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Mary S. Mesa Kittel, 34, beloved wife of David M. Keller, of Allentown, died Aug. 21, 2004, in her home after a brave, two-year battle with cancer. Born in Paoli, she was a daughter of Gordon and Jeanne Kittel of Norristown. She was a Yoga teacher, master gardener, poet and author of numerous health and fitness books. She was formerly employed by Rodale and Rodale Institute. She was a cum laude graduate of Kutztown University, where she was editor of the college newspaper. Survivors: Husband; parents; sister, Anne Pensabene of Collegeville; brother, Stephen Kittel of Norristown; in-laws, Dr. and Mrs. Leo Keller of Schnecksville; grandparents, Claude and Marion Kittel of Allentown; nieces, nephews; many friends. Services: outdoor memorial service to honor her remarkable spirit to be held on Sept. 4 in Stony Run. For more information, contact Holly Schick at [email protected]. Arrangements, Bachman, Kulik & Reinsmith Funeral Home, Allentown. Contributions: In lieu of flowers, to Friends of Mesa, c/o Holly Schick, 3728 Old Philadelphia Pike, Bethlehem 18015.

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Published by Morning Call on Aug. 22, 2004.

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Michael Rimm

October 2, 2023

David....how are you my friend. i just want you to know that today, October 1st, 2023, I had fond memories and images of Mary wash over me today. I remember her laugh. I remember when you, and Mary, and Joely, and I would share dinner at the farmhouse off RT222 outside of Kutztown. Good times, easy times, memorable loving times. I just wanted you to know that I was thinking about Mary today.......

Joan Thirion

December 16, 2004

Dear Dave and Mesa's family,

Thinking of you again at this holiday time.

There are many people who come and go in our lives. A few touch us in ways that change us forever, making us better from knowing them. Mesa and you, Dave, have made a difference in my life, and for this I am grateful.

Joely

December 15, 2004

It's christmas and I know mary loved this time of year. I'm keeping you in my thoughts every day, dear sister, dear friend. I have an angel on my tree that you gave me a long time ago -- now i see that it represents you. I miss you but I'm so glad that you are free!

Jessica and Joseph Ramirez

September 8, 2004

Dave,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your loved ones. We read the beautiful article in the paper and were made aware of Mary's struggles. We will pray for you and know that Mary will send you the strengh and passion to move mountains.

May you feel her in every breeze that passes by and see her in every ray of sunshine.



Joe and Jessica Ramirez and family

Jim & Wendy Scott

September 5, 2004

Dear Dave,



It's strange to think of you and Mary parted so soon. When we attended your wedding reception (a most wonderful and sublime event) the thought of this day was the farthest thing from our minds. But, our days in this world are short, and this tragedy and the pain it brings is real and unavoidable.



God in his glory and wisdom knows the warmth of our future reunion with Mary in heaven. It will be like that other day–a sublime day–with light in Mary's hair, music flowing between us all, the delights of fellowship; dancing, singing, embracing in the breeze, a great feast, and the Savior binding all His children together in love forever.



With our love & prayers,

Jim & Wendy

John and Susan Winters

September 5, 2004

Remembering Mary....

Dear Dave and Family,

We first met Mary while at the Beef and Pita House with Ingrid. It was a great place for vegetarians and non vegetarians to eat with a very friendly atmosphere. Ingrid told us about Mary, Jen, Anne and Donna and her ideas to live together at the Lutheran House for the Fall Semester. Mary was very enthusiatic about her intentions to spend a few weeks at an Indian Reservation out West. We thought that was a great and brave thing to do. For the fall semester we took Ingrid to the Lutheran House in Kutztown along with a carload of possesions and housekeeping items. We helped all of them make their rooms feel like "home" sorting out beds, mattresses, bureaus and desks. Undauntingly Mary chose the attic for her personal space. We groaned but helped lug "stuff" up and down the stairs and what seemed to be impossible turned into something amazingly...well, like Mary!. We guess she had her own feng shui way before anybody thought of it.

School and activities kept them busy and they all kept in touch with each other. We remember driving Ingrid to your wedding....all the signs by the country roadside so we couldn't get lost. It was a beautiful clear day and an even more beautiful wedding. It came to mind..."this is the day the Lord had made. Rejoice in it and be glad"

We were deeply saddened to hear about her illness and Ingrid kept us abreast of her valiant struggle to live. Her vivacious spirit will always be fondly remembered by those who were fortunate to have met her. Dave, our thoughts and prayers will be with you and your family as they were during Mary's illness.



Love,

John and Susan Winters

Pris Lichtenwalner

September 4, 2004

Dave,



May you be surrounded by peace, love, and hope during this difficult time. It was such an honor to meet Mesa and consider her a friend. It was also quite a surprise when I realized who was her husband. It was a lovely strange reconnection. I often spoke to Mesa about you and where your lives were heading. You and Mesa just had to speak of the other and your feelings were apparent. The wonderful thing about love is that it is never more than a memory away.

Doreen Salerno

September 4, 2004

Dear Dave,

I am SO SORRY to hear about Mary. Know my sincere condolences, thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time. With heartfelt sympathy,

Doreen Salerno

Greg Masterson

September 4, 2004

I guess today is the day, a very sad one. As I sit here on my little mountain, my thoughts are with Dave, and my memories swirl with Mary. Long before marriage, careers, and heavy responsibility, Mary used to let us practice in her basement. We'd be loud, drunk, inconsiderate. Mary would cheers us along everytime, everyday. One fall, I'm not even sure what year it was, I brought along a song called "Waterbound." As we were hammering out the arrangement, and trying to get the harmonies just right, Mary pulled me aside and said to me "Where did you find that song? I LOVE it!! Please play it again!" It always did, and does still, bring me incredible joy when I feel like I bring someone a little piece of happiness with music, and and at that moment, I felt that I'd done that for Mary.

I'm unable to attend today's service, and the guilt plauges me to a certain extent. Instead I'm playing at a wedding, quite the opposite vibe. I'm performing with a traditional bluegrass trio, and I've already told the boys that there's an extra song we're adding to the list tonight. It's an old song, one I haven't sung for years, it's called 'Waterbound', and it's for my old friend, Mary Kittel.



May Peace find us all today. Mary would want that, I think.

Joelle & Chris Peterson

September 3, 2004

Thoughts of Mary bring to mind sunshine, fresh grass, and an easy smile. She was a lovely person, a gentle and kind spirit, an example to others.



Please know that we are thinking of you and your family, Dave.



Peace & Love,

Byron Barnshaw

September 3, 2004

Dear Dave,



We're so sorry to receive this news. We only heard about Mary's battle within the past few months. Pray that you'll be comforted by family and friends and the God who grieves with you.



Byron and Lisa Barnshaw

David Winston

September 3, 2004

Dave,

My deepest sympathies to you and your family during this very hard time. I hope in the days to come you can find some comfort in memories of a good life, well-lived.

Sandi Lloyd

September 3, 2004

Several years ago I was looking for a new home for our cat, Jon. Mary decided Jon would be the perfect companion for her grandparents - unbeknownst to them. When Mary stopped by to take Jon to his new home, this skittish cat disappeared in our basement. While I busied myself trying to find him, Mary began bouncing a basketball and talking with my very shy daughter. In no time, they laughed like old friends. When I finally captured Jon, Mary reassured him (and us) that a lovely home awaits. Then she left with cat in tow. In one brief visit she broke through my daughters reserve, calmed a frightened cat and proved to me that simple acts of kindness can turn our lives around. She left my day better than when she found it.

Dave, I hope beautiful memories of Mary and her countless acts of love will sustain you during this painful time.

Patti Gould

September 3, 2004

Dear David,

I am so very, very sorry for your loss. Please know that I am thinking of you, and that you and your family, remain in the prayers of my family.

My deepest sympathies.

Sarah San Martin

September 3, 2004

Dave,



I am so sorry to hear about your loss of Mary. I know how much you must have loved her and for someone you love so much to leave it will be difficult, but God will give us strength when we need Him the most. She & I used to write letters to each other once in a while. I started writing poems in high school. After, I didn't write as much. She always encouraged me to write poems. In one of her letters she wrote "But come to think of it, writing poems in high school is more about learning about yourself, right? It's exposing emotions that you didn't know were even there, and making some sense out of them!" I haven't been writing poems that much lately, but I know that Mary would like it if I continue to write and express my thoughts and feelings. So, I am going to write more because of her loss. Dave, it would have been nice to hear Mary's voice or see her one last time, but now God is with her in heaven and at peace.

Love,

Sarah



Aunt of Mary Kittel

Tony Stewart

September 2, 2004

Dear Dave,



I was deeply saddened when I heard about Mary. I remember you telling the story about you and Mary making brooms from plants growing in your garden. Brooms of all things! Amazing. If the smile you had on your face, was like the smiles you and Mary shared, then you gave as much to her as she to you.



My thoughts are with you.

Susan Berg

September 2, 2004

Mary left us much too soon, but she lived every moment with passion, grace, and joy. Her spirit will stay with us forever. I feel blessed to have known her, if only for a brief time. To Dave and family, you're in my thoughts and prayers.

Ann Menichelli

September 1, 2004

I remember talking to Mary on the phone a couple of years ago after not having been in touch for awhile. I think she was just starting free-lance work so she had a lot more time for herself. It was Christmas time and do you know what she was doing? She and Dave were making birdhouses that looked like the houses of the friends that they were giving them to. Then,another time, she and Dave had a picnic at their place on Grim Road. She had a slip and slide and we all went running and sliding; she would do a different pose each time she slid down. She was just so full of life...She always had something to show me about myself or life in general. She really loved seeing people do the best with themselves. I'm better off for having known her and am glad that I had the time to enjoy her that I did.

elisa and joe hammes

August 31, 2004

Dear Dave,



I feel so fortunate to have had the opportunity to know Mary and to have bathed in her beautiful spirit...I will never forget her. In fact, now more than ever, she seems to have come alive...finally free...unchained from the bonds of cancer. When I'm jogging, when I'm doing yoga, when I'm driving, when I'm changing Nathan's diaper, Mary is there in my thoughts. I will miss her and the couple that you and she made together. If there's any way Joe and I can ease the pain of your loss, let us know.

Peace

Jay Johnson

August 31, 2004

What a lovely spirit....

Jenny Abel

August 30, 2004

Dave,

I know you must be devastated by your loss. I wish there were something I could do to bring Mary back. She was loved by so many people. The greatest thing about her was how she just drew people in, made everyone feel special. My fondest memories of her are coming to your old house near the Rodale farm to get rides with her to Rodale Press where I was doing some on-call research. We had such wonderful talks on those mornings.



I also remember when she came to the party held for me before I left for grad school at Penn State. My parents were there--they had come from Chicago to help me move. They didn't really know anyone at the party, but Mary made them feel welcome and special. They still talk about her, even though they only met her that one time. I remember too that she brought a wonderful salad with nasturtium blossoms. I had never seen them used in a salad before. It was so bright and colorful and nourishing, just like any conversation with Mary was.



She will live on in the hearts of everyone she touched.

Merissa Lanning - Vevasis

August 30, 2004

Dear Dave and Family,

It has been years since I saw Mary last but her incredible spirit has always stayed within my heart. A few months ago, I was helping a friend prepare for a wedding. She needed ideas for a head wreath. I immediately thought of Mary on her wedding day, overflowing with joy, love and beauty, floral wreath upon her head, resembling an angel on earth. I pulled out my photos from Mary and Dave's wedding. Memories of that gorgeous September day flooded my mind and I can still picture Mary and Dave standing upon that hilltop, declaring their love while us privileged guests shared in their beautiful marriage to one another. In the midst of my reminiscing, my three year old daughter picked up the photo of Mary and said "Ooooooh, she is be-au-ti-ful! She looks just like an angel!" I could not have said it better!

Mary was the kind of woman who, when she entered a room, brought with her a glowing, beautiful energy. She was passionate and compassionate about everything in life. She was one of those people who had such an incredible spirit and mind that any time she spoke, you knew it was going to be something you wanted to hear.

I only knew Mary for a very brief time in my life but I feel blessed to have called her my friend. She was an angel on earth and she will surely shine brightly amongst all of those in heaven.

My prayers are with Dave, the entire Kittel and Keller families and all of the friends who were as equally blessed to have met her along this journey through life.

Joy Primavera

August 30, 2004

Dave - You have our deepest sympathies and are in our prayers.



- from ML Video Network

Ingrid Winters

August 30, 2004

Do not feel afraid of anyone

Thru this life just freely roam;

This world belongs to all of us

So make yourself at home.......



Mary wrote this poem for me. It was placed inside of a decorated cigar box she made filled with dried flowers from Renningers. It is a true reminder of Mary's spirit and all of her accomplishments in this world. Her spirit and energy was contagious. I miss her in this world so much now but I know her soul is very much alive and present inside of me and all of us. When we lived together at school, we learned so much from eachother and shared with eachother. I will never forget what Mary taught me..from life and love, to organic cooking together, music and literature. There are so many memories that I hold close in my heart. "You were and very much are a true inspiration to me, my dear sister Mary".........

Peace and love always, Ingrid

Anna-May Pensabene & family

August 29, 2004

Dave & family,

Our deepest symapthy for your loss. Mary was a wonderful person and will obviously be missed terribly by you. Please take some comfort in knowing that her pain is, at last, gone and that she is in a better place. We believe in angels and I think you have another guardian angel to guide you through this life until you are reunited. May you feel her presence and peace with you until that time.

Vida Keller

August 28, 2004

As we read all of the well-written enries in the guest book, we want to express our thanks for your words of synpathy. The thoughts about Mary make us realize anew how blessed we were to have had Mary for a daughter-in-law for nine years this coming September second.

Mary enriched our son's life in many ways. We enjoyed seeing their successful gardens, and then how they preserved the wonderful produce. It inspired us to begin gardening again.

David had sown some shirts and other things, but Mary didn't sew. I was pleased to see Mary start to take an interest in sewing. As I helped Mary, I was impressed with her tenasity, although it was difficult for her, she never gave up until the garment was finished. Mary's good attitude inspired me to begin to sew again.

Mary was involved in many things, but the most important thing she ever did was what she did a few weeks before she died. She repented of her sin, and asked Jesus Christ into her heart, and had the assurance of being in Heaven when she died.

Our prayer is that God may continue to be our Great Comforter. Our hearts go out to you, David, Jeanne, Gordon, Steve, Anne, Tim,Marion, Claude, and all of Mary's family and many friends.

Sincerely, Leo and Vida Keller

James Brendlinger

August 27, 2004

Mary was the first friend I made at the university, and possibly the greatest artistic motivating force I have ever encountered. She had a seemingly effortlessly way of bringing out the writer, artist, and musician in all of her friends. There are very few people who go through life without wasting a moment of time, but Mary was one of them. She created an organic workspace of tranquil chaos around herself and always left me in awe of what she could accomplish in the wide variety of her pursuits.

Well, that doesn't begin to say it. But if you knew her even for a short time, I guess you know what I'm getting at.

Dave Joachim

August 27, 2004

Dave and family,

Our deepest warmth and sympathy is with you. Hugs to you, Dave. Having lost my father recently, I firmly believe that Mary's spirit will always be with you. No soul that positive and powerful ever leaves you. Mary is one of the most inspiring and generous people I've ever met. May she continue to work her magic on you and everyone she touches.



-Dave, Christine, August, and Maddox

Gus Scheerbaum

August 26, 2004

I’m deeply saddened to hear of the loss of Mary and I regret not having had the chance to see you both more recently over the past several years. The number of times that I had the opportunity to hang out with Mary, I could tell that she possessed underlying insightful traits; I think it was her keen sense for how to tread lightly on the earth and a genuine respect for others. These qualities are so admirable, and they are ones that I can only hope to master as well as Mary did. We continue to think of and focus on you and Mary’s spirit.

Sincerely, Gus Scheerbaum & Kevin Broad

Michele Horon

August 26, 2004

I knew Mary from working at Rodale and from our Yoga classes there. I got to know her better at our Wheel of the Year celebrations at Mill Creek Studios in New Smithville where she lived for a short time.



I think of her there sitting in an old-fashioned glider swing under the protection of two huge black walnut trees amidst the profusion of lush green vegetation. She looked like a tiny elf child, rocking back and forth, with her legs drawn up beneath her, smiling sweetly -- content. Somewhere in the multiverse, she sits there still, happy and whole and free to start her new journey.



Blessed Be, Mesa! May you find peaceful repose, rejuvenation, and fortunate rebirth in your next life.



My sincere condolences to Dave and to Mary's family. She will be missed and remembered often.

Gail & Bob Reilley

August 26, 2004

About twenty years ago, we were invited to produce a show for Bishop Kenrick High School. After a series of auditions, we selected Mary to play the tile role in our production of "Annie". She was, not surprisingly, wonderful in the role but, more importantly, she became "the gold standard", "the benchmark for us by her commitment, dedication and responsibility to the show. The seeds of her lifelong character had already surfaced. Her opening song was "it's a hard knock life"...how true but we draw comfort from another song from her show, "the sun will come out tomorrow". There's little doubt in our minds that Mary, following years of pain and darkness, now glows brightly in the heavens. Mary, you were our shining star during our time together. May the memories you created continue to brighten the lives of all of us that you touched.

Love from Gail and Bob Reilley

Kathleen (Pickel) Gamblin

August 25, 2004

David,

I remember after you met Mary you told me that you had "found an angel." The love that you shared was so evident at your wedding and I remember being envious of that and hoping that one day I would find someone that would look at me the way you looked at her. I am sorry that we have been so far away and did not get to know Mary better. I hurt for your loss but can rejoice that one day you will see her again. May God comfort you and keep you. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Bud, Kathleen,Abby and Maddie Gamblin

Mary Mesaros

August 25, 2004

As I write this I sit here and weep, selfishly, not for Mary, because I just know her wonderful spirit is now free, but for a world without her. Mary, I will never forget you and everything you taught me without even realizing you were doing it. Namaste, Mary Mesa

Tim Letteer

August 25, 2004

I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of Mary Kittel. My thoughts are with David and family.

Eileen Moore

August 25, 2004

My heartfelt sympathy goes out to Dave and to Mary's family. It's tragic to see a life cut so short but now Mary is finally free of pain and suffering. She is now truly the "free spirit" she always appeared to be on earth. I remember when I first met her, when Donna was going to college with her, and I thought, "What a ray of sunshine this girl is!" In the years that I knew her, that first impression never changed. She was always upbeat, spirited and happy regardless of what may have been going on in her life. I remember doing our "Woodstock" "flower power" dancing at Donna's 30th birthday party, again thinking what a delightful person Mary was. I fortunately have that dancing on video tape and will look at it often. It captures the true essence of Mary. I also remember when she interviewed me for an article in a women's health book she was contributing to at Rodale. She was an excellent interviewer, never rushed me with my rather lengthy responses, and always interested in what I had to say. I guess the last time I saw her was in June of 2002 at Donna's baby shower, where she had a chance to reunite with most of her college roomies. She may have even been diagnosed at that point but you never would have known by the way she carried herself; she was the same cheerful Mary. I will miss her a lot and I will always hold a special place in my heart for her. Fly over us, Mary, and smile that effervescent smile on us!

april pilz

August 24, 2004

I wish, as we all do, that I had more time with Mary. From each moment that I spent with her, my admiration grew. What a spirit!



Thank you, Mary.



Dave, you have been her angel. Now it is her turn to be yours.



april

Jennifer Titus

August 24, 2004

I "knew" of Mesa's journey through her most devoted friends from Yoga and Health. Your efforts, steadfastness and love is an inspiration to make the most of what is of this life. My thoughts are with your family, friends and Mesa.

Eric and Laura Metcalf

August 24, 2004

Our sincerest condolences to Dave and to Mary's family:



We stayed in awe of Mary's generous spirit and joy of life the entire time we knew her. Our respect for her grew and grew as she faced her challenges with grace and bravery.

We'll miss you, Mary Mesa,



Eric and Laura Metcalf

Phyllis Ingram

August 24, 2004

Dear Dave:

Mary and I became acquainted while we were both working at Rodale. She as a writer and I as a Administrative Asst., in the Book Division. Our offices were across the hall from one another and as time passed we discovered that we were both Norristonians. She graduated from Bishop Kendrick High School, which was located at the end of the road on which I lived. Then we discovered that we both loved bicycling, which is where I met you.

I will miss her on those wonderful rides with Gayle and Kathryn; as well as, the Monday night's after work. She encouraged me to be better at Pilates and enter writing contests.

I will miss her for a host of reasons; but she will live on in each of those whom she touched. She will live each time her name is recalled and a situation in which she was involved.

May God hold you in His Hand and comfort you, as you continue in this life.

I am grateful for her life and grateful that her earthly pain is over. She is in a better place--one that we can all hope to reach and be reunited with her.

May God bless you and keep you.

May His face shine upon you and grant you peace.

Joan Thirion

August 24, 2004

To: Dave and Family of Mary/Mesa

May you be blessed and comforted a thousand-fold during your time of loss. I am inspired by your love and devotion.



To: Mesa

Our paths intersected during Yoga Teacher Training. How much I learned from you as my student! Your laughing blue eyes and ready smile, optimism and curiosity touched us deeply. May you judge your work here complete.

Lisa & Frank Teklits

August 24, 2004

To our dear friend Dave and all of Mary's family and friends,



Anyone who knew Mary, most likely found her to be at the least intriguing. Individualism would be a great word for her. Though we did not know Mary as well as Dave, we always found her to be a great conversationalist and fun at every get together. Mary was a unique soul, who SHOULD never be forgotten and who will continue to be loved, respected and admired by many. I think many of us would aspire to be remembered so foundly as well as such a great role-model as she was.



Our love,

Lisa, Frank and Ellie Teklits in Oregon

Selene Yeager

August 24, 2004

Dave and family,

Please accept our deepest sympathy. Mary was the bravest, most upbeat soul I have ever had the pleasure of knowing. Her passion and strength has left an indelible mark on all of our lives. Dave and I will ride in Mary's honor next summer as we pedal 530 miles to raise money for cancer research. Too many shining spirits have left us way too soon.



Selene, Dave & Juniper

Karen Zajick

August 24, 2004

Dave and Friends and Family of Mary:

My sincerest condolences to you all. I am deeply moved by all of the volunteer/fundraising that was organized by you and I am sure her spirit will remain alive in all of you.

Molly Brown

August 24, 2004

I worked with Mary a short time in the Research Department at Rodale. She was positive, smart, kind and passionate beyond her years.

I am so impressed at how David, her family and friends rallied behind her. It goes to show you the number of people who treasured this fabulous woman.

Peace to her beautiful soul,

holly schick

August 24, 2004

Merry Mesa,



"Thank you, thank you, thank you."

I'll never forget hearing you say those words after finishing a Yoga practice in the treatment room at your oncologist's office last month (Your famous words, "I have to stretch!"). I wondered for a long time afterward what you could have possibly been thankful for that day when you were so ill, struggling so very much. Writing about the experience later, I came to understand your gratitude for a practice which allowed you to remain connected, to hope, to be present. What a beautiful heart you wore on your sleeve. I am a more confident, open woman thanks to your love and encouragement.

May you be safe.

May you be happy.

May you be healthy.

May you be free.

All my love forever,

Holly

Charles F. Duquesne

August 24, 2004

My condolences to the Kittel's and her husband.

Doug Dollemore

August 24, 2004

Mary was a bright light in our lives. we will miss her.



Doug, Evangeline, Emily and Kieran Dollemore

Gwen Hoover

August 24, 2004

Dear Dave and Family,

I will always miss Mary and her spirit and her ability to make me want to be the best person I could be. My son and I started worm composting with her encouragement and everything that grows in my garden will eternally remind me of her.

joely Johnson

August 23, 2004

mary/marigold/maree/mesa -- i miss you so much already, but i'm infinitely thankful that you were finally able to spread your wings and become free of the heavy weight. the only pain left is here with the living, and we can learn to temper that with sunlit memories of your quirky "akara-ed" smile, your independent-and-challenging spirit, and your everyday "from the hara" wisdom. i will keep you in my heart, my dear friend, until i face the same great adventure you're embarked on now. your "j"

vicki bennett

August 23, 2004

To the family of Mary:

I only spent a few minutes with Mary on my visits to her as a home health aide with Lehigh Valley home care, but those minutes will be an eternity for me.



Mary seemed so wise,kind and loving.

I will remember her always.



Sincerely

Vicki Bennett

Ann Gossy

August 23, 2004

Mary was a wonderful, giving person. I hired her as a researcher at Rodale and saw her grow into a talented writer. I will miss her quick wit and giving personality.

Sandy Hoffman

August 23, 2004

My heart felt condolences to David and to Mary's family.

I only knew Mary for a brief time but, her softness, her sweetness, her knowledge, impressed me forever.

She lives on as a sister of spirit.

Joyce Moore

August 23, 2004

Dear David and other family members, and friends of Mesa,

We were all blessed by the shining light of Mesa, who, like a comet, passed during the brightest part of her arc.

I wish you all peace and love.

Peggy Austin

August 23, 2004

What a gal.! Mary put up a real fight she found her faith so we know she won the fight.

Our prayers go out to you David. You are strong and we are proud of you.

Love,

Aunt Peggy

Lois Hazel

August 23, 2004

Mary Mesa,

Your spirit will live forever in our hearts. You taught us so much.

Namaste,

Lois

Nancy Johnston

August 23, 2004

Dear Family and Friends of Mary Kittel,

I loved Mary!!! She was awesome. She taught me how to stand on one leg in a yoga pose to look like a tree! I knew her when she was a member of Lehigh Valley Friends Meeting in Bethlehem( Quakers). I even have a book she loaned me about yoga with her handwriting in it . I will bring it to you at the memorial service on Sept 4. I wish you much energy as you grieve her loss and find comfort in knowing that her life is worth celebrating. Sincerely, Nancy Johnston

Patricia Roblin

August 22, 2004

Mary's life and mine intersected only briefly, but she had such a loving and positive spirit about her that I will always remember her. I feel honored to have met her, and my heart goes out to her family at this sad time.

Kay Pickel

August 22, 2004

My condolences to David and Mary's family. May the Holy Spirit comfort you in your hour of grief

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