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Memories and Condolences
for Shane Penley
Charlie Gili
January 21, 2018
Hello,
We realize that we are very late to express our deepest condolences, but we wanted to let your family and friends know that we will be sending Care Packages to deployed troops this week and we'll be dedicating several of these to your loved one. Each package will carry the name, photo and the hometown of Shane D. US Army Private 1st Class. We realize that this is a small tribute, but we do this with all respect and sincerity and we want you to know that it is made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals from across the American youth hockey community. We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you safe and strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of the US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign
R. McGuire
April 6, 2013
Prayers for you and your family as you remember your brave, fallen hero on this day. May the God of all comfort continue to come alongside you...
L Neal
May 19, 2011
To the family of PFC Shane D. Penley:
Please know that just as your loved one remains in your hearts and minds; his sacrifice, and that of your family, remains with the people he died defending. Words cannot express the gratitude we feel for his bravery and selflessness, or the heartache we feel for your loss. God bless and keep you always.
Peggy Childers
April 19, 2011
April 6, 2011
To the family and friends of Pfc. Shane D. Penley:
Please accept my remembrance of Shane on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Peggy Childers
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Sandy Barrick
October 17, 2010
Wishing you a Happy Birthday, Shane!! This is your 3rd Birthday in Heaven and it still feels like yesterday. We really miss you and think about you often.
Love,
Aunt Sandy
Sandy Barrick
April 7, 2010
I can't believe it has been 2 years since we got the news. It seems like yesterday. You are missed greatly by family and friends - just wish we had 1 more day with you to say the things that were never said. Your laying down your gun and haning up your boots in a better place. You will always be in our hearts and will never be forgotten!!!!
Love and miss you dearly,
Aunt Sandy
Peggy Childers
April 7, 2010
To the family and friends of Pfc. Shane D. Penley:
Remembering Shane on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
January 18, 2010
THIS IS TO MY BROTHER I KNOW YOUR PROBABLY SO UPSET WITH ME AS YOU WATCH ME FROM ABOVE I'M SORRY THAT I CANT TURN TO YOU IN THESE KIND OF SITUATIONS I WISH YOU YOUR HERE TO GIVE ME SOME GUIDANCE I MISS YOU SO MUCH I LOVE YOU YOU ARE A HERO I WANT TO MAKE OUR PARENTS PROUD JUST LIKE YOU DID SHANE YOU WILL ALWAYS BE MISSED AND FOREVER MY BROTHER ONE DAY WE WILL ALL BE A FAMILY AGAIN SOMEDAY YOU WILL ALWAYS BE WITH ME WHERE EVER I GO I LOVE YOU I MISS U FOREVER IN MY PRAYERS TO MY LOVED ONE SHANE PENLEY
October 21, 2009
October 21, 2009
Mary Lynn Calgaro
October 21, 2009
I found myself putting off signing the book,right after the funeral,I had both children sign, and then I waited, and I waited.Finally Sandy said it was time to be printed.Anyone that knows me, knows that I am never at a loss for words.It's not that I did not want to acknowledge Shane or the whole family.I have been searching for the right words.All this time has passed,I will never find the words that could possible describe how I feel.So I will do my best,and I apologize for it taking so long.
The day of the funeral was a roller coaster of emotions.Watching the Freedom Riders come to the wake,and then lead the funeral procession of a boy they did not know,made me feel pride in my country.Something Shane had a great deal of.Then listening to the service,I felt comfort from my faith in God.If only we could have seen when Jesus wrapped his arms around Shane, and welcomed him home.Then the wonderful family reunion that took place with Shane as the guest of honor!
Then the somber motorcade.I have never seen so many police and firefighters,and public servants lined up, saluting in every town we passed through. From his entire school standing out front when we went by, to the 2 women standing outside their work, with a handmade thankyou sign, when they saw him going by.It gave me a sense of some sort of recognition, that Shane had touched more lives than we would ever know.My children were awe struck,watching the soldiers at the gravesite.When they folded the flag,the somber salutes,the 21 gun salute that rang through us all.A final goodbye. How would I convey the meaning of that to my children.We planted a tree after the funeral, so they would have a reminder that Shane's, was a life long sacrifice, not a long ago one.
To Shane, I say "Job well done soldier,you are the finest example of what it means to be an American,and about having faith in God,and love of family. Everything you did you did your best.Thank you for your service,Thank you for your example, and thank you for your sacrifice."
To Dena, There are no words that describe how my heart aches for you. I pray that God helps you find the strength to carry your enormous burden. The only thing I can think of is to tell you what I do, I think of it as Shane's song. I turn it up, and sing it really loud, and I feel good about Shane for that little while,instead of sad.It is called Testify to Love,by Wynonna Judd. I feel the need for my children and I to stand witnesses for Shane. I think that the only thing that could possible bring Shane sadness now that he is with our Lord, is to hear you cry out his name, and you can't hear him say "I am right here with you" or that when you embrace one of his belongings, or the momentos from his passing, you do not feel him embracing you back.
Listen in the silence,we look back, but Shane's not back there anymore, look ahead for him, he passed us up, and is happily waiting.
Nick feels things differently than the rest of us, he has no interest in wathcing sports, and I was looking at him the other day, and thought of Shane. Nick's favorite thing in the world to watch is Soldier movies, I thought I was a patriotic American. But rather than yelling and screaming over a goal or a touch down, Nick watches war movies intensely. And when our planes come overhead with air support, or the special services go in for a rescue-depending on which movie, he is jumping up screaming for our soldier's, yelling at the "bad" guys,and cheerleading for the USA. Shane taught him that. He knows soldiers are our Protectors. They keep us safe.I am so sorry for your loss.He will never be forgotten.
Mary Lynn
Christina Finn
October 18, 2009
God Bless Shane and his Family......
Respectfully,
Daniel & Christina Finn
Austin Maravilla
October 17, 2009
Happy Birthday Shane. I wish you were here Shane to play with me again.
love Austin
Nathan Maravilla
October 17, 2009
i love you and miss you Shane.
happy birthday Shane. you are my Hero
love Nathan
Sandy Barrick
October 17, 2009
Dearest Shane,
Today you turn 21 in heaven. It's so unfair to have to go the the cemetery to celebrate with you. We all love you and are so proud of you. Please know we keep your memories near and dear to our hearts. Happy 21st Birthday PFC Shane Penley. Rest in peace knowing you did your job well - and we can never thank you enough for our freedom.
Happy Birthday Hero,
Love, Aunt Sandy
Tristian Maravilla
October 17, 2009
Happy birthday in heaven Shane. I miss you. I wish you were still here to play volleyball with me.
Love Tristian
Jennie Talbert
October 17, 2009
Shane,
Today is your second birthday in heaven. It kills us to have to go to the cemetery to celebrate with you. I'm waiting for the day that it gets easier (if there is such a day). We all love and miss you terribly. We are doing our best to keep your memory alive. Today as I stand next to your mom looking at your headstone, I'll be sure to give her a hug and let her know you are near. Rest in gods arms and know that you are loved. Happy 21st Birthday.
Love Jennie, Jeremy & Autumn
Sandy Barrick
August 5, 2009
Dearest Shane,
I find myself missing you so much these days!! The Bears Training Camp has started - and I remember what a BIG BEARS FAN you were and how much you loved to watch the games (can you give them alittle help this year - maybe the Super Bowl??). Nascar has come and gone and I remember how you loved going to the races with Tony and Chris. It just doesn't seem fair that you are gone so young, God needed you more. Everyone misses you so much and we do remember all the things you loved to do. We remember your big smile that would light-up a room when you walked in, how you loved to play volley ball, how you loved to pick on your Dad, how you loved to play football, your kind words and how much you loved life. But most of all we remember how much you LOVED YOUR COUNTY - THANK YOU FOR OUR FREEDOM - A HERO THAT WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!! Your Mom, Dad, Sisters, family and friends miss their Little Soldier Boy dearly!!
Love you and miss you so much!!
Aunt Sandy
David barrick
May 24, 2009
On this Memorial Day we remember the men and women like Shane who gave so much so we all can enjoy the freedom we have. Every time I look at the American flag flying in our garden I think of how proud I am to have had Shane serve our country! He is greatly miss by all the family and his sacrifice will always be remember.So on this Memorial Day we honor you Shane Penley
Mom
May 22, 2009
Shane what I wouldn't give for one more day. Then I could tell you every thing I didn't say before. Not for one minute did I not think you wouldn't come home. Just so you know I'm so proud of you and I love you. We'll see you one day soon. We have are memories and your pictures to remind us of you. They said you were a good soldier, so stand down soldier your job is done. Go rest in the arms of God and be at peace. I miss you more than anything. The hole in my heart will never heal, it will get smaller as the time goes by. Proud of my soldier,love you and miss you terribly. Forever in my heart .
Crystal Penley
May 21, 2009
There is not a day that goes by that i don't think of my brother. I have so many memories of us together and it kills me to know that that is all i have left of him. I talk to him every day sometimes i cry sometimes i just let him know about whats going on in my life. My son ethan looks just like my brother and wants to be just like him that is so hard for me to here. People say that is a blessing he looks like him i swear sometimes i'm looking right at him and i just break down. I'm learning to accept that he is gone but never forgotten and that i will see him again someday. I know that he is in a better place and that my grandma and grandpa are taking good care of him. My brother gave his life for us to have one and for that i am truely grateful and i will never forget that he died in honor of our country.He will forever be in my heart till we meet again in heaven and i can't wait till that day comes where i can see his beautiful smile again.
Peggy Childers
April 9, 2009
To the family of Pfc. Shane D. Penley:
Shane gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Remembering our HERO
April 6, 2009
A year ago today all of our lives where changed FOREVER!! Today (as every other day) WE REMEMBER YOU!!! We remember your smile, your laugh, your heart, and your bravery. We remember every day that FREEDOM ISN'T FREE!! Our freedom is a constant reminder of what your parents and the rest of our family and other families go through...paying the ultimate price for our country. At the same time the bravery and honor is so respectable. We love and miss you so very much.
The stars in the sky are windows to the angels in heaven.
REMEMBERING OUR HERO!!!
Bonnie, Joe and your Buddies (Tristian, Austin, and Nathan)
Tommy Kargas
April 6, 2009
Wow, buddy I can't even believe it has already been a year since your passing. I often think about what it was like over there for you and whatnot but hopefully one day i can see for myself. I also often think about your parents and how they have been doing along with your sisters. You're truly an inspiration to me as well as many others. You prove the slogan "These colors don't run" to be just that. My sorrows are out to your family along with the others who feel the same as i do. Thanks for being a hero and you will always be one in my book. Love ya bro. P.S. still working on getting ink for ya bro.
T Starman
January 16, 2009
I offer my deepest condolences for your loss
Sandy Barrick
December 25, 2008
Dearest Shane.
Little did we know when we said goodbye to you a year ago today how our lives would be changed forever. We are so very proud of you for going off to war and fighting for our country. We miss you so dearly and some days it seems so unreal that we will never see your smile again until we get to heaven. Please know that you are missed every hour of every day by all your family, friends and neighbors. And when you are walking that half a step behind your mom, dad and sisters give them a little whisper that things will be ok, they have days when they don't know how to keep going without you. You will always be our "AMERICAN SOLDIER AND HERO".
I so proud of you and love you even more!!!
Merry Christmas Shane, Your First Christmas in Heaven.
I Love You and Miss You!!
Aunt Sandy
Dear Dena, Dave and Girls,
I just wanted to let you know how very proud of Shane I am for fight for our freedom. We don't know why God wanted him so soon, but some day we will. He is truly in a better place and I know those words will never ease your pain and heartache but we need to believe them. We have all of our memories of Shane to keep him with us and in our hearts forever. Your Little Soldier Paid the Ultimate Sacrifice for Our Freedom. All Gave Some, Some Gave All.
Wishing you comfort this Christmas!!
I Love All of You.
Kenna Larra
November 22, 2008
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The Maravilla's
November 11, 2008
Shane on this day we remember you,your courage and your sacrific and the sacrific of so many that went before you. We THANK YOU and all the other brave men and women(SOLDIERS)that paid the ultimate price. THANK YOU to all and to Shane WE LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU.
DAVID PENLEY
October 18, 2008
SHANE,I'VE BEEN TRYING TO DEAL WITH THIS. HOPING IT WAS A BIG DREAM AND THAT IT NEVER REALLY HAPPENED.I LOOK BACK NOW AND WISH WE COULD HAVE SPENT MORE TIME WITH EACH OTHER.THE OLD SAYING I COULD OF SHOULD OF WOULD OF.I WAS SO PROUD OF YOU AT YOUR TURNING BLUE CEREMONY WHEN I PINNED YOUR BLUE RIBBON ON YOUR SHOULDER.YOUR GRANDPA PENLEY WAS PROBABLY JUMPING WITH JOY IN HEAVEN,SAYING THATS MY SHANE IM SO PROUD TO HAVE HIM AS MY GRANDSON.WE NEVER GOT TO DISCUSS MUCH ABOUT YOU WANTING TO LEAVE FOR THE ARMY.EVERYTHING HAPPENED SO FAST.YOU KNEW WHAT YOU WERE GETTING INTO,YET YOU BRAVELY WENT TO FIGHT FOR YOUR COUNTRY TO DEFEND OUR FREEDOM.I WISH THE WAR WOULD JUST COME TO AN END AND ALL OUR TROOPS COULD COME HOME TO THEIR LOVE ONES.I MISS MY CARDINAL FITNESS PARTNER.I HAVE'NT BUILT UP ENOUGH COURAGE TO GO BACK THERE AGAIN.YOU MADE YOUR MOTHER AND I SO VERY PROUD TO HAVE YOU AS OUR SON.I REALIZE YOUR IN A BETTER PLACE NOW AND ONE DAY WE CAN ALL REJOICE TOGETHER WHEN WE MEET.YOU'LL NEVER BE FORGOTTON.YOUR ACHEIVEMENTS,YOUR MEDALS,YOUR ACCOMMODATIONS WILL ALWAYS BE REMEMBERED.YOU'LL ALWAYS BE MISSED.I'LL REMEMBER YOU AS LITTLE BIGFOOT.I LOVE YOU SON!YOUR DAD.MAY YOU REST IN PEACE!
EDDIE AGUILAR
October 17, 2008
TO MY BEST FRIEND & BROTHER. I WISH YOU WERE HERE SO I CAN WISH YOU A HAPPY 20TH BIRTHDAY. SHANE I THINK TO MY SELF OFFTEN ABOUT HOW THING COULD BE DIFFENT IF YOU WERE HERE, BUT NOW I UNDERSTAND WHAT IT WAS YOU WERE TRYING TO PROVE. YOU DID THE RIGHT THING NOT ONLY FOR YOUR SELF BUT FOR EVER ONE ELSE. BUT YOU WILL ALWAYS BE MISS AND NEVER FOGETEN.TO MY RIGHT MAN & MY BEST MAN. I WILL ALWAY LOVE MY BROTHER & BEST FRIEND. I WILL ALWAY SHARE A BOND WITH YOU IN MY PAYERS. I WILL SEE YOU VERY SO ME BROTHER AND I HOPE YOU HAVEN'T FOR GOT ABOUT ME. CAUSE I HAVEN'T FOR GOT ABOUT YOU.....
Tj Strange
September 14, 2008
To the Penley Family,
My condolences on your loss. Your son truly is the definition of Hero, a martyr even: dying for a cause that you believe in..and that cause was freedom! I knew Pfc. Shane growing up and hung out with him quite a bit along with Eddie A. right across the street. As a graduate of Rickover Jr. High along w/ Pfc Shane this hits really hard because even though we ended up going our separate ways, i will always remember the time we spent together. (Salute)!
Pastor Frank Noyes
August 20, 2008
Gethsemane Church
1601 Frederick Drive
Pekin IL 61554
Phone – 309-346-7791
Dear family of Pfc. Shane D. Penley,
We want to say thank you. We understand that no words can be adequate for your sorrow. We certainly do not want to intrude upon your privacy. As Americans we want you to know that we deeply appreciate the ultimate sacrifice your loved one has made for all of us. We also would like for you to be aware that with this letter comes our special concern and prayers for you. We are all safer because young men and women who love their country, and know the value of a free nation, are willing to put themselves in harms way, and lay down their lives to keep this nation free and safe for all of us.
Your sacrifice is also very great. We know that we can give little comfort; however, the knowledge that your loved one did not die in vain, but died in the service of our country, gives each of us a noble example of the value of life, and the responsibility of freedom. We hope this will bring pride and comfort to you.
We at Gethsemane Church believe that there is purpose to life. We send this letter with our deepest appreciation for the greatest of sacrifices, you and your loved one have given to this country. We know it is not enough, but please allow us to assure you that your loved one is not forgotten.
Very Sincerely
FrankG. Noyes (Pastor)
Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.
(Jn. 15:13)
Justin Mooney
July 31, 2008
R.I.P Shane.. yea this is a late entry but didnt get a call till last thursday
still remember us growing up having fun back when we were 5 yrs old
Ruben Farias
July 30, 2008
Hey penely it's Farias, I miss you bro you gave it all and i'll see you one day...just remembering the trip to nashville, that was fun and so was basic training....PV2 Ruben Farias 1-506 4th bct 101st Ghazni Afganistan
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
July 20, 2008
My heartfelt sympathy to the Penley family and friends in the loss of Shane. I did not know Shane, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Shane you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
"TO LIVE IN THE HEARTS
OF THOSE YOU LEAVE BEHIND
IS NEVER TO DIE"
~Robert Orr~
July 10, 2008
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Pfc Penley and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
July 10, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Pfc Penley!
Susy & Tony McBay & Family
May 22, 2008
To the Penley Family,
I heard a voice in the wind that said,
“The fight I fought, I did not dread,
The life I gave was not in vain,
For our freedom,
I would fight again.”
I thought of those Shane left behind,
Family, friends, all of mankind.
Though you grieve,
Tears never go away,
Take comfort in knowing,
You'll see him again some day.
But now he revels in the light
Of another world that is so bright.
When tears begin to stream down your face,
Remember that Shane is happy
In this better place. sm
Elizabeth Moore
May 22, 2008
To the Penley Family
We go back a long time and I love ya. Shane wll be truly and I mean truly miss, he is hero in our heart. My deepest sympathy. You know we're always here for the family.
Love
Armeka, Liz and Arzell Moore
Chrissy Book
May 21, 2008
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Mary Elizabeth Calgaro
May 19, 2008
dear shane's parents,
shane is are hero.
shane thac you for
saveeng us.
marybeth.
Kim Evener
May 18, 2008
to all the family and friends im sorry for your loss i met shane a couple of times back when Bonnie and I was younger. i dont know what to really say but im sorry and you all are in my prayers with love always
Amber Penley
May 16, 2008
To my brother who will always be remembered as a HERO. I am so proud of you. You really grew up into a fine young man. I use to fight with you often but loved you so much. I didnt want you to go but its something no one could stop you from doing. This should not of happened to you. Its not fair ill never understand you being in a better place when you have so many here who love and care for you. Your there now and will have to move on it will be hard but youll never be forgotten. Always have our memories and our stories to tell our kids. There uncle shane was a hero who will be greatly missed by all. I love you brother R.I.P.
Jennie Talbert
May 7, 2008
Aunt Dena, Uncle Dave & Girls
To me Shane was more then a man he was my cousin(little brother), my solider, my friend and most of all my hero. At Ms. Penley's funeral I told Shane that there was plenty of room at my house for him to come and hide instead of going to Iraq. Shane said to me, there is no reason for me to hide I'M NOT AFRAID. Words only a true hero would speak. Hearing those words from Shane comfort me now more then ever. Knowing that when the lord called Shane home he was not afraid. Shane is forever in our hearts and minds. We should all do our best to honor and keep his memory alive. Shane's death is a reminder to all that life is short, freedom is never free and family is forever. We love you all and we are always here for you.
Love Jennie, Jeremy & Autumn
Aunt Carol n Uncle Paul Ortega N Kids
May 6, 2008
To My Loving Family, I know these times are n Must be So So hard for you all!! I just can't imagine the pain of losing a child, but I DO know you ALL will get threw this n pull together to help one another. I remember the last time i saw him he would NOT leave our pool table, seeing how he had just learned n was as he said "working on my skills"
I look up to the sky from time to time driving, walking, or just sitting outdoors n Say A Hello to Shane n all of those who have passed in our Families and it almost feels like i feel aa lil whisper from all whom i said HHello too, and That makes me SMILE WITH PURE JOY!!!!
I Love You All, God Bless
LOve The Ortega Family
Wayne and Patty Barrick
May 5, 2008
Dear Dena, David and Girls,
Our hearts are heavy for you all.
Shane was a brave son who served
his country with honor. Our prayers
are with you. We will meet him on
the streets of gold someday.
"And God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes" Rev. 21:4
God Bless Love Ya Mom and Dad
Tristian Maravilla
May 5, 2008
I miss Shane so much. HE IS MY HERO!!! I will do my best to honor him. I know he watches over me from heaven and is proud of me. I want to be like him when I am bigger. He was my buddy, and I liked wrestling with him. I LOVE HIM SO MUCH!!! But I know that I will see him again some day with Jesus. Jesus is taking care of him now.
I MISS YOU SOLDIER!!!
GO CHICAGO BEARS
Love me,
Tristian
Bonnie Maravilla
May 5, 2008
I didn't reallize how hard it was going to be to sign this book, until I sit here trying to find the words to say. Because there is no words to make the ache in your (our) hearts go away. Just know that Shane will forever be a hero to all that knew him and even to those who did not. Without sacrifices like this our freedom would not exist. To all of those heros we are indebted to. This is a reminder to all of us that our freedom IS NOT FREE!!
Shane has fallen but WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!!!
I will forever remember him as a wild, blonde haired, little boy. As well as a loving and warm hearted young man, who loved his family and the Chicago Bears. Shane adored his nieces and nefews so much that he looked at them as his own. Although I am his cousin, I have looked at him as a brother, I remember him as a baby. He was the only boy admist of all of us girls, and boy did he hold his own!!
Just always remember that you will see him again when God says it is time. It will be a glorious reunion!! But until then remember you are surrounded by people who love you and are grieving along with you. Although I could never imagine how you are feeling, my heart is aching along with you.
I will do my best to make sure that we will honor his memory in all that we do.
I LOVE YOU GUYS SO MUCH!!!!
Forever in our hearts,
Bonnie, Joe and the Boys
Eddie Aguilar
May 5, 2008
My words can rare sum up how i really feel inside, But my condolenes go's out to the Penley family to someone who i lost as "my Brother" and knew for many years. Was just doing the right thing in life. Shane and i grow up together on the same block and i will never forget all the memories and good times we had together. Shane you will allways be with me side by side. And yes now thing are going to be diffent this year with you not hear, but some way or antoher i will have to move on with out you in my life. But your "my brother" just for a diffent mother.I will miss you Shane D. Penley from your "BEST FRIEND" & "BROTHER". Love from your BROTHER Eddie Aguilar.
In Memory of Shane ~ ( Debra Estep )
May 4, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Shane, but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
Visit this link to hear the song.
The Other Side –
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom and MIL
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Please contact me and I will email you back a copy of my
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
Wayne & Pat Barrick
May 3, 2008
PFC Shane Penley "our Hero"
Thank you for your service and
sacrifice to our country which makes
our freedom more precious. YOUR
SACRIFICE WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. We are so proud of you
and after reading your Guest book, you
have blessed and touched many hearts.
Your Grandparents will always remember you and regret that we
were not able to see you more ofter
and to have not spent more time with
you, but we are looking forward to
our reunion in heaven. Keep watching for us. See you soon.
Grandma and Grandpa Barrick
Linda Huff
April 28, 2008
Dena, Dave, and girls,
I know I could never imagine the pain and sorrow you are going through. But time will heal a broken heart but you will never forget. but hopefully soon you will be able to focus on the good memiores and what a incredible young man your son turned out to be. He is with God now and I'm sure he is now watching over you the way you watched over him while he was here on earth. Thank you Shane for your sacrifice, without people like shane our country would be very different, he is a true hero, you can be proud of that. You are all in my prayers. We love you.Take care of yourselves.
Love
Linda, Mike, and kids
NA NA
April 28, 2008
Although I will not leave my name, I personally knew Shane as I was a part of the team that helped him do what he always wanted to do, join the United States Army. I found out today that we lost this Soldier and I started to shed tears. For as long as I have been a recruiter I have never lost one Soldier until Shane. My thoughts and prayers go to his entire family.He was a sweet, sometimes serious guy. I remember when he joined the Army and we brought him back from the MEPS. I am proud to have known him and proud to have been a part of his life. Nothing I say will ever soothe the heartache and pain of losing him.But to Shane directly,THANK YOU MY BROTHER IN ARMS.ALTHOUGH YOU PAID THE ULTIMATE SACRIFICE,YOU WILL ALWAYS BE A SOLDIER AND ALWAYS A PART OF MY LIFE.WHEN I GO TO PRAY TONIGHT FOR YOU, I KNOW THAT ONE DAY WE WILL ALL SEE YOU SOON.ONE DAY , SOME DAY ALL THE SOLDIERS WILL COME HOME. TO HIS MOTHER AND FATHER I ONLY MET YOU ONCE AND I KNOW WORDS WON'T SOOTHE YOUR BROKEN HEARTS BUT I AMTRULY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS.YOU WILL ALWAYS BE IN MY PRAYERS.
John Barrick
April 28, 2008
Seeing all of those pictures of Shane with his bleach blonde hair running around, brought back a lot if memories that i had forgot about...like how he would run up to me smiling and you never knew if he was going to run and jump on you or hit ya in the "sweet spot"!
It is hard to describe the bond between those of us that have had the honor of serving our county. no matter what the branch of the military, even between a marine and a soldier, your brothers. and that is what I've feel I've lost, not only a nephew, but a brother.
we love you guys and our in our prayers continually!
-John, Stephanie & Nolan
April 27, 2008
To the Family and Friends of this Soldier:
I will stand in grief with this soldier's family to honor him. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life, but I promised Brent that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.
We lost our son SFC Brent A. Adams on 12/1/05 and it seems like yesterday. I wish so badly there were things I could say to you right now to make the pain you are feeling go away, but I know first hand there simply are no words that will bring you the comfort and peace your heart aches for. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you go through this tragedy moment by moment and as you mourn this loss.
We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with as our hearts both burst with pride and pain together.
I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally. While they can never be replaced, neither will they ever be forgotten. You must trust that sometime, someday the loving memories you have will help to sustain you and help you go on. This courageous soldier will forever be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well.
To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is your wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever.
If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero.
God Bless this soldier and family who gave all and God Bless legacy.com for setting up this site where families can so quickly share their condolences and prayers with others like themselves.
Proud Parents of SFC Brent A. Adams, KIA, 12/1/05, Ramadi, Iraq
Pam and Bill Adams, Lancaster, PA
Stacy (McDorman) Lewis
April 26, 2008
Dear David and Dena,
I think the last time I saw all of you was at grandma's 94th birthday last February at the Barn Out Back in Lima. I'm not even sure you would remember me. I am David McDorman's daughter. Mom kept me updated thru Aunt Patty. I went online and found the sites to read.
My heart is heavy and hurts for you all. I can't even begin to imagen how you feel and how you will pick up and move on in time. With us having only one son as well...the loss you feel is unmeasureable. The only thing I do know is that you have a promise from the Father and that is that He will never leave you nor forsake you! May he comfort all your hearts during this time. May His peace that is unshakeable cover you as a warm blanket. Shane was a brave young man to go and serve our country, knowing a war raged. I am sure he wears a crown of jewels as he stands before the Father!
No mother or father should have to endure loosing a child.
I remember watching grandma when aunt Barb and uncle Johnny died. The heart breaking of a mother. But to loose a son in his young years, how unbearable.
I wish we could have come and supported you at the funeral. Please know that we continue to pray and lift you and the girls up as you struggle to go on without Shane.
With Love,
David barrick
April 26, 2008
Dena ,Dave, and girls.
My prayer and thoughts are with you all.Shane was a great nephew ! I loved giving him a hard time about the love he had for the Chicago Bears. He will be truly missed by all the family! He will also be in our hearts forever. Thank you Shane for giving your life so we can enjoy freedom,you are a true hero!!!! Love to all uncle Dave and aunt Chris.
CWO Thomas G Furry USA,(RET)
April 22, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Steve P. Penley
April 22, 2008
I will miss the (shanster) dearly, He was one of a kind. he will always be my favorite nephew, till I meet him on the streets of gold. All my love to the family of Dave & Dena, I am praying daily for you.
Diane
April 22, 2008
I did not have the honor of knowing Shane but I would like to thank his family for the service and sacrifice that he gave to our country. I am deeply sorry for your loss.
Lisa S
April 22, 2008
To the Penley Family,
I did not know this brave soldier, but I wanted to thank you for raising him with the mentality that there is no greater love than to lay your life for another. He died for a noble cause and my family is blessed and safer one more day because of his dedication. May God bless your family!
Carice Samuels
April 20, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Christina Finn
April 20, 2008
Dena, David & Girls,
It was an Honor for the Military Order of the Purple Heart & Auxiliary to pay our Respects to your Warrior son, Shane. He will be Remembered as a Great American Patriot! I leave this link for your Comfort and Remembrance. Our Prayer are with you all for Strength from GOD. Lean on your Faith, Family and the community of appreciative Americans!
God Speed, Respectfully
The Pillow MOM! Christina
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sQb6APMj5Qk
Brian Penley
April 19, 2008
Dena and Dave. We are sorry to here about Shane. A man with the name Penley is nothing but a brave solider. Im sure he is a great son. We will keep all of you in are prayers. One day when Jesus comes we will see him again. I pray that you will be strong threw this difficult time. May God bless your family
Dana McBride
April 19, 2008
Mr. and Mrs. Penley,
I was Shane's first grade teacher, Dana Pinta. When I heard his name on the television, I remembered him instantly. Then when I saw his picture I could see his little six year old face. I remember Shane as a quiet and shy little boy. He grew into such a handsome young man. Having three of my own kids now, I could only imagine what you must be going through, and how proud you must be at the same time. May God bless you and your family during this difficult time.
Dana McBride (Pinta)
Ronald Whittingham
April 19, 2008
I am sorry for your loss I to am a veteran who server in quait,Irac,and viet namm I recently retired from the AirForce with 30 yrs. service and I deeply feel your pain and the loss for all our brave military men and women who serve.God bless. s/sgt. Whittingham.
Suzanne MacDaniel
April 19, 2008
To the Penley family,
I know there are no words to say, except how sorry I am for your loss. May you hold Shanes' memory in your heart and please remember he shall never be forgotten.
...For you every single soldier
Those who served so honorable
Your life was forever altered
While I’m home safe and free
I stand with grateful admiration
I stand respectful and so proud
I know I’m only a civilian
And I don’t even know if it’s allowed.
But I salute you; allow me the honor
to salute you with permission let me say
Even though I hold no rank know that from my heart
My humble gratitude comes from the deepest part.
I salute you.
Suzanne MacDaniel
A Proud Aunt
David M.Fisher
KIA 12/1/04 Iraq
Angel Flores
April 18, 2008
Though I did not personally, know your loved one; I am aware he chose to preserve our freedom and protect our lives. May the Lord provide you the strength to endure his loss. I extend my heartfelt sympathies. God Bless his family and friends. He lived his life as a citizen who contributed to society and he died a hero. May the Lord provide you the comfort you need during the loss of your loved one. Mr. Angel Flores East Chicago, IN.
LES & PAULINE McCANN
April 18, 2008
Our symphy and prayers go out to the Penley famliy for their loss. We appreciate Shanes service to his country. You and all service members and families are in our thoughts and prayers.
From Les and Pauline McCann parents of a Screaming Eagel serving with the C/2-17 Calvary in Afganistan
Robin Zecevich
April 18, 2008
My very deepest sympathies go out to the family and friends of another fallen hero. May God bless all of you and give you peace. As a military mom & family we can feel your pain.
The Family of
Sgt. Marko Zecevich USMC
Gail Danaher
April 18, 2008
God Bless the family and may we all remember those who have given their lives for this country. I wish I could take some of your pain but we know this is not possiable so I hope that knowing that others appreciate what Shane has done for us, it will give you something to hold on to as you go one with your lives. Shane will always be alive in your eyes and your heart and in all of the people that he touched in his short but generous life. No one has given more those who have served and not returned.
God Bless All of the Penley Family
Roberta N
April 18, 2008
Many tears flow for Shane and his family and friends. The world will remember his passion to protect us. Always.
Robert Rees
April 18, 2008
To the Penley Family,
Words from a compete stranger may not be of any comfort to you at this point, but know that Shane, your family, and all of the men and women still in harms way are in my prayers. God bless you. I hope you can find some measure of comfort in these difficult days ahead.
Robert Rees
CW2(R), US Army
Patricia Preston Heath
April 18, 2008
Dena and Dave, It is strange as we grow older and somehow our lives intertwine again with friends from long ago. My daughter, Jennifer is dating one of Mr. and Mrs. Plopper's grandsons. He is now fighting the same war your son so bravely gave his life in. Thank you for allowing your son to serve this great country. You have made the supreme sacrifice and all proud Americans are grateful. Jennifer is doing a paper for her senior year at school on the Iraq war. The Ploppers graciously gave her the memorial program and dvd of Shane's funeral for her paper. He will be honored once again.
My heart breaks for you and your loss, but without families like mine, yours and thousands of others, giving their sons and daughters we would not have our great nation.
God Bless you. Your friend and former classmate.
Janine Lathrop
April 18, 2008
The loss you feel has also affected the whole community. We will know his spirit again in the great beyond, where he waits for us to join him in peace.
Lori Sink
April 17, 2008
To the Penley Family:
Though I did not know Shane personally, my boyfriend, Chris was his best friend. Chris has been telling me all these funny stories about him -- thinking on the good times. Today at the funeral, I seen the hurt everyone was going through, and I could just feel how great of a person he was. The pictures at the wake, and in the pamphlet, he seemed to light everyone's life up. I agree with the paster, 100%, that he died with honor. I'm proud of our soldiers serving; they do a great deal for us. As did Shane. Him and your family will be in my prayers; and I will never forget this day. He was my best friend's best friend; and it killed me to see him so heartbroken. But he'll live on through all of your thoughts and memories.
It's true what they say:
"only the good die young."
I'm truly sorry.
Lawrence Vale
April 17, 2008
RIP PFC Shane Penley, your duty is done and you did it well. May the Lord hold you in his hands now and forever
Brenda Bradford Fomerly fm. Sauk Village
April 17, 2008
Dena,Dave & Girls,
I was there while you carried your daughters,and finally got your son. Even though it was shorter than you had hoped,he turn turned out to be such a handsom & brave young man.
I just want you all to know that you are in my prayers and will thoughts and will stay there.May God bless you all. Love Always,Your Friend & Neighbor Brenda Bradford
May God Be With You All!
Jim & Sue Olliso
April 17, 2008
We'd like to express our deepest sympathy. How truly sorry we feel. It is hard to know what to say at times like these. We can only begin to imagine the sorrow that comes along with losing someone so close to your heart. May cherished memories bring you peace and comfort. Please know that our hearts ache in unison with yours at the loss of this young man, a hero who made the ultimate sacrifice for the values we hold so dear in America. Our thoughts are with you.
Sandra Paprocki
April 17, 2008
To the Penley Family at this very sad time.... I remember Shane as a little boy walking with his older sister Crystal and Ashley and their dog Rascal as Crystal delivered our newspaper in Sauk Village. He couldn`t have been more than 5 years old.I didn`t see him again until he was about 13 or 14 as my grandson Christopher visited his Father across the street from the Penley`s home. He grew up as a wonderful boy. Christopher thought the world of him. He would come back home and all he did was talk about Shane and what they did over the week-end.My heart and prayers go out to you,the Penley family, at this trying time in your lives. I can`t imagine what you are going through. Just remember Shane is watching over you all now....I do believe in angels and people we love and lose are never very far away. I deeply feel for all of you and pray that the Lord hold you all in the comfort of His love. God Bless You All.
Sandy Paprocki (Christopher`s Grandmother)
Lansing, Illnois
Cherrie Rogers
April 17, 2008
Synpathy to the Penley family.
May God bless you all we thank you for serving our country.
The Rogers,Lipinski Family
Formally Sauk Village)
A Soldier's Mom
April 17, 2008
I have never had the honor to know your son, but I know others like him. My son is in the Air Force and recently returned from Iraq. I felt the need to write and express the very deep feeling I have in my heart over the loss of your son.
As parents, we endure many several sleepless nights worrying about the safety of our children, but never thought we would have to worry about bombs or war. I never had to feel that pit in my stomach wondering when I’d hear from my son. I never had to fear the telephone ring or ring of the doorbell.
I won’t pretend to imagine how you must feel. How much strength it takes to hold your head high and suppress your tears. Any initial doubt I had regarding my son’s decision to join the military was soon erased by the pride we felt in seeing him pursue his passion to serve our country. What I can say for certain is that because of your son’s unselfish bravery, he was not just “another soldier.”
I understand how weak any words of mine can comfort you from your overwhelming grief. I pray that God leaves you with only cherished memories of your son, and pride in knowing that he served proudly and with honor. His death was a costly sacrifice upon the alter of Freedom.
I pray for the military families who have lost loved ones and for those who must continue to shoulder the burden of war. May you find peace and strength in knowing so many cared about your son.
Warmest regards
Janet Boehl
April 17, 2008
My deepest sympathy to you and your family. I have two sons in the Marines, one is in Afghanistan. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers. Thank you for your son, who is brave and has such love for his fellow man.
Erica Hammond
April 16, 2008
My deepest sympathy goes out to the Penley family. Even though i don't know Shane i thank him! He is truely a HERO! He's is an angel sent from heaven!
Jill Hammond
April 16, 2008
my deepest sympathy goes out to the Penley family
Anna
April 16, 2008
Thank you for your sacrifice for our country. All our fallen soldiers have my utmost respect and I am greatly sorry for your families loss. I know 19 is so young...my little brother is already 21 and I can't imagine the great pain you are all going through. I am so sorry for your loss, but just remember now he is always with you, watching you, and keeping each of you safe.
Mandi Sosnowski
April 16, 2008
I'll miss you and I'm very proud of you for everything you have done for me.
April 16, 2008
April 16, 2008
Amy Quimby
April 16, 2008
To the Family and Friends of PFC Penley,
My family provides our deepest sympathy on your loss of a Brave and Great Patriot. Our hearts, prayers, and thoughts are with you. Shane will never be forgotten by his military family. As the slogan from T*A*P*S states: "Remember the Love, Celebrate the Life, Share the Journey".
MSgt Ronnie Quimby, USAF
LN1 Shaun Quimby, USN, 2x and currently deployed
Amy Quimby, Heart of IL Blue Star Mother
Lisa Elam
April 16, 2008
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
misty strayhorne
April 15, 2008
R.I.p shane
the last time we talk on the phon i was so happy to her from you. i tould you am with you through it all nomater what im still your friend evein though it,s the end . your still my soldier
love always by moine
Christina Finn Finn
April 15, 2008
For the Family of a Brave American Warrior, Shane!
"Perhaps they are not the stars,
but rather openings in Heaven
where the love of our lost ones
pours through and shines down upon us to let us know they are happy."
Eskimo Legend
God Speed!
I am also too, The State of IL. Military Order of the Purple Heart Auxiliary Patriotic Educator!
God Bless Our Troops, Our Veterans, Our World Leaders, & America!
Respectfully,
Christina & Daniel T. Finn (Ret.) Army Vietnam Veteran 25th ID 4/23 Mech. “Tomahawk”
Founder / CO-Coordinators
Patriotic Pillow Project SM
"I have learned that in order to bring about change, you must not be afraid to take the first step. We will fail when we fail to try. Each and everyone of us can make a difference." Rosa Parks
"The Pillow Mom!"
Ron Perez
April 15, 2008
Dave and Dena i feel your lost.our prayer and thoughts go out to you. Each day i pray that our troops come home. When i lost my brother because of Iraq i wish all our troops home. Hang in there he is in a better place and he serve our Country Well.
April 15, 2008
Gladly, out of harms way...
Sadly, out of arms reach.
I'll keep you all in my thoughts and prayers.
Carol Basinger
April 15, 2008
I'm so humbled by your gift to the freedom of our nation. You are on my heart & in my prayers. May God draw you close at the very difficult time. I love you, Carol Basinger
SPC Dex Morgan
April 15, 2008
My deepest condolences.
I know it is a very difficult time, but know that Shane fought for something that most people take for granted. He stood up for those who couldn't stand up for themselves.
Be certain...he is in a better place. And know this...never will a commrade, fallen or standing, be forgotten.
God Bless.
Jennifer Penley
April 15, 2008
To My Uncle David & Aunt Dena;
My heart breaks for you, I do not think there are any words that can describe what you are going through right now. But our little Shane is certianly a HERO; I think that serving your country, is by far the bravest thing to ever do.
My Deepest Sympathy & All My Love,
Jennifer
Jim and Beth Hennessy
April 15, 2008
To the Penley family:
My and Beths Heart go out to you at your time of need. I am so sorry for your loss. I have know crystal for & years we work together at federal Signal. I never met your son but I had heard so much about him from Crystal. He will always be remembered as a hero because he gave his life so that others could live freely. R.I.P. Shane
Kathy Cotts
April 15, 2008
Dave & Deana,
Our prayers & deepest sympathy are with you in the loss of your son!
Thank you for your son standing for our freedom.
The Cotts' Family
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