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John Rhodes Obituary

John Jeffrey Rhodes 07/23/1949 ~ 08/27/2010 ESCONDIDO -- Jeff is survived by his significant other, Barbara J. Vennevold; his mother, Doris Anne Rhodes; siblings, Sandra Anne Barrett, Timothy Spencer Rhodes, and Ronald William Rhodes; and many long-time and wonderful friends. Jeff graduated from Fork Union Military Academy in 1967. He attended Western Michigan University where he received a BA in Literature. He then attended two years of graduate school, studying law, at National University in San Diego. He had a 28-year career working for Air Cal/ American Airlines, retiring in September, 2007. Jeff was a loved one to his family, a friend to many, and was definitely loved by all. He will be so terribly missed. A viewing was held at Poway-Bernardo Mortuary on September 1, 2010 with a reception following at his mother's home in Rancho Bernardo. Sign the Guest Book online obits.nctimes.com

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Published by North County Times on Sep. 12, 2010.

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October 31, 2010

In memory of my brother: The moments of happiness we enjoy take us by surprise. It is not that we seize them, but that they seize us. Hope you had many such moments, Jeff. Love, your sister, Sandy

Bill Elliott

October 10, 2010

I came to know Jeff through his mother Anne, my neighbor and good friend, who welcomed me into her home to share their holiday dinners. Jeff was a bright and articulate conversationalist at these events. His dry humor and personal warmth made me feel very much at home. I was deeply saddened by news of his untimely death. He will be greatly missed.

October 8, 2010

My Darlin'
I miss you everyday. I will continue to work hard to make the future we wanted.Please watch over me, until we meet once again.
I did, I do, and will always love you.
Your Barbi.

Ray Pszczolkowski

September 24, 2010

September 24, 2010

Jeff was my friend for 30+ years. He was mild-mannered, loved his family, liked to read, had compassion for all living things, and liked to drive very fast. Jeff had a gift. He could raise peoples' spirits regardless of how bad a day they were having; it was almost charismatic. He had a melodious voice full of compasson and humor and a smile that could cure a cold.

David Hahn

September 14, 2010

I met Jeff on the phone and through pictures. The conversations I had with him impressed upon me that he was a kind and gracious man. I was touched by the pictures of him and Barbra. The smiles and look in there eyes tell of the special relationship they shared. Together, they seemed happy and content, true companions that shared much joy and laughter. I would enjoyed meeting him in person and getting to know him as a friend.

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