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Donna Vurik
December 6, 2011
It's been a little over a year since you went to Heaven to be with David and it's gotten a little easier to handle, but I miss you both so much it hurts! I love you guys and I can't wait to see you both again!
Connie Haltermann
December 8, 2010
In my previous message I had originally included a poem called "The Horizon." Neither the poem nor my comments about it didn't appear in the message because of possible copyright issues. (I had thought that because it was anonymous and written centuries ago, it was in the public domain, but I completely understand.)
If anyone is interested in reading the poem, it can be Googled easily.
Dying is seen in the poem simply as a destination.
Danny and Donna, I hope that you will celebrate Christmas with the certain knowledge that your mom is alive and well and living in Heaven.
Love to you and your dad and all the family.
Marty Freer
December 6, 2010
I've known Sally & her family for most of my life. The Bennett's have always treated me like family. That was truly treasured, as my family was certainly dysfunctional. I enjoyed "hangin' out" at the Bennett family house during my college years & beyond. It was my "home away from home", as I was always made to feel welcome. I especially remember Sally's laughter, her insight and our many spiritual discussions. And then, there were the cherished Christmas gatherings, as well as fond memories of many other holiday & family gatherings. Sally was a special part of my young adult years. I know she knew she held a special place in my heart, even though I don't remember ever telling her I loved her. I will make up for that when we meet again !
Connie Haltermann
December 4, 2010
To all who are interested in knowing more about the poem called The Horizon which was included in my previous note, I just found out that one version of this anonymous poem was used by a bishop, Charles Henry Brent, who lived from 1862-1926 in England. He used it to comfort those in his flock who had lost loved ones. It certainly has lifted me!
His version ends with the words:
That is what dying is.
An horizon and just the limit of our sight. Lift us up, O Lord, that we may see further.
I hope everyone who reads this will find some comfort as I did.
Connie Haltermann
December 4, 2010
Dear Twin Sister,
I miss you. The Prayers and Squares group in my church made me a prayer quilt to give me comfort. Each knot in the quilt represents a prayer for me and all the family.
Mother and Daddy and David must have been so happy to greet you, and I must be happy for them. You lived a good life, Sally. Now enjoy your Heavenly reward. Jim and I send you our love.
Kirk Haltermann
December 4, 2010
Although the span of years allow people to drift apart, it can't take away the most memorable memories of childhood. I told David that some of the most special memories I have are going over to the Bennett's at Christmastime. Even though Aunt Sally and I didn't keep in contact as the years marched on, those times will always be cherished. Kyle, Austin, Amber, Trevor, and myself were honored to be there with the Bennett family on that day. Take care of each other.
Merry Freer
December 3, 2010
Sally is my sister, my friend and Godmother to my only child, Brian. Like Kathy, she gave Brian a zippered Bible with his name on it for his baptism which is interesting because that was 15 years after Kathy was baptized. Because she was 10 years older than I, Sally was more like an aunt to me than a sister. Like they say in "The Golden Girls"...she was a friend and a confidante. She helped me through some difficult times and I always knew I could go to her when I had something to talk through or needed advice. When she moved to Las Vegas we would talk on the phone almost every Sunday night, usually about our Grandchildren, but we also had some very serious spiritual conversations. I think I will miss that the most. I love you so much, Sally. Until we meet again.
Stephanie Hanson
December 2, 2010
Aunt Sally, I spent a lot of my childhood down in San Diego and was able to stay with you and Uncle Don almost every visit. Grandma always made certain that I knew who family was and I will be eternally grateful. You were so loving and I am so happy to have had the memories of you in my childhood, but most of all the visit I had with you and Uncle Don last year that I will always hold dear in my heart. Your laugh was infectious, the love in your heart was immense. I will miss you very much, and I believe you are around whenever I think of you. You were the best Aunt anyone could have. I love you. I miss you.
Kathy Haase
December 2, 2010
Sally was my Aunt and my Godmother. She loved very fiercely and protectively. She was insightful too. When I was small she gave me a Bible that had a zipper closure and had my name embossed in gold on the front. It's the same Bible I use today. At Christmas, when I was about 13, she gave me a black evening clutch purse. An odd gift for a 13 year old, but I hung on to that bag and it's all I ever use when I need an evening purse. She was always looking out for me. She had a great laugh and a fun sense of humor. She's laughing with David now, catching up from all they missed over the last 3 years. I will miss her dearly. Love to Don, Danny, Donna, and families. Love Kathy
Stephanie Hanson
December 2, 2010
Aunt Sally, I spent a lot of my childhood down in San Diego and was able to stay with you and Uncle Don almost every visit. Grandma always made certain that I knew who my extended family was and I will be eternally grateful. You were so loving and I am so happy to have had the memories of you in my childhood, but most of all the visit I had with you and Uncle Don last year that I will always hold dear in my heart. Your laugh was infectious, the love in your heart was immense. I will miss you very much, and I believe you are around whenever I think of you. You were the best Aunt anyone could have. I love you. I miss you.
Stacey Harpin
December 2, 2010
Sally, you were such a great influence in my childhood. I was able to have so much fun hanging out at your house, you made me feel like another one of your kids. Thank you for so many wonderful memories, you will be missed.
Donna Vurik
November 7, 2010
I Love you and I miss you so much, Mom! I hope you and David are together now. I'm not sure if that's how it works, but I'm hoping so. You were the best Mom anyone could have ever asked for and I'm so glad I had the chance to spend your last days with you! ... and just like you always told/taught me.. I will see you in my dreams!
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