Search by Name

Search by Name

Kenneth de Bit Obituary


Kenneth David de Bit Beloved Brother, Son, Uncle, Nephew, Friend and Coach 09/18/1955-08/23/2010 SAN MARCOS -- Kenneth David de Bit, "Coach Ken," passed away Monday, August 23, 2010 after a courageous battle with lupus. Kenneth was born September 18, 1955 to San Marcos ranchers, Lt. Cmdr., US Navy, Retired, Dion G. B. "Ted," and Estelle "Jackie" de Bit. Ken, a life-long San Diego resident, devoted his life to coaching his many students in ice and roller figure skating for the past three decades. As a gifted and accomplished United States National and California State ice and roller skating champion, Ken commanded the competitive skating floor for many, many years, and will be missed by his family, friends and student athletes. Ken was an avid outdoorsman, and enjoyed hiking, skiing, boarding, body surfing, and the San Diego County outdoors from the mountains to the sea. Kenneth is survived by his siblings, Dion G.B. (Sue) de Bit, Jr., Gwendolyn (Darryl) Tyler-Fry, Shelli (Jay) Douglass and Melanie (Steve) Collier; eleven nieces and nephews; one grand-niece; two grand -nephews; and many dear friends. He was preceded in death by his parents; and his brother, Michael de Bit. A private family service is planned, and a public celebration of life will be held between 2 and 3 p.m., Friday, October 1, at Allen Brothers San Marcos Chapel, 435 North Twin Oaks Valley Road, San Marcos, Calif. More information at: www.valleyoflife.com/Ken_de_Bit/ and Ken de Bit Memorial at Facebook.com. http://www.facebook.com/n/event.php&eid=162040757143695&mid=3007241G5af3194947c4Gc96a8fG42&n_m=douglass%40csusm.edu
In lieu of flowers, please make donations to the Lupus Foundation of America, the American Kidney Fund, and the Juvenile Diabetes Foundation. "The master in the art of living makes little distinction between his work and his play, his labor and his leisure, his mind and his body, his information and his recreation, his love and his religion. He hardly knows which is which. He simply pursues his vision of excellence at whatever he does, leaving others to decide whether he is working or playing. To him he's always doing both." ~ Michener Sign the Guest Book online obits.nctimes.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by North County Times on Sep. 26, 2010.

Memories and Condolences
for Kenneth de Bit

Not sure what to say?





4 Entries

Dave Roberts

December 14, 2024

Great Guy, I worked with Ken at Scripps 1978-1984

Linda Smith (Stoeckel)

September 28, 2010

It is so sad to hear of a old school mate passing. May you rest in peace.

Julie Brackx

September 27, 2010

I remember seeing Ken at all the local skating competitions here in San Diego. Ken always was dressed like a professional and had a pleasant way about him. I know he is skating in Heaven.

September 27, 2010

Rest In Peace

Showing 1 - 4 of 4 results

Make a Donation
in Kenneth de Bit's name

Memorial Events
for Kenneth de Bit

To offer your sympathy during this difficult time, you can now have memorial trees planted in a National Forest in memory of your loved one.

How to support Kenneth's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Kenneth de Bit's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more