Carr
January 12, 2008
I have no words on how to explain how it feels to lose a roomate, a battle buddy, and brother in arms. I would always come in the room wake Joey up to go to breakfast. We would go eat and afterword we would play some Nes (nintendo ent. system). Before we deployed he came over to my house alot and we would hang out til the butt-crack of dawn. we would talk about just going out for a drive and just drivin around for no reason. joey was always correcting me and putting me in line. And now that he is no longer i have no idea what im going to do. joe i hope you found a chunk of land up there. cuase when i get up there, you better have your mouthguard in man.
Doug and Linda Eddleblute
January 11, 2008
Our deepest sympathy goes to all the Berlin family in the loss of Joseph.
It's very sad when we loose any loved one. The loss of one so young and that he gave the ultimate sacrifice for all of this country, we can no way express our sorrow.
Our prayers are for you.
Jackie Howard
January 11, 2008
Joey Berlin and I grew up together and worked together, he could always make me smile when I had a bad day at work, all we had to do was take a walk around the warehouse together and by the end of it, he had me laughing and in a good mood. I have never known a finer person and I will miss him dearly.
Kitty Moon
January 10, 2008
I can't find the words to express the deep emmotions one feels for those that leave us.
I take comfort in the thought that when I go, I will be with such a noble man and a true hero.
You'll always be in my thoughts.
Till we meet sweet Joey x
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
All my love to my friend MinnowMan.
Melissa
January 10, 2008
Cousin, first squeeze Mema for me! Time flies by so quickly, we will be with you in the blink of an eye. Thank you so much for selflessly giving of your self, you know not everyone can do that. We will love on your mom the best we can while we are still here, and your dad too. I love you cousin. See you in a blink. Lissa
Chaplain Dan Gates
January 10, 2008
With the deepest regret, I have just learned of the death of Private First Class Berlin. As a Vietnam Veteran and the State Chaplain of the Georgia Society, Sons Of The American Revolution, I speak for our President, Charlie A. Newcomer, III and the more than 1,400 SAR members around the State of Georgia in humbly expressing the condolences of a grateful Society. Wrapped in the integrity of service to our nation and the inestimable values of duty, honor and country, your American hero stood on a wall of freedom for us all. This precious life, lived and lost in love of America, epitomized every attribute of patriotism the Sons Of The American Revolution hold dear. And, as Americans, we could never repay the debt we owe ..!! Nor the debt we owe you… the family of one of America's best ...!!!
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
January 10, 2008
My heartfelt sympathy to the Berlin family in the loss of Joseph. I did not know Joseph, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Joseph you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten. I live close to ARLINGTON NATIONAL CEMETERY and I visit there frequently. Each time I am at ANC I will visit/honor Joseph.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
"To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
Judy Mays
January 9, 2008
To the family of this brave soldier I send my deepest sympathy for your loss. This is to let you know that others you don't even know, cry along with you for your son's sacrifice. 'Thank you' and God Bless and Comfort you.
Heather Denges
January 9, 2008
Although I never knew Joey personally, I feel like I did through his father's words. Joey, I hope you know your dad was always beaming with pride when he spoke of you. It is a special man who can be missed and yet I have never even met. Thank you for your service to our Country. May you rest in peace knowing that you made so many proud.
LISA AREVALOS
January 9, 2008
THE BERLIN FAMILY,
I DID NOT KNOW YOUR SON, I HEARD ABOUT HIM TRHOUGH MY BROTHER IN LAW, GEOFF EPLER. THANK YOU FOR SUCH A BRAVE SON, WHO WAS WILLING TO GIVE HIS LIFE FOR US. YOU WILL ALWAYS BE IN OUR PRAYERS. AND REMEMBER YOUR SON WILL ALWAYS BE A HERO IN OUR EYES.
January 9, 2008
To the Family and Friends of this Soldier:
I will stand in grief with this soldier's family to honor him. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life, but I promised Brent that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.
We lost our son SFC Brent A. Adams on 12/1/05 and it seems like yesterday. I wish so badly there were things I could say to you right now to make the pain you are feeling go away, but I know first hand there simply are no words that will bring you the comfort and peace your heart aches for. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you go through this tragedy moment by moment and as you mourn this loss.
We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with as our hearts both burst with pride and pain together.
I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally. While they can never be replaced, neither will they ever be forgotten. You must trust that sometime, someday the loving memories you have will help to sustain you and help you go on. This courageous soldier will forever be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well.
To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is your wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever.
If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero.
God Bless this soldier and family who gave all and God Bless legacy.com for setting up this site where families can so quickly share their condolences and prayers with others like themselves.
Proud Parents of SFC Brent A. Adams, KIA, 12/1/05, Ramadi, Iraq
Pam and Bill Adams, Lancaster, PA
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