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Gus Fleming Obituary
Gus was a warm and giving person, with a bright smile and quick wit, as evidenced by his extensive network of friends who came to his aid throughout his illness. He was devoted to his children and particularly enjoyed sharing outdoor activities with them. His passion in life was surfing and traveling, which he did extensively as he searched for the perfect surf spot, while enjoying the diverse cultures he encountered. He continued to give of himself and embrace life even as he struggled with his illness.
Gus was diagnosed with ALS in November, 2005, and was featured in a channel 8 news story when more than a hundred friends, colleagues, professional partners, and family members did a home makeover on a single-story fixer upper he purchased on his parent’s street. He purchased the house so he could live independently with assistance from his parents, David & Letitia Fleming, as the disease progressed. The make-over was undertaken without his knowledge while he took a three-week dream trip to Australia and New Zealand after learning he had ALS. He was also the focus of a channel 4 news feature promoting ALS awareness for the Padres ALS night.
He is also survived by family members in the area including brothers, Jason Fleming and Lydell Fleming and his wife Pamela, and their children Olivia, Dimitri, & Myla; sister, Anitra & husband Navy Commander Mark Glover (in Iraq), and their son Zachary and daughter Jordan. Uncles Eric Fleming & wife Gloria, and Marc Fleming of Utah and their children; the Hunter family, and many cousins also mourn his loss. Relatives from Mississippi include grandmother, Rosia Anderson, Uncles Charles Wright & wife Patricia, Al Wright & wife Pebbles, and Aunt Nancy & husband Alfred Huff, and their children.
Additionally Gus is survived by his biological father, Hardy Lewis & wife Laura, siblings Larry Lewis & wife Rochella, Linda Griffith, Cynthia & husband Army Master Sergeant Harold Parham, Deborah & husband Michael Carter, Hardy Lewis III & wife Lisa, Jerry (Wayne) Lewis & wife Ayana, James Lewis, and Angie Lewis, and their children, including Monica Carter.
Memorial services will be held on Saturday, Sept. 13 at 4 p.m. in a park adjacent to Hunter Industries at 1940 Diamond Street, San Marcos, CA 92078. A Paddle-Out will take place at Swami’s beach in Encinitas on Saturday, Sept. 20, 2008, at 2 p. m. Instead of flowers, donations are requested for his children’s education fund. Please send checks to “The Gus Fleming, 2005 Trust” and mail to 1726 LeGaye Drive, Cardiff, CA 92007 or donations may be made to ALS San Diego or the Surf Riders Association.
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Memories and Condolences
for Gus Fleming
Sponsored by Friends of Gus.
Letitia Fleming, mother
September 4, 2024
Gus,
We think about you every day and still have difficulty understanding that you are no longer with us physically. We continue dealing with learning how to live without you.
Your children are doing well -Baylee completed her BSN and is working as a nurse; Saige has her MSW and is working as a Mental Health Professional in the Denver elementary school system; Bryce completed an electrician´s course and is working and lives with us.
David and Letitia Fleming
September 4, 2022
David and Letitia Fleming
September 4, 2022
David and Letitia Fleming
September 4, 2022
David and Letitia Fleming
September 4, 2022
Charles Luckie
August 3, 2009
I would like to say how sorry that I am to hear that Gus has left us. I wish to each and everyone of the family members my condolences and prayers. Keep god first to help guide you pass this time of true sorrow.
Glen Franco
August 3, 2009
My condolences to the Fleming family. Although it's been many years since I've seen Gus, he was always friendly and full of spirit. Met gus at Oak Crest Jr High in 1978.
Rest in Peace Gus.
Melissa Katnik
July 9, 2009
I just came across Gus's passing. He was a very nice guy and he loved his family. (Very protective of his little brothers). I was good friends with his brother Lydell. God Bless his family. Gus, I'll see you in heaven! Melissa Cardosa (Katnik)
Pamela Fleming
February 23, 2009
Gus - Though your passing was months ago, I thought today would be a great day to write you a note. Today we are celebrating your birth. Even though you are no longer with us, you are in so many hearts, I hope you can know and feel that where you are today. We miss you everyday and continue to marvel at your strength, spirit, and wisdom during your struggle the last years on this earth. What a blessing we all had to know you! To be your sister-in-law is a gift and I am honored to have been part of your life. I miss you and love you always!
Hans Mickelson
November 28, 2008
I only knew Gus briefly, but he impressed me right off the bat with his wisdom and professionalism. He will not be forgotten. We shared a common love, surfing. Not too many people in the golf industry surf. He will be missed, but live on in memory. Especially in the water. I just learned of his passing and was astonished, and wish I could have been as blessed as his friends and family by knowing him better.
Erin Meister
October 13, 2008
I'm so sorry. My condolences to all of his family and friends. I went to junior and high school with Gus. He was always such a nice person. I had the pleasure of seeing him again at the racetrack a few years ago. We got caught up and he was as sweet as always. His presence in this world will be sorely missed....
Jeff Oglesby
September 25, 2008
Hey Gus,
I write this because i know that Gus looks down and knows what's in our hearts. I feel guilty because i didn't see Gus that much over the years. It always seems like we have too much on our plates. I read all these great entries and see that Gus made room on his plate for many. I hope that i learn from Gus and that i can become a better person. Gus will be missed by many people,friends,family. I don't think that there's been a time since his passing that i haven't thought of him when i bodysurf. I know he loved the ocean and i'm glad i share that brotherhood with him. We will miss you Gus...........
Oh! I Know you'll be watching the Chargers every Sunday Gus. I'll be there too.
Jeff Oglesby
John & Lesah Mutscheller
September 22, 2008
During the memorial at Swamis I could feel Gus' spirit in the ring. I met Gus in Surf PE when we were in 9th grade. I remember surfing at "suckouts" in Cardiff. Gus was one of the best surfer's I ever knew. I was proud to be his friend and I will always remember of how nice of a guy he was. We will never forget him, our prayers go out to his family... We will always miss Gus!
Shea
September 20, 2008
Gus was one of the first people I met walking to high school in 1981,.. he impressed me right away with his unique character & presence and was a close friend for several years before we drifted into our adult lives. I continued to admire the fullness of Gus's life as I learned of the major milestones in it such as the birth of his children and the advancement of his career.
I had the privilege to photograph Gus's paddle out memorial today and have a free gallery to share online. Please contact me for the link and share it with your friends of Gus.
Elaine Borseth
September 20, 2008
Gus will be missed by all. I have never seen such wonderful ,supportive friends and family. It was a privilege to spend time with Gus.
Mark Freytag
September 20, 2008
Gus was always like a brother to me. It was great being able to share near 30 years of friendship with him. We surfed California, Mexico, and Hawaii together many times and had a lot of laughs. He was the father of my two nieces, Baylee and Saige and my nephew, Bryce. They are all great kids and I know this loss is hardest on them. Bryce is a little Gus and has all the potential to follow the path of his father to be a great surfer and a great all around person. Baylee is beautiful, smart and stubborn in a good way that makes her who she is. And Saige is a lot like Gus the way she gets along with everyone and makes friends wherever she goes. Gus will always live on through his kids and I am very fortunate to call them family. I am not going to make it to Encinitas for the service or paddle out but was planning to get together here Hawaii to honor Gus and talk story about some of the good times we all shared. Call me at 808-372-8305. We plan on Saturday, September 20th at 11 AM, so it will be the same time as the paddle out at Swammis.
Jay Sklar
September 20, 2008
Gus your kindness and spirit has blessed my life since I've known you. Thank you for sharing your life with all of us. Jay Sklar
Debra (Knapp) Lombardo
September 20, 2008
The Flemings were my next door neighbors, Gus was friends with my kids at that time, Tina and Phillip. What a lovely family the Flemings were, and what great boys Gus and "Dell" were. It has been many years since I have seen Gus..my love goes out to the family..Hugs..
I have a beautiful poem I would love to send to you...I will
Sandra Marak
September 19, 2008
What a blessing to be loved by Gus... to see his sparkling eyes smile at me. For two years, I saw him about once a week to give him massage, or gentle touch or guided imagery to comfort him. I treasure the deep talks about life and death, his memories and wishes for his children. I watched him bravely deal with a devastating disease. I honor his memory and trust that the great surfers met him as he came out of the tube riding that final wave into the next adventure beyond this world. I honor his family and friends for the dedication and untiring devotion, the amazing generosity. He asked me "Why do so many like me?" I replied, " You must have done something right." Gus has been loved and we have been graced by his loving. Love never dies.
Gus, here comes a warm loving smile from Sandra
Jovonte Scott
September 18, 2008
i'm sorry your gone im gonna miss you
Carmen Fields
September 16, 2008
I knew Gus over 20 plus years, but I didn't know Gus until supporting him through his illness. The time I spent with him, his children and his family during meal times allowed me to develop relationships that change how I feel about what's important in life. Witnessing the physical/emotional changes in Gus often brought tears to my eyes though Gus never complained. He always greeted me with sparkling eyes and a great smile. Always concerned for others Gus was a man of great compassion. He deserved more than I could give. Dinner with the Fleming's was worth every minute. Gus my friend, you will be missed.
Paul Hunter
September 16, 2008
Gus was one of the classiest men we have had the privilege to know. We know it is little comfort, but few people could handle the hand dealt to Gus with such grace and dignity. He has been a humbling inspiration to many, many people. We ache for his family.
Paul and Linda
Chris McLean
September 15, 2008
Strong body and heart, gentle soul, and amazing smile..those are the words that come to me when I think of Gus. The world has lost one of it's best. He will be missed.
Love to the Fleming Family.
Jermaine Jones Sr.
September 15, 2008
Just the thought
It's the quiet sounds of night that I feel comfortable with
A little voice always there when I need it
Like the wind that shifts as the kite sails away
Off into a sky so sunny and blue
But in the darkness I stand and nothing is seen
A warm though lets me know that you are there
Goosebumps come and go just at the thought
But the truth only appears when I open my eyes
Eyes open and searching for that warmth each day
No matter the time or place the feeling is still there
Sometimes I wonder if there is anyone that feels as I do
Alone with only a thought to grasp in the distance
Like light the brief that shines as a match is struck
Knowing what will happen when it’s purpose is no more
Thrown away to never be used again
Now that spark, that flicker, that light is gone
There I sit now looking off into the darkness again
With only those warm thoughts left from seconds before
Eyes opened again looking towards a sky so sunny and blue
Brian Story
September 13, 2008
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Alisa Pollock
September 13, 2008
I will always remember Gus as one of the nicest and most genuine men that I ever had the honor and privilege of knowing. I will never forget how he sifted through the dirt in his yard with flower strainer for weeks looking for a necklace that I had lost at his party back over 20 years ago. The world was a better place with Gus in it and I know his memory will live forever in those of us lucky enough to have known him.
Rosemary Hinko
September 13, 2008
To The Fleming Family,
Some people come into our lives and leave a footprint on our heart. Gus was such a person. Knowing Gus for these many years has been my privilege.
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time.
Christine Sionne Jim North
September 13, 2008
Peace to the Fleming family. Now, even the angels are blessed with that infectous smile and the gleam in Gus' eyes. What a wonderful soul. Namaste, old friend! God Bless You.
Jim and Beatrice Guerrero
September 12, 2008
Leticia,
You and your family, have our deepest sympathy, but your grief goes beyond what words can express.
We spent many years working at Hunter Industries with Gus. I remember always seeing him with that beautiful white smile on his face. Always friendly and talking to everyone is the Gus we remember.
Let God take you in his arms and cover you with his love. He knows the depth of your grief and only he can give you peace. There are no tears in Heaven, no more heartache and no pain, only love and happiness for all eternity.
Our prayers go out to you and your family.
Julia Apple
September 12, 2008
Oh Gus,
You came my way the other day, not in body but in spirit, and I thought I better I find out how you were doing. So sadly, it wasn't a reminder to say 'Hi', but it was a good bye. Dear gus, I will miss you. You were a friend, a great surfer, a local. Encinitas has lost one of its own. As I write this I listen to The Harder They Come by Jimmy Cliff, you turned me and Rachel Therien on to this way back in the day. And remember, you let me and Rach practice manicures on you when we were in cosmetology school. Gus, you were ALWAYS a good guy, you always looked out for us, and made sure we made it home safe after a good nights fun. It breaks my heart to know that horrible disease took you away from us and your home. I know though, deep down, now you are eternally surfing that perfect wave, and I know someday we'll be saying to each other, "you go right and I'll go left." God bless you, Gus. God bless your family. God got a real good man.
Your friend forever,
Kenny Kafka
September 12, 2008
The outside peak at Swampies will never be the same! You were a dominiator and good friend.
Ralph Tomaselli
September 12, 2008
One of the nicest people I've ever known is now in the heavens above!
You will truly be missed my friend
Brandi & William Clarke
September 12, 2008
Gus-
William will miss your personal surf reports (and the texts from Hawaii) to him and tellling him he needs to get out there. Most of all we both will miss your friendship and just a great human being. We love you. To the entire Fleming family-his spirit will live on through all of you. Peace.
Lisa OKeefe(Albright)
September 12, 2008
RIP Gus.....always and all ways - Lisa
Rebecca Dubreuil Hydro-Scape Products
September 12, 2008
Anything with an "I" is 5...Gus you forever left a mark on my heart!
I met Gus through work...he was a salesman we never minded seeing. His beautiful spirit and outgoing personality was always a joy to be around. He was taken from us far before his time and he will be greatly missed.
Rocio Plata
September 12, 2008
Gus….
My heart has been so heavy with grief. How do I say goodbye to such a beloved friend. I feel so blessed to have been one of the many people touched by Gus. I will miss him very much. I love you.
Letitia and family, my deepest sympathy to all of you. I pray that God will carry you during this tragic moment of you lives and give you the comfort to know that Gus is with him now.
With all my love, Rocio
Saundra Dixon
September 12, 2008
Gussy , I will miss you so so so so MUCH and I LOVE YOU ! I am so sad you are gone. But now you are resting in peace. I will tell your children and grandchildren. Our child hood stories so that the memories of you will be passed on. Because you will never be forgotten . But so deeply missed by me. That words can not describe how much. I LOVE YOU and will miss you. Your favorite cousin :)
Zita Machain
September 12, 2008
....And in the Sea our truth will unfold, and we will be one before God; The Sea will touch our souls, our hearts will be filled with happiness, like that of a child, and once again we shall be free.
My Dearest Brother-in-Law you brought us so much joy and happiness into our lives. It's difficult to accept we wont see you anymore. But we know that your at a better place, we know that you finally found paradise.
Love you aways
Saundra Dixon
September 12, 2008
Gussy , I will miss you so so so so much and I LOVE YOU ! I am so sad you are gone . But now you can rest in peace. I will tell your children and your grandchildren,
Our child hood stories, so that the memories of you can be pass on . Because you will never be forgotten
just missed ! Your Favorite cousin :)
Susan Hennessy
September 12, 2008
Gus - May your soul's journey to the light of comfort and love that awaits you be as a wave taking you into its center; unfolding and bringing you out on white, soothing waters.
Eternal life is being in the thoughts and hearts of all those here on earth who remember you with love in the here and now and in the generations to come.
My thoughts join with all your family and friends in embracing your eternal-ness,
Susan Hennessy
Mark Glover
September 12, 2008
A truly, wonderful Brother-in-Law. I will miss him dearly.
Eddie Ferrel
September 12, 2008
To the entire Fleming family:
My name is Eddie Ferrel. I've been blessed to know Gustalvo, as I called him, (he called me Edwardo Bandito), for quite awhile. He was our area salesperson while at Hunter.
I never really saw him as a representative of Hunter but a friend. His kind gestures made him who he was, I will miss him, no doubt about it but his memory will live in my heart forever.
HE CARED, PERIOD, it was apparrent to all.
To add I would like to share that I have a baby girl of 19 months, her name is Reese. Gus made sure a week after she was born that he sent a care package for her with a card of congratulations, signed UNCLE GUSTALVO. I will not let her forget her honorary Uncle Gustalvo.
I'm truley sorry for your loss, may god bless all of you.
I will always think that he will be watching over us from above. He is an angel.
Yvonne Dickerson
September 12, 2008
Letitia,
My deepest sympathy to you and your family. So sorry for your loss. Gus was very special, he could always light up a room with his beautiful smile, I will miss him. May the Lord give you comfort, my prayers are with you and your family.
Gwynne Wady
September 12, 2008
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Zita Machain
September 12, 2008
....And in the Sea our truth will unfold, and we will be one before God; The Sea will touch our souls, our hearts will be filled with happiness, like that of a child and once again we shall be free.
My Dearest Brother-in-Law you brought us so much joy and happiness while you where with us. It’s difficult to accept that we won’t see you tomorrow. But we know your at a better place you have finally found paradise.
Love you always
Lem Hunter
September 12, 2008
From Easter egg hunts to surfing to child rearing to the irrigation world, I respect the way Gus pack a very full lifetime into just 44 years. I am happy that Gus is free, and sad only for the rest of us left here with out his company.
Anitra Glover
September 11, 2008
Gus was born when I was only 20 months old. I was his "big" sister for 44 1/2 years. I love him and I truly miss him....
Tasha McCann
September 11, 2008
I have known Gus for years as he was one of my brothers best friends. Gus's spectacular smile and beautiful spirit will truly be missed.
Heaven has quite the angel!!!!!!
Our thoughts and prayers are with his family and fellow friends..
Peace.....
Tom and Tasha Feland-McCann
Scott Bass
September 11, 2008
Gus was a class act in the water at Swamis. We were on Ed Wright's Sunset Surf team together back in '82- '83 and shared many, many days together out at Swamis.
Sharie Buenting
September 11, 2008
To The Fleming Family,
I met Gus about 8 years ago, I did not know this man standing in my office doorway, he introduced himself and that was it, I adored him. He was kind, passionate about his work, handsome and just a great all around guy if I could pick one word, it would be Infectious to best describe him Once you met Gus, you were hooked ! On our many visits we talked of our families and somehow he always remembered what was happening with mine....amazing considering all the people he touched in such a short period of time.
I recall one night before Gus was diagnosed about 4 years ago, at work in Palm Desert I was fixing to leave and came into the office. The whole crew was still there, just sitting visiting and laughing, they were "giddy". I asked if there was a meeting and they said No! Gus is coming! We are waiting for him! It must have been after 5:00 and everyone clocked out for the day but not a one of us left until we got to see our beloved Gus! Gus never let us down, he would call us and say "Hey Im in the neighborhood are you going to be there" We scolded him for not coming to see us FIRST!!! But he was wise, he knew that when coming to visit us would take atleast an hour of his time so he better see his other stops before coming to see us! He never once let us down, even after his diagnosis, he still came to see us and smiled, never once did we get any hint of "why me" or anything like that. He lived his life with courage beyond my comprehension, that was Gus. Strong and Committed to his life and his children.
May God watch over Gus's family and help you thru this difficult time and just know he is looking down upon us now smiling and riding that big wave pain free and smiling, which is all we could ask for, for him.
God Bless You,
Andy Nawabi
September 11, 2008
I met Gus in the mid eighties, he was a kind, warm person that anyone could approach. We met surfing Swami's. There are many times when we were the last people in the water, surfing into dusk, wondering who would go in first, who would get the last wave. Although I haven't seen him in some time, we were friends and the world has lost a good man.
Mark McCormack
September 11, 2008
Gus and I met through his brother Lydell many years back. It seems as though most times Gus and I had conversations we would find we had more friends in common than we thought. I am surprised we did not meet 30 years prior! His warm presence and bright smile could fill up any room, its apparent by how many friends he really has. When Gus’s parents had the great idea of a home makeover while their boys were in Australia, his friends really came through. Gus’s friends and family deserve a big high five for stepping up with such love and compassion. To the entire Fleming family I wish you all my condolences for your loss. ALS is a horrible disease that I can only hope will have a cure in our lifetime. Gus will make the second friend I have lost to ALS in the last 4 years. Gus will be truly missed – “Rest in Peace” my friend.
Vanessa Jones
September 11, 2008
I was very lucky to meet Gus in October of 2006. I came to know him as a wonderful father, son, friend, and surfer! Gus was there the night I met my husband, his friend Tim Jones, and was there to help me celebrate many special moments in the last few years. With our friends, The Vegas and The Goodes we'll think of him always and wish he was with us in the moments and years to come...and every year on my birthday, also the day of his passing, I will think of him as I celebrate....
Thomas Gallagher (Rhodes)
September 11, 2008
Hey there Gus, So hard to think that 25 yrs flies by, memories,a lot of fun filled, belly laughing fun memories. Others filled with warm, special thoughts, that create a smile as big as yours!! We will miss you, that's for sure, the world will miss out on the priviledge of meeting that smile, in person. As kids,Dell and the rest of us new, the stupid things we did, were always being watched, even as you blew off our shannagins, with your dumb@ss kids laugh, deep down, we knew you always had our backs! As a man, you softend into a Father, who now has a gift from there Father, to share with the rest of us!. Smile Kids.. and share your Dads wonderful inner beauty. Gus, Mike was correct, they must've needed a truely gifted "teacher;"
Mindy Greenville
September 11, 2008
It was such an honor in having Gus as a dear friend. I am so touched by his humility and love for his family and friends. Gus had a special way of making me laugh with his incredible sense of humor. I will truly miss him.
Anton Greenville
September 11, 2008
Junior High School days-skateboarding the Cardiff Trench, High school days-surfing uncrowded Swamis (and afterwards raiding the parent’s refrigerator), Baja trips- making clam chowder on the tailgate of the truck on the point at San Quintin and getting into a watermelon fight at Cantamar Dunes; what it was, it sure wouldn’t have been without Gus involved; invaluable memories of a truly wonderful individual. Gus always brought out the best in people, starting with their smile. You touched me deeply with your strength and vibrant personality! God blessed us with your presence; God bless you in your departure.
Joan Robinson
September 11, 2008
I didn't know Gus at all, but I sympathize with your loss. My sister-in-law's second husband passed from ALS and it was a challenging experience for all involved. I know that it may sound trite, but Gus is able to do more now than he has in years. My prayers are with you and yours and I pray that God will give you grace and peace through this tragedy. He will walk you through all the ups and downs as you ask Him to. My love and prayers go with you. Blessings.....
Susan Machain
September 11, 2008
Gus, Your smile, Charismatic personality, the LOVE for all things. A gentle soul with such a huge HEART for all of us…
Every time you saw us, very gently, you hinted, is it time to make tamales, You have added a twist to are family ritual of making tamales
You have taught my daughters, the lesson of love, dignity and never giving up, no matter how bad it is..
We salute the greatness of your existence.
Susan, Jaiminia, Savannah, & Dominique Machain
Tom Porter
September 11, 2008
Baylee, Saige and Bryce...your Dad was inspiration to me. Throughout his illness, he was always very positive. He loved you all very much. He always had a smile, and a kind word. He had an amazing attitude through all of this...Gus, my friend, you taught me a very important lesson in living. I will miss you.
Wendy Woodard
September 11, 2008
Handsome, sleek, kind-hearted, inspiring, magical, happy-go-lucky
and truly a quality human being.
Gus you made this world a better
place. Just thinking about you makes
me smile. R.I.P Love Wendy
Robert fleming
September 11, 2008
Dear Friends,
We did not have the pleasure of knowing your son. He sounds like a wonderful man. As fellow members of our UU Fellowship, let us offer our prayers for Gus and for you. Parents are not supposed to outlive their children. Take time and care for yourselves. Bob & Linda
Stephanie Bennett
September 11, 2008
I feel so privileged to have known Gus. An inspiring person with a beautiful smile. My deepest sympathies go out to the entire family.
Randy Underwood
September 11, 2008
Way too soon, thats all I can say. Gus was always a solid guy. Year after year out at Swamis Gus was always smiled when he took off. He was always kind and cool with me. I think you would be really hard pressed to find someone who could say anything bad about Gus. Im making that paddle out. Old school is bringing it for Gus.
Guy Monzeglio
September 11, 2008
Goodness Gracious Gus………….. I am sure God has welcomed you home to his loving arms and you are finally out of pain. May he also comfort your family and ease the pain of your loss. Your smile will live on forever with anyone that knew you…………… God Speed brother.
Mike Tucker
September 11, 2008
Where does one start...Letitia, Dave, and all his family, my heart goes out to you for your loss. I've known Gus for 30 something years, and can't recall him ever not having that contagious and warm smile on his face. I tell myself that God must have needed a warm,smiling, and caring person to teach surf class and that is why he chose Gus. One day we will surf together again brother. I look forward to it. May peace be with you.
Dave (Rave) Penman
September 11, 2008
May God comfort his entire family. Gus will be missed by all. His passion for surfing, and his enormous heart touched the lives of many people. See you on the other side
Eric Shepard
September 11, 2008
Gus, your profound internal strength always amazed me. Your rock-solid footing always radiated gentleness and kindness. Be well.
Cindy Callant
September 11, 2008
I feel blessed to be one of the many people touched by Gus Fleming. His gentle conversations, expressions of gratitude, courage and heart as he faced his last months will never be forgotten.
Love and strenght to his family,
Cindy Callant
Kevin Kress
September 11, 2008
Gus has been a great friend since junior high school and I considered him one of the best people I've ever had the privilege of knowing. Kind, compassionate, of the utmost integrity, and always there for you. I really couldn't ask for a better friend. He'll be sorely missed by me and many others.
Cousin Wanda (Frierson) Atkinson
September 11, 2008
To my family: You will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. Gus will forever be in our hearts.
Sherrie Dubreuil
September 11, 2008
I will always remember your smile! You have a wonderful family I will never forget them. Everyone will be in our thoughts and prayers.
Todd Adam
September 10, 2008
Gus, and I first met in 1979, 1980 at Oak Crest Jr. High School, and we hung out till we left High School. Since then we have not been that close. Now with this news it feels like yesterday. We would surf, and skate together all the time. Lydell called me the Morning after when I was attending the Surf Industry Bible study. How he called me with the news was beyond me. I would have been morning his loss, but Lydell is strong like that reaching out to Gus' friends how ever close, or distant! My thoughts and prayers are with the parents, grandparent's, brother's sister's, cousins, aunt's, uncles, friends, and Gus' children. May your morning be turned into dancing!
Deirdre Wang
September 10, 2008
I met Gus and his family through his cousin, Chantelle, almost 19 years ago. I was so inspired to see Gus "still be Gus" throughout the last 2, almost 3 years. He always kept a brave face, and remained so social and outgoing. I feel so priveleged to have known such an amazing, courageous individual. My deepest sympathies go out to his very extensive family. I know he will be missed by many.
Karen Kennedy
September 10, 2008
Our thoughts & prayers go out to Gus's children, parents & family.
Sincerely,
Karen & Mike Kennedy & Ben
Lisa Vega's Brother, Sisterinlaw & Nephew
Bob & Fran McNabb
September 10, 2008
We knew Gus when he used to Surf with our Son Mike McNabb. Gus was a sweet guy to have around . He came to our home many times. We are so sorry for your loss. He certainly turned out to be a great person. Sorry we never got to meet his Mom and Dad.
john DeMaria
September 10, 2008
Gus was a great model of a human being. If there were more people on this planet like Gus this would surely be a great place to hang out.
I only spoke to him maybe 10 times but we became good friends. He was one of the guy's that you looked forward to seeing and talking to. Please accept my sympathy and Know that you as parent did a great job raising a son and a friend like Gus.
Greg Hodson
September 10, 2008
I was a new addition to the family and Gus made me feel very welcome and comfortable. I always looked forward to our visits when I was in So Cal. He will be sadly missed.
Denise Giles
September 10, 2008
Gus will always be in my heart. I remember when we first met 5 minutes after meeting Gus gave me a hard time, and ever since then Gus kept me on my toes. He was a great father, and friend. I will miss his warm smile.
mike McNabb
September 10, 2008
Letitia, David and Family,
I am sorry for all of our loss we lost a great friend, brother, father, Son. You should rejoice in all the lives your Son has touched in His few years with us. I know we are all hurting now. Every time I look out at the Ocean I think of Gus. God Bless all.
Gus at the 2004 FrieRson Family Reunion
Pete, Doris & Lisa Frieson
September 10, 2008
A faithful person knows what God has put in their heart, and even though they may feel like quitting, they don't give up. Gus was faithful.
Ray Hollowell
September 10, 2008
Gus and I surfed many times together in the 80s and he was always ripping it up and having a great time no matter what. He's a true ocean warrior and now surfing the eternal wave in the Heavens. Gus will be missed in the lineup and in our hearts.
Jason Salois
September 10, 2008
I am terribly sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers will be with your family.
Dot Saito
September 10, 2008
My deepest sympathy to Baylee, Saige, Bryce and their family.
It was an honor and a privilege to have been a friend of Gus. He was such a fine man and I am feeling sad and a little lost knowing that he is really gone.
Thank you to his Mom, Leticia for allowing me to talk to him one last time Thursday morning. I will always be grateful.
I'm so glad he's finally at peace, whole and free.
Love to all of you,
Dot
Ted Nunn
September 10, 2008
Letitia, David and Family-
So sorry to hear of Gus' passing. Please accept my deepest sympathies. My thoughts are with you at this time.
Dina Newcomb
September 10, 2008
Even though it was tough to watch my dear friend Gus battle with ALS, I was very relieved to notice that his spirit never weakened or changed. I am so grateful for the opportunity to witness the love of his family and friends that carried him through until the end of his earthly life.
I will miss you Gus. I love you, and I cannot wait to see you again.
With all my love, Dina
David Miller
September 10, 2008
I have known Gus for what seems like forever. We met as kids and were friends ever since. He was like a brother to me. My famiy and I will miss him greatly.
Jim & Lois Kennedy
September 10, 2008
It is a privilege to have known Gus. He was a wonderful person and we will miss him.
Tom Thomson
September 10, 2008
It is a priviledge to have known Gus even for a short time
what a great spirit he had, GOD bless Gus and his loving family.
Lisa Vega
September 10, 2008
To my Gussie,
How do I begin to tell you how much you mean to me and Vega, and how do we say goodbye to such a beloved friend.
My heart has been so heavy with grief that I feel like my feet are dragging on the ground. The only solace that I can find is knowing that you are no longer in pain.
The morning after you left this earth I swear that I saw you surfing on a cloud and for a breif moment it made me smile.
Leticia, Dave, Baylee, Saige, Bryce, and Family:
Thank you for sharing this wonderful man with myself and my family. We will miss him so very much.
Cheryl Gerlach Folwell
September 10, 2008
I remember Gus as one of the most polite of my son's Brad Gerlach friends, always a smile, and he was nice to Brad's sister Corinne, which was not done at that age. My mother-in-law died of this horrible disease, and my hope is that one day it is irradicated. My thoughts and prayers go to his family and his children.
Chantelle Hodson
September 10, 2008
Gus will always be one of my heroes and be greatly missed. I am proud to call him my cousin.
Rosette Holmes
September 10, 2008
I am Gus's cousin, one of many whom he always showed love for. He will always be a real hero in my eyes not just because I remember him towering over me when I was small, but because he lived life and followed his heart.
Zane Bailiey
September 10, 2008
Zane and Maria Bailey
Wesley Frierson
September 10, 2008
I am so very sorry for the lost of our
family member. Peace
The Rowe Family
September 10, 2008
Gus' strength, courage and pride will never be forgotten. He touched our lives with his spirit and zest for life and his ability to appreciate all of nature's beauty. With deepest sympathy.
Cindy Sphar
September 10, 2008
Gus is one of those people – not easily forgotten
Just a brief encounter –
Yet his warmth and genuine nature has left an imprint on your heart.
Bob Carter
September 10, 2008
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Beriah Osorio
September 10, 2008
"Gus went surfing", I said to myself with a heavy heart but a smile on my face when I heard the news that Gus had passed. It was a different feeling than a couple years ago when the ALS diagnosis brought me to tears because I knew what it meant for Gus and our shared best friend... the waves. I'll never forget that trip to Baja where we drained the lagoon and rode the rapids only to have our intestinal-tracts alert us later that the lagoon was horribly polluted. I remember also when us local groms were shocked when Rob "beat" Gus in some contest back when we were 12... shock at Rob's skills, yes, but the fact that it was against Gus... THAT meant something. Heck... I wasn't there so maybe it never happened... but it shows the pedestal that we put Gus and his skills on back in the day.
Sending much love and aloha to the Fleming family. I miss you all and will miss you Gus. Outside!
September 10, 2008
Jim Benedetti
September 10, 2008
Gus was one of the nicest people I have had the privilege to know. I will miss you Gus.
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