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Jerry Sand Obituary
Remembering Jerry Sand VISTA -- Jerry Sand, a long time resident of Vista, passed away peacefully after a long brave battle over his ailing health surrounded by his loving family on Saturday, November 6th, 2010. Born on September 5th, 1932 in Willernie, Minn., he grew up on a farm which allowed him to hone his natural ability of fixing machines. Leaving home at a young age, he served in the U.S. Navy during both the Korean and Viet-Nam wars. He ended his stellar career after 26 years of service as a Senior Chief Petty Officer E-8 Gunner's Mate, which included a World Tour on the USS Midway in 1954-1955. After coming to Vista in 1969 with his bride Helen from the Philippines, he continued his service in San Diego for several years ending his naval career on the USS Lockwood. Within a year of retiring from the Navy, he became employed by NCTD, covering various routes in North County for over 20 years. Jerry enjoyed following the Padres and Chargers, he also treasured spending time with his family and made many friends during their years of camping. In his free time, he enjoyed fishing and gardening, especially tending to the many roses that he planted for his wife. Widely known for his wit and generosity, Jerry always took the time to put others needs before his. He was preceded in death by his loving parents, Frank and Lila Sand. He is survived by his wife of 41 years, Helen; and his son, Frank (Debbie, including three step-grandsons). His surviving family also includes his older sister, Betty Konsti; younger sister, Mary Ann Carr; and his cherished seven nieces and nephews. In honoring his long time wish, his family and close friends will hold a private Military Honors Ceremony before his interment at Ft. Rosecrans National Cemetery on Friday, January 7th, 2011 at 12 noon. His wife, son, family and friends will spend the rest of their lives treasuring the memories of this honorable man. Sign the Guest Book online obits.nctimes.com
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Memories and Condolences
for Jerry Sand
Linda Orav Gregory
November 28, 2010
Dear Helen, Frank, and family,
I was so sorry to hear about Jerry's passing. Jerry was always good for a story or a laugh - he was always there when you needed him. Our condolences, Linda & Tim Gregory, Mike Orav, and Nancee Gregory
November 23, 2010
Jerry,Helen and Frank have been dear friends of our family for many years. We have many wonderful memories of great times camping and being together at family gatherings.Jerry had a great sense of humor and loved being part of the fun.He was a generous and kind soul. God bless Helen,Frank , Debbie and family. Aloha, Lenora and Larry Hayes
Karla Strobl
November 21, 2010
Ninang Helen, Frankie and family- I will always cherish the times we shared when we were growing up. Uncle Jerry always made me feel special. He always had a big smile and hug for me,would tell me to get something to eat, and ask about my life. So sorry I haven't visited lately. You are all in my prayers.
Todd Hubbard
November 19, 2010
Helen, Frank and Debbie- my condolences on Jerry's passing. I spent a ton of time at the Sand home and Jerry always made me feel welcome. It was always a treat when Jerry would "hang" with us. We could always count on a nugget of wisdom or some friendly "ribbing". Thank you Jerry for those memories that'll never fade.
November 17, 2010
oting and frankie, family. we're so sorry about your lost. our deepest sympathy'. you are all in our thought and prayer. love manang fe, oting and reed's family. virginia beach, virginia,
john paul villanueva
November 17, 2010
dear mama uting and kuya frank just now i heard about what happened i want send my deepest condolence to your family. i feel sad because i haven't meet him in person i'm planing to go the states next year but its too late will just pray for his soul and now his we our creator. and he may rest in peace.
Mr and Mrs. john paul "red" and dollie mae villanueva
LIM Terray
November 17, 2010
TO:Manang Uting @ frank:our sincer sympathy in your lost:we extended our Prayer:were so happy we meet Kuya jerry in just a sort time during his vacation in philippines:
Terray @ Bheng LIM FAMILY
:* Las Pinas PHILIPPINES*:
Jocelyn Ang
November 16, 2010
Mama Uting & Frank...May the love of those around you help you through the days ahead and may His memories give you strength. Dad we will surely miss your jokes and your laughs..Love Obet, Otet & China
Jenny Villanueva
November 16, 2010
To Anti Helen & family: Our sincerest sympathies in your time of loss - he will be greatly missed.--Jenny & Mark
November 16, 2010
RIP Jerry. Many great times at the house and the beach in the motor-home. ( eating sand crabs, Peter Moi Moi drinking whiskey, etc...). The Sand family has always been a very generous and kind to everyone that they encounter. You are always family when you are at the home. Sorry for the great loss!
Spiderman
Tessie Frank
November 16, 2010
Although our memories with Kuya Jerry are not many, the few that we do have remain dear to our hearts. We will never forget him nor his family. You will always be in our prayers. Tony, Tess, Stephanie, Sharan, Shanna, Shaun and all 6 grandkids (Gabe, Kaiya, Anthony, Alexis, Curtis Jr, and Kyla) will only be a phone call away if you need anything. Love you Helen and Frank.
Paul Brannon
November 16, 2010
Helen and Frankie, we are very sorry for your loss and you and your family are in our prayers. With Love, Lucy, Paul, Rheygino and Rheyana.
Jerome Carr
November 15, 2010
My heartfelt sympathy to you Helen and Frank. I will forever cherish the memories of my Uncle Jerry. His every homecoming was a special event. His military career was a major influence in my decision to make the military my profession. A choice I will never regret! He will hold a special place in my heart always.
November 15, 2010
Dear Helen & Frank;
I wish to extend my sympathy in your loss.
I loved working with Jerry at NCTD, his strong moral compass left many with a since of direction and was not lost on me.
My prayers are with you and Jerry.
Joe McCoy
Judy Ramos
November 15, 2010
Condolences.i will miss you kuya jerry.from Amy Villanueva and family.
November 15, 2010
We are so sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers. If you need anything, please do not hesitate to call. We love you!
The Sweeney's
Jerry, Lettie, Marviyn and John
Lina Kinnel
November 15, 2010
Hi Manang (Uting) Helen and Frankie are prayer are with you. though I never met kuya Jerry I am sadden on his passing. Lina Kinnel (Dallas, Texas)
James Sjogren
November 15, 2010
Helen and Frankie:----Petra and I want to send our sympathy and prayers to you. I shall miss Jerry calling me to find the latest at NCTD, and talk about our times in the Navy and Minnesota. I concider myself very fortunate to have had Jerry as my Friend.----Swede and Petra
Bits, Jeanette & Jami Gueco
November 15, 2010
We will always remember the fond memories of Uncle Jerry during his vacation here in the Philippines way back in 2008. He made us laugh a lot of times. We will always cherish those wonderful times. The Gueco family- Bits, Jeanette & Jami (Philippines)
November 14, 2010
Helen and Frank. We send our sympathy to you and let you know we are sad for you,but happy for Jerry. His sufferig is over and he is probably driving a big bus up there lol. You are in our prayers. Love Dennis and Sonia Ford-Bus drivers retired
Sallyjoe Carr
November 14, 2010
I will miss you, my fondest memories are of you coming home to Minnesota and spoiling us, even if you called us curtain climers. He truley was a great man ( Uncle) To Auntie Helen and Frank, I am so sorry for your lose, may your memories carry you though this time. Sallyjoe Carr, , niece
Bernie Konsti
November 14, 2010
I will miss my conversation with him on the phone and talking about football and the times we had long ago, but we we'll meet again someday not to long from now and when we do we will rejoice and how will fish away the time. nephew jr. Bernie & Kathy & Cory & Kristin Konsti
November 14, 2010
It was an honor to know Jerry and spend time with the Sand Family. He was always very good to all of us. God bless the Sand Family, our thoughts and prayers are with you. The Imoto's - Michael,Annette,Dyanna,and Mika
Brian Schwab
November 14, 2010
Jerry was always generous to offer me, when I was a young man with little life experience, wise counceling, that I still to this day try to emulate. Not only was he a father figure to me, but a friend as well. I will always treasure the stories we shared and all the camping trips we enjoyed. Jerry may you always be strong and full of vigor as you look down on us from heaven. Until we meet again, my friend, goodbye. May God bless you Helen Frank, and Debbie.
November 14, 2010
It was always a pleasure to have a conversation with Jerry. Had a good story for you every time. You will be in our hearts forever. God bless and god speed. Travis Trotter
Carl and Cita Schwab
November 14, 2010
We have known Jerry for many years and his passing will forever be felt in our hearts. May God bless him and his family durring this dificult time. Carl and Cita Schwab
Matt Hayes
November 14, 2010
In our thoughts always. I'd like to thank Jerry for inviting me into his home and motorhome as a youth. Always treating me as part of his family. I hold that dear to my heart forever.
God bless to Helen, Frank and Debbie.
john hauser
November 14, 2010
In our prayers. Jerry was a "second" father to many of us. He will be greatly missed but the memories will last a lifetime. Helen Frank and Debbie our hearts go out to you. The Hausers
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