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Nathan Hardy Obituary
He was born in Falmouth Hospital on Cape Cod on Dec. 28, 1978. He grew up in Kirkland, Wash., and Moon Township, Penn., before moving to Durham, N.H. in 1988. He dreamed of becoming a Navy SEAL at a young age. Through his years on the soccer and lacrosse fields at Oyster River High School, he discovered and developed the fierce competitiveness and team-first mentality that would later serve him so well on his road to achieving that goal.
After graduating high school he enlisted in the Navy. In doing so he carried on a naval legacy from his grandfathers. Charles "Bucky" Harris served on the PT 109 with John F. Kennedy, and Dr. Irad B. Hardy served as a combat surgeon with the Fourth Marine Division on Tarawa, Saipan and Iwo Jima.
Chief Hardy graduated from boot camp at Recruit Training Command, Great Lakes, Ill., in January 1998. The same month, he entered Basic Underwater Demolition/SEAL (BUD/S) training in Coronado, Calif., Class 221. Following graduation from BUD/S in May 1998, and other than attending various schools, he served his entire career with East Coast-based SEAL Teams.
His awards and decorations include the Bronze Star, two Navy and Marine Corps Achievement Medals, three Good Conduct Medals, two National Defense Medals, Armed Forces Expeditionary Medal, Afghanistan Campaign Medal, Iraq Campaign Medal, Kosovo Campaign Medal, Global War on Terrorism Expeditionary Medal, Global War on Terrorism Service Medal, three Sea Service deployment awards, NATO Medal, Expert Rifle Medal, and the Sharpshooter Pistol Medal.
In 2005, while attending the Defense Language Institute in Monterey, California, Hardy married the love of his life, Mindi Buck. In 2007, Mindi gave birth to their son, Parker Hall. He lived his dream both at work, where he served the cause of freedom against terror and fear, and at home, where he was a devoted husband and father.
In addition to his wife, son, mother, father and brother, he leaves a grandmother, aunts, uncles, and cousins.
Chief Hardy will be buried at Arlington Memorial Cemetery on Feb. 15 at 11 a.m. A celebration of his life will also be held at a later date in his hometown of Durham.
In lieu of flowers, friends may send donations to the "Nate Hardy Memorial Fund" care of Navy Federal Credit Union, Building 200, FTC Dam Neck, Virginia Beach, VA, 23461.
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Memories and Condolences
for Nathan Hardy
162 Entries
Suzanne Davenport
February 6, 2017
Hello. You don't know me nor did I have the honor of knowing your loved one. I am a military brat who is honoring a fallen hero each day and I just wanted to reach out and let you know that today I am honoring and remembering CPO Hardy. I have been reading as many articles as I can and watching the loving tributes on youtube that were posted and sharing them on my fb page for others to know his name. Please know that CPO Hardy's name is being mentioned today and I truly appreciate his service to our country and the sacrifice that you all as his family have faced over the years since his death. Please know that I will never forget...because heroes never die. Peace ~ Suzanne
jamie richardson
July 12, 2015
Steve,Donna,Ben
My deepest sympathies to you and your family. Its very sad, but I just found out yesterday on the moon site of fb that Nate had passed. I grew up with Josh and think of him from time to time. Pearl Jam songs bring him to mind with a huge smile. Josh was a funny and great person and I miss him til this day. Nate grew up with my brother Bob. Wonderful family and im praying god.has helped you through your losses. Nate was an amazing child that became a hero. Josh musically inclined. Steve and Donna you were always great people and did a great job raising the boys. I wanted you to know Josh and Nate will always be in my heart and I will forever think of their smiles and the wonderful men they were.
A Native New Englander
May 27, 2013
In memory & honor of Nathan on this Memorial Day. We will always be grateful for his service and sacrifice he made for this country.
Peggy Childers
February 4, 2013
To the family and friends of Chief Petty Officer Nathan H. Hardy:
It has truly been my honor to sign Nathan's guest book these past few years. Unfortunately, due to complications from my Multiple Sclerosis, this may be the last message I'm able to write. Please forgive me and know that Nathan will always be remembered in my home.
With love and respect ~ Peggy
Brent Hobby
July 10, 2012
Nate my friend, I had not only the honor, but the privilege to spend two plus months with you in the United States Navy. We were in Bootcamp together, we slept across from one another. We shared many laughs together, we made the most of that bitter cold Chicago winter together. I knew within 10 minutes of meeting you, you were a special kid. I see now that I was right. You will always be held in the highest regard to me, a man with Honor, Courage and Commitment to the degree that few attain. I wish I could have known you later in life, perhaps well see each other again my friend.
Your buddy always,
Brent Hobby Class 042
Peggy Childers
February 4, 2012
To the family and friends of Chief Petty Officer Nathan H. Hardy:
Always remembering Nathan. "Some gave all."
Kim & Joe Bussard (Dunbar)
September 11, 2011
Nate-
Today is a special day of remembrance. Not a day goes by without a thought of you crossing my mind. Your presence in this world brought beauty and joy to all whose lives you touched. Now, it provides a sense of comfort knowing that we all have a special gaurdian angel watching over us. Your spirit lives on.
paul lapke lapke
February 15, 2011
rest in peace my friend
Peggy Childers
February 4, 2011
To the family and friends of Chief Petty Officer Nathan H. Hardy:
Please accept my remembrance of Nathan on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Peggy Childers
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Steve Halverson
July 14, 2010
Dear Nathan and family,
You will never be forgotten nor will our appreciation for the ultimate sacrifice you have made for every American be taken for granted. You and your family will be in our prayers.
May 31, 2010
Honoring you on this memorial day!
Nick Sklenar
May 9, 2010
I have watched the video Short life, Long reach on youtube.com for a while and it never gets old. Nathan is my hero even though I don't know him. He has inspired me greatly. Like he did after high school I to want to follow my dream of being a NAVY SEAL. Nathan Hardy is my hero.
Peggy Childers
February 4, 2010
To the family and friends of Chief Petty Officer Nathan H. Hardy:
Remembering Nathan on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Cris
December 28, 2009
Happy Birthday man; miss you.
Bonnie Carambelas
August 1, 2009
Love and sincere thanks to Nate and his family. God bless all of you.
Denise
July 24, 2009
Dear Nate,
Not a day goes by that I do not think of you, your parents, Ben and even Josh. I was going through some old schol photos of you and John and came across one of you in your Speedo at an Otters practice! Don't worry I won't
post it!.
I was in town the other day, and a friend asked whhat the stones in the center of the square were for (across from young, just uder the flag pole.)
So I took them over and showed them your name. I told them about you and neveer realised I had tears in my eyes, til I was handed a tissue. I am one of the lucky Mother's, John is safe. His contract ends soon. Having been on this side of military service, I will never feel at rest until all of your buddies, find their way home. Tonight I was at the airport as three Army Soliders were returniung from Iraq. It was an honnor to be there.
I meet an FRG Lady that knows your MOM and was told they keep in close contact. It is nice to know this bond of being a military Mom, keeps us connected. Many nights I will wake up and think of your paernts, pray form them and hope they are healing. I also pray from Mindi and Patrick. But most of all I remember the last time I saw you, and when you truned to say good-by, your smile burned a spot forever in my heart.
You will never be forgotten.
I know you are Navy, but SEMPER FI really says it all!
Denise Proud Marine Mom to USMC Sgt. John Durham, NH
Eileen Suggs
May 25, 2009
Not forgotten. Thank you.
"JSOC"
February 5, 2009
Maj M. B. Parlor
February 5, 2009
Bro:
I look at that pic everyday
Gotta leave a couple pics on Your site.....
Semper Fi,
"Major Pain'
Bob Britt
February 4, 2009
A year has gone bye, but not a day has past without thinking of you.
Safely Home
Michael Iezzi
February 4, 2009
Nathan,
Thinking and praying for you on the 1st anniversary of your passing into eternal glory. May God hold you in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
"Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends", John 15:13.
Peggy Childers
February 4, 2009
To the family of Chief Petty Officer Nathan H. Hardy:
Nathan gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
T Starman
January 17, 2009
I offer my deepest condolences for your loss
Kenna Larra
December 1, 2008
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Cris
November 11, 2008
Just wanted to drop a quick note this Veterans Day. Miss you man. Got Mindi and Parks' Halloween pictures up on the fridge - kid's got his old man's melon, that's for sure. Think about you every day....
Janet Mariano
September 21, 2008
We sleep safe in our beds because rough men stand ready in the night to visit violence on those who would harm us.
Deepest regrets on your loss. I know it is not easy, Know that your loved one was KIA doing something he believed in. God Bless your family at this time.
Family of Petty Officer First Class Jason D. Lewis. KIA July 6, 2007
Stephen Smith
September 11, 2008
My service with the USN ended safely 9 years ago, and I have the fortune to be here for my children now. Your son won't have that, but he will have a legacy of pride for the sacrifice you made so that he and all the rest of our children have a better chance of growing up in a world worth living in. Fair winds and following seas.
Deborah Foulkes
September 2, 2008
Yesterday September 1, 2008 marked the official transfer of US control of the Anbar Province back to the Iraqi people. It occurred to me that warrior heroes like Nate Hardy who have made the ultimate sacrifice there did not die for vainglory but for the principles of freedom. God Bless you Nate and thanks for your service. Like the souls of brave soldiers gone before us..."It is not for glory, nor riches nor honors that we fight but for freedom, that which we would give up but with our lives" (Declaration at Arbroath Abbey 1320).
luis navarrete
August 15, 2008
hey there Nathan! god bless you and all those who have given the ultimate sacrifice!! i will be leaving to the navy soon and plan on becoming a FROGMAN just like you buddy! i was driving to work today in sandy ,utah and i saw a SUV in front of me that had a bumper sticker on the back that said in memory of Nathan H. Hardy Navy seal! HOOYAH!!! SEAL!
Wayne in Kabul, Afghanistan July 2008
Wayne Holloman
August 13, 2008
My name is ITC(Sel) Wayne A. Holloman and I was given a task to chose a CPO that has fallen in the war. I chose CPO Nathan H. Hardy not knowing who he was at first. After reading his BIO, I was deeply touched and moved by the courage he displayed while defending our country and freedom. I would like to express my deepest condolences to his family. I lost my sister almost 2 years ago and I think of her everyday keeping her spirit alive. I know Nathan’s family is doing the same. I pray that I can become half the man Nathan was and CPO. God Bless!
July 9, 2008
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Chief Petty Officer Hardy and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
July 9, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Chief Petty Officer Hardy!
RIP PFC Aaron J. Ward 4/28/89 - 5/6/08 (KIA)
Gary Tolle
July 1, 2008
Nathan, God bless you sailor and thank you for your brave and honorable service to a grateful nation and for paying the ultimate price for our freedom.. You are now in great company with God and so many other fallen hero's before and after you. On 5/6/08 my nephew PFC Aaron J. Ward was killed in action in Iraq and my final promise to him was to never forget him and our fallen hero’s, we will never forget their commitment and sacrifice. Hardy family, words cannot express the pain we now share, but our families will forever have a bond and we will be thinking of Nathan and your family and will keep you in our thoughts & prayers. Please accept my heart felt condolences and my prayer that god help you cope with this tragic loss and may the memories of your HERO carry you through each day. From one Gold Star family to another!
Lee Kline
June 23, 2008
Nate, I was at Arlington Cemetary on 6/16/08 and took my kids to your place of rest. Even though I didn't have the privaledge to know you and your partner Mike you both are hero's and an inspiration for me and my son (a future marine) an will forever be an inspiration and in our memories. Thank you for your bravery and keeping us free and safe.
Maj M. B. Parlor
May 21, 2008
Hi, Bro:
Small world. An online buddy of mine, now retired from the USCG, proved to be a close friend of Yours.
As a proud supporter of the UDT/SEAL Museum, I tip my Cowboy Hat to Your Memory.
May You Rest - In - Peace.
Kara Obey
May 20, 2008
Thank you Nate for your service, your example, and your dedication to a cause you so loved. You are truly one of the great ones whose memory will shine on forever.
Gail Giarrusso
May 7, 2008
I did not know Nate personally; however, I know very well the caliber of person he was...Unselfish, Honorable, Determined, Protecting, Loving, Patriotic. My nephew is currently serving his 3rd tour of duty in Iraq and I know it takes very special people to do the job they do.
My deepest sympathy to you for your loss and also my appreciation for Nate's service to our nation.
Paladin
May 5, 2008
Rest Well.
Kay Berthold
May 2, 2008
"No one has greater love than to lay down his own life for his friends. "John 15:13. God bless your son for the great sacrifice he gave, and may His love strengthen you and give you comfort.
Dolly Martineau
April 29, 2008
I did not know know Nate, but I am so proud of him, his family, and all the Gold and Blue Star Families, troops and all the veterans. I know Nate is still on his Mission supporting the troops until they finish the missions he was so much a part of. My grandson is in Iraq on his third tour, and what they do for others, and our country is the ultimate. We can never thank them enough. When you see our Hero's, stop, say thank you, they are the angels, watching over us, and keeping us safe.
My prayers are with Nate, and his very special family.
L. D. Jeffries, USAF Pararescue, ret
April 29, 2008
The last easy day was yesterday.
R.I.P. Chief Hardy
Richard "Snack" Barr
April 17, 2008
Dear Steve,
I got notice of your son's death from Delahanty and Wayne Sanford which also mentioned your other child's death to cancer.
You guys have had your own war to go through.
My prayer is that God will heal your so terribly raw and torn hearts, and He will continue to love on you both so that You will be able to praise God in the midst of your sorrows and pain.
May God keep you all, bless you, and protect you from all attacks of the Evil One.
With all my love,
Rev. Dr. Rick "Snack" Barr
April 11, 2008
Thank you for all you have done for this country! God bless you and your family.
Beverly M
March 24, 2008
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008
tom ringer and family
March 21, 2008
Thank you Lord,for brave men such as Nathan. Thank you Nathan... In Jesus name,Amen.
Glenn Wong
March 20, 2008
Dear Steve,
My deepest sympathies to you over the loss of your son Nathan. Thanks to Nathan and many others who have served and protected our country.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in these difficult times.
Freedom Green
March 17, 2008
Dear Steve and Donna -
Sending you both and all your family my heartfelt sympathy. I was so sadded to hear the news of Nathan. My mother who lives in FL just called me to say she just saw this on the news tonight ( 3/17/2008 ) I was so sadded with what she told me. I went right to the computer to look you up. You must be so proud of Nathan and all that he has done. What a strong young man. I never new Nathan, but my little brother was very good friends with Josh. When they went to high school. Please know I'm thinking of you all and will keep you all in my family prayers. Freedom Green
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
March 13, 2008
My heartfelt sympathy to the Hardy family in the loss of Nathan. I did not know Nathan, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Nathan you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten. I live close to ARLINGTON NATIONAL CEMETERY and I visit there frequently. Each time I am at ANC I will visit/honor Nathan.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
"To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
March 12, 2008
To the Family and Friends of this Soldier:
I will stand in grief with this soldier's family to honor him. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life, but I promised Brent that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.
We lost our son SFC Brent A. Adams on 12/1/05 and it seems like yesterday. I wish so badly there were things I could say to you right now to make the pain you are feeling go away, but I know first hand there simply are no words that will bring you the comfort and peace your heart aches for. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you go through this tragedy moment by moment and as you mourn this loss.
We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with as our hearts both burst with pride and pain together.
I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally. While they can never be replaced, neither will they ever be forgotten. You must trust that sometime, someday the loving memories you have will help to sustain you and help you go on. This courageous soldier will forever be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well.
To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is your wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever.
If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero.
God Bless this soldier and family who gave all and God Bless legacy.com for setting up this site where families can so quickly share their condolences and prayers with others like themselves.
Proud Parents of SFC Brent A. Adams, KIA, 12/1/05, Ramadi, Iraq
Pam and Bill Adams, Lancaster, PA
John Motty
March 7, 2008
Dear Family and Friends,
I would like to offer my sincerest condolences. I cannot begin to imagine the loss and pain all are going through. My nephew is a United States Marine and serving in Iraq. We all pray every day for him and his comrade’s safety every day. War is a horrible reality. I salute and I am proud of all of our troops and their bravery to protect our freedom and server their country with honor. Freedom is not free.
With deepest regrets and sympathy
hazel boyles
March 5, 2008
i am so sorry you lost a love one may the lord blessed you n your family i got a grand son in the marines it is hard for every one that they lose a child
Scott Stratford
March 4, 2008
My heart felt condolences to Mindi,Parker,Steve,Donna,Ben,Uncle Erl,all other family members and the Gold Team. Nate will always be a hero to us all!
I recently was reminded of my last conversation with Nate at Chrismas where I asked him to tell me about what he does when he is out there. He humbly replied " I do my job..." Nate elaborated some, by telling me he truly has two families... One being Mindi (his wife),Parker (his son).etc and the other being his Team. He then told me that he would never let either of them down...(Nate believed strongly in what he was doing..)
I know that the Team is still out there and must be greatly effected by the loss of Nate and Mike. They continue to do the job that is needed for all of us to have our freedom preserved. I thank God for the gold Team and all of our srevice people. Let us never forget the price they and their families pay for our freedom.
Henryk Zaleski (CWO4,SC,USN-Ret)
March 4, 2008
Fair winds and following seas shipmate, see you at the last port of call.
Nina Stratford
February 29, 2008
The appreciation that I feel for all of the people who have expressed condolences to our family is great. Thank you, everyone, for your kind words.
I have been reminded of an important lesson in life. Our freedom is not free. It comes with a price. Nate has paid that price for us all. Please support the troops.
My deepest sympathy and love for all the Hardy family...
Nina
LB
February 24, 2008
Thank You and God Bless. We will NEVER forget. Godspeed.
Ginny Barrett
February 24, 2008
Dear Donna, Stephen, Ben, Mindi & Parker,
Words cannot express my condolances to all of you. Though Moon Township is long ago, I will always remember first meeting you Donna - with Ben and Jeff's kindergarten class. Nate in tow as I had Doug. The three Hardy boys and the three Barrett boys sled riding for hours at Allard - one piece snow suits and the "moon boots". Soccer teams and swim teams always included the boys. Two of my sons served in the Marine Corp, and both went to Iraq, but as we have talked about...they only had one tour each...I am blessed to have my sons, now civilians, near by. Thank you for sharing Nate with us and our country. He was a gift to all. I hope one day we might visit again. In the meantime, I'll keep in touch. Ben, Jeff sends his best to you. He now has a son that is into legos as much as you two were.
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Joshua Dosztan
February 21, 2008
I am proud to have met Chief Hardy, although only briefly, before he made Chief. Even as a PO1, he was one of those people who made an indelible impression on everyone he met. He was a genuine human being, insistant on being called 'just Nate', and I will never forget his demonstrated devotion to his shipmates and his team, and the invaluable lessons he taught so many of us through sheer example. I can think of no greater honor than to give it all in service to our Nation, and we will certainly see him again some glorious day.
"Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends."
-John 15:13
May God bless and keep you.
Jacquie Vautour Cullen
February 21, 2008
Donna & Steve,
Words cannot describe the sadness and pain of losing a child. Although I didn't know Nathan I have known you and Steve for many years growing up in Waltham, MA and know that your son, if only a small measure of who you both are was obviously a very special young man.
It is with great sadness and much appreciation for his sacrifice to his country that I pray for you and his family. Know that he has a very special place in heaven. I thank you for giving your country your son so selflessly to protect all of us. Love, Jacquie
February 21, 2008
God Bless his family and friends!
My heart aches at the loss of a fine man taken way before his time!
He is a HERO and will never be forgotten!
Thinking of the family !
Jamie(Navy wife)
marinecomfortquilts.us
Cathie Gregg
February 19, 2008
May God bless your service to America. My prayers are with your friends and family and may they find some small comfort in the fact that you are loved so well.
Cathie Gregg, Madison, NH
Nan Payson
February 19, 2008
My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
Kevin Ramey
February 18, 2008
To the family of Chief Nathan H. Hardy, please accept my sincere condolences for the loss of your loved one.
My family joins me in expressing our grief for your loss. As a fellow Chief, I have lost a brother. Our nation has lost a hero. Our thoughts are with you.
FCC(SW) Kevin Ramey and family
SEAL Sister
February 17, 2008
It truly is hard to put these feelings down as words. As a SEAL family member, I am overwhelmed by the intense pride & gratefullness I feel. At the same time, my is broken for you & your family. May God bless you.
Pat Bricklemyer
February 17, 2008
To the Hardy family,
The members of Sharon Church in Moon Township heard of your loss this morning. Although you probably don't know me, we had friends in common throughout the township and I cannot tell you how shocked and saddened I was to hear this sorrowful news. I pray that God gives you faith as you struggle through these dark days and that He brings you out of them to a bright Eastertide. You have always been in my prayers and will continue to be.
With sympathy,
Marilyn and Al Burnell
February 15, 2008
Donna, Steven and family, There just is no words to express our deepest symathies, we want you to know that our heart is breaking for all of you. You are in our thoughts and prayers
David Thayer
February 15, 2008
Mr. & Mrs. Hardy and Ben,
All of us at the lake will miss Nate so much.The memories that we have of him will never be forgotten! Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Nate, Thank you for serving our great country. You were a true hero!!
Angie Thompson
February 15, 2008
Mindy, I am sorry for your loss. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. Love, your mom's cousin Angie
Bridget Smith (Banks)
February 14, 2008
To Ben,
My thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time. When I explain to my children what a hero really is, I think of those that are so brave to stand up and fight for our freedom. Be proud.
Terri Cirillo
February 14, 2008
Steve, Donna, Ben
I am so sorry to hear about Nate. Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.
Sarah Pontoshki
February 14, 2008
We are truly grateful for Nathan and his bravery. Thank you!
A Good Friend
February 14, 2008
Oop Hansen
February 14, 2008
From Mindi's Uncle and Aunt and family in Wyoming, we are so truly sorry for your loss and our hearts and prayers are with all of you.
Linda Cano
February 14, 2008
To the Hardy family, I give my heartfelt sympathy in your great loss. God bless all of you and comfort you. Thank you, Nathan, for your courage, honor and ultimate sacrifice for our freedom and security. May you rest in the arms Jesus now, my American Hero.
Carlos and Nicole Disla
February 13, 2008
We are so very sorry for your loss. May God keep you and provide strength during your time of sorrow.
Brian French
February 13, 2008
Scott, Nina, Mindi, and the entire family. I am truly sorry for your loss, and extend my deepest condolences. Nathan died, protecting the ideal that makes this Country great.
Freedom.
I will forever be grateful to the brave Men and Women that sacrifice all, so that we may live with the freedom and liberty which we all enjoy.
Bobby Britt
February 13, 2008
My deepest emotions were touched with the loss of Nate. I am truely saddened by your loss, the nations loss and the loss of a friend. Nothing will ever replace the memories I have of Nate and Josh at Lake Sunapee. Their big smiles and laughter still ring in my head. Thank you Nate for protecting us with your courage and honor in the Navy Seals. I will never forget. God Bless.
Nicole DiPentima-Herman
February 13, 2008
Ben and Family - I am so sorry for your profound loss. There are no words. I know how proud the entire OR/Durham community is of Nate. May the legacy of his heroism comfort you during this difficult time.
Nicole DiPentima-Herman
Keri (Moody) Harrington
February 13, 2008
My deepest sympathies go out to the entire Hardy family. My heart truly aches for you all. Please know that you have raised remarkable men and we are all lucky to have the priviledge of knowing them.
February 13, 2008
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
I would also like to tell you about a website, http://groups.msn.com/SSPSoldierPor
traits/homepage,
where some wonderful people will make wood portraits of your fallen Hero for free for the immediate family. I became aware of this site when I wanted to do something special for Le Ron’s mother.
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett (Queens, NY)
Chris Poulin
February 13, 2008
Dear Ben and Family,
Jen and I are deeply saddened by the news of your brother Nathan's passing. He was obviously an enormous hero that has an incredible legacy that will live on. Our prayers are with you buddy.
Katherine Cadwell
February 12, 2008
Hello Ben and Family,
We are sending our love and support to you.What a wonderful family. love from the Cadwells at Far Post Soccer Club in Vermont. Kathy, Jared, Celia and Parker
Powell Family
February 12, 2008
Ben and the Hardy Family,
Know that you are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Respectfully,
Cathy Blount
February 12, 2008
To Donna, Steve, Ben, Mindi, and Parker,
Although we are not close, we are related. I am Jean's (Terry's wife) sister. When I saw this"guest book" on line, I just had to let you know how much you all have been in our thoughts and prayers. I cannot even begin to imagine the inner strength that you have had to call into "action" to be able to even put one foot in front of the other, to get through this heart break. You must be a very special couple. It seems that God "deals the cards'" to those that have the ability to process, and accept them. There has to be a reason. All I can think of, is that your dear Josh had a special position for his brother to fill in Heaven. My prayers are with Ben. He now has two heros to live up to. Please know that your extended family is keeping you in our constant thoughts. Can't even imagine the trials of getting through each of these endless days. Be proud.
Chaplain Dan Gates
February 12, 2008
With the deepest regret, I have just learned of the death of Chief Petty Offiver Hardy. As a Vietnam Veteran and the State Chaplain of the Georgia Society, Sons Of The American Revolution, I speak for our President, Charlie A. Newcomer, III and the more than 1,400 SAR members around the State of Georgia in humbly expressing the condolences of a grateful Society. Wrapped in the integrity of service to our nation and the inestimable values of duty, honor and country, your American hero stood on a wall of freedom for us all. This precious life, lived and lost in love of America, epitomized every attribute of patriotism the Sons Of The American Revolution hold dear. And, as Americans, we could never repay the debt we owe ..!! Nor the debt we owe you… the family of one of America's best ...!!!
Rob
February 12, 2008
Nate was a good friend and will be missed. We will stand vigilant in his stead.
Nahanni Rous
February 12, 2008
Dearest Donna, Steve, Ben, Mindi and Parker,
I find it difficult to express words at this time, but want you to know that I and the whole, close community in Durham and beyond love and support your brave family.
With love and sorrow, Nahanni
LeRoy and Jana Lewis
February 12, 2008
Mindi,
God bless you and Parker as you deal with the loss of your precious husband. Such a brave, fine young man. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Gerri and Frank Leonelli
February 11, 2008
Dearest Mindi,
Our hearts are saddened at the loss of your husband and soulmate. You have always been a sweet and brave girl. We pray God's light will shine upon you and Parker always. May your Hero rest in peace.
Mike
February 11, 2008
To the family & Friends of Nathan,
I am terribly sorry for the loss of your loved one. As a Navy vet, with friends currently in Iraq, I understand and appreciate the sacrifices that are made by the protectors of this great country. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. You have my deepest sympathy & respect. May God bless another hero.
Jean Mariano
February 11, 2008
To the family of Nathan Hardy - I am so sorry for your loss but so thankful that you raised a son who was willing to lay down his life for his fellow man. He did what so many could not do. Parker will always know what an incredible dad he had and you should know that people all across America are praying for you and the strength to be strong as Nathan would want you do. Your family is in my prayers.
Dustin Lester
February 11, 2008
Mindi,
I am so sorry for your loss. Your husband truly is a Hero and we will never forget what he sacrificed for our Country. You and your son are in my thoughts and prayers.
My deepest sympathy,
Dustin
Sharon Trautwein
February 11, 2008
I was so sorry to hear about Nate. I know his family has lost him in body, but, never in spirit. His memories live on in the hearts & minds of all who knew & loved him. Be comforted by knowing he is with his Heavenly Father. Just close your eyes and you will feel his presence. May the Lord comfort each one of you in this sad time. His Heavenly life has just begun. May you feel him in your quiet moments and know he is at peace. God Bless You All!
Shelia
February 11, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss! May God bless you and comfort you in your time of sorrow. You and your son as well as your family are in my prayers. May you have healing, love and light to surround you!
BRYAN RAISOR
February 11, 2008
MINDI,
MINDI I AM SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT THE LOSS OF YOUR HUSBAND. MY FAMILY AND I ARE TRULY GRATEFUL FOR WHAT YOUR HUSBAND HAS DONE FOR OUR COUNTRY. AND AM TRULEY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. YOU AND YOUR FAMILY ARE IN OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS.
BRYAN RAISOR
7th grade Louisburg Middle School
February 11, 2008
We care and share your sorrow and pride.
Mary Motley
February 11, 2008
I did not know your husband personally but I am a part of the Little Creek Family. My heart and prayers go out to you and yours.
Carlee Coon
February 11, 2008
Dear Mindi,
I am so sorry for the loss of your husband. My thoughts and prayers are with you and Parker at this difficult time. It's been a long time since I've talked to you, but I do think of you often. Love, Carlee.
Kim Richardson
February 11, 2008
I am deeply sorry for your loss. My sister recently had a dream about childhood memories with Josh, Ben and Nate in Blodgett's Landing, which prompted her to find out more about how the family is doing. We are heartbroken at the news of Nate's death, and hope that you can find peace and comfort in each other during this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with the family.
Michelle Lester
February 11, 2008
Dear Mindi,
I'm so sorry for the loss of your husband. I know how much you adored him. You will always have a special place in my heart. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your precious son Parker. Love, Michelle
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