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Bryan Bolander Obituary

STAFF SGT. BRYAN BOLANDER 26, Clarksville, TN, died Tuesday, April 29, 2008, in Northwest Baghdad, Iraq. The funeral will be held at 2:00 p.m. Thursday at Sykes Funeral Home Chapel with Chaplain Capt. James O'Dell officiating. Burial will be in Kentucky Veterans Cemetery West. Visitation will be from 5:00 to 8:00 p.m. Wednesday and from 10:00 a.m until the time of service Thursday at the funeral home. Sykes Funeral Home is in charge of arrangements. Staff Sgt. Bolander was born October 17, 1981 in Santa Ana, CA son of Toni Rossean Kahrmann. He was an Airborne Ranger attached with the 1/502nd 2nd BCT. 101st Airborne Division, Ft. Campbell, KY. He is survived by his parents, Robert and Toni Rossean Kahrmann of Clarksville, TN; son Tyler Bolander of St. Louis, MO; fiancee, Sandra Comer; step-son, Alex Dudley; step-daughter, Ashl! ey Dudl ey all of Clarksville, TN; brothers, Brandon Bolander of Harrison, AR and Dustin Harris of Montana; sisters, Stefanie LaRue, Jenna Kahrmann and Zehrah Kahrmann all of Clarksville, TN; maternal grandmother, Frances Rossean of CA; paternal grandparents, Jack and Dorothy Bolander of NV. In Lieu of flowers contributions may be made in Bryan's name to the Patriot Guard Riders % Annette Bobeck, 133 Cherokee Ct. Antioch, TN 37013. Sykes Funeral, (931) 647-1562.

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Published by The Press-Enterprise on May 13, 2008.

Memories and Condolences
for Bryan Bolander

90 Entries

Andy Couchman

May 1, 2025

Can´t believe it´s now been 17 years: Bo, I still remember that fateful radio call. You were the best leader in the company. I hope your son grew up into a fine young man. You are not forgotten.

Noni Kaplan

April 16, 2025

Hi Bo, the anniversary of your passing is coming fast upon us. Not a day goes by that I do not think of your sacrifice. Preston & Clay who were with you on the horrific day are doing well but I know you know that since you are watching over them from Heaven. I often think of your parents, especially on the anniversary because as I celebrate Preston´s Happy Alive Day & the fact the I was blessed he only lost his leg & came home, I also deeply mourn for you, for your parents, for your family & also for our Great Nation that lost the bravest of Warriors that day. Thank you for saving my son and thank you for making the ultimate sacrifice in service to our country. I look forward to meeting you in Heaven one day where I will give you the biggest hug!!! With respect , Noni Kaplan

Gigi

April 15, 2025

I saw your dads truck parked at the Starbucks in south Reno and looked you up, thank you for your service I hope what comes after this life is beautiful and that you are in peace. Thank you for giving your life for our country, its because of you that we can live another day. You will never be forgotten here on Earth and I hope you can meet your family when their time comes too, they love you so much and are proud of you.

May 16, 2015

My condolences to the family, please find comfort in Gods word at
Micah 4:3,4

Noni Kaplan

August 1, 2014

Thinking of you today and everyday Bo. I know you are dancing with the angels. You are missed, you are remembered every single day.

September 12, 2013

Still remembering you.

November 29, 2012

R.I.P. Bo!

June 13, 2012

Still Remembered and Respected. My thoughts go out to his son.

Shontel Peterson

April 30, 2012

To my cousin SSG Bryan Bolander on this anniversary of your death I just want to say you are a true hero and I miss you everyday and I love you sometimes I wish you were here I love you Bryan

Peggy Childers

April 29, 2012

To the family and friends of Staff Sgt. Bryan E. Bolander:
Always remembering Bryan. "Some gave all."

John Garcia

October 4, 2011

Sgt. Bolander was in my brother's platoon. I never met him, but my brother respected his leadership and is honored to have been his friend. My brother cried the night he died and when he told me the story. He wears a bracelet inscribed with Sgt. Bolander's name. May God give strenght to his family.

L Neal

May 21, 2011

To the family of Staff Sgt. Bryan E. Bolander:
Please know that just as your loved one remains in your hearts and minds; his sacrifice, and that of your family, remains with the people he died defending. Words cannot express the gratitude we feel for his bravery and selflessness, or the heartache we feel for your loss. God bless and keep you always.

Debbi & Steve Dresser

April 30, 2011

To the family & friends of SSgt Bryan E. Bolander.... Please know that you all have been in our thoughts & prayers today on this sad anniversary. Bryan will NEVER be forgotten....He will always be a Hero. God Bless You All!

Peggy Childers

April 29, 2011

To the family and friends of Staff Sgt. Bryan E. Bolander:
Please accept my remembrance of Bryan on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Peggy Childers
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

MAJ Kreuser places a Battalion coin from 2BSTB, 2BCT

T. L. Kreuser

September 6, 2010

Thank you again for your sacrifice. Someone sent me this photo of myself adding my Battalion coin to the memory box at SSG Bolander's memorial. I am very sorry for your loss. MAJ T. L. Kreuser, Bagram, Afghanistan

Rick Meunier

July 14, 2010

Thank you young patriot for your service and sacrifice for this country. You will not be forgotten. Freedom certainly isn't free.

shontel peterson

July 10, 2010

Bryan we miss you every day we know that you served your country and died doing what you loved we think of you every day we love and miss you . You will never be forgotten

shontel peterson

May 1, 2010

I Miss My Cousin everyday but I know that he is watching over his family and that one day we will all be together he will always be a hero and will never be forgotten Love You Bryan You were a wonderful Father and Cousin

Peggy Childers

April 29, 2010

To the family and friends of Staff Sgt. Bryan E. Bolander:
Remembering Bryan on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

December 22, 2009

Brian was like a brother to me the heavens will offer more promise and the stars will shine alot brighter knowing he is there. I check this page once a week to see everything posted he was a great man and a great father RIP bolander your my friend till we meet again

Sue Alexander

May 25, 2009

I have never met Bryan but was visiting my late husband's grave one day and saw family members/friends visiting the Bryan's grave a few days after his burial. It broke my heart to see such fresh sorrow. I want you to know that I always visit Bryan's gravesite and leave a flower for him with the family/significant others in mind, and also to let you know your grief is shared and he is not alone.
Sue Alexander Cadiz, KY Nurse at Ft. C.

Peggy Childers

April 29, 2009

To the family of Staff Sgt. Bryan E. Bolander:
Bryan gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

T Starman

January 9, 2009

I offer my deepest condolences for your loss

Kenna Larra

November 22, 2008

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Nick Garrison

September 29, 2008

I wish I knew what to say. I only just found out about Bryan. I served with him in Iraq in 2003/2004 in second squad 1/502.
My heart thoughts go out to those who read this and to those who don't because we have all lost him.

Jenna Kahrmann

July 28, 2008

Losing my brother was the last thing i thought i would have to face at 16. He cared so deeply for all of us and it feels like yesterday that i got the news. My heart breaks when i see his picture, because i know i will never see my brother smiling at me again. He was an amazing soldier and an amazing person. He gave his all and sadly, that meant his life. I can't find the right words to say except thank you. Because i know that he is in heaven, watching down on all of us, guiding us through all this pain. I love my brother very much and i know he felt the same about me. Fallen but never forgotten.
Love
Jenna

Tom Gugliuzza-Smith

July 20, 2008

My heartfelt sympathy to the Bolander family and friends in the loss of Bryan. I did not know Bryan, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Bryan you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom

"TO LIVE IN THE HEARTS
OF THOSE YOU LEAVE BEHIND
IS NEVER TO DIE"
~Robert Orr~

July 11, 2008

Thank you for the sacrifice made by Staff Sgt Bolander and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!

July 11, 2008

You are remembered and respected. Thank you Staff Sgt Bolander!

Jim McGowan

July 5, 2008

My deepest condolences and prayers to you and your loved ones this is such a loss for you're family, and his sacrifice is deeply appreciated. My hopes thoughts and prayers are with you. God bless you.

debbi rivers

June 26, 2008

To the family and parents of Bryan I want you to know that you are not alone in the grief you are feeling. I too know what you are going through and what you will go through in the coming weeks and months ahead. You will have many questions as to why? You will have many things to get ready or go through and that should be done in time. Sometimes it just can’t be faced and that’s ok, for you will know when the time is right for you. There is no right or wrong way to grieve it’s an individual journey that unfortunately we now have to take. I ask that God give the comfort, strength and courage that you are going to need. When and if the time is right for you please contact me. You can cry, vent, or just talk as only another person who has been where you are can really know what you are going through. May God continue to be with you and heal you.

In memory of my son
Spc Harry (Buck) Winkler III
KIA 11/12/06 Samarra, Iraq
82nd Airborne 2-505th PIR

June 13, 2008

To the Family and Friends of this Soldier:
I will stand in grief with this soldier's family to honor him. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life, but I promised Brent that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.
We lost our son SFC Brent A. Adams on 12/1/05 and it seems like yesterday. I wish so badly there were things I could say to you right now to make the pain you are feeling go away, but I know first hand there simply are no words that will bring you the comfort and peace your heart aches for. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you go through this tragedy moment by moment and as you mourn this loss.
We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with as our hearts both burst with pride and pain together.
I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally. While they can never be replaced, neither will they ever be forgotten. You must trust that sometime, someday the loving memories you have will help to sustain you and help you go on. This courageous soldier will forever be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well.
To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is your wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever.
If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero.
God Bless this soldier and family who gave all and God Bless legacy.com for setting up this site where families can so quickly share their condolences and prayers with others like themselves.
Proud Parents of SFC Brent A. Adams, KIA, 12/1/05, Ramadi, Iraq
Pam and Bill Adams, Lancaster, PA

Linda Cano

June 9, 2008

Another family grieves the loss of a loved one. The nation grieves the loss of another American Hero. May God bring comfort to all of you. Thank you and rest in peace, Bryan.

the Buck family

June 2, 2008

To the family and friends of Staff Sgt. Bryan E. Bolander, our thoughts and prayers are with you in your loss. What he has done for our freedom will not be forgotten. May God bless and comfort your family.

Joe and Vikki Cabral

May 31, 2008

From our military family to yours, we would like to thank Sgt. Bryan Bolander for his service and sacrifice to this great country, as well as send our deepest condolences for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

shontel Peterson

May 20, 2008

Bryan you were a wonderful cousin and a true Soldier and I will miss you and so will the family we all know that you are an angel now looking down on all of us and making sure that we are safe you fought for your country and we will never forget you as for you were a true solider I miss you Bryan

Shawn Butler

May 20, 2008

I had the pleasure of serving with Bryan. Even when he was new to the Army, he always carried himself and performed well beyond his rank.

Lynda Vosbein

May 16, 2008

It was an honor to attend the funeral today. I hope the family finds the peace needed to move forward. I don't like the word "move on". Sandra, call Renee and I if you wanna hang out. We are here for you!!!

Debra Foster

May 15, 2008

To the Bolander family,

My heart breaks for you. I pray that fond memories of Bryan will give you strength and comfort. God bless you.

Nancy Laney

May 14, 2008

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

Renee

May 14, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with Bryan's family and Sandra. Bryan will never be forgotten

Shiloh Maddox

May 13, 2008

Bob and Toni,

I am very sad to hear about your son, I know how proud you were of him. My prayers are with you and your family.

Suzanne MacDaniel

May 12, 2008

To the Bolander family,

I know there are no words to say, except how sorry I am for your loss. May you hold Bryans' memory in your heart and please remember he shall never be forgotten.

...For you every single soldier
Those who served so honorable
Your life was forever altered
While I’m home safe and free
I stand with grateful admiration
I stand respectful and so proud
I know I’m only a civilian
And I don’t even know if it’s allowed.

But I salute you; allow me the honor
to salute you with permission let me say
Even though I hold no rank know that from my heart
My humble gratitude comes from the deepest part.
I salute you.

Suzanne MacDaniel
A Proud Aunt
David M.Fisher

Gail Dodson

May 9, 2008

To the Bolander Family....from our army family to yours....please know we are so sorry, and you are in our prayers. Thank you for raising a hero, and sharing him with our country....may Bryan rest in "the arms of the angels". May God comfort and keep you all.

Carmen Johnson

May 9, 2008

Hello my name is Carmen. I too am an Army Mom.
I would like to express my deepest sympathies on the loss of your son and hero. He will NOT be forgotten.
Blessings

Gretchen Stronks

May 9, 2008

Thank you for raising a wonderful hero. We are all better Americans for his service. I am so sorry for your loss and hope that as time goes by his heroic legacy and impact continues to grow.
Seattle Army Mom

jessica

May 9, 2008

God Bless you all and I am so sorry for your loss...

Carrie Kallal

May 8, 2008

My deepest sympathy in the loss of your son. I am a military Mom too. Your family is in my prayers. I am proud of him and all of our military.

Jamie Dono

May 8, 2008

I am a friend of Bryan's Aunt Cee Cee Rossean. I was very sorry to hear the news of his untimely death. He was so young and with such a bright future ahead. My thoughts and prayers are with him and his family. May God Bless, Jamie Dono

Iris PAM CPL Dan OIF II

May 8, 2008

Toni, I'm another fellow armymom extending my deepest sympathies to you and the family. Bryan will forever remain our hero and will not be forgotten. May God bless and keep you during this time of great sorrow.

Sylvia Luna

May 8, 2008

My salute to Staff Sgt. Bryan E. Bolander. This brave young hero who has been taken from his loving family and friends to protect our freedom will be missed but never forgotten. May God give you the peace that passes all understanding today, tomorrow and forever concerning the loss of your son.
Respectfully,
Sylvia Luna-Brush PAM/SPC Jason, Afghanistan 09

Jennifer Black

May 8, 2008

My prayers and deepest sympathy goes out to my fellow army-mom. He will live on in the hearts and minds of those who knew and loved him. A simple thank you could never be enough for what he gave all of us in doing what he felt he had to do. I am so proud to live in a country with brave men such as him defending us. God bless his family and friends.

Ashliegh Stewart

May 8, 2008

I salute your son for being such a hero to this country. I send my prayers, and much condolences to you and your family. May God hold you up through this tough time.

Jeffrey & Kathy Hamilton

May 8, 2008

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Beverly Hill

May 8, 2008

My Thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. Bryan is a hero in my heart And will always be remembered...

Tammy Day

May 8, 2008

My deepest sympathies to my fellow armymom. I am so sorry for your loss,Heaven has truly gained a HERO.
May God be with you and carry you thru the coming days.
God Bless you all.
love & hugs,
Proud armymom,
Spc.Day Afghanistan

Cindy Visser

May 8, 2008

I am so saddened at the loss of Bryan. May you find comfort in the memories of his life and pride in the scarifice he made.
Cindy
Mom of a Soldier

Melane Paranzino

May 8, 2008

My sincere condolences are with you on the loss of your precious son. May your memories and God's grace give you strength to see you through the coming days.

Proud Army Mom

Ann Jaffe

May 8, 2008

To the family.. as a fellow armymom I can only express my very deepest sympathies in this terrible loss. He is a hero.. and a shining star in the Heavens.. God bless.. Love, Ann pam David 92M

Bobbi Hooper (Proud Army Mom)

May 8, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with each of you today. SSG Bryan Bolander was a true hero to me. He not only served his country proudly but he gave his life for his country. Please know that he will always be in my heart and prayers. May God bless Bryan's family and be with each of you in the days and years ahead.

Cat Holbrook

May 8, 2008

Toni - there are no words to bring you peace. I cannot imagine the pain and hell that you are going through at this horrific time. Please know that you have an Army of Moms standing with you - and now Bryan will be watching over you & yours all the time. Little if any comfort that brings huh?

Bless you Bryan for all you have done to keep me and mine safe. To make Iraq a better place for future generations and for making sure that our homelands are safe from those who would like to see our way of life ended. I am proud of you. I will never forget you. I have another special angel to talk to when I look to the stars at night.

Love to your home from ours - and our deepest condolenses our Army mom sister.

ArmyMom Mel

May 7, 2008

Bolander Family,

I am very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this very difficult time.

Renee' Casica

May 7, 2008

My heart goes out to your family in the loss of your son and the loss of your finace. My husband Sgt. Casica worked with your son, he always said good things about him. If I can help in any way please let me know. I have been where you are..

May 7, 2008

My heart goes out to the friends and family of SSG Bryan Bolander. You are truly the ones you make the ultimate sacrifice. May God grant you peace and comfort in the days ahead. To his son, he now has his own special angel to watch over him, the way a dad always does. Rest in Peace Bryan, your mission here on earth is complete.

laura melton

May 7, 2008

to the Bolander family~thank you for raising a hero who is willing to sacrifice his life for us and our country. our hearts and prayers are with you.

Kathy Messer

May 7, 2008

May the Lord hold you in the palm of his hands and comfort you through this time of great sorrow and loss.
Kathy Messer and Family
from Army Moms

Lois Maberry

May 7, 2008

To the Bolander family, My prayers are with you. As an Army mom, I know this must be the most difficult things but Bryan is a Hero and will have a special place in our hearts because he fought for all of us. God Bless you and give you peace. I am a PAM of Matt going to Afghanistan

Theresa Zenz and family

May 6, 2008

To the Bolander family know that Bryan will always hold a place in are hearts. He is are hero. Are thoughts and prayers are with you.

Melody Stimmel

May 6, 2008

Staff Sgt. Bryan Bolander, you are a Hero in my book. I thank you for everything that you have done for your Country. My heart goes out to your family today. Toni, I send my deepest sympathies to you and your family today. My heart aches for you today. Please take comfort in knowing that your son was a Hero and will be greatly missed.
PAM of Billy in Iraq

Deidre Edder

May 5, 2008

SSGT Bolander is my hero. He has made the ultimate sacrifice for his family and country. We honor you and pray for you and your family.
Deidre from ArmyMoms on Yahoo

Deirdre Slocum

May 5, 2008

From our Army family to yours, we offer our deepest sympathy.

The Slocum Family
(deirdre from Army Moms 2)

Paula Mattson

May 5, 2008

Toni and Family,
Your son is a hero to all of us. We thank him for his bravery. May he rest in peace. Your angel will forever be with you in your memories. God Bless your family. The army moms are all here for you.

Steve & Carolyn Maicus

May 5, 2008

To SSgt Bolander's Family: There is know way for us to know how deeply you are suffering. SSgt. "Bo" is a hero and we thank you for his service. Our prayers are with you.

Wendy Poore

May 5, 2008

My deepest most heartfelt sympathies goes out to all of SSg Bolanders family and friends. You may never understand why he was taken, but God must have had a great need to have him with Him. The amount of time we have on earth isn't measured by how long we are here but by what we do with that time. Your son spent his time well and honorably. I am truly grateful for this service. You are all in my prayers.

Wendy Poore (Armymom2) of
PFC Anthony Poore
88Mike - Iraq

Beverly M

May 5, 2008

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008

Shelley H

May 4, 2008

From our military family to yours, we would like to thank SSGT Bolander for his service and sacrifice to this great country, as well as send our deepest condolences for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Janice Oswald

May 4, 2008

To the family and friends of fallen hero SSG Bolander...I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that you are in the thoughts and prayers of many. He will not be forgotten. God Bless You.

SHIRLEY DONEY

May 4, 2008

REST IN PEACE STAFF SGT. BOLANDER, TO YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS MAY THE MEMORIES OF THIS WONDERFUL SOLDIERS LIFE FILL YOUR HEARTS WITH BEAUTIFUL MEMORIES
GOD BLESS YOU

Gale Poindexter

May 4, 2008

I am writing to offer my deepest sympathies to you and your family over the loss of your HERO Staff Sgt Bryan E Bolander. I lost my son in Iraq on May 6/2007, so I can well understand your pain of losing a loved one so dear.

I pray you will be guided by a higher power to give you peace, comfort and strength in this time.

Psalm 34:18
The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit
GOD Bless you and your family. Your soldier was a true American Hero and we are all very proud of his service. He will not be forgotten!

(Proud mother of Sgt Joel W. Lewis, 5/20, 3-2 SBCT /Ft Lewis
KIA 5/6/07, Baqubah, Iraq)
www.youtube.com/watch?v=DXAX__FZYg4

In Memory of Bryan ~ ( Debra Estep )

May 4, 2008

Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.

The Wind on The Downs

“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”

(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )

Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….

“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”

I did not know Bryan, but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !

~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~

The Other Side

i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.

can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.

i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side

the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)

“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008

Visit this link to hear the song.

The Other Side –
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol

Sincerely,

Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom and MIL

Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55

Please contact me and I will email you back a copy of my
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.

Chuck Crawford

May 4, 2008

May God give His Peace to the family & friends of this Hero.

Only those who have suffered similarly can share this pain with you.

Thank you Bryan for your service.
Thank You family & friends - you gave Bryan to protect & serve us.

A Five - Oh - Duce father

cindy hayworth

May 4, 2008

Toni, We want to express our sympathy at the loss of your brave hero. I only wish there were words to comfort you, but I know there are not. No one knows better than military moms how great your sacrifice is. God bless you and your family.
Proud mother of an American soldier

Sandy Bonesteel

May 4, 2008

Please know that as a mother of a Soldier; I'm grieving with you. As are so many, many others.

Henryk Zaleski (USN-Ret)

May 3, 2008

Rest in peace.

Valorie

May 2, 2008

My prayers and thoughts are with you.
I know how you feel losing a "HERO",Becoming a "Gold Star" Mother myself on 25 March.. The sacrafice our sons and daughters are making on a daily basis should tell us all..These young HEROS knew full well what they were doing and did it proudly When you hug your loved ones tonight.... Remember... We also hugged ours and they were protecting you..We.. as Americans need to make the "Ultimate Sacrafice" by supporting all our military(HEROS)...the Proud Mom of SGT. Jason W. Swiger
5th Squadron, 73rd Cavalry Regiment, 3rd Brigade

Safely Home

Michael Iezzi

May 2, 2008

Father we entrust our brother Bryan to your mercy. You loved him greatly in this life: now that he is freed from all its cares, give him happiness and peace forever. Welcome him now into paradise where there will be no more sorrow, no more weeping or pain, but only peace and joy with Jesus your Son, and the Holy Spirit forever and ever.
May God hold Bryan in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. My deepest sympathies.

Garnet Jenkins

May 2, 2008

My Deepest and Most Heartfelt Sympathy goes out to the family of Staff Sgt. Bryan E. Bolander, with So Much Gratitude for this Brave Young Soldier's Courage, Dedication and Service to our Country and for Freedom.

The price Bryan and his family have paid, Will Never Be Forgotten. May he Rest Safely, in God's Care and may the Peace of God be with the Bolander family.
I am the Sister of such a young hero, who made the Ultimate Sacrifice in Vietnam, many years ago

"Surely He hath borne our grief,
and carried our sorrows."
~ Isaiah 53:4 ~

May you find comfort and strength, in the beautiful memories of times spent with Bryan and quietly and gently, may healing come, with each new day.
You are in my thoughts and my prayers.

Debbie , Kenny Coffey

May 2, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers out to the BOLANDER family.Knowing now what they have always known is one of many reasons that our HERO[S] shall NEVER be forgotten.Rest well brother as promised and in your honor that star spangled banner shall FOREVER wave.Your name stamped in steel shall be FOREVER clutched in the talons as your spirit FOREVER soars high in the skies in the symbol of our greatfull nation..THANK YOU All Hard Chargers..If you are wonded I will carry you**If you are captured I will come for you**If you are K.I.A. I will FOREVER reamber you..We have one and all COME by NORTH**COME by SOUTH**COME by EAST**COME by WEST..We were all gathered and united on that great day as strangers,as we stood and upon those last [4] spoken words we are.................................FOREVER BROTHERS...........B.V.C........................SEMPER FI. .. ......... ..

May 2, 2008

There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.

Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.

I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.

REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!

I would also like to tell you about a website, http://groups.msn.com/SSPSoldierPor
traits/homepage,
where some wonderful people will make wood portraits of your fallen Hero for free for the immediate family. I became aware of this site when I wanted to do something special for Le Ron’s mother.

PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett (Queens, NY)

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