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Gary Parker Obituary

Gary Parker, 62 VISTA -- Gary Parker passed away Tuesday, September 21, 2010. He was born November 12, 1947 in Lynwood, Calif. Gary was a U.S. Army Vietnam Veteran, being awarded two Purple Hearts. He worked for Sim J. Harris, Inc. for 23 years as a heavy equipment operator in road construction and paving. He loved spending time with his wife, family, and grandchildren. Gary is survived by his wife, Patti, who just celebrated 43 years of marriage in August 2010; daughters, Kari and Kayla; grandchildren, Jordan, Tyler, and Hailey; parents, Bill and Betty of Oregon; and sisters, Sherry and Tarry of Oregon. A Celebration of Gary's life will be held at 2 p.m., Sunday, October 3rd at the family's home in Vista. Please call Patti at 760-295-8818 to join family, friends and co-workers in this memorial celebration. The family is requesting that contributions, in memory of Gary Parker, be deposited at Bank of America Acct. #24057-04637, c/o Parker. Sign the Guest Book online obits.nctimes.com

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Published by North County Times on Sep. 26, 2010.

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Marsha and Darryl

September 22, 2021

Time goes fast, but a wonderful memory of the ones we love is always there. We can still remember the great laugh Gary had and know Patti, Kari, Kayla and grandkids (now adults) will also never forget such a great fun loving person.
Big hugs to all the family from Oregon

Shirley Cole

September 20, 2019

Remembering how much our little Patti & his girls were the loves of his life and Gary was to them. My love & thoughts are with you Patti- your smile must be your symbol of strength - you've worn it in all the 54 years I have known you. Please know we love you and in our hearts you are always there.

Daddy and Mommy

Kari Parker

December 7, 2010

Daddy and his Car

Kari Parker

December 7, 2010

Sue Wigle-Dowell

December 5, 2010

I was Patti's friend years before meeting Gary. I always knew Patti the best. She was irreplaceable to me growing up. Time and life conspired to keep us from being in touch, but I will never forget the love they shared in the short time I did see them after they married. Gary was a solid and tender person. To Patti,Keri and
Kayla, I can only say I am so sorry for your loss as it it great. I pray for your strength in this time. I will never forget all of the good times.

Shirley Leslie-Cole

October 13, 2010

Our memories go back to Philomath High school and always the smile and polite kindness. Patti my love , thoughts and prayers are with you and the girls each day. You and Gary had a wonderful life together in love may that give you strength.

Shirley Leslie-Cole

October 13, 2010

I remeber Gary's smile which he had most of the time. He was always a gentleman, a kind man with a fun loving spirit. He loved his wife - always had that look in his eyes when he looked at her and his girls - he would do anything for them and Patti. Patti, I am so very sorry for your loss, I know how very much you two had in common (not height) but in love and laughter. My heart,thoughts and prayers are with you each day. I hope you remember me I was Shirley Leslie now its Shirley Cole

Rich, Paulette & Rachel Russell

October 9, 2010

Although we've not been in contact for many years, the fond memories we have of times spent together made this news hard to accept. Gary was a great man and will be missed by all who's lives he touched. May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Tammy SelanderThompson

October 6, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with each one of you.

Marsha & Darryl Abbott

September 30, 2010

We had the pleasure of knowing Gary (and his whole family) for many years, over 40 years. Gary was the friend you could count on to help you do something and do it right and most of all do it with a laugh and smile.
We will miss him but will know that he lives on in his beautiful and loving family.

Daddy, Mommy, and Kozee

Kari Parker

September 28, 2010

Terri Halverson

September 27, 2010

Gary was known at work as the best blade operator around. On a more personal note, he was one of the nicest men a person could be privileged to know. I loved it when he brought Patti to the office with him. What a special love they shared.

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